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I Miss the Closeness of a Relationship

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    I was married for almost 30 years to a woman who desided not to get intimate any more. I felt the blame and guilt for a long time and I am ashamed. I had a break from reality a few years ago and went downhill from there. Wound up in the hospital after trying to commit suicide a...
    cosmicmuffin cosmicmuffin 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 3, 2009

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    So I placed my heart under lock

    and key To take some time, and take care of me But I turn around and you're not standing here. I just miss us. And I hate being so alone. Why should I be with you if there's pain and sorrow? Why should I dream with you if there's no tomorrow? We all make mistakes, have...
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F Jul 1

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    When was the last time you were kissed?

    I haven't been kisses in a looooooong time.
    artygurl77 artygurl77 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    I Miss It All

    the pet names the hand holding the knowing they will be their for you that feeling that your wanted wanting to spend time with them wanting the world to know your together i just miss it
    MissTori MissTori 18-21, F Dec 20, 2012

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    I just can't get used to being alone.

    .. I miss talking, cuddling, kissing even just watching TV with someone eating dinner or going for coffee....
    mssst mssst 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Spiritual, Physical and Sexual...

    I just miss being with a Lover... the affection, connection and quality time together.
    GoddessNakiBean GoddessNakiBean 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 8, 2009

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    I Miss The Sharing, The Touch Of Another Person.

    I'm happy. I love my job, I have the most wonderful creatures to come home to and love, I have a fortunate life. But.... I have been alone now for almost 2 years, and I miss sharing my life with Someone Special. Sharing the joy, the sadness, the excitement. Even the anger...
    Soozles Soozles 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 14, 2010

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    It's late at night and I can't catch a wink, I am still wide awake but feeling numb. I miss her. I miss the way we were before. Our laughter and funny moments, our tears and...
    madlovelace madlovelace 26-30, F Jul 4

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    It's weird. I don't miss him, I don't miss the arguments or the relationship. I miss being close and cuddling all night, I miss the closeness. I cannot sleep at all, and cuddling...
    Tayway22 Tayway22 13-15, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Dear lotus: I miss your smile,your care,the way you caress my hand.How to forget the unforgettable...you are like a first love in some kind of way.I miss you when I don't see you...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    my grandmother...she died from breast cancer and she was the nicest and she always did things for me..I love her so much and I could see her in pain.. she wasn't ever frowning...
    hellokitti hellokitti 13-15, F 6 hrs ago

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    My dog died of cancer and i now regret not making lots of memories with her and not taking videos and pics of her ! I miss her soo much i made this to commemorate her cause we grew...
    otakugamerwolf otakugamerwolf 13-15, F 1 Response 38 mins ago

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    My boyfriend and I have liver together for 5 years with my two kids.... At first everything was good ... But the last two years or so the sex has declined a lot he seems to have...
    Angeleyes73 Angeleyes73 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    Being in a relationship is great, but is it worth all the it comes along with? If I keep doubting it, isn't that saying something ?
    Genesisandstuff Genesisandstuff 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    😞ive been so emotional these couple days! Hurting and missing someone who doesnt love me. But most of all, a healthy committed relationship! I just want to be in a good...
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    So I am new to this site but I thought I would try it out... My boyfriend is currently in prison, he is facing a 5 years sentence but it's almost over he gets out in a little over...
    lexie4 lexie4 26-30, F Jul 20

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    So I finally move and by this time I move & I figure I had a grasp on relationships/love so I told my self I wasn't going to get into relationships till the time was right, I had...
    Jitsallgood Jitsallgood 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    I miss you like crazy. You have been working all day everyday. I am truly grateful for a hard working guy. Really, I am so proud of you. I miss you though, I want you to hold me in...
    BeautifulBianca666 BeautifulBianca666 13-15, F Jun 29

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    It's so crazy to think that I met a guy who doesn't even live in the same state as me but we have such crazy chemistry! His names Jake and he's the love of my life I swear. I'm so...
    jdonavon97 jdonavon97 16-17, M Jul 2

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    ive been talking to this guy for around a month now, we have met twice and both times we had a great time. we had spoken about our thoughts on if a long distance relationship would...
    missyy27 missyy27 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 15

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    I go miles away to conquer the Unknown, only to know that I will lose my self in the journey. So, this is what it is like. I miss you dearly, I miss you more and more each day. The...
    PsychjiLL PsychjiLL 22-25 1 Response Jul 19

