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I My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore and Hurts Me

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    I Haven't Heard From Him All Day

    For the past couple of months my husband and I have been fighting a lot. We just can't seem to listen to one another. The last couple of weeks I've found the couch more comfortable than sleeping with him in bed. Just last month one of his old guy friends started calling him again...
    Hell0World Hell0World 22-25, F 11 Responses Oct 20, 2009

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    My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore

    The day after my birthday, my husband gets drunk without me knowing he was drinking anything.  Turns out there were bottles of  alcohol in the closet...hiding from kids...no problem, but seemed it was being hidden from me too.  Anyway, I was unnerved from the...
    lostinmarriage lostinmarriage 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2009

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    It Hurts

    The name of this group sums it up really, I hurt nearly everyday. The feeling of being ignored, that you don't matter is one of the most hurtful things that a woman can experience. To be on the edge, excluded, left out, what else can I say? It chips away at my heart and I look...
    Lilacpearl Lilacpearl 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    I Don't Know Anymore

    I just don't know what to do anymore.  I love my husband very much but I do not think that he loves me.  In fact I have always felt like he was just settling for me.  Some time ago he gave me a reason to no longer trust him.  At that point I already felt like...
    wilderness29 wilderness29 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 16, 2009

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    My Heart Is Broken!

    I can't do this anymore, I just can't. My mind won't stop thinking about how I can end it. My heart aches worse then it has in 5 years...under my skin burns. My eyes are so sore from crying but I still can't stop. Why can't my husband care? Everything has been so different...
    moonprincessxox moonprincessxox 26-30, F 13 Responses Dec 14, 2010

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    How I Got Back My Boyfriend After Breakup

    I'm Javins Vivian from Cyprus, I want to testify of how i got back my boyfriend after breakup. After 4 years in relationship with my boyfriend he left me for another girl, i did all i could to get him back but went to no avail, i was emotionally devastated and confused until i...
    Vivian343e Vivian343e 22-25 2 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    I have been marry for 15 years ,

    my husband decided the he want to take a break...time to think...... I'm so lost ,confuse and not sure what to do. He want to leave ,but still want sex....great sex He is great in bed ,his touches are amazing.... But at the same time he is not sure about us... Help me
    Carvalho1989 Carvalho1989 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 4, 2014

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    How Am I Going to Live Without Him?

    I am so scared of losing my husband of 15 years.  Things steadily started going down hill about a year ago.  He stopped having sex with me and sharing a bedroom with me soon after.  Then he stopped communicating with me and shows absolutely no interest in my life...
    redrose99 redrose99 31-35 16 Responses Aug 30, 2008

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    Why Can't It All End?

    I don't even know where to start with my story. Today I am so miserable and I don't know what to do. Maybe I'll just tell you the facts... I've been married for almost 17 years. My husband doesn't like me at all. My teenage son treats me like garbage under his shoe and my husband...
    sadface1 sadface1 41-45, F 10 Responses Dec 15, 2010

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    My Husband Doesn't Love Me

    I've been married for 3 years, we have a 2-year-old daughter. We had problems from the beginning of our marriage. I always feel like he talks to me as if I was his former wife (He's been divorced for 6 years now). The past weekend, he told me we don't have to have a relation in...
    mdcg mdcg 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 12, 2012

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    My Husband Doesn't Want To Be Married Anymore

    My husband left me 3 years ago and moved to a rental property he owned. He still came for dinners, did work around the house, active in our teen boys lives and paid the bills. This summer we spent a lot of time together, several vacations,just he and I, parties,dinners, even a...
    Maxwell1277 Maxwell1277 56-60, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2013

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    How I Got My Husband Back

    i want to say a very big thanks and appreciation to Dr.Ishvara for bringing back my husband who left i and the kids for almost two months. i am very much greatful to Dr.Ishvara. I pray God almighty give you the strength and wisdom to help more people having similar problem like...
    tessy546567 tessy546567 31-35 Jan 23, 2013

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    I Feel So Numb

    I feel so alone. Husband and I have been together almost 20 years. Married for 15. This is a second marriage for both so we brought 3 children into the relationship and have a 15 year old daughter together. It was so hard blending the families and we have both done and said...
    kbdaun kbdaun 46-50 2 Responses Oct 10, 2010

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    My Husband Is Not Happy

    I am going through the exact same thing. I am 21 and been married for 2 years. My husband says he doesn't feel anything. But it is my fault i pushed him away the last couple months. i shut myself down and didn't open up to anyone. Bad memories came flooding back. I wasn't the...
    tifanielovesme tifanielovesme 18-21 3 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    My Husband Doesn't Know What He Wants

    We got married in Jan '07, before dating for 2 years. I am now 25 and he is 31.  We were a happy go lucky person that could have fun together, about 5 months ago, he told me he wasn't happy anymore and thought we needed to take a "break"...yes, a seperation. ...
    maehoyle maehoyle 22-25 7 Responses Nov 19, 2008

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    He Loves Me

    If anyone would tell me that my husband doesn't love me anymore, I won't believe any of it.  It has to come from him.  I know he loves me more then life itself and I feel the same about him. I was told; your hubby isn't like any other guy.  I cannot disagree.My hubby always...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2011

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    My Husband Is Planning On Leaving Me With Nothing!

