I Missing My Soldier, My Best Friend

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    I Miss My Soldier

    This guy isn't anyone hes my love, my boyfriend, life and my best friend he understands me in everything i do. i love him for what he does, but sometimes he get to serious about everything. we always would joke around and everything but he doesnt even seem to do that anymore. i...
    Armygirlfriend159 Armygirlfriend159
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 17, 2012

    My Army Man Put A Smile On My Face Today

    Today he sent me a gift it was the Best gift ever. going to wear it every day until he come home i just love My army Man.
    missinya missinya
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 25, 2013

    I'm Having Dreams He Is Home.

    I posted this in a blog but I thought it would be a good experience to share. Recently I have been having very vivid dreams that my husband is home with me. They are so real. We are living our life as if he never left. Last night the dream was that we were cooking dinner. We...
    NikandDave143 NikandDave143
    22-25, F
    Sep 28, 2008

    He's Always Been a Soldier.

    I met this guy (he lived a couple states away) when I was thirteen and we've been talking ever since. It just started to be different than just friends a month before he went to basic training. I became dependant on hearing his voice every night before I went to bed so when he...
    fairygrrlbobbi fairygrrlbobbi
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2008

    Trying To Stay Busy So I Dont Go Crazy From Missing Him

    I have been away from my man for a year now and i have found a million lil projects to do from selling Mary Kay to making scrapbooks and purses. I am planning a wedding for us in Dec. however even with all of the craziness i do (including raising 2 children and working 45+ hrs a...
    amsmaglik amsmaglik
    26-30, F
    Aug 15, 2012

    I finally got my first letter from my soldier!

    It was 6 pages long! I was excited. I've been ready it over and over!
    Corderica Corderica
    22-25, F
    Jul 10, 2015


    Marc, my best friend, my boyfriend, future husband left on Monday... and i am experiencing being a army girlfriend. He is in Ft. benning Georgia now... today was much better than yesterday i only cried once when his sister called me to let me know she wanted to stay close while...
    ashleemarie89 ashleemarie89
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Apr 29, 2009

    even though he only left a couple days ago it

    feels so different without him. I miss him so much. Even just sitting on the couch and watching TV without him feels weird,.
    MilitaryGirfriend2114 MilitaryGirfriend2114
    18-21, F
    Jun 26, 2014

    Its Hard, No Matter Where He Goes

    I guess im lucky in a way. My fiance, N, isnt deployed. Instead they like to put him on courses or field ex's alot. hes been away for over a month now and there is still about 6 week to go. We have phone contact but they keep him so busy its brief at best. So yeh, I miss him. 
    AmeliaS2012 AmeliaS2012
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 10, 2011

    Poem For Usmc Significant Others

    I silently watched while you packed your gear, And wondered what would happen from here. I choked back the tears and bit my lip, And felt my life was starting to slip. I am your girl who sits home alone; I remain each night by the silent phone. The phone doesn't ring, no...
    Lubyruby Lubyruby
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 12, 2012

    The Letter

    My soldier went off to Boot camp 9 days ago. It's been 9 days since all communication has been cut off. I have received three letters the last of which was written his final day in reception on 2/16/11. Now i sit hear and wait.....wait....and wait. I can handle the distance...
    DWSGirl DWSGirl
    31-35, F
    Feb 25, 2011

    5 Minutes

    5 minutes. max. that's all i want. 5 minutes to see his face, kiss his lips and i could be happy just to look into his blue eyes. that's all i want.
    texaswildfliwer texaswildfliwer
    18-21, F
    May 6, 2013

    Missing My Airman

    I am a United States Air Force girlfriend. My airman and I have only been dating for about 10 months now but we are already planning to get married one day (hopefully in the not too distant future). I'm only 18 so most people think that I'm crazy and that I can't...
    usafsweetheart usafsweetheart
    2 Responses Feb 12, 2009

    He kept my heart with him in Alaska, I brought his back to Cali <3

    wow. so i just spent 8 days with my boyfriend in Alaska where he is stationed. It was beautiful and i got to see what the army life is all about. The families, the singles, the married couples..all of it, and it gave me alot of insight on what i would be looking towards if i were...
    Hooahitslove Hooahitslove
    18-21, F
    Sep 5, 2012

    I'm Breaking

    I don't know why... but I woke up this morning to get ready for work, and I was MISERABLE.  I miss him so freakin much.  "Miss" isn't even an adequate enough word.  I have a feeling when I get off work today I'm just going to head straight for the couch...
    NaelovesherArmyhusband NaelovesherArmyhusband
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Sep 2, 2008

    I Have So Much to Say to Him...

