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    First of all, I know a lot of people are judgmental and let me be the first to explain to you that I know how wrong this is and that it's not okay. I can be the first to tell you I have always been a girl who plays by the rules, scared to get caught, never really did anything...
    kaitlynnn kaitlynnn
    26-30, F
    Aug 31, 2013

    Slave Louis

    Looking at one’s self introspectively can be a really difficult thing for anybody. Taking a step back and trying to look at yourself with an objective perspective is not only extremely hard, but I think necessary for all of us to do once in a while. Perhaps even moreso for...
    empresskim empresskim
    31-35, F
    Aug 27, 2012


    We meet for the first time at a local up scale bar. We have talked on the internet and phone for weeks. Finally you agree to meet. I dress in my finest suit. Freshly pressed, seams are crisp and clean. I'm wearing a bleach white shirt and a vibrant red tie. Shoes are polished so...
    Rescuediver1874 Rescuediver1874
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Nov 28, 2013

    I'm having a relationship with a "happily"

    married man....going on over a year. He will never leave her b/c of the kids. Completely in love.......I struggle daily about what to do b/c I know I don't want to be alone forever, yet know how much happiness he brings me..he loves me too, but won't leave his kids. ..
    edelweiss1972 edelweiss1972
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Feb 20, 2014


    I am a single woman, been single for almost 2 years now. I was in a really bad relationship and just haven't felt up to trying to date anyone, until now. I started a new job about 6 weeks ago and after my first day I found myself thinking that if this one guy (I will call him Joe...
    amiamistress amiamistress
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 18, 2012

    We've Been Off And On For Seven Years

    We met online over seven years ago. We're both married. We'll see each other for a few weeks then one of us will end it because it's getting too serious. This time it's lasted for two months but I think he's either losing interest or is afraid. Part of me wants to end it for good...
    jocelyn9 jocelyn9
    41-45, F
    Nov 28, 2013

    I would like for a mistress to message me

    and talk to me maybe fool around an get really dirty
    Countryboy35 Countryboy35
    18-21, M
    Apr 13, 2014

    20 Rules To Live By

    I belong to a coven of Mistress's and we have setup a list of 20 mandatory rules that all our members must adhere to. Mistress B&D Rules Mistress's only have slaves even when married to them ... They are not husbands. Mistress's do not need permission to spank their slaves...
    CookDusty CookDusty
    2 Responses Dec 5, 2012

    It happened 5 months ago.

    .. we were very good friends at start, from 6 months earlier. He was 40, me 18.. completely wrong. But I tragically fell in love with him and he fell in love with me. He always cares about me, never made promises that he knew he can't keep. We are sharing the same passions, we...
    bluesail bluesail
    22-25, F
    Apr 28, 2014

    I Am A Slave

    respected madam I am 22 m , and i am looking for a mistress to control me in any ways she like. I am ready to do what ever she says. I will be my pleasure to serve her. So please if any one intresed contact me as soon as possible
    ank30 ank30
    26-30, M
    Aug 14, 2013

    I'm having a relationship with a "happily"

    married man....going on over a year. He will never leave her b/c of the kids. Completely in love.......I struggle daily about what to do b/c I know I don't want to be alone forever, yet know how much happiness he brings me..he loves me too, but won't leave his kids. ..
    edelweiss1972 edelweiss1972
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Feb 20, 2014

    No Closure From Ex Boyfriend

    I met my first love way back in 1993 we are a uni student. I finished my study last a year ahead of him and work oversease. We keep in touch occassionally until early 2000 by writting letters then completely stop. By 2001 I was married without him knowing it because we loss...
    Crisalyn Crisalyn
    41-45, F
    Mar 7, 2013

    I Want To Be A Slave

    i want to be a slave for anyone that will be my Mistress/Master- i talked to a girl who was my mistress she punished me and i drunk her urine all up for her, I would do anything for anyone
    milnezy milnezy
    41-45, M
    Sep 25, 2013

    Mistress Wanted

    I am a male who is looking for a dominating online mistress, if anyone can help then feel free to message me
    steviewonder77 steviewonder77
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Nov 7, 2013

    Mistress Wanted

    I would like a mistress my kik is samuelthedaniel ill do anything
    Pantyboy4uu Pantyboy4uu
    22-25, M
    Apr 25, 2013

    No Illusions

    I am an independent working woman, never married, I have a partner with whom I have a pre teener. We've been together for 14 years, but the past 4 years have been really tough. 2 years ago, I discovered that he was having an affair with a student of his. A girl who was half his...
    aesedai aesedai
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Oct 7, 2013

