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I Need a New Life Plan

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 191 People

    Stuck

    I married young (21) and had two babies. Up until that point I had been pretty upwardly mobile and independent. Achieving every goal I had set fourth; big or small. I was happy with life and myself. It didn't long take for the marriage long to go south. Approximately three or...
    StuckSimply StuckSimply 22-25 6 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    Remind My Self These!!!

    so my new plan is get back into"REALITY" infront of my eyes!! I can dream but my dream atleast not to far from REALITY world 1. concentrate on my new join venture business 2. concentrate on my own business 3. stay healthy 4. makes money, get success 5. avoiding online love 6...
    staticonveyor staticonveyor 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    Is That Really What I Was Supposed To Write?

    You know it seems to me that I need to write some more on the subject. I just posted a story but it doesn't feel like I said enough. I can tell you all the bad things that are happening in my life right now. I can tell you I am overwhelmed right now. It's true...nothing is going...
    NoWhereToGoButUp NoWhereToGoButUp 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 9, 2010

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    21 And I Feel Like I Have No Future.

    I've always been fairly good at school, I enjoy learning, and I love reading. I graduated from a small town school, with only about 50 graduates, and a dream to go to university and start my career early. I ended up taking 6 months to work right away after grade 12, and then...
    ShowMeHowToLiveAgain ShowMeHowToLiveAgain 18-21 1 Response Jul 30, 2012

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    What I Believe,

    I am learning about Christianity. It isn't a bad thing, could someone help me learn about it. I want to learn more. I grew up with it though I believe some things have changed. My mom and my other relatives and friends taught me about it. It helped me throughout the years. I...
    lea1307 lea1307 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 9, 2013

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    I Need To Grow Up

    I'm not where I wanna be. I don't know what I'm good at. I look and act younger than my age. I haven't accomplished anything. My confidence isn't all that great. I'm lost. Stuck. Nowhere. It's been like this for a long time. Time is flying by so fast and I can't keep up. It's...
    Xo143xo Xo143xo 26-30 Apr 30, 2013

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    And Im Working On It

    I want to be  a confident person and im working on that ,It is my first goal .. and i know its gonna be hard .. But i have to be able to look at myself and say ya know what i like myself maybe im not gonna be the best looking thing  like i was when i was younger...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 13, 2007

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    Trying To Figure Out What To Do

    Ok, when I was younger I was very successful in all I put my mind to. And it looked as if I was going to have a promising career in the film industry. However, I got ill with schizoaffective disorder. Now I live at home on my mother's couch, and rarely leave the house. I have a...
    walkingon walkingon 22-25 2 Responses Aug 11, 2012

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    I Am Just Tired of Not Being Noted

    I am a 26 year old Graphic Designer no wait a singer ... ummm no a cook .... better yet an artist, nope I am a big brother to kids in need, nooo that's not right I am a fashionista .... damn it no I am a baker ... no better yet again a saint, actually its all true and there is...
    RockerDude24 RockerDude24 26-30 1 Response May 5, 2009

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    It Wasn't Supposed To Turn Out Like This...

    I had my life plan figured out and I had no doubt I'd make it. That I'd shape my future just the way I wanted to. I've always succeeded in everything I've ever decided to do. I've never failed in anything, 'cause I've always done whatever it took to reach my goals. I always put...
    astrongheart astrongheart 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 10, 2012

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    My Life

    I was brought up in a wonderful home with fantastic parents. I know how lucky I am especially compared to some others. My childhood has nothing but good memories. Even as a child I recall thinking that god had something special in store for me such as a calling or even...
    nick4545 nick4545 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 14, 2012

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    My Life Has Been A Total Disaster

    why is life never easy , what have i done to deserve this horrid life, all i want is to be happy , people screw my head up  , whats the point in living i only get hurt ,
    newlifeneeded newlifeneeded 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2009

