I My Husband Left Me

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    My abusive husband used me

    for several years and finally when he achieved things in life he dumped me for another woman. It is my second marriage, I am left with nothing, $60.000 debt and an infant. I am severely depressed and I don't have any friends to support me.
    Freedomfromevil Freedomfromevil
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 7, 2015

    He Left Our Daughter And Me

    I gave him everything I could, made myself completely vulnerable, realized midway that he would never give anything in return, and decided to keep giving because he is so amazing, and I love he so much, and I married him and am devoted to him no matter what, and we have a...
    tziganka tziganka
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 12, 2009

    He Begged Me To Stay And Then He Left.

    My husband of 4 years confessed to having a drug problem 2 months ago he begged me for help and not to leave. So I went into nurture mode and helped him seek out treatment. He has been sober since his second day of NA. Our lives became about his recovery and I never got the...
    mrss1 mrss1
    31-35, F
    Sep 5, 2013

    He Left Me For Greed And Wants To Come Back!

    I have been married 1.5 years my husband has 3 children and I have 1 special needs child. My husband had gotten involved in a mlm online business (like amway). He became completely obsessed with this business with the expectations to make millions. When he made no money he felt...
    Chinch33 Chinch33
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 14, 2012

    July 15 2010...a Day In My Memory That Will Forever Haunt Me..

    okay..my husband left me...really left me..took what he could take and got on a plane and went to wherever it was he went to. I am heartbroken and shattered..I thought we were going to try...and make it work..thought we were on a positive swing..boy was I wrong. He left me a...
    Tzodiana Tzodiana
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Jul 15, 2010

    After being married only a little over a year

    my husband decided he would rather be with his exwife. And now after being back with her for only a few months he says he made a mistake and wants me back !?
    Unluckynky Unluckynky
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Feb 4, 2014

    My husband left me 6 months ago

    for a woman 10 years older and really ugly! I'm not just saying that because I'm hurting, but it's shocked everyone. I thought this was it, he was my soulmate, my everything. I just can't seem to do anything. I wake up, they are on my mind. Everything I do, they are at the...
    PainChangesPeople PainChangesPeople
    41-45, F
    1 Response Aug 5, 2014

    I have been with my husband

    for six years and married for three. these last few months we have been arguing a lot but I didn't think it was anything we couldn't get through. I love him so much but he left last Monday. he even went to a different state and he completely ignores me. I feel crazy because even...
    missnissa missnissa
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 18, 2015

    This is my darkest hour,

    the blackest chapter of my existence. Two and a half weeks ago, we were fighting. We fight a lot, until I am tired. Never had soo many moments of agreeing to disagree simply to go to bed. I wanted to sleep on the couch, he couldn't handle it. Said he had been planning to leave...
    brokenfence brokenfence
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 23, 2014

    He Left

    So update...he finally left one morning he just picked up and left while I was at work with only the clothes on his back, Im part relieved and hurt but more hurt, he was a **** and I knew him disappearing all of the time couldn't last forever but wow it really hurts I really...
    Kemkitten Kemkitten
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 19, 2013

    I Honestly Cannot Believe Im Writing This Excerpt Of My Life..

    I literally found out tonight that my husband moved to Las Vegas from California. He never said a word. We've been arguing for months straight , but I love him dearly, and this whole situation has escalated way beyind anything I could fathom.I'm freaking out.
    reigirl reigirl
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jun 8, 2013

    My husband left me this week.

    His mom paid for his flight home. I came home And he was gone. Part of me is happy but the other part is devastated. We don't have children which is a positive. I know I don't need him financially, but emotionally I feel like I need him. I called him and he said he is done but...
    flower5490 flower5490
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 28, 2015

    The Ups Man

    well after being faithful and true to my husband and family of 37 years he left me for the secretary at ups, shes wanted a husband & father to take care of her for 17 years and finally got him.  he broke my heart, wont even go to counciling....i am so sad and cant stop...
    debby808 debby808
    3 Responses Aug 8, 2009

    At first it broke my heart.

    I liked to say he left me because he found out that I played around on him. But I think he really left me to be with some tart he met golfing. My story made me feel a tiny bit better, but now I just think good riddance. It did free me up to allow me to meet a great many men...
    BarbarBabcox BarbarBabcox
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Sep 21, 2014

    Today I woke up at 7am.

    My husband wasn't in my bed, and everything seemed in place. It was eerie. I assumed he was downstairs in the living room, but he wasn't. He was gone. No note. No call. No text message. Nothing. He had taken his cell phone and a couple of clothes, but nothing more. The door...
    factsarefacts factsarefacts
    1 Response Mar 2, 2014

    Why Only 7 Members And 3 Stories?

    I find it very curious that this experience has only 7 members and 3 stories. To have a husband walk out is not rare at all nowadays. I conclude that that many EP members have had this experience happen to them, but decline to share it. I am very interested in this experience...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jul 16, 2010

    I still love him but I'm not much in love with

    him anymore. After he hurt me and ripped my heart out, I'm starting to feel a bit of hate for him. I was told that there is a thin line between love and hate and it couldn't be any further from the truth. As of today, all of the hurt and pain won't get me down anymore. I'm...
    Kira05 Kira05
    26-30, F
    Jul 5, 2015

    My husband just got the first of many of his

    bags.. He just came in, got some stuff and left. We haven't been together that long. Married only a few months. Dating two years. I thought he "loved me more than all the stars in the sky" as he put it but it's apparent those were just empty words. We finally took the plunge...
    nikkionelove nikkionelove
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 7, 2015

    I had been married once

    before when I was in my early 20s. That marriage didn't last ( I left) long, i was young, didn't know myself, etc etc. So I was very hesitant to get married again. I dated the nan who would become my 2nd husband for 6 years before we got married. We had our issues, but they were...
    xenni xenni
    41-45, F
    Jan 16, 2014

    I don't know if you can call it leaving

    when you pack up yourself and your children and leave, but that's what happened. After 14 years, three kids and one being a new baby he ran us off not once but twice for the same woman. I don't for one minute believe she's better than me, she got fired from her job because he...
    leigh8133 leigh8133
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2015

    Well at first i was so sad about it.

    But now seeing just how ugly he really is i couldn't be happier to end things. It's been about three weeks, I know that seems fast to get over it but he wasn't treating me right at the end. I was holding on to the man i married and not the man he became. But now i am embracing...
    missnissa missnissa
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 22, 2015
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