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I My Daughter Has a Controlling Boyfriend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 14 People

    Controlling And A Bit More

    I am 18 years old in my senior year. I've been dating this guy for about a year and a few months. I was his first "real" girlfriend. I had that first love experience before him that lasted a year and a half. That relationship was very healthy although I was really hurt when it...
    xoxoxox15 xoxoxox15 18-21 1 Response Aug 3, 2011

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    He Is Isolating Her From Everyone

    My 21 year old daughter has been seeing this guy for 3 years. For the last 2 of those she has changed from bubbly and happy to totally miserable. She is a nursing student and everytime she has exams etc he falls out with her and all she does is worry. She loves lip gloss and...
    pamelamac pamelamac 46-50 2 Responses Jan 22, 2011

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    My Heart Is Breaking

    My daughter is a beautiful lady she is 25 she has made some mistakes but not till she hooked up with this coward of a man that controll her every move. She has a beautiful daughter who just turned 5 this past June. I have had my grand daughter all the time since she was born...
    janniemarie janniemarie 51-55 Sep 26, 2011

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    My Daughter Is Slipping Away!

    My daughter is 21.  She lives in the other end of the state attending college.  She started dating someone 1 1/2 years ago.  Little by little she began to change.  We are a very close family.  She told me his family and him do not get along.  They...
    cleopgh cleopgh 51-55 6 Responses May 10, 2009

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    Controlling Boyfriend???????

    am i being controlled? my boyfriend of 4 years likes it when its just the two of us, . he doesnt like me seeing friends (but i see them anyway) and doesnt like it when my mother comes to stay and will not take part in any activity if shes doing it too. . he hardly ever...
    lyla12 lyla12 26-30 1 Response Oct 18, 2010

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    Controlling Boyfriend

    when my daughter first told me she liked this boy, she was 14 and she told me he was 15.  Well that was fine, you know puppy love.  About 7 months later I found out he was 17 and every since then she has done nothing but lie about everything.  The first thing I...
    tmitchell tmitchell 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2010

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    My Daughter's Boyfriend Says She Has To Disown Her Family Because He Doesnt Like Us

    My daughter was in a bad relationship but I think she is in a worse one now.  The guy she is dating is a year younger than her and she will be graduating in a couple of weeks.  He has told her that she must stop having contact with her family because he doesnt like us.  He has...
    anginfla anginfla 41-45 2 Responses May 5, 2012

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    concernedmother1 concernedmother1 22-25, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    When I first joined EP I tried to help a young woman with a problem ..... This person was in trouble due to lifestyle choices that lead in a large part to her situation. I regret...
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    Nice little weekend in the Hilton compliments of my lovely boyfriend, love valentines day😘💕 4 years on and were still going strong x
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    He's not my boyfriend but we been "hanging out" with each other for years now. and now that I have my own apartment it's easier for us to "hang out, so this weekend is gonna be the...
    AiymaSnikies AiymaSnikies 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    Just because I want a boyfriend doesn't mean I want a 30 year old freaking man hitting on me. I'm 15 for freaking sakes I'm not your age. Treat me with damn respect.
    yuki920 yuki920 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I just feel like I can't cope anymore - my boyfriend who i have been with for 8 months but been friends for years has been sent to prison for 8 months but should serve 4! We...
    elliebullock elliebullock 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    TNnomad TNnomad 61-65, M 2 days ago

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    Well we should have a phone call next week to go back to UVA to see the neuropsychologist again and get The test results from the neur psych test. All the tests that my boyfriend...
    Diaperdragon Diaperdragon 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    Hey yall, my boyfriend and I has been together for almost a year, he has three little girls that he loves very much, but his bm stopped him from seeing them, because of me. She is...
    scobryhol scobryhol 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    When you finally meet the right guy, it's amazing, life becomes more beautiful. I've been dating my boyfriend Doug for 7 months now. He is the love of my life, the perfect guy, I...
    Sparklediva Sparklediva 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    One is 15, the other is 8. My teenager is turning out to be a lovely young lady, always catching the boys' eyes and interests. And she isn't stuck-up about her looks (I raised her...
    Marloes2 Marloes2 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    ToolshedCat ToolshedCat 26-30, F Feb 4

