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I Miss My Military Man

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    Didn'T Know I Had It In Me

    So... It has been 3 months since I've seen my man and it has been 2 months since I've heard his voice. He was supposed to be deploying, however, he was switched to a new unit and that didn't happen. I'm happy about that, but last month he sent me a message and let me know that he...
    Sassychef23 Sassychef23 31-35, F Feb 11, 2013

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    I need some help or support

    or advice ladies :(
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    Finally Breaking Down...

    I have been with my bf for a little over a year now. Five months into the relationship he was deployed and has been deployed for 8 months now. He will not be back until March. I have been super strong (I think so anyways) throughout this whole deployment. I make sure to send...
    INWsGirl1004 INWsGirl1004 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2012

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    Things To Talk To Him About...

    He deploys in january and we haven't had a lengthly conversation about it yet..these are just some things I've been writing down over the past few months that i want to say to him about it. if you can think of anything else please comment. and if something i have listed isn't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 27, 2011

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    Missing My Marine 3

    My Marine and I have known each other since elementary school. We've had feelings for each other for so long, that we finally started a relationship in December. He left for his deployment in Afghanistan a few months ago, and I cannot bare it any longer. This man has made me feel...
    JarsGirl93 JarsGirl93 18-21, F Mar 4, 2013

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    AbbieBaby AbbieBaby 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 28

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    My Sailor.my Hero

    Come check out my facebook support page, My Sailor.My Hero!!! We do giveaways, play games and answer questions/advice! help us reach 2,500 followers for our next GIVEAWAY! (the last prize was a pandora style Navy bracelet, so stay tuned for our next one!) COME JOIN US! www...
    caitc91 caitc91 18-21, F Oct 24, 2012

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    Fly Me To The Moon

    Let me play among the stars Let me see what spring is like On Jupiture and Mars In other words, hold my hand In other words, baby kiss me Fill myheart with song And let me sing for everyone for evermore You are all I long for All I worship and adore In other words, please be true...
    RSUZY1 RSUZY1 56-60, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2012

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    Confused..

    a couple weeks ago. my bofriend and i were on our way to a friends house about an hour from home. as im driving he says "i need to use your car tomorrow" i asked why and he just kinda said "im taking the military pretest" shocked.. dont really know what to...
    FiskysChiky FiskysChiky 16-17 3 Responses Jan 28, 2009

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    October 4th is the day I reunite with my husband

    and I can't wait it has been way to long I have had a horrible time without him and now since I'm pregnant I miss him so much.. His stay home won't be long but I haven't seen I'm in almost 2 months and I just need his touch!! I miss u baby!!!
    cherrikisses22 cherrikisses22 22-25 Aug 16

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    A New Army Girlfriend

    well my boyfriend left for basic training on the 15th of April and i have been holding on good so far. the only problem is that i only get letters from him once a week which is so annoying. especially when im sending at least one a day and each letter be 4 pages long. i feel like...
    gericka gericka 18-21, F 1 Response May 18, 2013

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    So Relieved!

    So it ended up being true. I got my wish! My boyfriend will be staying "close" to home (4 hours away) and won't be traveling half way around the world. I honestly thank God for this because it could have been bad. He's only going to be in New York at Fort Drum and I couldn't be a...
    VCA1993 VCA1993 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    Miss Dusty

    My boyfriend who I love is at AIT training. I miss him alot and i wish that he was home now. But in three weeks he be home and I get to see him. But these three weeks are going by slow and its driving me crazy. All I do is think about him. When I sleeping at night i dream...
    fucturemrsBrackham fucturemrsBrackham 18-21, F Oct 30, 2012

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    It Never Gets Easier...

    YOU JUST GET BETTER! I know how frustrating this lifestyle can be. My fiancé has been in the Navy for two years now and when he first joined I had no clue where to turn to. Our first three years together he golfed professionally and needless to say, this lifestyle was a huge...
    hheidilee hheidilee 22-25, F May 8, 2013

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    My Life With Him So Far

    well i have been signed up with site for about 2 mintues so i am really not familar with this site at all. but here it goes. lol i meet my boyfriend when i was a junior and he swept me off my feet from the moment i saw him. he was perfect. he was my first and i know he is the...
    MarynlovesTaylor MarynlovesTaylor 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2009

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    Missing Him Everyday

    my soldier has been gone since december 5, 2008...but i havent seen him since october cause he had some trainning he had to do before he left...and i miss him so much...i have those days were i just really dont care to go anywhere...but being able to talk to him and knowing his r...
    82ndairbornehasmyheart 82ndairbornehasmyheart 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 24, 2009

