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I My Husband Spanks Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 248 People

    Break Through Moment....

    Hi all, If some of you don't know I am new to the DD relationship but not to my marriage with my wonderfully amazing husband. Thank-you all for your posts as I have read a lot of them aloud to him and we are learning our new roles and experiences through you. Let me tell you...
    wesgirl wesgirl 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    It Was Scary

    But I went with his wishes. He just wanted me to feel it once. So the wine did the trick. I had few of them and went stripping. Sat on his lap to entice him. Bent me down and slapped my ***....felt a tingle of pain....He slapped again, warm feeling ran through the body. . Wanted...
    markslender markslender 26-30, F Jul 27, 2013

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    Thinking Of Hiding The Belts

    Going to get the other half of my punishment in a few hours and being new to this I am quite nervous and I'm already so sore from the last two days.... I'm thinking of hiding the belts in hope he would use his hand and maybe it wouldn't be so bad. Belt hurts so much :(
    Abbydavis Abbydavis 22-25, F 12 Responses Oct 4, 2012

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    Last night my husband spanked me.

    I asked him to because. I screwed up royally by not depositing a check. He had worked overtime on his last paycheck so we were okay but this could have been catastrophic. We live paycheck to paycheck.and well long story short it COULD have resulted in losing our home. I have...
    spankt spankt 46-50, F 9 Responses Jun 6

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    "i Will Obey"

    Yesterday I told you about the contract I signed, "I will obey" and how my husband bought me a locket engraved with the saying on the inside. I also said I was unsure about how I felt. Now I'm sure, I feel sore, submissive and horny as hell. Last night I told you I stayed up...
    chrisspanksme chrisspanksme 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 13, 2012

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    Today's challenge, already spanked once I know

    this might be hard for you all to believe, but I am in trouble again. He woke me up at like 5 am and told me to get up, I was getting punished right now. (Long story, but basically he found cash and other things in there that I am absolutely not allowed to have). So being half...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F Jan 5

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    Lying=spanking

    Yesterday I lied to my husband. I had not slept at all the night before and I wasn't sure why. Early that morning I was getting ready for school and he told that he did not want me going that day because I had not slept and he didn't want me to fall asleep while driving. He told...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    I haven't been spanked

    since my last post but it's going to happen soon. I'm going to be spanked. I haven't been cleaning or really doing any of the things that I told him I would start doing. I even let the f word and a few others loose in front of my child. Granted I was provoked but I still know...
    spankt spankt 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    My Husband Gave Me The Worse Spanking Ever For Lying!

    I'm in my bedroom waiting for my husband to come home with one of my husbands belts beside me. I'm in trouble for lying again. He promised me on the phone that I won't be sitting down for a few days. This belt is big and has a lot of holes in it for extra sting. I must be in...
    Lisstamm Lisstamm 41-45, F 25 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    Spanking A Newby

    I had never been spanked by my husband, however I have thought many times that he should spank me because I know I can be very disrespectful towards him. I know this is wrong in a 33 year old marriage. He is a good man, if a little too easy going really. I mentioned to my husband...
    amphlg amphlg 51-55, F 4 Responses Jun 3, 2013

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    I get spankings now and.

    I'm interested to learn from others experiences
    Gottannie Gottannie 51-55, F 2 Responses Feb 24

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    I get mild disciplinary spanks.

    They happen when I break rules or behave inappropriate
    Gottannie Gottannie 51-55, F Feb 24

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    My Rant

    Have you ladies ever just felt really needy? Like you wanted so much affection from your husband? How about has your husband ever got in those moods where he wants to make you prove your submission? Well today was both for me. All I wanted was to cuddle up to my husband and be...
    tinkkris tinkkris 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 7, 2013

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    Life is getting complicated.

    So last night by the time I got home from work, I pretty much didn't care if or how much trouble I was in. I know I am in so much trouble anyways what's the point. So I came home went into my room to change (without permission) and didn't tell him I was home yet. He got mad...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My Valentine Anniversary Gift

    I have known I am a sub for some time. I have hinted around to my husband for awhile that I liked rough sex and to be spanked.. I think for some husbands this is a dilemma between what they were taught as values and what is desired. I am not sure my husband realized how...
    Redbegger Redbegger 51-55, F 1 Response Feb 24, 2013

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    Hindsight Is No Sight!

    Most know hubby and I are learning newbies. One thing we have learned is we do NOT like discipline spankings... That is the reason they work! If hubby has to spank me in a disciplining manner, we both feel disappointed, he feels sad having to give me a punishing spanking, which...
    spankmybottom3 spankmybottom3 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2013

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    Why You Should Pay Attention When Pumping Gas...

    I was coming back home from a work function and had noticed that the gas light came on. I was on the phone with my husband, who heard the ding, at the time, and he reminded me to get some gas. I was going to anyway, so I stopped at the next gas station, ten minutes away. Right...
    deeplylovedandspanked deeplylovedandspanked 36-40 Oct 27, 2013

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    Homecoming Spanking

    I came home from work tonight and my husband was in the kitchen. He came over to me and said "Did we not say that we would wait until next month to buy the bathroom accessories we wanted for the newly decorated bathroom" Now I remembered that 2 weeks ago I bought some of the bits...
    amphlg amphlg 51-55, F 6 Responses Jun 7, 2013

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    My Husband Spanks

    My attitude had been really bad and my husband had enough. After three days of threats, he gave me a spanking. We were going out, and I took a shower. When I came out he directed me over his knee. He gave me a long hard spanking with his hand. When he got done it was red. I...
    1 Response Feb 8, 2013

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    New To Domestic Discipline - Spankings

    Just recently my husband and I decided to change the dynamic of our relationship. We were constantly fighting and I had a major attitude which only made things worse. I have decided that I want to be totally submissive to him. This was not even a week ago. The second night I...
    Abbydavis Abbydavis 22-25, F 10 Responses Oct 4, 2012

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    I get spankings, not sessions.

    I'm interest in learning from others experiences
    Gottannie Gottannie 51-55, F 5 Responses Feb 24

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    Over My Knee Therapy

    I haven't been on in a while been busy renovating our home and doing my best to keep my sassy mouth in check but the stress has been twofold because of "tons" of decisions we have to make, etc. Sometimes by the end of the day I am mentally exhausted and my two brain cells that...
    compassionategirl compassionategirl 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 21, 2012

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    Last night I got a long overdue well deserved

    spanking. I really needed it and my husband gave it to me. I had to bare my bottom and over his knee I went. He gave me 10 with the paddle and then 10 with the spatula. he waited a little while and then gave me 20 with the cane. i am having trouble sitting. he said he would...
    Lillybrook12345 Lillybrook12345 51-55 3 Responses Feb 15

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    wendymrtns wendymrtns 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    Hi all. I'm just having a really hard time today- I normally just read and read on this site and it helps me alot. I decided to speak up today. I miss my husband so much I want...
    Racquel34 Racquel34 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    When i married my husband i stood before God & promised to obey him. And that is exactly what my children & i do. My husband is the head of the household,he provides for us & looks...
    foreverinblue foreverinblue 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 28

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