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I My Husband Ignores Me

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    Neglectful Husband - I have five children, have been married to my husband for 18 years and been with him for 20 years. I am miserable, he overlooks me, opens doors for other women...
    mmwoodford mmwoodford 36-40 4 Responses Jun 5, 2011

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    Pregnant And Not In Love - Hello peeps! Well I met my fiancé 9 months ago in ca we moved very very fast quickly I moved In with him with my 5yo daughter! Not like me at all! But...
    Caligrwn87 Caligrwn87 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2012

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    Hello....hi im new. But just wana share my story. My relationship with my husband is a sad case. We fuss and fight almost everyday and they last for days long. He say I complain...
    calhughes91 calhughes91 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 1

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    He's Emotionally Checked Out - My husband has made rules. One of them is that I can't ever talk about something I may want in front of or to him. So I'm constantly on guard lest...
    contraalto contraalto 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 1, 2012

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    Glad To See I'm Not Alone. - My husband and I can go weeks without really saying anything to each other. When we do we are fighting about something. Sometimes I feel like we fight...
    notsohot notsohot 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 20, 2010

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    My Love - he is extremely successful. he is extremely sexy. i could only say that there is no one else above him except.. he is much too jealous. he is much to secretive...
    scandalouspeach scandalouspeach 26-30, F 15 Responses Jun 22, 2012

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    My Husband Has Recently Started to Ignore Me! - This is somehing that just recently started. My husband and I have been married for ~2 years now. I recently realized that it seems...
    nekomimi2479 nekomimi2479 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 30, 2009

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    What I Mean By "My Husband Ignores Me" - Hello, Can anybody relate to this?  My husband and I have been married for MANY years now, and things have just gone from bad to...
    Psalm23 Psalm23 41-45, F 230 Responses Mar 27, 2008

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    My husband and I have two kids together and he has a son who lives with us (my stepson). Anyways, my husband not only ignores me a lot, he also acts embarrassed by me if he takes...
    runnermama88 runnermama88 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    "Say something I'm giving up on you..."
    1s93ck 1s93ck 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 15

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    What Goes Round Comes Round... - My partner stopped speaking to me and just ignores me so I do the same to him - I don't let it bother me too much, in fact, I'll talk to him as...
    truthseekr truthseekr 51-55, F 4 Responses Jul 21, 2010

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    How My Husband Came Back To Me - i just want to share my experience and testimony here.. i was married for 6 years to my husband and suddenly, another woman came into the picture...
    Sonia779 Sonia779 26-30 3 Responses Feb 17, 2013

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    Same Here... And I'm Only 22 - I am a 22year old mother of two. and my husband has no time for me , even though he is unemployed. I know for sure he is not cheating because he's...
    Lovin26 Lovin26 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2009

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    I Am Here - As much as he says he loves me, I have felt underappreciated and my needs overlooked. He has a very solitary personality and is very passive. He doesn't like going out...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    Am Ignored By My Husband - Every night it is the same old story My husband comes home from work late around seven or eight after 12-14 hours of work. We have dinner and then he...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 6 Responses Jul 22, 2010

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    Married Seeking Married - Fun loving , hard working professional who would live to find someone who can make my heart skip a beat, bring a smile to my face...light up my eyes...
    Socalfunguy949 Socalfunguy949 26-30 1 Response Mar 1, 2012

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    Me, Too! - I am so happy to know that I am not the only one who is being ignored.  I've been married for almost 20 years...and the last 5 have been hell.  He moved out...
    mama65 mama65 41-45 3 Responses Oct 24, 2009

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    Ignored By Husband! - I have been married for a year now.....and I should say that the time I got married I thought I was the luckiest bride ever on earth. My husband was like head...
    paddie07 paddie07 22-25 3 Responses Apr 6, 2011

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    My Husband Is Not Good In Bed - I am 27years old lady, beautiful and married to a cute 31years old man. We were in courtship for few months before we got married 2 years ago...
    Honeytony Honeytony 26-30 9 Responses May 3, 2012

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    I have been withy husband for almost 10 years. 6 dating and almost 4 married. I feel that he doesn't desire me sexually or emotionally as much as he use to. Here are some issues...
    TA2010 TA2010 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    I Thought My Husband Was Cheating - It turns out he is not cheating. I had suspicions because he was going out and staying out late as well as going to the gym really late. He...
    missybaby29 missybaby29 36-40, F 2 Responses May 20, 2011

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    My Husband Has Just Had It >>>. I Guess - recently i lied to my husband about downloading **** and he found out so i told him i did it and i was sorry , and now he wouldn...
    sadhousewife sadhousewife 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 17, 2012

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    Alone When We're Together. - Last night, like most nights, I come to kiss him good night and tell him I'm going to bed.  He is still watching TV.   I gazed into his eyes, and...
    ruqiaraqs ruqiaraqs 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    Why does my husband stare at teenage girls 😳
    Shannon4280 Shannon4280 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    I Cannot Believe It- But I Am Living It!t -  I read all of your stories and I cannot tell you how much your situations sound just like mine. The only differences are the ages...
    Meauburn2008 Meauburn2008 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 22, 2009

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    It Is Killing Me - We have lost communication, we havent seen eachother for so long & my family is forcing me to divorce him. I love him, he s abroad working really hard, but now...
    HelenParis HelenParis 22-25 Mar 13, 2012

