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I Must Obey My Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 563 People

    How Do You Become Submissive?

    I am new to this site, and I have recently told my husband of 10 yrs that I want to be submissive to him. I am already completely submissive to him in the bedroom, but I want to further that into our everyday lives. But, how do you become completely submissive to your spouse? I'm...
    shaydiepie shaydiepie
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Sep 8, 2013

    I am going to experience my first spanking ever

    with a paddle and a strap what should i expect.
    78anyomous 78anyomous
    2 Responses Feb 6, 2015

    I Don'T Have To I Just Do.

    How? I listen to him. Plain and simple as that. I don't wait till I'm humiliated or had the living Jesus spanked out of me. I won't even accept being beaten; I've got my rights. I've got the right to earn my respect as well as he should earn my respect and being humiliated or...
    Adragon25Tala Adragon25Tala
    61-65, F
    3 Responses Mar 4, 2013

    Disobedience NOT Tolerated.

    It started out at 4am, my husband was literally about to leave for work, he remembered that he left his glasses in our 2 year olds room the night before. He had just done the same thing yesterday morning and I had to go get them because he couldn't find them. Well this morning...
    girvingtree girvingtree
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 6, 2013

    What I Wished It Had Been.

    My husband insited he was the HOH. However he didnt do all that is involved in this.He wanted to be in charge demanded he was in charge. I did my best to allow him to be in charge. However he wanted me to agree with everything. If he brought up something to me I would usally ask...
    notspankedenough505 notspankedenough505
    41-45, F
    1 Response Mar 12, 2013

    My Punishment

    My husband and I have been going back and forth on his strong desire/demand for me to be submissive. I've tried but had been fighting him on this.  Finally, he started to spank me three times a day followed by my giving oral sex to him on my knees.  By establishing...
    Learning2bsubmissive Learning2bsubmissive
    41-45, F
    32 Responses Apr 7, 2010

    For The Love Of One Man

    For the love of one man, I will treat him as my king. I will honor and obey him till the end f everything. I will worship and adore him for he's my one true love. I will never dis respect the gift given from up above. I know this whole thing may seem corny and silly at first...
    Klt3shottie Klt3shottie
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 12, 2010

    How Do I Get My Hoh To Be More Severe In My Punishment?

    We have been in the D/D relationship for almost a year. He does spank me. He uses a belt most of the time. On a few occasons he uses a huge piece of rubber that goes on cars. That thing HURTS. He can hit me with the belt 50X and it does not hurt as bad as 10 with the strap. The...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses May 21, 2012

    Should Have...

    The other day I lost my wedding ring. This made my daddy husband very upset. He has told me numerous times not to remove my wedding band ever but I take it off at night anyway. He has given me many warnings that he would spank me if I did not obey him on this but always gave me a...
    JosesBabyGirl JosesBabyGirl
    41-45, F
    Nov 18, 2012

    Being His Wife

    When a girl gets married, she has to understand that her behavior, dress, actions and so on reflect on her husband. A wife honors her husband by being the wife he wants her to be. I'm fortunate in theat my husband gives me specific instruction in what he thinks is appropriate for...
    mrsrachelle mrsrachelle
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 15, 2010

    Advice Please - Newly Submissive

    Hi. I am a very newly submissive wife. Like most of us, I keep this choice to myself. I have told my husband that he is boss now and any decisions are his. Told him I am his for whatever and whenever he wants to take me and I will never tell him no again and will not nag him any...
    Hav1 Hav1
    46-50, F
    9 Responses Jan 23, 2013

    Why The Double Standard.

    It is interesting to me that there are some, who for some reason say they will not obey their husband or that it is somehow degrading. That they don't understand how anyone can give up control of their-selves and give their lives to some one else. This is to those who ask this...
    deleted deleted
    12 Responses Mar 16, 2011

    A Woman Should

    "Stand before your God, bow before your king, and kneel before your man." Nanny Ogg (Discworld character)
    yellowmeenie yellowmeenie
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 20, 2012

    Deployment Reunion Anticipating Discipline

    Long before I knew anything about the Domestic Discipline community, I knew that spanking was what I needed. I am a very strong willed woman and am sometimes given to bad behavior and outbursts. I tried to share my needs with my first husband. He ridiculed me for wanting...
    histospank histospank
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 7, 2010

    Poultry Paid The Price For My Obedience

    My husband and I both got a bit of a laugh out of this, so I am sharing here in hopes you will, too. I discovered this website a few years ago, and after a flurry of initial reading and posting one story, I sort of forgot about it. A week ago when I was trying to think of a...
    sweetsubmissivewife sweetsubmissivewife
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 19, 2013

    The Beginning Of Obeying My Husband!

