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I My Daughter Has a Controlling Boyfriend

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    Controlling Boyfriend

    when my daughter first told me she liked this boy, she was 14 and she told me he was 15.  Well that was fine, you know puppy love.  About 7 months later I found out he was 17 and every since then she has done nothing but lie about everything.  The first thing I...
    tmitchell tmitchell 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2010

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    Controlling Boyfriend???????

    am i being controlled? my boyfriend of 4 years likes it when its just the two of us, . he doesnt like me seeing friends (but i see them anyway) and doesnt like it when my mother comes to stay and will not take part in any activity if shes doing it too. . he hardly ever...
    lyla12 lyla12 26-30 1 Response Oct 18, 2010

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    My Daughter's Boyfriend Says She Has To Disown Her Family Because He Doesnt Like Us

    My daughter was in a bad relationship but I think she is in a worse one now.  The guy she is dating is a year younger than her and she will be graduating in a couple of weeks.  He has told her that she must stop having contact with her family because he doesnt like us.  He has...
    anginfla anginfla 41-45 2 Responses May 5, 2012

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    Controlling And A Bit More

    I am 18 years old in my senior year. I've been dating this guy for about a year and a few months. I was his first "real" girlfriend. I had that first love experience before him that lasted a year and a half. That relationship was very healthy although I was really hurt when it...
    xoxoxox15 xoxoxox15 18-21 1 Response Aug 3, 2011

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    My Heart Is Breaking

    My daughter is a beautiful lady she is 25 she has made some mistakes but not till she hooked up with this coward of a man that controll her every move. She has a beautiful daughter who just turned 5 this past June. I have had my grand daughter all the time since she was born...
    janniemarie janniemarie 51-55 Sep 26, 2011

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    He Is Isolating Her From Everyone

    My 21 year old daughter has been seeing this guy for 3 years. For the last 2 of those she has changed from bubbly and happy to totally miserable. She is a nursing student and everytime she has exams etc he falls out with her and all she does is worry. She loves lip gloss and...
    pamelamac pamelamac 46-50 2 Responses Jan 22, 2011

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    My Daughter Is Slipping Away!

    My daughter is 21.  She lives in the other end of the state attending college.  She started dating someone 1 1/2 years ago.  Little by little she began to change.  We are a very close family.  She told me his family and him do not get along.  They...
    cleopgh cleopgh 51-55 6 Responses May 10, 2009

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    My boyfriend and I have been together off and on for 2 years. He breaks up with me when he gets mad or doesn't get his way. He always tell me what to do and what to wear. I can't...
    idk3913 idk3913 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Yeah:( my friend. I think I'm falling in love with her if not already in love with her and with all jealousy aside, her boyfriend is a waste of her time. He loves violence, laughs...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Apr 8

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    I've liked this girl for 3 years now. I was madly in love with her in secret but then it kind of wore down and appeared again as timed passed just to wear down and appear again...
    DarthFelidyol DarthFelidyol 18-21 Apr 7

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    and I'm so happy for them. seeing her happy makes me really happy, and he's really lucky to have someone like her. they're perfect. but I still love her...
    TheCroissant TheCroissant 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    Ok hate is a bit strong but I need to know if I'm being unreasonable. My boyfriend's sister has caused tension to the point where we are on the verge of breaking up over it. I...
    Alp32 Alp32 26-30 8 hrs ago

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    I have two adult daughters, 28 & 26. My elder daughter is married to a wonderful traditional man, has a baby boy and another on the way. My younger daughter still lives at home...
    MrsMargieSimmons MrsMargieSimmons 46-50, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    So my boyfriend who I have been with since 21.02.2014 got sent to jail on Wednesday 8th April 2015 and it was totally unexpected. We thought he would receive a secure surveillance...
    zoe1995 zoe1995 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    A guide to Romanian language. 1. A Romanian is not “surprised”…his “face has fallen off” (I-a picat fața). 2. A Romanian didn’t just “do so much with so little...
    Sheiriam Sheiriam 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    My daughter recently told me she is pregnant. She didn't tell me upfront, I had to ask a few times, because I notice her body changing. She still lives at home, but her boyfriend...
    HeyJ HeyJ 31-35 Apr 9

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    So last night was a waking call. During my last year of high school (still happening) I made a best friend but this best friend means so much to me. As a closeted gay I find it...
    Youngteenager Youngteenager 18-21, M 10 hrs ago

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    Made up stories and lies in elementary school. Defiant in middle school. Belligerent in teens. Around 16, she would sneak out of bedroom window to spend night at boyfriends house...
    wabpita wabpita 66-70 Apr 4

