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I My Daughter Has a Controlling Boyfriend

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    My Daughter Is Slipping Away!

    My daughter is 21.  She lives in the other end of the state attending college.  She started dating someone 1 1/2 years ago.  Little by little she began to change.  We are a very close family.  She told me his family and him do not get along.  They...
    cleopgh cleopgh 51-55 6 Responses May 10, 2009

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    Controlling Boyfriend???????

    am i being controlled? my boyfriend of 4 years likes it when its just the two of us, . he doesnt like me seeing friends (but i see them anyway) and doesnt like it when my mother comes to stay and will not take part in any activity if shes doing it too. . he hardly ever...
    lyla12 lyla12 26-30 1 Response Oct 18, 2010

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    My Daughter's Boyfriend Says She Has To Disown Her Family Because He Doesnt Like Us

    My daughter was in a bad relationship but I think she is in a worse one now.  The guy she is dating is a year younger than her and she will be graduating in a couple of weeks.  He has told her that she must stop having contact with her family because he doesnt like us.  He has...
    anginfla anginfla 41-45 2 Responses May 5, 2012

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    My Heart Is Breaking

    My daughter is a beautiful lady she is 25 she has made some mistakes but not till she hooked up with this coward of a man that controll her every move. She has a beautiful daughter who just turned 5 this past June. I have had my grand daughter all the time since she was born...
    janniemarie janniemarie 51-55 Sep 26, 2011

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    He Is Isolating Her From Everyone

    My 21 year old daughter has been seeing this guy for 3 years. For the last 2 of those she has changed from bubbly and happy to totally miserable. She is a nursing student and everytime she has exams etc he falls out with her and all she does is worry. She loves lip gloss and...
    pamelamac pamelamac 46-50 2 Responses Jan 22, 2011

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    Controlling Boyfriend

    when my daughter first told me she liked this boy, she was 14 and she told me he was 15.  Well that was fine, you know puppy love.  About 7 months later I found out he was 17 and every since then she has done nothing but lie about everything.  The first thing I...
    tmitchell tmitchell 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2010

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    Controlling And A Bit More

    I am 18 years old in my senior year. I've been dating this guy for about a year and a few months. I was his first "real" girlfriend. I had that first love experience before him that lasted a year and a half. That relationship was very healthy although I was really hurt when it...
    xoxoxox15 xoxoxox15 18-21 1 Response Aug 3, 2011

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    Okay, so I have no problem what so ever with my boyfriend having a child with another woman, as a matter of fact I love his daughter as much as I love my own baby to be! I just...
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    porcellina porcellina 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I recently got a divorce. My ex was emotionally abusive and nothing I did made him happy. He actually wanted the divorce but for some reason still finds it necessary to be cruel...
    ktc1575 ktc1575 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    Not everyone is - not all women or men are controlling, conning, or manipulative. There are only a number of them who are, and they seem to be drawn to certain personalities. If...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Sep 5

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    My mum is so controlling I'm not even allowed to wear my hair out. It has to be in a pony tail each day.
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    anothermiltobe anothermiltobe 56-60, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    My boyfriend and I spend a healthy amount of time together, our families are close, we have a great bond and are very open. I am his first serious relationship, and there is one...
    classic00 classic00 18-21, F Sep 6

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    I feel safe with him because I know he would never do anything to hurt me. I feel so comfortable with him. And also feel comfortable sharing things with him. Because I know he won...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F Aug 20

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    Where do I start, how do I not blame myself, how did I let things get like this. We've been together for 8 years (not legally married) and have a six and seven year old. Things...
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