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I Miss My Soldier

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    I Miss My Soldier

    My husband came home for leave he has been training for the past 4 months. the time has finally come when he goes to Iraq and i am so scared at night i get these panic attacks it was okay when he was still in the states and i was just lonely now i have no way of knowing how he is...
    Honeybee07 Honeybee07 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 18, 2007

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    It's Easter weekend and I was hoping he would

    be able to call home and nothing so far. I've decided because I'm over playing nice with some of the ******** in my family I am not joining in on this weekends activities and he and I will celebrate when he gets home. I just miss him lots and need to find a distraction for the...
    Lo2011 Lo2011 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 19

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    A Bit Sad...

    I was on his 1-13th facebook site and saw comments from people that they had gotten calls yesterday and today from their soldier's in alpha co 2nd plt which is the one that Vince is in and I haven't gotten any calls from him since about 3 weeks ago. I was thinking maybe he called...
    iFellinLoveWithASoldier iFellinLoveWithASoldier 18-21, F Oct 16, 2012

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    We Had Been Together For Years.....

    And then he tells me he is joining the military, he mentioned it a few times throughout our relationship, but he always discarded the idea after a few days, but this last time he actually did talk with a recruit and do all the paper work. I told him I would wait for him, that I...
    SammiBee23 SammiBee23 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    Marry Me

    MY bf in the marines while home in leave in sep for month We went to the jewlery store to look at rings and told me for the future.When he got back to his station I talk to his brother and told me he has the ring or was going to buy it soon.I talk to my bf and told me it was the...
    kellner27 kellner27 18-21, F Apr 26, 2013

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    Is There Still Hope??

    Ok so we had started dating in Jan. last year we were going so strong skyping phone calls and then visits ever 2/3 months if we were able to. He was my other half, my best friend. We started getting more serious talking about me moving to TX because hes in Ft. Hood and getting a...
    GodGaveMeYou GodGaveMeYou 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 4, 2013

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    He's Gone To Basic. And It's Only The Beginning.

    It'll be 3 years for us December 18th. He's my first everything, and I've never felt this way about anyone. He decided to sign for the army 2 years ago, and when he told me about it, I thought, "Well, all I can do is stick with it." And I have. I can't imagine being with anyone...
    lovemysoldier3 lovemysoldier3 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7, 2010

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    My boyfriend left for basic training yesterday

    and I miss him like crazy already, I pray time will go by fast and I get to see him! Being a military girlfriend takes a strong person and costs a lot of tears but I encourage every one of you to stay positive(: it will be worth it when your soldier comes home on leave!!!
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    Feeling Depressed?

    ever since my soldier moved further away from me in basic training i keep feeling depressed, run down and alone, hes at phase 2 now and i know its inly going to get worse, anyone got any advice?x
    armygirlfriend301 armygirlfriend301 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2012

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    My Hero Wears Combat Boots!

    Hello everyone! I'm from Puerto Rico My boyfriend is in the National Guard. We have two years and in October 2012 we have three years in a relationship. Today he is in his training in Foort Leonard Wood Missourri and graduates as MP in December 18 2012. I miss him a lot . At...
    OdalisMarie OdalisMarie 18-21, F Sep 2, 2012

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    God Please Bring Him Home

    My husband has been gone for four months now and I hate it. He got deployed to Afghanistan and he is missing out on so much. Our kids are growing up without him. He won't be back until December of this year. This is the longest that I've been without him. Our one year anniversary...
    stronghearted stronghearted 21-25, F 3 Responses Mar 15, 2008

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    Your soft lips lingering against my skin

    as you laugh I feel your body move where mine moves with yours. Your impeccable smile that is so sweet I hear little birds singing a song. My lips were against yours for what feels a lifetime away as I slowly had to leave is the last memory I had since you had to go back. Please...
    angelbeaner angelbeaner 18-21, F Mar 7

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    Every Minute Of Everyday, He's All I Think About

    My boyfriend and I fell in love with each other very fast. We just knew we were right for each other. The only problem is, our time together got cut short. He's being deployed for the next few months. I cry off and on throughout the day and really cry at night. I want him to know...
    MelMike20 MelMike20 26-30, F Nov 27, 2012

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    Can't Help But To Cry

    Yesterday was one of the happiest I ve been in a few months, but also one of the sadest days I ve felt since he left. My boyfriend got a six hour pass to do whatever he wanted. We decided we would face time, or try to face time. We were able to see each others faces for a few...
    crossfitbaby11 crossfitbaby11 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 9, 2012

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    Really missing him today,

    just want to lay in bed and do nothing. My emotions are everywhere just so ready for this to be over! Found out last night his time away may get extended and don't know how I can make it any longer. Though I was sitting here really sad and he randomly txt me he loved me and just...
    Lo2011 Lo2011 22-25, F May 6

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    Just Counting Days

    I've been with my soldier for 4 years, we've been through 2 1/2 deployments and all the training together, his 3rd deployment was cut short whenever he was bombed in afghan, last April.. He was brought back here state side and we were told he would never walk again. My tough man...
    Court01d Court01d 22-25, F Oct 24, 2012

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    Me Time...

