I My Dad Used to Beat My Mom

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    The Truth

    This is my story... So far: My dad and mom were together for a long time, and from this i believed they love eachother so much and would anything for eachother, until the divorce. I've always wondered why they divorced and the issue they always told me was "money issues". They do...
    AngryPanda435 AngryPanda435
    1 Response Jul 17, 2013

    He Calls Himself A Man.

    My dad beat my mom senseless up until I was 3 1/2. I know, that's not long. But the part that ruins me inside is that I feel as if it was my fault. The abuse started only after I was born, because of the stress and financial troubles I caused as a baby. My dad would beat my...
    lc2005rn lc2005rn
    3 Responses Aug 5, 2011

    When I Was 8

    Our bedroom wall was next to the living room.  My Dad was punching my mom in the face like she was a rag doll.  We could hear the percussion of the couch hitting the wall.  We cried our hearts out.  I wondered for a long time why he would get pans full of...
    1Babe 1Babe
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Oct 20, 2008

    Why Does It Affect Me This Much?

    I don't think my mom understands how much I've been traumatized from seeing her get beat up daily from age 1-15.  I constantly try to explain to her my complete lack of interest in ever having kids and a relationship (marriage).  Honestly her choices are...
    wheatbread wheatbread
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 2, 2009

    In The Back Of My Mind.

    I never forgot his name, though I wasn't sure it was even his name (but i found out it was). Greg, my father would beat my mother. She was even hospitalized a few times and threaten her he would kill us. I only remember 2 scenes of the times he was there, but no detail. My first...
    SlenderDerp SlenderDerp
    18-21, F
    Jul 1, 2013

    22 Years Of Abuse, And It's Still Not Over...

    My dad started beating my mom ever since they got married. They got married when my dad was 20 and my mom 19. They are married now for 22 years and they're still together. Every little argument between them turns into abusive words and violence; I still remember when my dad broke...
    Hate94death Hate94death
    22-25, F
    Aug 17, 2013

    There Is a Reason Why I Don't Carry a Gun

    This type of behavior is  unforgivable. I hope all involved have learned that this is not the why to treat your, spouse, sig. other or any other family memeber. Be better than them. Show them what a real life is about.
    retiredmother retiredmother
    56-60, F
    1 Response Aug 8, 2009

    My Dad Used To Beat My Mom Too

    My two brothers and I used to see it often.. The talk that our parents did in front of us.. talk that would turn into angry words .. the angry words that would turn into physical fighting where our Dad would hit our mother.. sometimes in the kitchen..around the house.. wherever...
    PrincessOz PrincessOz
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Feb 12, 2011

    Well the first time I saw it was

    when I was 3. I remember playing with my older brother and suddenly hearing a plate smash on the floor and my dad shouting. Then my dad started to pull my mum's hair, he was pulling it with such force that it looked like it was going to rip off from her head any second. Me and...
    Guy19970 Guy19970
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 31, 2013

    And then he beat me. He broke her ribs.

    Threw her around. Hurt her. And then, when they separated, his violence turned on me. It was always there... He would hit me and my little sister with long wooden poles and things, which wasn't that bad. The first time he hit me, we were in the car. I was in fifth grade. We were...
    littlelostsoul12 littlelostsoul12
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 3, 2014


    Forget the happenings of the day that is gone, whether they were good or bad, and greet the new sun with confidence that this will be the best day of your life.
    1Babe 1Babe
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Aug 1, 2009

    I Found Out My Dad's Real Face Today!

    My parents got divorced when I was two years old. Now I am 17. I never asked my parents why they divorced.I have been living with my mom throughout my life but I used to wish I was living with my dad. I loved him. I have a younger sister but most of the time my dad pretends that...
    KTap KTap
    3 Responses Aug 25, 2012

    Just A Kid

    I was 6 years old at the time and I didn't know any better. I thought things were normal in my life. I rode my skate board, had friends and what I thought was a nice life. Until I turned 7 years old. Things became clearer to me. After staying at friends house I realized that...
    Dougiedel Dougiedel
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jun 2, 2013

    My Parents Divorce

    Im 17. Recently my parents got a divorce and I've seen my father do things to my mom that will stay with me for the rest of my life. I've seen my dad physically beat my mother in front of me and my 2 younger brothers. I've seen my father put a gun to my moms head and just...
    sadboy17 sadboy17
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Feb 4, 2013

    I was always taught that we are the way we are

    because of nurture or nature. Sometimes I wonder if i am the way i am because of watching my alcoholic dad violently beating my mother. Or seeing the police putting him in handcuffs. He's dead now. It's been a while but i still remember it vividly. It still bothers me.
    cassieeeeeeeeee cassieeeeeeeeee
    18-21, F
    Aug 16, 2014

    My Dad Beat Up My Mum When I Was 3 Then He Dies Of Drugs When I Was 9

    Well here's my story, when I was 3 my dad attacked my Mum he was drunk, I was helpless at the time but luckily Mum could force him out of the house. After that my Mum met my step dad, he was a nice guy but lucky me! My stepbrother was really mean and abused me physically and...
    sachiel12 sachiel12
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 23, 2013

    i didnt have a dad but my step dad beat my mom

    up so many times by the time i was 12 i was used to seeing her bruised
    mysoginist155 mysoginist155
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Feb 26, 2016

    I'm not sure why I feel like writing this story.

    Nor do I know why I struggle with starting them.. I actually skimmed through the things I posted the other day, and I realized that I start every story off the same way every time. I need to work on that. Anywho.. there's been a boom in this topic amongst kids my age lately. Not...
    IntenseCookie IntenseCookie
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Oct 12, 2015

    My Dad Used to Beat My Mom

    i was little, and i wasn't sure if thats what happened in grown-up relationships or what because thats all i saw, my step-dad beating my mom. he did it all the time, at least once or twice a week. as i started getting older, i realized that what my mom was doing to **** him off...
    ashton ashton
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 10, 2008
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