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I Must Attract Emotional Abusers

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    The Only Thing Constant In All My Failed Relationships Is Me

    I always seem to end up with my emotions all twisted.  It affects me in so many different ways.  It consumes me.  I feel like a fool and I always end up convincing myself that it's my fault - at least it feels like that. I'm still in a relationship but I...
    whydoi whydoi 46-50, M 3 Responses Dec 20, 2008

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    Another Abuser

    I left an emotionally abusive relationship over a year ago. It was really tough getting out of it and getting over it. I recently met someone else. I started getting red flags as to the things he was saying/doing. I put them aside but kept note. Should have probably ended things...
    Maureen3 Maureen3 31-35 3 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    Shot Through the Heart...again!

    i must have a sign on my forehead that says "men who like to mess with my head and heart line up here"..... well i seem to be in another relationship that has emotional and mental abuse written all over it. My boyfriend i believe,,is having an emotional breakdown of...
    prettyinpink prettyinpink 46-50, F 5 Responses Nov 15, 2007

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    Another Abuser

    I left an emotionally abusive relationship over a year ago. It was really tough getting out of it and getting over it. I recently met someone else. I started getting red flags as to the things he was saying/doing. I put them aside but kept note. Should have probably ended things...
    Maureen3 Maureen3 31-35 5 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    I've wondered for a long time if I am emotionally repressed to some degree. I feel as though I go through the motions of daily life, showing the emotions I am expected to show...
    emeraldfire2065 emeraldfire2065 26-30, F Mar 28

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    I am positive my attraction to older men stems from the fact that my own father who was "present" in my life but always chose every other kid in existence before me. I crave the...
    pearl26ab pearl26ab 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    I have deep emotional feelings and attraction to girls. Guys are cool to hang around with as friends but that's really it to me.
    imasweetheart imasweetheart 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    I am almost 25 years old. I am married and I have a beautiful 5 yr old daughter. My husband is handsome and perfect in almost every way possible. I have a beautiful 4 bedroom house...
    MrsRoker MrsRoker 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    But must stay to help pals. Must watch wealthy enslave us. And help pals cope. And feed hope of freed by humans. Or aliens. Because the subhumans got wealth. And...
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Apr 11

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    Really attracted to this guy that works at my school and my local gym...even though he's 6 years older than me and would never go for me. Why must this happen.
    veratreasure veratreasure 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Not entirely sure what to do. I have a boyfriend who I love, he's honestly amazing and my best mate. But girls transfix me. I am entirely obsessed with the female form, I have...
    lexyalias lexyalias 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 31

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    dalidacc11 dalidacc11 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I am but a mere drifter in the kaleidoscope of your musings. But I must halt against my nature and build a nest. If only to wonder at the elegance of your mind. Luminous words...
    urbannomad6699 urbannomad6699 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    Lol then I must be tore up
    Princeofnothing Princeofnothing 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    I wish my mustache would grow faster. Lmao
    touchtorelax touchtorelax 13-15, M 6 Responses Apr 4

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    I think I've scared a few people with my talk about the power of this law. It's so simple. Your thoughts create your life. It's as simple as that. We must really protect the...
    Questx Questx 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    How starved you must have been that my heart became a meal for your ego. Amanda Tonnoni
    Acid1 Acid1 70+, F 6 days ago

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    so today someone told me that they thought I was attractive. that took me by surprise but then again when someone tells me they think I am attractive I tend to laugh and walk away...
    lonelymom1982 lonelymom1982 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My emotions run on such overdrive that they burn out. Then I feel nothing. Then I feel everything. The official term is Emotionally Detached. I read these links and they fit me...
    ecofox ecofox 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    people are attracted to other people who are happy. So, smiling will inevitably make you more attractive, right? WRONG. Research has shown that men are more attracted to women...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 5

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    *REAL INTIMACY IS SHARED UNDERSTANDING OF THE OTHER PERSON* I could have chosen to write this post on "Intimacy is not Always Sexual", or "I Believe come to your life for a reason...
    KaleidoscopeMoment KaleidoscopeMoment 36-40, F 7 Responses Mar 25

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    I met my husband 9 years ago. We hit it off as friends immediately and although for him it was love at first sight it took me a couple months to agree to date him....mainly because...
    Sarmo84 Sarmo84 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I know I'm not really attractive, I'm a plus size girl. But I still wonder if to a certain kida guy I would seem attractive. I think I have a nice face, and I think I have...
    GeekGirl92 GeekGirl92 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I've been dating this guy for a few months and it has been great so far, we are still getting to know each other. We had a date planned a few nights ago and he never showed up...
    prettytwisted prettytwisted 22-25, F Apr 1

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    Let me start off by saying that i'm not into dating older guys - but I came to ask a question to the girls who are. How old was your father when you were born? How old is he now...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 5

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    I was physically, verbally and emotionally abused as a child...Im bipolar and have to deal with anixiety and depression issues..As an adult I was almost free from all of the abuse...
    serenityshadow serenityshadow 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 12

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    I am guy and I was once attracted to someone in my school i always try to shake that feeling off but it comes backl he was younger than me and he respected and trusted me but every...
    kofi7king kofi7king 13-15, M Apr 13

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    I want people to like me and find me attractive so I dress sexy all the time, show off my body and allow men and girls to touch me and use me cos it makes me feel good about myself...
    CheatingTracy CheatingTracy 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 15

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    The past month has been a huge change for me. I believe in a balance between four different aspects of humanity in order to achieve peace: emotional, physical, mental, and...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Attracted to people i cant have and not attracted to the people who are attracted to me :/
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I need advice from any former victims of high school bullying. I've been out of high school for about seven years now (class of '08), but I can't seem to stop dwelling on how I was...
    PassionEarth9 PassionEarth9 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Am from algeria am attracted to ho is attracted to arab guys :p
    Teedmozbie Teedmozbie 22-25, M Mar 30

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    Why do men who are attracted to women stare but don't smile yet stare for awhile.. It's not a welcome but rather the opposite and I can never understand why men do that. Yesterday...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 30

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    I enjoy having attractive friends who are confident. I am somewhat of an attractive woman and I enjoy going out without the feeling of judgment by other women. I want to be able...
    barbiegirl29 barbiegirl29 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 31

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    Emotional abuse is just as bad I think because it causes undue stress. Stress can kill you. It will cause you to make poor decisions. I am victimized at times even at the age of 3...
    jamielove7777 jamielove7777 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Emotional intimacy is incredibly important to me. For someone to connect with me on a deeper level and really understand who I am is more important to me than anything else...
    Superficialsaint Superficialsaint 31-35, F 12 Responses Apr 1

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    Four and a half years and it's finally over. I don't know how to feel. He was my first love, and everything to me. No matter how much hurt and pain I felt in the relationship, I...
    ChristinaWolf ChristinaWolf 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Many people SAY this but don't truly understand the concept. Deepak Chopra was the first author I read who mentioned it. Then of course it's what The Secret is all about. The law...
    Walkalone9000 Walkalone9000 51-55, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Being bi is new to me so when I find a female attractive it scares me and I can't make eye contact with her and I also can't speak to her or about the fact that I'm attracted to...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Apr 5

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    This wonderful kind man (so I thought)came into my life and charmed me beyond belief, he was so kind and emotionally supportive of me. But the criticism and threats of leaving me...
    meramera1 meramera1 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    i feel less attractive because am jealous that kim kardashian, nicki manji,etc even my own friend has a big butt and they have curves. even on the internet everyone is talking...
    dokotarose dokotarose 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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