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I My Spouse Or Partner Has Asperger's Syndrome

Do you think you are with an aspie? This is the group for you! 683 People

    Twenty Years - Somehow I've managed to love my aspie for 20 years. He doesn't think the same way I do and gets angry and jealous with me when he misinterprets what I say. I long...
    FullofSorrow FullofSorrow 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 13, 2013

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    Top Three Reasons I Love My Aspie - There are a few posts up here wanting to put a positive spin on loving an Aspie and I think that is what we all need. I have been reading a book...
    gingerxbaybee gingerxbaybee 22-25 8 Responses Oct 6, 2012

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    Feeling Frustrated! - I have almost completely given up on my relationship of 21 years. I so, so long to be able to speak to my spouse about something without him getting angry and...
    rubymonday rubymonday 36-40 3 Responses Mar 24, 2013

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    A Different Point Of View - From reading the stories in this group it looks like it's mostly females hooked up with male aspies. This makes sense as AS is more visible and more...
    mrmustang mrmustang 46-50, M 4 Responses Jan 13, 2013

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    5 Success Strategies For Parenting An Asperger's Child Video... -
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Oct 21, 2013

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    Non Relationship - My hubby of 7 years can go weeks barely speaking to me. he tells my friend things he should tell me and then my friend tells me. When I bring it up he always...
    crazk crazk 36-40, F 5 Responses May 21, 2010

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    Living With An Aspergers Spouse, A Daily Struggle! - I have been married to a dependable, honest and caring man for almost 20 years. He is an undiagnosed case of aspergers and we...
    rubymonday rubymonday 36-40 18 Responses Mar 19, 2012

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    When Your Loneliness Overwhelms You, He's Still With You. - The experience of fighting with someone who has Aspergers is difficult to articulate to someone who has never gone...
    Rebecca0071 Rebecca0071 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 19, 2013

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    My name is Lane. I am 18 and my boyfriend, Jack, is 20. He was diagnosed with Aspergus when before he started primary school. I made this account because as I was reading all of...
    Lainellen Lainellen 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 10, 2013

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    I think my husband too has this syndrome..i dnt hv a clue y he was odd until yesterday.. We stopped talking n he is talking to me only if he is going out.. Thats also just to...
    helpnu helpnu 26-30 Dec 23, 2013

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    My boyfriend has Asperger's Syndrome. For the most part it doesn't affect our relationship or communication negatively, except when we disagree about something or get into a fight...
    mandypandy72 mandypandy72 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 23

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    Would You Marry Your Aspie Again? - I have a developing relationship with a man that I am very confident has Asperger's. In the first few months of our friendship he seemed quirky...
    Truthquest Truthquest 46-50, F 14 Responses Sep 3, 2012

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    So Depressing - It's so depressing to find out the problem after a year of being with my boyfriend. Yes, he has Asperger's. For so long, I thought I was doing something wrong. I...
    vavaviolet vavaviolet 41-45 12 Responses Apr 3, 2012

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    Why Does He Push Me Away Just When Things Are Getting Good? - I have been dating a man for the last 1 1/2 years.  To my knowledge, he is not aware that he has Aspergers, but I...
    es42 es42 41-45 10 Responses Aug 23, 2010

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    Please Help Me, Does My Husband Have Aspergers? - I'm at my wits end today as I write this. We've been together for 8 years now, have 3 children and our relationship has always...
    arohaleah arohaleah 36-40 3 Responses Jul 21, 2012

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    I Am Considering Divorce - Well, here I am...after all the tears, the fighting, trying to change him, trying to change myself, feeling guilty, feeling lost, feeling hopeless...
    Habitate Habitate 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2013

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    He aspi, has ignored me for 2 months now above the regular ignoring as if that weren't enough already. His latest specia interest besides his laptop is his childs toy, a technical...
    Telah Telah 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 2

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    My aspergers ex wrote this. "Nothing is ever forgotten, not completely. And if something can be remembered, it can come back" How should I interpret it???
    sunset7 sunset7 31-35, F Dec 24, 2013

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    Just Realized What Is Going On. - I have been with my husband for seven years plus two dating and cant believe that it has taken me this long to put all the pieces together. The...
    sameostuff sameostuff 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 19, 2012

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    I'm at a crossroads now, as I have four young children with my husband of 8 years, who has undiagnosed Autism. I have always just given my husband his way. I thought I was just...
    GMetz34 GMetz34 31-35, F Mar 20

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    My boyfriend has aspergers and says he is unable to marry me. Recently he tried to separate up with me and told me that he was in love with his ex and that's why he couldn't be...
    sunset7 sunset7 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 6, 2013

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    Pretty Sure My Husband Has Aspergers, Feel So Angry And Disappointed - Together for about 25 years now, he always seemed different (shy, social anxiety, trouble with change, weird...
    LindaTGJ LindaTGJ 56-60, F 4 Responses Aug 1, 2011

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    I am adult ADHD and have Parkinson's. My wife has Asperger's and various chronic illnesses. I love my wife dearly, but most of our marriage I've wondered whether she loves me. I...
    rw57 rw57 56-60, M Mar 22

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    My ex wrote "I miss you, like the desserts miss the rain" He has aspergers. Do u think he's feeling the same pain as I am??
    sunset7 sunset7 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2013

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    Ppl change.Flngs change.It dusnt mean that luv 1nc shared wasnt tru & real.It simply just means that sumtyms wen ppl grow, they grow apart. How would someone with aspergers...
    sunset7 sunset7 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    My husband and I have been married for 16 years and we have just come to the conclusion he is an aspie. Over the years he has been diagnosed with depression, ADD, ADHD and overly...
    lcmoffa lcmoffa 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 16

