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I Must Attract Emotional Abusers

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    Another Abuser

    I left an emotionally abusive relationship over a year ago. It was really tough getting out of it and getting over it. I recently met someone else. I started getting red flags as to the things he was saying/doing. I put them aside but kept note. Should have probably ended things...
    Maureen3 Maureen3 31-35 3 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    Shot Through the Heart...again!

    i must have a sign on my forehead that says "men who like to mess with my head and heart line up here"..... well i seem to be in another relationship that has emotional and mental abuse written all over it. My boyfriend i believe,,is having an emotional breakdown of...
    prettyinpink prettyinpink 46-50, F 5 Responses Nov 15, 2007

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    Another Abuser

    I left an emotionally abusive relationship over a year ago. It was really tough getting out of it and getting over it. I recently met someone else. I started getting red flags as to the things he was saying/doing. I put them aside but kept note. Should have probably ended things...
    Maureen3 Maureen3 31-35 5 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    The Only Thing Constant In All My Failed Relationships Is Me

    I always seem to end up with my emotions all twisted.  It affects me in so many different ways.  It consumes me.  I feel like a fool and I always end up convincing myself that it's my fault - at least it feels like that. I'm still in a relationship but I...
    whydoi whydoi 46-50, M 3 Responses Dec 20, 2008

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    Yesterday the brother of the man i am in love with said i 'abuse' people verbally, including him and his brother. it has upset me bcs i have been verbally abused in my lifetime a...
    hayleyusa hayleyusa 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    So last year i started to get in Law of attraction last year and wasn't even paying attention that I was. I attracted a job after three months of not having one. i was able to...
    ArtofFashion ArtofFashion 22-25, F May 12

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    I find nerdy guys really attractive. It's a big turn ON for me the intelligence they posses. That kind of quality is really on top of my list, for the kind of man that I want to be...
    nbsbgal nbsbgal 22-25, F 1 Response May 15

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    ive been in five relationships and still in my fifth. the only time i ever seem to be attractive is if im taken. every time someone says they find me attractive my heart stops. why...
    twoinnerwolves twoinnerwolves 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    1. Intelligence 2. An open mind 3. Kindness 4. Belief in racial and social equality.5. Empathy 6. A strong set of moral values 7. Seeing matters in shades of grey instead of black...
    Fuzzies Fuzzies 56-60, M Apr 28

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    I know I'm not that old but sometimes I find I am attracted to younger women. You know when you met someone out somewhere and you don't know how old they are and find out that...
    KindEyesCanSee KindEyesCanSee 22-25, M May 14

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    Long old week and the tide has Grommit in its clutches. She's up and bouncy and then wailing. Tad exhausting to be around. Gentle with myself this morning. Then a potter...
    grommit3 grommit3 36-40, F May 13

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    I read many posts about Intelligence in EP. Yes, everyone loves intelligence but one must possess Wisdom to use that intelligence . without wisdom intelligence is nothing . P.S...
    egoisticwizard egoisticwizard 22-25, M 1 Response May 17

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    I must admit when I am walking through the town centre I look at a lot of people and jealous of how attractive they are.
    Englishandproud Englishandproud 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    What makes you attractive? But beauty is not the only thing that makes people attractive. There are many people out there with slightly better than average looks who are a magnet...
    birdsrestingonabranch birdsrestingonabranch 22-25, F 2 Responses May 9

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    I've never done something like this before. I've been brought up to be cautious of the Internet, to be careful, but I'm tired of being silent. For all my life, I've lived with my...
    007Collegegirl 007Collegegirl 18-21, F 3 Responses May 6

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    Hi I go by Fruity punch on here.I would like to share a personal story from my experience with my mother.Let me start back when I was younger for you to understand the emotional...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 1 Response May 13

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    sarahccaa sarahccaa 26-30, F May 18

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    sarahccaa sarahccaa 26-30, F May 18

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    sarahccaa sarahccaa 26-30, F May 18

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    Janetccaa Janetccaa 26-30, F May 18

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    Janetccaa Janetccaa 26-30, F May 18

