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I Miss Romance

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    Damm Excuses

    I do not need large amounts or expensive romantic things, but something would be nice. I tell my husband how I feel about the lack of romance in our marriage (in a nice and constructive manner so he doesnt get upset or hurt) and he makes excuses: i dont know how much money we...
    cutebishortie cutebishortie 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 13, 2011

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    Dinner And A Movie

    I want to be asked to dinner and a movie, when he picks me up we drive out to a field. There sits a table with an amazing candle lit dinner, we sit and eat. After dinner, he tells me its movie time, I go to get in the truck to head the movies. He tells me to wait, he will be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 3, 2012

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    everyone Could Use a Little...

    everyone could use a little romance here and there ;)
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 17, 2009

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    Romance In Collage Days

    i miss romance of my collage days...bunking classes going 4 movies. having candle lit dinners, holding hands ,sunsets...long walks. gazing into each others eyes....wow its all golden movements....cool
    shaan4uever shaan4uever 26-30, M Dec 19, 2008

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    Why Me

    i miss my ex cuz we had so much chemistery toghether but he got a girlfriend and i just broke up with mine 2 months ago.
    sblake sblake 13-15 Nov 14, 2009

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    Is Romance Dead?

    It seems like romance is no longer in the 21st century. Where did all the romance of poetry and men opening doors for women gone. I know that today's woman is independent and equal, but we are still emotional creatures. Heck, I would love to swooned and have flowers every once in...
    2008frenchie 2008frenchie 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2012

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    Candles.. Mellow Music.. Delightful Convo.. Cuddlin

    Would enjoy laying in his arms as we sit thea havin a delightful conversation as da music is playin mellow grooves wit da lights off n candles burnin... Leadin into ecstacy
    BlackButterfly601 BlackButterfly601 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    Date With Me?

    Okay so this is crazy to ask... very crazy to ask.. but a bit of background first. A long time ago, in a freshman's girl's room lounging upon the pink and purple frilly comforter were three girls. All from different backgrounds, one with her parents divorced and one with a huge...
    favestril favestril 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 29, 2011

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    It Feels Even Worse

    When I see married couples celebrating their anniversaries or when someone is engaged or during a wedding or when I see two lovers holding hands or kissing or hugging or when I see a love scene in a romantic, love story movie or when I hear a love song.
    MySweetLord MySweetLord 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 29, 2009

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    21.

    I may only be 21 but that doesn't mean I don't know what romance is. I want someone to look at me once & not automatically think about sex. To look me in my eyes like I'm the only woman one earth & theres nobody else you'd rather be with. Is that too much to ask for.?.
    Novalina Novalina 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 22, 2012

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    Beautiful Sensation

    It's nice to be riding solo, but I also enjoy the feelings of romance... -to blush bright pink or red without warning -the unexpected gifts that you had no idea of -the beauteous places where you're being taken -the compatability and chemistry that's uncontainable -to be held by...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 22, 2011

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    Is Love Real????

    My marriage is full of anger and nothing more, my husband is controlling unemotional and treats me like Im nothing, and to beat all Im stuck hereand have no help or support toget out. My stories a long one but Ill leave it at that for this time. I just wonder are there men out...
    Ohio1977 Ohio1977 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 17, 2009

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    The List Of Cheesy, Romantic Things

    My boyfriend at the time wrote a list one day when we were hanging out of cheesy, romantic things he wanted to do with me. 1. Have dinner by candlelight 2. Dance in the rain 3. Sleep under the stars 4. Bake something together etc. etc. Well, he was always treating me very...
    Brianabear Brianabear 18-21, F Jun 16, 2011

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    I Barely Remember Romance

    I remember all those too. If my wife and I say 50 words to each other now, that's a lot. She may spend 4 hours in chat in the morning and a few phone calls in the evening and then announce that she's tired and goes to bed. I also remember when I was on the other end of those...
    MikeofMilwaukee MikeofMilwaukee 46-50 2 Responses Jul 17, 2008

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    A Long Line Of Love

    I think people are too busy today to maintain romance or to care about their relationships. Jobs, careers, sports, kids, alcohol..whatever the thing is that is taking up too much time and too many mental resources, romance seems to last no longer than the courtship. What a...
    northguy northguy 46-50, M Apr 12, 2012

