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I My Daughter Has a Controlling Boyfriend

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    He Is Isolating Her From Everyone

    My 21 year old daughter has been seeing this guy for 3 years. For the last 2 of those she has changed from bubbly and happy to totally miserable. She is a nursing student and everytime she has exams etc he falls out with her and all she does is worry. She loves lip gloss and...
    pamelamac pamelamac 46-50 2 Responses Jan 22, 2011

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    My Daughter's Boyfriend Says She Has To Disown Her Family Because He Doesnt Like Us

    My daughter was in a bad relationship but I think she is in a worse one now.  The guy she is dating is a year younger than her and she will be graduating in a couple of weeks.  He has told her that she must stop having contact with her family because he doesnt like us.  He has...
    anginfla anginfla 41-45 2 Responses May 5, 2012

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    Controlling And A Bit More

    I am 18 years old in my senior year. I've been dating this guy for about a year and a few months. I was his first "real" girlfriend. I had that first love experience before him that lasted a year and a half. That relationship was very healthy although I was really hurt when it...
    xoxoxox15 xoxoxox15 18-21 1 Response Aug 3, 2011

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    My Daughter Is Slipping Away!

    My daughter is 21.  She lives in the other end of the state attending college.  She started dating someone 1 1/2 years ago.  Little by little she began to change.  We are a very close family.  She told me his family and him do not get along.  They...
    cleopgh cleopgh 51-55 6 Responses May 10, 2009

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    Controlling Boyfriend???????

    am i being controlled? my boyfriend of 4 years likes it when its just the two of us, . he doesnt like me seeing friends (but i see them anyway) and doesnt like it when my mother comes to stay and will not take part in any activity if shes doing it too. . he hardly ever...
    lyla12 lyla12 26-30 1 Response Oct 18, 2010

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    My Heart Is Breaking

    My daughter is a beautiful lady she is 25 she has made some mistakes but not till she hooked up with this coward of a man that controll her every move. She has a beautiful daughter who just turned 5 this past June. I have had my grand daughter all the time since she was born...
    janniemarie janniemarie 51-55 Sep 26, 2011

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    Controlling Boyfriend

    when my daughter first told me she liked this boy, she was 14 and she told me he was 15.  Well that was fine, you know puppy love.  About 7 months later I found out he was 17 and every since then she has done nothing but lie about everything.  The first thing I...
    tmitchell tmitchell 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2010

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    She was born absolutely perfect. All her developments were right on track. Walking, crawling, standing, pulling self up etc. I think we first noticed the problem at 18 months of...
    LStacey LStacey 36-40, F Jul 29

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    I first met her about two years ago in school. I had just moved and one of my new friends introduced us wen I came over to sit with them. That first year I didn't talk to her much...
    Rachlm214 Rachlm214 16-17, F Aug 2

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    Okay so me and my boyfriend has been together for 8 months now and i'm used to him and all but the thing is, sometime in our relationship he has been cheating and i'm not sure if...
    NaNaJene NaNaJene 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    It's actually been nine years since my daughter stopped speaking to me. She sent me a letter asking me to send no more gifts. I complied. I decided after nine birthdays that this...
    ohiostreetjoe ohiostreetjoe 56-60, M 11 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend is controlling, he hates me going over to friends house which I really don't have many but whenever I visit them he is like I'm not going to talk to you because he...
    ilybb ilybb 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    How can I help my beautiful daughter stop her obsessive skin picking....she looks like a heroin addict. She say's she can't stop, she sees a hair and has to pick it until she gets...
    jazzygirl23 jazzygirl23 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My oh my, if only I could hang this young dumb-bunny by his eyelids.. I am told I should be upset with my daughter for putting up with his lying, cheating, scabby, shabby ways...
    lorarena lorarena 46-50, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I've been with my bf for 2 years, but we have been living together for 10 months. From those 2 years his 24 year old daughter has been out if his life because she said it was too...
    TiredofFighting2 TiredofFighting2 41-45 3 Responses Jul 31