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    MY Dad Died Aug 27th

    OK I AM LOST I WAS LOST BEFORE THIS JUST ALITTLE BUT NOW I CAN NOT GET IT TOGETHER I WANT TO MOVE BUT DON'T HAVE MONEY TO JUST START ALL OVER MY DAD WAS A WONDERFUL MAN HE MADE SURE ALL MY LIFE I HAD WHAT I NEEDED HE WAS A VERY PROUD MAN AND I AM SO SAD I CAN NOT EVEN GET OUT OF...
    MYDADDIED MYDADDIED 41-45, F Sep 16, 2009

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    How Do You Start a New Life Plan

    I would like to make a lot of changes in my life. Has anyone created a life plan? How does one start? 
    kris133 kris133 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 25, 2010

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    Stuck In A Rut

    I don't know what to do, I'm so lost and alone. Work is miserable, I sleep all day on my days off, and things that I use to enjoy I can't get the motivation to do them. I'm only 27 years old but have been going through this for a little over 2 years. I do t know what to do
    Whk67 Whk67 26-30 1 Response Apr 29, 2013

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    When Life No Longer Makes Sense.

    In October, after 5 years and a 3 year old son, my boyfriend up an said, "I need some space to figure my life out." As recently as a week before this happened we were talking about marriage, growing old together, and having more children together. and then the bomb dropped. I...
    NoWhereToGoButUp NoWhereToGoButUp 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 9, 2010

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    Relentless Normallity Despite Taking Positive Steps To Change...

    Hi, For years I have wanted to just write my story as to why my life just frustrates me, I want to spill it all and seek reassurance, understanding and basically some good advice.  However, I have not done so until now because like most westerners - life is paradise...
    MichaelScott MichaelScott 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 26, 2009

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    A Lot Of U People

    Ok first of all, this story is to Inspire a lot of u who sound depress in this website. I realize a lot of u don't have a inspiration, a why u at the job u are now, a reason why life is the way it is, a reason why u can't and don't want to accept the life that u have now and be...
    Chonchiii Chonchiii 18-21 Jan 10, 2013

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    My Life Has Really Become Stag...

    My life has really become stagnant.  Depression has really taken over my life lately.  I find it hard to be motivated to do anything.  I don't like the person I've become. 
    doemark doemark 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    I Really Don't Have The Words To Make A Title.

    I grew up a hard life for many years, I'm eighteen years old and I'm now living back in my small home town in Australia. I've been told I'm far too mature for my age and I agree, I can barely communicate with people the same age as me. I crave artistic experiences, my life is...
    KisaKisa KisaKisa 18-21 3 Responses Mar 24, 2012

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    Life?

    What to do and how to do it???How do you start afresh? When everything feels empty and broken, with no one to turn to Everything you had, now gone and lost foreverWhere do you turn? 
    nick4545 nick4545 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 12, 2012

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    No Clue What To Do With This Life

    I recently turned 27; I have accomplished a fair deal on the academic side. I have my masters degree and I have been an attorney for about 5 years. The only problem is that I have hated almost every minute of those five years, with my hatred intensifying each day that passed. I...
    Nel7771 Nel7771 26-30 4 Responses Aug 14, 2012

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    I guess the illnesses have caused a major fog

    in my life. I sat around, sick, while all of this time passed by. Now, 12 years later, things are as bad as they have ever been. His kids - who all live out of state - hardly talk to him (and never accepted me because of the lies and the crap that went on that I knew nothing...
    emh1116 emh1116 51-55, F May 10

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    Yes A New Plan

    Yes, a new plan, but how do i know the plan i have isnt working, or how do i know when am ready for a new plan? I dont feel like am ready for one. Is registering onsite on a site like this one, and making new friends a good plan? I wonder. Any ideas?
    alexagates alexagates 26-30, F Nov 15, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I'd give this life for a new life ..... I often spend alot of time daydreaming about a new life completely void of the reality I've lives for so long I don't think I can honestly...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    My life sucks everything goes wrong and it feels like it will never get better can I just die and start a new life where none of my mistakes are known and I have a different family...
    lonelinessneverfades lonelinessneverfades 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I need new friends <3 hahahahahahahahaha
    Makaleetah Makaleetah 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    Throughout my life I have let many people take a hold of me take advantage of my emotions and hurt me I recently been hurt Exremely worse and I just want to give up I want to start...
    jakaylaruffin jakaylaruffin 16-17, F 18 hrs ago

