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I My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore and Hurts Me

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    He Said I Love You, But I'm Not In Love With You And Then He Moved Out

    We have been together for 11 years married for 6.  We have two girls 10,4 and a 15 yr old from a previous relationship. We did everything together and I followed him all over the world. We spent the last 5 years in Europe and came back to the states in 2010. Two weeks ago he...
    thiswifeslife thiswifeslife 31-35 4 Responses May 4, 2012

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    My Husband Doesn't Love Me

    I've been married for 3 years, we have a 2-year-old daughter. We had problems from the beginning of our marriage. I always feel like he talks to me as if I was his former wife (He's been divorced for 6 years now). The past weekend, he told me we don't have to have a relation in...
    mdcg mdcg 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 12, 2012

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    He Loves Me

    If anyone would tell me that my husband doesn't love me anymore, I won't believe any of it.  It has to come from him.  I know he loves me more then life itself and I feel the same about him. I was told; your hubby isn't like any other guy.  I cannot disagree.My hubby always...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2011

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    My Husband Is Not Happy

    I am going through the exact same thing. I am 21 and been married for 2 years. My husband says he doesn't feel anything. But it is my fault i pushed him away the last couple months. i shut myself down and didn't open up to anyone. Bad memories came flooding back. I wasn't the...
    tifanielovesme tifanielovesme 18-21 2 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    I Haven't Heard From Him All Day

    For the past couple of months my husband and I have been fighting a lot. We just can't seem to listen to one another. The last couple of weeks I've found the couch more comfortable than sleeping with him in bed. Just last month one of his old guy friends started calling him again...
    Hell0World Hell0World 22-25, F 12 Responses Oct 20, 2009

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    My Husband Is Planning On Leaving Me With Nothing!

    Hello, My husband and I have not been getting along lately. Today me and my husband have been arguing really over silly things, but he took it all to the next level yelling at me at the top of his lungs calling me all kinds of names b*tch , worthless, ect... not the first time...
    27Amanda 27Amanda 26-30 3 Responses Sep 27, 2013

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    My Husband Doesn't Know What He Wants

    We got married in Jan '07, before dating for 2 years. I am now 25 and he is 31.  We were a happy go lucky person that could have fun together, about 5 months ago, he told me he wasn't happy anymore and thought we needed to take a "break"...yes, a seperation. ...
    maehoyle maehoyle 22-25 7 Responses Nov 19, 2008

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    How I Got My Husband Back

    i want to say a very big thanks and appreciation to Dr.Ishvara for bringing back my husband who left i and the kids for almost two months. i am very much greatful to Dr.Ishvara. I pray God almighty give you the strength and wisdom to help more people having similar problem like...
    tessy546567 tessy546567 31-35 Jan 23, 2013

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    My Husband Doesn't Want To Be Married Anymore

    My husband left me 3 years ago and moved to a rental property he owned. He still came for dinners, did work around the house, active in our teen boys lives and paid the bills. This summer we spent a lot of time together, several vacations,just he and I, parties,dinners, even a...
    Maxwell1277 Maxwell1277 56-60, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2013

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    It Hurts

    The name of this group sums it up really, I hurt nearly everyday. The feeling of being ignored, that you don't matter is one of the most hurtful things that a woman can experience. To be on the edge, excluded, left out, what else can I say? It chips away at my heart and I look...
    Lilacpearl Lilacpearl 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    I have been marry for 15 years ,

    my husband decided the he want to take a break...time to think...... I'm so lost ,confuse and not sure what to do. He want to leave ,but still want sex....great sex He is great in bed ,his touches are amazing.... But at the same time he is not sure about us... Help me
    Carvalho1989 Carvalho1989 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 4

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    Goodmorning.. Goodnight

    Every morning I throw my arms around you and tell you " have a good day!" with as much cheer & hopefulness as I can muster. You always look over the top of my head & tighten your mouth. You never hug me back... but you do wish me a good day back... the mornings are better than...
    1sweetcookie 1sweetcookie 22-25, F Sep 27, 2013

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    Why Can't It All End?

