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I Must Attract Emotional Abusers

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    Another Abuser

    I left an emotionally abusive relationship over a year ago. It was really tough getting out of it and getting over it. I recently met someone else. I started getting red flags as to the things he was saying/doing. I put them aside but kept note. Should have probably ended things...
    Maureen3 Maureen3 31-35 3 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    Shot Through the Heart...again!

    i must have a sign on my forehead that says "men who like to mess with my head and heart line up here"..... well i seem to be in another relationship that has emotional and mental abuse written all over it. My boyfriend i believe,,is having an emotional breakdown of...
    prettyinpink prettyinpink 46-50, F 5 Responses Nov 15, 2007

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    Another Abuser

    I left an emotionally abusive relationship over a year ago. It was really tough getting out of it and getting over it. I recently met someone else. I started getting red flags as to the things he was saying/doing. I put them aside but kept note. Should have probably ended things...
    Maureen3 Maureen3 31-35 5 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    The Only Thing Constant In All My Failed Relationships Is Me

    I always seem to end up with my emotions all twisted.  It affects me in so many different ways.  It consumes me.  I feel like a fool and I always end up convincing myself that it's my fault - at least it feels like that. I'm still in a relationship but I...
    whydoi whydoi 46-50, M 3 Responses Dec 20, 2008

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    How ironic is this...my wife's emotional affair began on social media. And here I am using social media to help get through it.
    Mike405 Mike405 46-50, M 16 mins ago

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    I'm writing here because I feel like I don't have anyone in my life who cares enough to listen to my problem. The man I've fallen in love with is causing me extreme emotional pain...
    pandagirl09 pandagirl09 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 30

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    As opposed to what, dumb and stupid ones? This title just kills me. There should be a group called; "Im attracted to dumb and stupid women" Or guys for that matter. Surely there...
    diegodlavega diegodlavega 46-50, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My husband is currently having an emotional affair but in denial about it (shocker). I caught him, by emails, having a physical affair with a coworker about 6 months ago...
    welelm welelm 36-40, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Ok to the people who know me on EP what is my most attractive feature whether it be physically or emotionally outside or inside please comment :)
    xxSTEVE7xx xxSTEVE7xx 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 27

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    My dream is to be a modern day Casanova. I wanna have the ability to attract girls and connect with them on an emotional level. I know I wouldn't abuse the power, but that is my...
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz 18-21, M Dec 11

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    i m always attracted to those who seems distance, mysterious, hard to understand super good looking men. time to stop all that if i want my life to work for me. No matter how much...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F Dec 12

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    I knew I liked guys when I was 6 or 7. My parents divorced when I was 11 or 12. I grew up in a strict Pentecostal church and I had to hide my attraction. Almost every night I would...
    kohljohn kohljohn 26-30, M Dec 14

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    I feel as though in order to a certain level of attraction to happen, she must be able to have a certain level of intelligence and think for herself. There is nothing sexier than a...
    kenshininap kenshininap 22-25, M Dec 12

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    Hi, I'm an experienced online Master who is now looking for a new online Slave. I prefer you to be younger (under 21), and living in the UK. A smaller breasted girl preferred. Must...
    Yourmasters77 Yourmasters77 31-35, M Dec 5

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    today i was chatting with a girl.. she asked me if i was from sri lanka .. so i did a google search of my place and sent her the wikipedia link of the place.. since its holiday...
    sunnsood sunnsood 26-30, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I guess I can't quite say that I'm a survivor of emotional abuse since I am still in the relationship. By the time I knew what emotional abuse was or that it even existed I already...
    LOMD LOMD 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 22

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    Boo who? If you are too pretty then boo who! Must be tough
    cottonbreeze cottonbreeze 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 22

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    6 weeks on and this is how I am feeling now! And I am surviving and coming back stronger. I must be honest and say that it still hurts, like any wounds but it’s turned from...
    LindaMabelle LindaMabelle 36-40, F Nov 25

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    Am I, I am covering my mouth because I have a mustache
    bisexuwhale bisexuwhale 13-15, M Nov 29

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    I am about to open my heart completely in here. Today I am living one of the worst days of my life and yes. It's depression, this ghost that has been haunting my life for a long...
    Allaloneandpoisoned Allaloneandpoisoned 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    Am I?:) (post must be 25 characters)
    Phionette Phionette 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 30

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    Theirs this one girl that's really handsy and I sit their like why must you torment me and pleasure at the same time. She has problems.
    Kemile357 Kemile357 13-15, M 1 Response Dec 2

