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I Need a Mother

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    I Need A Mother

    I am a single accomplished female in my mid 30's. I was raised by a single emotionally abusive mother. I am her only child and I have no other family. I am looking for a mother figure. Someone I can communicate with through email. I am in desperate need of someone that could be...
    theforgotten1one theforgotten1one 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 18, 2013

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    i dont know if people look at this

    but here goes nothing i lost my mum to cancer at 14 and i watched her suffer for a whole year my teachers at school treat me like crap even under my circumstances ive been depressed ever since i do drugs now im out getting wasted ive slept with girls all at the age of 16 my dad...
    nicolasmccloughen nicolasmccloughen 16-17, M 6 Responses Feb 21

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    Where do I begin?...

    when i was born my birth mother didnt even have the love to even name me. My g- mom named me after a tv show. That breaks my heart knowing that my name doesnt even have meaning. She gave me to my grandmother at just 2 months.My grandma just wants money. Im only 22 and im alone...
    nessa0609 nessa0609 22-25, F Feb 10

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    Anyone Want Me As Their Child?

    I think my other mom is quitting on me. If you were to be my mom I would be a five year old little girl with long blonde hair. Anyone care to take me? And men are not allowed to take me.
    MissingIdentidy MissingIdentidy 22-25, F 3 Responses May 17, 2013

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    I Feel Horrible About Everything And I Don'T Know What To Do...

    Here's the thing. I have a mom. But whenever I see her, I get all panicky and miserable. I don't know why but I always feel like I'm being degraded. And I don't feel this way with everyone. It's just her. This has been going on for years. I couldn't explain how I felt, I said...
    Gryffyn Gryffyn 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2013

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    Always Wanted A Loving Mom

    I'm 22 and one of the things I want most in life is a mom who loves me. No, I'm not into that baby role play thing. I just want a mother figure. My parents are alcoholics and have a history of child abuse. I want a mom to love me, to care, to give advice, to listen when I'm upset...
    Dani2756 Dani2756 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    Need A "mother"

    I have been searching the internet for any kind of site where you can communicate with someone willing to be a mother figure. My mother is mentally ill and I am dying to communicate with someone who could provide a little motherliness from time to time. If anyone is willing to do...
    thequest thequest 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    chiefey chiefey 46-50, M Jul 2

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    My Dream

    Yeah.... this is the most hard topic for me. She left me when I was 3....never came to see me again....or maybe she tried, but I did not had any relationship to her... God how much I missed her... I dreamed every single day to hug her... My Dad married again....I guess for my...
    Lilly78 Lilly78 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    Ineedamom

    I lost my beautiful Mom two years ago. I'm so happy to have had her for 70 years. One night I felt such a need to talk to her so bad that I got on google to search for a mom... but found nothing. I felt other peoples pain and need to talk to a mom or just share a dream or a...
    Doraloves Doraloves 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2012

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    If anyone on here really wants

    or needs a mother or motherly advice I am here for you.
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 19

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    Childless Home

    If you want a cyber/email/phone Mom I am here for you. I will give you my time and knowledge. For long conversations and to get to know each other. Maybe become extended family. We are are childless home due to medical issues and adoption is out right now due to demands of...
    FrozenSol FrozenSol 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 8, 2013

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    Deepest Need

    And for some reason I've never discussed this in depth with my shrink!  I've had an ugly past, childhood mostly, as I'm sure a good majority of folks have.  I certainly know that there are others that had it much worse than me.  Hell, read Sybil.  Anyway, the...
    hddragon hddragon 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 22, 2008

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    But the naughty kind.

    And a kind one. So naughty kind says plenty.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    I was adopted by an emotionally unavailable

    mother, and no matter how hard I tried I never measured up even though I did quite well for myself, then came down with a heart issue and my mother pretty much vanished for 5 yrs, she even moved from the west coast to the east coast, gawd for bid I ask her to help me. She said...
    sweetlore sweetlore 46-50, F 2 Responses May 2

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    Could My Mother Ever Love Me? Could She Be Out There?

