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I My Husband Can Be Really Insensitive

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    My Husband Is Insensitive And Self-centered

    I have two kids; 20 and 22.  I've been married 9 years to my husband.   I work two jobs.  My primary job takes approx. 50 to 55 hours a week and my second job takes about 15 hours per week.  I work the second job to put my kids through college (thier...
    occnur occnur 41-45, F 10 Responses Dec 27, 2009

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    Emotionally Handicapped

    No, really. That's not an ironic turn of phrase. Where most other humans have 64 base emotions, he has 12. He really cannot empathize, though he tries. He's a good man, but he just doesn't understand what others feel, as he has only six base emotions, and the two extremes of each...
    misssybil misssybil 26-30, F Dec 21, 2011

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    Husband Is Worst Than Insensitive He Enjoys Being Mean

    I can concur with the one who says her husband is insensitive I left a good job to go work at the Post Office at his advice now I have 5 herniated discs thanks to it left to pursue a Masters Degree plus work a room service job when I can barely walk upright especially after him...
    kmchlstoney kmchlstoney 46-50 2 Responses May 18, 2010

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    Mother's Day Is Becoming a Burden This Year!

    Can I say I have come to dislike Mother's day!  I am a mother and love it.  But now this event has become a burden.  For the first time this Mother's Day I am going to have my mother and mother-in-law in town at the same time.  Here is my dilemma...
    kerette kerette 36-40, F Apr 20, 2008

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    Sometimes there's things you just can't talk to your family about and it's hard to know what to do with them. I'm a very open person, I say whatever I think and I don't keep...
    lillolipop lillolipop 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    My best friend is verbally abused by her parents and it directly effects me emotionally and physically. There doesn't seem to be anything I can do about it. I love her with all my...
    Draaaaaaven Draaaaaaven 13-15, M Jan 9

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    Moved to a new city to be close to a friend who SWORE she would be a support. Get here and *poof* gone. As a single mom moving because I believed she could help, her disappearing...
    essie01 essie01 31-35, F Jan 10

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    I'm tired of doing right by my husband... I'm tired of him not wanting to do his duties around the house without expecting something in return... I'm tired of him not showing me...
    August28 August28 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 6

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    What a wonderful thing to have someone you can tell anything to. I think that is what is nice about finding people of like mind on here. Some people are single, some are engaged...
    Ana8939 Ana8939 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    My Husband can be a pain sometimes but he is wonderful. He is hard working and loving and caring. That's all I want.. I couldn't be happier
    debbieeee2014 debbieeee2014 36-40, F Jan 16

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    It could be challenging to influence my consumer to go along with a thing whilst creative as Those people, but weR17;re gonna try and press him in the correct path.The more...
    Noah5284psu4 Noah5284psu4 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 13

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    No nightmares last night! Have this recurring dream though that I can levitate. I have so much control in my dream that I believe I can really levitate. Can anyone teach me?
    VeniceTheMenice VeniceTheMenice 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I know that everyone around wouldn't understand because I know them too well. There is no one I can really feel comfortable to pour out everything. Because it's unlike me to cry...
    InsanelyCrazy InsanelyCrazy 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    I think there are times when a particular story can really resonate with oneself, and so that's when I'm most likely to watch the same film over and over, I've found.
    HTreaty HTreaty 41-45, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Me and my ex broke off our relationship 5 years ago but it still feels like that I can't let him go. The thing is, I was not exactly a good partner. I was an emotionally abusive...
    Xlen Xlen 26-30, M 2 hrs ago

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    I think my husband hates me.....My childhood was REALLY bad. My current husband also had a childhood similar to mine but was not as lucky as me and his life took a different path...
    Lsngthsbttle Lsngthsbttle 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I met him when I was 19. We got married when I was 20. We've been married a little over a year and already I can see my husband loving me less and less. I was born and raised in...
    marriedyoungandconfused marriedyoungandconfused 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    If I go too long without a cigarette I get really nervous and jittery. After I smoke, I calm down. Just one more reason to inhale more smoke deeply into my awesomely black lungs...
    aliciawolf aliciawolf 51-55, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    So for anyone who has never been hurt by your husband, you are lying to yourself and if you say you have never hurt them, you are also lying to yourself. No one is perfect and...
    Nannyxd Nannyxd 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hi everyone, I do hope my post gets read and hopefully helps somebody along the line.i will never forget the help SOLVER KING render to me in my marital life. i have been married...
    sharon1234524 sharon1234524 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    Living in a Bubble My life story is so ordinary, one that has been told and retold. All during my 20s I was happy, happy, happy: working, earning, having an ideal family set up...
    stiltcourt stiltcourt 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have been married for almost 11 years. My father in law used to live with us when he was alive. He was a good man. My husband was not allowed to drink because of his issues with...
    hopelesswoman hopelesswoman 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I don't even know were to begin..... We have been married for about 7 years and 3 of those we spent separated from each other before deciding to work it out. I soon found out I was...
    nisa890 nisa890 26-30, F 21 hrs ago

