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I Need a Mother

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 172 People

    Could My Mother Ever Love Me? Could She Be Out There?

    I'm a 17 yr old girl. I live in raytown, Missouri. My mother has always been stand offish. She has never really showed affection and now that im older i feel like there is a hole inside of me. every night I long for a kiss and a snuggle that will make me feel warm and safe, a...
    pinkballoons pinkballoons 18-21 5 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    I Need A Mother

    I am a single accomplished female in my mid 30's. I was raised by a single emotionally abusive mother. I am her only child and I have no other family. I am looking for a mother figure. Someone I can communicate with through email. I am in desperate need of someone that could be...
    theforgotten1one theforgotten1one 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2013

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    Ineedamom

    I lost my beautiful Mom two years ago. I'm so happy to have had her for 70 years. One night I felt such a need to talk to her so bad that I got on google to search for a mom... but found nothing. I felt other peoples pain and need to talk to a mom or just share a dream or a...
    Doraloves Doraloves 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2012

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    Want A Family

    My story is so extremely long but I will enter a short short version and go from there. I had a ver abusive childhood (my mother), my dad who wasnt .y bilogical father but raised me from the age of 6 weeks was a great man. My mom was good at heart but had problems I believe. My...
    girlfubar girlfubar 31-35, F Sep 4, 2012

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    My Story In Needing A Mother

    I had a very rough childhood, I am not really sure how I made it out alive. My mother beat me from as early as I can remember, beating me with a belt and spanking me for no reason. My earliest memory of her was when she took me to my room after my parents had an argument and told...
    antaylor12 antaylor12 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29, 2013

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    this is something I had to go through in my

    life.. I have a family , mother and siblings but no father , he died many years ago.. my relationship with them is really bad , I hate my mother and she hates me too.. I'm not sure if she is a mother ! that word is more big than what it seems like! a mother should be a role...
    shorok shorok 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 16

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    Anyone Want Me As Their Child?

    I think my other mom is quitting on me. If you were to be my mom I would be a five year old little girl with long blonde hair. Anyone care to take me? And men are not allowed to take me.
    MissingIdentidy MissingIdentidy 26-30, F 3 Responses May 17, 2013

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    Need A Mom Who Cares

    I have spent my life taking care of others and focusing on their wants and needs. At 22, I have realized that something big I need has been missing my whole life. I know my biological mom, but she has never been around, for a variety of reasons. For a time, I also had a...
    BabyKay503 BabyKay503 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2013

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    My mother and I have never gotten a long,

    my parents are divorced and I've never really had a loving family..that's all I wanted as a child.
    laurenkouhi laurenkouhi 13-15, F Aug 19, 2014

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    I feel a bit guilty posting this,

    because my mother is still living, and many people who share this experience have lost their mothers. My mother and I have never been close at all. When I was a baby, she rarely held me, and avoided me most of the time. I'm not sure why. She has done this my entire life. She got...
    ThatOneGirlWithTheBlueEyes ThatOneGirlWithTheBlueEyes 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2014

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    If anyone on here really wants

    or needs a mother or motherly advice I am here for you.
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 5 Responses Feb 19, 2014

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    I am a 24 year old woman

    who has had a rough childhood and now i'm looking for someone who is willing to take on the role as my mom. I prefer 45+
    Catacryn Catacryn 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    I Wish My Mother Loved Me

    My mother must have hated me because not even animals treat their little ones in this manner. I was abused emotionally, sexually and psychologically. She never acknowledged anything good I did only the bad. But my sister was her real daughter to her cause she had the father with...
    Lostatfour Lostatfour 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    Never Had A Mum

    I am new to this sit but here is my story I lived with my dad and two brothers it was not a good /happy home because of my dad my mum moved away when I was very young I had to be a mum to my two brothers and now all I want is a mum to support me through the tough time that I am...
    stephmckenzie stephmckenzie 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2013

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    At Hugssociety we are

    now forming 2 new extended family groups and pairing (mother figure to younger man or woman) We are looking for woman over 40 to join in. Also if you are looking for mother or grandmother connections to be one in one, we have a few people interested. We have a 36, married...
    Hugsdirector Hugsdirector 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 10, 2014

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    I Feel Horrible About Everything And I Don'T Know What To Do...

