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I My Wife Knows That I Crossdress

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    My Wife Knows

    I told my wife either on the second or third time we got together... I knew what I was, and I didn't want to hide anything from her... After I told her, we didn't speak for a couple of days. I wanted her to think about what I had told her without pressuring her.... She has always...
    happilymarriedguy happilymarriedguy 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 27, 2011

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    She'S Awesome

    My wife found out about 2 or 3 years ago that i liked crossdressing, and she fully supports it. My only regret is that i didn't tell her a lot sooner, although if i did we would probably need a separate apartment for just clothing. Seems like I can never have enough.
    AmberRosecd AmberRosecd 31-35, T 8 Responses Apr 12, 2013

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    My Wife Read My Story's And Knows I Like To Cross Dress.

     Now that my secrets are out and the dust has settled. All has been talked out and my wife under stands why I like cross dressing and turned out to my surprise she likes it.   I wished I had let her know sooner. She has bought me several lovely items...
    boystud boystud 51-55 Jan 14, 2010

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    Blessed

    Having been married for nearly thirty years there are no secrets that I know about in our marriage. Before we were even married my wife to be knew of my liking for sexy panties. It wasn’t unusual for her to bring me off into a sexy pair of her panties. Her idea one night for me...
    lynncrossdresser lynncrossdresser 51-55, M 5 Responses Aug 29, 2011

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    Yes, She Knows!

    She found out about it a few years into our marraige! We used to have to go to the laundromat to wash our clothes and she would laugh at me how long it took me to fold her panties, and stockings, and bra's. And how neatly they where folded! I just loved the feel of them in my...
    allwrappedupinit allwrappedupinit 51-55, M 7 Responses Jun 20, 2011

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    Mixed Feeling

    My wife knows that I crossdress and like to have a **** inside of me for about 6 months. But after the first week, things got a little weird and we just pretended I didn't say anything. This week she asked me what I thought if we had one more person in the bed. She wanted...
    paolaheels24 paolaheels24 26-30, T 6 Responses Jul 20, 2013

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    She Enjoys It Too

    My ex wife left me because I wore pantyhose, I wasn't about to make thhe same mistake again... I've worn nylons since I was 4...when I got older (pre-teens) I statred experimenting with the rest of Mom's clothes. Teddies, bras, panties, shoes, skirts, blouses, dresses, slips...
    PHSensei PHSensei 36-40, M 3 Responses Jun 30, 2009

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    Outfits

    My wife also knows I cross-dress and she is cool with the whole situation. I could not ask for a more supportive person in my life than her. She will not let my walk out the door unless I look just right, all my make-up on the way it should be, my outfit matching, seams on my...
    sandrawannabeknoted sandrawannabeknoted 61-65, T 1 Response Mar 3, 2011

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    Freedom To Be Who We Are

    I can't really express in words how important my Wife is to me but I'll try. I too am a lifelong cross dresser and after having been wed twice before and losing both women with "dressing" an issue I knew to be honest this time BEFORE I got married the third. It's scary as hell...
    marysgirl marysgirl 61-65, T 10 Responses Sep 30, 2011

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    She Knew From The Start

    When we started dating I showed he one night how I looked all decked out Having her over to dinner. I got all dressed meeting her at the door as Susan.I met her at the door in a little black dress, stockings and heels.I had my blonde wig on, and full face makeup. I invited her...
    RunAroundSusan RunAroundSusan 22-25 4 Responses May 16, 2013

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    Her Acceptance Of My Desire

    My wife knew I enjoyed cross dressing but didn't approve in the least. She knew I'd had a second phone line installed for a TV make up and lingerie' service I ran part time. She may have guessed about my dressing in a French maid uniform to do the cleaning after she had left...
    amandatrane amandatrane 56-60 Mar 26, 2012

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    She Doesn't Like It, But She Lets Me Get Her Off While I'm Dressed

    I've been dressing up at bedtime for about 10 years. At first I would wait until she was asleep before I'd get out of bed and get dressed. Then one night when I got back in bed wearing my sexy nightie while wearing a garter belt and stockings she woke up and grabbed my hand and...
    TexasLucy TexasLucy 61-65, M 6 Responses Jan 6, 2013

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    The Words We All Long To Hear!!

    If only it was this easy!!
    allwrappedupinit allwrappedupinit 51-55, M 6 Responses Mar 20, 2013

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    First wife hated the idea...second wife knew and participated...

