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I Need a Back Rub

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 232 People

    Wanting Comfort...

    I would love a backrub but not in a sexual way. Just someone who will be tender and caring with me, giving me lots of attention and taking all the tension away. Is that a wrong thing to want?
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2011

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    I Need a God Damn Back Rub!

    YOU KNOW WHEN YOU REALLY WANT A BACK RUB AND YOU DON'T GET IT? WELL I ******* HATE THAT. THERE ARE JUST SOME TIMES WHEN YOUR ***** JUST NEEDS TO KNOW... SHE SHOULD HAVE LIKE A SPIDEY SENSE THAT SAYS "OH **** HE ******* NEEDS A BACK RUB CAUSE HE BRINGS HOME THE BACON!"...
    ineedabackrubbitch ineedabackrubbitch 70+ 1 Response Sep 5, 2009

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    Been So Busy Lately ...

    I did not realize how stressful my life is at this moment in time. I woke up this morning with every muscle in my body hurting... I think I will book myself in for a nice massage somewhere next week
    kinkitty kinkitty 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 27, 2008

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    Back Rub

    My muscles are a little tense...I would love or need a back rub, it may make me feel better.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2011

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    In Dire Need

    My shoulders, neck and back are all in knots and I'm in pain often these days. I need a bit of human contact and tlc to go with it. I've been stretching my back, shoulders and neck in hopes to alleviate the physical pain. However, nothing compares to the hands of someone that...
    lotusdrop lotusdrop 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 29, 2010

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    Feels Good

    I guess I just long for a back rub 'cause it feels good, gets you in contact with another human being.
    spartan76 spartan76 31-35, M Jan 17, 2009

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    Yeah Baby!!!!

    I love to recive and give back rubs.  I could really use one right now... Anybody else need one???
    LateNightGuy LateNightGuy 41-45, M 5 Responses Jul 16, 2008

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    Super Tense

    My back is always super tight. I hold a lot of my stress in my shoulders and neck, so it feels so great when I get a good back rub.
    cantyouseemeshaking cantyouseemeshaking 18-21, F Dec 8, 2011

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    A Back Rub Sure Feels Nice, Doesn't It?

    While I was growing up, when I was pretty young, actually (5 or 6, perhaps), my mom would sometimes give me a good back-rub, helping to undo the tension you don't know is there until it gets worked over.  That's how I've learned to provide back-rubs.  Not to brutalize...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 10, 2010

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    70's Kind of Love

    I need the entire works, all you have to offer.  I am tense, stressed and silently sexually built up.  I am quite attractive and in a monogomous relationship.  I just don't get the attention I deserve right now.  My man is quite unexperenced and very brut...
    ichooselife ichooselife 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 1, 2009

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    Yes! I Do.

    Sadly I admit most of my days are spent in a seat typing paper after paper, when I get home I would love nothing more than a good back rub, the physical stimulation and sensation. yes indeedy!
    Tangentmemories Tangentmemories 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 29, 2009

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    It's Been a Long Day!

    I've been up since 5am and had hardly any sleep over the weekend so a back rub would be great right now! Unfortunately my husband is away at the minute which leaves just me and the cats - I doubt very much they would be willing to lend a helping paw!! Maybe I should just have a...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F Jul 14, 2008

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    I Just Want One

    Because the pain in my back is horribly unbearable. I have stuff to do tomorrow, too... :( Damn.
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M Dec 31, 2007

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    Especially After a Hard Day!

    Two times I really need a back rub: - After a stressful day at work. - After a long run. (I define long run as 8+ miles)  Of course I think I would take one every day if I could get it!!
    Longrun Longrun 46-50, M 37 Responses Apr 14, 2008

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    Stress

    Honestly! I've been so incredibly stressed out lately, it isn't funny. I have final tests for school, I'm working on getting my first job, and I've been having troubles at home. I could really go for something to help me relax a bit... the problem is, I don't have anyone who...
    shadowxmagic shadowxmagic 16-17, F May 24, 2008

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    Especially Since My Bicycle Accident

    My fiance doesn't give them because it hurts his shoulder, though on rare occation i'll get treated to one if he's feeling up to it. maybe i should go to a massage theripist, not quie the same but better actually, problem is, no money. hmm, too bad i don't really know anyone...
    AngelaDark AngelaDark 31-35, F Nov 16, 2007

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    You Know What I Really Need?

