I My Family Hates Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 253 People

    Do Feel My Family Hates Me.

    When I was a kid my family as in Aunts, Uncles and cousins. were all very close. Now that I am an adult and am gay. No one bothers with me at all. At first I thought it was just me. But as time goes on it's showing to be true. I truly feel it's because I don't have a family of my...
    DOC379 DOC379
    31-35, M
    Aug 19, 2012

    Guess you can't choose your family !

    I was the child they didn't won't
    Unknown1456 Unknown1456
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 19, 2014

    They Used To Not Hate Me...

    I used to be the perfect child...the one child everyone wanted to be, yes i was spoiled.. But a lot of things change...that definitly did..I try so hard for them everyday...I watch my 5 year old sister EVERYDAY even weekends, i never get to hang out with my friends cause im at...
    catmarie11 catmarie11
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 21, 2012
    cashetty69 cashetty69
    51-55, M
    Sep 23, 2015

    Promise

    My cousin broke a promise. He said he'd stop criticizing me. But what the **** does he do? At the next big get together he does it again. I should've known. I was glad school was over, but there was still this. Again I'm told 2 change my life 2 live up 2 their standards. Btw, I'm...
    fleurdelacour8 fleurdelacour8
    18-21, F
    Jul 7, 2012

    there is this one person

    who married (well not really marry, more like long term dating) into the family who hates me for some odd reason. She constantly one ups me every single time. I bought a car, she got one...but when she found out I got a 2010..she trades her car in for a 2010...I get a new...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Dec 22, 2014

    I Get The Feeling My Siblings Hate Me

    I read the other stories here on EP and my heart goes out to you all. Then I feel ashamed because mine doesn't seem as bad. I get this overwhelming sense that my siblings avoid me. I hear about things they do when they gather. The difficult part is I work every weekend, 12 hour...
    riskbreaker23 riskbreaker23
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Mar 28, 2012

    I feel like my family hates me.

    . They never understand anything I do. I have been told many times that I was born into the wrong family because I am nothing like any side, they always ignore me. A few years ago I was left Homealone nearly all weekend. Or I sit on my phone all the time because I feel awkward...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 2, 2014

    My Family Hates Me

    Today took the cake! I blew up in the restaurant at my sister. Ever since the death of my parents my siblings and I have been distant. My youngest brother is in and out of jail, my oldest brother is selfish and in his old world and my oldest sister is always saying" i have my own...
    sadandlookingforanswers sadandlookingforanswers
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 27, 2013

    Confused

    All my life my family have isolated me and i dont understand why i mean i know that i aint like them at 13 i was sexually abused becaame dependant on drugs and was a boarderline alcoholic but they just dont seem to try to understand and when my mum passed away they all blamed me...
    unwrittensuicide unwrittensuicide
    16-17, F
    Aug 18, 2013

    Family Hate

        Today Im going to war with my Mom, and going to hit slap by her Saturday.   Because all of my family has threats to control me. When I didn't do something that...
    iwishtobe iwishtobe
    16-17
    3 Responses Jun 18, 2009

    It's thanksgiving weekend here in Canada

    and every time the holidays come, I get very depressed and worried a scene will be made by my family at our get togethers, which happens a lot. Today we had thanksgiving supper at my parents house, I still live with my parents btw due to only finding part time work and not being...
    cl20 cl20
    22-25, F
    Oct 11, 2015

    CAN YOU PANCAKE WEBMASTERS PLEASE FIX THIS

    ******* WEB? I'VE WRITTEN THIS FOUR ******* TIMES. FOUR. AND IT KEEPS DELETING THE WHOLE TEXT WHEN I SCROLL. I'M SICK OF IT ALREADY. mom doesn't care, granpa insults me and grandma defends him. dad is an ******* to me and made me go on hard diets and workouts since i was 7...
    asgardgard asgardgard
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 2, 2015

    Why Dont You Believe Me???

    well from a young age i have been constantly tormented my my cousin she is an evil twisted little horror she has pinched herself and said it was me lied to get me into trouble done everything she can to get my family to hate me. i have lived with my nan for years as me and my mom...
    jade2212 jade2212
    22-25
    1 Response Jan 24, 2012

    I Don't Feel Like I Have A Family.

    I'm the middle child and everybody in my family hates me. My sister is smart and the other one is pretty. my brother is a boy so he gets away with anything. Everybody compares me to my sisters. Even if I am getting better grades in school than my sisters did, they don't care...
    maybeif123 maybeif123
    16-17
    4 Responses Aug 27, 2012

    I am the eldest child in a family of four

    and I feel extremely separated from my family. I can be a bit sociopathic at times but I am a smart, kind, and young human being that actually has emotions. From Kindergarten I was bullied until now and anything I do does nothing. My sister who is 6 is extremely spoiled has she...
    legoturbo59 legoturbo59
    13-15, M
    Feb 27

    They really do.. They love my younger siblings

    and even my older sibling. They love and support them in everything they do. For me it's never good enough.No mmatter how hard I try, it's not good enough especially to my parents...
    Raven628 Raven628
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 31, 2014

    I'm 29 my life came crashing down around me

    about 2mths ago I've been given a bad hand at live so much so that I wish like the rest of my family I was dead but death isn't comming for me and I don't know why not. My mother threw herself down stairs when she was 6mths pregnant with me in the hope that she will loose me she...
    CathyKenney CathyKenney
    31-35
    2 Responses Jul 24, 2014

    I have never felt so alone.

