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I Need a Back Rub

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    Stress

    Honestly! I've been so incredibly stressed out lately, it isn't funny. I have final tests for school, I'm working on getting my first job, and I've been having troubles at home. I could really go for something to help me relax a bit... the problem is, I don't have anyone who...
    shadowxmagic shadowxmagic 16-17, F May 24, 2008

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    Wanting Comfort...

    I would love a backrub but not in a sexual way. Just someone who will be tender and caring with me, giving me lots of attention and taking all the tension away. Is that a wrong thing to want?
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2011

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    Back Rub

    My muscles are a little tense...I would love or need a back rub, it may make me feel better.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2011

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    A Back Rub Sure Feels Nice, Doesn't It?

    While I was growing up, when I was pretty young, actually (5 or 6, perhaps), my mom would sometimes give me a good back-rub, helping to undo the tension you don't know is there until it gets worked over.  That's how I've learned to provide back-rubs.  Not to brutalize...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 10, 2010

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    Especially After a Hard Day!

    Two times I really need a back rub: - After a stressful day at work. - After a long run. (I define long run as 8+ miles)  Of course I think I would take one every day if I could get it!!
    Longrun Longrun 46-50, M 37 Responses Apr 14, 2008

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    Yes! I Do.

    Sadly I admit most of my days are spent in a seat typing paper after paper, when I get home I would love nothing more than a good back rub, the physical stimulation and sensation. yes indeedy!
    Tangentmemories Tangentmemories 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 29, 2009

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    Been So Busy Lately ...

    I did not realize how stressful my life is at this moment in time. I woke up this morning with every muscle in my body hurting... I think I will book myself in for a nice massage somewhere next week
    kinkitty kinkitty 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 27, 2008

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    Super Tense

    My back is always super tight. I hold a lot of my stress in my shoulders and neck, so it feels so great when I get a good back rub.
    cantyouseemeshaking cantyouseemeshaking 18-21, F Dec 8, 2011

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    Yeah Baby!!!!

    I love to recive and give back rubs.  I could really use one right now... Anybody else need one???
    LateNightGuy LateNightGuy 41-45, M 5 Responses Jul 16, 2008

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    Stressed

    Sitting on the bed, trying to relax after a tough day. You come up behind and gently place your hands on my shoulders. I head tilts as you dig deep into my muscles with your fingers. I arch as you drag your fingers gently down my back, grasping my shirt and lifting it off...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 28, 2007

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    It's Been a Long Day!

    I've been up since 5am and had hardly any sleep over the weekend so a back rub would be great right now! Unfortunately my husband is away at the minute which leaves just me and the cats - I doubt very much they would be willing to lend a helping paw!! Maybe I should just have a...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F Jul 14, 2008

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    Feels Good

    I guess I just long for a back rub 'cause it feels good, gets you in contact with another human being.
    spartan76 spartan76 31-35, M Jan 17, 2009

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    You Know What I Really Need?

    I want a boyfriend who gives the best back-rubs!!! That's the ideal ! ;-)
    just4adream just4adream 19-21, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2007

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    I Just Want One

    Because the pain in my back is horribly unbearable. I have stuff to do tomorrow, too... :( Damn.
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M Dec 31, 2007

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    In Dire Need

    My shoulders, neck and back are all in knots and I'm in pain often these days. I need a bit of human contact and tlc to go with it. I've been stretching my back, shoulders and neck in hopes to alleviate the physical pain. However, nothing compares to the hands of someone that...
    lotusdrop lotusdrop 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 29, 2010

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    70's Kind of Love

    I need the entire works, all you have to offer.  I am tense, stressed and silently sexually built up.  I am quite attractive and in a monogomous relationship.  I just don't get the attention I deserve right now.  My man is quite unexperenced and very brut...
    ichooselife ichooselife 36-40, F 8 Responses Apr 1, 2009

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    I Need a God Damn Back Rub!

    YOU KNOW WHEN YOU REALLY WANT A BACK RUB AND YOU DON'T GET IT? WELL I ******* HATE THAT. THERE ARE JUST SOME TIMES WHEN YOUR ***** JUST NEEDS TO KNOW... SHE SHOULD HAVE LIKE A SPIDEY SENSE THAT SAYS "OH **** HE ******* NEEDS A BACK RUB CAUSE HE BRINGS HOME THE BACON!"...
    ineedabackrubbitch ineedabackrubbitch 70+ 1 Response Sep 5, 2009

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    Especially Since My Bicycle Accident

    My fiance doesn't give them because it hurts his shoulder, though on rare occation i'll get treated to one if he's feeling up to it. maybe i should go to a massage theripist, not quie the same but better actually, problem is, no money. hmm, too bad i don't really know anyone...
    AngelaDark AngelaDark 31-35, F Nov 16, 2007

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    Related Experiences

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    ONEPIECE749 ONEPIECE749 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have been with my GF for about 5 months now. There are no problems in the relationship thus far. We get along well, share a lot of interests, and are generally supportive of one...
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    Heavenly Father, I need you now. I come before you with a humble, broken heart. Please heal me. Please take the hurt away. Please take the confusion and torment away as it is...
    feelingsoblu feelingsoblu 31-35, F 10 hrs ago

