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I My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore and Hurts Me

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    I Don't Know Anymore

    I just don't know what to do anymore.  I love my husband very much but I do not think that he loves me.  In fact I have always felt like he was just settling for me.  Some time ago he gave me a reason to no longer trust him.  At that point I already felt like...
    wilderness29 wilderness29 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 16, 2009

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    It Hurts

    The name of this group sums it up really, I hurt nearly everyday. The feeling of being ignored, that you don't matter is one of the most hurtful things that a woman can experience. To be on the edge, excluded, left out, what else can I say? It chips away at my heart and I look...
    Lilacpearl Lilacpearl 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    My Husband Is Getting Married Again

    My life crumbles n meaningless. Am not ever can be happy and love my life that am living...am a soulless being who just wanna end life and not ever wanna live any much longer in this cruel world!!!! It all started when the person you love and trust,my husband,have betrayed me...
    aishah aishah 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2008

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    How Am I Going to Live Without Him?

    I am so scared of losing my husband of 15 years.  Things steadily started going down hill about a year ago.  He stopped having sex with me and sharing a bedroom with me soon after.  Then he stopped communicating with me and shows absolutely no interest in my life...
    redrose99 redrose99 31-35 17 Responses Aug 30, 2008

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    No Love For The Mistress

    I am mistress who is not receiving any love he hates me tells me I wish you would die he has cancer so he wakes up Angry everyday and takes it out on me cheated on me just straight out nasty to me if there's anything it hurt everything I do is for him
    Feb 12, 2013

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    How I Got Back My Boyfriend After Breakup

    I'm Javins Vivian from Cyprus, I want to testify of how i got back my boyfriend after breakup. After 4 years in relationship with my boyfriend he left me for another girl, i did all i could to get him back but went to no avail, i was emotionally devastated and confused until i...
    Vivian343e Vivian343e 22-25 1 Response Aug 1, 2013

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    My Husband Doesn't Know What He Wants

    We got married in Jan '07, before dating for 2 years. I am now 25 and he is 31.  We were a happy go lucky person that could have fun together, about 5 months ago, he told me he wasn't happy anymore and thought we needed to take a "break"...yes, a seperation. ...
    maehoyle maehoyle 22-25 7 Responses Nov 19, 2008

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    Goodmorning.. Goodnight

    Every morning I throw my arms around you and tell you " have a good day!" with as much cheer & hopefulness as I can muster. You always look over the top of my head & tighten your mouth. You never hug me back... but you do wish me a good day back... the mornings are better than...
    1sweetcookie 1sweetcookie 22-25, F Sep 27, 2013

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    My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore

    The day after my birthday, my husband gets drunk without me knowing he was drinking anything.  Turns out there were bottles of  alcohol in the closet...hiding from kids...no problem, but seemed it was being hidden from me too.  Anyway, I was unnerved from the...
    lostinmarriage lostinmarriage 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2009

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    My Heart Is Broken!

    I can't do this anymore, I just can't. My mind won't stop thinking about how I can end it. My heart aches worse then it has in 5 years...under my skin burns. My eyes are so sore from crying but I still can't stop. Why can't my husband care? Everything has been so different...
    moonprincessxox moonprincessxox 22-25, F 13 Responses Dec 14, 2010

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    How I Got My Husband Back

    i want to say a very big thanks and appreciation to Dr.Ishvara for bringing back my husband who left i and the kids for almost two months. i am very much greatful to Dr.Ishvara. I pray God almighty give you the strength and wisdom to help more people having similar problem like...
    tessy546567 tessy546567 31-35 Jan 23, 2013

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    I Haven't Heard From Him All Day

    For the past couple of months my husband and I have been fighting a lot. We just can't seem to listen to one another. The last couple of weeks I've found the couch more comfortable than sleeping with him in bed. Just last month one of his old guy friends started calling him again...
    Hell0World Hell0World 22-25, F 12 Responses Oct 20, 2009

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    Help!

