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I Miss Sex

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    It's Been A Year.

    For me, it's all about a meaningful experience. I need to be with someone intimately who shares feelings with me. When I was younger, I was all about just *******, with friends, people I'd just met, whoever. I'm older now, more sensitive, and require a connection with someone...
    jacoffee jacoffee 31-35, M Aug 6, 2011

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    Frustrated Because I Miss It

    I am in a long term relationship and I can 't remember the last time we had sex. Whatever  desire he had for me when I met him is completely gone. Every night that I sleep next to him I feel so rejected and ugly as he ignores each touch on the arm or try at getting his...
    noluck noluck 26-30 Jul 29, 2008

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    Almost A Year.

    My friend is still a virgin, so she can't really understand that I miss sex. Or sometimes it is said that girl shouldn't talk about sex like that. And I guess this is the only place where I can express myself. I haven't had sex for almost a year now. But I need it. It is a normal...
    different33 different33 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 1, 2012

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    Or Do I Just Forget????

    Is it like riding a bicycle; you never forget??  Or, do you forget what goes where and when??  And how can you possibly get in the same positions now that you did when you were 20 something?  So sad, I used to be very good!    
    Soph Soph 51-55, F 15 Responses May 8, 2008

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    Omg Yes!

    There is this huge misconception that if you are a sexually confident woman you must be having sex. This is not always the case and I am proof in point. I love to **** and I am not shy about it, but it would seem that the only men who want to **** me are either married or just...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 27, 2011

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    Not On The Menu ?????Ever ????

    I got divorced   eventually in 2011, I found myself a boyfriend, and guess what ? He didn`t want/like sex  that much either - called me a sex pervert.He never in initiated, unless it was the quick poke every 4 months just for him.Trying to make me come was too much work.He said...
    tamarisk1 tamarisk1 41-45, F 4 Responses May 13, 2013

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    More Than I Thought

    It's been close to a year now, and wow, am I feeling it. And I have another year to wait, because my fiance has to go through a long visa process to get here. There very thought of having to wait that long is.... scary. I'm already crawling the walls, how am I supposed to get...
    mexpat mexpat 41-45, F 1 Response May 16, 2013

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    Until That Day Comes

    Each day brings the same routine. At day’s end I lie in bed thinking about it. I never thought that I would miss it so much. I miss being dominated by a lover I trust and want to please, with each touch bringing greater pleasure than the last. There is something so sexy about...
    sweetserenity926 sweetserenity926 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2011

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    Its Been Awhile

    Gave it up when I got saved and decided to wait until I get married.  I have avoided ALOT of problems and "bad"men for deciding to just wait.  I don't have the problems and dramas in my life for trying to be patient.  I sit back more and watch and listen to...
    lilyiam07 lilyiam07 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2010

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    Its Been A While

    It has been over a year for me, i guess you could say im not a ladies man, im kinda shy and i dont like big crowds so it is hard for me to find a woman. My trouble started 7 years ago when i lost my wife, we were married for 18 wonderful years, i guess im trying to compair all...
    ratmanbr549 ratmanbr549 46-50, M Dec 12, 2012

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    2komfort 2komfort 41-45, M Apr 2

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    Sex Is Like Christmas ...

    I sometimes joke that for a single guy like me, sex is like Christmas.  It only happens about once a year, but it is always amazing, full of surprises and wonderful memories.  >D  Actually, I've been celibate for two years now.  *sigh*  :(  I...
    PianoCat PianoCat 41-45, M 3 Responses Apr 4, 2010

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    It's Been Years

    It's been eyars since I've had sex, and I miss it so much.  I miss everything about it, especially the closeness and intimacy that it brings.  I honestly don't even know how many years it's been.  My son is almost 5, and I know that it was...
    MOChick MOChick 36-40, F 11 Responses Jun 9, 2009

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    Boy Do I Ever!!!

    The mind blowing sensations of the crushing of bodies (maybe melding of bodies sounds better, but ya get the drift  :) , skin on skin, the noises, the friction, the overwhelming closeness, the crazy elation, the scents sounds and all the senses magnified a million times...
    lunadelobos lunadelobos 41-45 7 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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    Been Way Too Long

    I personally am very monogamous and loyal when I'm in a serious relationship, and I expect no less from the person I'm with. Each time I enter a relationship that becomes serious, My hope and intention is (of course) for it to be forever. Maybe I'm old fashioned that way or...
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 12, 2011

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    I Need To Get Laid

    its been years since i last has sex and today was a nightmare because i came across a gorgeous sexy women who got me fired up bigtime.i have always loved sex and have missed it badly,sometimes its bearable and sometimes like today it makes me crazy!i like a women who has a bit of...
    seve276 seve276 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 25, 2010

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    I'm Really Good At It....