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    Why is it that whenever my husband feels like having sex I have to give it to him, but when it comes to me he's always like "I'm tired" or "You can't force someone if they don't...
    Ava237 Ava237 26-30 4 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I was really sick the other day, in pain. Guess I have diverticulitis. I drove myself to the doctor, which was fine. That night it hurt really bad and I just wanted to take a...
    OnlyMySideOfTheStory OnlyMySideOfTheStory 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    The love of my life, my dear husband, 36 years old, lost his fight to urachal cancer in dec 2014. I was with him when he breathed his last. It's been really difficult and I am...
    abc2482 abc2482 31-35, F Jan 10

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    It's a long story. I'll try to shorten it. I've had three miscarriages, the last one being less than a year and a half ago. After several months, I finally decided to get tests...
    TaraF822 TaraF822 36-40 Jan 11

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    I don't know if this is the right group to post in but I do miss my husband very much. This is the first time I am posting about this so this is a difficult and scary post for me...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    I do believe that women should obey their husbands and I think that a great deal of problems in today's world can be contributed to the fact that this practice is no longer...
    KittyInDisguise KittyInDisguise 31-35, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    So I am pretty sure I am passive aggressive or something because I am afraid to say what it is I want so instead now I just sulk. I can’t stand my husband he has left me so many...
    andylynn39 andylynn39 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I don't hate my husbands dog, he just annoys me so much. He's a lab and he is so needy. He follows me every where I go, is very jealous and always needs attention. My husband is...
    morgp14 morgp14 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    I've tried so hard to just be friends with you, but it seems like you're just not interested...It's strange, the mixed signals we've given each other over the years... You know my...
    Chimera1019 Chimera1019 26-30, F Jan 9

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    Okay so I know alot of yoy are going to judge me once I tell my story but I don't care. approximately 3 1/2 years ago my husband Bert fell 8 feet onto a concrete floor injuring...
    AiymaSnikies AiymaSnikies 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    hello im new here...and sending positive vibes to all of you in the samw sitiation as my family..my husband has been gone for 15 months..36 more to go ..I am temporarily a single...
    Reneg8de Reneg8de 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My husband I have been together since highschool and we knew we wanted to be together forever. After 3 years of marriage we decided we wanted to try new things on the bedroom and...
    nikkigabber22 nikkigabber22 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    My husband is gone now a year I was able to tell him everything there wasn't nothing I couldn't tell him he was my best friend also I didn't think a year ago when he left me I...
    monica0215 monica0215 51-55, F 4 Responses Jan 16

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    1: What would you name your future daughter? Kyla 2: Do you miss anyone? Yes. Two people more than I should. 3: What if I told you that you were pretty? I would laugh and say...
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 3 days ago

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    It's a Saturday and there are so many things that needs to be done in my home. My husband is a carpenter and I am the primary bread winner in our family. I loathe the fact that...
    crystal828 crystal828 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    My husband is like a baby I may as well call him one of my children. We have three children, a 6, 5 and 3 year old. It's a miracle we are still together close to 9 years and I can...
    Ava237 Ava237 26-30 3 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I had the talk with my AH this morning. For christmas we had made the gift plans for our kids. I was to purchase the couple of items they wanted and we would give them a little...
    KatieDarling7 KatieDarling7 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    Today I was with my hubby and a couple of friends,we were having dinner and our baby sleeping,but one of his closest friends started to talk about his ex and then he started to...
    HappyWife16 HappyWife16 18-21, F Dec 30, 2014

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    No, I am not in love with someone. I have never experienced anything like this actually. I think it'd be cool to know this feeling of "falling in love" and be "in love" with...
    Lila2088 Lila2088 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 2

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    I've been married for 5 years , but been with him since i was 16. we've been happy all these years ,i would let him go out with friends i trusted him he wouldn't do nothing dumb...
    armani88 armani88 26-30, F 1 Response