    I'M Hurt

    Being with a mm is difficult . I love him so much but our timing is so off. I'm tired of thinking about it.
    carmella31 carmella31
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Aug 31, 2013

    I love the feeling of having someones total

    obedience under my control. I love the point that I push them too far but they still do it out of love for me. Getting inside their mind and making it only think about me is what turns me on the most.
    SuductiveSarah SuductiveSarah
    26-30, F
    11 Responses Feb 1, 2014


    Hello well my story goes like this...Ive been in a serious relationship for 5 years during those 5 years my bf has cheated on me many times and i have found out with hard core proof. When I first met him he was the love of my life I thought he was it, even after the first 3 times...
    aranyita aranyita
    26-30, F
    Jan 15, 2011

    I Need To Get Out! Help Me!

    My story is pretty sad in that I knew he was married when I met him. We worked together so it started out pretty innocently. Then it evolved into a romantic thing. I fell in love with him very instantly. He started buying me things and treating me better than any other man...
    yourebusted yourebusted
    3 Responses Jan 23, 2011

    Am I A Mistress?

      I'm new to this website. Feel confused by what's happening on my life right now and accidently found this website trough google. Last year around nov I knew a guy from online dating. We're from different nationality and have quite big age differences (I'm 21 and he's 38...
    myue myue
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 25, 2010

    Slave Troubles...

    Ugh my slaves aren't describing there tasks very good, how can I make them explain better????
    Lesbianmistressashley Lesbianmistressashley
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 3, 2013

    The Man I Love

    The Man I Love  I love him with my whole self. He does the same and I swear I believe him, because I feel it. He is all I would always wanted next to me. I have never been that king od person who decided to achieve a status  and then find in somebody the possibility to feed...
    Juliettedrouet Juliettedrouet
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Mar 14, 2013

    My Own Story

    I am a mistress for more than 2 years. And this time, I am not anymore ashame to admit it, nor hurt. It's my choice, I stayed because this is what it takes to have him for now, hopefully only for now. After all the troubles I've been through my life became an open book to people...
    babe4ever babe4ever
    31-35, F
    Oct 26, 2013

    Owned Mistress

    The coat of arms Upon the wall He said no words It said it all. His wealth was bountiful His desire would be bought Whatever he wanted Whatever he sought Was his. I protested in vain I loved him not He wanted my virtue My soul ill-got.... He was my bane I pushed him back He...
    deleted deleted
    May 21, 2013

    10 Years

    I have been off and on with this guy who's married we hooked up for a few months and then stopped..ten years later we stayed in contact but that's it so recently we have been seriously texting...we hooked no intercourse but everything else and it was good...he's been married for...
    Londyngirl Londyngirl
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jun 7, 2013

    The Adulterer...

    I have been attracted to a man who is my superior for over a year. He is kind, funny, attractive, witty, sexy and married. It started with a few messages exchanged while he was away for work, all innocent until one night when we were both drunk and the texts became sexual. I didn...
    Flingthing Flingthing
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 20, 2013

    How Do I Heal?

    I have a long story. I started working with a guy and we became flirty and started talking lots. Then he added me to Facebook, where I discovered he had a girlfriend. He didn't mention her before, that he lives with. Anyways, a few FB messages back and forth turned into text...
    Brokebydan Brokebydan
    41-45, F
    3 Responses May 28, 2013

    He Is My Song. He Is My Life.

    Each of us has something within us which won't be denied, even if it makes us scream aloud to die. We are what we are, that's all. Like the old Celtic legend of the bird with the thorn in its breast, singing its heart out and dying. Because it has to, its self-knowledge can't...
    Juliettedrouet Juliettedrouet
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 14, 2013

    Lost Love

     I really don"t know where to begin. I found an old friend from HS on a popular social networking site. Just added to my list of friends! Next thing I know  I am getting messages and texts and eventually phone calls everyday. This started in May 2011. Then we decided to meet...
    mystcldy007 mystcldy007
    2 Responses Mar 20, 2012

    I'm new here. This is my first post.