    I am one of four children that comes from a very disfunctional family. My parents are always yelling at me and blaming me for everything. I can't ever do anything right unless I'm doing exactly what they want and stay quiet. I know parents' love is unconditional, but not mine...
    Projectpeace Projectpeace
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 23, 2015

    i was told that i m the reason my family

    stopped talking to each other and now im thinking of just giving them what they want and ending my life myself :(
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 30, 2015

    Tired Of Not Crying

    Everyday I recieve the glares, the muttering, the saying that I never do my best- that I'm a disgrace, that they hate me. What's wrong with you, why cant you be like a normal kid. Sometimes I wonder why we even bothered to adopt you. You're not the same, you never talk, you ugly...
    onelittlecat onelittlecat
    13-15, F
    6 Responses Feb 2, 2013

    This is the loniest ive ever felt in my life.

    Every single person in my family hates me because of my brother's girlfriend. She got pregnant as soon as they met and gave my parents a sob story about how she is poor and they let her live in our house. My brother and her are both horrible people. My brother always harrasses...
    marissa0630 marissa0630
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 16, 2015

    Because

    I'm a bastard, born of a foreigner father, for that **** them! I'm different, I'm a writer, I'm an empath, I want a better world, I live my dreams, for that **** them! I do what I think is best, I left, and I won't come back, for that **** them! They treated me like...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 20, 2009

    I Don'T Understand

    Why. I don't get it. I don't understand why they find joy in my misery. They laugh and smile at my pain and I don't know why. I just don't get it. Why do they do this to me.
    Finnyfan44 Finnyfan44
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 28, 2013

    My father,and sisters

    and some relatives...are incredibly envious of me. The way they deal with their envy is to treat me like ****,ignore me,cut me off....not allow me to be human and have failings. Even though I have taken incredible risks in my life....and have paid the price...they deny me that I...
    luvmybub11 luvmybub11
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 14, 2014

    They see as a nobody,

    a low life... When my sister was 16 she had a job, me i don't and still don't... Just today for tea, i had small amount of mash and a spoon full of sweet corn, i didn't put that ny mum did, i don't eat stew beef that why my mum made, everyone else had a proper meal not me. And...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Oct 19, 2014

    I need someone to vent to

    and listen to me. If any one also needs to vent call me at 301-877-8003. I am not trolling because I wouldn't have given you my actual number. I am a great listener :D. My name is Danae
    DeadlyArsenic DeadlyArsenic
    22-25, F
    Dec 27, 2015

    Eh, family can be overrated.

    You can't choose your family. Move forward in your life if it means your family is not in your life. Reach out to good friends in your life, they can be your new family. I speak from experience. I've been shunned be my remaining family (1 younger brother, sister and twin). My...
    LaLuna44 LaLuna44
    56-60, F
    Jan 11, 2014

    Am I Really A Burden?

    Please, have the patience to read this. I know it is long but I need help. No matter what I do, I have incredible difficulty being understood. Nobody puts themselves in my shoes even though I try to do the same for them. I have Depression and OCD. I've lived a very solitary...
    JunkoCola JunkoCola
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Mar 6, 2013

    As someone who constantly questions myself in

    everything, because I view that only a fool has so much conviction that they are never wrong, it is hard for me to believe that my family does not see me as an annoyance. As a child, I remember feeling like I was a burden upon everyone, mainly due to my father consistently...
    sunnyshellkitty sunnyshellkitty
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Jan 8, 2014

    I'm Not Good Enough

    They don't say I'm ugly, but they insist I change the way I look. They don't say they hate me, but they avoid me. They don't ask what I'm doing with my life, but they try to get me to act like someone else. I'm smart and pretty. And when I c them I behave. But I'm not good enough...
    fleurdelacour4 fleurdelacour4
    16-17, F
    Jan 18, 2012

    My Family Hates Me And I Have No Friends

    My story is so freaking complicated. I dont know where to begin. All I can say is that my family hates me. I am 35 years old and live in a one bedroom apartment with my parent and sibling. I moved there after college to help out and because they are the only family I have. I am a...
    JosiePackard JosiePackard
    36-40
    7 Responses Jan 6, 2013

