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I My Daughter Has a Controlling Boyfriend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 14 People

    Controlling Boyfriend

    when my daughter first told me she liked this boy, she was 14 and she told me he was 15.  Well that was fine, you know puppy love.  About 7 months later I found out he was 17 and every since then she has done nothing but lie about everything.  The first thing I...
    tmitchell tmitchell 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2010

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    Controlling And A Bit More

    I am 18 years old in my senior year. I've been dating this guy for about a year and a few months. I was his first "real" girlfriend. I had that first love experience before him that lasted a year and a half. That relationship was very healthy although I was really hurt when it...
    xoxoxox15 xoxoxox15 18-21 1 Response Aug 3, 2011

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    He Is Isolating Her From Everyone

    My 21 year old daughter has been seeing this guy for 3 years. For the last 2 of those she has changed from bubbly and happy to totally miserable. She is a nursing student and everytime she has exams etc he falls out with her and all she does is worry. She loves lip gloss and...
    pamelamac pamelamac 46-50 2 Responses Jan 22, 2011

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    My Heart Is Breaking

    My daughter is a beautiful lady she is 25 she has made some mistakes but not till she hooked up with this coward of a man that controll her every move. She has a beautiful daughter who just turned 5 this past June. I have had my grand daughter all the time since she was born...
    janniemarie janniemarie 51-55 Sep 26, 2011

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    My Daughter's Boyfriend Says She Has To Disown Her Family Because He Doesnt Like Us

    My daughter was in a bad relationship but I think she is in a worse one now.  The guy she is dating is a year younger than her and she will be graduating in a couple of weeks.  He has told her that she must stop having contact with her family because he doesnt like us.  He has...
    anginfla anginfla 41-45 2 Responses May 5, 2012

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    My Daughter Is Slipping Away!

    My daughter is 21.  She lives in the other end of the state attending college.  She started dating someone 1 1/2 years ago.  Little by little she began to change.  We are a very close family.  She told me his family and him do not get along.  They...
    cleopgh cleopgh 51-55 6 Responses May 10, 2009

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    Controlling Boyfriend???????

    am i being controlled? my boyfriend of 4 years likes it when its just the two of us, . he doesnt like me seeing friends (but i see them anyway) and doesnt like it when my mother comes to stay and will not take part in any activity if shes doing it too. . he hardly ever...
    lyla12 lyla12 26-30 1 Response Oct 18, 2010

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    He doesn't want me to get a job. And if I do manage to get an interview he finds a way to sabotage it. He won't let me have any friends and the people that try to be my friend he...
    Kenjitsu Kenjitsu 22-25, F 1 Response May 13

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    I wish that I had a protective/ possessive boyfriend. Someone that could help with my ADHD. Help me focus on what I'm suppose to be doing and help me with my homework (I always...
    CanYouHelpMe011 CanYouHelpMe011 13-15, F May 9

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    I'm wondering if I should give up ? I've had allot of issues with my boyfriends mother. She speaks a different language so it's hard to talk to her. I feel as if I'm getting in the...
    llivan llivan 22-25, F Apr 27

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    I have been with my boyfriend for three years. He has an 12 yr old daughter and has full custody. She spends one day with her mother every other weekend. A lot of times the...
    NotStepmomMaterial NotStepmomMaterial 36-40, F 1 Response May 15

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    I have a little bit of a different experience that use to happen to me, thank god i finally got out of the house and got my own life and i have never been so happy and so "free...
    link9us link9us 26-30, M 1 Response May 3

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    I beat myself up about this all the time...I've had a boyfriend 4 years now and I'm not sexually attracted to him AT ALL. I think there was a time when I was...erm...but that was a...
    leeniebubbles leeniebubbles 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    My father has controlled me and my mother in my entire life. So it would make sense that I am not close to him at all. I still live with my parents because I don't make enough...
    KatieLynn13 KatieLynn13 18-21, F Apr 30

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    I can honestly say that there is no one I hate more in this world than my boyfriend's mother. Jake and I are both 20 and living at his home with his parents and 18 year old sister...
    Camellias125 Camellias125 18-21, F 2 Responses May 1

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    I met Charlie a little over a year ago, march 25th, we started dating April fools. we went from being homeless together to living together being engaged both working and planning a...
    AnthoneesMommy AnthoneesMommy 18-21, F May 6

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    My daughteroy is 27 years old..She is manipulative, she is moody and very verbally abusive to me. she calls me horrible names that you just wouldn't be live she is condescending...
    mtl60 mtl60 51-55, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I haven't seen my daughter in almost a year. We discovered she was doing drugs and was was being physically abused by her boyfriend. We panicked and tried to get her away from the...
    Baileymiamom Baileymiamom 51-55, F May 7

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    My 27 yr old daughter acts rude and loud after a few glasses of wine. Tonight she called her roommate's boyfriend an unsociable ***** for not drinking with her! Now it was probably...
    gemmyq gemmyq 56-60, F May 13