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    Dull Marriage

    No more hugging and kissing. Just a peck on the cheek. No cuddling , just occasional intercourse. How should one rekindle the fire?
    ryksteman ryksteman 56-60, M 3 Responses Apr 2, 2012

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    Romance

    Keep in mind the gestalt of romance has very little to do with loving someone, and even less to do with acts of tenderness. It’s not a love story, nor an overcomplicated soap opera of whom-got-with-whom. A good romance is defined by a passionate desire. A want of something so...
    collegestag08 collegestag08 26-30, M 4 Responses Jan 18, 2012

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    Looking For Romance

    I NEED SOMEONE TO SHARE LOVE & DREAMS WITH HIM DOM`T NEED ANY ONE PULL ME BACKWARD . NOT BREAK MY SOUL. NEED TOUCHING NOT HITTING .KISSING BEATING . THAT ALL WHAT I NEED .
    SAVANY SAVANY 18-21, M Dec 20, 2011

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    Was It Ever Really There?

    I've had a boy buy me flowers once. I went out to dinner and everything but I like more creative things, and I've never really gotten it. I had to show my boyfriend (who is now an ex) what Romance was to me. He was so... uptight? I guess, and romance was way too much effort. Is...
    myownsavior myownsavior 22-25, F Nov 30, 2011

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    What Is Wrong With Me?

    I am a pretty straight forward kind of guy, I treat the woman i am with like gold, always have. I am honest, hardworking, willing to compromise. I have been told i make the person i am with feel special, wanted, desired. I am told i am incredibly intense, that sometimes i burn...
    EltharinFireDragon EltharinFireDragon 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 15, 2009

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    Could You Bank a Little Romance?

    Back in college he was totally head over heals for me.  So much so, that it sometimes was too much.  I so wish we could have banked some of that infatuation for now.   How I wish . . . Romance is gone, baby.  I see why people cheat.  I do.  I...
    Coniption Coniption 41-45 3 Responses Oct 17, 2008

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    I Am Angry

    I am sick and tired of guys treating women like they are some piece of meat. Whatever happened to the time when guys actually pursued girls! Why this obsession on the physical? There is nothing sacred anymore. GRRRR! Romance is dead when people treat people like objects. What...
    reenfree reenfree 26-30 2 Responses Oct 18, 2012

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    Concerned About My Husband And Our Future.

    My husband does everything he possibly can to demonstrate his love for me.  He is ten years older than me and currently looks 20 years older. He is planning to have some cosmetic surgery to help him look more refreshed, nothing drastic, eyelids, maybe chin work.  His attitude...
    tallglass tallglass 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2011

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    Is It Possible To Conceal Routine With Romance?

    I wonder about it very constantly... I have been married for almost 7 years now, and although I am happy in my marriage, the whole area of romance and fantasy has vanished along this time. We have a reliable relationshiop (which for me is extremely important) and we are real...
    AnastasiaRomanova AnastasiaRomanova 41-45, F Sep 27, 2012

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    Defined:

    I haven't felt romance in my marriage since we were first married.  It made me think - what is romance.  I define it as a feeling that stems from gestures indicating that we are exclusively special to each other.   I try to express gestures that woud convey...
    yukonpete yukonpete 36-40 3 Responses Jun 6, 2009

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    kaye23e kaye23e 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 27

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    Miss What I Never Had

    I use to love the fact of whenever I had a boyfriend that he would do little sweet things together...because its the little things that count to me. I really want God to bless me with a man I can connect with emotionally and sexually. I want a man to take his time wit me, be...
    sgoodlow87 sgoodlow87 22-25, F Aug 15, 2012

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    Heart Broken

    I had so many cruses in my life. I had crush,i had crash. a girl named mercy was my best friend, she was in my class when i was in the school, i was not at all interested in her. one day she forced me to come to her home, i went to her home with her, she introduced me to all of...
    santosh514894165 santosh514894165 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 25, 2011

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    I Have Jealously Guarded All Things Surrounding Her..

