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I Need a Back Rub

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    Super Tense

    My back is always super tight. I hold a lot of my stress in my shoulders and neck, so it feels so great when I get a good back rub.
    cantyouseemeshaking cantyouseemeshaking 18-21, F Dec 8, 2011

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    Feels Good

    I guess I just long for a back rub 'cause it feels good, gets you in contact with another human being.
    spartan76 spartan76 31-35, M Jan 17, 2009

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    Especially Since My Bicycle Accident

    My fiance doesn't give them because it hurts his shoulder, though on rare occation i'll get treated to one if he's feeling up to it. maybe i should go to a massage theripist, not quie the same but better actually, problem is, no money. hmm, too bad i don't really know anyone...
    AngelaDark AngelaDark 31-35, F Nov 16, 2007

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    I Just Want One

    Because the pain in my back is horribly unbearable. I have stuff to do tomorrow, too... :( Damn.
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M Dec 31, 2007

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    A Back Rub Sure Feels Nice, Doesn't It?

    While I was growing up, when I was pretty young, actually (5 or 6, perhaps), my mom would sometimes give me a good back-rub, helping to undo the tension you don't know is there until it gets worked over.  That's how I've learned to provide back-rubs.  Not to brutalize...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 10, 2010

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    Stressed

    Sitting on the bed, trying to relax after a tough day. You come up behind and gently place your hands on my shoulders. I head tilts as you dig deep into my muscles with your fingers. I arch as you drag your fingers gently down my back, grasping my shirt and lifting it off...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 28, 2007

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    You Know What I Really Need?

    I want a boyfriend who gives the best back-rubs!!! That's the ideal ! ;-)
    just4adream just4adream 19-21, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2007

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    Stress

    Honestly! I've been so incredibly stressed out lately, it isn't funny. I have final tests for school, I'm working on getting my first job, and I've been having troubles at home. I could really go for something to help me relax a bit... the problem is, I don't have anyone who...
    shadowxmagic shadowxmagic 16-17, F May 24, 2008

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    Back Rub

    My muscles are a little tense...I would love or need a back rub, it may make me feel better.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2011

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    Been So Busy Lately ...

    I did not realize how stressful my life is at this moment in time. I woke up this morning with every muscle in my body hurting... I think I will book myself in for a nice massage somewhere next week
    kinkitty kinkitty 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 27, 2008

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    70's Kind of Love

    I need the entire works, all you have to offer.  I am tense, stressed and silently sexually built up.  I am quite attractive and in a monogomous relationship.  I just don't get the attention I deserve right now.  My man is quite unexperenced and very brut...
    ichooselife ichooselife 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 1, 2009

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    In Dire Need

    My shoulders, neck and back are all in knots and I'm in pain often these days. I need a bit of human contact and tlc to go with it. I've been stretching my back, shoulders and neck in hopes to alleviate the physical pain. However, nothing compares to the hands of someone that...
    lotusdrop lotusdrop 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 29, 2010

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    Yeah Baby!!!!

    I love to recive and give back rubs.  I could really use one right now... Anybody else need one???
    LateNightGuy LateNightGuy 41-45, M 5 Responses Jul 16, 2008

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    Wanting Comfort...

    I would love a backrub but not in a sexual way. Just someone who will be tender and caring with me, giving me lots of attention and taking all the tension away. Is that a wrong thing to want?
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2011

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    Yes! I Do.

    Sadly I admit most of my days are spent in a seat typing paper after paper, when I get home I would love nothing more than a good back rub, the physical stimulation and sensation. yes indeedy!
    Tangentmemories Tangentmemories 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 29, 2009

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    God, I need a back rub

    so bad tonight! My back's just feeling so tense and achy, especially between my shoulder blades. Wish I had someone to rub my back or even walk on it (if they're not too heavy!)
    wannabelikethecoolkids wannabelikethecoolkids 16-17, M 2 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    Especially After a Hard Day!

    Two times I really need a back rub: - After a stressful day at work. - After a long run. (I define long run as 8+ miles)  Of course I think I would take one every day if I could get it!!
    Longrun Longrun 46-50, M 37 Responses Apr 14, 2008

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    I Need a God Damn Back Rub!

    YOU KNOW WHEN YOU REALLY WANT A BACK RUB AND YOU DON'T GET IT? WELL I ******* HATE THAT. THERE ARE JUST SOME TIMES WHEN YOUR ***** JUST NEEDS TO KNOW... SHE SHOULD HAVE LIKE A SPIDEY SENSE THAT SAYS "OH **** HE ******* NEEDS A BACK RUB CAUSE HE BRINGS HOME THE BACON!"...
    ineedabackrubbitch ineedabackrubbitch 70+ 1 Response Sep 5, 2009

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    It's Been a Long Day!

