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I Need a Friend to Talk to Openly

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 24,267 People

    Being in college you would think

    that it's the perfect opportunity to find friends and feel accepted. I've been through a lot in my life and feel like I have a hard time trusting people and letting them in. It gets extremely frustrating because when I do, no one understands. Everyone here drinks all the time...
    Blueskydreams Blueskydreams 18-21, F 11 Responses Jan 8

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    I'm 55 and need a friend.

    I've ditched Facebook since my life is not perfect like all of my friends there. I posted that I would like to talk to someone the old fashioned way such as face to face or via phone. Not one person responded. Am I that bad of a person? Wow. Another friend lost her home Haven't...
    Molly2350 Molly2350 51-55, F 7 Responses Oct 2

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    I get along with men better

    than women. Problem is my husband doesn't like it and the men's wives don't like it. I need a safe place to be me.
    kittyluv78 kittyluv78 36-40, F 42 Responses Jan 24

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    I Crave Interaction

    I like reading stories, and I like looking at other people's profiles and pictures and everything that EP is all about. But when I enjoy it the most is when I interact with other people who share my interests. I am the most approachable person on earth. : ) I will talk openly...
    ngdi ngdi 36-40, M 20 Responses May 3, 2012

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    i have a crush on a girl too beautiful

    and intelligent to be real and it has been going it has been going on for 3 years now. The problem is that she doesn't talk to me any more because i started avoiding her and changing routes every time i see her. I literally have nothing to say when i am around her, i break down...
    newguy27 newguy27 22-25, M 6 Responses Sep 21

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    Looking for people to talk.

    Someone who just wants to have a good laugh or someone to talk to when things are getting overwhelming in their day to day life. A genuine friend.
    v1ol3ntjokz v1ol3ntjokz 22-25, M Oct 8

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    Friendless

    I used to have a lot of friends. My overbearing controlling husband has scared most of them off. I am lonely a lot so I join these web sites for friends. People I can talk to about anything and everything that is on my mind.
    Becky96 Becky96 31-35, F 64 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    Anyone want to be in my circle ?

    New friends recruiting now. X
    synergist synergist 22-25, F 14 Responses Sep 29

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    How to begin... I've never been really good at

    making friends. It's just hard to make contact, say the right words and even after that, to shift the whole thing into something where I can be open about... stuff. I'm missing that one close friend that I can talk to about everything, not just the things we like, but the things...
    Chips007 Chips007 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 11

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    I think it would be wonderful to have a friend

    to just talk to openly and not have to worry about what I am saying. To be able to share in the good the bad, to be able to tell my struggles, fears, weaknesses, joys, triumphs with- with someone who actually cares, and I will not have to worry about offending or burdening them...
    northernlightsalaska333 northernlightsalaska333 22-25, F 8 Responses Feb 9

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    Always here for anyone

    who needs to talk! <3
    ModifiedMamaofTwo ModifiedMamaofTwo 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 13

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    Need a friend to talk to ,

    someone who will listen and give reliable advices . Feel free to pm me . Lets be friends!! :)
    eeejhei eeejhei 22-25, M 4 Responses Sep 23

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    I honestly dont have one friend

    that i can trust or tell anything to i have too friends but they are very twofaced towards me i would love to have atleast one true friend
    kikibabyshucks kikibabyshucks 18-21, F 13 Responses Feb 9

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    I don't know how to be myself.

    I always need someone or something to do to distract me from being in my own mind. I can never just sit and think I need to be distracted. I don't know how I can fix this.
    psych22 psych22 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    I need to change my life.

    Change is very hard. I'm a happy, healthy lady and I live in a relationship that gives me nothing. I need to start out in a fresh new life....how does one start all over again at my age?
    Bonnie1958 Bonnie1958 51-55, F 34 Responses May 18

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    I have lost all my closest friends.

    even the ones I wasn't close with. I sit in this caffateria at the college and I realize we used to all hang out here and study together and laugh. Now I sit alone in the corner studying by myself and it makes me want to cry. Maybe they didn't change maybe I did... I want friends...
    littlemermaid0728 littlemermaid0728 18-21, F 21 Responses Feb 26