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    I Have the Same Issues - I have been married for six years this weekend and my husband and I never do anything together.  He got me to quit my job of twelve years to stay home...
    ratsky19 ratsky19 26-30 8 Responses Aug 28, 2008

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    My Husband Doesn't Love Me - I am gonna turn 30 in may have been married for 6 years and i 2 kids. I went out with my husband for 6 years before marrying him. I have given him...
    zarda12 zarda12 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 24, 2012

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    I put up the christmas tree alone. My husband was home, but was pretending to be busy every time I walked by. I bought and wrapped all of the gifts. I cleaned out the basement...
    bellybelle bellybelle 36-40 3 Responses a week ago

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    Withhold Sex? - So I've done everything to make myself better n he still doesn't pay attention to me, or take me to do anything I'm interested in even when I beg him. The only time...
    Caligrwn87 Caligrwn87 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 23, 2012

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    I have been married for 24 years. I have two children in college. My husband doesn not text, call , email or even talk to me. A little background info, his father died last year...
    jobop13 jobop13 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Newlywed - I haven't been married very long, its only been 8 months, but in the past couple months my husband has been drastically different with me. I cry myself to sleep at...
    agallod agallod 26-30 2 Responses May 12, 2012

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    My Husband Ignores Me Too! -   >Message flagged Thursday, March 1, 2012 2:14 PM   Hello I was so glad to see other people having this same problem...
    brewster01 brewster01 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 1, 2012

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    Abused And Neglected - I've been wit my husband 4 yrs married for 2 yrs n in the beginning everything was great but den I found out he cheated on me 4 days before n after we got...
    khadijah27 khadijah27 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    His Daughter Is Destroying Us - My husband and I have a long history, but we have been together 14 years.  Last year his 17 y/o daughter came to live with us. He has seen her in...
    forthelove forthelove 46-50, F 3 Responses Apr 6, 2012

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    Tried - my dh hasn't really spoken to me directly in a while. I came home from work tonight and asked him what is wrong. he asked why does something have to be wrong. I told...
    greeneyes1977 greeneyes1977 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 7, 2012

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    Don't Feel Comfortable At Home Anymore - I realized today that I don't want to be in my home anymore. I m sitting here with our 3 kids watching tv and he is in his office watching...
    krawkath krawkath 41-45 11 Responses Jan 26, 2011

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    Lonely - He leaves me at home while he works, and goes to the pub afterward with his mates and doesn't let me come. He comes home and eats dinner then showers, sometimes he'll play...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F 1 Response May 18, 2013

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    I've Been Ignored For 11 Years - Hi. I'm in my 11th year of marriage and pregnant with my fifth child. My husband has completely ignored me all our married life. He shares...
    hopelessmom hopelessmom 31-35 7 Responses Feb 6, 2009

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    Can You See Me? - My husband can't. He works out of town one week out, one week in. We live through our cell phones. He quit drinking and smoking three years ago but since he...
    Daina77 Daina77 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 6, 2012

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    From A Man - Ladies, i am sorry that you are being ignored by your man. It is a terribly lonel;y feeling. My wife ignores me so i appreciate how you feel. It is not something...
    Deepressed Deepressed 46-50, M 12 Responses Apr 11, 2011

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    He's Emotionally Checked Out - My husband has made rules. One of them is that I can't ever talk about something I may want in front of or to him. So I'm constantly on guard lest...
    contraalto contraalto 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 1, 2012

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    My Boyfriend Ignores Me In Front Of Friends And Family. - I am 34 and have been with my boyfriend for 8 years now. We are extremely happy and are almost perfect with one another...
    2 Responses Jan 9, 2013

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    I Feel Lonely 24/7 - I'm 21 and my husband is 23. We've been married for about a year now in July. I'm also pregnant with our first child, that will be here in July too. I...
    JZ2012 JZ2012 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 29, 2012

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    Why Do I Keep Trying - My husband has really always ignored me, I just notice it a lot more now.  Smoking weed for the first 24 years of our marriage helped me not to notice...
    TexasLily TexasLily 51-55, F 28 Responses Nov 22, 2009

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    Was It Always Like This? - I find myself asking this question to myself everyday. Was it always like this and I just didn't realize it or was to blind to see it. In the beginning...
    escapingthecloset escapingthecloset 31-35, F 12 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    Ignored and Undermined - My husband and I have been married for 14 years. He's an awesome father but a horrible husband. He ignores me. On a daily basis, we're both concerned...
    twelu twelu 36-40, F 29 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    Can't Believe I'm Even Writing This... - Some of the things that have happened in my marriage recently are just too creepy and pathetic to mention but...my husband prefers...
    ImpishToad ImpishToad 41-45, F 2 Responses May 20, 2012

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    Confused! - I have been married for over 15 years and have known each other since I was a teenager. My husband is ten years older than me but this has only ever presented minor...
    mcg40 mcg40 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 8, 2013

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    He's Just Not Nice To Me Anymore - My husband isn't nice to me. He's not mean either. I just want to be treated nicely. Not ignored and not treated like I don't exist unless he...
    catwoman8 catwoman8 41-45 38 Responses Jan 14, 2011

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