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I Need a Shoulder to Cry On

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    Gay married man falls

    for another straight man
    Superfive Superfive 41-45, M Apr 27

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    Computer Messaging Just Doesn't Cut It

    For about a year now I have become a total computer junky. I viewed computer as a way to escape life. Going on Facebook and chatting with friends about everything help me, but sometimes when I am really down and thinking about suicide I just want a friend to wrap their arms...
    slightlyscrambled slightlyscrambled 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    So...I had a bad day.

    Typed this fast sorry if there is errors. This really hit me hard today. Our school did a drinking and driving thing today for awareness. And tomorrow. And it was a good idea, but they went to far. The assembly was good, although sad and a lot if people including me cried. The...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 16

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    Every night I am just

    so sad. I scream but nobody hears me. I wave my arms but nobody sees me. I am dying and nobody is there to save me. I have so much I want to say. I have so much that I need to release. I don't know why nobody cares about me. I don't know why everyone pretends there's nothing...
    maulerrr maulerrr 18-21, M Mar 4

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    Hi Eveyone

    my name is georgie i am 29. how is everyone is doing today. if any one want to add me and talk to me u all can add me i do not mind. if any one need to talk about any thing at all u all can add me and talk to me about any thing at all.
    helpingmpdout helpingmpdout 26-30, F Jan 19, 2013

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    Ok I think I have only cried on two people's

    shoulders my entire life. The first person being my mother. The other person being my crazy ex girlfriend after my brother died. I was in such a state that I just broke down and she was there. She held me and I felt such a sense of comfort that I haven't felt for a long time...
    NobodySpecial123 NobodySpecial123 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 10

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    I Hold On For Too Long

    I HOLD ON FOR TOO LONG THINKING HE WOULD CHANGE , BUT IN THE END HE HAS BETRAY ME  AGAING.  I HAVE TO LET GO NOW  I STOP BEING STRONG , MY HEARTS IS SHREAD IN MILLION PIECES   IT HURTS SO BAD  TONIGHT IM GONNA CRY TILL MY TEARS DRY.
    kushuna kushuna 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 22, 2010

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    When Will I Succumb?

    I long for a moment to allow myself to feel, truly feel my emotions, to sink into the arms of someone who would let me just cry on their shoulder.  I am not allowing myself to grieve the loss of one part of my life --- instead I put on a happy face (well not truly happy...
    Lucidblue Lucidblue 36-40, F 4 Responses May 12, 2010

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    Where Do I Start

    I am 32, wow I haven't actually said that out loud before. I am not ashamed mind you. I just feel like the older I get the more the walls are closing in. I have been married almost 10 years and we have a beautiful daughter together, but that's all the good things I have to share...
    MelMel68 MelMel68 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 23, 2013

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    Yes

    My pillow is not human and cannot talk or speak
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 11, 2010

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    Divorced

    Hi...I'm Chris and I just stumbled upon this site after I looked up "a shoulder to cry on". But right before that I was crying because my mom said I was old enough to hear this... She pretty much said my dad was a monster....they have been divorced for 7 to 8 years now and its...
    TopherV TopherV 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 1, 2010

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    My Life

    Well my life is just a mess and i don''t know what to do with it,
    janythweaver janythweaver 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2012

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    Need the strength of strong shoulder to cry on.

    To lean on and let out all the pain I've held in for a long time. I need the strength of a strong shoulder, to not be judgmental but understanding. After the long cry, I need my tears to be dried, to be held and assured that everything will be all right.
    candyblu candyblu 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 13

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    Needs A Shoulder

    I need a shoulder to cry on. I wouldn't cry alone, cause it would make me saddar. Sometimes, it is essential to find someone who cares about you. I don't care who it is, but I would like a shoulder.
    dave0903 dave0903 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 11, 2010

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    *sigh* Just Need Someone

    Seems no one is ever there for me in my dark moments or when I need literally a shoulder to cry on or people do not actually want to be there for me. I'd love for someone to take the time to get to know me, attempt to understand me and just be there. Seems everyone wants someone...
    skygazerlily skygazerlily 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2011

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    It's All Just So Hard.

    With everything going on in my life, I feel I can only turn to two people, one of them moved away. I don't feel I can go the others and have a shoulder to cry on... I feel they don't care and they would just turn around and walk away... especially with the person I have always...
    lovepuppy lovepuppy 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 11, 2009

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    I'm in such a bad way.

    I'd appreciate some kind words off anyone. I have a history of severe depression anyway but events in my life atm are causing me to implode. I have two young daughters from a previous marriage. Iv been with my current partner for nearly 3years. In that time together we have...
    Stiggyb Stiggyb 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    brandond897 brandond897 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    So much emotion I just want to cry to let it out

    and have someone here for me and make me feel better to distract me from everything that's happening around me
    MerpR MerpR 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    Bummer!