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    Hello, my name is Casey and I am 16 years old and currently in a long distance relationship with a boy whom is also 16. I live in California and my boyfriend lives in New York. We...
    TheOddChild TheOddChild 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I need help. I cant tell what i really feel for this guy, But I miss him and My heart hurts when I think about him. (This might sound crazy and dramatic but it's true, life can...
    baby9527 baby9527 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    About 5 months ago, me and my boyfriend broke up. I am over him for the most part but lately, I think about our old times. Not necessarily the relationship part but the friendship...
    uhtobehonest uhtobehonest 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    What's my ex's problem? So the first time we dated I broke up with him couple months later, and he claimed he didn't like this girl, couple weeks later they dated for a bit. He...
    Cdb15 Cdb15 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    After 7 years of being in a relationship and living together for the past year, my boyfriend and I ended our relationship and cut all contact. About a month ago there was an...
    beachbum18 beachbum18 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    My 20 year old daughter has moved in with her dad. He and I recently separated after 23 years of marriage. He is a dry drunk and generally unhappy toxic person. I just couldn't...
    marlaynas marlaynas 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    5 months ago I started talking to this guy I knew from Facebook, we talked about the most stupid things but I was also there if he needed me and he was there for me too. We got...
    123anotherme 123anotherme 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Yes. I am one of those people who wants to be in a relationship and you might think I don't know what I am wishing for. Well partly I know what I am wanting to get into. I know it...
    Ranessa Ranessa 16-17, F Jul 13

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    Didn't realize it came up to four years of ending, our five years of being together.. I've already wasted over half my life I woulda laid down and died for you, I no longer cry...
    shexlove shexlove 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I have been dating this guy for six months. This is my first more serious relationship after a previous twelve year relationship. Embarrassed to say I did meet this guy online. We...
    suzy0118 suzy0118 26-30, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    Him.... I met him January of this year. When I first met him, I really didn't "feel" anything for him nor was I attracted to him. But why, why did I miss him after ? Why did he...
    islanderg1rL islanderg1rL 22-25, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    I know I'm young but I've been in one super serious relationship and he was sweet and he would walk me to my classes and hold hands or put his arm around me and it was cute but I...
    cocopuffff cocopuffff 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    There she was laying so peacefully on the bed, she looked so frail but at peace. I had always wondered how I would be on this day, I tried to prepare myself some nights. I would...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    Before I go into detail about what's been happening to me, I want to give some background of my childhood. My parents got divorced when I was 6 and my brother was 4. During the...
    sugarrmagnolia sugarrmagnolia 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    And it's perfect. Honestly, a Long Distance Relationship IS a hard thing to manage. There are lots of pros and cons regarding the concept of Online Dating. Like missing out on...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I don't know what to make of my thoughts. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months. 2 of which were part of a long distance relationship. I have not seen him at all in...
    BBopenbook BBopenbook 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    Back in Febuary I met the most wonderfulest man after getting out of a bad relationship. We started dating and for 3 months it was the best time of my life. We are still together...
    99jj789 99jj789 18-21, F Jul 15

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    Now I am feeling sad in every way. I ended a relationship that I felt. deep inside, simply was not going to be good for me long term. This man was so supportive and loving towards...
    graceoverall graceoverall 56-60, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am in a strong relationship called marriage. Things need to be worked at in any relationship. It feels good to think about how much we have been through together. I want to tear...
    ashless ashless 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    He's my best friend. We're both 16. He's way 'better' than me and literally every girl I know fancies him, where as I'm really nowhere near as special, and I'm not just saying that...
    n4ta1i3 n4ta1i3 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    The longest relationship I've ever had is almost two years. I just called it off and I feel terrible... All that time spent with someone, all the planning and talking about...
    Tayway22 Tayway22 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    So I have been dating this girl for 8 months now, and I honestly think I love her, and I could see us ending up married. But she is my first girlfriend, and I feel like i have met...
    JoeEastwood JoeEastwood 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 30

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    My ex is with another guy but she still calls me telling me that she is having a nice time but that she misses me and that she's upset with the fact that me - who she really adored...
    fmatitos fmatitos 22-25, M Jul 1

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    I haven't been with my ex girlfriend for about five years now, but I can't stop thinking about her. And it's not necessarily that I want to be in a relationship with her, I just...
    Villane Villane 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I've been thinking about him a lot lately. He wasn't my first love, but he was my longest relationship. And I can't but help to think that someday, somehow he'll end up in my life...
    adventuretimer adventuretimer 16-17, F Jul 3

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    Not only can I not stop missing her... The lies and everything. I pit so much in the relationship just to have it torn apart. It was my last fight to change my life. I had...
    lostunit lostunit 26-30, M Jul 3

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    My brother is still living, but he is thousands of miles away from me. He is only a year and a few months older than I, but we have a wonderful relationship. Thank goodness for...
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