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I Need a Hug

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    I love to get a hug I need a really good one

    right now. I want to feel safe and secure .
    likemeforwhoiam likemeforwhoiam 41-45, F 6 Responses Mar 2

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    I have a large perimeter.

    And it feels lonely. And I am alone. I want a hug. 😡
    iamnoor iamnoor 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I won't receive a hug from my boyfriend

    until this upcoming week, but I need a hug now. I'm depressed and all I can think about is leaving.
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Hold Me

    Without that lump choking me. It's an invisible lump or gash gnawing at my soul. Tearing up my insides and letting no love wash over me. I want sobriety to stay so bad. Yet I crave that substance so ******* bad it hurts. It just hurts so bad. It's that simple. Hold me.
    glasslipstick1 glasslipstick1 22-25, F 12 Responses Sep 30, 2013

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    Aniceguyforyou Aniceguyforyou 18-21, M Jul 10

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    nikosdbz nikosdbz 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 30

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    stallionhs stallionhs 18-21, M 6 Responses Jul 14

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    Okay here I go, I am 12 years old,

    and I am turning 13 in August. My parents love me to the moon and back, and they show it by getting me things and saying "I love you." And I love them too, but at this point, I long for a hug and kiss from them ever since I was 7. I used to savor the moment once a year they...
    saboosa1 saboosa1 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    If I am in a bad mood.

    I will still want a hug.
    Lovely1Bones Lovely1Bones 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 1

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    I love getting hugs,

    whether someone is behind me and grabs me around my waist and squeezes me or a bear hug :)
    SexyBellyButton80 SexyBellyButton80 31-35, F 16 Responses May 21

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    i was away today to belfast

    and my friend looked at my fone at half 2 and said ur bf txted u bye bye :) wer over and i was sitten in a hospital bed i started crying infront of everyone i couldnt believe it my friend showed me and i jst tried to get away but they made me stay i cant deal wif it i rly loved...
    siofrafay siofrafay 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I woke up this morning to the sun streaming

    through the windows, and I feel more hopeful - but I still just miss having someone to hug, sometimes, that is all I need and want, a hug and a cuddle to start the day...x
    00flyaway 00flyaway 41-45, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am... I don't know.

    I just need a hug. :(
    Attilane Attilane 13-15, F 14 Responses Jun 14

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    A couple of weeks ago,

    I asked a coworker for a hug. He responded with a no. Last night he was in a bad way I sat up with him just talkingcand keeping him company. We had a bit of a fight. I didn't want him to drive drunk. And he wouldn't let me take him home. I started crying I didn't know what to do...
    derf45 derf45 36-40, F 7 Responses May 13

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    carrie01 carrie01 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 28

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    Feels like everyone in my close circle has

    taken it upon themselves to break me apart tonight.... Well, congratulations, it worked.. I'm here, alone and broken, with no idea who to turn to or what to say to those who are still by my side. I feel utterly lost ... I hate living this way.
    charlie0243 charlie0243 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    The best feeling is being close to another

    person... Feeling the warmth of another persons body 😍
    lovechristina lovechristina 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 19

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    Not just any hug. I desire a passionate hug

    where you smell one another's perfume and cologne, feel each other's heartbeat, their warm breath against your cool skin, hear their breathing quicken, feel how their body reacts to your touch and closeness. Not a word needs to be spoken as you sense how the other feels. I give...
    kittyluv78 kittyluv78 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 12

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    I'm feeling really really really down lost

    every thing in my life just need some one to hold me more than any thing right now
    darrenjones81 darrenjones81 31-35, M 5 days ago

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    Can someone just hold me

    and tell me everything will be ok in the end. Cause honestly nothing seems ok in my head
    broadwaybabe99 broadwaybabe99 13-15, F 6 Responses Mar 25

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    Newton90 Newton90 22-25, M 8 Responses Jun 18

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    My parents don't believe in touching me.

