I My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore and Hurts Me

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    My Heart Is Broken!

    I can't do this anymore, I just can't. My mind won't stop thinking about how I can end it. My heart aches worse then it has in 5 years...under my skin burns. My eyes are so sore from crying but I still can't stop. Why can't my husband care? Everything has been so different...
    moonprincessxox moonprincessxox
    26-30, F
    13 Responses Dec 14, 2010

    After 22 Years Of Marriage

    my husband left me , i still love him he told me to move on but i cant  i know this sounds terrible . pathetic .how are you supposed to stop loving someone , my heart aches , he left me for another woman, i feel like a failure , i  just want a chance to get back what we had...
    xcrushedx xcrushedx
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Mar 11, 2012

    My Husband Doesn't Know What He Wants

    We got married in Jan '07, before dating for 2 years. I am now 25 and he is 31.  We were a happy go lucky person that could have fun together, about 5 months ago, he told me he wasn't happy anymore and thought we needed to take a "break"...yes, a seperation. ...
    maehoyle maehoyle
    7 Responses Nov 19, 2008

    My Husband Doesn't Love Me

    I've been married for 3 years, we have a 2-year-old daughter. We had problems from the beginning of our marriage. I always feel like he talks to me as if I was his former wife (He's been divorced for 6 years now). The past weekend, he told me we don't have to have a relation in...
    mdcg mdcg
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Apr 12, 2012

    My Husband Is Not Happy

    I am going through the exact same thing. I am 21 and been married for 2 years. My husband says he doesn't feel anything. But it is my fault i pushed him away the last couple months. i shut myself down and didn't open up to anyone. Bad memories came flooding back. I wasn't the...
    tifanielovesme tifanielovesme
    4 Responses Dec 26, 2011

    It Hurts

    The name of this group sums it up really, I hurt nearly everyday. The feeling of being ignored, that you don't matter is one of the most hurtful things that a woman can experience. To be on the edge, excluded, left out, what else can I say? It chips away at my heart and I look...
    Lilacpearl Lilacpearl
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Sep 26, 2013

    Why Can't It All End?

    I don't even know where to start with my story. Today I am so miserable and I don't know what to do. Maybe I'll just tell you the facts... I've been married for almost 17 years. My husband doesn't like me at all. My teenage son treats me like garbage under his shoe and my husband...
    sadface1 sadface1
    41-45, F
    10 Responses Dec 15, 2010

    He Said I Love You, But I'm Not In Love With You And Then He Moved Out

    We have been together for 11 years married for 6.  We have two girls 10,4 and a 15 yr old from a previous relationship. We did everything together and I followed him all over the world. We spent the last 5 years in Europe and came back to the states in 2010. Two weeks ago he...
    thiswifeslife thiswifeslife
    4 Responses May 4, 2012

    How I Got Back My Boyfriend After Breakup

    I'm Javins Vivian from Cyprus, I want to testify of how i got back my boyfriend after breakup. After 4 years in relationship with my boyfriend he left me for another girl, i did all i could to get him back but went to no avail, i was emotionally devastated and confused until i...
    Vivian343e Vivian343e
    2 Responses Aug 1, 2013

    My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore

    The day after my birthday, my husband gets drunk without me knowing he was drinking anything.  Turns out there were bottles of  alcohol in the closet...hiding from kids...no problem, but seemed it was being hidden from me too.  Anyway, I was unnerved from the...
    lostinmarriage lostinmarriage
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 11, 2009

    How I Got My Husband Back

    i want to say a very big thanks and appreciation to Dr.Ishvara for bringing back my husband who left i and the kids for almost two months. i am very much greatful to Dr.Ishvara. I pray God almighty give you the strength and wisdom to help more people having similar problem like...
    tessy546567 tessy546567
    Jan 23, 2013

    My Husband Doesn't Want To Be Married Anymore

    My husband left me 3 years ago and moved to a rental property he owned. He still came for dinners, did work around the house, active in our teen boys lives and paid the bills. This summer we spent a lot of time together, several vacations,just he and I, parties,dinners, even a...
    Maxwell1277 Maxwell1277
    56-60, F
    3 Responses Sep 13, 2013