    My husband Is a real big strong guy, and He loves to be in charge so almost one week ago, i had a fetish of him being in charge. So i told him about it, and he loved it so we decided that we should do it all the time. He tells me what to do, and i love it. It makes me feel like...
    taylersmith16 taylersmith16
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 17, 2011

    Good Wife..

    what man is not dreaming of a good wife that knows her place...the excitement lies in how to get her to find dont force anything by aggression or making her dream of something give her the best you have as a man and enclose her in your heart and mind and you...
    asmodean1980 asmodean1980
    31-35, M
    1 Response Mar 16, 2012

    This Is My Story

    Hello, this is a new experience for me I usually don’t revile the embarrassing things that occur in my life; this is the power of anonymity. I feel confident enough to tell you my first name is Shelly and I am twenty four years old, my incident started here actually, my husband...
    tatsumaki tatsumaki
    2 Responses Mar 27, 2012

    Maintenance--- Must Remember To Keep Hands Out Of The Way

    This week Ive been receiving my first ever maintenance spankings every morning. It has not been fun. We know now that we have to do a warm up spanking first because my skin will break really easy if we don't. And that I have no self discipline when it comes to staying still. I...
    girvingtree girvingtree
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2013

    Asking For It.

    Just the other day my husband and I were out at a restaurant having dinner. I had been in a horrible mood the whole day, and I was still being bratty while we were having our dinner. My husband kept telling me, you need to adjust your attitude before I have to do it for you. I...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 15, 2012

    Nine Times Out Of Ten We Won'T Agree.

    It is said the man is responsible for everything his wife says and does. I disagree; I disagree based upon the fact she's an adult. For example; he tells her to do a sick act and she does it she should be held responsible for her actions. My stance is this. She should have...
    Adragon25Tala Adragon25Tala
    61-65, F
    Mar 10, 2013

    My Husband is king of his castle.

    Before I surrendered to my Husband we were fighting a lot. You can't have a team without a captain or so it seems, you just get conflict and tears because one of you always wants to be in charge. I realise now that men are created to have power over women in the same way that...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset
    36-40, F
    12 Responses Aug 4, 2010

    Well we are a few weeks

    now into DD and it's amazing My husband has stepped up and keeping me in line. My health is improving with the exercise and strict diet he has put into the rules (I do live on a farm so there is no excuse for dingdongs instead of an apple lol) and he is beginning to curb my...
    mymasterwants mymasterwants
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Oct 21, 2014

    I Love My Hubby Being In Charge!

    I think a better name for the group may be "I choose to obey"....I am not forced into anything.  So many women have this backward thinking that women who allow their husbands to be the head of the household are somehow weak.  Wrong-It takes alot of...
    biblesex biblesex
    26-30, F
    22 Responses Oct 24, 2008

    Obey? I Thought It Was Submit!

    Now I get it! I'm just like all the other women who wants to fix her marriage through biblical means or otherwise (fascinating womanhood). I knew all about the scripture that says the husband is the head and the wife is to submit, but to obey? well that is submission right? and...
    tmama69 tmama69
    2 Responses Aug 5, 2011

    My First Experience With My Hubby

    Hello again, I would like to write about the couple of experiences I have had sense the first story I wrote, however I feel that if I give a background story that it will better explain my tolerance for the occurrence. I have been with my husband for ten years now; I just turned...
    tatsumaki tatsumaki
    3 Responses Mar 28, 2012

    With Pleasure

    I am owned by my husband as I believe that women need the firm hand of an intelligent man to lead them. Early on in our relationship it was made clear that he would be in charge; I am respected by his word is final. Knowing his word is final has saved us many times from petty...
    angelofobedience angelofobedience
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Sep 6, 2013

    Hey, straight M 21 dominator here.

    I'm looking for a long term F slve/subbie to control and use for my own pleasure. Any girl interested? K.i.k. : evilgeek23
    evilgeek23 evilgeek23
    Apr 19, 2016

    I've always obeyed my husband,

    I took those vows when we married & its the way we live. I never question his word or his decisions. It was the way I was raised & I know my place.
    Shelley79 Shelley79
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 6, 2015

    Have dinner ready. Plan ahead,

    even the night before to have a delicious meal ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jun 21, 2014

    It's A Personal Choice

    My choice to obey my husband is a personal one, my husband is a wonderful and caring man so caring for him and obeying him is my pleasure but sometimes there are bad times and I have to remember that my obedience to him is paramount all though sometimes it hurts and things may...
    hhue hhue
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Oct 1, 2010

