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I My Daughter Has a Controlling Boyfriend

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    He Is Isolating Her From Everyone

    My 21 year old daughter has been seeing this guy for 3 years. For the last 2 of those she has changed from bubbly and happy to totally miserable. She is a nursing student and everytime she has exams etc he falls out with her and all she does is worry. She loves lip gloss and...
    pamelamac pamelamac 46-50 2 Responses Jan 22, 2011

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    Controlling Boyfriend???????

    am i being controlled? my boyfriend of 4 years likes it when its just the two of us, . he doesnt like me seeing friends (but i see them anyway) and doesnt like it when my mother comes to stay and will not take part in any activity if shes doing it too. . he hardly ever...
    lyla12 lyla12 26-30 1 Response Oct 18, 2010

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    Controlling Boyfriend

    when my daughter first told me she liked this boy, she was 14 and she told me he was 15.  Well that was fine, you know puppy love.  About 7 months later I found out he was 17 and every since then she has done nothing but lie about everything.  The first thing I...
    tmitchell tmitchell 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2010

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    My Heart Is Breaking

    My daughter is a beautiful lady she is 25 she has made some mistakes but not till she hooked up with this coward of a man that controll her every move. She has a beautiful daughter who just turned 5 this past June. I have had my grand daughter all the time since she was born...
    janniemarie janniemarie 51-55 Sep 26, 2011

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    My Daughter's Boyfriend Says She Has To Disown Her Family Because He Doesnt Like Us

    My daughter was in a bad relationship but I think she is in a worse one now.  The guy she is dating is a year younger than her and she will be graduating in a couple of weeks.  He has told her that she must stop having contact with her family because he doesnt like us.  He has...
    anginfla anginfla 41-45 2 Responses May 5, 2012

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    My Daughter Is Slipping Away!

    My daughter is 21.  She lives in the other end of the state attending college.  She started dating someone 1 1/2 years ago.  Little by little she began to change.  We are a very close family.  She told me his family and him do not get along.  They...
    cleopgh cleopgh 51-55 6 Responses May 10, 2009

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    Controlling And A Bit More

    I am 18 years old in my senior year. I've been dating this guy for about a year and a few months. I was his first "real" girlfriend. I had that first love experience before him that lasted a year and a half. That relationship was very healthy although I was really hurt when it...
    xoxoxox15 xoxoxox15 18-21 1 Response Aug 3, 2011

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    Since young my dad hasnt really cared about me. I want a boyfriend that can discipline me and tell me what is right what is wrong and help me make decisions.
    lenilover lenilover 36-40, F Sep 27

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    They still live here in my house with me, or perhaps I should say 'our' house since we all share in what it takes to keep everything working. My son has a fiance' and my daughter...
    dadhereforyou dadhereforyou 51-55, M Oct 13

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    My husband of 27 years has not been speaking to me for the past three days. He speaks to my daughter lovingly, and he speaks to my sons (2) casually. A couple of days ago, my...
    neglected08 neglected08 46-50 a week ago

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    Dear moms, i am going through a really tough time and any advice at all is welcome. I have a beautiful, smart, affectionate daughter. I love her so much. Saturday was her 5th bday...
    kemmer kemmer 31-35, F Oct 6

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    I really want to have a boyfriend. I feel envy on anyone who has a boyfriend but when a guy starts flirting and dates me I feel uncomfortable. Im pretty sure Im gay but I think Im...
    Maerl Maerl 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 11

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    Fortunately, they did not puncture the animal's lung. "The injured stray has been sent to Cheap GHD Nz the Thane SPCA for treatment. We had heard of a few incidents in Andheri...
    crystalbetry031 crystalbetry031 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    Here's a bit of background on me first. I'm 21 years old. Graduated with a bachelors of business degree. Have a good paying full-time salary job. Have 1 dog and have been with my...
    shugolfer shugolfer 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    I love this guy. 2 months this weekend. Sometimes he makes me wanna scream. He'll go a couple days without talking to me. I know he's busy working, but I just worry something bad...
    Cowgirl6140 Cowgirl6140 13-15, F 8 hrs ago

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    As I get prepared to do my work at home, my phone rings and it's my stepdaughter. (Which I simply call her my daughter). She's 25 years old and in her 3rd year in medical school...
    Eyedontgiveahoot Eyedontgiveahoot 36-40, F 10 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    To start things off I am currently in college working hard going to school from 9-4 every day, soon to be 9-8 every day, but I don't have a life, at least it doesn't feel like I...
    playitsafe playitsafe 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 26

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    My mother left when i was 11 and my Dad had a few girlfriends over the next 2yrs then really hit it of with Sue.She was very kind and happy woman with 2 daughters of her own both...
    Emmag44 Emmag44 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 13

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    Unfortunately that 'special bond' is often a tug and pull, a battle of wills, and resentment if as mom I do too much in pointing a direction to follow, offer career advice, or life...
    lllewyd lllewyd 56-60, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    My boyfriend and me have been fighting, I'm 6 months pregnant with our first. I'm just stressed out and I feel like I'm doing so much and I feel like I'm the only one peddling the...
    hart1012 hart1012 31-35, F Oct 15

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    For anyone out there that has survived having strict overprotective parents in any way, shape or form and have been able to finally make it out on your own and establish your...
    beccaishere89 beccaishere89 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    I hate to admit it but I've been in an abusive relationship for 20 years. It started out when we were dating we would have an argument I'd try to leave because he'd become so scary...
    goawaymia goawaymia 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 4

