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I My Life of Many Let Downs From the Ones I Once Trusted

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    I Feel So Stupid

    I trusted him. He was my best friend...a man I fell in love with....somebody who knew every detail of my life. I was a fool. I never thought he would betray me. I never saw it coming. It has left me doubting everyone & everything. I'm afraid to open up, expressing my feelings or...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 2, 2012

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    Wouldn't You Love to Hate the One That Hurt You!

    There's obviously things that happen for a reason,although at that very moment it's impossible to feel like that. I've been hurt so much by the ones that said at one time they loved me. Only to find out they really didn't. But the weird thing about it all is,Is that I've...
    Sunalei Sunalei 31-35, F Feb 7, 2008

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    Wouldn't You Love to Hate the One That Hurt You!

    There's obviously things that happen for a reason,although at that very moment it's impossible to feel like that. I've been hurt so much by the ones that said at one time they loved me. Only to find out they really didn't. But the weird thing about it all is,Is that I've...
    Sunalei Sunalei 31-35, F Feb 7, 2008

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    The Ones I Used to Lookup to Now Are Just Bad Memorys.

    I have shared some stories about my good times,but this story right here is how I was so mistreated and so let down by those who I once looked up to. I've been through so much in my life. When I was 6 years of age. When I had to move with my mother. Like I told you in my...
    Sunalei Sunalei 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 4, 2008

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