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    So Confused

    My boyfriend just got deployed for Afghanistan and I am worried sick.  I have had plenty of friends that have been sent overseas but never someone  that I have been this close to.  I am head over heels for this boy and I am not quite so sure what I would do if...
    feelingallalone11 feelingallalone11 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 29, 2009

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    Military Families

    I am not a spouse or a girl friend of a military man , My father was Air Force for 20 years.I was a child at the time and waiting for him to come home was very stressfull on all of us at the time.People just don't seem to get it when your military man or wife is away, to due...
    RSUZY1 RSUZY1 56-60, F 2 Responses Apr 11, 2012

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    Getting Married Is It A Good Or Bad Idea

    my boyfriend wants to get engagged to be but i personally want a wedding and honeymoon and money to set up for his ring before saying i do. should i just forget about all that and go ahead and go to the court? or should i just wait to finish up three more years of school? but i...
    gericka gericka 18-21, F 2 Responses May 18, 2013

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    Intimacy And Warrior/lovers

    Intimacy And Warrior/lovers By Lori Buckley, Psy.D., CST. Military Intimacy Tip: Be creative.Frequently send fun, and playful care-packages. Even in a war zone, boredom can be a problem. Ask what your spouse or friend needs to fill time such as books, DVD’s or...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 31, 2010

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    My Sailor.my Hero

    Hey all you Navy girlfriends, fiances, wives, boyfriends, husbands, etc!!!!!! Come on over to My Sailor.My Hero on Facebook! https://www.facebook.com/MySailor.MyHero We are a group for any and all Navy s/os and family members! We love sharing stories and pictures, answering...
    caitc91 caitc91 18-21, F Dec 9, 2012

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    Missing My Deployed (s)sgt

    My boyfriend Mike is deployed in Iraq. He's an AF Security Forces (S)SGT and He just got his line for Staff. He's only been gone for a little less than a month. With the exception of travel time, I've gotten to talk/email/IM him nearly every day! I feel soooo lucky for...
    usafgirlfriend usafgirlfriend 26-30, F Aug 22, 2009

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    He's Away Again

    having already been through one tour which was one of the hardest challenges of my life, I now find myself home alone again with a 16month old son while hubby cos of training for his new role within the British Army and I'm unable to talk about it with family and friends due to...
    LillyJosephine LillyJosephine 31-35, F Jul 11, 2012

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    SSG Besaw...

      My boyfriend has been gone since april,this is his 2nd tour in Afganistan,he will be home in Dec for 3 weeks,where we will be going to San Diego,we will be hvng a military Beach Wedding.. Finally I will be reconized by the Army!
    ssgbesawsgirl ssgbesawsgirl 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 1, 2009

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    Maybe Im Just Loosing It

    idk..my story isnt anything like everyone elses..but i guess its more like how do i deal..type of thing..lol.ok..im 24 and ive been dating my guy for 9 months and 8 of those months he has been living at a different base in a completely differnt state..its hard and im tryin. i...
    navygf1385 navygf1385 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 13, 2010

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    Home For Christmas.....maybe

    UGHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sometimes I hate the army!!! I've read the stories about the change of plans at the last minute, but until you actually experience it for yourself, it's just words almost... He told me they would be returning to the Fort he's stationed at on the 20th, so I'm...
    Sassychef23 Sassychef23 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2012

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    Wish I Could Call Him.... :'(

    I really wish I could call him right now. I have a friend and she is being very negative right now. She wants to know why I am on this support group and why SHE isnt good enough to be my only support group. Its this kid of stuff that I always talk to him about, and he knows about...
    JamiesGirl11 JamiesGirl11 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 20, 2011

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    Life As I Knew It...

    I am a military girlfriend. I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year, we met whilst he was on tour in Afghanistan. We have lived, like many, most of our relationship through FaceTime, text messages, emails and calls. Thank god for modern technology is all I can say! He...
    lilypops lilypops 26-30, F Jun 13, 2013

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    Loved :)

    so today i woke up and let the dog out and then went and did my usual arrens that i needed..then i went to work to pick up my check..when i got back there was a dozen roses sitting on my door step. suprised as i was i pulled out the card and read it.." to the love of my life...
    navygf1385 navygf1385 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 15, 2010

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    Finding Support In A Song.

    I'm new to the whole military girlfriend thing, considering my SO and I met online while he was on leave, and he was redeployed before we had a chance to meet in person. But we have been talking for several months and we are very close. The only reason we aren't together is...
    Hamasockyou Hamasockyou 18-21, F Sep 2, 2012

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    I'm sitting here writing a letter to my

    boyfriend in Bootcamp. Reassuring him he is doing the right thing and I'm supporting every decision he has. He's one of my biggest inspirations and his drive is something I've never seen in any other man but my father. I don't want him to worry or stress over our relationship...
    RyRysGirl RyRysGirl 18-21, F Nov 29, 2013

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    Today is not the best day.

