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I Need a Mother

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    Needing A Mother - I just found this site and am looking around to see if i can find a solution to my problem. I need a mother, i know it may sound hokey at my age but hey everyone...
    daltimag daltimag 26-30, M Sep 18, 2013

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    Memories That Reveal Even More - I've already told part of my story. And I had buried the rest of it. Lately I've been having anxiety and panic attacks. And what really sets...
    shannonsultan shannonsultan 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2013

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    I miss my mom. She died when I was 14. I have always wanted a mother / daughter relationship. A mom to share my joy. A mom to spoil. A sweet grandma for my boys. Love ur mom cause...
    Klynn74 Klynn74 36-40, F Jan 10

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    Ineedamom - I lost my beautiful Mom two years ago. I'm so happy to have had her for 70 years. One night I felt such a need to talk to her so bad that I got on google to search for...
    Doraloves Doraloves 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2012

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    Never Had A Mum - I am new to this sit but here is my story I lived with my dad and two brothers it was not a good /happy home because of my dad my mum moved away when I was very...
    stephmckenzie stephmckenzie 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2013

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    If anyone on here really wants or needs a mother or motherly advice I am here for you.
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    I Need A Mom Sometimes Just For Advice - Growing up I never had a good relationship with my mom. I was like the blacksheep. My mp was never there for me. Everything I did was wrong...
    AlleyMia AlleyMia 26-30 1 Response Jan 29, 2012

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    Hi.i lost my mother wen I was 12.need a mothers love n affection.
    shannukatariya shannukatariya 26-30, F Apr 3

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    Need A Mom Who Cares - I have spent my life taking care of others and focusing on their wants and needs. At 22, I have realized that something big I need has been missing my whole...
    BabyKay503 BabyKay503 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2013

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    Want A Family - My story is so extremely long but I will enter a short short version and go from there. I had a ver abusive childhood (my mother), my dad who wasnt .y bilogical...
    girlfubar girlfubar 31-35, F Sep 4, 2012

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    Needing A Daughter - I am in need of a daughter. My own daughter who was spoiled and loved very much by not only her myself and her father but also by her grandmother, cousins...
    SomoneToNeedMe SomoneToNeedMe 46-50 13 Responses Nov 12, 2012

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    I Feel Lonely A Lot - I feel almost guilty posting here because, well, my mother is still alive. The problem is, we've never been close at all; even when I was a baby. I was really...
    Sunshine1916 Sunshine1916 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 12, 2013

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    Where do I begin?... when i was born my birth mother didnt even have the love to even name me. My g- mom named me after a tv show. That breaks my heart knowing that my name doesnt...
    nessa0609 nessa0609 22-25, F Feb 10

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    Motherly Love - A dear friend wrote to me about needing motherly love even though she is in her late thirties and this struck a chord with me. I lost my mother to cancer ten...
    dartist dartist 56-60, F 2 Responses May 9, 2010

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    Listener Here - If you have stuff you want to talk about or vent about, feel free to contact me. I usually am the listener in my crowd and don't mind it. I tend to really want to...
    Sowyfeil Sowyfeil 31-35, F Jun 17, 2013

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    Deepest Need - And for some reason I've never discussed this in depth with my shrink!  I've had an ugly past, childhood mostly, as I'm sure a good majority of folks have. ...
    hddragon hddragon 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 22, 2008

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    My Parents Hate Me - I have stayed on my own since birth and it seem my parents never cared about me.i recently moved in with my parents and everything is worse. they find fault...
    tracy3000 tracy3000 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    I feel a bit guilty posting this, because my mother is still living, and many people who share this experience have lost their mothers. My mother and I have never been close at all...
    ThatOneGirlWithTheBlueEyes ThatOneGirlWithTheBlueEyes 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    I Feel Horrible About Everything And I Don'T Know What To Do... - Here's the thing. I have a mom. But whenever I see her, I get all panicky and miserable. I don't know why but I...
    Gryffyn Gryffyn 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2013

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    I Wish My Mother Loved Me - My mother must have hated me because not even animals treat their little ones in this manner. I was abused emotionally, sexually and psychologically...
    Lostatfour Lostatfour 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    My Dream - Yeah.... this is the most hard topic for me. She left me when I was 3....never came to see me again....or maybe she tried, but I did not had any relationship to her...
    Lilly78 Lilly78 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    Yes, Mine To Be Exact - Yes I really need a mother at the moment, no not a mother my mother. But I’ll just have to accept that she won’t be around to give me advice. If she...
    Melanie1987 Melanie1987 26-30, F 4 Responses May 27, 2012

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    Seeking Help - Due to psychological deprivation and/or abuse I have been forced to manage my life more or less on my own. I have not felt ready or able to cope/deal with life...
    seansplace seansplace 41-45, M Jan 14, 2013

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    I Need A Mother - I am a single accomplished female in my mid 30's. I was raised by a single emotionally abusive mother. I am her only child and I have no other family. I am...
    theforgotten1one theforgotten1one 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 18, 2013

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    i dont know if people look at this but here goes nothing i lost my mum to cancer at 14 and i watched her suffer for a whole year my teachers at school treat me like crap even...
    nicolasmccloughen nicolasmccloughen 16-17, M 6 Responses Feb 21