    I don't even know where to start with my story. Today I am so miserable and I don't know what to do. Maybe I'll just tell you the facts... I've been married for almost 17 years. My husband doesn't like me at all. My teenage son treats me like garbage under his shoe and my husband...
    sadface1 sadface1 41-45, F 10 Responses Dec 15, 2010

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    My Husband Doesn't Love Me

    I been reading so many of your stories I can't believe how many are similar to mine and each others. I actually find it really sad how many men take there wives or partners for granted, like it doesn't matter how they treat us, we'll still be there waiting. To start off I...
    Hrtbr8k Hrtbr8k 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 3, 2013

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    How I Got Back My Boyfriend After Breakup

    I'm Javins Vivian from Cyprus, I want to testify of how i got back my boyfriend after breakup. After 4 years in relationship with my boyfriend he left me for another girl, i did all i could to get him back but went to no avail, i was emotionally devastated and confused until i...
    Vivian343e Vivian343e 22-25 1 Response Aug 1, 2013

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    My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore

    The day after my birthday, my husband gets drunk without me knowing he was drinking anything.  Turns out there were bottles of  alcohol in the closet...hiding from kids...no problem, but seemed it was being hidden from me too.  Anyway, I was unnerved from the...
    lostinmarriage lostinmarriage 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2009

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    How Am I Going to Live Without Him?

    I am so scared of losing my husband of 15 years.  Things steadily started going down hill about a year ago.  He stopped having sex with me and sharing a bedroom with me soon after.  Then he stopped communicating with me and shows absolutely no interest in my life...
    redrose99 redrose99 31-35 17 Responses Aug 30, 2008

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    After 22 Years Of Marriage

    my husband left me , i still love him he told me to move on but i cant  i know this sounds terrible . pathetic .how are you supposed to stop loving someone , my heart aches , he left me for another woman, i feel like a failure , i  just want a chance to get back what we had...
    xcrushedx xcrushedx 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2012

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    I Feel So Numb

    I feel so alone. Husband and I have been together almost 20 years. Married for 15. This is a second marriage for both so we brought 3 children into the relationship and have a 15 year old daughter together. It was so hard blending the families and we have both done and said...
    kbdaun kbdaun 46-50 2 Responses Oct 10, 2010

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    Help!

    My husband and I have been married a little over a year. We are compete soul mates. We got pregnant literally on the honeymoon and have a little girl we adore. She's our life. Being the first year of marriage and having a child, we're obviously financially struggling but we've...
    ncgirl23 ncgirl23 18-21 4 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    No Love For The Mistress

    I am mistress who is not receiving any love he hates me tells me I wish you would die he has cancer so he wakes up Angry everyday and takes it out on me cheated on me just straight out nasty to me if there's anything it hurt everything I do is for him
    Feb 12, 2013

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    I Don't Know Anymore

    I just don't know what to do anymore.  I love my husband very much but I do not think that he loves me.  In fact I have always felt like he was just settling for me.  Some time ago he gave me a reason to no longer trust him.  At that point I already felt like...
    wilderness29 wilderness29 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 16, 2009

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    My Husband Is Getting Married Again

    My life crumbles n meaningless. Am not ever can be happy and love my life that am living...am a soulless being who just wanna end life and not ever wanna live any much longer in this cruel world!!!! It all started when the person you love and trust,my husband,have betrayed me...
    aishah aishah 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2008

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    My Heart Is Broken!

    I can't do this anymore, I just can't. My mind won't stop thinking about how I can end it. My heart aches worse then it has in 5 years...under my skin burns. My eyes are so sore from crying but I still can't stop. Why can't my husband care? Everything has been so different...
    moonprincessxox moonprincessxox 22-25, F 13 Responses Dec 14, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I get on here and see people talk about being heart-broken over people who have done them wrong. Well, I am on the other side of the coin. I am heart-broken because I done a very...
    Godsmack23 Godsmack23 36-40, M Sep 10

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    Someone once asked me in a group discussion, "Would you rather have loved and lost, or never loved at all?" The people before me had all said, "To have loved and lost of course...
    penumbraprime penumbraprime 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 7

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    he loved me..but i rejected him...now im in love with him..he doesnt have gf..but he is so proud and he doesnt want to be with me anymore....
    1golenaz 1golenaz 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 12

