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I Need a New Life Plan

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    Life?

    What to do and how to do it???How do you start afresh? When everything feels empty and broken, with no one to turn to Everything you had, now gone and lost foreverWhere do you turn? 
    nick4545 nick4545 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 12, 2012

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    21 And I Feel Like I Have No Future.

    I've always been fairly good at school, I enjoy learning, and I love reading. I graduated from a small town school, with only about 50 graduates, and a dream to go to university and start my career early. I ended up taking 6 months to work right away after grade 12, and then...
    ShowMeHowToLiveAgain ShowMeHowToLiveAgain 18-21 Jul 30, 2012

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    I Really Don't Have The Words To Make A Title.

    I grew up a hard life for many years, I'm eighteen years old and I'm now living back in my small home town in Australia. I've been told I'm far too mature for my age and I agree, I can barely communicate with people the same age as me. I crave artistic experiences, my life is...
    KisaKisa KisaKisa 18-21 3 Responses Mar 24, 2012

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    Yes A New Plan

    Yes, a new plan, but how do i know the plan i have isnt working, or how do i know when am ready for a new plan? I dont feel like am ready for one. Is registering onsite on a site like this one, and making new friends a good plan? I wonder. Any ideas?
    alexagates alexagates 26-30, F Nov 15, 2011

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    My Life Has Been A Total Disaster

    why is life never easy , what have i done to deserve this horrid life, all i want is to be happy , people screw my head up  , whats the point in living i only get hurt ,
    newlifeneeded newlifeneeded 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2009

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    When Life No Longer Makes Sense.

    In October, after 5 years and a 3 year old son, my boyfriend up an said, "I need some space to figure my life out." As recently as a week before this happened we were talking about marriage, growing old together, and having more children together. and then the bomb dropped. I...
    NoWhereToGoButUp NoWhereToGoButUp 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 9, 2010

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    No Clue What To Do With This Life

    I recently turned 27; I have accomplished a fair deal on the academic side. I have my masters degree and I have been an attorney for about 5 years. The only problem is that I have hated almost every minute of those five years, with my hatred intensifying each day that passed. I...
    Nel7771 Nel7771 26-30 4 Responses Aug 14, 2012

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    My Life Has Really Become Stag...

    My life has really become stagnant.  Depression has really taken over my life lately.  I find it hard to be motivated to do anything.  I don't like the person I've become. 
    doemark doemark 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    Stuck In A Rut

    I don't know what to do, I'm so lost and alone. Work is miserable, I sleep all day on my days off, and things that I use to enjoy I can't get the motivation to do them. I'm only 27 years old but have been going through this for a little over 2 years. I do t know what to do
    Whk67 Whk67 26-30 1 Response Apr 29, 2013

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    What I Believe,

    I am learning about Christianity. It isn't a bad thing, could someone help me learn about it. I want to learn more. I grew up with it though I believe some things have changed. My mom and my other relatives and friends taught me about it. It helped me throughout the years. I...
    lea1307 lea1307 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 9, 2013

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    Trying To Figure Out What To Do

    Ok, when I was younger I was very successful in all I put my mind to. And it looked as if I was going to have a promising career in the film industry. However, I got ill with schizoaffective disorder. Now I live at home on my mother's couch, and rarely leave the house. I have a...
    walkingon walkingon 22-25 2 Responses Aug 11, 2012

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    I Need To Grow Up

    I'm not where I wanna be. I don't know what I'm good at. I look and act younger than my age. I haven't accomplished anything. My confidence isn't all that great. I'm lost. Stuck. Nowhere. It's been like this for a long time. Time is flying by so fast and I can't keep up. It's...
    Xo143xo Xo143xo 26-30 Apr 30, 2013

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    How Do You Start a New Life Plan

    I would like to make a lot of changes in my life. Has anyone created a life plan? How does one start? 
    kris133 kris133 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 25, 2010

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    MY Dad Died Aug 27th

    OK I AM LOST I WAS LOST BEFORE THIS JUST ALITTLE BUT NOW I CAN NOT GET IT TOGETHER I WANT TO MOVE BUT DON'T HAVE MONEY TO JUST START ALL OVER MY DAD WAS A WONDERFUL MAN HE MADE SURE ALL MY LIFE I HAD WHAT I NEEDED HE WAS A VERY PROUD MAN AND I AM SO SAD I CAN NOT EVEN GET OUT OF...
    MYDADDIED MYDADDIED 41-45, F Sep 16, 2009

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    My Life

    I was brought up in a wonderful home with fantastic parents. I know how lucky I am especially compared to some others. My childhood has nothing but good memories. Even as a child I recall thinking that god had something special in store for me such as a calling or even...
    nick4545 nick4545 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 14, 2012

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    Relentless Normallity Despite Taking Positive Steps To Change...