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    My Nt Wife And The Impact Of My As - I have AS and as a result I have had a significant impact on the mental health of my wife. I was in denial of my condition and as a result my...
    lifestartsagain lifestartsagain 41-45 23 Responses Jun 24, 2012

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    I Have Left Him - After 22 years, I have asked for a divorce, that I could not give him the love he deserves. So, he told me to leave, now the house is in a shambles, and he is...
    LaurensMom19 LaurensMom19 46-50 5 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    I Find Myself At A Loss... Again. - My husband and I have been on the verge of divorce for almost two years. As most of you here can relate to, I'm sure, I have tried EVERYTHING to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    A Realization... - Just now I was reading some older stories to help me feel less lonely, and I came across a response to a story that really resonated with me. This is part of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    My Husband Has Aspers - hi everyone i joined this group as i feel like i need some help or people going through and understand what im going through..i married my husband almost a...
    sydney2009 sydney2009 22-25 23 Responses Aug 10, 2009

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    I have never posted to a forum such as this. Things have gotten really bad for me. I am married to a man that I suspect has AS. We have a child who was recently tested and it...
    faithfulhope faithfulhope 26-30, F Feb 5

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    I've Reached The End Of The Road ... - where to start .... there is so much to say but I feel so desperate that I feel compelled to warn anybody that if you suspect your partner...
    bellagondris bellagondris 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    New Website For NT Partners! - Hi - I've posted about this before (when it was just a theory!) and now, today, it's starting to become a reality. This website WILL happen. If...
    Mercgirl007 Mercgirl007 51-55 Oct 23, 2013

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    I have e been married for 20 years to a man who I suspect has HFA We have split up many times but ended up back together..we live apart a lot of the time...he is incapable of...
    Cls99 Cls99 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 27

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    I was just listening to Billie Holiday's rendition of "A Fine Romance"... holy crap! It MUST have been written about an Aspie... Judge for yourselves, but it sounds like it should...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 9, 2013

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    "It is his way." . It has been just over a year since my husband announced to me that he scored very close to being an Aspie on a test he took. And ever since it is common to...
    thislittlelifeofmine thislittlelifeofmine 61-65, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2013

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    Lonely And Depresed - Hi my partner of 5 years is an aspie. I am always alone.Days will go by and he will not come to bed. I beg and plead for time with him annd he doesn't car.I...
    lonelyandconfiused lonelyandconfiused 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 21, 2013

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    Ready Or Not . . .without You, Here I Go. - I am getting really antsy because I called a counciling office today and set up an appointment.  Finally I have worked up the courage...
    jends jends 26-30 5 Responses Feb 21, 2012

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    Ah, Yes... Now It All Makes Sense. - I just realized my husband of 3 years has Asperger's.  I always knew something was different, but I just assumed he was your typical smart...
    Bella724 Bella724 26-30, F 15 Responses Oct 10, 2010

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    Times, They Are A Changing. - What the heck is going on here? I mean, I say this on a daily basis while living with a husband who is an aspie. Over the past couple of months I have...
    Misspurple Misspurple 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 19, 2012

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    Whole Family of Aspies - When our son was in 3rd grade, a teacher suggested that he might have Asperger's.  I went immeditely into denial.  My husband went home and got...
    SheelaNGig SheelaNGig 46-50, F 10 Responses Dec 29, 2008

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    It Is All Making Sense And I Do Not Know What To Do...i Need Support So Ive Come Here. - below i have written a couple of recent experiences that i have had with my partner.  we...
    sweeteuphoria sweeteuphoria 26-30 7 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    How About Some Positive Stories? - After reading many of these posts I have to say I am so deeply sorry to hear about your pain. However, I have to disagree with these "all is...
    kswimmer kswimmer 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 13, 2012

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    I suffer from life long mental health concerns that are at times crippling. I do my best to have self awareness and to be accountable to maintaining and treating my condition. I...
    DeadHeaven DeadHeaven 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    Not So Sure Anymore - I have been added to this group and have been reading stories and other sources for a few months now. I was totally convinced that my boyfriend was an aspie...
    hazelwoodd hazelwoodd 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2013

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    Near End - It's getting close to the moment when I realize for certain that enough is enough and that is not going to change. We've been together for a little over a year now...
    zorla zorla 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    I have been doing a lot if research on AS and I am almost 100 percent sure my husband has it. In the beginning I was attracted to him because he was SO different. I had been with a...
    Allaboutaddi Allaboutaddi 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    Aspergers And Selfishness - My resolve to criticise less, hold my tongue and see amazing results didn't last long. Last week Ethan came home with an iPad. A week earlier we'd had...
    muddlingthroughaspergers muddlingthroughaspergers 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    Cassandra Syndrome - I was an emotional wreck when I met him, I was 25 and divorced with an 18 mo daughter. He represented the security I longed for. He was the strong  silent...
    magicbeet magicbeet 36-40, F 27 Responses Jul 14, 2011

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    I have been married for 8 years to a man that has AS. It is very challenging and I am at a point where I need support from people who get it. My friends and therapist have told me...
    Jenni720 Jenni720 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    I found this website today trying to make sense of my marriage. My Aspie husband and I just spend an hour arguing b/c he wouldn't take our son to get a haircut. I asked him 2-3...
    Holidaynapril Holidaynapril 31-35, F 3 Responses