Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I My Daughter Has a Controlling Boyfriend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 14 People

    He Is Isolating Her From Everyone

    My 21 year old daughter has been seeing this guy for 3 years. For the last 2 of those she has changed from bubbly and happy to totally miserable. She is a nursing student and everytime she has exams etc he falls out with her and all she does is worry. She loves lip gloss and...
    pamelamac pamelamac 46-50 2 Responses Jan 22, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Controlling And A Bit More

    I am 18 years old in my senior year. I've been dating this guy for about a year and a few months. I was his first "real" girlfriend. I had that first love experience before him that lasted a year and a half. That relationship was very healthy although I was really hurt when it...
    xoxoxox15 xoxoxox15 18-21 1 Response Aug 3, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Daughter's Boyfriend Says She Has To Disown Her Family Because He Doesnt Like Us

    My daughter was in a bad relationship but I think she is in a worse one now.  The guy she is dating is a year younger than her and she will be graduating in a couple of weeks.  He has told her that she must stop having contact with her family because he doesnt like us.  He has...
    anginfla anginfla 41-45 2 Responses May 5, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Controlling Boyfriend???????

    am i being controlled? my boyfriend of 4 years likes it when its just the two of us, . he doesnt like me seeing friends (but i see them anyway) and doesnt like it when my mother comes to stay and will not take part in any activity if shes doing it too. . he hardly ever...
    lyla12 lyla12 26-30 1 Response Oct 18, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Daughter Is Slipping Away!

    My daughter is 21.  She lives in the other end of the state attending college.  She started dating someone 1 1/2 years ago.  Little by little she began to change.  We are a very close family.  She told me his family and him do not get along.  They...
    cleopgh cleopgh 51-55 6 Responses May 10, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Controlling Boyfriend

    when my daughter first told me she liked this boy, she was 14 and she told me he was 15.  Well that was fine, you know puppy love.  About 7 months later I found out he was 17 and every since then she has done nothing but lie about everything.  The first thing I...
    tmitchell tmitchell 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Heart Is Breaking