    Hi, For years I have wanted to just write my story as to why my life just frustrates me, I want to spill it all and seek reassurance, understanding and basically some good advice.  However, I have not done so until now because like most westerners - life is paradise...
    MichaelScott MichaelScott 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 26, 2009

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    And Im Working On It

    I want to be  a confident person and im working on that ,It is my first goal .. and i know its gonna be hard .. But i have to be able to look at myself and say ya know what i like myself maybe im not gonna be the best looking thing  like i was when i was younger...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 13, 2007

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    Is That Really What I Was Supposed To Write?

    You know it seems to me that I need to write some more on the subject. I just posted a story but it doesn't feel like I said enough. I can tell you all the bad things that are happening in my life right now. I can tell you I am overwhelmed right now. It's true...nothing is going...
    NoWhereToGoButUp NoWhereToGoButUp 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 9, 2010

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    It Wasn't Supposed To Turn Out Like This...

    I had my life plan figured out and I had no doubt I'd make it. That I'd shape my future just the way I wanted to. I've always succeeded in everything I've ever decided to do. I've never failed in anything, 'cause I've always done whatever it took to reach my goals. I always put...
    astrongheart astrongheart 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 10, 2012

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    A Lot Of U People

    Ok first of all, this story is to Inspire a lot of u who sound depress in this website. I realize a lot of u don't have a inspiration, a why u at the job u are now, a reason why life is the way it is, a reason why u can't and don't want to accept the life that u have now and be...
    Chonchiii Chonchiii 18-21 Jan 10, 2013

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    Remind My Self These!!!

    so my new plan is get back into"REALITY" infront of my eyes!! I can dream but my dream atleast not to far from REALITY world 1. concentrate on my new join venture business 2. concentrate on my own business 3. stay healthy 4. makes money, get success 5. avoiding online love 6...
    staticonveyor staticonveyor 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    I Am Just Tired of Not Being Noted

    I am a 26 year old Graphic Designer no wait a singer ... ummm no a cook .... better yet an artist, nope I am a big brother to kids in need, nooo that's not right I am a fashionista .... damn it no I am a baker ... no better yet again a saint, actually its all true and there is...
    RockerDude24 RockerDude24 26-30 1 Response May 5, 2009

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    Stuck

    I married young (21) and had two babies. Up until that point I had been pretty upwardly mobile and independent. Achieving every goal I had set fourth; big or small. I was happy with life and myself. It didn't long take for the marriage long to go south. Approximately three or...
    StuckSimply StuckSimply 22-25 6 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Mine sucks. I am in grad school. But I need a solid plan starting sometime before I am finished with grad school. I'm going to start working on it this weekend. It's partially...
    SashaAmazon SashaAmazon 31-35, F Apr 2

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    Honestly, I'm up to my neck In ****. I don't know who I am, I'm torn between two selves and I enjoy being one part and that's the part that my friends know me as- it's not a good...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I love to help addicted people and their families to live a new life. I am living proof, that someone can change their life around to live a respectable, responsible, happy, joyous...
    ruledbyvenus ruledbyvenus 51-55, F Mar 27

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    When I graduate high school, I'm going to start a new life. A clean slate. I'm going to keep a couple of friends and get rid of the other ones that weren't there for me. I'm going...
    GeorgiaPeach03 GeorgiaPeach03 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    It's not easy. I started a new life. Changed everything. Lost so many people because of it. Lost a lot I cared about. And hurt a lot of people. I wasn't happy with my old life. Now...
    Anonymousboy777 Anonymousboy777 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 11

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    I am starting a new life! I have moved abroad now, it's been my first 2 weeks, and tomorrow I'm starting my new job! I don't know anyone, and I live in a cottage with no tv (omg...
    josieo79 josieo79 31-35, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I dont want to. I am. I am starting new life. Past is past even if it's freaking yesterday. Hell with it. I have my family my mom siblings. A good job. I am enjoying it. Oh yeah i...
    chotajhakass chotajhakass 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 10