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    Janetccaa Janetccaa 26-30, F May 18

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    All my dad's family are toxic. I am not sure why but in the end it only makes me sad that they live like this. It's all they know, to be filled with such limited experiences and...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 1 Response May 5

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    I always want a mature partner, but I did not meet any in my life . One day my firend told me dating sites may help me. So I tried some, OH, Yes! Finally, I found a mature handsome...
    Jojo009 Jojo009 26-30, F 2 Responses May 8

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    What I love about men is the things that make you different from women. I love the fact that you're bigger than me, and can enclose me in your arms, totally envelope me in your...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 24 Responses May 12

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    Hi I go by fruity punch on here.I would like to share personal experience that happen to me with my parents.When I was growing up I was emotionally abused and verbally abuse by my...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 May 14

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    I hate everyone of my family members. I hate my father for he is self centered , dominating, abusive, manipulative and cunning. I hate my mother for she is illiterate, shallow...
    ithinkithink ithinkithink 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    In all honesty, why does this experience exist? Have we gotten to such a low point that we need to be told if we are attractive or not. I understand if you are maybe feeling self...
    chasetheweirdo8 chasetheweirdo8 13-15, M 6 Responses May 15

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    Phyche , I want to know if you think You're attractive ? I'm so sick of the Am I attractive post. Most of the people are attractive. Maybe they don't know, not really sure. I...
    curly2 curly2 22-25, F 3 Responses May 15

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    If I were attractive, wouldn't I attract people? I've never been on a date because no one has ever asked me out on one. My pictures attract men here on the net but I don't want an...
    PrettyFatUnicorn PrettyFatUnicorn 22-25, F 1 Response May 9

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    I'm curious. I find piercings and blue hair attractive. But do other people? I love my blue hair and eyes. What is your type? Is it me? Or someone totally opposite? What attracts...
    bbybleu bbybleu 16-17, F 3 Responses May 13

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    How do you not know?! If people find you attractive, you KNOW. I don't understand this whole notion of asking people. Besides attraction is all relative. I have found men extremely...
    tornadowinds tornadowinds 46-50, F 2 Responses May 16

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    Does anyone else out there need to be told that they are sexy in order to feel sexy? I know I do. I put in a lot of work on my appearance, and, in the past, it's paid off. But...
    quirkygirl520 quirkygirl520 22-25, F May 18

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    I don't call it art........... I call it a plan.. I got into it because I love spaceships and new vehicles and new ideas, I was sick of cars and how they all look the same. Now I...
    Denzebarrrn Denzebarrrn 18-21, M Apr 27

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    I’ve always put so much of my anger onto my dad and how he treated me, but sometimes I think that is misplaced. First, I don’t have a pity party for myself most of the time...
    EverlyAnn EverlyAnn 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    You would always tell me that emotional and mental abuse were never real, that it was always something I was imagining. You would tell me I'm overreacting or throwing a fit all...
    OhNeekaMaraj OhNeekaMaraj 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    nunupanda-just joined today, posted a picture stolen from the web, asking if "she is attractive or not"...I don't get it... Maybe you should ask yourself what exactly you gain by...
    randompersonn11 randompersonn11 36-40, M 3 Responses Apr 30

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    I've always known I was attracted to girls as well as guys even at a young age, I even had my first kiss with a girl when I was 5. I haven't done anything with a girl since then...
    chubbyblkgirl chubbyblkgirl 18-21, F 6 Responses May 2

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    I met a man on Ashley Maddison. He lives 2.5 hrs away and when I went on that website I didn't really know what I wanted or what I was looking for. I knew that I was tired of...
    brileytallis brileytallis 26-30 1 Response May 9

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    I am lost... I recently reliesed that I am being emotionally abused by my mother. I know that saying I only reliesed this at 18 sound crazy, but to me the way she spoke to me and...
    Anonymous055 Anonymous055 18-21, F May 17

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    A girl that can think, talk, cook, and do calculus. is extremely attractive and also athletic not only is that attractive also seduces m