    I wish I could just pick up the phone and call, I though about it alot today. I started to write a letter and got frustrated. Everytime the phone rang today my heart skipped a beat. I worked on my calendar and my schedule, I wrote in T's flight info and changed my days off. I...
    stephnie stephnie
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 6, 2008

    I Will Wait For Him!

    Wait For You lyrics Songwriters: Eriksen, Mikkel; Hermansen, Tor Erik; Jackson, Taj; I never felt nothing in the world like this before Now I?m missing you and I?m wishing You would come back through my door, ooh Why did you have to go? You could've let me know So now I?m all...
    privatenelsonsgal777 privatenelsonsgal777
    18-21, F
    Mar 9, 2011

    Missing My Soldier to Be :(

    Hiyaa! Im 17 and my fiance left me 5 weeks ago to start his basic training in another country. I miss him sooo much. I know you must think we're far too young to be engaged, but it makes me feel that little bit closer to him now that Im not with him. I've been going with him for...
    jennilovesdean jennilovesdean
    18-21, F
    Apr 30, 2008

    I'm Not Looking Forward To March

    I started my second semester of college on monday. i have computers class first thing and decided to see what the semester was going to look like. Well I found out when our Spring Break was. My boyfriend was hoping I would able to come visit him sometime while he's at AIT and i...
    ForeverArmyGirlfriend ForeverArmyGirlfriend
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 16, 2013

    I'm Missing The Love Of My Life!!!

    My boyfrined has been stationed in North Carolina for awhile now and I've been having a really hard time being away from him. It seems as days go by it seems to get harder and harder. We talk just about every day but it still doesn't seem like it's enough. I just wish I could see...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 2, 2010

    Unexpected Call...

    I got 2 letters from chris today, & I didnt think I could be any happier. I was wrong, I was just sitting here about to eat dinner and my phone rang....IT WAS CHRIS!  It was sooo nice too hear his voice again, & to know he was thinking of me. He wished me luck bc he...
    Missingmysoldier514 Missingmysoldier514
    22-25, F
    Jan 28, 2008

    Happy Holidays

    I just wanted to wish everyone a Happy Holidays whether they are with their soldier or not. If you are hug him/her and kiss them and appreciate them. If you are not miss them a little more and know you will make it through and their arms will be around you again soon. Happy...
    smalltownminnesota smalltownminnesota
    26-30, F
    Dec 20, 2008

    Had to leave my soldier again yesterday

    after not seeing him for ten weeks . 3 days with him went by too fast . But leaving him was hardest thing I have done in my life & I decided I am never doing that again so I will be going to wherever he is stationed. It hurts my heart to bad . Can't wait to see him soon ! I...
    EmmieeeLynn EmmieeeLynn
    22-25, F
    Nov 10, 2014

    Saving Him A Hug.

    My best friend and the love of my life moved across the country. He wanted to get his nursing degree in a college near his hometown. I promised him I would give him a hug goodbye, when the time came I told him to save it for when he came home to me and ran away. Leaving him...
    Allbecauseofyou95 Allbecauseofyou95
    18-21, F
    Dec 20, 2012

    My Best Friend

    My name is Sara,and My best friends name is Jorge. Hes coming home from AIT on wensday 12/19/12. Ive missed him so much and sometimes we cant talk to each other but its okay,because I will see him soon and It will be amazing <3
    XxxLovelyMelodyxxX XxxLovelyMelodyxxX
    18-21, F
    Dec 16, 2012

    First Skype Date

    So Matt & I are having our first little Skype session. And it sucks. We suck at Texting, we suck at Phone calls, we suck at being apart. When we were friends texting was easy. Like just a breeze. Being in relationship.. It's just...difficult. And we only really seem at ease...
    ForeverArmyGirlfriend ForeverArmyGirlfriend
    18-21, F
    Sep 21, 2013

    Just need to vent for a minute.

