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I My Wife Knows That I Crossdress

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 614 People

    Wife Knows For Some Years, I'm Getting Dressed Tonight

    My wife knows and now actively encourages me to dress while in the privacy of our house. I had bought some lingerie lots off EBay the last few months and when I reluctantly told her, she wasn't upset. Far from it. She looked through for things she can wear and even found and few...
    jhenry922 jhenry922
    41-45
    1 Response Aug 4, 2009

    She Doesn't Like It, But She Lets Me Get Her Off While I'm Dressed

    I've been dressing up at bedtime for about 10 years. At first I would wait until she was asleep before I'd get out of bed and get dressed. Then one night when I got back in bed wearing my sexy nightie while wearing a garter belt and stockings she woke up and grabbed my hand and...
    TexasLucy TexasLucy
    61-65, M
    4 Responses Jan 6, 2013

    Told Her When We Were Just Dating

    That is what I did. Thought it was best as in a previous marriage my dressing was an issue. My wife does not like idea of me going out dressed so I dress at home. Most of the time I dress when she is at work but occasionally I stay dressed when she comes home. Last time...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 10, 2009

    For Over 30 Years.

    About 1 month after I married my wife she came home early due to a blizzard. There I was all dolled up staring at myself in a mirror when I notice my wife's reflection in the mirror. Her mouth was a gape. I can't come up with a single word. She asks that ever so redundant...
    sherrynpantyhose2k4 sherrynpantyhose2k4
    51-55, T
    1 Response Sep 20, 2011

    The Words We All Long To Hear!!

    If only it was this easy!!
    allwrappedupinit allwrappedupinit
    51-55, M
    5 Responses Mar 20, 2013

    Her Acceptance Of My Desire

    My wife knew I enjoyed cross dressing but didn't approve in the least. She knew I'd had a second phone line installed for a TV make up and lingerie' service I ran part time. She may have guessed about my dressing in a French maid uniform to do the cleaning after she had left...
    amandatrane amandatrane
    56-60
    Mar 26, 2012

    Wife Got Me Started.

    Several years ago my wife had me wear teddies, thongs, garterbelts and nylons for sex. Then she stopped. I still wear today but I have added bras, breastforms and high heels. Now I want to find some one for sex.
    j4fun1948 j4fun1948
    61-65, M
    3 Responses Apr 6, 2012

    My GF

    Well, my girlfriends knows. I told her about my cross dressing when we got back together. She took it much better than I had expected. I wanted to be open and honest about it. And I was. When we got back together after her divorce, I told her. And she took it better than I...
    jml2000 jml2000
    61-65, M
    2 Responses Aug 5, 2013

    She Accepts It But Does Not Like It

    I went for years before telling my wife about my feminine side. I wanted to tell so much but kept on chickening out. In fairness to her, I should have told before we were married. But it took around 10 years before I finally did. When I first met her, fell in love and decided to...
    bethanngirl bethanngirl
    56-60, M
    26 Responses Aug 26, 2013

    I Can't Wait For Halloween

    I'm preparing to ask my wife to go out on halloween with me dressed up as slutty girl. She is getting used to the idea of me dressing up and might even allow me and enjoy to see me getting ******. I can't wait!
    paolaheels24 paolaheels24
    31-35, T
    Sep 3, 2013

    My Lovely Supportive Wife

    When I first came to the big city I started to go out with my real first live in lover and she loved to put make-up on me as she loved the band Japan and the way that the lead singer looked. I loved it though she didn’t know why at that stage – I fantasised about...
    SusanMarina SusanMarina
    26-30
    8 Responses Feb 14, 2010

    New Lingerie

    Returning home early one afternoon I walked into the living room and to mu surprise there laid out on the love seat was a new black Merry Widow with 6 garters and metal clips. The Merry Widow is quintessential mid-50s shapewear. Unlike a corselette, which focuses on the hips and...
    wellheeled2 wellheeled2
    51-55, M
    Jul 12, 2012

    She Enjoys It Too

    My ex wife left me because I wore pantyhose, I wasn't about to make thhe same mistake again... I've worn nylons since I was 4...when I got older (pre-teens) I statred experimenting with the rest of Mom's clothes. Teddies, bras, panties, shoes, skirts, blouses, dresses, slips...
    PHSensei PHSensei
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Jun 30, 2009

    Having A Wonderful Wife That Encourages My Feminine Side!

