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I Must Attract Emotional Abusers

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    Shot Through the Heart...again! - i must have a sign on my forehead that says "men who like to mess with my head and heart line up here"..... well i seem to be in another...
    prettyinpink prettyinpink 46-50, F 5 Responses Nov 15, 2007

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    Another Abuser - I left an emotionally abusive relationship over a year ago. It was really tough getting out of it and getting over it. I recently met someone else. I started...
    Maureen3 Maureen3 31-35 3 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    The Only Thing Constant In All My Failed Relationships Is Me - I always seem to end up with my emotions all twisted.  It affects me in so many different ways.  It...
    whydoi whydoi 46-50, M 3 Responses Dec 20, 2008

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    Another Abuser - I left an emotionally abusive relationship over a year ago. It was really tough getting out of it and getting over it. I recently met someone else. I started...
    Maureen3 Maureen3 31-35 5 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    Why did he take it all? I was not smart. I knew I was not smart because I was told that every day. Sometimes with words and sometimes it was said with a look or a certain shrug...
    NoDavid NoDavid 46-50 6 days ago

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    Why did he take it all? I was not smart. I knew I was not smart because I was told that every day. Sometimes with words and sometimes it was said with a look or a certain shrug...
    NoDavid NoDavid 46-50 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Recently, so many feelings have been going on inside of me and I don't know how to deal with them. I would write about them, use them for something that would come in handy, but...
    BeingAnAnglophile BeingAnAnglophile 16-17, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Many people ask why do you stay in an abusive relationship the answer to that is simple many times with emotional abuse you do not realize you're being abused because the abuser...
    jadelaoch jadelaoch 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    Through my experiences of the law of attraction, and my ability to make some sense of it all, i have created a new blog that helps others to understand and use the law of...
    themomentrepreneurs themomentrepreneurs 31-35, F 1 hr ago

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    I was with "him" for almost 30 years. In the beginning I did notice that he was somewhat controlling. Also he could be manipulative. However in those times these actions were...
    Freedom425 Freedom425 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    The name of this particular group is a misnomer because whether one believes in emotional connection or not, the fact of the matter is, it exists. I think what individuals do with...
    SimplyMarah SimplyMarah 31-35, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    my father mentally , physically, and emotionaly abused me as a child
    JamesB20 JamesB20 18-21, M 13 hrs ago

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    I am a man, and my wife is... it's hard to say it and feel like I'm really telling the truth, but she's my abuser. She treats my questions as though they have obvious answers...
    Felixthestoat Felixthestoat 18-21 2 Responses 39 mins ago

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    I try so hard to find a good guy who is just genuinely a good person but when I do find someone I can connect to I find I'm never attracted to them, they can be extremely good...
    wonderwall12 wonderwall12 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 6

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    Feeling sad and lost today :( My boyfriend had an emotional affair with a girl from work. We were on the verge of breaking up but supposed to be working things out. We'd been...
    melissamayhem melissamayhem 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    Honestly no one aside from family had ever told me that until I was about 18. I'd been holla'd at by guys in cars, but that's not the same at all. I was a weird kid. Not...
    NekroNomikon NekroNomikon 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    Girls are just better! I feel I'm so much more attracted to girls than guys emotionally and physically, they're just so sweet and beautiful ! I would love to have a girlfriend (:
    Glo1417 Glo1417 16-17, F 8 Responses a week ago

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    To complicate matters, I am also married. But I am madly attracted to a male coworker. We are both married teachers and have adjacent classrooms. I've known him for four years and...
    Keeks1 Keeks1 41-45 Mar 26

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    Older Men Like Younger Women as they are more vibrant, spontaneous and full of life. A survey of 2000 adults showed that only one percent of women preferred a relationship with a...
    likeyoungerwomen likeyoungerwomen 31-35, F Mar 31

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    At first glance the narcissist appears to the unsuspecting onlooker as being full of self-control; they come across as charismatic, educated, confidant, charming, and sociable...
    rcp10 rcp10 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    People have their own preferences. I would never exclude someone for not having all the things I am attracted to because a person is more than their looks but these are the things...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    no idea why , my friends think I am nuts but I always have . Must admit the skinny ones I have been with have all been well hung too LOL
    gillianlikes3 gillianlikes3 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    I love most genres of music. Its amazing how therapeutic music can be. It can soothe,console,comfort,completely change my mood. Its quite powerful when i think about it I have...
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F Apr 3