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    we've been together for 4 years now and we have a daughter together..he's also been raising my son thats not his since he was 2months old he can be nice at times and he is really...
    joana75 joana75 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    I am so sad that my daughter hates me. I tried to be a good mother to her. After 23 yrs my husband had a affair and ruined my life. I begged for 2 yrs not to divorce me, and to...
    melanesa melanesa 56-60, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Ok hate is a bit strong but I need to know if I'm being unreasonable. My boyfriend's sister has caused tension to the point where we are on the verge of breaking up over it. I...
    Alp32 Alp32 26-30 Apr 26

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    I met my guy in 1985 at a church. He was with his now-ex And I was pregnant with my daughter. He and my then-fiance were coworkers. Fast forward to 2015, we have been together for...
    Simpfan Simpfan 56-60, F 1 Response May 14

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    my fiance has mpd/did and we where headed out to meet some of my family she hates going out at all. but on the way this new alter popped up she said they call her brat idk but this...
    houseoutoforder houseoutoforder 36-40, M 1 Response May 10

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    He was manipulating me and controlling me. I probably shouldn't go into detail much but all I can say is that I was miserable and not happy at all. I felt taken advantage of, and...
    mangosandy82 mangosandy82 31-35, F 1 Response May 15

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    Im depressed with social anxiety, and borderline agoraphobia. I can't work. I live in a single room occupancy building funded by the government with about 60+ people meaning no...
    Decore6 Decore6 22-25, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I finally did it. I still feel really numb, but strangely at peace. I was already mentally over it. Now the emotional rainstorm has begun. I know I am not in love with him...
    WhiteOrchid403 WhiteOrchid403 22-25, F May 6

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    I sincerely do not feel that the “blame” should be placed on the DIL, or any “blame” towards not one person. Look, life happens, family happens. As a mother of three, I...
    nanawhomisseshergirl nanawhomisseshergirl 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I was severely controlled growing up. My parents were not nice people. I was married to a very controlling man, and recently got out of a relationship with a man who thought he...
    justme1999 justme1999 41-45, F 3 Responses May 2

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    Both my parents (my mom especially) are extremely controlling. Most people will say that its for my protection, but this is going way beyond that. They have settings on my...
    kaylabear252 kaylabear252 13-15, F 1 Response May 3

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    i live 2 lives. I am a transvestite/crossdresser and entertainer. When I am not being a girl I live a fairly normal life as a guy. I live in 2 different worlds with different...
    Sissygirlieboy Sissygirlieboy 36-40, T May 5

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    I started dating my boyfriend last year in July 2014. I came round to his for the first time as you do, met his mum and dad they were pretty chill, after a few months of dating him...
    pyschoticmindssince1993 pyschoticmindssince1993 18-21, F 1 Response May 6

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    I was pretty young when I had my first boyfriend and MySpace was still the cool social media account to have. When you're young, you do a lot of stupid things, like share your...
    L48O1516S2342T L48O1516S2342T 18-21, F Apr 28

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    This story is really pathetic and has turned my completely cold to the idea ever being with a guy. My brother passed away 2.5 months ago. He was 29 (suicide) and my best friend...
    finallyfree2fly finallyfree2fly 26-30, F 1 Response May 4

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    My husband and I are going thru being disowned by are only daughter. It has been a little over 8 months now, and although the dark depression, and thoughts of giving up are gone...
    whiskers5050 whiskers5050 56-60, F 2 Responses May 4

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    please read this... most people just want a boyfriend because everyone has one. most people don't understand the concept of having a boyfriend. I've wanted a boyfriend because it...
    eternitygoeson eternitygoeson 13-15, F 3 Responses May 6

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    On August 24th we'll have been together for one year. It's amazing that we haven't gotten caught, and that no one has seen us together. But what's more amazing is James (my...
    behavedmisfit behavedmisfit 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    So my boyfriend who I have been with since 21.02.2014 got sent to jail on Wednesday 8th April 2015 and it was totally unexpected. We thought he would receive a secure surveillance...
    zoe1995 zoe1995 18-21, F Apr 26

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    I love my mother as I love all my family and I know that she loves me, as, perhaps, only a mother can. However.... I think I was about 14 or 15 when my mother said to me, "You...
    LowRise LowRise 41-45, M May 10

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    My daughter moved out of my home with weekend. It was bittersweet, as expected. There's so many things I worry about. (I'm a worrier, that's normal for me, but still!) But, she...
    CoffeeFlavoredKisses CoffeeFlavoredKisses 46-50, F 6 Responses May 12

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    A while back I posted a story about the difficulty I was experiencing in getting over a ex boyfriend, who at the time I was very in love with. A few years later, it feels great to...
    roseofthedevilsgarden roseofthedevilsgarden 22-25, F Apr 29

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time. I started out as the other woman. As far as I know he has never cheated on me. That is not the issue. We seem to get stuck in...
    justplainconfused1974 justplainconfused1974 36-40, F 1 Response May 6

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