    Well my first (deceased) wife was a "pure vanilla", religious fanatic (charismatic), neurotic, depressive, suicidal, bi-polar woman...who refused the idea of me dressing up...but had no problems with young boys she had met (those met in her hospital confinements for suicide...
    SuzanneLebizarre SuzanneLebizarre 70+, M 1 Response Aug 6, 2011

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    Garter Belt

    i just got a white lace garter belt with matching thong. it's adorable. my wife got it at the mall yesterday. she got me to model it this morning. only problem is that i only have pantie hose so tonight she's taking me shopping for white stockings. I'm starting to shake a little...
    mielcaliente mielcaliente 61-65, M 4 Responses Mar 2, 2009

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    Yes She Does

    She found out around 3 years ago now, and supports me doing it. I couldn't be happier. I just wish i was able to tell her a lot sooner.
    AmberRosecd AmberRosecd 31-35, T 1 Response Apr 16, 2013

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    She Thought It Was Fun

    As i said in another story my wife , then girlfriend, asked me to dress-up for her.I had been dressing for many years in secret before i met her. We were together for acouple months when she asked me to put a bra and panties on. At first i said no but i let her talk me into it...
    cindyloulove cindyloulove 56-60, M 5 Responses Mar 12, 2011

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    Told Her When We Were Just Dating

    That is what I did. Thought it was best as in a previous marriage my dressing was an issue. My wife does not like idea of me going out dressed so I dress at home. Most of the time I dress when she is at work but occasionally I stay dressed when she comes home. Last time...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 10, 2009

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    She Accepts It But Does Not Like It

    I went for years before telling my wife about my feminine side. I wanted to tell so much but kept on chickening out. In fairness to her, I should have told before we were married. But it took around 10 years before I finally did. When I first met her, fell in love and decided to...
    bethanngirl bethanngirl 56-60, M 21 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    I Can't Wait For Halloween

    I'm preparing to ask my wife to go out on halloween with me dressed up as slutty girl. She is getting used to the idea of me dressing up and might even allow me and enjoy to see me getting ******. I can't wait!
    paolaheels24 paolaheels24 26-30, T Sep 3, 2013

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    Trying To Figure Out My Wifes Comment

    I told my wife that I crossdressed about 4 years ago. She is supportive now, but it hasn't been a long journey to get to this point. Things have progressed further than I would have ever expected. I feel that we have swapped our "roles". She has become the more dominate person in...
    bicleveland bicleveland 36-40, M 8 Responses Dec 20, 2012

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    Will I Ever Be Embarrassed Again?

    Well after slaving away entertaining friends and family for four days in a row, we finally got a day just to ourselves. My wife and I couldn’t really decide what to do with it; I was beginning to get grumpy with my lack of personal space, our quality time together was none...
    lynncrossdresser lynncrossdresser 51-55, M 4 Responses Dec 28, 2011

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    Just Told My Wife

    i just told my wife while i have been deployed to afghanistan that i love to crossdress so far she is very supportive and wants to help even because i know the bree in me will be very shy and nervous to show herself it looks like she is gonna be there through it all and i really...
    Breegirlygirl Breegirlygirl 22-25, T 2 Responses Aug 19, 2012

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    My Wife Loves Her Little Girl

    I told my wife on our first date about how I felt inside.  We talked for hours about sexuality and what it ment to each other.  We talked about my wanting to be a girl and my crossdressing.  She said that she was ok with it, and has come to love to buy me girley...
    pinkslip pinkslip 46-50, T 1 Response Jun 12, 2009

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    New Lingerie

    Returning home early one afternoon I walked into the living room and to mu surprise there laid out on the love seat was a new black Merry Widow with 6 garters and metal clips. The Merry Widow is quintessential mid-50s shapewear. Unlike a corselette, which focuses on the hips and...
    wellheeled2 wellheeled2 51-55, M Jul 12, 2012

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    My Wife Knows

    I allowed my wife to find out about my dressing about 15 years ago. I got all dressed up and waited for her to come home and surprise her. Big mistake on my part. She got really mad. Later she said that I could do it when she wasn't around, but that she did NOT want see it...
    kayallen66 kayallen66 61-65, M 2 Responses Nov 26, 2012

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    My GF

    Well, my girlfriends knows. I told her about my cross dressing when we got back together. She took it much better than I had expected. I wanted to be open and honest about it. And I was. When we got back together after her divorce, I told her. And she took it better than I...
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M Aug 5, 2013

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    Wife Got Me Started.

    Several years ago my wife had me wear teddies, thongs, garterbelts and nylons for sex. Then she stopped. I still wear today but I have added bras, breastforms and high heels. Now I want to find some one for sex.
    j4fun1948 j4fun1948 61-65, M 5 Responses Apr 6, 2012

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    My Wife Got Me Started

    It was just play at sex time at first-(& showing me off to her female friends! Now-I have No mens underware or PJs-Wear babydoll nities around the house& to bed! I'm dressed about 98% of the time at home even when friends& family visit-It's pretty universally accepted! On...
    jettys jettys 56-60 7 Responses Apr 17, 2013

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    My Lovely Supportive Wife

    When I first came to the big city I started to go out with my real first live in lover and she loved to put make-up on me as she loved the band Japan and the way that the lead singer looked. I loved it though she didn’t know why at that stage – I fantasised about...
    SusanMarina SusanMarina 26-30 9 Responses Feb 14, 2010

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    My Wife Encouraged Ne

    I always liked female cloths and thought how much more choice women had and how pretty there cloths were, 10 years ago my wife and i were playing fantasy games and she got me to wear her panties and bra and nightie, she see how much i enjoyed it and it progressed to me wearing...
    sissyTV sissyTV 46-50, M Jan 15, 2010