    It is such a Plaesure to have a Wife that encourages your feminine side. I have been married for almost 29 years and my wife, who was Always a Tomboy and Hates to wear dresses or skirts or pantyhose or high heels actually Likes that I do! It is wonderful to have your wife buy...
    Patti59 Patti59
    51-55, M
    8 Responses Jul 15, 2010

    She'S Awesome

    My wife found out about 2 or 3 years ago that i liked crossdressing, and she fully supports it. My only regret is that i didn't tell her a lot sooner, although if i did we would probably need a separate apartment for just clothing. Seems like I can never have enough.
    AmberRosecd AmberRosecd
    36-40, T
    5 Responses Apr 12, 2013

    She Says No Bra

    I started to wear panties and hose for health.  I then told her I wanted to wear skirts, and she said, if you do you have to wear slips.  So now I'm up to most of the clothes for the lower half, she said no bra, but she bought me two lace trimmed white cami's and I...
    Megangirl Megangirl
    70+, T
    11 Responses Mar 17, 2009

    Shopping Together With Wife

    Wife and I go shopping together and we have ended up in the womens section of the store she tells me she needs some things and ends up getting them for me and said I would look quite in them. She has gotten some stuff for her its a lot of fun when we go shopping together. :))
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 12, 2012

    My Wife Knows

    I allowed my wife to find out about my dressing about 15 years ago. I got all dressed up and waited for her to come home and surprise her. Big mistake on my part. She got really mad. Later she said that I could do it when she wasn't around, but that she did NOT want see it...
    kayallen66 kayallen66
    61-65, M
    1 Response Nov 26, 2012

    Knowing But Struggling: I Want A Man And You're Not A Woman!

    If you've read my other stories you will know that on our wedding day, nearly 30 years ago, my wife and I both wore pretty panties. You will also know that it took 25 years for tights to come out of the closet and find acceptance, with stockings dragging behind. As my disclosures...
    Fullcircle Fullcircle
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Mar 1, 2011

    She Knows And Helps

    My wife has known for several years now she even helps pick some out for me. She has helped me total cross dress and even has sent me out on dates from online to meet with them and submit to them. On occasion she will let me cross dress and have sex with me nothing like the...
    frequeboy frequeboy
    41-45, M
    Sep 19, 2010

    My Wife Knows

    I told my wife either on the second or third time we got together... I knew what I was, and I didn't want to hide anything from her... After I told her, we didn't speak for a couple of days. I wanted her to think about what I had told her without pressuring her.... She has always...
    happilymarriedguy happilymarriedguy
    51-55, M
    1 Response Aug 27, 2011

    Mixed Feeling

    My wife knows that I crossdress and like to have a **** inside of me for about 6 months. But after the first week, things got a little weird and we just pretended I didn't say anything. This week she asked me what I thought if we had one more person in the bed. She wanted...
    paolaheels24 paolaheels24
    31-35, T
    3 Responses Jul 20, 2013

    Yes, She Knows!

    She found out about it a few years into our marraige! We used to have to go to the laundromat to wash our clothes and she would laugh at me how long it took me to fold her panties, and stockings, and bra's. And how neatly they where folded! I just loved the feel of them in my...
    allwrappedupinit allwrappedupinit
    51-55, M
    5 Responses Jun 20, 2011

    My Wife Caught Me !

    I did not  tell my  wife before  hand as at that time I didn't   really take my own  crossdressing seriously.  But  as  the  years  past  my need and  desire to openly express  my feminine  side  grew...
    dly645 dly645
    56-60, T
    15 Responses May 4, 2009

    My wife picked out a new dress

    for me. I put it on my profile pic. It feels so nice walking around in a light breeze!
    slavemissylee slavemissylee
    56-60, M
    Jun 5, 2015

    Yes She Does

    She found out around 3 years ago now, and supports me doing it. I couldn't be happier. I just wish i was able to tell her a lot sooner.
    AmberRosecd AmberRosecd
    36-40, T
    1 Response Apr 16, 2013

    Freedom To Be Who We Are

    I can't really express in words how important my Wife is to me but I'll try. I too am a lifelong cross dresser and after having been wed twice before and losing both women with "dressing" an issue I knew to be honest this time BEFORE I got married the third. It's scary as hell...
    marysgirl marysgirl
    61-65, T
    7 Responses Sep 30, 2011

    About last night....Well,

    things have been progressing well and I'm pacing it so as not to overwhelm my wife with my own desires. I'm trying really hard to make this fun for her as well. So I've been wanting to go further in my CD and submissive desires, been doing laundry, and dishes, vacuuming and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jul 10, 2014

    Garter Belt

    i just got a white lace garter belt with matching thong. it's adorable. my wife got it at the mall yesterday. she got me to model it this morning. only problem is that i only have pantie hose so tonight she's taking me shopping for white stockings. I'm starting to shake a little...
    mielcaliente mielcaliente
    61-65, M
    4 Responses Mar 2, 2009

    Wife Knows...