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    I'm in love with my cousin but I have no idea if he likes me or not I hope he does but I'm not for sure cause he has a girlfriend and I would love to take her down but that's not...
    laurenbraun10 laurenbraun10 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    The guy I started having a crush on in third grade and am now in love with, started dating one of my best friends and I get that she can't help what she feels but idk that really...
    karlagarcia17 karlagarcia17 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    Did you ever love someone who didn't returned you love? Yes that's very, very sad! :( But what if you are afraid to confess your feelings to that someone, it is even more difficult...
    delfin13 delfin13 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    GOD bless all of you. Be in love with GOD because he is in love with you. GOD is the creator of all.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F Sep 2

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    I may not be deserving of your love however, you will always be deserving of mine...
    Organicallygrownlove Organicallygrownlove 36-40 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I met this girl in winter time a foreign exchange student 23 years old. It all went very fast we kept in touch over whatsapp and it was clear from the start we both were drawn to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 days ago

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    just like that my dreams where crushed, and so we never where
    o3118152 o3118152 26-30, M Sep 23

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    Are my hives finally resolving? Lately, my hives have gone down a lot and I am no longer having them daily. The cycle did not break until after my husband began working out of...
    Anaheart Anaheart 36-40 Sep 19

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    If I was your daughter, and you where dating someone, my oppinion would be important to you, right? Well my mom said yes, but her actions say otherwise. She got married about 6-7...
    aviodthisnoid aviodthisnoid 13-15, F Sep 19

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    I have a friend that had a huge crush on me in 8th grade. We used to walk together with some of his friends. Two months before the last day if school he began acting weird. It was...
    LightTheDarkness LightTheDarkness 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 14

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    Do I really have anything left now? My family doesn't talk to me as a person, only something that gets schoolwork done. Do I even have friends? I barely get to talk to one, another...
    YoureMyGlowstone YoureMyGlowstone 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 18

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    I don't give two ***** anymore about who likes me and who doesn't. I use to care about people opinions it dictated my life but now i just don't give a **** at all. I really just...
    Dsanders13 Dsanders13 16-17, F Sep 11

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    I feel like my best friend doesn't want to talk to me anymore so I gave up on talking to him for now
    JalenFrankie616 JalenFrankie616 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 15

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    Yea so I met this guy online at the same time i was fighting depression and bullshit from my family . We spoke we chated we dated . little did I know that my little friend was a...
    tyrahkan tyrahkan 22-25 2 Responses Sep 20

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    so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now and his mom (and grandma) don't like me AT ALL. at first she was nice to me, she would always tell me how pretty I...
    lundenxo lundenxo 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    Throughout most of my life, I've been closer to my mother then to my father, for various reasons, we don't get along. My mother has been the overprotective and controlling type...
    Gregory1990 Gregory1990 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    and it's a good thing it didn't work out because then I never would've met my wonderful husband and had three wonderful children. And as for the guy I loved who didn't love me? He...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 16

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    Up to this point, my life has been all about loving/caring about people that don't love or care about me. I started out as a hopeless romantic, waiting for prince charming to...
    angelique422 angelique422 22-25, F Sep 13

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    A few years back, I fell in love with a friend of mine, another guy. I didn't understand the feeling I had, and I confessed to him, not to get with him or anything, but to expose...
    thecr00cible thecr00cible 18-21, M Sep 15

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    Dear whatever doesn't kill me... Im strong enough now.
    SweetEmotions SweetEmotions 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 18

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    Having an abortion doesn't make me a bad person. It does not define who I am as a human being. An abortion is a choice. A very difficult choice that I had to make. And because of...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 18

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    I posted not even 2hrs ago about being confused about my boyfriend. Update: he dumped me whilst we were lying in bed after having a rough day. He sent me a hey babe, how was...
    missypetunia missypetunia 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 23

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    I used to love the band Fall Out Boy.. I just don't love them no more.. they haven't had a hit in years.. Their sound is no longer music to my ears! I heard online they are trying...
    TheMightyAphrodite TheMightyAphrodite 41-45, F 1 Response