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I My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore and Hurts Me

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    I Don't Know Anymore

    I just don't know what to do anymore.  I love my husband very much but I do not think that he loves me.  In fact I have always felt like he was just settling for me.  Some time ago he gave me a reason to no longer trust him.  At that point I already felt like...
    wilderness29 wilderness29 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 16, 2009

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    How I Got My Husband Back

    i want to say a very big thanks and appreciation to Dr.Ishvara for bringing back my husband who left i and the kids for almost two months. i am very much greatful to Dr.Ishvara. I pray God almighty give you the strength and wisdom to help more people having similar problem like...
    tessy546567 tessy546567 31-35 Jan 23, 2013

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    My Husband Is Getting Married Again

    My life crumbles n meaningless. Am not ever can be happy and love my life that am living...am a soulless being who just wanna end life and not ever wanna live any much longer in this cruel world!!!! It all started when the person you love and trust,my husband,have betrayed me...
    aishah aishah 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2008

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    My Husband Doesn't Want To Be Married Anymore

    My husband left me 3 years ago and moved to a rental property he owned. He still came for dinners, did work around the house, active in our teen boys lives and paid the bills. This summer we spent a lot of time together, several vacations,just he and I, parties,dinners, even a...
    Maxwell1277 Maxwell1277 56-60, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2013

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    He Said I Love You, But I'm Not In Love With You And Then He Moved Out

    We have been together for 11 years married for 6.  We have two girls 10,4 and a 15 yr old from a previous relationship. We did everything together and I followed him all over the world. We spent the last 5 years in Europe and came back to the states in 2010. Two weeks ago he...
    thiswifeslife thiswifeslife 31-35 4 Responses May 4, 2012

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    My Husband Is Planning On Leaving Me With Nothing!

    Hello, My husband and I have not been getting along lately. Today me and my husband have been arguing really over silly things, but he took it all to the next level yelling at me at the top of his lungs calling me all kinds of names b*tch , worthless, ect... not the first time...
    27Amanda 27Amanda 26-30 2 Responses Sep 27, 2013

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    I Haven't Heard From Him All Day

    For the past couple of months my husband and I have been fighting a lot. We just can't seem to listen to one another. The last couple of weeks I've found the couch more comfortable than sleeping with him in bed. Just last month one of his old guy friends started calling him again...
    Hell0World Hell0World 22-25, F 12 Responses Oct 20, 2009

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    Help!

    My husband and I have been married a little over a year. We are compete soul mates. We got pregnant literally on the honeymoon and have a little girl we adore. She's our life. Being the first year of marriage and having a child, we're obviously financially struggling but we've...
    ncgirl23 ncgirl23 18-21 4 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    My Husband Is Not Happy

    I am going through the exact same thing. I am 21 and been married for 2 years. My husband says he doesn't feel anything. But it is my fault i pushed him away the last couple months. i shut myself down and didn't open up to anyone. Bad memories came flooding back. I wasn't the...
    tifanielovesme tifanielovesme 18-21 2 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    It Hurts

    The name of this group sums it up really, I hurt nearly everyday. The feeling of being ignored, that you don't matter is one of the most hurtful things that a woman can experience. To be on the edge, excluded, left out, what else can I say? It chips away at my heart and I look...
    Lilacpearl Lilacpearl 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    How Am I Going to Live Without Him?

    I am so scared of losing my husband of 15 years.  Things steadily started going down hill about a year ago.  He stopped having sex with me and sharing a bedroom with me soon after.  Then he stopped communicating with me and shows absolutely no interest in my life...
    redrose99 redrose99 31-35 17 Responses Aug 30, 2008

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    My Husband Doesn't Love Me

    I been reading so many of your stories I can't believe how many are similar to mine and each others. I actually find it really sad how many men take there wives or partners for granted, like it doesn't matter how they treat us, we'll still be there waiting. To start off I...
    Hrtbr8k Hrtbr8k 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 3, 2013

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    Why Can't It All End?

