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I My Daughter Has a Controlling Boyfriend

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    Controlling Boyfriend

    when my daughter first told me she liked this boy, she was 14 and she told me he was 15.  Well that was fine, you know puppy love.  About 7 months later I found out he was 17 and every since then she has done nothing but lie about everything.  The first thing I...
    tmitchell tmitchell 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2010

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    My Daughter Is Slipping Away!

    My daughter is 21.  She lives in the other end of the state attending college.  She started dating someone 1 1/2 years ago.  Little by little she began to change.  We are a very close family.  She told me his family and him do not get along.  They...
    cleopgh cleopgh 51-55 6 Responses May 10, 2009

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    My Daughter's Boyfriend Says She Has To Disown Her Family Because He Doesnt Like Us

    My daughter was in a bad relationship but I think she is in a worse one now.  The guy she is dating is a year younger than her and she will be graduating in a couple of weeks.  He has told her that she must stop having contact with her family because he doesnt like us.  He has...
    anginfla anginfla 41-45 2 Responses May 5, 2012

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    Controlling Boyfriend???????

    am i being controlled? my boyfriend of 4 years likes it when its just the two of us, . he doesnt like me seeing friends (but i see them anyway) and doesnt like it when my mother comes to stay and will not take part in any activity if shes doing it too. . he hardly ever...
    lyla12 lyla12 26-30 1 Response Oct 18, 2010

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    Controlling And A Bit More

    I am 18 years old in my senior year. I've been dating this guy for about a year and a few months. I was his first "real" girlfriend. I had that first love experience before him that lasted a year and a half. That relationship was very healthy although I was really hurt when it...
    xoxoxox15 xoxoxox15 18-21 1 Response Aug 3, 2011

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    He Is Isolating Her From Everyone

    My 21 year old daughter has been seeing this guy for 3 years. For the last 2 of those she has changed from bubbly and happy to totally miserable. She is a nursing student and everytime she has exams etc he falls out with her and all she does is worry. She loves lip gloss and...
    pamelamac pamelamac 46-50 2 Responses Jan 22, 2011

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    My Heart Is Breaking

    My daughter is a beautiful lady she is 25 she has made some mistakes but not till she hooked up with this coward of a man that controll her every move. She has a beautiful daughter who just turned 5 this past June. I have had my grand daughter all the time since she was born...
    janniemarie janniemarie 51-55 Sep 26, 2011

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    Since young my dad hasnt really cared about me. I want a boyfriend that can discipline me and tell me what is right what is wrong and help me make decisions.
    lenilover lenilover 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    Well by the looks of it Im the only male who has a boyfriend over in the military. And it's very rare we get to see each other now because at first we were deployed at the same...
    mparker7789 mparker7789 22-25, M Sep 21

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    He isn't even my boyfriend,but he used to be. I honestly don't even know why we broke up in the first place, but we did. It never mattered to him who I was with after that, he...
    Lexie1516 Lexie1516 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    This is not the way it was supposed to go. I'm Rosalind (21 years old) and I have been with my boyfriend Benvolio (22 years old) for 6 months. Not incredibly long of a...
    ReservedRosalind ReservedRosalind 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    Hi everyone, I'm a 24 yo gay man. I've been into a relationship twice that I can never feel full of. One was a long-distance relationship that I decided was pointless and it ended...
    MrBluez MrBluez 22-25, M 11 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend tells me he doesn't like northern blacks, because of the sterotype that they all in gangs, they don't get married, and have no respect. And the list goes on. I have...
    Charmink Charmink 18-21, F 1 Response 26 mins ago

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    I was raised by a single mom who did very well with myself and my siblings; we loved her and she loved us. Taught us values and how to stand on our own two feet. When I was 14 I...
    TeaColleen TeaColleen 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    To start things off I am currently in college working hard going to school from 9-4 every day, soon to be 9-8 every day, but I don't have a life, at least it doesn't feel like I...
    playitsafe playitsafe 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I rushed into a relationship almost 10 years ago with blinders on and the only thought was I am thirty time to find the one and settle down. I met a man who was the son of my...
    Change75 Change75 36-40, F Sep 9

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    I can't shake it, I can't fix it. My mother's taunting, manipulative and overly critical abuse throughout the years has caused a hindrance in healthy female friendships and...
    billabonggirl27 billabonggirl27 22-25, F Sep 1

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    I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a half and I hate his family. At first I thought they were great. We didn't have any problems and I thought they were hilarious...
    primabonna111 primabonna111 16-17, F Sep 17

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    Reading all these stories of women who have stayed for 10+ years makes my heart ache. I don't want to put up with this emotional turmoil for that long. How did you ladies find the...
    Galaxystar25 Galaxystar25 22-25, F Sep 20

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    My ex that I thought we were going to work it out. Change his mind, he hasn't called for two days and has been ignoring me and not being so nice. He texts me never calls dumps me...
    cara12345 cara12345 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 22

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    I'm a Sophomore in college and my parents still rule over everything I do. I am almost 20 and I can't even go to the beach without asking permission. I am sick and tired of being...
    laur1113 laur1113 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 18