    I'm a 17 yr old girl. I live in raytown, Missouri. My mother has always been stand offish. She has never really showed affection and now that im older i feel like there is a hole inside of me. every night I long for a kiss and a snuggle that will make me feel warm and safe, a...
    pinkballoons pinkballoons 18-21 5 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    Need A Mom Who Cares

    I have spent my life taking care of others and focusing on their wants and needs. At 22, I have realized that something big I need has been missing my whole life. I know my biological mom, but she has never been around, for a variety of reasons. For a time, I also had a...
    BabyKay503 BabyKay503 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2013

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    Making Our Own Family Connections

    I grew up thinking that I wasn't good enough or worthy of a good family or true friends. I was alone, lonely, and self hatred had gotten to me. I need to be nurtured, cared for and listen too. I just never wanted to be accepting of that when I was young and in to my later teen...
    Hugsdirector Hugsdirector 36-40, F Nov 4, 2013

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    I Wish My Mother Loved Me

    My mother must have hated me because not even animals treat their little ones in this manner. I was abused emotionally, sexually and psychologically. She never acknowledged anything good I did only the bad. But my sister was her real daughter to her cause she had the father with...
    Lostatfour Lostatfour 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    I Miss You :(

    Me and my mother had never really been close when I was a child, I was always daddy's little girl, It was only when i went into my teenage years, When i started caring about makeup, cloths and boys that me and my mum started to get close - Really close. We would say that she was...
    laurie37 laurie37 18-21, F 6 Responses May 7, 2012

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    Motherly Love

    A dear friend wrote to me about needing motherly love even though she is in her late thirties and this struck a chord with me. I lost my mother to cancer ten years ago and miss her so much however I feel that motherly love is any love that nurtures and is supportive. I also...
    dartist dartist 56-60, F 2 Responses May 9, 2010

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    My Story In Needing A Mother

    I had a very rough childhood, I am not really sure how I made it out alive. My mother beat me from as early as I can remember, beating me with a belt and spanking me for no reason. My earliest memory of her was when she took me to my room after my parents had an argument and told...
    antaylor12 antaylor12 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29, 2013

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    Want To Be Normal

    Today, in my English class, we talked about archetypes. I had to stop taking notes when we got to the... mother... archetype, because its difficult for me to even read or write the word. My teacher told our class the this particular archetype is vital for life, as when it is...
    Hrmg Hrmg 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 20, 2012

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    I Will Always Want And Need A Mom. I Hope I Can Find Her Soon..

    My Mom left me when I was 5-6 years old and ever since my heart has been so sad and hurt. I am the biggest fan of love and affection and sometimes I wonder if this is why not having a mom in my life hurts me so much. I feel so alone. I can only imagine how it would feel to have a...
    luvangel1883 luvangel1883 26-30 4 Responses Feb 29, 2012

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    Sometimes I just feel like there is this gaping

    hole that my mother cannot fill. I have four younger sisters, including a baby, and my mom just doesn't have time for me anymore. Her and my dad are having an "in-house separation," whatever that means. And every time she talks to me, she is mad at me about something, yelling...
    aislinn33 aislinn33 18-21, F Jul 24

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    I have an egg carrier.

    . But I never considered her as a mom. My parents are divorced and shes never done anything for me to feel the bound. Now im 17, and more and more situations accrue to where I feel I need a motherly figure..
    Pharrah1 Pharrah1 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    My Parents Hate Me

    I have stayed on my own since birth and it seem my parents never cared about me.i recently moved in with my parents and everything is worse. they find fault with everything I do.my friends are in school but am home working all day.my mum insults and hurt my feeling everyday.i...
    tracy3000 tracy3000 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2013

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    Missing A Mother

    I thought I had a good relationship with my mother but that was until I spoke with her about her erratic behaviour. She is always negative about life, other people, her children and grandchildren. She holds grudges for what seems a lifetime. As I live in the Uk and mom is in SA I...
    jos5447 jos5447 46-50, F Oct 11, 2013

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    I feel a bit guilty posting this,

    because my mother is still living, and many people who share this experience have lost their mothers. My mother and I have never been close at all. When I was a baby, she rarely held me, and avoided me most of the time. I'm not sure why. She has done this my entire life. She got...
    ThatOneGirlWithTheBlueEyes ThatOneGirlWithTheBlueEyes 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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    I miss my mom. She died

    when I was 14. I have always wanted a mother / daughter relationship. A mom to share my joy. A mom to spoil. A sweet grandma for my boys. Love ur mom cause when she is gone it is an emptiness that always keeps u down.
    Klynn74 Klynn74 36-40, F Jan 10

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    Listener Here

    If you have stuff you want to talk about or vent about, feel free to contact me. I usually am the listener in my crowd and don't mind it. I tend to really want to hear people's stories and experiences.No judgments. I am also pretty open minded so there won't be much that I find I...
    Sowyfeil Sowyfeil 31-35, F Jun 17, 2013

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    Memories That Reveal Even More

    I've already told part of my story. And I had buried the rest of it. Lately I've been having anxiety and panic attacks. And what really sets them off is my body allowing me to remember some of the abuse. Here is what I newly remember (most of my childhood and experiences with...
    shannonsultan shannonsultan 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2013

