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I My Mother Abandoned Me At One And A Half

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    How Do I Forqive My Mom Who Abandoned Me?

    when i was one and a half, my mother abandoned me. she was always gone and doing drugs.... and choosing boys over us. she will be home for like an hour and then she will leave and wont return for days. so my second mom (a pastor), who i call mom, raised me in church and taught me...
    rae16 rae16 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    She Did Not Want Me

    When I was inside of my mothers womb she tired to hide her pregnancy. She wore tight clothing. On the day that I was born, she tried to have me in the toilet.But another family was there and called the ambulance to take her to the hospital, but she did not make it. I was born en...
    wildflower62 wildflower62 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 5, 2012

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    It's been awhile friends... Ive been in no contact for over a year. It's been GREAT. I waited to share this story until I was ok, and then came a period of not wanting to talk...
    Misstaco Misstaco 26-30, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Ugh... so my mom is very loving and supportive, but she's also lazy and crazy. I know that those are common adjectives, but hear me out: my mother is obese and doesn't have a job...
    peacelove75 peacelove75 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    I have been NC with her for over 3 years now. It took me almost 40 years to figure it out but once I did there was no turning back. I was raised by a woman without the capacity...
    supercalitex supercalitex 41-45, F 3 hrs ago

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    Me and my girlfriend have maintained a very good relationship for the past years despite the difficulties and problems that cropped up. One of these problems has been my girlfriend...
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    I have a Narcissistic Mother-In-Law who is such a piece of work! My husband and I have endured blatant rejection at her hands. He was the scapegoat in her little manipulative world...
    springstarbaby springstarbaby 31-35, F 12 hrs ago

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    I had a very traumatic childhood with very abusive parents (who likely were mentally ill but in denial, much less in treatment.) I SWORE I would not have a family like that. I...
    eliza0220 eliza0220 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    My mom passed away when I was 3 years old. I never really got to see her a lot because she was always busy. She was one of the best mother's anyone could ever ask for... I just...
    zvkk zvkk 16-17, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    My mother will be 91 at the end of this year. About twelve years ago, a therapist told me my mother was a narcissist. (She inadvertently met her.) I've read some books on the...
    SpiritOnAnEarthWalk SpiritOnAnEarthWalk 61-65, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Born into a single mother home. Raised by my mother, live-in aunt and more than either of those two my grandparents. Closest to my nana who died the day after my 14th birthday I've...
    Bmamma Bmamma 26-30, F Aug 24

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    I was taken from my parents when I was 3 years old...my father was abusive and child services said either he leaves the house or we do, she chose him. I then went into a series of...
    haileysmom0307 haileysmom0307 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    My mother's name was Margaret Mandarinka Simza. Her middle name was the Slovak word for "tangerine" because when she was born, her parents had no food in the house except a basket...
    BlueMetalChick BlueMetalChick 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My MIL has been living with us for 3 years. It's been hell from day one! She is lazy, vain, a liar, always has her nose stuck in her bible and tries to get you to believe like...
    yellowflower12345 yellowflower12345 46-50 8 hrs ago

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    Throughout most of my life, I've been closer to my mother then to my father, for various reasons, we don't get along. My mother has been the overprotective and controlling type...
    Gregory1990 Gregory1990 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    Missing My Mother There was one point in my life when I did not get along with my mother. Most of it was because I was very angry at her for not being there for me. I didn’t...
    Bokohoyo2 Bokohoyo2 51-55, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    About three years ago in September, I was physically abandoned by the man I once considered my hero. He was my best friend, my hero, and my protector. I miss him but he wants...
    Cassadilla1822 Cassadilla1822 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    It's been just over three months since I changed my phone number and initiated no contact with my mother, her husband and my aunt. Since going no contact, there was a death in the...
    ankhgirl ankhgirl 26-30, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    well all I can say i'm 4 months pregnant and I am only 16 and not ready to be a mother. plus my baby father is not around so it better I give my baby a better life I just need help...
    mira454 mira454 16-17, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    It's only been a little over year since my mother walked out, and no one should ever have to brave that storm. I wonder still every day when it becomes easier. She was my...
    TheMostBeautifulBitterFruit TheMostBeautifulBitterFruit 16-17, F Aug 28

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    My first post about my passive aggressive mother, an explanation: EP Link I've been doing some research on passive aggressiveness and found that it's an actual personality...
    Cupcakes95 Cupcakes95 36-40, F Aug 28