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    Hi. my nick name is Rosanna. I am 34 years old. Up to this point in my life, I have been under pressure, blame and guilt trip of my older sister. My sense of self is so weak now. I...
    aarmeti aarmeti 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 19

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    My sister's boyfriend is a big kid. He and I have never really seen eye to eye. We've had several arguments and it tends to affect my relationship with my older sister. He once...
    endlessxriker endlessxriker 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 19

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years. We have had the craziest rockiest most insane relationship ever. For four years it wasn't the best but we got through it and I...
    cutecrazy05 cutecrazy05 22-25 1 Response Sep 8

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    Well this weekend I am house sitting for my boyfriend, well before he left for Kansas city, he gave me his debit card so I could take his daughters clothes shopping, and he gave me...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 19

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    Not everyone is - not all women or men are controlling, conning, or manipulative. There are only a number of them who are, and they seem to be drawn to certain personalities. If...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Sep 5

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    My mum is so controlling I'm not even allowed to wear my hair out. It has to be in a pony tail each day.
    hopefullgeenie hopefullgeenie 18-21, F Sep 14

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    Like many people, I have lost a lot - my marriage (which was really a blessing as I was abused for years before I got the courage to leave), friends and family have passed. And in...
    WendyAnnF WendyAnnF 51-55, F 4 Responses Sep 8

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    My daughter is 33 years old and we live together. We do not have the best of relationships. She has issues with me concerning her childhood. Some I understand but give me a break...
    silverfox54 silverfox54 56-60, F 6 Responses Sep 13

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    My mother is a narcissist. My dad is her faithful enabler. They have been married for 52 years and to this day he does what she says. My mother was never home growing up. When...
    pistacchia pistacchia 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 17

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    Ive had custody of my daughter since she was 5, shes 16 now, we are very close, im all she has. Ive raised her to be strong and tough, shes a licensed competitive boxer, a straight...
    AntonioV AntonioV 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 18

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    So I have the job of teaching my 16 yr old daughter to drive. Ok so we went over the rules: 1. No radio while you're driving it will distract you. 2. No you cant bring your...
    Redneckmom1992 Redneckmom1992 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I was seeing someone for just about over a year and only found out last night that he had a 1 year old daughter on his best friends Instagram. I'm extremely heartbroken at the fact...
    Ms1993 Ms1993 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Well, I can't decide if he's an idiot, a scumbag, or both. He's probably both. Intentional or not, his six-month rampage of inexcusable douchebaggery is coming to an end after...
    floyd228 floyd228 22-25 Sep 3

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    ...but there are so many things that bother me about them. I'm currently 18, my boyfriend is 21. I moved in with my boyfriend and his family (his mom, two brothers, and two sisters...
    lostinparadisee lostinparadisee 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    i live with my mother and father and 2 younger siblings my dad is an alcoholic and my mum has depression my little brother is disabled... my little brother means the world to me...
    catsrule5678 catsrule5678 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now and his mom (and grandma) don't like me AT ALL. at first she was nice to me, she would always tell me how pretty I...
    lundenxo lundenxo 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    Umm. Looking for some advice and thoughts on this. Quicknotes: I'm a first time "prison girlfriend". There are zero doubts about me standing by my man, he's amazing and I love him...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    I am a woman in my mid-30s and have Asperger Syndrome. Even with that, I completed my MBA in accounting after toying with the possibility of careers in healthcare and even law...
    nschulm nschulm 31-35, F Sep 19

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    How do you deal with an alter that hates you? My boyfriends most frequent alter would be "C". C hates everything, especially me. He has been trying to break me down enough for me...
    BlueGirl1126 BlueGirl1126 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    I'm 18, and my mom has always controlled my life. Every time I was relaxing at home, she would always urge me to do my homework. But instead of nagging, she made it seem like it...
    graduallyventuring graduallyventuring 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    My daughter taught me how to live and has shown me to stop and smell the flowers, every one... She has taught me to be a little less serious, and have a little more fun. I have...
    Mm8335 Mm8335 31-35, F Sep 2

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    I am 58, my sister was 54.  She drove her porsche out in the desert on June 8.  Without shutting off the motor, she put a recently purchased gun to her head and blew her...
    whywasshelikethis whywasshelikethis 56-60, F Sep 2

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    yes i have created such a thing not as what has been created before but as a completely different art . i teach to those with potential .
    spahbodforghani spahbodforghani 13-15, M Sep 6

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    My husband and I are invisible to our dil. Married 20+ years with 2 daughters. Her parents live close as well (as we do). We definately get left overs. It could be worse (as I've...
    dogpoo dogpoo 61-65, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Is my boyfriend possessive? My boyfriend and I are both 18 and we started dating about half a year ago. I was his first girlfriend, kiss, and so on. I can clearly tell that he...
    sky817 sky817 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Well, it's a long story. Him and I had a huge falling out. Our relationship was going downhill fast. We knew that we weren't going to last if we kept it up. The only issue is...
    chrissyp7 chrissyp7 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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