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I My Husbands Wants Me to Swing

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 293 People

    Feeling Insecure....

    My hubby wants to get into swinging, I am not feeling confident about it, I feel like he just wants to be given permission to have sex with other women.....he has cheated on me in the past and I will admit a had a revenge affair on him, too....which he knows about....we worked...
    lovingthemanintheuniform lovingthemanintheuniform 46-50, F 11 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    Her Desire

    It all began innocently enough as my wife and I lay sleeping after a somewhat exhausting day.  Somewhere around 3 am I was awakened by the sound of her moaning and twisting as she lay with her bare *** against my leg.  As par for the course - and that hour of the...
    caligulabarbarosa caligulabarbarosa 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 6, 2009

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    Her Call

    As an old soldier,and having been married at 19 to a ******** from new orleans, you can imagine I have pretty much seen and done it all.  At 27 I - for reasons unknown now- remarried a lovely girl who, for all intents and purposes led a most sheltered life.  Having...
    caligulabarbarosa caligulabarbarosa 51-55, M Dec 8, 2008

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    What Most Men Want

    men have a desire to *** inside their wife or ect. they also day dream of having their wife spread her legs and let other men *** in her as well. many men never ask because lots of us would love to see a black man with a huge **** *** deep in her *****. my wife and i were...
    trucker8157 trucker8157 31-35 2 Responses Jul 21, 2010

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    What The Hell You Waiting For----

    Your husband has told you that this is what he wants to do, what the H you waiting for ???? Are you scared, ??? Feeling self conscious about your body ??? Not sure that you smell fresh ??? Do you think it really matters, you really think that a horny guy with a big stiff...
    gawayne gawayne 56-60, M 1 Response Jun 19, 2011

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    Wonderful Marriage Entering New Phase

    I have been married to my hubby for 12 years. Have a great sex life. He is wanting to take it up a notch and start swinging. I often think of this.. never dreamed I would actually go through with it. However... He is working a lot out of town and he flies me to see him most...
    rachell4me rachell4me 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 11, 2011

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    To Swing Or Not to Swing?

    Swinging is a lifestyle not for just anybody. First you must be an adult. And by that I mean, you must be secure in your relationship. We have been married for many years and have never had any party time. We started out as many young couples do. We bought a house, had some kids...
    LisaMichaels LisaMichaels 41-45, M 5 Responses Dec 3, 2008

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    Not Looking To Swing... Just To Share Her With An Orally Bi Guy.

    I'd love to suck some guy's **** and get it hard enough to slide into Scarlett's *****, or to help her suck it until the guy comes on our faces.
    Craver Craver 66-70, M 6 Responses Aug 9, 2011

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    My Wife - A True ****

    Yesterday night Lisa my wife had office party which she have it every year so she left the house and climbed into the waiting taxi. As she climbed in, a passerby caught a flash of stocking clad leg and smiled ruefully. Lisa smiled back, the passerby blushed at being caught...
    sexycpl4uall sexycpl4uall 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    Hi Dear All , This is arsal i am 23 and by profession i em engineer i am looking for LDR or swinging relationship with couple or married female ...I am very honest boy and wants...
    ArsalMalik ArsalMalik 22-25, M Aug 14

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    I believe this in a sense, I'm married to my best friend, he's amazing. I "obey" him, not in a crazy way but he is my man, I do believe that husband have some authority over their...
    thefeels21 thefeels21 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Very long story short...my DH (darling husband) and his Ex have been D for 5 years. 2 kids (10 & 7). She remarried 2 months after the D. Has 2 yr old with new Hubby. Right...
    QuiltyByMarriage QuiltyByMarriage 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    We have only ever swung with two couples, excluding a swingers party with once went to. The first couple were only interested in pleasing their own desires, and it was an afternoon...
    kinkycoupleuk kinkycoupleuk 46-50 2 Responses Aug 9

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    Looks my world is about to change majorly. Just got news late last night that my step-sons mom has cancer. She apparently has had it before but it is now in her lungs and brain...
    SgtArmyWife SgtArmyWife 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    I hate my husbands dog. He's a 80+lb lab. The dog is actually very sweet but my husband take terrible care of him. He was never neutered or leash trained. As a result our backyard...
    sincitymom sincitymom 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    It was embarrassing, a bit painful and hilarious! Me and my girlfriend were walking in our neighborhood and saw our friends over in the park so we went over. After a little while...
    MtnDewForever MtnDewForever 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    Really think the swing is one of the purest, simplest, most meditative things ever invented. Even when you're pushing a loved one. Maybe their availability should be expanded...
    Micfly Micfly 51-55, M 4 days ago

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    My wife and I are planning to goto a swingers club in NYC. What should we expect? It would be our first time and we think we are gonna ease into it. Is that a realistic thought...
    Justtryn2understand Justtryn2understand 36-40, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My daddy wants to share me with another Daddy. He wants us to Skype all together and listen as the other Daddy plays with me. He wants me to enjoy myself and be comfortable with...
    Daringhoney Daringhoney 41-45, F Aug 17

