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I Must Attract Emotional Abusers

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 62 People

    Another Abuser

    I left an emotionally abusive relationship over a year ago. It was really tough getting out of it and getting over it. I recently met someone else. I started getting red flags as to the things he was saying/doing. I put them aside but kept note. Should have probably ended things...
    Maureen3 Maureen3 31-35 3 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    Another Abuser

    I left an emotionally abusive relationship over a year ago. It was really tough getting out of it and getting over it. I recently met someone else. I started getting red flags as to the things he was saying/doing. I put them aside but kept note. Should have probably ended things...
    Maureen3 Maureen3 31-35 5 Responses Dec 24, 2008

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    The Only Thing Constant In All My Failed Relationships Is Me

    I always seem to end up with my emotions all twisted.  It affects me in so many different ways.  It consumes me.  I feel like a fool and I always end up convincing myself that it's my fault - at least it feels like that. I'm still in a relationship but I...
    whydoi whydoi 46-50, M 3 Responses Dec 20, 2008

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    Shot Through the Heart...again!

    i must have a sign on my forehead that says "men who like to mess with my head and heart line up here"..... well i seem to be in another relationship that has emotional and mental abuse written all over it. My boyfriend i believe,,is having an emotional breakdown of...
    prettyinpink prettyinpink 46-50, F 5 Responses Nov 15, 2007

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    I think smoking cigarettes is like the most attractive thing anyone could do! Everything about cigarettes and being a smoker is so incredibly attractive. I'm a very heavy smoker...
    GirlyBoy6969 GirlyBoy6969 26-30, T 1 hr ago

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    The trouble with emotional abuse is, it leaves no visible scars. You can't prove it. Iv'e managed to escape my abusers, but escaping the lingering feelings of worthlessness and...
    GraceJediHeart GraceJediHeart 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Sex without an emotional connection is just fornication. Emotional intimacy means that you see each other on a soul level, that you communicate at a heart level and that you allow...
    fr33bird fr33bird 51-55, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    exacly I don't know why, But I am attracted by older and curvaceous Women..it's a strong attraction!! ??
    claps87 claps87 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    How do you deal with an emotional manipulator when it's your own sibling and you live with them? Constant struggle for happiness around her. And she doesn't even seem to care about...
    Ashhcue303 Ashhcue303 18-21, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    How To Turn Six Dollars Into Six Thousand Dollars: I found this on a bulletin board and decided to try it. A little while back I was browsing through newsgroups just like you are...
    manusundr manusundr 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    How To Turn Six Dollars Into Six Thousand Dollars: I found this on a bulletin board and decided to try it. A little while back I was browsing through newsgroups just like you are...
    manusundr manusundr 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    Its weird cause I get compliments on my appearance frequently but I really don't see it. Its not that I even think I'm ugly I'm just rather average. And it sucks because I see fine...
    Overtherainbow66 Overtherainbow66 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Hi everyone, I am very new to this group. I recently come to know about the law of attraction. Here I want to explain about a treagdy happened in my life.. About 5 months ago i...
    vipanvirdi vipanvirdi 36-40, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hmm. Being confident is something learned... Thinking you're attractive is another ballpark. I think you can be unattractive but still confident. Just don't be cocky. Stay humble...
    kiMiiLe kiMiiLe 26-30, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    Yes, truth be told that they must make me laugh and think at the same time. If they aren't funny then I am not interested. And I am talking about Weird Al kind of off-the-wall...
    piscesdame piscesdame 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I've never verbally told anyone about my depression or emotional abuse due to the extreme sensitivity of the topics. But within the next week that's gonna change because I have to...
    Hipstercatlover Hipstercatlover 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    alicacc11 alicacc11 26-30, F Aug 19

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    alicacc11 alicacc11 26-30, F Aug 19

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    am i attractive? :) I MUST KNOW
    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Aug 17

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    Okay, I think I need to be specific. It's not just the age that attracts me to these men, so no, I do not want messages from random old men who think I will automatically be...
    TeraLocura TeraLocura 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    Hi to whoever is reading this. How's your day? :) I gotta say.. Why ask people this question when it's more exciting if someone just randomly told you, out of the blue, that you...
    musicvideographer musicvideographer 31-35, M Aug 15

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    Anger is not something to be ashamed of. Anger is a natural response to injustice and can help break the cycle of abuse. Anger is a crucial part of recovery. Two weeks ago on 7/31...
    wowodeals wowodeals 26-30, F Aug 15

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    allisoncc11 allisoncc11 26-30, F Aug 13

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    allisoncc11 allisoncc11 26-30, F Aug 13

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    allisoncc11 allisoncc11 26-30, F Aug 13

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    Very emotionally tired. Sometimes it feels as if my mind is going a mile a minute. So much going on, so much to do, 3 kids to take care of and not knowing where to turn. Feeling...
    ButtercupBrown15 ButtercupBrown15 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 13

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    It is very attractive... if it is a real smile, it lights up the eyes, the space around you, and changes a person's look tremendously. It also changes how others perceive you...
    comeonletsgo comeonletsgo 61-65, M Aug 12

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    eioncc11 eioncc11 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I was in an emotionally abusive relationship with some physical outbursts under financial domination. I suffered from posttraumatic stress disorder from the relationship with...
    myownbox myownbox 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 11

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    Yes! Why do men shave? What woman wants a clean shaven man? NOT me. I love the Duck Dynasty or Wolverine look... The least I want a man to have is a gootee... Maybe just a...
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    I just wanna say that, its a small rant dont worry, that just because some people didn't/don't find attractive DOES NOT mean you are not attractive, you are!! You are being judged...
    Sublevarse Sublevarse 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I find all women attractive but I just find my own race of women attractive. I'm not trying to sound racist but I just prefer my own face. Black women. Yummy :-)
    pml94 pml94 18-21, M Aug 9

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    Physical and emotional pain are often compared with each other and people argue about which one is worse. I personally think that emotional pain wins it hands down. Physical pain...
    Drastine Drastine 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 8

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    And I'm really starting to realize it for the first time. I've lived my whole life thinking I loved women exclusively, despite feeling like that might be different if I was...
    mickitg mickitg 41-45, T 1 Response Aug 8

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    I see a lot of beautiful girls and great looking guys who get all of the girls, both not so attractive and very attractive and then there's just me. even if I did lose some weight...
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M Aug 7

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    One of which is currently happening. xD Alright people, ever noticed that when you're in immense pain, whether it be internal or external, your emotions seem more at the surface...
    WindsomeFlurry WindsomeFlurry 26-30 1 Response Aug 7

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    I am definitely on a different path then the people I have been meeting lately. As much as I love sex, I want to be emotionally attached to the person. I want a connection with...
    ButtercupBrown15 ButtercupBrown15 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I have dated before, but I have only dated boys my age. I used to think it was such a big deal, but as our relationships started going downhill, I realized that I wanted more. I...
    kaylih kaylih 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 6

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    I've spent years watching and listening to the people who don't find themselves attractive, even when they are absolutely stunning, and it drives me insane. I have severe...
    DammitDamien DammitDamien 22-25, M Aug 5

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    i fight and fight, stay as strong as i can hoping that i will see a change for the better. that there really is a light at the end of the tunnel. that when one door closes several...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 5

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    I'm not sure how to word this, but it's something that has repeatedly been brought to my attention over the past few months. I cannot describe everything due to some aspects being...
    ForeverIsOver ForeverIsOver 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 5

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