    I've been up since 5am and had hardly any sleep over the weekend so a back rub would be great right now! Unfortunately my husband is away at the minute which leaves just me and the cats - I doubt very much they would be willing to lend a helping paw!! Maybe I should just have a...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F Jul 14, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I want to hook up with a big blueberry that I can rub and feed or you could just feed me. (;
    cupcakepuffinGIRL cupcakepuffinGIRL 18-21, F 4 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    My girlfriend and I been dating for about six months now,it was a rocky start I think we jumped into the relationship a little fast because I was talking to another girl for about...
    jam34983 jam34983 31-35, M 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    phobia does not even begin to describe it. i had been dreading this day for a long time now. all the calendar said was kids dr appt. my stepbrother had been teasing me saying i was...
    xoxokitty930 xoxokitty930 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    People can barely manage their own lives, why would they waste their time for something like me? I'm tired of everyone lying and saying "it's just a few people, we're not all like...
    Seldomone Seldomone 18-21, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I spend most of my days here on EP. don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with being on here, its just, I have a life outside of here. I need to spend more time with my family...
    ThatOneBlackGurrl ThatOneBlackGurrl 13-15, F 8 hrs ago

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    My mom has lot issues and need help but can't help her .My mom end up cheating on my dad with my ex when I was younger .My dad still don't know .I told her he was abusive and she...
    kellner27 kellner27 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I have a LOT to reveal about my relationship with my long distance boyfriend. I need ADVICE!!! So if you can, please read this. Thank you for your time. My boyfriend gave me the...
    kamilleredd kamilleredd 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 16

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    I've always had a bad back myself and it's rather annoying being young and having this.. Well bad back hah. I can't really lift on to heavy of things anymore, I can't bend real...
    XxLittleBrotherxX XxLittleBrotherxX 18-21, M 21 hrs ago

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    The kind of person I am, would be classified as too nice. So many people have stabbed me in the back that, not only is it extremely hard for me to trust anyone now, I've turned and...
    musikid48 musikid48 22-25, M 16 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend(22) & I (18) have been together for almost a year but known each other longer. We started off perfect with a strong emotional connection. He claimed he never been in...
    CandiceRx3 CandiceRx3 18-21, F 17 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    So there's this girl i used to talk to we were super close but I started liking her then I asked her to be my valentine she said no but when someone else asked her she said yes she...
    nichole122 nichole122 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I'll back right up, rubbing, arching, leaning into you stroking the flames that smoulder. I'll be back again, and again, and again.. till the breathing hastens, the need is flat...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 5

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    I've been studying for my PhD in a different country (from my birth country, the UK) for a year now. It's been alright. I don't speak the language, but I'm in an academic...
    Windy12345 Windy12345 22-25, F Jan 6

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    Im here if anybody needs me I don't care who you are what you did or even if your race size or color plz if you need to talk to some one and need a shoulder il be here
    marcell1379 marcell1379 18-21, M 2 hrs ago

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    This is a story on finding love ... One of the things I've been chasing my whole life ... Maybe through the business of my life on things that don't really matter concerning my...
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333 22-25, F 8 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I can't wait until I'm big enough that people rub my belly. I want people I know and strangers to just touch my belly, rubbing it a little...marveling at it's size.
    beautifulbellyfull beautifulbellyfull 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    We were so close back then. Right now, we can't even look at each other straight into each other's eyes.
    SweeterThanToblerone SweeterThanToblerone 13-15, F 18 hrs ago

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    The last 5 years of my life I feel as though I have been living in the background. It's taking me awhile to realise this. I make friendships but they always seem to end, my...
    Crystalclear91 Crystalclear91 22-25, F 15 hrs ago

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    it's so funny how people say there not your friend or they say they don't like u but for some reason my name is always in their mouth I'd u say u don't like me then why are u...
    Ruthineworji Ruthineworji 16-17, F 8 hrs ago

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    I guess I watch too much Sci-fi cause every time I think I want to go back and change stuff I think about all the things I wouldn't want to change that would change if i started...
    JackisMe JackisMe 41-45, M 1 hr ago

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    I wish I could go back in time and start everything over, make different choices. I would've finished school and not ****** off so many years. I would've done more crazy stuff that...
    deadgirlsfairytale deadgirlsfairytale 26-30, F 4 Responses 57 mins ago

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    Have a headache and feeling so stressed and bummed out.....I wish I could have someone hold me in their arms right now rubbing my hair as I fall sleep. Music helps too but I just...
    ArtisticLife ArtisticLife 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    So, i mean yes i am in love. I don't want to be in love, i really wish i could stop wanting to be around him. He is shy, and kinda weird and awkward, but i men so am i. I go to a...
    isabellajamison isabellajamison 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    I love pregnant women. I think they're sexier than non-pregnant women. I would be happy to rub your belly for you. I always assumed that it irritated pregnant women.
    analsexn69lvr3 analsexn69lvr3 46-50, M Dec 27, 2014

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    Okay so yesterday I went on a date. Well we started fooling around and one thing led to another. He rubbed his d*ck against me, but he didn't go inside. I started freaking out...
    Iamverysad Iamverysad 16-17, F Dec 27, 2014

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    Okay so yesterday I went on a date. Well we started fooling around and one thing led to another. He rubbed his d*ck against me, but he didn't go inside. I started freaking out...
    Iamverysad Iamverysad 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    Okay so yesterday I went on a date. Well we started fooling around and one thing led to another. He rubbed his d*ck against me, but he didn't go inside. I started freaking out...
    Iamverysad Iamverysad 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I feel so rubbish and I always seem to feel like this
    buttonsandbowsx buttonsandbowsx 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 3