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    She Not Only Knows

    she even likes it and sometimes buy lingerie for me, and i lve her for it, its almost 100% sure that if she (or i) buy a new set of lingerie for me it will end up in great sex the same evening, i love to wear it, i think it looks good on me (pic's in my profile) and it feels just...
    bodylower bodylower 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 8, 2011

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    My Wife and I

     I have my own lingerie drawers, my washed lingerie hangs in the ensuite, I only wear lingerie and stockings, I think my wife might have guessed by now what I'm up to! Yes she has, pantyhose disappear from my drawer, my panties appear in the wash when I haven't worn them...
    panze panze 56-60, T 1 Response Jul 17, 2009

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    Crossdressing

    i am glad to see from reading the stories nice to find some women who are supportive in our crossdressing my late wife however could never understand a lot of foolish people think is crossdressers are gay that is totaly **** bulcrap i have crossdressed for decades got married had...
    raysst raysst 61-65, M Jan 9, 2012

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    She Doesn't Like It Though.

    When we were first married she said she may warm up to it and allowed panties in bed (as long as they weren't too masculine), but she hates panties at all.
    SomeguyinUT SomeguyinUT 31-35 2 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    Wife Knows...

    Well my first wife was a "pure vanilla", religious fanatic (charismatic), neurotic, depressive, suicidal, bi-polar woman...who refused the idea of me dressing up...but had no problems with young boys she had met (in the hospital confinements for tuicide attemps) who were there...
    SuzanneLebizarre SuzanneLebizarre 70+, M 1 Response Aug 6, 2011

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    She Says No Bra

    I started to wear panties and hose for health.  I then told her I wanted to wear skirts, and she said, if you do you have to wear slips.  So now I'm up to most of the clothes for the lower half, she said no bra, but she bought me two lace trimmed white cami's and I...
    Megangirl Megangirl 70+, T 11 Responses Mar 17, 2009

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    My Wife Caught Me !

    I did not  tell my  wife before  hand as at that time I didn't   really take my own  crossdressing seriously.  But  as  the  years  past  my need and  desire to openly express  my feminine  side  grew...
    dly645 dly645 56-60, T 10 Responses May 4, 2009

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    Shopping Together With Wife

    Wife and I go shopping together and we have ended up in the womens section of the store she tells me she needs some things and ends up getting them for me and said I would look quite in them. She has gotten some stuff for her its a lot of fun when we go shopping together. :))
    julianna79 julianna79 51-55 3 Responses Jul 12, 2012

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    We All Had a Lot of Growing Up to Do.

      I had dated my wife for a few years while I went to college and it was nearing the end of school when one day we were fooling around and I talked her into me wearing her pantyhose.  Sex that night was great.  From there we tried a little more and again sex was...
    sharoncd sharoncd 51-55, T 4 Responses Jul 2, 2009

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    Having A Wonderful Wife That Encourages My Feminine Side!

    It is such a Plaesure to have a Wife that encourages your feminine side. I have been married for almost 29 years and my wife, who was Always a Tomboy and Hates to wear dresses or skirts or pantyhose or high heels actually Likes that I do! It is wonderful to have your wife buy...
    Patti59 Patti59 51-55, M 9 Responses Jul 15, 2010

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    For Over 30 Years.

    About 1 month after I married my wife she came home early due to a blizzard. There I was all dolled up staring at myself in a mirror when I notice my wife's reflection in the mirror. Her mouth was a gape. I can't come up with a single word. She asks that ever so redundant...
    sherrynpantyhose2k4 sherrynpantyhose2k4 51-55, T 1 Response Sep 20, 2011

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    A night out as Rhonda had me visiting a local establishment where a band was playing that I follow. I was with a friend, and she is very acceptable of my crossdressing. I was...
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    I've always loved the idea of dating a crossdresser. I'm what some people might call a "tomboy" and I just always found the juxtaposition ( I that's the right word I'm not really...
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    My wife know I dress but does not accept. As long as she does not see me dress. But I love dressing so so much. It's like a drug I can not stop. Evan if it meant me losing my wife...
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    I am falling for a crossdresser. I love him and who he is and I would never change him. I told my family, which consist of my mother and sister. Mom was accepting, my sister was...
    bbsw1963 bbsw1963 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    Ok this is my first time writing about this and I am nervous about doing so. Ok i have crossdressed for as far back as I remember. The first time I can recall was at the age of 4...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 6

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    Well for the last 10 years I have been married and over the last 3 years I now fear my wife emotionally. Since we had our first child life has slowly gone to ****. After our first...
    cyborg333 cyborg333 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 9

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    Um... Hi im a aspiring crossdresser Id kinda like help crossdressing if anyone would want to My kick is josef3303664
    deathtrap12 deathtrap12 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    It wasn't always this way. I hid my alter ego from my wife for 25 years of marraige. Then one night she said she thought I was having an affair with another woman and I just...
    Bobbi2141 Bobbi2141 61-65, T 14 Responses Mar 24

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    Sometime my wife makes me cross dress
    bendoverman75 bendoverman75 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 2

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