    I have come to learn that I need me time. My greatest me time is when I am in the bath. After the world has laid down its burdens on me. This is the time that I relaxe whether it be 6 am or 11 pm. This is the time that I let my tears fall and let my muscles relax. Just the...
    FutureMrsCreed FutureMrsCreed 18-21 2 Responses May 8, 2010

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    I Made A Group. Woohooo !!

    I really enjoying this whole blogging thing. So I decided to make my own group :D " I am Faithfully Standing By My Soldier". Its for the Wives, Fiancees and the Girlfriends of course :). ANYTHING and EVERYTHING can and will be dicussed on this blog. Since I'm new to the whole MGF...
    Leeyah59 Leeyah59 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2012

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    The Army Took Him Away

    My soldier was deployed Nov. 15, 2007 to Afghanistan. He was already gone from the beg of March till September when I joined him at his station and now he is gone again. I miss him so much, life is just not the same without him. I know this is his duty and I support him but...
    clc1998 clc1998 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2007

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    I miss my soldier so much!

    It's been very hard without him here. Only a few understand how hard it is to leave their spouse. I can't wait for him to come home! It sucks going month by month without him and having to deal with others that are miserable without their loved ones for a few days. People really...
    chanel0408 chanel0408 18-21, F Apr 22

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    It has only been two days

    and I have to wait till late November before I can see him again. He left the day before my 18th birthday and that hurt a lot. I don't know when his exact graduation date is. All I know is it should be some time around thanksgiving. I don't know how long he 'll be at reception...
    allyson17 allyson17 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    I Need Comfort...

    So I'm on my baby's troops page on fb checking if they had an update or something. I see a bunch of people writing on their wall saying how they got a call from their soldier. Well aparently since its gonna be 4th of July they let them call home. I did not get a call!! :( I am so...
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 1, 2012

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    Missing Him Already

    I met my boyfriend while he was on leave, 2 and a half weeks later he deployed for Iraq. He landed in Kuwait this afternoon. I miss him so much already. We used to talk everyday, all day and now not hearing from him sucks ): I'm so worried about him, but I can't talk to...
    HeartsinIraq HeartsinIraq 18-21 2 Responses Aug 21, 2010

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    My booboo (left) means the world to me.

    . cant wait to see him. :D
    miracle98 miracle98 13-15, F Feb 23

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    Week 2.5 and still haven't heard from him.

    He could not tell me where he was going or anything about his mission. :( I keep checking my email and phone to see if he contacted me and he hasn't. You know I have been in love with him since I was 18 and we technically have never been together. Life got in the way of...
    minibi0611 minibi0611 31-35, F Mar 10

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    Need A Friend?

    All I've done here on this site is complain. So i'm not the most experienced girl to be left on the homefront so I can't promise that I'll have any advice to offer you but I can promise that I have two ears and two shoulders so there's plenty of me to listen if anyone needs to...
    unconventionalSOSiGuess unconventionalSOSiGuess 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    I Miss You..

    I never really knew you could miss a person so much until my boyfriend got deployed. We went through basic together and yes, it was tough, but manageable because I knew it was for 3 months and that he was safe. Being apart from him has been one of the hardest, most challenging...
    ArmyGirl6911 ArmyGirl6911 18-21 1 Response Feb 17, 2013

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    Missing him tons! But super excited I get to

    see him in 6 days!!! We are so close. Wonder what is going to be like after not being able to talk or see one another for, well feels like a life time. I am one happy wife! Can't wait to see my love!! 💚💚💚🌋🌋🌋
    Lo2011 Lo2011 22-25, F Apr 23

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    Tonight is a bad one

    for me!! I can't seem to get him off my mind, I'm missing him so much, and you'd think being able to see him in 10 days would make it easier and it doesn't because I know I have to say goodbye again. I'm just ready for him to be home and for us to be together again. Sometimes I...
    Lo2011 Lo2011 22-25, F Apr 18

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    1 Missed Call

    Everytime I hear the beep of a missed call I cringe thinking it could be my baby. He is in Basic now about to graduate in a month. Then it is off to AIT in Oaklahoma. He is only 1 and half hours away now but it feels like he is hundreds of miles. I haven't heard his voice except...
    stephnie stephnie 21-25, F 8 Responses Jan 26, 2008

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    How Will I Say Good-bye

    Times are so rough now preparing for war.  Getting ready to say goodbye for what seems like an eternity.  A year, that seems like forever.  After finding a love strong and bold, being struck with such a long goodbye makes it seem unfair.  Why does my soldier...
    GesCka GesCka 21-25, F 6 Responses Nov 15, 2007

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    Girls!

