I Miss The Feel Of Being Intimate With Someone

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    totally belong in this group I am the poster

    child for this group the CEO ...I finally lowered the guillotine on my rotting passionless relationship with my now ex fake husband I had been lost in that dried up desert for way way way to long I must have had visions seeing m irages to have stayed in such a lie for so long I...
    jaxpdx jaxpdx
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 1, 2015

    It is not just about the sex.

    Sometimes I feel like I need someone to be emotionally connected with.
    LiveLifeN LiveLifeN
    18-21, F
    7 Responses May 30, 2015

    True enough. Intimacy is a unique thing between

    two people who know each other well.
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    1 Response Feb 2, 2015

    I miss lying in bed next to him talking in the

    dark. I miss singing silly 80s songs and naughty secrets. We used to give each other long massages and describe what we loved about each other. Then the space between us grew by inches...until one night laying here it felt like he was miles away with darkness stretched...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Jan 21, 2016

    I miss WANTING to be intimate with my spouse.

    He doesn't turn me on anymore and it breaks my heart. He is a good person but everything about him turns me off. His stupid jokes, slapping my ***, making rude sexual comments thinking he's funny, bad kisser, etc. I have wandering eyes and I get flush around other men. My...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 21, 2016

    Tell me what you think about at three am.

    Tell me about your childhood, your hopes and dreams and all that got lost on the way. Tell me who you want to be in life, what you believe or dont. Tell me your biggest desires , and what you think wasnt meant to be.
    Mysticalix Mysticalix
    18-21, F
    May 30, 2015

    We kiss, once in the morning

    before he leaves for work and once at night before we sleep. We don't cuddle, he doesn't hold me, he doesn't reach out for me in the middle of the night even though we share the same bed. We rarely make love and I wouldn't think of calling it that. It's more like a few...
    QuaintCynicalExistence QuaintCynicalExistence
    26-30
    4 Responses Jan 20, 2016
    EndItAll515 EndItAll515
    22-25, M
    Aug 24, 2015

    Its been years since I have been.

    But I truly do miss the intimacy and conversation a couple has.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Aug 2, 2015

    Especially when I wake up

    and lay in my bed alone. I want that intimate, personal connection again. The one where you know everything about the other person, and love and like them anyway. I want to wake and have my first thought be of her. I want to make my first cup of coffee, and bring her, hers...
    happenstance4now happenstance4now
    56-60, M
    3 Responses Sep 25, 2015
    Mtay222 Mtay222
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Sep 24, 2015

    I have been thinking about this a lot lately.

    .. conversation certainly helps... but I think the two keys are empathy and fulfillment.... It is easy to over-tax the body, mind, or desires draining rather than dreams encouraging.... I think most of all, at times when I am over-taxed, I feel like I rushed myself too much...
    Taurusedi Taurusedi
    36-40, M
    1 Response Aug 4, 2015

    Me and my ex.. She would tell me to take my

    pants off and lay down for her, she then told me how to touch myself. It wasn't purely sexual, it was sweet.. She told me how pretty I was and how amazing I was, and I really miss it. It made me feel so amazing afterwards too. I would do just about anything to have it again
    codyvilla99 codyvilla99
    18-21, M
    May 30, 2015

    Sucks when you treat your girl with affection

    and love and your the one who gets hurt. Hopefully miss right comes along soon
    cbm99 cbm99
    41-45, M
    1 Response Feb 2, 2015

    Yeah, I have my own way of living in a

    sheltered cove where I cut everyone out, but that makes me regret that I'm not intimate with anyone. You can't be both things, you can't live inside a shell and be intimate and exposed all together. This life is so challenging. God help me.
    lonelylifeindia lonelylifeindia
    26-30, M
    Apr 7, 2016

    I definitely miss there eking of intimacy we

    experience with a special person.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25
    31-35, M
    Apr 18, 2015

    No, I'm not going to go on

    and on whining about it, just saying...........
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Aug 27, 2015

    I miss the feeling of being physically

    and mentally intimate with someone. Like, I have sex, but the sex I have isn't love. It's just sex. I haven't "made love" in nearly 6 months, when I broke up with my last girlfriend. I kind of miss that feeling.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 2, 2015

    Maybe I'm needy. I don't need to be someone's

    first priority. I would just like to be acknowledged throughout the day. Id like to get a text in your free time or have a quick convo while you're on break at work. I would like to know I'm worth 2 minutes of your day. Just 2 minutes. It's just becoming clear that I never cross...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 18, 2015

    I miss the sensation of a woman's body against

    mine. The warmth of her body. Soft and silky skin. Curves and crevices waiting for me to touch and taste them.
    SailorsAngel SailorsAngel
    41-45, F
    Aug 23, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 14, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 13, 2015

    It's not just sex. Some of my more,

    should I say, bitter friends, would say that men just want to do it roll over and snore. I have to believe that there are guys out there who enjoy intimacy from start to finish...really...it's the look, a touch. To stare into someone's eyes is really amazing. Kissing, cuddling...
    SunnyGrlA SunnyGrlA
    41-45, F
    4 Responses May 27, 2015

    For various reasons since the birth of our

    second child, my wife has found it difficult to reconcile herself with her body and the changes that pregnancy have made to it. In my eyes she is all the more beautiful and special for having given birth to our children and that makes me want her all the more. Hopefully...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 18, 2015

    My wife and I haven't been intimate in over 2

    years I would just like to have some feeling of human contact
    jj8171966 jj8171966
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Jan 21, 2016

    I am 17 years old and I live in western

    washington. I am looking for a strong white male to dominate me but I don't want it to be a master slave relationship. just BDSM. please message me if you are interested.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 4, 2015

    Married and yet I can't remember the last time

    we sat up all night talking, I can't remember the last time we held a gaze, I can't remember the last time we held hands, I can't remember the last time we shared a moment, I can't remember the last time we went to bed at the same time as each other, I can't remember the last...
    Curiousmissy Curiousmissy
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Jun 28, 2015

    I don't think I have ever been truly intimate

    with anyone, but I long for it...
    For3v3r7 For3v3r7
    70+, F
    2 Responses Jan 21, 2016
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