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    I Need A Person

    I need someone I can laugh with. Someone I can share with. I don't want to be judged and I don't judge anyone else. But everybody needs at least somebody they can laugh, cry, vent, and be silly with. They can be who they are and feel comfortable about being open. I want that and...
    DMP1974 DMP1974 36-40, F 14 Responses Jul 7, 2013

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    I'm mad as hell I'm crying all the time on the

    low, I just feel extremely out of it. I hate feeling this way
    dontcareChick dontcareChick 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    Anyone my around my age 17-21,

    want to talk? I'm a bisexual teenage girl who just wants a friend to text and have there for me..
    DessMarie DessMarie 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I need to talk about my issues

    and insecurities, I need support because my friends and family don't seem to understand. I just want to make connections, I want to get out there and really LIVE, but it's so hard because I'm really shy.
    Bbbbbbbbbbbbh Bbbbbbbbbbbbh 22-25, F 9 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    Hi everyone i'll shorten my story

    as much as i can ... So me and that guy were in love but we didn't date he told me that he's not ready for a serious relationship and he can't risk my heart and that love and he's so afraid that he could hurt me and break my heart 'but eventually he did' we decided to be friends...
    Myf95 Myf95 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 13

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    I'm willing to be an online friend to anyone

    who needs one, just a friendly guy, quite new to all of this ep stuff and looking for some people to fill a lonely void in my social life lol :-) Off topic and at risk of shameless self promotion, I also have a mental health forum here www.mindnet.co.uk which has lots of really...
    RealJax0009 RealJax0009 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 29

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    Someone To Talk To...

    I find myself so wrapped up with trying to figure out who I am and what I want out of life. That I push people out of my life by not reaching out to them. When they reach out to me I am more than happy and willing to respond and interact. Its just that I don't reach out to them...
    SadisticPsychoBitch SadisticPsychoBitch 31-35, F 32 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    I've never really been able to talk openly to

    any of my friends. They're close-minded, and are uninterested in talking about anything other then homework and gossip. I want to talk about the world. I want to talk about growing up. I want to talk about gender and sexuality and all the things my parents frown upon. I don't...
    Pandemonem Pandemonem 13-15, T 2 Responses Sep 1

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    Im new to ep and i wish have many friends to

    chat and share my feeling i only less friend and i have one best friend in italy but i wish to many friend!!!!!! Message without any hesitation
    srikanth9622 srikanth9622 18-21, M Sep 28

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    It's kind of hard to find a friend

    that you can talk about anything to them and they'll understand you. Well for me I don't have a best friend and I never really had one. I wish I had a friend that I can talk to them openly about anything. That would be very nice.
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 14 Responses Jan 10

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    I need a male friend to talk openly about

    everything, who will cheer me up, who will never give me up.
    ScarlettMelanie84 ScarlettMelanie84 31-35, F 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    Anyone needs to rent scream holler

    or just cry feel free to message me.
    Sims11 Sims11 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 9

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    I feel hopeless, after a 16 year marriage my

    husband said he was done...I have fibromyalgia and he was tired of taking care if me I guess. He didnt just break my heart he broke my boys heart. Now he's spilling his guts in the meanest way and I have never felt so rejected! It's a horrible feeling:( i just need someone to...
    dorritym dorritym 31-35, F 18 Responses Jan 7

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    katdaughtry katdaughtry 70+, F 6 Responses Sep 28

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    There's not much to say really

    but I'm a loner, I have no one to talk to as last year my best friend of 10 years stabbed me in the back again. Friends we shared together all slowly drift to her and I never get much of a peep from them, its hard to trust because of it but I am really looking for someone to be...
    PumpkinWitch PumpkinWitch 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 8

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    I used to have a best friend

    when I was younger I could do that with. Then we lost our connection due to him dating a girl I dated. She drove a wedge between us. Now, I really do not have a best friend or any close friends. I miss that greatly.
    Evolutus Evolutus 41-45, M 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I Need A True Friend!

    I need someone who I can talk to openly. It's not that I don't have friends I do I just don't have anyone that I can really talk too and I'm pushing every one away as I find it hard to trust anyone at all! The people around me are just selfish, I'm a kind caring generous person...
    Gilse59 Gilse59 18-21, F 55 Responses Jan 13, 2013

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    Anyone wanna chat :>?

    I need friends bc i have a hard time making friends in real life
    notlexis notlexis 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 5

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    I'm not really that friendly.