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    I too have controlling parents. This year summer and this year has been hell for me. I can't go anywhere or do anything without getting permission, like I'm still 5 yrs. old . They...
    Cocoheaven2014 Cocoheaven2014 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 9

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    Is there anyone out there over 35 that have never had a boyfriend? Most of these similar experiences are from younger females that haven't even begun to experience life. I just...
    SW4225 SW4225 36-40 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I feel trapped in this relationship yet I don't want to leave. I am a peaceful person and I feel my boyfriend disrupts that peace and he is often not on the same page as me as far...
    maryisamango maryisamango 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I had a boyfriend Like that He still acts like that. I Ingore him When he see me be attack me. I hit back but he strong and fast. We haven't been dated for years. He need to...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    This may sound stupid and I am really young but I am really scared. I know how this sounds, but I had a boyfriend and I'm only fourteen, He was very territorial with me and...
    RayneZ RayneZ 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 13

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    So I have the job of teaching my 16 yr old daughter to drive. Ok so we went over the rules: 1. No radio while you're driving it will distract you. 2. No you cant bring your...
    Redneckmom1992 Redneckmom1992 22-25, F 12 Responses Sep 27

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    I was seeing someone for just about over a year and only found out last night that he had a 1 year old daughter on his best friends Instagram. I'm extremely heartbroken at the fact...
    Ms1993 Ms1993 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 29

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    4 years ago today I was happily chosen to be the god father of my boyfriends brothers daughter and honestly I am so proud that they picked me because I adore this little munchkin...
    cbailey301 cbailey301 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 6

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    Yesterday was Spoil Daughter Day. Once a year, we celebrate the anniversary of our court victory. You see, three years ago, we won the right to spend more time together. If you've...
    PhresnoPhoenix PhresnoPhoenix 36-40, M 4 Responses Oct 13

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    ...but there are so many things that bother me about them. I'm currently 18, my boyfriend is 21. I moved in with my boyfriend and his family (his mom, two brothers, and two sisters...
    lostinparadisee lostinparadisee 18-21, F Sep 27

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    I was just thinking this last week has been tolerable.. Maybe I could do this .. But then I realized... Yes he's be nice and hasn't been sarcastic or made a joke at my expense..we...
    kathryn30 kathryn30 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    i live with my mother and father and 2 younger siblings my dad is an alcoholic and my mum has depression my little brother is disabled... my little brother means the world to me...
    catsrule5678 catsrule5678 16-17, F Sep 28

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    My story is a simple one. My daughter, our only child, has almost completely stopped connecting with me. Throughout her childhood, she was closest to me, and we had this pact of...
    Neila1 Neila1 51-55, F 2 Responses Oct 4

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    People often make daughters out to be a burden in their tweens. That's the wrong attitude and I think it hurts girls. My daughter is 12 and not a burden. Sure, we are going...
    NoVADad703 NoVADad703 31-35, M 5 Responses Oct 8

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    At the park with my 4 ur old daughter she has such emagination always i joyous her time playing pretend with mommy it's fantastic to see my daughter explore and in joy her time. I...
    Janisoneluv Janisoneluv 26-30, F Oct 9

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    ON JUNE 10,2014 I HAD THE MOST HEART BREAKING EXPERIENCE OF HAVING TO REPORT MY 15 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER MADELYN TO THE POLICE DEPT AS A RUNAWAY.SHE HAD LEFT ONE EVENING WITH FRIENDS...
    NORINELOPEZ NORINELOPEZ 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for about 8 months now. We have lived together for 5 months, and I am head over heels for him. He has had a past of gambling, but told me he...
    BlueEyes618 BlueEyes618 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    How do you deal with an alter that hates you? My boyfriends most frequent alter would be "C". C hates everything, especially me. He has been trying to break me down enough for me...
    BlueGirl1126 BlueGirl1126 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 26

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    Is my boyfriend possessive? My boyfriend and I are both 18 and we started dating about half a year ago. I was his first girlfriend, kiss, and so on. I can clearly tell that he...
    sky817 sky817 18-21, F Sep 26

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    To be honest, perfectly, I have no concerns for my Son, except for the following:- My Mother was always wisdom, as wise a mother could ever be and the first rule of thumb that...
    democritique democritique 61-65, F Oct 3

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    This is the first time I'm telling this story. I don't want sympathy and I'm sure a lot of you will think I'm stupid. I have a boyfriend. His name is, let's call him, Stephen. I've...
    thatgirl0926 thatgirl0926 18-21, F Oct 11

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    My husband and I are invisible to our dil. Married 20+ years with 2 daughters. Her parents live close as well (as we do). We definately get left overs. It could be worse (as I've...
    dogpoo dogpoo 61-65, F 2 Responses Sep 25

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    Well, it's a long story. Him and I had a huge falling out. Our relationship was going downhill fast. We knew that we weren't going to last if we kept it up. The only issue is...
    chrissyp7 chrissyp7 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 28

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    Doesn't it seem hazy sometimes? I just woke up one day and my self esteem was shot, I second guessed my judgements, doubted my memory and I felt strange...strange and like I had...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 29

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    He isn't even my boyfriend,but he used to be. I honestly don't even know why we broke up in the first place, but we did. It never mattered to him who I was with after that, he...
    Lexie1516 Lexie1516 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 1

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