    My daughter is a beautiful lady she is 25 she has made some mistakes but not till she hooked up with this coward of a man that controll her every move. She has a beautiful daughter who just turned 5 this past June. I have had my grand daughter all the time since she was born...
    janniemarie janniemarie 51-55 Sep 26, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    My boyfriend cheated on me and I have no idea what to do, I love him but do I take him back???
    sinead1991 sinead1991 22-25, F 1 Response 54 mins ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My boyfriend told me he was going to his friends house, and I'm not clingy so I didn't care but then I saw on Facebook someone posted some photos and he was making out with this...
    sinead0000 sinead0000 13-15, F 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    hey my name is sarah i broke up with my boyfriend well (he broke up with me ) about a month ago. The reason was he was going to a university In UK and i said i was okay with long...
    sarangua sarangua 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So I desperately need feedback to see if I'm the crazy one. I've been dating my boyfriend for two years. His one sister and I were fairly close at one point, but she was always...
    imacanceryo imacanceryo 22-25, F 15 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I miss him even while he's here maybe because my soul knows that he's leaving soon it aches , it yerns for him even more my heart wants to be with him every second even when I'm...
    ForYouIwillWaitJoey ForYouIwillWaitJoey 18-21, F 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am so happy to find this forum. Just a few weeks ago on June 6th, I lost my love/ the man I've been dating for the past 6 months. He lost his life in the Ocean, while vacationing...
    kmrjg2014 kmrjg2014 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love my boyfriend; he's really sweet, thoughtful, and respectful of me. Even when we disagree on opinions/beliefs, we still respect one another. Anyway, he's got two dogs: one is...
    SimpleShares SimpleShares 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love my boyfriend; he's really sweet, thoughtful, and respectful of me. Even when we disagree on opinions/beliefs, we still respect one another. Anyway, he's got two dogs: one...
    SimpleShares SimpleShares 22-25, F 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My boyfriend has been falsely accused of molesting his (now six year old) daughter. I don't have anyone who will really talk about it. I understand that he doesn't want to talk...
    IAmReaching IAmReaching 26-30, F 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My boyfriend & I have been together for 3 years & he is literally my everything , When he first gratuated & went off to college he was hanging around the wrong people & made a...
    lizvaughn23 lizvaughn23 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love my boyfriend and we're in a really great relationship. But lately I've realized that I find his older brother (Let's call him B) attractive and I behave a bit flirtatiously...
    Veggiegoddess Veggiegoddess 18-21, F 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    my boyfriend and I have been together a year and it's starting to be a mess. he has done two big things for me and he thinks I haven't for him. I have sacrificed so much for him...
    deleted deleted 26-30 a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My boyfriend of over a year is moving abroad for a two-year assignment in Africa. He would travel back to the U.S. a couple times a year to check in with his work's headquarters...
    Kadessa00 Kadessa00 26-30, F Jun 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Time To Let Go: For years: I have been taking too much responsibility for my ungrateful, selfish 45-year-old daughter. For the last eight years I housed her in my home while I...
    slowjazz slowjazz 66-70, T Jun 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My boyfriend and my mother both have borderline personality disorder. My mother is in denial, my boyfriend is not. It cannot be cured. But it is something that can be lived with...
    FlourescentBlack FlourescentBlack 31-35, F Jun 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My daughter got grounded for two weeks and everything was going smoothly the first week. She was doing all the housework she was assigned to do, and she was not going out of her...
    Kimberley811 Kimberley811 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    yep. now im free. he was controlling me and telling me I could only see him. and not look at others. but now its over
    angelsrsweet angelsrsweet 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My younger sister's boyfriend is a real cutie.The first time she introduced me to him, I thought wowee! But I don't dwell on it, Hes a year older than me, and tall, average size...
    ChelseaMonroe ChelseaMonroe 26-30, F Jun 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am around the age of 18-20, and I have a beautiful Daughter named Willow Letti. She is very fun and loving and she is 7 months old and already has my attitude! She is a very...
    NoUserName1107 NoUserName1107 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This wasn't my first love, the boy I left him for was my first true love. Now that I look back on everything, I wish I never left him. He was sweet, charming, and a genuine good...
    xXRebelXx xXRebelXx 16-17, F Jun 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Sorry this is pretty long... I hope you'll read it anyway. At first, she liked him, she thought he was a very nice and considerate guy. He and I have been together for 9 months...
    Jesxica Jesxica 18-21, F Jun 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    We have a four year old daughter and for the past year at least he has completely changed. He doesn't live with us anymore so it's difficult to get hold of him - doesn't answer his...
    StephanieHB StephanieHB 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My story is kinda hard to explain , me and my ex have been split up for almost two years now, well lost my mom in December, He wants everyone to believe he's here helping me...
    Brittaniexoxo Brittaniexoxo 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, he has a 13 years daughter, I feel more like a conviniente spare woman for me, as his daughter doesn't have enough time for him. His...
    tanahora tanahora 41-45, F Jun 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I miss my daughter so much! She's in Houston with her birth family and has been for 2 weeks! She will be home this weekend and I am so ready!! We have an awesome open adoption...
    lostit77 lostit77 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My boyfriend has been in jail since March and he's not getting sentenced until late July. He's looking at getting 3-5 years. The worst part of it all is that he was just in the...
    hayleypotter hayleypotter 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My boyfriend works in a bar and complains about work everyday when he gets off at 3am he would drink alcohol until about 7am everyday so sad. Also his mom passed about 8 mos. ago...
    karma2015 karma2015 26-30, F Jun 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My daughter has a friend (Lets call her Emma) ever since Emma has been hanging out with her little brother, she's been rude. The brother bullies her as well, they both use...
    sugarbear101 sugarbear101 41-45, T Jun 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've never felt so FUBAR in all my life! What a fraud I am! @#()^%&$#*(@)$ Years ago I became a certified life coach to help others, but to also help me figure out how to get...
    CoachFreckles CoachFreckles 36-40, F Jun 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My Boyfriend... on the other end of the globe... in a continent that brings the kangaroo , crocodile Dundee and walkaby( Wrong spelling) to mind.... Has made a decision he wants...
    MissGotHerGroove MissGotHerGroove 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I do love possessive and controlling men to the point where is it not crazy abuse to my mental and physical state. I love feeling protected and I love men who shows masculinity and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    never had one so I don't really believe that there are controlling men out there
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Well, it's June 2015 now. I've been dating my boyfriend for 1 year and 9 months. I suppose I should tell this story in chronological order, despite my finding out halfway through...
    1amg00den0ugh 1amg00den0ugh 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Sites like this one are killing girls who could be getting better if not for the trash posted here. Anorexia is not a disease like cancer is, it’s a physiological condition, just...
    Ani4real Ani4real 51-55 Jun 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Please don't be shocked if u say I haven't had a boyfriend. I have never had a boyfriend in all my life. My "boyfriends" that I met online and off chat rooms I don't consider them...
    lifeisastruggle4ever lifeisastruggle4ever 13-15, F Jun 14

    Your Response

    Cancel