    Any Girlfriends/Wives/Fiancees of a Marine Stationed in Company F 1st battalion at the School of infantry in Camp Lejeune NC??I haven't heard anything from mine in a while. And i was wondering if I will? I miss him badly and i need some support right now :(
    becca9193 becca9193 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2010

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    Our Story

    well My soilder is in the ARNG. We met last dec at a gas station and we really hit it off. Him and i became offical on 1-29-10 and things have just gotten better with him and I. We dont care about the color of our skin just what we feel in our hearts. I miss him the second im...
    Hooahkindoflove Hooahkindoflove 22-25, F Apr 13, 2010

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    Iraq

    Well I started dating my fiancee November 3, 2007. He left on November 5 or 6 to go back to Fort Bragg, North Carolina. He told me that he couldn't make it to Texas for Thanksgiving, but maybe Christmas. As Christmas grew closer and closer, I was for sure he would...
    armywife3306 armywife3306 16-18, F 4 Responses Feb 24, 2008

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    Well...My heart goes out to the strong women

    that stand behind our military men (and vice versa). My soldier is my sunshine, he keeps me, well..... ME! I am being strong for him. He'll be back soon. -soontobearmybride : )
    armydivaa armydivaa 16-17, F Jan 10

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    I Miss My Army Boy

    My fiancee is not deployed... yet. But he's been gone since September 07 in Basic Training and AIT. I know him being gone there isn't half as bad as him being gone in Iraq, but it still hurts. It sucks not being able to talk to him, hug him, cuddle with him, and kiss him. I was...
    taylorb07 taylorb07 16-18, F 4 Responses Mar 19, 2008

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    Am I Just Supposed To Forget About Him?

    We met and instantly fell in love. We were very happy, skyped texted and called every day, he broke up with me before he deployed saying he still loved me, he just didn't think he could give me what I needed, it just wasn't the right time for us.. (oh this is all through text...
    lovingood11 lovingood11 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    12.29.12

    well my babe got deployed yesterday yea i know been with him for a while but cant seem to take deployments very well ...it was hard to see or say goodbye to him sometimes i wonder if he will call while hes gone or if hes goin to have time to skype like we use too before yes i...
    tiffanytorres32 tiffanytorres32 18-21, F Dec 30, 2012

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    Deployed

      http://www.experienceproject.com/groups/Am-The-Significant-Other-Of-A-Deployed-Usa-Soldier/292216     For those of you in a relationship with a deployed soldier, I encourage you to join this group where we can specifiically discuss deployments, and ways...
    BrayLyn BrayLyn 22-25, F Dec 27, 2009

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    Songs

    Colder weather by zac brown band, dont wanna miss a thing by areosmith, and american soldier by toby keith are fave songs a moment bc they remind me of my soldier. What about you guys?
    Mybfwearscombatboots Mybfwearscombatboots 18-21, F Oct 6, 2012

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    It's days like today

    that make me miss him so much. I have to drive an hour and a half away to handle some business and my anxiety goes off if I go far from home. Sometimes I'm okay, others I'm not. I've never understood why I react that way. It's not easy. If he were here he'd say, "Come on babes...
    ABella028 ABella028 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    I know many people out there are probably going

    through what im going through...being pregnant, having to go through a birth all by yourself , dealing with so many emotions is by far the worst thing someone can go through..wishing my soldier was here..every night I go to sleep I pray for gods strength..I just have to wait be...
    aiddet aiddet 26-30, F 12 hrs ago

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    Being A Soldiers Partner

    i sit here and sometimes think that being with a soldier should come with a handbook! i love my partner so much and tbh he is the only man i have ever been with that has made me feel the way he does. When we speak, touch and kiss i can feel the love and energy between us, and i...
    lonelyme74 lonelyme74 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    The Day To Say Goodbye

    I got to work today thinking that it was just going to be another crazy first of the month.. Little did I know that I was also going to have to say goodbye to the love of my life. He came into work to surprise me and had some news I never thought would be as hard as it was. He...
    Cdejaynes Cdejaynes 22-25, F Jun 1, 2013

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    Days Like This...

    It's days like this that make me miss my soldier 100 times more. Don't feel good and all I want to do is cuddle with him or hear his voice! Waiting for that next letter and hope it comes soon. Only about 46 more days till graduation and couldn't be more exited. Miss him and love...
    ArmyGF011 ArmyGF011 18-21, F Sep 28, 2013

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    I Will See You Again

    This past June in 2013 I was on my senior trip in Panama City Beach. The first night(Saturday) me and my two friends got there, we went straight to the beach at 7 at night. We were walking and were stopped by some guys, half of them were in the military. We all started playing...
    ArmyGal10 ArmyGal10 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    Everyone's posting about how they've spoken to their bf & I'm here like 😒😤😡😡 😢😢😢. It's been three weeks & I miss him now. I'm getting angry for having to wait...
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    I miss my bichon.. We're far away from each other. Hope that one day I'll see him again.
    Answeringyou35 Answeringyou35 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    even though he only left a couple days ago it feels so different without him. I miss him so much. Even just sitting on the couch and watching TV without him feels weird,.
    MilitaryGirfriend2114 MilitaryGirfriend2114 16-17, F Jun 26

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    So he called & gave me his address and now I'm procrastinating at writing him. I guess I was so wrapped up in the idea of missing him that now I actually want to miss him haha. He...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F