    Here's the thing. I have a mom. But whenever I see her, I get all panicky and miserable. I don't know why but I always feel like I'm being degraded. And I don't feel this way with everyone. It's just her. This has been going on for years. I couldn't explain how I felt, I said...
    Gryffyn Gryffyn 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2013

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    Is there really any ''Real Mother(jender is

    female)here????? I don't need sugar daddy. All i want now is normal female-Mom. ※This guy said ''i am a 40's woman'' since i point out 'cos ''Mom''said strange things,this person blocked me just one seconds.
    juryandrews juryandrews 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    Motherly Love

    A dear friend wrote to me about needing motherly love even though she is in her late thirties and this struck a chord with me. I lost my mother to cancer ten years ago and miss her so much however I feel that motherly love is any love that nurtures and is supportive. I also...
    dartist dartist 56-60, F 2 Responses May 9, 2010

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    Hi.i lost my mother wen I was 12.

    need a mothers love n affection.
    shannukatariya shannukatariya 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2014

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    Where do I begin?...

    when i was born my birth mother didnt even have the love to even name me. My g- mom named me after a tv show. That breaks my heart knowing that my name doesnt even have meaning. She gave me to my grandmother at just 2 months.My grandma just wants money. Im only 22 and im alone...
    nessa0609 nessa0609 22-25, F Feb 10, 2014

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    I have an egg carrier.

    . But I never considered her as a mom. My parents are divorced and shes never done anything for me to feel the bound. Now im 17, and more and more situations accrue to where I feel I need a motherly figure..
    Pharrah1 Pharrah1 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 3, 2014

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    Missing A Mother

    I thought I had a good relationship with my mother but that was until I spoke with her about her erratic behaviour. She is always negative about life, other people, her children and grandchildren. She holds grudges for what seems a lifetime. As I live in the Uk and mom is in SA I...
    jos5447 jos5447 46-50, F Oct 11, 2013

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    Always Wanted A Loving Mom

    I'm 22 and one of the things I want most in life is a mom who loves me. No, I'm not into that baby role play thing. I just want a mother figure. My parents are alcoholics and have a history of child abuse. I want a mom to love me, to care, to give advice, to listen when I'm upset...
    Dani2756 Dani2756 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    Childless Home

    If you want a cyber/email/phone Mom I am here for you. I will give you my time and knowledge. For long conversations and to get to know each other. Maybe become extended family. We are are childless home due to medical issues and adoption is out right now due to demands of...
    FrozenSol FrozenSol 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2013

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    If anyone needs an online mother,

    I'd be happy to help! I am better with girls and obviously know more about them.
    KarenFamily KarenFamily 46-50, F 8 Responses May 4, 2014

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    Making Our Own Family Connections

    I grew up thinking that I wasn't good enough or worthy of a good family or true friends. I was alone, lonely, and self hatred had gotten to me. I need to be nurtured, cared for and listen too. I just never wanted to be accepting of that when I was young and in to my later teen...
    Hugsdirector Hugsdirector 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2013

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    Deepest Need

    And for some reason I've never discussed this in depth with my shrink!  I've had an ugly past, childhood mostly, as I'm sure a good majority of folks have.  I certainly know that there are others that had it much worse than me.  Hell, read Sybil.  Anyway, the...
    hddragon hddragon 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 22, 2008

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    Needing A Daughter

    I am in need of a daughter. My own daughter who was spoiled and loved very much by not only her myself and her father but also by her grandmother, cousins, aunts and uncles. One day she decided to stop talking to me without ever telling me why. It has been over a year now...
    SomeOneToNeedMe SomeOneToNeedMe 51-55, F 15 Responses Nov 12, 2012

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    My Parents Hate Me

    I have stayed on my own since birth and it seem my parents never cared about me.i recently moved in with my parents and everything is worse. they find fault with everything I do.my friends are in school but am home working all day.my mum insults and hurt my feeling everyday.i...
    tracy3000 tracy3000 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2013