    .. I met my Soldier knowing that he was going to PCS in 6 months. That was fine. We stayed together. He visited on leave and he proposed. The next leave we got married in a court room, just us and the judge. We were happy with that! It was perfect! I didn't go overseas with him...
    LovingCatLady LovingCatLady
    22-25, F
    Feb 11, 2016

    My Boyfriend Has Been Gone For 18 Days

    It seems like he has been gone longer, then I look at my Countdown on my phone. Only a week and 4 days. I really miss him. It seems worse than Basic. Maybe it's because now we can actually text and make phones calls, but it makes me feel lonelier. I wake up at about 4 when he...
    ForeverArmyGirlfriend ForeverArmyGirlfriend
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

    Counting The Days To See Each Other Again...

    I'm just a month to see my boyfriend since April ...  This time I've spent alone has not been anything easy.  This to me is very new, and never in my life thought that I was going to touch me and change my life for ever!!!  And I'm very proud of him, and ...
    1 Response Aug 23, 2010

    I Love Him

    I love getting to talk with my boyfriend. Every evening I am reminded why he is my bestfriend and the best boyfriend I could ever ask for. I can tell him anything and I don't feel stupid asking him what stuff is that I don't know. He understands me and laughs at my little stories...
    ForeverArmyGirlfriend ForeverArmyGirlfriend
    18-21, F
    Dec 7, 2012

    I miss him so much.. BUT,

    he just told me he comes down in 6 weeks! The countdown begins :)
    Navysweetheartxo Navysweetheartxo
    18-21, F
    Sep 30, 2014

    Missing My Soldier...

    Chris has re-enlisted in the army and is now in basic training in Fort Benning, Ga. I miss him soo much! Our communication is very limited & its very hard not having him here, or at least being able to hear his voice. I've only recieved one call so far letting me know that he...
    Missingmysoldier514 Missingmysoldier514
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 27, 2008

    108 days till i see my husband miss him

    so much. especially when i dont get to hear much from him. No calls.. And i only get 2 letters in a month..
    jandy37 jandy37
    26-30, F
    May 4, 2015

    Family Day

    So I heard from Chris today, & he told me his family day is going to be March 8th (if he doesnt get moved) Its comforting to know Ill be able to see him sooner then I thought. He only gets 36hrs but Im sure we'll make the most of the time that we get to spend together. I wont...
    Missingmysoldier514 Missingmysoldier514
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 31, 2008

    Halfway There.

    Well, we are halfway there but I am as depressed as ever. I am speaking to a counselor and trying to do something so that I am able to get out of bed in the mornings. I hate that I am crumbling. Its not just his deployment. My ex is trying to take custody of my son. I had a...
    cecelost cecelost
    31-35, F
    3 Responses May 8, 2013

    My boyfriend left for Afghanistan at the end

    of June and to be honest... The past month has been really tough for me. I know that I have no choice but to deal... But I still wish I didn't . I miss his smile, his laugh, his eyes, his Ems that would hold me so close and keep me safe. Please tell tabs only one who has it or...
    texaswildfliwer texaswildfliwer
    18-21, F
    Jul 23, 2014

    precious memories

    Its been over a month since he left. Its strange how normal its become for him not be around. But He is always on my mind. I can't stop replaying his memories in my head like our first date, first kiss, when he introduced me to his family, how he would kiss me to shut me up, and...
    texaswildfliwer texaswildfliwer
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 8, 2013

    He Left 6 Days After the Wedding

    I am new to this but just thought it would be good to write about it! We met on the beach. Got married on the beach. The day before our wedding we found out he was to deploy 6 days later. So much to do in so little time and that didn't leave much time to spend as a married...
    NikandDave143 NikandDave143
    22-25, F
    Sep 23, 2008

    well here goes am I mad?