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    GalateaSpheres GalateaSpheres 36-40, F 11 Responses Feb 4

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    I have a daughter, she's 3 months old. She's not technically mine though, she's my girlfriends daughter. There technically is no father....but I'll love my little girl with all my...
    Spirit24 Spirit24 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 2

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    My boyfriend's ex just can't seem to let go. He has told her it's over, there's no getting back together. He told her he's moved on. He finally had to change his phone number to...
    SpellboundSoul SpellboundSoul 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 2

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    "I finally had my proof when she turned up at the door and looked scared, and guilty". "Are you sure you didn't ask for it? You didn't just want some attention and you got it...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 2

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    Some of the worst things anyone ever said to me are: 1. I don't love you more because you're different. 2. I will kill you. 3. I hate you. I was just pretending to be your friend...
    loveismyfriend loveismyfriend 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    i am sooo upset and depressed. me and my boyfriend have lived together for the past three years. over the last two years his parents have payed for our rent, and provide him with...
    zainafatmi2015 zainafatmi2015 18-21, F Feb 1

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    I am Afraid of him now I don't feel like me or my family is safe around him . He threatened to beat me and my family up if I laid hands on him again .. It was my birthday all I...
    ForYouIWillWait ForYouIWillWait 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    I am a 27 year old third son out of four with NPD parents from New Jersey where I lived in my parents' house until I graduated from high school. I distinctly remember being 13 (and...
    dylster15 dylster15 26-30, M Jan 31

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    I've been living with my boyfriend for 6 months, I have a daughter (almost 2yes old)of my own and we had a son together. He has two of his own. Boy(5) girl (2). I cannot stand...
    Nicksters90 Nicksters90 18-21 Jan 30

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    Ok so my boyfriend went to jail on the 14th of October, He has since proposed to me. This has been a road that not too many women could handle....We never, ever fought before he...
    lee3853 lee3853 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    So, I'm very shaken up. A few weeks ago, my boyfriend received multiple calls, texts, and friend requests from his ex-girlfriend. I didn't think much of it, I thought it was an...
    Iamvindicated Iamvindicated 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    My daughter has a severe learning disability in mathematics. I always conceal my disappointment about this from her. Many times I do get frustrated trying to help her at home with...
    Azuriela Azuriela 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 29

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    I need some advice or if anyone has gone through this. Recently my boyfriend has just got back from being deployed and is currently home right now. I met him at the airport last...
    eguerrette eguerrette 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    My daughter is 15 years old and just now in high school. She is very smart and a very good person. i just wish she was more social in school. I hate to control a child into being...
    nancydorsen nancydorsen 36-40, F Jan 28

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    A couple of my friends are going through **** their boys like one just found out he just had a baby, another's had been cheated on for a period of time, and it has made me paranoid...
    Tidda94 Tidda94 18-21, F Jan 28

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    Open Letter to my daughter.  I keep thinking about how you treated me this past week while we were visiting your brother's house, and I've come to realize you may...
    BrokenHeartedToo BrokenHeartedToo 61-65 Jan 26

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    My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 2 years now. However, we've been in a long distance relationship for about 5-6 months now. He's my first boyfriend, and maybe my last...
    lunarrose123 lunarrose123 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months now and we each have a child both are boys his son is 5 and my son is 6. They get along for the most part they bicker here...
    RoseyL RoseyL 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    I'm just here to vent, but I suspect since joining I'll be here quite a lot in the future. So my boyfriend and I are both Christians. In the first year that we were together, we...
    Eeshbadeesh2 Eeshbadeesh2 22-25, F Jan 25

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    (I apologize for this being so long. Thank you to anyone who reads it.) I honestly wish I had never had my daughter. I have one daughter and one grandson and my daughter's done...
    strongwillbroken strongwillbroken 56-60, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    She is smart, she is witty, she is a wonderful storyteller, she is a compassionate friend in my recent dark time. She is very forgiving when I self medicate in that dark time. She...
    Edouard3 Edouard3 61-65, M Jan 24

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    She is my world and has been since the day she was born. Not every day has been fun, but we've made the most of all of them together.
    Northwoodsdad Northwoodsdad 26-30, M Jan 24