    Only if they spank me. I would like to be hugged by someone. I read a few weeks ago someone wrote - one day someone will hug you so hard it will mend all the broken pieces. That's how i want to be hugged.
    marcusru marcusru 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    maurice35 maurice35 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    joy98 joy98 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    lovechristina lovechristina 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 20

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    Pretty Dam Sad

    So today I went to dinner by myself.  While I was sitting at the bar in and waiting for my food to arrive I noticed a man kept looking at me.  He was with a woman and they were talking and every time I looked up he would be looking at me.  Now I have been pretty down a lot...
    lonelyheartofmine lonelyheartofmine 36-40, F 23 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    sillypantsface sillypantsface 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 13

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    If there was any day

    where I needed to a hug today would be the day.
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F 14 Responses Jun 15

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    I need more than a hug I need a female friend

    to hold me. To tell me its ok to cry to let it out. To comfort me while i cry. To tell me its not my fault.
    BDSMFan1 BDSMFan1 22-25, M 1 min ago

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    I Am Desperate For A Hug

    I welcomed the new year with hopes of dreams coming true. It crashed just 2 days from then. I got my CAT results. A damn poor score. I wont make it to any of the top 30 colleges i applied for. Worst, those are the only colleges i applied for. I might have to put my dreams to do...
    unchainedmelody unchainedmelody 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 3, 2007

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    I have never been hugged in my life.

    Ever. I don't know what it feels like or what to do.
    100PercentMe 100PercentMe 13-15, F 6 Responses Jul 10

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    Right now I could really use a hug.

    Just some comfort and care so I feel ok.
    abi87 abi87 26-30, F 26 Responses Jun 1

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    I just need someone to look into my eyes.

    Really look into them, and see the pain that I have been suffering. I want someone to wrap their arms around me, and hold me close, stroke my hair back and tell me that things aren't the best but they will be soon. I will cry on them as they rock me back and forth and won't even...
    distanceandspace distanceandspace 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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    01sparkly 01sparkly 13-15, F 9 Responses Apr 9

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    A long hug....preferably one

    that turns into a long cuddle that doesn't end until the next morning.
    Rebecca12K Rebecca12K 16-17, F Mar 30

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    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 14 Responses Jul 7

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    I need a hug super bad.

    I just wanna be held a few hours. I'm not the kind of person who does that kind of thing but man could I go for one now. I don't cry but I just wanna let the tears go today.
    BrohovahsWitness BrohovahsWitness 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 16

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    nikkismith15 nikkismith15 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    hornewrecked hornewrecked 16-17, F 23 Responses Jun 30

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    But won't be getting one.

    .but then again I might just give one to someone who needs it much more than me... Warmth is what to give and feeling of safety. For that moment a genuine hug is exchanged ..you know you've connected and you know you have given power from the soul to another
    topboy1968 topboy1968 41-45 4 Responses Jun 28

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    I've been pretty lonely

    for awhile. I just need a good hug, at this point.
    tsundroid tsundroid 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I do need one...caring,

    sincere and true... keeping me held tight, calming me down, making me smile once more...why does the sun set so fast upon me ?...Good things are either not true or last too little...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 26-30, F 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't always ask for

    for help but when I do I ask a stranger for a hug, hug a stranger a day you may just save a life I just really like hugs that's why I want one at the moment im gonna go think about random things some more
    poeticnightmare poeticnightmare 18-21, M Jun 26

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    I really just need someone to hug me

    and tell me everything is going to be ok.
    Taylorgangbby Taylorgangbby 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    How often could you cuddle with your

    significant other? err day? once a week? once a month? every chance you get? whassup
    danondorf danondorf 16-17, M Jul 4

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    I'm married I have children I have friends I

    have family I have a house I have a car I have stuff-a-plenty But what I want What I need Has been avoiding me The tender warm loving Embrace is not here It has been gone for months Without it I don't feel loved In the way I feel love And all I do feel is alone.
    Teab Teab 41-45, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    PEOPLE!! *puts two hands up

    and holds a gun pointing at y'all* I need a HUG! Gimme some or you'll dieee! O_O (he he he)
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 32 Responses Jul 15

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    Dear Lord, Family and i are going through hard

    times. We are so scared. Its so dark tonight. Are expecting the worse. The weather is horrible, so humid. I saw my sisters hugging their children, their husbands hugging them, mom hugging her sister, but Lord...who is hugging me? Who makes me feel safe and protected? Who...
    Donotletmego Donotletmego 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 14

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    Brooklyn211 Brooklyn211 18-21, F 18 Responses Jul 10

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    I feel like I cnt go on every thing in my life

    so far has gone so wrong every thing I touch turns to dust my life is the worst it's ever been my depression is so deep I think of killing my self every day I self harm every day just to take it out on me because I feel like in nothing to any one or any thing as soon as I got...
    darrenjones81 darrenjones81 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 9

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    I always need a hug. It doesn't matter

    if I have just had one or how good or bad a day I am having, another hug will make things better.
    xxxtop xxxtop 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 4

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