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    My mum, I love her dearly but she always upsets me. We live a fair distance apart and I don't get to see her as often as I'd like. Yes, she drives me crazy but I still feel...
    probablyPMT probablyPMT 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    Hi guys in need of some advice about my boyfriend and the relationship he has with his sister. Myself and my boyfriend have been together for just under 3 months, although have...
    angrykid123 angrykid123 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    My daughter has ruined my life. I have wasted seven years of my life trying to help her with all of her self inflicted problems. The latest of which was caring for her while she...
    Romani52 Romani52 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    My son started seeing his now wife about seven years ago. I never liked her from the start. He and I used to be very close and after she came into the picture our relationship was...
    Plava111 Plava111 51-55 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    This is my eldest niece. Her boyfriend is a controlling Svengali. He doesn't work but rides the bus on her pass that her parents paid for, stays outside her work and uses her...
    klyn5 klyn5 51-55, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Stop sending me fukin messeges i know you reading this you lil bitc4 ****** horny **** i already have a boyfriend i only send him nudes and do anything for him
    Bitchiamafukinspiderpiglaser Bitchiamafukinspiderpiglaser 70+, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I have been with my fiancé for tree years now and have been dealing with his ex for three years now I honestly have had enough she drives me crazy and makes me soooooo angry she...
    kelseyt26 kelseyt26 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    My boyfriends three yr old daughter hits me, repeatedly tells me she doesn't want me there, has tantrums and starts to cry every time I'm near her. She has swore at me, will make...
    porcellina porcellina 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    My daughters 16 yr old boyfriend was in an emotionally abusive relationship with his stepdad and the stepdad kicked him out. I really didn't see that I had a choice and I let him...
    Ginger1956 Ginger1956 56-60, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    I find it extremely difficult to move on from my boyfriends past. We met while he was in the process of a divorce, and instead of doing what was right and waiting until it was...
    haileyelizabethxo haileyelizabethxo 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    Well its been 2 weeks since my fiance got arrested for assualt. He was defending himself against someone. The day it happened the detectives told him it was clearly self defense...
    punkmom13 punkmom13 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    The topic for this post should be endless. I'm being forced into motherhood to a baby I didn't give birth to. My 18 year old sister that lives in a women's home gave birth to a...
    Myeiaddiction Myeiaddiction 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I started dating him for six months,everything was fine until this girl came in and rent a room in the same house my boyfriend was living. He cared about me,my problems were his,I...
    juju0214 juju0214 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    My boyfriend won't let me express myself. When I turn 18, if I'm still with him, he won't "let" me get tattoos or piercings. Well, I refuse to abide in his stupid, controlling...
    stillYDGN stillYDGN 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 22

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years & we have a child together. There was a death in my family last week so I have to travel out of state to attend the funeral. So...
    M0ka M0ka 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    My mother is the controlling parent who tries to control everyone and everything. Yesterday I received an unexpected phone call from my mom. It had been almost 2 years since we...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 5 days ago

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    So it's been a month since my daughter's boyfriend was kicked out of his house and moved in with us. I did get the power of attorney from his mom. The kids are doing great...
    Ginger1956 Ginger1956 56-60, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    In October of 2011, my husband and I found out that we were going to be having another baby. We were scared and excited, since just 2 months before we had lost our first daughter...
    Krissysheart Krissysheart 22-25, F Aug 9

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    When I met my current wife, for some reason my parents didn't approve, but feigned approval. It became obvious it was all a lie when I got a call from my counselor who said my...
    BJH72 BJH72 41-45, M Jul 29

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    In my junior year of college I studied abroad and met this guy. We hit it off instantly but it never went farther than a night of dancing and drinking. When I went back home I...
    natmariesa natmariesa 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    Seriously, I HATE my boyfriends dog. He got his dog from his ex, and no im not jealous of the dog or that he got it from his ex. This dog is ruining our relationship. I recently...
    kimberlyfaith21 kimberlyfaith21 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year. We have a great relationship for the most part and we get along great, but I've always been a shy person around new people and his...
    ellielondon ellielondon 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Okay back to the drawing board. I can't stand his negative defensiveness. I told him he'd better get on medication or he would loose me and my daughter. He has worked very hard...
    tlee5001 tlee5001 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Update...after really thinking about it I was about to pull the plug. Then I looked at the pros and cons of "us". More pros than cons. He's there for me, always. I've decided to...
    linda8a linda8a 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    My parents aren't controlling so much. They don't watch every step I do but still they take care that I do my homework. When I got out I have to explain with who and where and when...
    Jennyred Jennyred 13-15, F 6 Responses Jul 21

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    I am currently reading a book about controlling parents and how to deal with the past. It is helping, but I am emotionally stuck. Part of me feels that I am being over dramatic...
    CatLover311 CatLover311 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I like having controlling parents because then you will have a lot less of a chance of learning right and wrong. Also it can help me learn better.
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M 5 days ago

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    I don't know what to do. I live with my boyfriend, we've been together since February. I don't have the means to secure housing if I leave. I love my boyfriend very much, he's like...
    pandess pandess 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    We have been together for 10 years and married for six of them. Have twin, two and a half year olds and a four year old. My husband is a control freak and emotionally abusive. I...
    Happinessismine Happinessismine 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    For years they refused to let me get any kind of portable electronic device. "Because it shuts you out from the world and that's not good for you." That actually did just the...
    Darkanddesolate Darkanddesolate 16-17, F Aug 4

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    It's like my mother has two personalities. One moment she is happy and interested in our conversation...the next she is crabby and doesn't want to speak with me anymore. So...
    CatLover311 CatLover311 22-25, F Aug 8

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    A few weeks ago I offered to give my bf $ 200.00 to help him buy this beautiful snake he wanted so badly. It costs $700.00 shipped. We have been "home" now for a few days. right...
    vonbender2010 vonbender2010 22-25, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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