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I Must Attract Emotional Abusers

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    Another Abuser

    I left an emotionally abusive relationship over a year ago. It was really tough getting out of it and getting over it. I recently met someone else. I started getting red flags as to the things he was saying/doing. I put them aside but kept note. Should have probably ended things...
    Maureen3 Maureen3 31-35 3 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    The Only Thing Constant In All My Failed Relationships Is Me

    I always seem to end up with my emotions all twisted.  It affects me in so many different ways.  It consumes me.  I feel like a fool and I always end up convincing myself that it's my fault - at least it feels like that. I'm still in a relationship but I...
    whydoi whydoi 46-50, M 3 Responses Dec 20, 2008

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    Shot Through the Heart...again!

    i must have a sign on my forehead that says "men who like to mess with my head and heart line up here"..... well i seem to be in another relationship that has emotional and mental abuse written all over it. My boyfriend i believe,,is having an emotional breakdown of...
    prettyinpink prettyinpink 46-50, F 5 Responses Nov 15, 2007

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    Another Abuser

    I left an emotionally abusive relationship over a year ago. It was really tough getting out of it and getting over it. I recently met someone else. I started getting red flags as to the things he was saying/doing. I put them aside but kept note. Should have probably ended things...
    Maureen3 Maureen3 31-35 5 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    Why do I become emotionally attached to guys too soon/too easily or not at all? I've tried and tried to not be that way, but that seems to be the only way I fall for guys. If I don...
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    I have known this woman for 4 years now. She is someone who has been through a string of extreme emotional stresses. We seem to be able to talk to each other about anything and...
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    Who doesn't want to know the answer to this question. You must admit that you've longed to post on this subject; you've seen this topic and you've wondered who will find you...
    TheSmartestManOnEarth TheSmartestManOnEarth 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 30

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    There must be a gene in my genetic make up that constantly causes me to attract people that turn out to be pretty jacked up! I'm so sick of it! I am seriously seeking some medical...
    Freebabyy Freebabyy 46-50, F Jul 5

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    An open post to females 13-18 So many girls ask this question on EP. The pressure on your age group to be attractive must be exhausting. Thank you for making me aware of the...
    WizardOfAahs WizardOfAahs 41-45, M 12 Responses Jul 19

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    What to do... When you find yourself wanting to hold someone and tell them how much you love and care for them but they no longer seem to have the time how do you pretend it doesn...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 19

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    I really do believe that it works so my story starts last year the worst year of my life, went through hell and back so last year everything just went downhill there was just a lot...
    Cutestuff2 Cutestuff2 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    The example of Active skills is dual-strike – you hit your enemy with each weapons right away,they need player’s actions for activation, such skills should be places on your...
    rsgpfastgold rsgpfastgold 22-25, M Jul 2

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    I have always preferred the "nerdy"types. To qualify, I am pretty strict about the differences between nerds, geeks, and dorks (which is unbelievably nerdy in and of itself). I...
    NerdyGirl78 NerdyGirl78 36-40, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    How many times do we come across statements like, "I don't care about looks and I only care for what's inside." At the same time, you come across statements like, "I looked at her...
    finitenessofinfinity finitenessofinfinity 22-25, M Jun 30

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    Well I'm an older guy attracted to young women not girls. Before anyone jumps to conclusions and thinks I'm a pervert young woman and attraction need to be defined. For me the line...
    ADF37 ADF37 56-60 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I know by now everyone must be thinking "Omg Tatti just stfu already" but I like to vent on here so if you just want to pass by you can. Ah I feel drained. Idk before I was crying...
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I must be. It's all I'm getting
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F Jul 10

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    I think my younger sister is probably one of those people.. The way she emotionally manipulates people really bothers me, but I can't get away since I don't have money to move out...
    Riley218 Riley218 18-21, M Jul 12

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    I love a girl and I don't know but she's shy, never calls and ALWAYS wants me to make the first move. I know I'm the guy but it shouldn't be all the time. I've tried telling her...
    ereu ereu 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I definitely know I'm not ugly😁 I'm in a happy relationship But I'd like to know what you think of my looks (strange to strange).. Be as brutally honest as you must be 😂
    Unknownimus Unknownimus 18-21, F 26 Responses Jul 16

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    Well mostly everything I post upsets people to the 10th degree even though all I'm trying to do is share my honest concerns. It sure isn't easy being me, but I'm not 1 to complain...
    Sebastianblack Sebastianblack 26-30, M Jul 18