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    I was in junior high. I remember the townhouse my family lived in because we lived directly in fron of my school. I don't even remember what I did . All that I do remember is the...
    sandmoon sandmoon 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My daughter's 2nd birthday is coming up. I am making a habit of making something hand-made for my daughter for every birthday. For her first birthday, I made her a Waldorf Doll (I...
    frostyflower frostyflower 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Fear of Abandonment!One of my biggest fears is being abandoned by people around me especially in my time of need!I dislike people leaving me especially when they mean so much to me...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I got cancer and my friends left me. I feel like they abandoned me when I most needed them. People suck.
    odditblue odditblue 46-50, F Aug 29

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    I'm 4 days shy of turning 24 and my mom just told me that I have a half brother from my dad. My dad was previously married and I have 2 half sisters who have always been a part of...
    acsalbright acsalbright 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    i love walking to an old abandoned building. its all over grown. falling apart. yes i know that can be dangerous. its just the feeling in the air. u can feel the history of the...
    SadisticBitch SadisticBitch 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 8

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    I just lost my mother 6 days back. It looks like world has ended for me. My life has stopped. Nothing makes me happy now. I lost her on 6th sep 2014. I bought gifts for her...
    gaytrinagpal gaytrinagpal 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 12

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    I abandoned art in Northern California and Kauai. Artists are releasing artwork into the wild across the planet. Follow their digital footprints and stories in a global transmedia...
    bulamonto bulamonto 51-55, M 1 day ago

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    Today she asked me if I thought I needed to see a therapist. I said yes and she reacted by saying, "ha you think you have problems if you go to therapy with people who have REAL...
    FalseAdulation FalseAdulation 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 29

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    Hi everyone; I have posted a couple responses here, I am very familiar with PA Mothers now. I decided to share my story and see if anyone can relate to mine. For a brief...
    XXwoundedXX XXwoundedXX 51-55, F Sep 14

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    It wasn't planned, I decided to do it a few hours before the end of work that day. Near the beginning I realised that my MP3 player had only enough charge for a few minutes. It was...
    40tude 40tude 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    An update & advice for those with crazy MILs Hi there, I posted some time back (possibly several years ago now) regarding my absolutely terrible mother-in-law who singlehandedly...
    DustMite DustMite 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 28

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    So I have a son who is about a year and a half. I am also pregnant again. Same father. He told me as soon as I got pregnant again he wanted nothing to do with me relationship wise...
    DarlingAnna DarlingAnna 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    No contact with my mother for a week now. I prefer when there is no contact. She only contacts me when she wants to take one of my children out. I am considering stopping this...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    As I age, the lovers and "Friends with benefits" get bored and drift away. There simply isn't the glue that marriage, bearing children, perhaps adopting from birth...none of the...
    smudged smudged 36-40, T Aug 24

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    Married for a few months. Now expecting a baby (5 months preg yay!) everything was perfect until.... My OWN mother became bitter. I found out she's been complaining about me to...
    lightpetals lightpetals 26-30, F Aug 26

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    As it was told to me, when I was around 2-3 yrs old my dad and my mother broke up. She moved to California and originally took me with her. Months later, she called my father and...
    SukYoung SukYoung 26-30, F Aug 31

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    I am living in Northern England, rapidly approaching the age of 35, depressed that I've never been able to have a real social life. The problem is that I'm still living with my...
    CodemonkeyNE CodemonkeyNE 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    I got a call the other day from my birth mom. The DNA was wrong she stated. The director of VS told her "although I can not release any identifying info to you, I'm looking at your...
    Back2Sue Back2Sue 46-50, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Have you ever had a hero? Have you ever had a role model that was also a parental figure? Have you ever had full trust in someone special and then all of a sudden it gets shattered...
    Cassadilla1822 Cassadilla1822 18-21, F Aug 24

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    I came across the term NM a few months ago, and now I can't deny it...my mother fits it perfectly, down to the general causes of it. My mother was severely abused by a...
    UnicornSpirit UnicornSpirit 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 28

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    one sided phone conversation have you ever has those? where you pick the phone and mother seems to have a conversation on her own, despite whatever you said? example: mother...
    fien fien 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 9

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    I sent this to my mother figure a few weeks back. I push thru suicide for her. I don't want her hurt. But I'm starting to feel this way again. Am I wrong for feeling this way...
    anonymouss2014 anonymouss2014 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 14

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    Yay i'm not the only one haha i literally went to New orleans to see the lafayette cemetery just cuz the crypts are gorgeous as hell,everyone was like are you here to visit a...
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F Sep 15

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    My mom is such a strong person, and I hope to God I'm even half the woman she is when I am older.
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 15

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