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    It's my birthday and I organised a BBQ and drinks. None of my friends are coming because they have other plans....they didn't text or call me either. Thank god for my beautiful big...
    oceanicdreamer oceanicdreamer 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I swear I actually do. I hate my life here, it's so bad. I need things to change
    GeorgiaAlicee GeorgiaAlicee 18-21, F Jun 26

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    Anyone from the west coast of the US that is around my age and NOT a pervert want to talk about life? ?
    AmaiXAshuri AmaiXAshuri 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I am freshly moved into a new home, in a new state. I've been in the process of losing weight and I'll be going to college soon enough. My mom and I have started throwing around...
    Twichl Twichl 18-21, F Jun 26

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    In all honesty I just need friends who are willing to dig deeper into their pockets. They don't have to be "wealthier," but a little more generous would be nice. I get it that...
    AGirl100 AGirl100 16-17 a week ago

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    I was 22 years old when i was diagnosed with my disease. I went almost 6 months before i was diagnosed and it was pure hell. It started out as my joints hurting so bad. i could...
    jlynn2016 jlynn2016 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    When you decide to make a change, your old self has a tendency to pull you back. But if you use all your strength to build your new self, then no matter how many times you fall...
    Smokerish7 Smokerish7 18-21 Jul 1

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    Just looking to meet some new friends and people to be there for.
    CaysenB12 CaysenB12 16-17, M Jul 13

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    I have this one friend that is about 7 years younger than me. Been friends for two years. Thing is she's married to a douche bag. He is making it impossible for us to ever hang out...
    armstrong7984 armstrong7984 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I'm feeling really alone right now and need people to talk to. Whether it be just small talk or heart to heart conversations.
    robertaka123 robertaka123 13-15, M Jul 1

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    That and I need to make sure I am only on here when sober!!
    watjusthappened watjusthappened 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    I need a good friend to talk to
    Karatemaster4869 Karatemaster4869 16-17, M Jul 10

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    Hi!! I am just about out of pantyhose, so I was wondering if any of you had any suggestions.. I need some nude and black pantyhose, which brands do you think I should try?
    natfranny natfranny 22-25 3 Responses Jul 11

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    I am desperately looking for a HUSBAND:)
    ivy030491 ivy030491 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I've decided to stop entering relationships. No more for me! haha. I've also started to join my Churches youth worship band. im finally becoming the good girl.
    kitkat2797 kitkat2797 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I can't swim and I'm 11 my parents never taught me how
    Lollilovergirl10 Lollilovergirl10 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I wish I had an eidetic memory so I could remember everything I ever read. I really wish I could train my brain to have this kind of memory where I always remember every single...
    CastleFreak CastleFreak 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have my feet planted in two different lives that are like night and day. One foot is planted in my new life that I created as a mother. This life is full of light and love, and...
    norlights3 norlights3 36-40, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    A year after separating from my wife of 14 years and living alone I am ready to restart life again and eager to find my soulmate and partner to build a new life with. I have 4 kids...
    Ready2StartOver Ready2StartOver 41-45, M Jul 9

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    I suppose I have spent so much time in the past four years trying to unravel the constant web that my mum surround me with, that I have become a narcissist myself. I guess that...
    createababe createababe 31-35 Jul 9

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    Fanboy and ChumChum against the World..Right..????? How did I lose you?? Maybe it was that little argument we had a few months back. I Miss my Fanboy :( I just don't understand...
    Nitra99 Nitra99 13-15, F 3 days ago

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