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    Meeee Im a skinny girl who wants to gain weight :)
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    If somebody wants to talk to me message me I'm bored
    dholley8790 dholley8790 13-15, M Aug 10

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    "I am bored, who wants to "chat".
    MadaraU MadaraU 22-25, M Aug 11

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    I just realized how ridiculous this experience is. Because surely people who need a "talk" or "advice" will probably never come here. The people who are actually depressed and...
    LightlySaltedSalmon LightlySaltedSalmon 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 16

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    I met a man online that wants to be my slave. My dream has come true
    dybbukbox dybbukbox 41-45, F Aug 17

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    I don't actually know if he really wants me or not but I want him I actually work for him and his wife...she is the main boss I give him BJ about twice a month and love it and...
    Steph9598 Steph9598 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    The world would be a much better place if women ruled it. Although i believe it going into that direction, there is still a way to go. Our life as a couple and parents has become...
    Humblesissy Humblesissy 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 29

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    My husband's ex has caused us years of hassle - when we met they were still meeting up at her house. Every time he tried to end it with her, she harmed herself and even attempted...
    bebyvee bebyvee 26-30, F Jul 29

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    I know my mom is okay with it but I feel bad for my sisters. And I am scared what will be expected from me when I marry.
    wkenny99 wkenny99 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 2

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    Today, my Wife has given me the day off. Usualy She leaves a list of chores on the fridge or on my phone. When i dropped Her off at work this morning, She kissed me and said to...
    Humblesissy Humblesissy 46-50, M 3 Responses Aug 11

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    Yesterday was the last day of my week and half of punishment. After my kneeling in the corner for what seemed like an eternity, my Wife finaly came down to the bedroom. Not saying...
    Humblesissy Humblesissy 46-50, M 4 Responses Aug 13

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    I feel terrible. We have always had this weird tension...I've only been married for a couple years (we will call my husband A and his friend D) A and I had a good relationship at...
    voicelessallure voicelessallure 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    This is seriously killing me. I love him so much. We talk every day. I have always thought he was the most handsome man ever. He asked me for pictures the other day and I sent them...
    voicelessallure voicelessallure 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Obedience and the Titanic In the movie Titanic, there is a scene where the men are ordering their wives to get into the life boats. Some women do as they're told, but others resist...
    epaster epaster 51-55, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    When I tell him not do something, it is for his own good. He just agrees, goes and does the very thing I said not to. He will listen to me when the love making stops. It is for his...
    greeneyedgirl12 greeneyedgirl12 22-25, F 11 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hate the fact that i have them. like when i was talking to my friend on fb she did nothing wrong no one did theres nothing wrong but it just happens just like that
    rsddhj rsddhj 13-15, F Aug 2

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    I am a single 47 Year old male. VERY well build and physically very active. Looking for a Lady or couple for some fun.
    Machardy1 Machardy1 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    Lately, i've been feeling really on edge, like i just want to ******* blow up & cry & then just laugh. I've been feeling suicidal, but i haven't been wanting to go back to the...
    xxbangbangxx xxbangbangxx 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    They say rapid cycling bipolar. My pals say i care too much. Me says too hypersensitive. And too humane. And too ethical. And too much good stuff. Lol. Lmao...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 12

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    i cry sometimes not noing why i snap at peole around me and then i cry i dont no why
    tgrakes tgrakes 26-30, F Aug 13

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    I randomly get all depressed and I feel like no one want me around :( I don't know what to do. I don't have many friends as it is and my family is a damn mess. If only there was an...
    tm0801 tm0801 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 15

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    Cyclothymia maybe :/ there are triggers though. I'm not good with change.
    Bluesrain Bluesrain 26-30, F Aug 18

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    Right now I'm crying and the smallest thin possible caused this. I'm extremely unhappy and stressed out. Yesterday I was so happy I felt high. I don't know how to explain it.
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 20

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    I hate when you feel decent, happy almost, and then it disappears, and you feel insignificant and depressed again. It comes out of nowhere pretty much, and it completely takes you...
    maiomeN maiomeN 16-17, F a week ago

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    Bam. I woke up, I found out I got straight As in science GCSEs I took early. Science is my worst subject so yeah I felt ecstatic. I then look at myself in the mirror and, being...
    n4ta1i3 n4ta1i3 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I will definetly do this, your always welcome to leave a message and I'll respond
    AllThatGlitters29 AllThatGlitters29 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Ask a question and I'll try to answer with thy wisdom knowledge and understanding
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Since my phase of life that I've gone through, I believe everything, understand and accept everything. I've decided to spend my wages that I earn, where I work, on seeds just to...
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M Jul 29

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    I do not judge others for things they say/think/feel...i do not think anything is gross or weird...what i want right now is for you to message me and tell me what your secret is...
    MosBlccPhnix MosBlccPhnix 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 29