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    I'm a simple 15 year old guy who thought suicide would prevent him from seeing his 16th birthday. I went into a new school system for the 9th grade. New school new people, the new...
    nobleman1341 nobleman1341 13-15, M 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Its been almost 2 weeks since I've been properly spanked and I have 2 wait 3 more days! I am getting rude with everyone and both my spankers are away so when they come back I will...
    otkangel otkangel 36-40, F 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    My name's Alisa Usagi Gold. I'm trapped in a male body, but rightfully a girl. Need help finding: My Real Birth Mommy, (or at least a nice enough woman who would Love me as such...
    WhiteLegoNinja WhiteLegoNinja 13-15, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    So there's this hardcore activity race that I have to go to in 5 days. It's a week long trip. I never wanted to go in the first place but my dad and friend peer pressured me into...
    skyleryounger skyleryounger 18-21, M 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I do believe everything happens for a reason I'm in tears worrying if the man I love has been casted bad spell by the woman he is seeing Please advice me This man I love we...
    Cymbelina Cymbelina 26-30, F 6 hrs ago

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    Have you ever been so set on doing something for the better but being so terrified for it. Why is it everytime we shout for trouble lock him out on the doorstep pretending we don't...
    fxwn fxwn 22-25 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I expect that if i give 100% of effort in a relationship i expect that 100% effort back. I hate the fact that i gave my all and got nothing in return.
    mskaylee24 mskaylee24 22-25, F 19 mins ago

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    Taking inventory on privacy. We have 3 acres of land and planted over 100 trees over the course of 10+ years. Biggest mistake was we didn't line the entire property with pines...
    qcrash qcrash 41-45, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Why is everyone obsessed with not being happy with their weight? I'm very fat but am not at all dissatisfied with how I look. I like the way I look. I'm cute. I do need to lose...
    SeaOfMonsters SeaOfMonsters 26-30, F 17 hrs ago

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    Who doesn't "back in the day" I know I do. yes the stories are all embellished and I was much better in my memories than I probably actually was. Yeah, I back in the day.
    lonesojourner lonesojourner 46-50, M 2 hrs ago

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    Can't trust in anyone anymore. No one really has your back. I told a friend ( or who I thought was a friend) a little about my personal life. She went and told the person that I...
    mrussell76 mrussell76 36-40, F 25 mins ago

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    hey! You're a guy and need a belly rub? Don't hesitate to message me :) I loooove massaging full tummies and making you feel better ;)
    theweirdgirl987 theweirdgirl987 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 15

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    I guess it can be better than something that will leave a scar... And if it helps someone to stop other worse forms.. Than yes it can be a help but.. It's still self harm... So I...
    Sadgirlwithoutarazor1 Sadgirlwithoutarazor1 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I Need A Woman Badly, I Need A Woman Badly, I Need A Woman Badly
    CoolDad59 CoolDad59 51-55, M 9 hrs ago

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    Somehow my friends and I got to talking about divorced parents and when it is the worst time in a kid's life for them to get divorced. I sat and listened as they talked, and they...
    tarara0414 tarara0414 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I need a didlo, I mean...I used one of my actual 'toy' carrot that 'used' to be from an old mechanical pony I used to have, its made out of hard rubber I guess and its pretty long...
    MissLex69 MissLex69 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Time off is done, tomorrow I'm back to work! Haven't done anything special.. But I did sleep sooooooo much wish i could store sleep in my system lol But at least, I haven't...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I have recently bought a rubber burqua and try to wear it as much as possible, especially doing jobs round the house. As the view is rather restricted this makes it all the more...
    rubberhill rubberhill 70+, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    I need someone I can talk to :/ also I'm here for anyone who needs someone 😊
    Feliciajake Feliciajake 16-17, F 15 hrs ago

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    Now that I'm single i would like to meet new people to talk to about getting over a break up and that can make me smile and laugh. I love life but we all need a little help once...
    RealTalkFriend RealTalkFriend 26-30, M 8 hrs ago

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    Hi there, So this is where I am right now - I have had a really bad couple of years at both personal and working levels. - I want to understand what is going on inside me that gave...
    bud1969 bud1969 41-45, M 7 hrs ago

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    I need a hug... God I sound girly *Facepalm* But I feel the need to hug someone for no reason ;-;
    DysfunctionalPiano DysfunctionalPiano 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    i'm writing this story for people to read and learn about something that so many ask about and rather then repeatedly writing about the same thing I'm going to put it all here I'm...
    tom67890 tom67890 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    Tonight my wife told me she wants to end our marriage. She said shrs been unhappy for a long time. Yesterday we had a sincere talk and I thought we might have it all work out...
    MyStruggleIsMyself MyStruggleIsMyself 31-35, M 12 Responses Jun 30

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    Me?! How can I help someone when I myself am a mess?! How can I preach to someone not to cut, while rubbing the cuts on my arms?! I tried. I tried being self-less. I tried making...
    scarredbutrelentless scarredbutrelentless 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 6

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    Easily said that done really. I mean, although it's all made me stronger, i still feel as if i'm repeating each day - feeling the same things that i've felt for the past 10 years...
    JJSapphire JJSapphire 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    First, I want to introduce myself, I am Cyril, 22 years old living in the Philippines. I work online as a freelance writer where I earn money just enough to pay monthly bills and...
    CyrilOh CyrilOh 18-21 Jul 15

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