    Goodmorning.. Goodnight

    Every morning I throw my arms around you and tell you " have a good day!" with as much cheer & hopefulness as I can muster. You always look over the top of my head & tighten your mouth. You never hug me back... but you do wish me a good day back... the mornings are better than...
    1sweetcookie 1sweetcookie
    22-25, F
    Sep 27, 2013

    My Husband Doesn't Love Me

    I been reading so many of your stories I can't believe how many are similar to mine and each others. I actually find it really sad how many men take there wives or partners for granted, like it doesn't matter how they treat us, we'll still be there waiting. To start off I...
    Hrtbr8k Hrtbr8k
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 3, 2013


    My husband and I have been married a little over a year. We are compete soul mates. We got pregnant literally on the honeymoon and have a little girl we adore. She's our life. Being the first year of marriage and having a child, we're obviously financially struggling but we've...
    ncgirl23 ncgirl23
    4 Responses Jun 21, 2012

    I Feel So Numb

    I feel so alone. Husband and I have been together almost 20 years. Married for 15. This is a second marriage for both so we brought 3 children into the relationship and have a 15 year old daughter together. It was so hard blending the families and we have both done and said...
    kbdaun kbdaun
    3 Responses Oct 10, 2010

    I have been marry for 15 years ,

    my husband decided the he want to take a break...time to think...... I'm so lost ,confuse and not sure what to do. He want to leave ,but still want sex....great sex He is great in bed ,his touches are amazing.... But at the same time he is not sure about us... Help me
    Carvalho1989 Carvalho1989
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Jan 4, 2014

    He Loves Me

    If anyone would tell me that my husband doesn't love me anymore, I won't believe any of it.  It has to come from him.  I know he loves me more then life itself and I feel the same about him. I was told; your hubby isn't like any other guy.  I cannot disagree.My hubby always...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 8, 2011

    How Am I Going to Live Without Him?

    I am so scared of losing my husband of 15 years.  Things steadily started going down hill about a year ago.  He stopped having sex with me and sharing a bedroom with me soon after.  Then he stopped communicating with me and shows absolutely no interest in my life...
    redrose99 redrose99
    17 Responses Aug 30, 2008

    No Love For The Mistress

    I am mistress who is not receiving any love he hates me tells me I wish you would die he has cancer so he wakes up Angry everyday and takes it out on me cheated on me just straight out nasty to me if there's anything it hurt everything I do is for him
    Feb 12, 2013

    I Don't Know Anymore

    I just don't know what to do anymore.  I love my husband very much but I do not think that he loves me.  In fact I have always felt like he was just settling for me.  Some time ago he gave me a reason to no longer trust him.  At that point I already felt like...
    wilderness29 wilderness29
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Dec 16, 2009

    I Haven't Heard From Him All Day

    For the past couple of months my husband and I have been fighting a lot. We just can't seem to listen to one another. The last couple of weeks I've found the couch more comfortable than sleeping with him in bed. Just last month one of his old guy friends started calling him again...
    Hell0World Hell0World
    22-25, F
    12 Responses Oct 20, 2009

    My Husband Is Getting Married Again

    My life crumbles n meaningless. Am not ever can be happy and love my life that am living...am a soulless being who just wanna end life and not ever wanna live any much longer in this cruel world!!!! It all started when the person you love and trust,my husband,have betrayed me...
    aishah aishah
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Aug 16, 2008

    My Husband Is Planning On Leaving Me With Nothing!

    Hello, My husband and I have not been getting along lately. Today me and my husband have been arguing really over silly things, but he took it all to the next level yelling at me at the top of his lungs calling me all kinds of names b*tch , worthless, ect... not the first time...
    27Amanda 27Amanda
    4 Responses Sep 27, 2013

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    She don't like me. It's over. 😭😭💔💔 i am broken heart again.
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