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I Need a New Life Plan

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 193 People

    When Life No Longer Makes Sense.

    In October, after 5 years and a 3 year old son, my boyfriend up an said, "I need some space to figure my life out." As recently as a week before this happened we were talking about marriage, growing old together, and having more children together. and then the bomb dropped. I...
    NoWhereToGoButUp NoWhereToGoButUp 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 9, 2010

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    Relentless Normallity Despite Taking Positive Steps To Change...

    Hi, For years I have wanted to just write my story as to why my life just frustrates me, I want to spill it all and seek reassurance, understanding and basically some good advice.  However, I have not done so until now because like most westerners - life is paradise...
    MichaelScott MichaelScott 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 26, 2009

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    MY Dad Died Aug 27th

    OK I AM LOST I WAS LOST BEFORE THIS JUST ALITTLE BUT NOW I CAN NOT GET IT TOGETHER I WANT TO MOVE BUT DON'T HAVE MONEY TO JUST START ALL OVER MY DAD WAS A WONDERFUL MAN HE MADE SURE ALL MY LIFE I HAD WHAT I NEEDED HE WAS A VERY PROUD MAN AND I AM SO SAD I CAN NOT EVEN GET OUT OF...
    MYDADDIED MYDADDIED 41-45, F Sep 16, 2009

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    Life?

    What to do and how to do it???How do you start afresh? When everything feels empty and broken, with no one to turn to Everything you had, now gone and lost foreverWhere do you turn? 
    nick4545 nick4545 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 12, 2012

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    Remind My Self These!!!

    so my new plan is get back into"REALITY" infront of my eyes!! I can dream but my dream atleast not to far from REALITY world 1. concentrate on my new join venture business 2. concentrate on my own business 3. stay healthy 4. makes money, get success 5. avoiding online love 6...
    staticonveyor staticonveyor 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    Is That Really What I Was Supposed To Write?

    You know it seems to me that I need to write some more on the subject. I just posted a story but it doesn't feel like I said enough. I can tell you all the bad things that are happening in my life right now. I can tell you I am overwhelmed right now. It's true...nothing is going...
    NoWhereToGoButUp NoWhereToGoButUp 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 9, 2010

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    A Lot Of U People

    Ok first of all, this story is to Inspire a lot of u who sound depress in this website. I realize a lot of u don't have a inspiration, a why u at the job u are now, a reason why life is the way it is, a reason why u can't and don't want to accept the life that u have now and be...
    Chonchiii Chonchiii 18-21 Jan 10, 2013

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    21 And I Feel Like I Have No Future.

    I've always been fairly good at school, I enjoy learning, and I love reading. I graduated from a small town school, with only about 50 graduates, and a dream to go to university and start my career early. I ended up taking 6 months to work right away after grade 12, and then...
    ShowMeHowToLiveAgain ShowMeHowToLiveAgain 18-21 1 Response Jul 30, 2012

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    How Do You Start a New Life Plan

    I would like to make a lot of changes in my life. Has anyone created a life plan? How does one start? 
    kris133 kris133 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 25, 2010

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    Trying To Figure Out What To Do

    Ok, when I was younger I was very successful in all I put my mind to. And it looked as if I was going to have a promising career in the film industry. However, I got ill with schizoaffective disorder. Now I live at home on my mother's couch, and rarely leave the house. I have a...
    walkingon walkingon 22-25 2 Responses Aug 11, 2012

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    It Wasn't Supposed To Turn Out Like This...

    I had my life plan figured out and I had no doubt I'd make it. That I'd shape my future just the way I wanted to. I've always succeeded in everything I've ever decided to do. I've never failed in anything, 'cause I've always done whatever it took to reach my goals. I always put...
    astrongheart astrongheart 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 10, 2012

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    My Life

    I was brought up in a wonderful home with fantastic parents. I know how lucky I am especially compared to some others. My childhood has nothing but good memories. Even as a child I recall thinking that god had something special in store for me such as a calling or even...
    nick4545 nick4545 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 14, 2012

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    My Life Has Been A Total Disaster

    why is life never easy , what have i done to deserve this horrid life, all i want is to be happy , people screw my head up  , whats the point in living i only get hurt ,
    newlifeneeded newlifeneeded 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2009

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    And Im Working On It

    I want to be  a confident person and im working on that ,It is my first goal .. and i know its gonna be hard .. But i have to be able to look at myself and say ya know what i like myself maybe im not gonna be the best looking thing  like i was when i was younger...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 13, 2007

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    Stuck In A Rut

    I don't know what to do, I'm so lost and alone. Work is miserable, I sleep all day on my days off, and things that I use to enjoy I can't get the motivation to do them. I'm only 27 years old but have been going through this for a little over 2 years. I do t know what to do
    Whk67 Whk67 26-30 1 Response Apr 29, 2013

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    I Am Just Tired of Not Being Noted

    I am a 26 year old Graphic Designer no wait a singer ... ummm no a cook .... better yet an artist, nope I am a big brother to kids in need, nooo that's not right I am a fashionista .... damn it no I am a baker ... no better yet again a saint, actually its all true and there is...
    RockerDude24 RockerDude24 26-30 1 Response May 5, 2009

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    I Need To Grow Up

    I'm not where I wanna be. I don't know what I'm good at. I look and act younger than my age. I haven't accomplished anything. My confidence isn't all that great. I'm lost. Stuck. Nowhere. It's been like this for a long time. Time is flying by so fast and I can't keep up. It's...
    Xo143xo Xo143xo 26-30 Apr 30, 2013

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    Yes A New Plan

    Yes, a new plan, but how do i know the plan i have isnt working, or how do i know when am ready for a new plan? I dont feel like am ready for one. Is registering onsite on a site like this one, and making new friends a good plan? I wonder. Any ideas?
    alexagates alexagates 26-30, F Nov 15, 2011

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    I guess the illnesses have caused a major fog

    in my life. I sat around, sick, while all of this time passed by. Now, 12 years later, things are as bad as they have ever been. His kids - who all live out of state - hardly talk to him (and never accepted me because of the lies and the crap that went on that I knew nothing...
    emh1116 emh1116 51-55, F May 10

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    My Life Has Really Become Stag...

