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I Must Attract Emotional Abusers

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    The Only Thing Constant In All My Failed Relationships Is Me

    I always seem to end up with my emotions all twisted.  It affects me in so many different ways.  It consumes me.  I feel like a fool and I always end up convincing myself that it's my fault - at least it feels like that. I'm still in a relationship but I...
    whydoi whydoi 46-50, M 3 Responses Dec 20, 2008

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    Shot Through the Heart...again!

    i must have a sign on my forehead that says "men who like to mess with my head and heart line up here"..... well i seem to be in another relationship that has emotional and mental abuse written all over it. My boyfriend i believe,,is having an emotional breakdown of...
    prettyinpink prettyinpink 46-50, F 5 Responses Nov 15, 2007

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    Another Abuser

    I left an emotionally abusive relationship over a year ago. It was really tough getting out of it and getting over it. I recently met someone else. I started getting red flags as to the things he was saying/doing. I put them aside but kept note. Should have probably ended things...
    Maureen3 Maureen3 31-35 5 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    Another Abuser

    I left an emotionally abusive relationship over a year ago. It was really tough getting out of it and getting over it. I recently met someone else. I started getting red flags as to the things he was saying/doing. I put them aside but kept note. Should have probably ended things...
    Maureen3 Maureen3 31-35 3 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    sadeccaa sadeccaa 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 12

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    sadeccaa sadeccaa 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 12

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    mythlover mythlover 13-15, F 6 Responses Feb 28

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    I've always been attracted to guys older than me. There is just something about them. I usually only like them 3-6 years older but... My mum has this social friend, I see him most...
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    Selfie now... Mustache me a question...
    RedThatDescribesMe RedThatDescribesMe 18-21, F 29 Responses Mar 9

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    I don't currently have a boyfriend but to be honest, I have dated several boys over the years since high school just because they had cute soft ticklish bare feet. To be in a...
    FootTicklingPrincess FootTicklingPrincess 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 12

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    Not too infrequently I see really beautiful, sweet and sexy girls when I'm out walking. It leaves me wondering, is she single or is she in a relationship? Does she find me...
    Resoner Resoner 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    The most destructive emotional abuse is the emotional abuse we learned to inflict upon ourselves. We formed our core relationship with self in early childhood and have been...
    sweetartventure sweetartventure 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I must not be that cute lol. Been single since '99 :p
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    i have seen many handsome boys eyes brighten when they see me.i am mostly on my own.i don't give them a single hint in order to attract them nor do i dress like a fashionista.but...
    jez999 jez999 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    First off, in case you hadn't noticed my display pic, I'm female. I recently noticed this tomboy coworker of mine since we bump into each other every day. I haven't really spoken...
    lilgracie5 lilgracie5 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    I just want to crawl in a hole today. I left my emotionally abusive husband over five years ago, and yet I'm still dealing with the aftermath of his bullsh*t. The really hard...
    beesknees12 beesknees12 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 10

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    "The dance that we learn as children - the repression and distortion of our emotional process in reaction to the attitudes and behavior patterns we adopt to survive in an...
    sweetartventure sweetartventure 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My emotions run on such overdrive that they burn out. Then I feel nothing. Then I feel everything. The official term is Emotionally Detached. I read these links and they fit me...
    ecofox ecofox 22-25 18 hrs ago

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    Its true, I've always had a bit of a self esteem issue....and can be quite critical of myself, with the last serious relationship I had....my ex boyfriend said I was the ideal...
    sistahgirl39 sistahgirl39 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    hello for every girl and guy out there , asking m I attractive ?? m I beautiful ?? m I handsome ?? my answer to all yes you all are. to be beautiful and attractive you don't...
    superbatman superbatman 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 11

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    ....I disagree! I think we're all attractive! Just not always to each other. If you are at school, and don't feel attractive. I'll bet you ANYTHING there's somebody in your year...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Mar 14

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    Last year I was attracted to someone I couldn't have - he was in a relationship, and I am married. It was a professional relationship that had become close. It ended late last...
    gypsypearl gypsypearl 61-65, F 3 days ago

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    If you're reading this please explain to me what emotional abuse is. I think I'm just now noticing my last relationship wasn't just physical but emotional too.... I have a...
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    KaleidoscopeMoment KaleidoscopeMoment 36-40, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't no if im attractive I really don't think I am like ive never been told im cute or pretty or sexy all anyone ever says to me is im dumb or stupid or ugly so ya I really don...
    laura1303 laura1303 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 27

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    I used to think emotional and physical intimacy were two parts of the same thing. I know now that I was wrong. Being single I've learned that I need emotional intimacy more than...
    padraig17325 padraig17325 51-55, M Feb 27

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    Very attractive. This is the first thing I notice. I notice it all how they use their mouth. How their teeth look and could I see myself kissing them. If I'm attracted of course.
    loczgrl loczgrl 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 28

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    The question shouldn't be do "you" think I'm attractive, really it should be do "I" think I'm attractive
    atay98 atay98 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 1

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    On March 31 2015 will be 7 years that I've been married. I'm almost 32. I married my husband after knowing him for 1 year. I knew from the moment we went on our first date (we met...
    cubangem83 cubangem83 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 1

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    I know it not really normal for a women of colour to be attracted to an Asian man but I've always been attracted to them
    Dani3445 Dani3445 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    HE drives me wild. His voice makes me so aroused. His personality and character make me want him more with each passing day. How I've gone my 36 yrs without this man, I don't know...
    ifoundhim ifoundhim 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 8

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    lol? its funny because half of these photos are FAKE!!!!!!!! one dude just tried to trick me into thinking that he was Austin Mahone. damn, Do you honestly think I am that dumb...
    ThatOneSomaliGirl ThatOneSomaliGirl 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 13