    My husband and I have been married a little over a year. We are compete soul mates. We got pregnant literally on the honeymoon and have a little girl we adore. She's our life. Being the first year of marriage and having a child, we're obviously financially struggling but we've...
    ncgirl23 ncgirl23 18-21 4 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    After 22 Years Of Marriage

    my husband left me , i still love him he told me to move on but i cant  i know this sounds terrible . pathetic .how are you supposed to stop loving someone , my heart aches , he left me for another woman, i feel like a failure , i  just want a chance to get back what we had...
    xcrushedx xcrushedx 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2012

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    Why Can't It All End?

    I don't even know where to start with my story. Today I am so miserable and I don't know what to do. Maybe I'll just tell you the facts... I've been married for almost 17 years. My husband doesn't like me at all. My teenage son treats me like garbage under his shoe and my husband...
    sadface1 sadface1 41-45, F 10 Responses Dec 15, 2010

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    My Husband Is Not Happy

    I am going through the exact same thing. I am 21 and been married for 2 years. My husband says he doesn't feel anything. But it is my fault i pushed him away the last couple months. i shut myself down and didn't open up to anyone. Bad memories came flooding back. I wasn't the...
    tifanielovesme tifanielovesme 18-21 2 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    He Loves Me

    If anyone would tell me that my husband doesn't love me anymore, I won't believe any of it.  It has to come from him.  I know he loves me more then life itself and I feel the same about him. I was told; your hubby isn't like any other guy.  I cannot disagree.My hubby always...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2011

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    My Husband Doesn't Love Me

    I been reading so many of your stories I can't believe how many are similar to mine and each others. I actually find it really sad how many men take there wives or partners for granted, like it doesn't matter how they treat us, we'll still be there waiting. To start off I...
    Hrtbr8k Hrtbr8k 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 3, 2013

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    My Husband Doesn't Want To Be Married Anymore

    My husband left me 3 years ago and moved to a rental property he owned. He still came for dinners, did work around the house, active in our teen boys lives and paid the bills. This summer we spent a lot of time together, several vacations,just he and I, parties,dinners, even a...
    Maxwell1277 Maxwell1277 56-60, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2013

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    He Said I Love You, But I'm Not In Love With You And Then He Moved Out

    We have been together for 11 years married for 6.  We have two girls 10,4 and a 15 yr old from a previous relationship. We did everything together and I followed him all over the world. We spent the last 5 years in Europe and came back to the states in 2010. Two weeks ago he...
    thiswifeslife thiswifeslife 31-35 4 Responses May 4, 2012

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    I have been marry for 15 years ,

    my husband decided the he want to take a break...time to think...... I'm so lost ,confuse and not sure what to do. He want to leave ,but still want sex....great sex He is great in bed ,his touches are amazing.... But at the same time he is not sure about us... Help me
    Carvalho1989 Carvalho1989 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 4

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    My Husband Is Planning On Leaving Me With Nothing!

    Hello, My husband and I have not been getting along lately. Today me and my husband have been arguing really over silly things, but he took it all to the next level yelling at me at the top of his lungs calling me all kinds of names b*tch , worthless, ect... not the first time...
    27Amanda 27Amanda 26-30 3 Responses Sep 27, 2013

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    I Feel So Numb

    I feel so alone. Husband and I have been together almost 20 years. Married for 15. This is a second marriage for both so we brought 3 children into the relationship and have a 15 year old daughter together. It was so hard blending the families and we have both done and said...
    kbdaun kbdaun 46-50 2 Responses Oct 10, 2010

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    My Husband Doesn't Love Me

    I've been married for 3 years, we have a 2-year-old daughter. We had problems from the beginning of our marriage. I always feel like he talks to me as if I was his former wife (He's been divorced for 6 years now). The past weekend, he told me we don't have to have a relation in...
    mdcg mdcg 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 12, 2012

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    Recently when I say "I love you" to him he says "ok" or "that's nice" it's really hurtful .. He use to say it back all the time
    kumaroo kumaroo 18-21, F 3 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Did you ever love someone who didn't returned you love? Yes that's very, very sad! :( But what if you are afraid to confess your feelings to that someone, it is even more difficult...
    delfin13 delfin13 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    I met this girl in winter time a foreign exchange student 23 years old. It all went very fast we kept in touch over whatsapp and it was clear from the start we both were drawn to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 29

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    just like that my dreams where crushed, and so we never where
    o3118152 o3118152 26-30, M Sep 23