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    Want To Be Normal

    Today, in my English class, we talked about archetypes. I had to stop taking notes when we got to the... mother... archetype, because its difficult for me to even read or write the word. My teacher told our class the this particular archetype is vital for life, as when it is...
    Hrmg Hrmg 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 20, 2012

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    I want a daughter. (USA)There is an emptiness

    in my heart only a daughter can fill. I am looking for someone that would be a daughter to me and my husband , someone I could talk to and laugh with, someone to go for walks with and spend time together. I just want to know what it's like, and if you would like to have a...
    Kindmama Kindmama 46-50, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I was adopted by an emotionally unavailable

    mother, and no matter how hard I tried I never measured up even though I did quite well for myself, then came down with a heart issue and my mother pretty much vanished for 5 yrs, she even moved from the west coast to the east coast, gawd for bid I ask her to help me. She said...
    sweetlore sweetlore 51-55, F 2 Responses May 2, 2014

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    i dont know if people look at this

    but here goes nothing i lost my mum to cancer at 14 and i watched her suffer for a whole year my teachers at school treat me like crap even under my circumstances ive been depressed ever since i do drugs now im out getting wasted ive slept with girls all at the age of 16 my dad...
    nicolasmccloughen nicolasmccloughen 16-17, M 5 Responses Feb 21, 2014

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    i'm surprised i found this.

    i'm living all alone.i don't have any fun or happy childfood.i wish i could had a sweet mom who i can feel safe.
    juryandrews juryandrews 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 20, 2014

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    I Miss You :(

    Me and my mother had never really been close when I was a child, I was always daddy's little girl, It was only when i went into my teenage years, When i started caring about makeup, cloths and boys that me and my mum started to get close - Really close. We would say that she was...
    laurie37 laurie37 18-21, F 6 Responses May 7, 2012

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    juryandrews juryandrews 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    I miss my mom. She died

    when I was 14. I have always wanted a mother / daughter relationship. A mom to share my joy. A mom to spoil. A sweet grandma for my boys. Love ur mom cause when she is gone it is an emptiness that always keeps u down.
    Klynn74 Klynn74 41-45, F Jan 10, 2014

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    I don't have sweet mother.

    .so i always wonder i wish i had a sweet mother like treat me as a treasure.. i often want to chat with..not sometimes. and if i find you pretend to be a woman,i block you.that's really disgusting. i don't need advices or comment from man. i'm just looking forward to hearing from...
    juryandrews juryandrews 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    I Feel Lonely A Lot

    I feel almost guilty posting here because, well, my mother is still alive. The problem is, we've never been close at all; even when I was a baby. I was really a Daddy's girl. for most of my life, I was happy, and everything was fine. My little sister was very close with our...
    Sunshine1916 Sunshine1916 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    Not Entirely Sure What I'll Find In Posting This

    I'm relatively knew here on EP, and doing my best to reach out and open up to people, become more honest about my feelings and my past. I'm not close to either of my parents, and had a falling out with my birth mother a long time ago. It would be amazing to actually find a...
    BlueEyedGeekery BlueEyedGeekery 26-30, M 4 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    Yes, Mine To Be Exact

    Yes I really need a mother at the moment, no not a mother my mother. But I’ll just have to accept that she won’t be around to give me advice. If she could I wouldn’t be trying to raise my sisters. Keyword may be trying. I love my sisters dearly all three of them, but I...
    Melanie1987 Melanie1987 26-30, F 4 Responses May 27, 2012

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    Sometimes I just feel like there is this gaping

    hole that my mother cannot fill. I have four younger sisters, including a baby, and my mom just doesn't have time for me anymore. Her and my dad are having an "in-house separation," whatever that means. And every time she talks to me, she is mad at me about something, yelling...
    aislinn33 aislinn33 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 24, 2014

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    Right now could use someone

    for motherly advice or a hug. Reached a low point and feeling beaten. Trying to work up motivation again.
    jhampton9 jhampton9 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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