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    People who really know me know that I have a big heart underneath a tough shell. All of my life, I have felt the burden of emotions that I did not want. The primary offender is...
    MaunaLani13 MaunaLani13 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    It's the mustache isn't it?
    ComptePrive ComptePrive 22-25, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    I see all these posts of people asking others if they think they are pretty and I find it kind of strange. I do not care what a stranger thinks of my appearance. It has zero...
    str8uphustl3r str8uphustl3r 26-30, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I'm new and I keep seeing posts like this, by both men and women. I'll click on the post, and often it will be someone that I do think is attractive, sometimes it's someone that I...
    Varof Varof 18-21, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I don't remember when I figured out I was less emotional than others, but it's been a while. There are times when I've thought this to be something that empowered me. It was never...
    Twichl Twichl 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I like white guys but never been asked out by any white guys...........am I not attractive enough for guys outside my race? Im 23 and would love to date a guy outside my race as I...
    VickyLovey23 VickyLovey23 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 7

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    Jesus f-ucking Joseph and Mary, you're attractive already! Stop fishing for compliments and attention. You know you're attractive. Stop! It's annoying! It's even more attractive if...
    BigBlittleb123 BigBlittleb123 16-17, M 4 Responses Jul 13

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    My magical journey( based on book The magic" by Rhonda Byrne.(For attracting my perfect dream job) Day 6- Works like magic This is very useful exercise for the folks who are...
    TrueLoverN TrueLoverN 26-30, F Jul 17

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    I don't know if this counts as emotional abuse, I'm a 21 year old male. So if that matters in whether I am or I'm not I guess I have gender issues too. The Mother who raised me has...
    Nataliewoofwoof Nataliewoofwoof 18-21 1 Response Jul 18

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    I think this is a fun group to join.Like many, I have a healthy appreciation for beauty too, and no....nothing freaky like being celebrity obsessed...or being superficial in liking...
    LittleMinxx LittleMinxx 41-45, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My magical journey( based on book The magic" by Rhonda Byrne.(For attracting my perfect dream job) Day 13-MAKE ALL YOUR WISHES COME TRUE Today you make a list of 10 of your...
    TrueLoverN TrueLoverN 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I love both men and women of all types. Black, white, Asian, latin, skinny, big, tall, short, it doesn't matter. But I always had an attraction to females. It all started when I...
    msladyt757 msladyt757 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I can't explain why, but for as long as I can remember, I've been extremely attracted to amputees. If an attractive woman is missing a limb or two, she becomes ten times more...
    thatguythereoverhere thatguythereoverhere 26-30, M 7 hrs ago

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    I'm only 14. I've had depression, technically, since I was about 8 or 9 (when I realized just how big of an a**hole my dad was), but it's only been a problem for about a year or so...
    LaurenHarris LaurenHarris 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 28

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    life has always been emotional coaster ride for me as being emotional i can feel every emotion to the depth of it,happiness can be felt to the extreme like i m flying in air...
    happyhuman1 happyhuman1 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    Hey people do you think I'm attractive. I'm just wondering because no one has really called me attractive before
    bballfanatic223 bballfanatic223 16-17, M Jun 29

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    yes i accept that i am so emotional girl but i hide this from the other even from my life partner because i know if i will show this to any one they will start taking undue...
    brokenangelia brokenangelia 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    Hey everyone I like to think as myself as a very attractive guy 6'1 185. Very athletic. Brown hair blue eyes. I think I am bad with girls though. I'm pretty shy sometimes...
    SeanTyler SeanTyler 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 1

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    I'll keep it short and simple even though there's so much I can say. Basically, school has left my self esteem in the toilet because of the color of my skin and because of my...
    niamcmillan niamcmillan 13-15, F 11 Responses Jul 6

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    Lately I've been obsessed with men's hands. Really everything on an attractive guy is going to be attractive.
    XxJamberxX XxJamberxX 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    This will be my most personal story. It's not just about me, but I figured I should put everything in one place. This will be long, so anyone who actually wants to take the time to...
    lonachan lonachan 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    numbness lately I've been having the feeling that I don't feel anything at all and nothing is as quite as concealing as this emotional wall all these painful situations occurring...
    Nataliefosterdoglover Nataliefosterdoglover 26-30, F Jul 7

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