    ...but I haven't had anyone to experience it with for much too long! It sure would be nice to find someone who wanted to be my lover AND my friend. I could find a lover easily, but it is the friend part that makes it a bit tougher. For now, I'm holding out for a friend.
    yourvoluptuousbaby yourvoluptuousbaby 46-50, F 5 Responses Aug 13, 2012

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    This Story Comes From Boredom....

    Okay so it's been four years since I've had sex. Definitely miss it. Granted it's not like I couldn't go awhile longer before I had sex again, cause I still have fingers, right? Well... thinking about it I really do miss it. I've had it but never got to get to a point where I...
    Greeneyedandcurious Greeneyedandcurious 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 25, 2012

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    Sorry Not Actually True

    Although i have said "I miss sex" I have to correct myself since I do get sex. I miss making love and also the great sex I used to have. One of the benefits of being married should be that you do not have to go without sex anymore or put up with rubbish sex...
    spiderb spiderb 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 11, 2008

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    Oh My God, Yes...

    Is not just what I say when worshipping my lover. Oh My God Yes is how much I miss sex. The abandon, the venerability, the trust, the ache and -the bond-. I miss exploring my love's body, every centimetre of it. People talk about the mind connection a lot, but I also get high on...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 11, 2008

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    Now We Know The Truth!!

    Where did we go wrong, we ask ourselves??? Choose the wrong partners??? I think you should be tested for sexual compatibility before you get married as well as aids test!It is soo sad that there are so many lonely married/ in a relationship people out there who are suffering this...
    tamarisk1 tamarisk1 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    I Want Him to Want Me the Way That I Want Him

    yup , my husband is always tired or refuses even if i offer oral sex, i have a high sex drive, but he couldn`t care less if he never had it again, he usually does it like once every 2 months - i suppose just to keep me quiet, but nothing lately and like please don`t do it...
    tamarisk1 tamarisk1 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    It's Always Been A While

    It seems every time I think about sex and intimacy the next thought in my mind is always... it's a been a while. But more importantly I'm always thinking its been a while. So what does that mean? It means I was originally thinking about sex. It's a pretty small thought pattern I...
    PC2629 PC2629 56-60, M 1 Response May 31, 2012

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    I Miss Good Sex

    My husband and I barely have sex. Its down to about once or twice a month. I miss sex a lot, but I really miss good sex. Its been so long since I've had sex that include any kind of foreplay. My husband acts like its a chore to have sex, I can tell he is disinterested the...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 9 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    I Want To Make Love With A Man That I Love!

    I want to make love with a man that I love. I've had sex with a lot of guys that I could give less than a damn about. I spent 8 years celibate. Then, a few months ago, I had sex with an old friend. It was okay but I did not feel connect to him. It was awkward. I can have and...
    write2ap write2ap 41-45, F 2 Responses May 1, 2010

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    Sex Is, Sex... Right?

    Ok so I'm gay - So you male perverts out there listen up cos you're gonna enjoy this one! I miss having the physical passion between another women, the touching, the kissing, the hair stroking... Everything.. Just everything about it is so, just IT. ************ just does not...
    XanthiaJo XanthiaJo 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2011

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    Crazy

    Its kind of crazy how there are so many of us here that haven't had sex in a long time but want to . Its too bad we can't all get together.
    DTF890 DTF890 46-50, M 5 Responses Jun 25, 2012

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    Single and Want It

    im 24 years old and single and i want sex now!!!! hehe... want it and ready to flaunt it... cos i just dont give a ratsass... i even dream about sex dremt it last  night too!
    bubblebutterfly bubblebutterfly 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 28, 2008

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    The Nights Are The Worst

    I hate lying in bed alone, wishing there were a man there.  I miss masculine hands, touch, stubble, smell.  I miss someone wanting me.  I miss the touch, the warmth, the heavy breathing, the deep kisses, the feel of lips on mine and on my body.  The feel of...
    bookworm83 bookworm83 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2009

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    Still Sexless, Still In Pain!

    Living in my sexless marriage continues to affect my physical and emotional balance.   As I’ve gone through these years without a sexual connection to my spouse, my sexual desires haven't subsided. I still think about sex, long for it, dream about it, and...
    MaxV MaxV 56-60, M Dec 7, 2009

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    Says The Involuntarily Celibate Erotic Writer...

    Why the actual **** am I alone every night? I'm tired of waiting but nobody is interested when I take initiative. I am too close to my friends to ask them to play and escorts are too business suited and buff around here. I long to watch a lover rise to ecstasy but I have never...
    TheWomanWhoDid TheWomanWhoDid 36-40 6 Responses Feb 4, 2013

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    Lost Penis Due To War Injury.

    I lost my penis due to a land mine in Vietnam many years ago. Oral sex is the only sex I have been able to give women. I have found many ladies do get off quite well when given oral sex in a long sensual way. Many women do not want a man with no penis so my sex is limited.
    penect penect 56-60, M 2 Responses Mar 19, 2010

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    Me Too

    Just like everyone else in this group,I have to admit I miss sex too.
    1woody 1woody 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 23, 2012

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    So Much....