    .. My airmen graduates Thursday and I had a bunch of letters for his parents to bring down with them for him seems how I am not able to go to his graduation(which I'm heartbroken about). Anyway, I texted his parents to see if I could stop by and say goodbye and they were already...
    Airforcegirl18 Airforcegirl18 18-21, F Dec 3, 2013

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    A Day Longer, A Day Stronger!

    Hello everyone! I am a Navy fiancé, soon to be Navy wife in October! I’ve been dealing with military life for the past two years now and I’ve found that it’s easier to deal with when you make friends with people going through the same things as you. I’ve created two...
    hheidilee hheidilee 22-25, F May 30, 2013

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    But Soon You Will See A Very Big Smile On My Face

    It will look something like this.... Or Maybe This... Or Possibly This.... All I know is that I will be smiling from ear to ear and my face will be frozen that way for a long time.  It can't come fast enough for me.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 5 Responses Jan 31, 2010

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    He's Gone

    Well, my husband has been gone a little over a month.  He'll first train stateside and then deploy to Spain in October.  He'll be home for Labor Day weekend, but I think that goodbye will be even harder.  To top things off, I'm going to school full time, I'm...
    bduby83 bduby83 26-30 Aug 26, 2009

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    Just A Thing Or 2...

    I'm suggling alone in my bed, missing the comform of his mascluline arms around me, his warm breath lightly on neck... He's most probably in his sleeping bag.. or out and about in his duties. I think of his out of tune voice when our funky song plays, he's expressions when he...
    punanies punanies 26-30, F Dec 19, 2012

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    Not sure how we're gonna make it through these

    next 7 months :( continuing to get in fights over distance. Hurts knowing that things would be perfect if he was home.
    eurbsxox eurbsxox 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 24

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    Related Experiences

    I just got a new puppy. I'm already in love. Only wishing josh could be here to met him. Missing my boyfriend more than anything now..
    alexfilmer1398 alexfilmer1398 16-17, F Sep 21

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    If you truly love your S.O. this will make perfect sense. "What I have with you is worth it. It is worth every lonely night, every tear I cry from missing you, and the pain I feel...
    MarinesGirl94 MarinesGirl94 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 6

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    Spent an amazing few days with my man. Shame it got cut short due to more training 😔 appreciate what time you have with your men ladies. You never know how long you'll have xxx
    Pip246 Pip246 22-25, F Sep 23

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    this upcoming deployment has me stressed and worried for a numerous reasons. 1.)his safety and how he'll be in danger 2.) he just had his appendix removed 3 weeks ago and he isn...
    odalisr odalisr 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    I was texting my boyfriend tonight and he seemed a little off. I asked him if he was ok and he told me he just had a lot going on and was trying to figure out life.. Slightly...
    proudPJso proudPJso 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    So it's been just over a week since my boyfriend left for Army basic and I was just wondering - for all you Army girlfriends, wives, etc. out there: how long did it take to get...
    proudtobehis96 proudtobehis96 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    Our mail lady came today as I was in the car with one of my friends driving away from my house. I made my friend stop the car and I got out, turning and sprinting to my house to...
    proudtobehis96 proudtobehis96 18-21, F Oct 2

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    Only 3 days left before he leaves for training, it still hasn't seemed to hit me and I'm scared for the sudden realization that he's gone :(
    rachelmarie28 rachelmarie28 18-21, F Oct 3

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    HE CALLED ! He called (only 5 minutes) and I don't know whether I'm happy or sad.. Im so emotional right now I can't stop crying it really hurt saying goodbye I'm staying strong...
    NoemiG NoemiG 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    He asked me to the Marine Corps ball!!!! OMG I'm freaking out! I'm so excited, but so nervous too. Any advice!?!?
    MarinesGirl94 MarinesGirl94 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Haven't seen him in 10 months, slowing feelings crazy and very lonely inside! When I feel like I'm getting use to him being away for so long. My emotions turn on me, next thing I...
    ZyZy2 ZyZy2 26-30, T 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am not one to be irritated or get pissed very easily, it takes a lot to **** me off or irritate me. If there's one thing that annoys and irritates me the most, it is definitely...
    alyannj93 alyannj93 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 30

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    this month!! this month j will be back with my man for 2 days. yayyy! :) anyone else reunited with their military man in October?
    portiafay portiafay 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 1

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    Ok I know I posted about OPSEC already once today but with all the Isis stuff going on we really must be careful so here's a more indepth thing about I found from another girl from...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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