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    Not Entirely Sure What I'll Find In Posting This - I'm relatively knew here on EP, and doing my best to reach out and open up to people, become more honest about my feelings and my...
    BlueEyedGeekery BlueEyedGeekery 26-30, M 4 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    Something I Never Had - I'm 13 years old, and my dad of cancer died when I was 6. I was a typical Daddy's girl, so it hurt me a lot when he died. The problem was that he was really...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 2, 2012

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    My Grief - My mother has always hated me, i guess. Ever since i can remember. When i was little she would always shame me. There was lots of abuse. My mother was a Nazi in Germany...
    chriskrys65 chriskrys65 46-50 1 Response Nov 20, 2012

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    I Will Always Want And Need A Mom. I Hope I Can Find Her Soon.. - My Mom left me when I was 5-6 years old and ever since my heart has been so sad and hurt. I am the biggest fan of...
    luvangel1883 luvangel1883 26-30 4 Responses Feb 29, 2012

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    Need A "mother" - I have been searching the internet for any kind of site where you can communicate with someone willing to be a mother figure. My mother is mentally ill...
    thequest thequest 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    Childless Home - If you want a cyber/email/phone Mom I am here for you. I will give you my time and knowledge. For long conversations and to get to know each other. Maybe become...
    FrozenSol FrozenSol 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 8, 2013

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    I Need A Mother - my mother died when i was 12. i was living with my father when she died!! i have always had this huge hole in my life bc i never had anyone fill the hole!! i...
    angelinat706 angelinat706 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 18, 2010

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    Always Wanted A Loving Mom - I'm 22 and one of the things I want most in life is a mom who loves me. No, I'm not into that baby role play thing. I just want a mother figure. My...
    Dani2756 Dani2756 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    Anyone Want Me As Their Child? - I think my other mom is quitting on me. If you were to be my mom I would be a five year old little girl with long blonde hair. Anyone care to take...
    MissingIdentidy MissingIdentidy 22-25, F 3 Responses May 17, 2013

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    Missing A Mother - I thought I had a good relationship with my mother but that was until I spoke with her about her erratic behaviour. She is always negative about life, other...
    jos5447 jos5447 46-50, F Oct 11, 2013

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    I Miss You :( - Me and my mother had never really been close when I was a child, I was always daddy's little girl, It was only when i went into my teenage years, When i started...
    laurie37 laurie37 18-21, F 5 Responses May 7, 2012

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    I'D Like To Punch Whoever Created The Phrase "Everything Happens For A Reason" - She has been gone 6.5 years. I am viewed as a strong woman who has handled it well. If they only...
    Livingoninherlight Livingoninherlight 26-30 2 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    My Story In Needing A Mother - I had a very rough childhood, I am not really sure how I made it out alive. My mother beat me from as early as I can remember, beating me with a belt...
    antaylor12 antaylor12 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29, 2013

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    Making Our Own Family Connections - I grew up thinking that I wasn't good enough or worthy of a good family or true friends. I was alone, lonely, and self hatred had gotten to me...
    Hugsdirector Hugsdirector 36-40, F Nov 4, 2013

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    Could My Mother Ever Love Me? Could She Be Out There? - I'm a 17 yr old girl. I live in raytown, Missouri. My mother has always been stand offish. She has never really showed...
    pinkballoons pinkballoons 18-21 5 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    Want To Be Normal - Today, in my English class, we talked about archetypes. I had to stop taking notes when we got to the... mother... archetype, because its difficult for me to...
    Hrmg Hrmg 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 20, 2012

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    Mom Trapped In Suburbia - I don't know exactly who to share my things with. I feel sometimes like I am going to exhaust my family members and close friends with things that only...
    Danicap Danicap 41-45 1 Response Oct 12, 2012

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    I have an egg carrier.. But I never considered her as a mom. My parents are divorced and shes never done anything for me to feel the bound. Now im 17, and more and more situations...
    Pharrah1 Pharrah1 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    It takes two to tango and make a baby. It is also important for the mother and father to raise that baby too. Women can not play the man's role effectively. Also, men can not...
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    Mothers provide the gentle, caring side of raising a child, and fathers provide the supportive, strength. Or vice versa. I don't label genders
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    My mother has always had mental issues. She has random outburst, going from laughing to a screaming rage in a matter of seconds (for no reason), she belittles everyone as her...
    Anonymisses Anonymisses 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I guess to understand the full depth of my story, it's best to start at the very beginning It all started when I turned 7. Up until that age, I has a great family. My mom and dad...
    heartsofgold22 heartsofgold22 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    My mum is the type of mum where if I say "can you pick me up some ____?" she'll get it. But the moment I say "Mum, I need you." , "Mum, I'm not feeling good." , "Mum, I need your...
    jheyjuneice jheyjuneice 18-21, F Apr 1

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    Like how i look up to my father, my mother is also another role model. The thing i admire her the most is that she is open minded to a lot of things and has few hatred for rare and...
    NymNin NymNin 18-21, F Apr 7

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    My mother is amazing! Her sister ( my auntie) was diagnosed with a brain tumour and it was awful my family has already been struggling. It was tough on everyone especially her...
    Luce13579 Luce13579 16-17, F 5 days ago