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    It's funny how a simple "good night" can make you feel pain...the idea that you'll never be in her thoughts when she wakes up in the morning...when she's sad...or happy... I just...
    LightsinMotion LightsinMotion 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    I have been married 25 yrs. In 2012 I was diagnosed with RA and was told i could no longer work. Apparently my husband is not a man that can handle caring for someone with a...
    phoebesmom12041 phoebesmom12041 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    Yea so I met this guy online at the same time i was fighting depression and bullshit from my family . We spoke we chated we dated . little did I know that my little friend was a...
    tyrahkan tyrahkan 22-25 2 Responses Sep 20

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    I think love someone doesn't always mean keeping them; sometimes it also means you have to let them go. Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are...
    Lily710 Lily710 31-35, F Oct 8

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    Having someone there , is everyone's dream , to feel the touch of another , a hug , a kiss , just someone , your never to young or to old to love anyone you want , gender doesn't...
    turntechbiology turntechbiology 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    One day I was in the airport waiting for my flight to take off, and this guy says "Excuse me" so I turn around and he says "My friend thinks ur cute". So I said "Y doesn't he tell...
    behappy14 behappy14 18-21, F Oct 2

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    Maybe it's not so...but it feels like it. We met on a vacation on a cruise and it was the best 4 days of my life. We sang karaoke together, dance together, drank together, had long...
    penaleliscio penaleliscio 22-25 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I posted not even 2hrs ago about being confused about my boyfriend. Update: he dumped me whilst we were lying in bed after having a rough day. He sent me a hey babe, how was...
    missypetunia missypetunia 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 23

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    it makes them such a good person, because a person who is cute, and knows it may use it to their advantage and untimately become a complete jerk. While a person who is cute, but...
    ajgamer ajgamer 13-15, M Oct 2

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    Ok so I posted another experience/question a while ago and no one replied so I thought I would try again. I think I am in love with my best friends older brother. I have known...
    Coolquestinsgirl404 Coolquestinsgirl404 13-15 2 Responses Oct 5

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    it doesn't matter if i'm not your first love as much as i will be your last :P
    ElizabethSwannTurner ElizabethSwannTurner 18-21, F Oct 6

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    So last night I had a dream that one of my best friends told the guy I like/love (kind of confused on which one) that I still liked him. (We dated in 7th grade, but it was 7th...
    AiraMoss AiraMoss 16-17, F Oct 7

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    In friendship.. I believe it doesn't matter In relationship.. It does because if the girl is waaayy to young and you're really old then... If a nine year old is with a 20 year old...
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 7

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    I need to get online & send an email, & it is the only thing on my PC that doesn't work. I have a weird green bar across my internet browser in my task bar. I have no idea what...
    Chanrhu Chanrhu 51-55, F Oct 9

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    What started out as an amazing love for one another ended with him falling in love with another. My heart doesn't work like that. If I committ and give my heart to one person it is...
    passionate4you passionate4you 46-50, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    Love is not to say,But to understand. Love is not to show,But to feel inside. Love is not to find faults,But to make the best. Love is not to demand,But to sacrifice. Love is...
    mahtab1996 mahtab1996 18-21, M a week ago

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    Yes, age doesn't matter to me.
    someoneyoulove143 someoneyoulove143 31-35, F 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    Personally, I find life to be too short to waste it on somebody who doesn't make your life fantastic. If they don't, make life fantastic yourself.
    JadedDivinity JadedDivinity 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 2

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    I have not had contact with my family since I was 13 and to be honest I have never missed them. People say that blood is thicker than water...but it didn't matter to them and it...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    No matter how many times people leave. no matter how close you are to someone . when they leave it hurts all over again. I hate that the ones we love and are close too leave...
    SouthernBella89 SouthernBella89 22-25, F a week ago

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    My family treats me like dirt under their shoes. They think I'm an unwanted child, since I was an accident, and they already had my brother. When I was 12 years old, I met someone...
    lunablue13 lunablue13 16-17, F 6 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Today I went for coffee with a guy who I have fancied for TWO whole years. He is much older than I am but I prefer it that way. He asked me for coffee and didn't follow through...
    SomeoneOneDay SomeoneOneDay 18-21 1 Response