    I don't even know where to start with my story. Today I am so miserable and I don't know what to do. Maybe I'll just tell you the facts... I've been married for almost 17 years. My husband doesn't like me at all. My teenage son treats me like garbage under his shoe and my husband...
    sadface1 sadface1 41-45, F 10 Responses Dec 15, 2010

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    My Husband Doesn't Know What He Wants

    We got married in Jan '07, before dating for 2 years. I am now 25 and he is 31.  We were a happy go lucky person that could have fun together, about 5 months ago, he told me he wasn't happy anymore and thought we needed to take a "break"...yes, a seperation. ...
    maehoyle maehoyle 22-25 7 Responses Nov 19, 2008

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    My Heart Is Broken!

    I can't do this anymore, I just can't. My mind won't stop thinking about how I can end it. My heart aches worse then it has in 5 years...under my skin burns. My eyes are so sore from crying but I still can't stop. Why can't my husband care? Everything has been so different...
    moonprincessxox moonprincessxox 22-25, F 13 Responses Dec 14, 2010

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    My Husband Doesn't Love Me

    I've been married for 3 years, we have a 2-year-old daughter. We had problems from the beginning of our marriage. I always feel like he talks to me as if I was his former wife (He's been divorced for 6 years now). The past weekend, he told me we don't have to have a relation in...
    mdcg mdcg 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 12, 2012

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    No Love For The Mistress

    I am mistress who is not receiving any love he hates me tells me I wish you would die he has cancer so he wakes up Angry everyday and takes it out on me cheated on me just straight out nasty to me if there's anything it hurt everything I do is for him
    Feb 12, 2013

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    After 22 Years Of Marriage

    my husband left me , i still love him he told me to move on but i cant  i know this sounds terrible . pathetic .how are you supposed to stop loving someone , my heart aches , he left me for another woman, i feel like a failure , i  just want a chance to get back what we had...
    xcrushedx xcrushedx 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2012

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    My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore

    The day after my birthday, my husband gets drunk without me knowing he was drinking anything.  Turns out there were bottles of  alcohol in the closet...hiding from kids...no problem, but seemed it was being hidden from me too.  Anyway, I was unnerved from the...
    lostinmarriage lostinmarriage 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2009

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    I Feel So Numb

    I feel so alone. Husband and I have been together almost 20 years. Married for 15. This is a second marriage for both so we brought 3 children into the relationship and have a 15 year old daughter together. It was so hard blending the families and we have both done and said...
    kbdaun kbdaun 46-50 2 Responses Oct 10, 2010

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    Goodmorning.. Goodnight

    Every morning I throw my arms around you and tell you " have a good day!" with as much cheer & hopefulness as I can muster. You always look over the top of my head & tighten your mouth. You never hug me back... but you do wish me a good day back... the mornings are better than...
    1sweetcookie 1sweetcookie 22-25, F Sep 27, 2013

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    How I Got Back My Boyfriend After Breakup

    I'm Javins Vivian from Cyprus, I want to testify of how i got back my boyfriend after breakup. After 4 years in relationship with my boyfriend he left me for another girl, i did all i could to get him back but went to no avail, i was emotionally devastated and confused until i...
    Vivian343e Vivian343e 22-25 1 Response Aug 1, 2013

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    I have been marry for 15 years ,

    my husband decided the he want to take a break...time to think...... I'm so lost ,confuse and not sure what to do. He want to leave ,but still want sex....great sex He is great in bed ,his touches are amazing.... But at the same time he is not sure about us... Help me
    Carvalho1989 Carvalho1989 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    He Loves Me

    If anyone would tell me that my husband doesn't love me anymore, I won't believe any of it.  It has to come from him.  I know he loves me more then life itself and I feel the same about him. I was told; your hubby isn't like any other guy.  I cannot disagree.My hubby always...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I've known for a fact that my love life has changed. My boyfriend does not love me anymore. In relation to all of your experiences, it would mean things are going differently...
    xluhhv xluhhv 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I am totally in love with this man but he has made it clear from the beginning that he doesn't want a relationship, we have been sleeping together for almost a year now and I am...
    cassandra1122 cassandra1122 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm in a deli inside a Grocery store. A girl is all over this guy, leaning into him, rubbing all over him like a Cat. He's moving away no display of emotion back, looked like he...
    TxRocker TxRocker 46-50, M Aug 13