    Quiet Girl Doesn't Fit In With Her Extended Family

    I'm very close to my immediate family (mom, dad, brother), but when the time comes for my very large extended family and us to cram ourselves into one obnoxiously decorated house for the holidays, things get uncomfortable. I'm a very introverted, serious, cerebral, and quiet...
    NewAntoinette NewAntoinette
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 8, 2012

    When my mom had me she pushed me away.

    when i was 3 she neglected me so much that busted my head and the neighbors had to take me to the hospital. My mom talks to me now kinda. They all make fun of me. i am 230 and they say i should stop eating everything in the house. my brother eats twice more than me and he is...
    greybear64 greybear64
    18-21, M
    1 Response May 27, 2014

    My Family Depends On Me; But Don't Respect Me For Being Female

    as for starters, my family thinks this is all excusable because they are Catholic. in alot of catholic families, girls are treated like **** and men are worshiped. moving on.... As long as I remember my childhood, I remember my mom being angry all the time yet trying to say she...
    lynit lynit
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 30, 2013

    I am the oldest, and my family hates me.

    I have 2 younger brothers, and 1 younger siblings. My parents hate all of us, and all my siblings hate each other. Our family is basically just a house of hatred. But, we all hide it, people do not know our family is so damaged, not even our cousins. My mom calls me stupid, a...
    LolaTavir98 LolaTavir98
    13-15, F
    1 Response Aug 20, 2015

    My Stupid Family!

    my family treats me like crap. i wish i was dead. i feel so alone. my brother and sister beat me up all the time. my parents dont beleive their little angles would do that and i get grounded for stupid things like crying over a one direction song or telling my brother to back off...
    depressed334 depressed334
    26-30
    May 25, 2013

    I refuse to hide my emotions anymore,

    I mean what have I got to loose? My life? Well right now that seems like more of a blessing than a curse.
    BulletproofLoneliness BulletproofLoneliness
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 27, 2014

    so, this i never understood: no matter what

    time of year it was, no matter my age, my family always saw me as someone who didn't belong, or at least it seemed that way. i tried to get along with my siblings, but they were far too engrossed in video games and computer games to ever care. my parents called me a mistake...
    Amwriter Amwriter
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 2, 2014

    What Is Family?

    I have always been labeled by my extended family as eccentric and out of control.  While growing up I always felt so disconnected from them. I was always vying for my grandmothers attention and never got it. I did find solace in my grandfather (thankfully). At least I have had...
    thatcher thatcher
    22-25, F
    Sep 15, 2012

    Mother And 2 Siblings Hate Me, I'm The Eldest

    My mother has hated me since I was 8 years old. I was sexually abused by 2 members of family (on my fathers side) around 7/8 yrs old. (my mother never knew at the time) I was beaten up by my mum's boyfriend with belts, shower hoses and also punched and kicked, he is my younger...
    evilfamily evilfamily
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Jul 23, 2012
    He1111 He1111
    16-17, F
    Oct 18, 2014

    Family seems not what I see in cheerios

    commercial. What is supposedly home feels like an empty house. I feel so alone, it's consuming me emotionally and mentally. I feel like I've been at times a good child and a sibling. The only people who supported me is my grandfather, who is now gone; My grandmother, who is...
    noncomposmentisish noncomposmentisish
    22-25
    1 Response Jan 25, 2014

    I Am Gay And My Mother Does Not Understand..

    I came out as a lesbian about a year ago. This year has been the best year of my life and the worst. I am so in love with my girl and we have a great relationship...or we had, but now it is just a little rocky. My mother hates me being gay and she would rather I moved out or got...
    mubia78 mubia78
    18-21, F
    Sep 26, 2013

    I Dont Understand Why

    I constantly get put down and taken the **** out of by them. anytime I get money they take it. I don't even have enough for travel to uni and back anymore!! My mum takes the mickey as much as my sister. Anytime I get paid, or anything its "I need this" and "I need that!" yet they...
    prettybrowneyes1993 prettybrowneyes1993
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2013

    The Blackest Sheep

    I´m the bad one, the trouble one the bi*ch...My stepmother has always been suportive with my sister who´s not her daughter also, but not with me. My dad just don´t want to listen to anything I have to say, he call me psycho once just because I felt in a moment so much anger...
    Alexaelen Alexaelen
    26-30, F
    Aug 18, 2012

    Gay Sheep Of The Family

    My family members are all (except for 3) fundamentalist christian conservative homophobes. My mother is a pastor, my father is an ex-pastor, my uncle is an ex-pastor, my other uncle is a pastor, and my grandfather is a retired pastor. Their denomination is Church of the Nazarene...
    brokenheaart brokenheaart
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 20, 2011

    I Wanna Feel Their Love

    Almost everyday I cry inside my room. I just wanna feel their love. I always feel that they hate me. they always compare me to my cousins or my sisters or even my close friends. i once asked my mom if i could get a haircut and she told me "no, even your friend didn't get a...
    simplejoys8216 simplejoys8216
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2013
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