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I My Husband Can Be Really Insensitive

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    My Husband Is Insensitive And Self-centered

    I have two kids; 20 and 22.  I've been married 9 years to my husband.   I work two jobs.  My primary job takes approx. 50 to 55 hours a week and my second job takes about 15 hours per week.  I work the second job to put my kids through college (thier...
    occnur occnur 41-45, F 10 Responses Dec 27, 2009

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    Emotionally Handicapped

    No, really. That's not an ironic turn of phrase. Where most other humans have 64 base emotions, he has 12. He really cannot empathize, though he tries. He's a good man, but he just doesn't understand what others feel, as he has only six base emotions, and the two extremes of each...
    misssybil misssybil 26-30, F Dec 21, 2011

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    Husband Is Worst Than Insensitive He Enjoys Being Mean

    I can concur with the one who says her husband is insensitive I left a good job to go work at the Post Office at his advice now I have 5 herniated discs thanks to it left to pursue a Masters Degree plus work a room service job when I can barely walk upright especially after him...
    kmchlstoney kmchlstoney 46-50 2 Responses May 18, 2010

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    Mother's Day Is Becoming a Burden This Year!

    Can I say I have come to dislike Mother's day!  I am a mother and love it.  But now this event has become a burden.  For the first time this Mother's Day I am going to have my mother and mother-in-law in town at the same time.  Here is my dilemma...
    kerette kerette 36-40, F Apr 20, 2008

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