    I want a boyfriend who gives the best back-rubs!!! That's the ideal ! ;-)
    just4adream just4adream 19-21, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2007

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    Stressed

    Sitting on the bed, trying to relax after a tough day. You come up behind and gently place your hands on my shoulders. I head tilts as you dig deep into my muscles with your fingers. I arch as you drag your fingers gently down my back, grasping my shirt and lifting it off...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 28, 2007

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    I would love to rub a belly. I think a man with a fat hanging belly is adorable. An when they eat so much they need a belly rub, I would gladly like to give them one.
    tRueInSAnItY tRueInSAnItY 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 22

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    I worked at an ice rink and did home construction on the side. I enjoyed myself, but the rink had too much down time for 10-12 hour shifts. Last week I started my new job as a...
    PuckDrop PuckDrop 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I've never had my feet really rubbed but I would love to give and receive. But probably the closest thing that felt good on my feet was pressing feet with my brother years back. It...
    Titan222 Titan222 18-21, M Nov 9

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    I have known him for 7 years. I love him. I. Cry because I love him. I can't sleep because I love him. I am sad because I love him. But he ignores me everyday. He hates and...
    ammmiiiiiiii ammmiiiiiiii 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 11

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    Well i dont need a donation but theres a little girl called ruby who lives in my area i dont actually know her but she has cancer (neuroblastoma) and may need to go to america for...
    lovemusicnicole lovemusicnicole 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 10

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    Well i dont need a donation but theres a little girl called ruby who lives in my area i dont actually know her but she has cancer (neuroblastoma) and may need to go to america for...
    lovemusicnicole lovemusicnicole 18-21, F Nov 10

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    Do I have a mental disorder? I've been afraid of the dark my entire life. Not necessarily the dark but what was in it that terrified me. Which was strange because I loved reading...
    ebonyparrish ebonyparrish 18-21, T 17 hrs ago

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    My name is Ruby and I suffer from a personality disorder. I know what it's like to feel alone and like you have no one and I don't want people to feel like I do. If you need...
    romanalanski romanalanski 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 23

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    Yes! Oil me up and rub me down all over but especially my neck and shoulders need it.
    KaitlynS1996 KaitlynS1996 18-21, F 18 Responses Oct 29

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    I used to rub my mom's feet a lot as a child; we had a lot of good bonding time that way. Now my wife and kids rub my feet when I get off work.
    lever2000 lever2000 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 7

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    hey guys I'm a newbie here....joined about an hour ago pmsl......I'm just a young girl with a real out-going personalitie and bit new to rubber and leather ect too......I've got...
    loveyourcrazylife loveyourcrazylife 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10

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    Yes.. I am a guy.. But I absolutely love having my feet rubbed and played with.. And I know it's weird >_< but.. Yeah.. I'm pretty weird but I'm super ticklish X3 Urgh.. I...
    codyvilla99 codyvilla99 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    I have put my twin nineteen year old daughters back in nappies after they were released from jail for drunk driving and poss ion of drugs. Both have being out of control and had no...
    StrictNewMom StrictNewMom 51-55, T 1 Response Nov 1

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    Hey my name is Ruby. I don't have many gay friends but would love to have some so feel free to message me 😊
    romanalanski romanalanski 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 23

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    Who wants to rub the Kittiez belly :3
    catbradley catbradley 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 23

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    I want you to tell me what ud do while I rub
    shannon1502 shannon1502 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 27

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    After a long hard day, I love to just unwind and have my feet rubbed. My sister and I usually do it for each other; her hands are so soft and good at it haha. Once she's done mine...
    ThatGirlSara ThatGirlSara 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 27

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    It all started a week ago. I've been struggling with mental illness for a long time, but was always in denial until last weekend. My boyfriend, his sister, and I were all in the...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 27

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    It's weird but I get turned on when people rub my fat belly :)
    breeannbelly breeannbelly 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 27

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