    ? back in july I met this guy thought would just be a bit of fun few dates here and there but by September there few dates we are still meeting up I knew he was going away but don't think I knew really what to do or expect, hes been posted to afghan for 6 months I have said I...
    jetto07 jetto07
    46-50, F
    Dec 7, 2013

    My Dad Is Gone

    my dad, my best friend of them all, was sent to afghanistan a two weeks ago. he's there for a year and last time he was gone for a year he was in pakistan. it's very stressful on my mom, the separation from him and all. i'm trying to help her as much as i can with whatever she...
    Spilled Spilled
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 4, 2013


    My best friend that I turn to for everything has been gone for almost two weeks now. I heard that you get used to life without the constant communication but I miss him. I had the worst week I have had in a long time this week. I had lots of school work to do, a fight with my...
    deleted deleted
    Nov 3, 2012

    Missing Him Like Crazy!!!

    My man is in Afghanistan and has been for 2 weeks!! I wait by the phone for the call i may or may not get. Haven't heard from him in a week and those crazy thoughts are running through my head. Is he ok?? Is he safe?? Gosh... Im losing my mind worrying about him! and btw My name...
    Jsprincess Jsprincess
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jun 4, 2009

    After a 9 hour drive he arrived safely at AIT.

    Miss him already but our last kiss was amazing💕💍
    NoemiG NoemiG
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 10, 2014


    23 days till i can see him. 23 days and everything will be alright. This feeling of emptiness will go away and i will be happy. I can't wait to just talk to him, to look him in the eyes. I've missed him so much. <3
    texaswildfliwer texaswildfliwer
    18-21, F
    May 15, 2013

    April Can't Get Here Soon Enough!

    My boyfriend left yesterday. It was weird sleeping alone. I haven't done that since he got home. As soon as we were preping for him leaving, things with my friends started to fall apart again. It's like they want to hurt me. My boyfriend is leaving for 3 months and they want to...
    ForeverArmyGirlfriend ForeverArmyGirlfriend
    18-21, F
    Jan 2, 2013

    Trying To Stay Busy So I Dont Go Crazy From Missing Him

    I have been away from my man for a year now and i have found a million lil projects to do from selling Mary Kay to making scrapbooks and purses. I am planning a wedding for us in Dec. however even with all of the craziness i do (including raising 2 children and working 45+ hrs a...
    amsmaglik amsmaglik
    26-30, F
    Aug 15, 2012

    The Real Deal

     I just got home at around 2 this morning from Washington. I just spent the past 5 days with my beloved Kyle  I still feel pretty happy, but I feel sad that I had to leave. I cried the entire way home, and I already miss him. The morning that I had to leave, I felt really sad...
    ConklinsGirl ConklinsGirl
    18-21, F
    Mar 8, 2011

    My Boyfriend , My Hero , My Soldier , My Bestfriend<3

    my boyfriends and i , we were bestfriends i could tell him anything and he would understand. when i had personal problems i had no one to turn to my friends werent there , but my boyfriend was to listen and make me feel better. we could share things that some couples cant. when...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 8, 2012

    I Got My First Letter :)

    I couldn't wait to get it open!! i damn near ripped it lol,, No matter how short i was , it was thought that count and knowing he was thinking about me :)i love my soon to be soldier <3
    justinajjj justinajjj
    Jun 8, 2012

    Hate The Waiting Game..

    It's been about a week and a few days sense my soldier left for basic in Fort Jackson. I miss him like crazy and would do anything to hear his voice. Waiting for a letter that seems like it's taking forever to get here!!! Just want to know how he is and if he is enjoying himself...
    ArmyGF011 ArmyGF011
    22-25, F
    Sep 12, 2013

    Unexpected But True Love

    Ryan and I met each-other in 3rd grade. He was in 5th..I had a huge crush on him, well for him he didn't give me the me of day... He was always nice however it wasn't the same feeling i had for him...a few years and a growth spurt later, I received a message on FB......IT was...
    OverstreetsLOVE OverstreetsLOVE
    18-21, F
    Dec 8, 2012
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