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    Fantasy... Average looking man, a little younger than me. He greets me with a big smile and asks me how my shift is going, "Fairly busy, but it's Thursday!" I beam with a grin...
    OperationHotness OperationHotness 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I'm in a hole, drugs sex cheating the usual ( no I'm not a smack or crack user) people say it's easy making New friends I kinda find it difficult as I need to lose the crowd I'm in...
    r4ndomman r4ndomman 22-25, M Mar 25

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    I have noticed a lot of the people in my life carry out dull conversations. And they never wanna talk about something new, or talk about other topics. I'd like to meet someone new...
    EliHG23 EliHG23 18-21, M Mar 28

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    I need more friends in real life the problem is that I have a hard time socializing in big groups online is different though cause I'm not face to face
    Maddya Maddya 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    My log, April 17, 2014 I am starting to give up.... I need to focus on myself.... I need to do things for me and stop looking, One day i will be happy, I don't know when, But one...
    Alexob13 Alexob13 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Every time when I talk to someone they don't listen to me and they also don't believe it.They think that I am lying.I cant find any friend that is good for me.I live in this town...
    1Dimples 1Dimples 13-15, F Apr 8

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    i dont really go nude anymore, i guess im just over it. it was a cool faze in my life but im ready to moove on. im gona make a new ep profile that wont include nudism. if you want...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 30

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    Something like that! I'm feeling brand new. You know what that means? It's time to switch it up. I ended up getting my n*pples pierced yesterday, a brand new beautiful hairstyle...
    Lucky1217 Lucky1217 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    My age preferably. And someone who can hold a conversation. About 18 is the highest age I really wanna go to right now. Just someone who can shed some light on my life and make me...
    SasukeUchiha723 SasukeUchiha723 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I wish I could move to another city, meet complete strangers and start my life all over. I could become a new me and never let the others find out about old me.
    daphiedoofie daphiedoofie 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I want to meet someone new,someone who wouldn't be afraid to open up n talk to someone new..some whose down to earth and easy to talk to..inbox me
    sky452 sky452 18-21, F 22 hrs ago

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    I like meeting and making new friends!!!
    meadlingkids meadlingkids 18-21 Mar 30

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    What happened to me over the years? I mean a lot of years too. I don’t even know who I am anymore & I don’t like me either. I just woke up today & I was someone else. I...
    blueeyez1950 blueeyez1950 61-65 Apr 9

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    Anyone out there just tryna meet new people? Just chill out and talk
    Jas1522 Jas1522 18-21, M a week ago

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    I have the chance to start over. For the most part. I'd be someplace I don't really know around people I don't really know, but do know. My life is kind of a mess, because I don't...
    AJlucky AJlucky 22-25, M Mar 24

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    I want to forget everything and everyone except my family. My past is bad. I don't want to remember my past because it's bad. I want to forget everything at the moment but the good...
    Abdulaziz94 Abdulaziz94 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    “Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.”
    Statiq Statiq 31-35, M Mar 21

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    I ask many questions because I'm very, very curious. ;) and I respond to all except personal questions. So, don't be afraid to come talk to me ;) I accept people from 13 years old...
    AlwaysBeAGoodPerson AlwaysBeAGoodPerson 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    Save me. I've wanted to get out since the start of school year, but I just didn't seem to find the right clique. I thought it's going to get better later, but no, it really isn't...
    rouroutaru rouroutaru 18-21 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Don't get me wrong, I do love my friends! But when all they can talk about is anime (which is something I have no knowledge about whatsoever) then things can get really boring.
    TheQueenOfPunkRock TheQueenOfPunkRock 16-17, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have always wanted to move away. My dream has always been to live on the coast, maybe a historic town where they've kept the architecture the same. Just pack my bags and go.
    SECgirl SECgirl 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I want to go to a soccer school in Spain it costs 22,000 euros, I have to pay when I finish school, which is just one year, can someone tell me an idea where or how to make 10,000...
    jgoromo7 jgoromo7 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    “Some women choose to follow men and some women choose to follow their dreams. If you’re wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you...
    april1814 april1814 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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