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I Must Attract Emotional Abusers

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    Another Abuser

    I left an emotionally abusive relationship over a year ago. It was really tough getting out of it and getting over it. I recently met someone else. I started getting red flags as to the things he was saying/doing. I put them aside but kept note. Should have probably ended things...
    Maureen3 Maureen3 31-35 3 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    Another Abuser

    I left an emotionally abusive relationship over a year ago. It was really tough getting out of it and getting over it. I recently met someone else. I started getting red flags as to the things he was saying/doing. I put them aside but kept note. Should have probably ended things...
    Maureen3 Maureen3 31-35 5 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    Shot Through the Heart...again!

    i must have a sign on my forehead that says "men who like to mess with my head and heart line up here"..... well i seem to be in another relationship that has emotional and mental abuse written all over it. My boyfriend i believe,,is having an emotional breakdown of...
    prettyinpink prettyinpink 46-50, F 5 Responses Nov 15, 2007

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    The Only Thing Constant In All My Failed Relationships Is Me

    I always seem to end up with my emotions all twisted.  It affects me in so many different ways.  It consumes me.  I feel like a fool and I always end up convincing myself that it's my fault - at least it feels like that. I'm still in a relationship but I...
    whydoi whydoi 46-50, M 3 Responses Dec 20, 2008

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    i am always shock because very often i am not approached respectfully so i assume i am often approached simply for being a female. i would't find a guy offering me a ride or even...
    deejaygirl deejaygirl 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    i can' say why i am attracted to them but i guess that's how i am. i am just more very much attracted white guys and i am a black girl.
    deejaygirl deejaygirl 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Mine finally walked out on me, after I called the police over his threats to trash my travel trailer. He started out as a nice guy. He was pleasant, fun, and I really liked him...
    ToolshedCat ToolshedCat 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Must be insecure to be in this group..
    legzydawlyy legzydawlyy 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm not really sure that I am a victim of emotional abuse. I've lived with my parents in the same house for twenty years, aside from the three semesters I spent in college, which...
    krcb krcb 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    well duh, can you be attracted to things you're not attracted to?
    hawaiinpunch hawaiinpunch 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 29

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    I find certain men attractive, and I don't mean it in a way that I get a crush on them, but it is the few things I notice about a man in the first meeting and if they prove...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 29

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    (Picture above) Go ahed and rate me. But I must warn you, you're going to burst into flames when you see me ;)
    SkyHobo SkyHobo 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 25

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    For my entire adult life , I have known I am not like other men. I am attracted on a biological level to androgenous and hirsute women. If a woman has no male pattern body or...
    meatoman meatoman 51-55, M Jan 24

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    i was in a relationship with a man for over 5 years. I don't know when the abuse started, everything is so blurred now. Thinking back I think I was manipulated into believing he...
    JustGotOut2016 JustGotOut2016 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 24

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    yeah, I'm attracted to older guys, who are in their late 30's -40's. i don't know what it is but I'm definitely attracted to them
    GingerSheWolf GingerSheWolf 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 22

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    It all seems to be seeping in, and I hate it. I don't know which is worse, the physical that is annoying me and stopping me from doing things I want to do or the emotional that's...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    ...I just have to be... I feel like my unattractiveness initiates a constant friction between the eye and mouths of many, many people. You may not like what you see, but you know...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    TheCreatorOfAll TheCreatorOfAll 18-21, M 6 Responses Jan 20

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    *****Edit/update******** Well, a followup to the roller coaster I haven't been able to escape....he texted me today asking if I could come watch the dogs because he needed rest...
    mizmandytn mizmandytn 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 20

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    So last summer, this man moved next door to my grandparent's house. My aunt--who's divorced and lives with my grandparents--wouldn't shut up about how good looking, sweet, and...
    TeraLocura TeraLocura 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    kimcc11aa kimcc11aa 26-30, F Jan 20

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    kimcc11aa kimcc11aa 26-30, F Jan 20

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    I feel like most girls have this issue....some of us just lack the confidence to come out and say it. I am one of theses people, if I am attracted to someone I try to talk but fail...
    LittleAngelEl LittleAngelEl 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    I worked up the courage to ask the guy I like to the Sadie Hawkins dance today and he said yes :D I wrote him a poem rather than ask face-to-face and I stayed up until 3 AM last...
    CaitlinElizabeth815 CaitlinElizabeth815 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    It's the whole anatomy of a women that is just irresistible. They must be feminine.
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    when they talk about their passion and your just like TAKE ME!!!!!!! SO ATTRACTIVE they somehow make zombies and star trek attractive XD
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    Hymnguy Hymnguy 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 16

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    PhxAlx PhxAlx 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 13

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    mikaccaa mikaccaa 26-30, F Jan 12

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    mikaccaa mikaccaa 26-30, F Jan 12

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    This experience is basically about posting your best selfie knowing that you are going to get amazing responses but, you ask anyway... Do you think I'm attractive??? Rate me...
    beautybeyondforever beautybeyondforever 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    Physical pain doesn't last forever. Emotional pain does.
    CharryICT CharryICT 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    I just dated a guy for just about two months (and the two months started on the day we started talking). He was a great guy and we INSTANTLY clicked and everything felt sooo right...
    ambamx3 ambamx3 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 10

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    skyeccaa skyeccaa 26-30, F Jan 10

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