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    And it sucks. It makes me feel like crap. He has made it clear he doesn't care and so why do i? it's not fair.
    Lilys3 Lilys3 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I'm just really really disappointed. I told my mom that this woman (I have a story of how I distrusted this adult who happens to be my moms close friend and how she is now bluntly...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    When ever we are in public my husband leaves me and ignore me. He always chooses his friends above me. I don't feel like he truly loves me for so many other reasons although he...
    msg1814 msg1814 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    We were friends for a very long time even before i had my first girlfriend. I could share to her almost everything in my life and same goes to her. When I broke up with my first ex...
    kukuclock kukuclock 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    When I was 12, I was helping my friend try to hook up with this girl at church camp but the more I talked to her, the more I started liking her. After camp that year we'd talk 24/7...
    BlondeGhost BlondeGhost 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Ugh. Falling in love with your best friend sucks 😔
    djjd123 djjd123 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    From the moment we first started talking I knew she was too good for me. She was so full of life when all I could see was darkness. When I first saw what she looked like my...
    happinessescapedme happinessescapedme 36-40, M a week ago

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    Everyday I check countless times to see if he's online . I find him online most times but he has forgotten about my existence . Pride won't let me text him first . I'm waiting to...
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333 22-25, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    For real the story of my life . I always fall for someone and I get hardcore friendzoned
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F Aug 7

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    How awful to love someone who doesn't love you back, at least not in the way you want her to. You are best friends, and you're always there for her her, but she has told you that...
    logic93 logic93 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Alright so...since you all know I like girls. And yes done it with a chick. Only one and first chick ever. We all know College experiences in college. One time and you move on...
    peacejenni peacejenni 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I have been in a relationship for about he'll I don't know cause its been off and on but we have a 14 year old son and I love her but I feel as though she doesn't love me
    insaneknight insaneknight 31-35, M Aug 4

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    I'm still in love with that boy that doesn't love me :( sometimes it would be easier if I didn't but I don't want the easy option. The pain that I feel is the only thing that makes...
    angelskyanderson angelskyanderson 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    So I got married in June. I've known my husband for 7-8 years (lost track), been living with him for around 7 months, and dating for a year. We have a baby together. Last month he...
    Ealasme Ealasme 16-17, F Aug 19

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    I made a pact with the only friend I have that listens to me, that we would not discuss our relationships anymore. Main reason is because it makes it awkward for us when we share...
    Krissy1029 Krissy1029 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I want to love my mom but I just don't. It hurts me to say it and I wouldn't tell her that because I care about her as a person, just as I care about anyone else's feelings. When I...
    lynnieruns lynnieruns 41-45, F 1 day ago

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    Time to vent or whatever. Enjoy. January 28th, 2014... I met him. Where? Tumblr! Of course. I was typically following back some blogs and answering messages. Well, gosh, I...
    captivateyourlife captivateyourlife 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    My sisters don't accept me for who I am just because I don't act like them. My mom in some ways doesn't like it either but she doesn't dislike the whole 100% like my sisters. And...
    MysteriousRose MysteriousRose 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I need help... So I met this guy online 3 years ago when I was 13 years old. He is 7 years older than me and I always had excuses of why I couldn't see him. Mostly because of my...
    MikaylaG MikaylaG 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 17

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    Well it sucks!! having an infatuation feeling with someone else it feels good. great actually, but I really don't understand, why?! is when you confess your feelings to the"person...
    jayperez89 jayperez89 22-25, M 23 hrs ago

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    I know I'm too young to say something like this but, yeah, I would rather be alone than with someone I don't love. The reason I'm saying this is for the past eight or so months, I...
    EvanescentIridescent EvanescentIridescent 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I met a boy my freshman year of high school. We spent a lot of time together, not really doing much of anything. I felt butterflies when he said sweet things but I wasn't until...
    whocanibe whocanibe 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    For one, when I first got a girlfriend my mom told me I was too young and naive to be dating and tried to force me to break up with her. Another time a few months ago, my...
    littledreamgirl littledreamgirl 13-15, F Aug 13