    Well my first wife was a "pure vanilla", religious fanatic (charismatic), neurotic, depressive, suicidal, bi-polar woman...who refused the idea of me dressing up...but had no problems with young boys she had met (in the hospital confinements for tuicide attemps) who were there...
    SuzanneLebizarre SuzanneLebizarre
    70+, M
    1 Response Aug 6, 2011

    Just Told My Wife

    i just told my wife while i have been deployed to afghanistan that i love to crossdress so far she is very supportive and wants to help even because i know the bree in me will be very shy and nervous to show herself it looks like she is gonna be there through it all and i really...
    Breegirlygirl Breegirlygirl
    22-25, T
    2 Responses Aug 19, 2012

    My Wife Encouraged Ne

    I always liked female cloths and thought how much more choice women had and how pretty there cloths were, 10 years ago my wife and i were playing fantasy games and she got me to wear her panties and bra and nightie, she see how much i enjoyed it and it progressed to me wearing...
    sissyTV sissyTV
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jan 15, 2010

    My Wife Loves Her Little Girl

    I told my wife on our first date about how I felt inside.  We talked for hours about sexuality and what it ment to each other.  We talked about my wanting to be a girl and my crossdressing.  She said that she was ok with it, and has come to love to buy me girley...
    pinkslip pinkslip
    51-55, T
    1 Response Jun 12, 2009

    My Wife Read My Story's And Knows I Like To Cross Dress.

     Now that my secrets are out and the dust has settled. All has been talked out and my wife under stands why I like cross dressing and turned out to my surprise she likes it.   I wished I had let her know sooner. She has bought me several lovely items...
    boystud boystud
    51-55
    1 Response Jan 14, 2010

    I've been crossdressing scine I was very young.

    My wife's known about my crossdressing since before we got married. We just celebrated our 21 anniversary . And for the most part I've suppressed my need to crossdress. But the urge is come back really strong lately, but I haven't done so. I've told my wife about this she...
    DawnR59 DawnR59
    56-60, T
    7 Responses Jul 10, 2014

    She Doesn't Like It Though.

    When we were first married she said she may warm up to it and allowed panties in bed (as long as they weren't too masculine), but she hates panties at all.
    SomeguyinUT SomeguyinUT
    31-35
    1 Response Feb 15, 2012

    She Knew From The Start

    When we started dating I showed he one night how I looked all decked out Having her over to dinner. I got all dressed meeting her at the door as Susan.I met her at the door in a little black dress, stockings and heels.I had my blonde wig on, and full face makeup. I invited her...
    RunAroundSusan RunAroundSusan
    22-25
    3 Responses May 16, 2013

    Pantyhose

    wife knows i wear pantyhose
    eroticphguy eroticphguy
    41-45, M
    Aug 17, 2010

    First wife hated the idea...second wife knew and participated...

    Well my first (deceased) wife was a "pure vanilla", religious fanatic (charismatic), neurotic, depressive, suicidal, bi-polar woman...who refused the idea of me dressing up...but had no problems with young boys she had met (those met in her hospital confinements for suicide...
    SuzanneLebizarre SuzanneLebizarre
    70+, M
    1 Response Aug 6, 2011

    Wife Loves That I Crossdress

    One day, I worked up enough courage to greet my future wife at the door wearing a black, see-through nightie with tall, black, high-heels, and a black thong. I was terrified and nervous. I shyly opened the door. Her eyes went wide and she smiled, thank God! We then proceeded to...
    pantiescouple pantiescouple
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 19, 2010

    What I Like

    What I really like is the way my wife understand and accepts that I'm a cross dresser the way she complements me by not noticing and noticing the way I'm dressed or my make up or  when she comes home for work and say wow you haved wore that for awhile and when she...
    notech64 notech64
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Jul 28, 2010

    My Wife and I

     I have my own lingerie drawers, my washed lingerie hangs in the ensuite, I only wear lingerie and stockings, I think my wife might have guessed by now what I'm up to! Yes she has, pantyhose disappear from my drawer, my panties appear in the wash when I haven't worn them...
    panze panze
    56-60, T
    1 Response Jul 17, 2009
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