I Need a Back Rub

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 364 People

    Especially Since My Bicycle Accident

    My fiance doesn't give them because it hurts his shoulder, though on rare occation i'll get treated to one if he's feeling up to it. maybe i should go to a massage theripist, not quie the same but better actually, problem is, no money. hmm, too bad i don't really know anyone...
    AngelaDark AngelaDark
    31-35, F
    Nov 16, 2007

    Yes! I Do.

    Sadly I admit most of my days are spent in a seat typing paper after paper, when I get home I would love nothing more than a good back rub, the physical stimulation and sensation. yes indeedy!
    Tangentmemories Tangentmemories
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 29, 2009

    Yeah Baby!!!!

    I love to recive and give back rubs.  I could really use one right now... Anybody else need one???
    LateNightGuy LateNightGuy
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Jul 16, 2008

    A back rub would be very nice right now.

    Lifted a box at work to day and now my back is hurting...I need a back rub....Lol....Hope you,re day has been well....
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 8, 2015

    70's Kind of Love

    I need the entire works, all you have to offer.  I am tense, stressed and silently sexually built up.  I am quite attractive and in a monogomous relationship.  I just don't get the attention I deserve right now.  My man is quite unexperenced and very brut...
    ichooselife ichooselife
    36-40, F
    9 Responses Apr 1, 2009

    Man, I need a back rub

    so bad tonight! My back's been just feeling so tense and achy lately, especially between my shoulder blades. Wish I had someone to rub my back or even walk on it (if they're not too heavy!)
    wannabelikethecoolkids wannabelikethecoolkids
    18-21, M
    May 15, 2015

    Feels Good

    I guess I just long for a back rub 'cause it feels good, gets you in contact with another human being.
    spartan76 spartan76
    31-35, M
    Jan 17, 2009

    Wanting Comfort...

    I would love a backrub but not in a sexual way. Just someone who will be tender and caring with me, giving me lots of attention and taking all the tension away. Is that a wrong thing to want?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 16, 2011

    i want my back rub..

    who wants to rub my back?
    eyeamalive eyeamalive
    46-50, F
    3 Responses May 27, 2015

    God my back is still hurting badly especially

    after moving carrying those heavy boxes and being stressed isn't helping
    ashley254 ashley254
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 26, 2015

    Super Tense

    My back is always super tight. I hold a lot of my stress in my shoulders and neck, so it feels so great when I get a good back rub.
    cantyouseemeshaking cantyouseemeshaking
    18-21, F
    Dec 8, 2011
    ashley254 ashley254
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 26, 2015

    You Know What I Really Need?

    I want a boyfriend who gives the best back-rubs!!! That's the ideal ! ;-)
    just4adream just4adream
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 18, 2007

    Back Rub

    My muscles are a little tense...I would love or need a back rub, it may make me feel better.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 19, 2011

    I need a LONG back rub,

    with Fibromyaglia , my back hurts when I get stressed over something, or anxious or something like that, tension isn't good on me but muscle rub and a back rub are nice and I really dont' care who does it as long as I get a good massage out of it .
    RyRyOfAwesomeness RyRyOfAwesomeness
    16-17, M
    1 Response May 16, 2015

    Stressed

    Sitting on the bed, trying to relax after a tough day. You come up behind and gently place your hands on my shoulders. I head tilts as you dig deep into my muscles with your fingers. I arch as you drag your fingers gently down my back, grasping my shirt and lifting it off...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Oct 28, 2007

    I Just Want One

    Because the pain in my back is horribly unbearable. I have stuff to do tomorrow, too... :( Damn.
    drcynic drcynic
    26-30, M
    Dec 31, 2007

    In Dire Need

    My shoulders, neck and back are all in knots and I'm in pain often these days. I need a bit of human contact and tlc to go with it. I've been stretching my back, shoulders and neck in hopes to alleviate the physical pain. However, nothing compares to the hands of someone that...
    lotusdrop lotusdrop
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 29, 2010

    A Back Rub Sure Feels Nice, Doesn't It?

    While I was growing up, when I was pretty young, actually (5 or 6, perhaps), my mom would sometimes give me a good back-rub, helping to undo the tension you don't know is there until it gets worked over.  That's how I've learned to provide back-rubs.  Not to brutalize...
    UnderEli UnderEli
    46-50, M
    1 Response Dec 10, 2010

    I Need a God Damn Back Rub!

    YOU KNOW WHEN YOU REALLY WANT A BACK RUB AND YOU DON'T GET IT? WELL I ******* HATE THAT. THERE ARE JUST SOME TIMES WHEN YOUR ***** JUST NEEDS TO KNOW... SHE SHOULD HAVE LIKE A SPIDEY SENSE THAT SAYS "OH **** HE ******* NEEDS A BACK RUB CAUSE HE BRINGS HOME THE BACON!"...
    ineedabackrubbitch ineedabackrubbitch
    70+
    1 Response Sep 5, 2009

    Been So Busy Lately ...

    I did not realize how stressful my life is at this moment in time. I woke up this morning with every muscle in my body hurting... I think I will book myself in for a nice massage somewhere next week
    kinkitty kinkitty
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Apr 27, 2008

    Stress

    Honestly! I've been so incredibly stressed out lately, it isn't funny. I have final tests for school, I'm working on getting my first job, and I've been having troubles at home. I could really go for something to help me relax a bit... the problem is, I don't have anyone who...
    shadowxmagic shadowxmagic
    16-17, F
    May 24, 2008

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