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    I believe in the law of attraction. I began my journey with reading The Secret. What a great book! This has many great stories of how successful the Law of Attraction really can...
    Saramore10 Saramore10 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    i dont have to be naked to get a mans attention, so I'm sorry little girl that your text messages and dirty pictures didn't hold him down, it must have been because of your lack of...
    Megan2134 Megan2134 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 5

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    coworker flirting or LIKES me I have been working at this new job for about 6 months and I have noticed this coworker has 'grown on me' and I am attracted to him. The thing...
    tee13gee tee13gee 41-45, F Dec 11

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    I want to know, I really do, but im pretty sure I already do know, theres gotta be a legit reason girls don't talk to me, this must be it
    jax632 jax632 16-17, M 2 Responses Dec 13

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    Always been attracted to guys double my age or more. I don't mean to diminish any guy around my age group or anyone within 10 years of me BUT its true I honestly am attracted to...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 24

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    Ever since I was 12 years old, I've had this attraction towards older guys. I remember thinking a few of my older teachers were insanely attractive, some an easy 20 years older...
    arianemariexx arianemariexx 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 26

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    I don't want to know if you think I'm attractive, I already know the answer. If you saw my photo you might say, "No, not attractive". Probably would say that. Ugly even. However...
    pcflvly pcflvly 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    lol funny group. Consider a girl in my class. I don't find her attractive but my friend does. At first, I didn't understand why this happens but now I realized that...
    ashrith ashrith 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Just for clarification, "older guys" is not synonymous with old men. The attraction comes from experience, maturity, stability and security. There also has to be a physical...
    DebbieG17 DebbieG17 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 26

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    Just a question for all of you here. This group says "I do you think I'm attractive Lol" What is the question??? Because I was just attacked in my experience for saying I...
    torrest1031 torrest1031 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 27

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    My ex told me that I am too emotional for him. I believe it to be honest I have been too emotional any advice on how to make myself less emotional ? Or at least control my emotions...
    tisbutascratch tisbutascratch 16-17, F Dec 6

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    Just recently there were an bunch of Arabs where I live from Qatar and they were the most attractive guys I have ever seen. They would all stare at me apparently because I'm fair...
    mrenae0211 mrenae0211 18-21, F Dec 7

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    I joined this experience, not because I am a victim of emotional abuse by somebody else, but because I am emotional abuse's victim. in other words, I am the emotional abuser. I...
    WeArePilots WeArePilots 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 11

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    well I'm back , and this time everything is not rainbows and flowers with my relationship . to make this short , my boyfriend thinks that I complain way too much now and that...
    bananasxoxo bananasxoxo 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I keep seeing people posting/asking if others find them attractive, and it's mostly young teens. It doesn't matter what others think, it's sad that you're asking because if people...
    StarBerryAdi StarBerryAdi 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 22

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    I have always been attracted to guys older than myself, ever since I can remember. I don't really know why, but it's part of who I am. I get a lot of hate and misunderstanding from...
    DrKittyNinjaBunny DrKittyNinjaBunny 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 24

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    Honestly I feel pretty creepy for it but I just would like to be with someone who is willing to embrace what is natural. I feel it is attractive because you don't have to be...
    coolsean1 coolsean1 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 25

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    I remember the first time I was attracted to a girl... I was 15 and she was my friend, a few years older than me. We were at camp, in a cabin, just talking with each other and...
    bellabird bellabird 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 26

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    I've never acted on it in any way and I don't plan to but I find my cousin to be rather attractive. She's pretty, she's smart, she's funny, and is a similar kind of strange. She's...
    PunkOfSteam PunkOfSteam 22-25, M Nov 27

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    Okay, I don't really know if this counts as emotional abuse or not but I want to let things out in a healthier way. My mother has 2 modes. Nice or mean. Nowadays, she's normally...
    Dove06 Dove06 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    Because I never believe them. I remember when I tried online dating (which only helped lower my self-esteem) this girl's profile said she doesn't care about what a guy looks like...
    AgentSickler AgentSickler 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 30

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    100% honest, do you think I'm attractive. Personally, I don't think I'm attractive lol but I don't really care about looks. (Disclaimer: I'm not looking for creepy old men to...
    123me321 123me321 13-15, F 9 Responses Dec 1

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    Is it human nature to be attracted to people that are "out of our league"? I tend to fall for the guys that are really attractive. I am certainly out of their league... Anyone else...
    obscureriddle obscureriddle 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 1

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