    Seriously, life is just bumming me out lately. I've been pretty active on here in my groups because I am trying to wrap my mind around my situation. I hate that all I ever talk about is my inattentive husband, but that is literally the thing in my life that causes me the most...
    MelMel68 MelMel68 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    Pfft. I feel like I need to cry allot this week but can't. I cried yesterday. It wasn't enough.
    Sourminds Sourminds 18-21, F Jun 30

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    Tonight my wife told me she wants to end it. I don't know where it came from. I went by her parents house for dinner next thing I know it she lost it. I can't stop crying and...
    MyStruggleIsMyself MyStruggleIsMyself 31-35, M 4 Responses Jun 30

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    Just need to take it out, I am in pain. Horrible experiences with so-called friends online, at home living in a battle for my life and whatever peace I could have. Obsession with...
    heavensmissinanangel heavensmissinanangel 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    well I just did this not just sometimes for the past 6 months. I cried for pain with my physical condition, joys, laughters, sorrow, depression, anger. But it really helps when you...
    elgie09 elgie09 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Sometimes you can't hold it back anymore. All the emotions you have inside you can't be hold back no longer. The pain, the anger, the loneliness...whatever the hell one is feeling...
    tobias32 tobias32 22-25, M Jul 3

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    I guess that's a moment like now. Is it so cruel to miss my mother? To hear her songs to me, temporarily stabs me. To such an extent, the tears just can't stop. At this point, I...
    thattoughgirlDanny thattoughgirlDanny 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 6

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    I cried today; it was Iike a dam broke. My OCD is driving me up the wall and I don't know what do. I feel like it will be the death of me.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    This birthday All I want Are answers Is that too much to ask for? Will you tell me you love me? Will you even speak to me?
    prettybr0wneyes prettybr0wneyes 16-17, F Jul 19

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    I like to go to igxe.com when I need firefall crystite. Because they give me the cheapest price about firefall crystite and good services. If you want firefall crystite, you can...
    cyingying18 cyingying18 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I hate it when I really need to cry but I can't because there is people around and I always keep it in and at night sometimes I still can't let it all out.
    lalieornelas lalieornelas 13-15, F a week ago

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    hi i want a master with a creative mind. no atomics, bra connection, shoulder, or hanging wedgies otherwise im all yours. i can send pics on snapchat
    juddan juddan 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    New here. I'd like some feedback on how to deal with a two faced, cruel sister in law.... Quick story here it goes in a nutshell. A few years ago my younger brother met (I'll call...
    arganoli arganoli 36-40, F Jul 2

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    Having broad shoulders has its ups and downs. A major upside is that I've been told that I'm extremely huggable. I don't know how many of my girl friends (lol note the separation...
    MindvsHeartAJ MindvsHeartAJ 18-21, T 3 days ago

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    Does anyone have simple tips for cleansing their crystals? I usually do it at a full moon but looking for something that could be done out with that once a month thing?
    suziel suziel 31-35, F 2 Responses 56 mins ago

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    Anyone, any age. I need someone to talk to about all my worries. I'm also going through a tough time, mentally and emotionally. Basically I just need a shoulder to cry on.
    Areiaado Areiaado 13-15, F 10 Responses Jun 30

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    I feel so unbelievably capable. But it seems like what I had hoped for and expected, isn't occurring. I always wanted to be a young married couple - enjoy that for awhile and...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M Jul 3

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    Any takers? Need someone to tell everything to to talk to when im upset and they will give me there shoulder to cry on....thats what i need any takers?
    foreverANDnever14 foreverANDnever14 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I do not wish for some to solve my sadness nor someone to tell me all I am doing wrong. What I need and wish for is someone who will listen, who will feel for me, who will give me...
    NoOneImportantNow NoOneImportantNow 46-50, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    If you need anyone to try to help you through a tough time, i am here. No matter who you are you deserve a good life. First i will tell you a little about me: i am a 14 year old...
    futurediary futurediary 13-15, M Jul 2

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    My really good friend has lupus and is going for life saving surgery. My sisters may have kidney disease and need a transplant. My job is stressful. My trying to change my...
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I'm the best friend anyone could ever have ... I'm loyal, loving, friendly, accepting, a shoulder to cry on and I always make people feel special ... So why won't anyone be my best...
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I love helping others with advice and support and I'll be always be here as a helping hand or a shoulder to cry on.
    Seblett Seblett 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I met a guy through a legit dating service and we hit it off really well. I didn't think anything of it. Then we started emailing and that turned into phone calls and texting, on a...
    notworthtime notworthtime 22-25, F 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    I ache to make someone happy. I ache to make a Girl feel special and worth it. I ache to make a woman feel like she is precious and loved. I want to do that.. I want to make a...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I ache to make someone happy. I ache to make a Girl feel special and worth it. I ache to make a woman feel like she is precious and loved. I want to do that.. I want to make a...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 4 hrs ago

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    I ache to make someone happy. I ache to make a Girl feel special and worth it. I ache to make a woman feel like she is precious and loved. I want to do that.. I want to make a...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 4 hrs ago

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    I ache to make someone happy. I ache to make a Girl feel special and worth it. I ache to make a woman feel like she is precious and loved. I want to do that.. I want to make a...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 3 hrs ago

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    I suppose I have spent so much time in the past four years trying to unravel the constant web that my mum surround me with, that I have become a narcissist myself. I guess that...
    createababe createababe 31-35 Jul 9

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    Today, I made my mom cry and it broke my heart, but I know it broke hers more. To make a long story shorter, I've been lying to my mom about my frequent marijuana use (borderline...
    ayceofspades ayceofspades 18-21 Jul 8

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