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    I feel very greatful for him and I love him to pieces. Yeah, I get that probably every girl says this, but I feel like I need it to be known. He's sweet, he's kind, he's my best...
    W1ll0wstream101 W1ll0wstream101 22-25, F 11 hrs ago

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    i currently have an alcoholic boyfriend that i can take no longer.. its time for me to finally run........what i should have done years ago. its just tough and hard when you love...
    Latinheat123 Latinheat123 26-30 3 Responses Apr 16

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    Hi all, my boyfriend..currently ex boyfriend was diagnosed with bipolar disorder type II 8 years ago and he is medicated ever since the diagnose..i met him back in university when...
    Y1900 Y1900 26-30 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Soo I am new to this, but I need someone to confide in other than everyone who tells me I need to move on. So my boyfriend, who I love and we have been great together for a year...
    Youngandhelpless Youngandhelpless 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    His dad has narcissist personality disorder and therefore has this unhealthy obsession about controlling my BFs life, where I encouraged him to be independent. Turns out it wasn't...
    SparkleDammit SparkleDammit 22-25, F Apr 7

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    I feel so blessed to have come across these posts because I have been struggling for so long with this same issue. my boyfriend and I will have been together 3 years this coming up...
    missfancyy07 missfancyy07 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    Basically, I was sexually assaulted last year and have triplets Lily, Elwin and Boe and I'm 15.my Mom works full time and I'm home schooled my sister has just been offered a job of...
    LizzieMayMom LizzieMayMom 13-15 1 Response 5 days ago

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    any moms like showing off their daughters
    iwtn iwtn 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    My daughter is 3 years old and she is very very defiant i have tried everything but nothing works except a swat on her backside.she will hit me, throw things, destroy her room ect...
    Pandalover7 Pandalover7 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    My situation is similar to many posted here, same players, similar situation and same result - we as parents, are suffering our children's poor choices. The loser boyfriend is the...
    applebrat applebrat 51-55, F Apr 14

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    I turn 20 in about 4 months. I go to college and live on campus (but the school is close enough to home that I can go back on the weekends). I do just fine on my own and I am...
    Jesxica Jesxica 18-21, F Apr 17

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    Not both my parents are controlling, just my mother. I use to love my mother but for the past several years all I feel is hate towards her. She has made it her own personal mission...
    schiisha schiisha 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I suffer from depression and I'm doing so good at controlling it but for the past two days I've been ignoring everyone. I miss my boyfriend so much! He's leaving to go to the field...
    LoveCCin LoveCCin 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I am sorely, deeply in need of guidance. I have four children, two beautiful daughters and two magnificent sons. After years of a crumbling marriage (loss of homes, security...
    Caroline1229 Caroline1229 51-55 3 Responses Apr 9

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    I had been with my boyfriend for 3 years. He's a head coach for a traveling softball team & one of his assistant coaches (who has a daughter on the team) is female. Apparently they...
    jahill1721 jahill1721 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    So... It's been just over a year since I broke up with my ex boyfriend for being unfaithful. I feel like I'm over him and happy with having friends, socializing and being single. I...
    TheCake4 TheCake4 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    So I realized that i liked other guys 3 years ago and only been in one relashionship... For 2 days... which happened last year ... So now im just tired of being single and i need a...
    NoNudesPlz NoNudesPlz 13-15, M 8 hrs ago

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    In the summer i will travel to china with him. i'm helping him preparing documents and everything. I'm excited and nervous it will be fun. I will also see some friends in china, i...
    super2012 super2012 22-25 4 hrs ago

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    I just really need to vent. My boyfriend and I have only been dating 6 months but have known each other about a year. I knew he was on probation for some non violent drug and...
    Kcrowley1117 Kcrowley1117 22-25, F Apr 16

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    He was crazy controlling ignorant unreasonable and irrational. He constantly accused me of cheating. He had to know where I was and what I was doing every second of the day. If I...
    DeeDoubleYoux DeeDoubleYoux 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Ok so my friend is 16 and lives with his mother. She is very controlling and takes everything to an extreme and is really abusive to him. He wants to leave but his mom has full...
    NanNanNanNan NanNanNanNan 16-17, T 1 Response Apr 11

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    I am currently beside myself! I think my partner (and father of my 17month old) has Asperger's Syndrome. We are currently separated but "trying to work it out" except he insists...
    graciesplayground graciesplayground 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 30

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    I was with a guy for nearly a year and he was so great to me for the longest time. I thought I had a great guy, he was so protective of me... but then near the end he would sneak...
    monicataylor monicataylor 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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