    I don't have friends in school when I was young and I don't speak much. I'm always shy for no reason. It's getting boring, and now I think I want someone to talk to. :/
    DreamerX01 DreamerX01 22-25, F 14 Responses Jul 23

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    Anything Goes!

    After one gets over oneself... Dismiss the huge amount of red tape! Be it religion, society or politics...is the truth! Somewhere! I am a Seeker of the Light & the Truth...finding other people that will speak frankly & honestly IS a blessing! There are so many kiss ***** or liars...
    Shewolfiie69 Shewolfiie69 36-40, F 41 Responses Apr 30, 2013

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    Really?

    I'm the one who also gives advice and comforts my friends with their problems but when it comes to me no one wants to be there. #уσυ αℓℓ αяє ƒαкє
    cupcake365 cupcake365 16-17, F 12 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    I will be on my own for my birthday with my 2

    dogs. Am struggling to come to terms with where I have sunk to. On a brighter note at least no one can ruin it for me.
    tuppence7 tuppence7 51-55, F 13 Responses Apr 22

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    What can I say? I'm 18,

    in college, and morbidly depressed. My girlfriend recently left me, and she was everything to me, and I feel so alone now. A little about me, like I said, I'm a depressed college student. I am a music enthusiast, and I play the drums in a blues/psychedelic rock band. I enjoy...
    FrootLoopsRok FrootLoopsRok 18-21, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I Need New Friends

    I have been going through a dark time in my life but whenever I try to have a real conversation with my friends they start talking about themselves. They won't even respond to what I say they act like they don't hear me or something. The thing is I always listen and hear what...
    Kinn23 Kinn23 18-21, F 23 Responses Jul 2, 2013

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    Inbox or add to circle?

    I need more people to speak to :-) I'm also a good listener if anyone wants to trouble me with their worries.
    purities purities 16-17, F 7 Responses Oct 13

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    I'm that ugly awkward girl nobody wants to be

    seen with or bothers associating with. Yes, I'm a very kind human being, but I know that's not enough. Being ugly and shy has caused me to miss out on a lot of normal experiences growing up, for that reason my maturity might seem stunned. I haven't really dated... Gone partying...
    IHateMirrors IHateMirrors 22-25, F 13 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    I need some friend around my age I like

    drawing, adventure movies, volletball and books...
    rosedemon rosedemon 18-21, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I need some advice, bare with.

    .. Message me if you get a chance.
    Elexiaseng24 Elexiaseng24 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    CoSl CoSl 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 14

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    I Really Don'T Have Anyone I Could Call A True Fiend!

    I had just found out my husband of 30 years was sharing pictures of me with another male coworker. He took the pictures of me behind my back and then sent them to his coworker while on vacation. I just recently discovered this while I was on Facebook, I somehow came across the...
    heart18 heart18 51-55, F 35 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    A solid friend who I can turn to

    for anything would be awesome
    teeegreen teeegreen 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 8

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    Giving And Never Receiving

    I have come to realize that friends are far and few. I, by nature, am a giver. I believe in the happiness of others and I think nothing is wrong with that....except when the others don't aren't willing to do the same for you. I use to take long journeys to visit friends no matter...
    MimiMS29 MimiMS29 26-30, F 35 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    The Lonely Man

    As I walk the street I feel like people ignore me. Never say a word not even a whisper. I sit down and stare like no even know I'm there. I say to myself I guess there always going to be me. Because no one around can the lonely man in their big world
    Lhawk123 Lhawk123 18-21, M 12 Responses Nov 22, 2012

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    A few things in my head are making sense one

    minute then the other they don't regarding my fears/anxieties and phobias.
    PoeticMute PoeticMute 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 21

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    Just wanting someone to talk to,

    honest conversations (I don't know you, you don't know you; why lie)
    1forever 1forever 26-30, F 11 Responses May 29

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    it's the number 1 thing

    that i need in mylife
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 15

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    Be The Person You Want To Find

           Looking for that special someone? Wishing you could change the person you’re with? You may need to start by taking a good long look in the mirror.         Many books on relationships will tell you how to find and keep the right person, how to develop your...
    Bedcrawler Bedcrawler 26-30, M 3 Responses May 21, 2013

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