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    If anyone needs an online mother,

    I'd be happy to help! I am better with girls and obviously know more about them.
    KarenFamily KarenFamily 41-45, F 3 Responses May 4

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    I don't know what it's like to have a "real

    mom". I'm not happy with my own... She never hugs me or comforts me when I cry, she just says that I can't speak to you because you're crying. Even if I'm crying because she won't help me. She never compliments me and nothing seems to be enough for her. She makes me feel like...
    littlemissrainy littlemissrainy 18-21, F 4 Responses May 6

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    Hi.i lost my mother wen I was 12.

    need a mothers love n affection.
    shannukatariya shannukatariya 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Needing A Daughter

    I am in need of a daughter. My own daughter who was spoiled and loved very much by not only her myself and her father but also by her grandmother, cousins, aunts and uncles. One day she decided to stop talking to me without ever telling me why. It has been over a year now...
    SomoneToNeedMe SomoneToNeedMe 46-50 13 Responses Nov 12, 2012

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    I Feel Lonely A Lot

    I feel almost guilty posting here because, well, my mother is still alive. The problem is, we've never been close at all; even when I was a baby. I was really a Daddy's girl. for most of my life, I was happy, and everything was fine. My little sister was very close with our...
    Sunshine1916 Sunshine1916 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    My mother and I have never gotten a long,

    my parents are divorced and I've never really had a loving family..that's all I wanted as a child.
    laurenkouhi laurenkouhi 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Never Had A Mum

    I am new to this sit but here is my story I lived with my dad and two brothers it was not a good /happy home because of my dad my mum moved away when I was very young I had to be a mum to my two brothers and now all I want is a mum to support me through the tough time that I am...
    stephmckenzie stephmckenzie 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2013

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    I Need A Mom Sometimes Just For Advice

    Growing up I never had a good relationship with my mom. I was like the blacksheep. My mp was never there for me. Everything I did was wrong. Everything from I I looked to even my existence. Growing up I lived a tortuous life with abuse. I was luckily I even survived half of re...
    AlleyMia AlleyMia 26-30 1 Response Jan 29, 2012

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    Not Entirely Sure What I'll Find In Posting This

    I'm relatively knew here on EP, and doing my best to reach out and open up to people, become more honest about my feelings and my past. I'm not close to either of my parents, and had a falling out with my birth mother a long time ago. It would be amazing to actually find a...
    BlueEyedGeekery BlueEyedGeekery 26-30, M 4 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    I Need A Mother

    my mother died when i was 12. i was living with my father when she died!! i have always had this huge hole in my life bc i never had anyone fill the hole!! i would love to meet others like me who just need someone to talk to about their loss....my father and i never really got...
    angelinat706 angelinat706 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 18, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    Hello everyone. I never wanted to resort to this, but I feel I am out of other options. Let me start from the beginning. When my mother, Dee, was 9, her father was shot in the head...
    NikkiNINTR NikkiNINTR 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    I was unfortunate enough to land myself in a house that includes not only my husband but along with my in laws, sister in law, her husband, and two kids. Everyone knows and can...
    destinii3 destinii3 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    In 2008 my Mother in law lost h husband . I tried helping her through his illness and after his death and things were ok.I had never had bad feelings toward her in the past,as a...
    helpless69 helpless69 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    Okay it's kinda like a love-hate relationship. I swear I love her with all my heart, but sometimes it's just like......... UUUGGGGHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!! I mean both my brothers and me...
    MiniMe57 MiniMe57 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I left my husband about 2 and 1/2 years ago. We were together for 7 years and we have 3 beautiful children together, but our marriage was toxic. He was extremely emotionally...
    Octoberbreeze Octoberbreeze 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    I am a 14 year old that has relationship problems with my mother. I recall constantly getting bullied in my elementary years because of my social awkwardness. I remember my mom...
    anushkapatel44 anushkapatel44 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm sorry in advance if this post ends up a little long, but this issue is very, very important to me and I want to make sure I get my point across well. I'm a fresh graduate who...
    HelloBones HelloBones 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    My friends and I gather often, drinking coffee and talking about...yes our kids. There is the liberal dutch, who doesn't know where her kids are. There is the over protective Arab...
    discovery5 discovery5 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 4

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    I want to be an adult. I always act like a kid so much and that's why people are don't respect me. But it is so hard! I don't really know what is the different of being adult and...
    vinxgaza vinxgaza 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    I wish I can be everything you need, I would love to answer all of your questions with confidence and knowledge... But I'm far from that I am no good. I cry every night. I am weak...
    Neblina27 Neblina27 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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