    My life has really become stagnant.  Depression has really taken over my life lately.  I find it hard to be motivated to do anything.  I don't like the person I've become. 
    doemark doemark 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    Stuck

    I married young (21) and had two babies. Up until that point I had been pretty upwardly mobile and independent. Achieving every goal I had set fourth; big or small. I was happy with life and myself. It didn't long take for the marriage long to go south. Approximately three or...
    StuckSimply StuckSimply 22-25 6 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    What I Believe,

    I am learning about Christianity. It isn't a bad thing, could someone help me learn about it. I want to learn more. I grew up with it though I believe some things have changed. My mom and my other relatives and friends taught me about it. It helped me throughout the years. I...
    lea1307 lea1307 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 9, 2013

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    I Really Don't Have The Words To Make A Title.

    I grew up a hard life for many years, I'm eighteen years old and I'm now living back in my small home town in Australia. I've been told I'm far too mature for my age and I agree, I can barely communicate with people the same age as me. I crave artistic experiences, my life is...
    KisaKisa KisaKisa 18-21 3 Responses Mar 24, 2012

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    No Clue What To Do With This Life

    I recently turned 27; I have accomplished a fair deal on the academic side. I have my masters degree and I have been an attorney for about 5 years. The only problem is that I have hated almost every minute of those five years, with my hatred intensifying each day that passed. I...
    Nel7771 Nel7771 26-30 4 Responses Aug 14, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I'd give this life for a new life ..... I often spend alot of time daydreaming about a new life completely void of the reality I've lives for so long I don't think I can honestly...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    Throughout my life I have let many people take a hold of me take advantage of my emotions and hurt me I recently been hurt Exremely worse and I just want to give up I want to start...
    jakaylaruffin jakaylaruffin 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    I've been married for 28 years. My children are grown up. My husband is out going, life and soul, hard working but I'm lost. I feel conditioned which is maybe my fault. I...
    simply44 simply44 51-55, F Jul 31

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    life is passing me by just broke up with a lovely lady we both just let it finish, we are still good friends, when i sat down and had time to reflect there is just not enough hours...
    lloyds123 lloyds123 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    No more running into people from my old life. No more having to be stuck where I grew up and where I felt like a misfit and outcast my whole life. I don't want to live in such a...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I'm looking for someone that can be an active part of my life. There are so many things I want to do but find myself crippled by apathy, laziness and hopelessness. I need...
    noodleloaf noodleloaf 36-40, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Anyone from the west coast of the US that is around my age and NOT a pervert want to talk about life? ?
    AmaiXAshuri AmaiXAshuri 26-30, F Jul 24

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    I need a new girl friend any girls can hit me up if u want to text to ok
    jaymoney1992 jaymoney1992 22-25, M Jul 28

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    My hard working self is always in search of new people to chat with to make the day go by. I would love to meet some new people to talk about various topics and get to know some...
    Jmzm Jmzm 22-25, M Aug 6

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    At least...that's the gist of what was told to me. I was told I need to live life by my mother. She's not exactly the best role model but perhaps she is right this time. I'm one of...
    angelexondra angelexondra 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    So I met someone within the past two weeks, and I thought he would be a great friend to me and at least respect my relationship. I don't trust people easily, and he made it seem...
    Lipsofanangel976 Lipsofanangel976 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    A little bored right now could use some new texting buddies
    ryanw93 ryanw93 18-21, M Aug 8

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    I want new fiends that I can trust
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M Aug 10

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    So I Got This New Phone & I Don't Have Any Numbers So Just Text Me & Let's Have A Chat No Weirdos But I Except All. CHAO !! (832)989-2431
    cvrlyheaded cvrlyheaded 18-21, F Aug 13

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    Looking for a new bestie. c:
    ShyProdigy ShyProdigy 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    I love love love talking to new people. (^^)
    marisemarrs marisemarrs 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 15

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    My boyfriend is out of town and I can't talk to him. I need someone to talk to!!
    Nunamiut33 Nunamiut33 16-17, F Aug 1

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    I am 37 and starting over, not from a life long love but from a long life of seeking love. I have given so much time and energy into finding "The ONE" that I settled for some...
    balanis balanis 36-40, F Aug 8

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    Wish I could just take my kids to Narnia and start my life over again. Y'know with talking lions and saytrs and true love everywhere and magic. That would walk. Ugh. My life is...
    wiseprotector wiseprotector 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I need a friend to talk to. :(
    Nunamiut33 Nunamiut33 16-17, F Aug 14

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    Life hands you things you don't expect to happen.
    yonix yonix 18-21, M Jul 29

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    I don't even know if I can swim. Like what if I was thrown in the water? Lol. I probably can't even swim even if my life was ob the line. 💪👎
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    Ok i was desperate so i posted an ad on Craigslist Regarding a study buddy for my Ccna exam, Now I don't know that this person is a scam. Its hard for me to inquire about people...
    furmal furmal 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    I'm going to be a daddy for the first time.
    darrls darrls 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    anyone want to talk? i'm a gamer (PSN) dont start no console war on this i played on every platform and i can easily point out the flaws on any well except PC that's the master...
    jos951 jos951 18-21, M Aug 10

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    I'm Boredddd someone should message me plz 😋
    Marbz5 Marbz5 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 10