    Hello, My husband and I have not been getting along lately. Today me and my husband have been arguing really over silly things, but he took it all to the next level yelling at me at the top of his lungs calling me all kinds of names b*tch , worthless, ect... not the first time...
    27Amanda 27Amanda 26-30 4 Responses Sep 27, 2013

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    He Said I Love You, But I'm Not In Love With You And Then He Moved Out

    We have been together for 11 years married for 6.  We have two girls 10,4 and a 15 yr old from a previous relationship. We did everything together and I followed him all over the world. We spent the last 5 years in Europe and came back to the states in 2010. Two weeks ago he...
    thiswifeslife thiswifeslife 31-35 4 Responses May 4, 2012

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    Goodmorning.. Goodnight

    Every morning I throw my arms around you and tell you " have a good day!" with as much cheer & hopefulness as I can muster. You always look over the top of my head & tighten your mouth. You never hug me back... but you do wish me a good day back... the mornings are better than...
    1sweetcookie 1sweetcookie 22-25, F Sep 27, 2013

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    Help!

    My husband and I have been married a little over a year. We are compete soul mates. We got pregnant literally on the honeymoon and have a little girl we adore. She's our life. Being the first year of marriage and having a child, we're obviously financially struggling but we've...
    ncgirl23 ncgirl23 18-21 4 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    My Husband Doesn't Love Me

    I been reading so many of your stories I can't believe how many are similar to mine and each others. I actually find it really sad how many men take there wives or partners for granted, like it doesn't matter how they treat us, we'll still be there waiting. To start off I...
    Hrtbr8k Hrtbr8k 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 3, 2013

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    After 22 Years Of Marriage

    my husband left me , i still love him he told me to move on but i cant  i know this sounds terrible . pathetic .how are you supposed to stop loving someone , my heart aches , he left me for another woman, i feel like a failure , i  just want a chance to get back what we had...
    xcrushedx xcrushedx 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2012

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    My Husband Is Getting Married Again

    My life crumbles n meaningless. Am not ever can be happy and love my life that am living...am a soulless being who just wanna end life and not ever wanna live any much longer in this cruel world!!!! It all started when the person you love and trust,my husband,have betrayed me...
    aishah aishah 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2008

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    After being together for a long time my boyfriend doesn't put in the loving effort like he used too. He would always take me out and spoil me with gifts but now its been over 4...
    dfe213 dfe213 18-21, F 1 Response May 14

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    So.... I love somebody who doesn't reciprocate my feelings back. He loves me but he doesn't see me as his long term, one and only kinda woman. He tells me about other women he...
    OrchidLilacChrys OrchidLilacChrys 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Why is she always picking on me. She asked my dad if he has hit me or screamed at me for doing something bad, and when he says no, she treats him as if he was a horrible husband. I...
    hopeespe hopeespe 16-17, F Apr 27

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    I was dating a girl who is 7 years elder than me. We been thru many ups and downs together. She suffered great depression and anxiety. We have been in a relationship for few times...
    SunnyGuy1106 SunnyGuy1106 22-25, M May 7

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    It was never supposed to happen like this. I thought I'd moved beyond getting blindsided by love. Foolish enough to think that my heart was as logical as my brain (well, most of...
    KhalJinghis KhalJinghis 26-30, M May 14

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    I loved someone who didn't love me... I still love someone who doesn't love me. It's gotten easier though because I accepted the fact that we will never work. He's a great friend...
    kristen1993 kristen1993 22-25, F 3 Responses May 6

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    I met a girl fell madly in love, took her the kids in add my own, coached their youth sports, took them all on vacation, would do anything for them. We were together for as little...
    timmy8512 timmy8512 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 28

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    I'm 33 years old and we started dating when we were teenagers. We are married now with two children. Our personalities are on the opposite ends of the spectrum - he's an...
    Oneisalonelynumber Oneisalonelynumber 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    I used to have a great relationship with this girl. We had just started talking but there was no romance just fun. We then started developing feelings for each other and I she was...
    Jeenyu Jeenyu 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 28

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    I have loved the same person for I don't even know how long. To be fair, she doesn't actually know, so I guess there will always be that big "what if" that is killing me. The issue...
    BowtiesRcool BowtiesRcool 22-25, M 2 Responses May 2

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    I don't need to be with someone to be happy so I am not going to be with someone I don't love. This doesn't apply to dating them I am going to say, because dating is meant for...
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 18-21, F 1 Response May 8

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    September 2014. I just turned 17 and started college. I met this really pretty girl with red hair and piercings and I immediately got a crush on her. It took me two weeks to build...
    AwkwardSarcasm AwkwardSarcasm 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Am new to these and I need a good advice on this, am just 22 and my relationship is almost 2years. My boyfriend is not showing me affection, we only kiss when we want to have sex...
    Marryam13 Marryam13 22-25 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have a guy who is flirting with me everyday but sometimes he distances himself and other times he is really close to me. Then one day he was really flirting with me and I thought...
    KAG676 KAG676 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Me and two of my siblings were adapted, so my parents had three kids and adopted three I was taught from an early age that blood doesn't make a family love does
    PanamanianPenguin PanamanianPenguin 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 24

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    Just because we are "family" doesn't mean they care... I've found more love out of my in-a-way vicious cat than relatives... Most of the advice I get though has been from teachers...
    Sil833 Sil833 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I had realized that my mother is toxic. She's always sending bad vibes. Negativity. She uses me but she doesn't like to spend time with me. It used to be painful, but I am okay...
    CantatriceChauve CantatriceChauve 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    Actually I've always realised that. Here is something I recently posted on another group here. I've not spoken to my father for many years. The last time he tried to speak to me...
    Romanadvoratrelundar Romanadvoratrelundar 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 26

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    Ages doesn't matter at all. My soon to be boyfriend is 6 years older then me. I don't give a flying ****. He treats me good and we have fun when we hang out or talk on the phone...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 27

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    You might feel sorry for me at the same time annoyed but, I like this beautiful boy who doesn't know I exist. Flawless handsome man every girl would ever want. I wish I could...
    sadsax21 sadsax21 18-21, F Apr 28

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    When I was married I loved my husband with every fiber of my being. He didn't love me.. But time heals all wounds. To an extent.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 4