    I have jealously guarded all things surrounding her, I find it difficult to even begin to crack the lid off my secrets before others. I don't really want to share anything and this is compounded by the fact she is an intensely private person by nature. In a way, it's something we...
    pirrip72 pirrip72 41-45, M Jan 17, 2012

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    The Girl From Florida

    This story is about a girl I met at the portofino bay hotel, in late July of 2005.  Well...to say I "met" her may be pushing the truth a little.  Infact, the romance I am talking about here is the type of romance that no one ever know's truthfully if it was ever...
    HopelessRomance27 HopelessRomance27 18-21, M Apr 16, 2010

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    The Kiss That Redefined My Life

    After Kissing Rachael Just give me your lips for just a moment And my imagination will make that moment live. Oh, give me what you alone can give A kiss to build a dream on. - Louis Armstrong, A Kiss to Build a Dream On We all know how awkward first dates can be. I think it...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Nov 4, 2013

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    If You Ever Felt Alone If You Ever Felt Rejected If You Ever Felt Confused If You Ever Felt Anxious If You Ever Felt Wrong If You Ever Felt Wronged If You Ever Felt Unclean If You...
    Bandit309 Bandit309 13-15, F Jun 28

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    It will be three weeks on Thrusday that's he's been locked up, and we still don't know his sentencing, hopefully we find out Thursday at his hearing. But some days I'm fine, I miss...
    FakeRedheadgirl FakeRedheadgirl 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    Me and my brother have been close our whole lives. We've moved a lot, our parents were in a wreck, we had to spend hours and hours together for years. My brother has recently got...
    HarlieMarie HarlieMarie 13-15, F 9 hrs ago

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    Her name is Hanna. We went out for 3 and a half years. It's been 2 years now with other females which I don't see myself with for a long period. Hanna and I did everything together...
    Cossie227 Cossie227 16-17, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I hate being up at 4 in the morning just thinking about your eyes and your smile. I hate missing you. Why can't everything just be the way they were before. I miss what we had...
    candyfreak28 candyfreak28 13-15, F 1 Response 29 mins ago

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    Yeah, I dislike romantic stuff totally. I am passionate in whatever I do but romantic...requires some skill if you actually want me to fall for it lol. I prefer it if someone...
    Suxa90 Suxa90 22-25, F Jul 2

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    My chemical romance is one of my favourite bands they made me want to be a singer in a band since I was 5 and now I'm 16 and I have that passion more then ever. My chemical romance...
    swssavedme13 swssavedme13 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    About 5 months ago, me and my boyfriend broke up. I am over him for the most part but lately, I think about our old times. Not necessarily the relationship part but the friendship...
    uhtobehonest uhtobehonest 16-17, F 10 hrs ago

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    I used to have a friend who I had a crush on. We had a long-distance friendship, and ever since I told him I liked him, he's been ignoring me. Blocked me on skype and steam, and...
    GlassRabbit GlassRabbit 13-15, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    It has been you since the very first moment I saw you. And it's still you, it's still all for you. Cause even after all you've done to me, after all the hurt you caused, I have no...
    sproetje sproetje 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    I’m still a little goofy due to jet lag… so little things aren’t working the best for me, and I haven’t even attempted big things yet :)Last night after an...
    WindSylph WindSylph 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    Starting out on this site a few years ago, I realize I am in a different place now than I was when I first discovered this site. Not wanting to forget where I came from, I've opted...
    LovesKissing LovesKissing 46-50, F Jun 28

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    I met a very smart, fun, sexy girl online. We've been talking for weeks and we were getting ready to meet next week. Tonight we decided not to meet. I've not done the whole...
    Loverdreamerme Loverdreamerme 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    Romance. It is something that I cherished about myself. There was nothing that was going to change me and make me feel different. I loved my romantic side, as it was selfless...
    lon3lygam3r lon3lygam3r 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    would have been nice having a cyber romance! its a weird thing lol
    cyndyarcia1 cyndyarcia1 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    I want romance, kissing in the shower, cuddling all the time, constant affection
    CarrieLee000 CarrieLee000 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    My passion is paranormal romance. I have read so much a can't even keep count
    quietbird quietbird 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Who says romance is dead ? Haha
    Smigger1970 Smigger1970 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    I miss you Whats does it mean to miss someone? Whats the purpose of missing someone? is it somthing you can control? And if so how? In order to know the meaning of missing someone...
    sinistergirl sinistergirl 26-30, F Jul 12