    I really do miss sex. When I was in my last relationship I didn't think that I actually needed sex, but now that I aint getting it, I will say, that I DO need it, and I DO miss it very much. I miss the release it gave me, from being sexually frustrated, there is only so much your...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    Just Now

    it has been so long that I don't remember what it feels like....I miss sex so much right now.......
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 6, 2010

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    Miss It By That Much

    I can't even remember what a man's willie looks like. I'm not kidding. I feel like these days I'm too depressed and screwed up to have an intimate relationship anyway. But an ****** would be nice. I can take care of my own self that way, but I'm nostalgiac to some extent...
    Sage360 Sage360 41-45, F 5 Responses Jan 16, 2011

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    How Do You Cope???

    I've  just  come  out  of  a  9yr  relationship  and  haven't  had  sex  in  4  months!!  How  do  so  many  of  you  go  for  so  much  longer  without  losing  your  minds?  Sex  with  my  ex  was  only  ever  at  best  average  and...
    Bleed Bleed 31-35, F 61 Responses Dec 29, 2010

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    YES, I Sure Do

    Wow, I used to have so much fun. I miss being wanted and desired and touched. I miss it. Thanks husband for taking away all the fun and feeling.
    cemev cemev 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 19, 2008

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    The Party I Wasn't Invited To

    I've always had trouble with sex. Trouble with getting it and trouble with wanting it. At times in my life that I've been single, I've either been filled with desires for men who do not respond to me or terrified of the advances of men I want nothing to do with. I've also been in...
    Heathen22 Heathen22 36-40 Jan 30, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Thought this was worth a read. Not applicable to all but still interesting. A lack of sexual interest in women is a big topic Fotolia_49866286_XS Peter and Andrea are teachers...
    HusbandOfOne HusbandOfOne 41-45, M 13 Responses Apr 10

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    I am no longer physically attracted to my wife. I love her but I have no desire to have sex with her. We have a good relationship but I miss sex.
    thatoneguy71 thatoneguy71 41-45, M 15 Responses Mar 26

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    As I have posted before, our problem is not one of refusal. If it were I would have left long ago. My hubby has ED,so is just not able,but WILLING.....(sigh). I have no problem...
    StarKat StarKat 41-45 8 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I miss the excitement. The electricity. How every boring detail and mundane routine becomes extraordinary. I miss having a companion by my side. Someone to talk to. Someone who...
    goldenwings17 goldenwings17 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    he dumped me about three weeks ago. i missed him today. he gave me so many things. i have a couple of his shirts, and a pair of pants. he brought me souvenirs when he traveled out...
    alisoncostello alisoncostello 16-17 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    I have to admit that I miss someone. After all these years it is very hard not to miss her. I tried very hard to make it work, I needed to make a choice. It does not make the...
    Leavinstevin Leavinstevin 41-45, M 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    so, i get the feeling that most people are using this experience title for something emotional or a little more "deep". i wasn't sure how to categorize what im missing, so if i...
    cassandrastwrt cassandrastwrt 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    Psychology Today has a couple of recent articles regarding "Does Sexless marriage justify adultery". The articles are reasonable and informed and the comments worthwhile. They...
    hl42 hl42 51-55, M 7 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I don't know why I miss him, he gave me every reason to never be with him again, to even speak to him... He was awful to me, yet I miss the moments where he was truly sweet to me...
    bribri590 bribri590 18-21, F 3 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I miss talking to u. :( We're not talk much. I guess you're busy and you simply forgot about me. Well it's fine. I just want u to know i really do miss talking to you.
    paramee paramee 22-25, F 12 hrs ago

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    When she was with me,she always tells tat i'm nt loving her,she loved me more n more...After break up with in a week, she changed her mobile no,blocked me from face book, not a...
    Born2win1989 Born2win1989 22-25, M 11 hrs ago

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    I miss you. I miss having you around. The feelings that you gave me are irreplaceable. I know I shouldn't feel this way anymore. You hurt me so badly and I did not deserve that. I...
    VerucaRose VerucaRose 22-25, F 7 hrs ago

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    It's been almost 3 months since he passed... I miss him more and more every day. He was my best friend , love of my life, father of my children. He was big man with a badge with an...
    shannonb78 shannonb78 31-35, F 33 mins ago

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    I'll be married for 10 years in November. We have been together 14 years. I am 35 and my husband is 40. We dated 4 years before we got married.We had sex very few times when I was...
    sweetwoman34 sweetwoman34 31-35, F 29 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I live about three hours away from home but don't get enough chances to go visit. Today I wish I was back home. I make other people happy by staying where I am for them, because...
    gottabebetter gottabebetter 31-35 16 hrs ago

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    I always get these feelings; it's a feeling of missing something, but I don't no what.
    J3ssii3 J3ssii3 22-25, F 15 hrs ago

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