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I My Ex Died 5 Months After the Divorce

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    Jan. 31, 2009 my ex husband passed away. We had gotten married July 4, 1992, he was in between Basic training and AIT for the ARMY. I had been 15 for ten whole days and he was 19 when we married. Even though I didn't want to be with him anymore I still loved him, so when he died...
    WinsomeLosesome WinsomeLosesome 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 3, 2009

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