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    we are freshman in highschool, age 15, he's 16. at the beginning of our relationship he acted as if he didn't know me, he'd never sit with me at lunch, or ever try and spend time...
    katiebrooks005 katiebrooks005 13-15, F Apr 5

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    moving from over happy, to major rage, then rejected all in one day. Don't call or text and I think I have done something to upset you, to push you away, that must be why you don...
    mywastedlife mywastedlife 31-35, F Apr 9

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    I guess I can't have them because, I'm really not very attractive, and I often wonder who would be attracted to me. I have all kinds of preferences, and every once in a while, I...
    sturmgewher44 sturmgewher44 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    Before anything sexual happens I need to feel an emotional connection to her. I know this is soooo not a typical guy thing to say or way to be but I have gone into situations and...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I've always looked at myself in the mirror or photos and just thought eww.. I don't understand how some have said they find me attractive. To begin with its only happened like...
    Raven628 Raven628 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Like almost every woman, I'm attracted to the bad boys, not all, but some! It doesn't matter how old Kieffer Sutherland gets he's hot! From when he played in Stand By Me, The...
    rdhdstepchld rdhdstepchld 31-35, F Apr 7

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    I don't like it when I attract older men. It's really starting to bother me. As a 20 year old, my preference in men just does not include 40-60 year olds. I know there are women...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've never been attracted to any woman based solely on appearance. Physical beauty is only one part of what makes a woman attractive - you may like the body, but you can only love...
    DavidMetis DavidMetis 36-40, M Mar 18

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    By "attracted" I don't mean I want to **** you. I really probably don't. What I mean is that a man with a great mind can intrigue me enough to draw me in and keep me there for a...
    StellaStellar StellaStellar 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    For some guys its the T&A but for me the Hair goes to the top of the list just something about it. Its the first thing i notice about a woman, lighter hair attracts me more...
    xbl003x xbl003x 31-35, M Mar 19

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    AgeMeet.com is the #1 Age Gap Dating Site for younger women older men dating . It is Free to post & browse 550,000+ active members. We have been in the online dating business for...
    Junetangcc17 Junetangcc17 22-25, F Mar 20

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    Has anyone ever 'trained' their heart to not emotionally care? Blocking out heartache to the point of feeling absolutely no love, pain, guilt or anything that comes with love? One...
    Trainedheart Trainedheart 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    ... And I'm stuffed right now... The good vibe was indeed ephemeral. When I meet my man he's tired and cranky and we get into it a little. My mood becomes instantly dark. By the...
    dragonflEYEfly dragonflEYEfly 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    AgeMeet.com is the #1 Age Gap Dating Site for younger women older men dating . It is Free to post & browse 550,000+ active members. We have been in the online dating business for...
    fionacc11 fionacc11 26-30, F Mar 21

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    There isn't a topic for those already in a Emotionally Abusive relationship. So I decided to post what happened to me today: Before I begin, me and my partner have been together...
    SoAntagonistic SoAntagonistic 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I am very attracted to women. I guess that is why I am bisexual :) My 1st sexual experience, consensual experience, was with a woman, well with a girl I should say :) I do love...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F Mar 23

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    I don't know if "thugs" is the best term for my experience but.. I'm attracted to guys that I wish I wasn't. I'm attracted to criminals and drug addicts, guys with a lot if baggage...
    josieyup josieyup 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    Asian male here. I'm glad to know that we're not forgotten about. I'm attracted to all types but I always felt like no one was attracted to Asian men.
    GDlifestyle GDlifestyle 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    He cheated on me before and I forgave him, I still love him and I know he doesn't feel attracted to me. He can't even fake he feel sexually attracted to me, every time he triesits...
    Goardilla Goardilla 22-25, F Mar 27

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    You Are 70% Grown Up, 30% Kid Congratulations, you are definitely quite emotionally mature...
    RobertaS RobertaS 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    First of all, I am not a cutter, I am not suicidal, and never have been, I don't want to die. I want to live. But I am not living. I have been stuck in a unwanted role for the...
    CameraForEyes CameraForEyes 22-25, M Mar 30

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    I was in a emotional abusive relationship and I'm out of it now . My ex and I started dating freshman year of high school but we've known each other since 7th grade . He never used...
    Loving1234 Loving1234 16-17, F Mar 31

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    Married to a passive aggressive/narcissist-I have been with my husband for twenty years, married for fifteen. I use to think there was really something wrong with me. I'm 43 years...
    tmcmjc tmcmjc 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    Oké, so since I was like 8 years old I never was an attractive guy who was told he is pretty. Expect By family.. I actually was always the strange guy with weird looks and...