    4am Wake Up

    So my HOH desided that it would be best if I had a 4am wake up. He is up at 345am every morning for work. I normally get up at 630-7am. Get the kids ready for school ect. But he asked me if he think I will benefit from such a early wake up. As much as I hate getting out of bed...
    silencedshy silencedshy
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Mar 21, 2013

    Men Who Want Their Wives To Bow Their Heads, Close Their Eyes, Zip Their Lips And Hold Out Their Hands As They Lead Then From Pillar To Post

    Yes I do know women who literally do this. They won't even suggest to go any place; their husbands decide, when, where and how long. If you want you can invite them to your home but they won't come unless; their husbands decide they want to visit your husband (in the case of the...
    Adragon25Tala Adragon25Tala
    61-65, F
    1 Response Mar 9, 2013

    My husband and I are new at this.

    We have been married 24 years and honestly I have been hoping someday this would become our way of life. We were "saved" many years ago and I wanted to then but he has issues taking charge. Today he spanked me 4 times for the first time ever. He has asked me to not wear panties...
    mymasterwants mymasterwants
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Oct 2, 2014

    I Love Submitting To Him

    I recently fell in love .....i am a nympho unless imin love...i met him through through a lovely girl who i was girlfriends and lovers submissive natureto men displayed itself through our first meeting where she argued when he told her to use ashtray and not a can i...
    Calibred510 Calibred510
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 10, 2013

    Looking For A Christmas Tree

    Hubby decided he wanted to a get a real christmas tree this year. I am not a fan of them because they make such a mess in the house. He decides we would go looking for one, so before we go he gives me a reminder spanking so that I am not rude to him or anyone else while we are...
    spankedhousewife spankedhousewife
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Dec 17, 2011

    Obeying My Husband Is The Only Way For Me.

    I read someone elses story and that made me want to share mine. I too absolutely obey my husband. It is not abusive, it is my choice and one of the greatest decisions In have ever made. My husband is in total control of our marriage and this has worked wonderfully for over 15...
    6 Responses Sep 28, 2012

    Loving The Feeling Of Being Good And Doing What I'm Told.

    I am doing house work and getting caught up on other chores. It is turning me on to know he will be coming home to a clean house and dinner started. To imagine the look on his face when he sees I've done my best is driving me crazy. Because I obeyed him and have done what I was...
    Klt3shottie Klt3shottie
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Nov 8, 2010

    I Do Obey My Husband

    I do obey my husband!  There it has been said.  So come on out of the closets now.  giggles  My husband is leader of our home.  Obeying doesn't mean that I have no say, or that my views aren't listened to.  It just means that he has the last say it...
    CupidsPet CupidsPet
    51-55, F
    22 Responses Sep 24, 2008

    Never Scream At The Hoh.

    I was married in May of 2011 to a man who is a very stubborn man and believes in traditional marriage, the wife obeys her husband as he leads was married in May of 2011 to a man who is a very stubborn man and believes fashioned way of traditional marriage, the wife obeys her...
    umrules umrules
    41-45, M
    1 Response Oct 16, 2012

    I created a private domestic discipline

    community on facebook, no aliases or fake profile pictures allowed.
    girvingtree girvingtree
    22-25, F
    Mar 20, 2015

    I Love Obeying My Husband And Submitting To His Sexual Needs.

    My husvand is the head of the house and i believe that is the only way a marraige works.The woman was created for the man to please,respect,cherish,honorand love him unconditionally.He makes all of the decisions and I happily oblige.He is a hard worker and I take care of all thr...
    Agoodwifewhoobeys Agoodwifewhoobeys
    2 Responses May 18, 2013

    I Know I Am Being Very Naughty !

    Hubby is away working in Europe as he is most weeks. I have never got used to this and I hate him being away. I soooo look forward to any contact from him, wether it is a text message or phone call. If I don't get the attention I crave from him I usually become a brat and sulk...
    Hav1 Hav1
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Feb 6, 2013

    Why Should The Wife Obey Her Husband?

    well i don't to talk theortocally, i mean as a Muslim family my wife obey me to follow God"s rule,however both of us knows that there is the utmost wisdom behind all the rulings of Islam, but that wisdom may be hidden and he may not understand it. In that case he should realize...
    Correctionway Correctionway
    31-35, M
    13 Responses Mar 31, 2010

    It's A Woman's Place

    I was raised in a home when my father was the boss and my mother was submissive and they were, still are a very happy couple. i am married and submit completely to my husbands authority because it is his place to lead and mine to follow. There are many who argue this male...
    mrsrachelle mrsrachelle
    22-25, F
    3 Responses May 1, 2010
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