    I just called it off with my boyfriend...a "happily married man" and my heart is shattered. We live 650 miles apart. I knew he would never leave her, even though we've had this affair for 2.5 years, and his wife is having her own online affair with the same guy for the past...
    bleedingheart11 bleedingheart11
    41-45, F
    12 Responses Jan 10, 2015

    Everything I Wanted Except He's Married

    I met this man on my job over a year ago. I was not involved in a realtionship, but I was still waiting and praying for Mr. Right. Then he comes along, go figure. We worked very close together, and had good chemistry. There wasn't an instant attraction, for goodness sake he is...
    lovinghim2010 lovinghim2010
    11 Responses Nov 27, 2010

    He's Perfect...but I Didn't Want To Give Up Being Single

    I actually posted an ad online stating that I was looking for a lover. I got a TON of responses..the majority from married men. I came to his and my heart skipped a beat. We texted and talked on the phone, then he came over the other day and I was nervous to see if we had the...
    InEdensBliss InEdensBliss
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 11, 2012

    He Sees What Others Have Failed To See

    I am a well spoken beautiful independant young woman. Im 24, have a good job and have always known how to take care of a man. For some reason not known to me though, all the men I have ever been with left. No warnings, just the same hurtful silence that tells you that there is no...
    lokuhlekodvwa lokuhlekodvwa
    6 Responses Aug 18, 2011

    Both In A Relationship But Having An Affair

    I have been living with my boyfriend for five years, the man I'm having an affair with has been with his girlfriend for two years. Both serious relationships, we are all good friends. For the last year, however, him and I have both been crazy about one another. It became obvious...
    missbellavita missbellavita
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 15, 2012
    Dizy132 Dizy132
    22-25, F
    Feb 7, 2014

    I don't know what to do any more.

    I feel awful about this whole situation, and I know that I am the one in the wrong. Over the past year I've become infatuated with not one but two men who are taken. I'll refer to them as Guy A and Guy B. Both are significantly older than me;they're in their mid 40s to early 50s...
    lovesick89 lovesick89
    22-25, F
    Feb 17, 2015

    I have never been a mistress before

    and never intended to be one. I fell in love with a friend's husband, and worse, we work together. Sometimes I think he really intends to be with me some day in the future, and other days I think he is just fantasizing. Like the tired old cliche, he says he hates his life and...
    unwisewoman unwisewoman
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Mar 6, 2014

    My First Affair

    I have been married for 18 years. I have one 10 year old son. I always felt I was lacking in my relationship but I could not pinpoint it until then. Thus, I always been attracted to other men (those I work with) throughout my marriage. I have had a lot of lunch meetings with...
    browneyes2013wc browneyes2013wc
    51-55, F
    1 Response Aug 24, 2013


    First of all, I know a lot of people are judgmental and let me be the first to explain to you that I know how wrong this is and that it's not okay. I can be the first to tell you I have always been a girl who plays by the rules, scared to get caught, never really did anything...
    kaitlynnn kaitlynnn
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 31, 2013

    I just posted this under general dating

    and got a load of judgement but I am hoping on this thread I could get some support? : I have just found out my bf's wife is pregnant. She is 6 months gone. He already had a child when we met (1 year ago) & he says this one is mainly to provide a sibling for that one. They are...
    PinkDaisy68 PinkDaisy68
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Apr 13, 2014

    The Only One... And Tired Of Sitting In The Back Seat

    I met a man 5 years ago at a bar...asked him if he had a girlfriend...he said "no, I have a wife." Good game! I left it alone and continued my night with friends. After leaving I went to the gas station and he pulled up beside me! Asked for my number and that was that.... We...
    roxy232 roxy232
    26-30, F
    Sep 25, 2012

    10 And A Half Yrs And Counting...

    Should I hope for anything more, or am I a fool. I think I know the answer, feedback always helps. I am usually buzzed on martinis when I check this, so be kind. He makes a lot of promises, I buy them. I guess I need friends, I have isolated myself. I live in one of his many...
    andie82 andie82
    51-55, F
    8 Responses Feb 23, 2013

    I Am One But It's A Tough Job Being One

    I am a mistress or "the other woman" in my boyfriend's life. It's a rather common but yet different situation. I am also married. This is my second marriage. My first was abusive. I ended up cheating on him to find someone to help me get out. I met my current husband, and left my...
    banditsgirl banditsgirl
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 3, 2010

    About To Have My First Affair....

    I have been married to an amazing and wonderful man for almost 7 years and we have been together for 10 years. We have a great relationship, he treats me amazingly good and, for the most part, life is grand. The thing is, I feel like something is missing. I want and need more...
    HisTextress HisTextress
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 27, 2013

    I'm A Mistress And I'm Jealous

    I am gay. I am in love with a person who has an open relationship. They are already having a long time relationship. One day I met him, we have started texting and knowing together. At first, we are just like friends as text together with everything can come up. Then we went for...
    danielngo01 danielngo01
    22-25, M
    Aug 25, 2013

    Fell In Love With A Married Man.

    I am in my early thirty's and at the time was in a relationship. I met a man who told me he was married and I continued to talk to him thinking eventually I would blow him off. We continued to talk for month's and eventually ended up having a  relationship for one year and a...
    fine9 fine9
    2 Responses Jan 2, 2013
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