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I Need a Shoulder to Cry On

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    Hi...I'm Chris and I just stumbled upon this site after I looked up "a shoulder to cry on". But right before that I was crying because my mom said I was old enough to hear this... She pretty much said my dad was a monster....they have been divorced for 7 to 8 years now and its...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 1, 2010

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    So...I had a bad day.

    Typed this fast sorry if there is errors. This really hit me hard today. Our school did a drinking and driving thing today for awareness. And tomorrow. And it was a good idea, but they went to far. The assembly was good, although sad and a lot if people including me cried. The...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 16

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    Every night I am just

    so sad. I scream but nobody hears me. I wave my arms but nobody sees me. I am dying and nobody is there to save me. I have so much I want to say. I have so much that I need to release. I don't know why nobody cares about me. I don't know why everyone pretends there's nothing...
    maulerrr maulerrr 18-21, M Mar 4

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    My Life

    Well my life is just a mess and i don''t know what to do with it,
    janythweaver janythweaver 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2012

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    Just someone to say "it'll all be alright.

    ." And actually mean it for once.
    akaKitten akaKitten 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 21

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    It's All Just So Hard.

    With everything going on in my life, I feel I can only turn to two people, one of them moved away. I don't feel I can go the others and have a shoulder to cry on... I feel they don't care and they would just turn around and walk away... especially with the person I have always...
    lovepuppy lovepuppy 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 11, 2009

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    Ok I think I have only cried on two people's

    shoulders my entire life. The first person being my mother. The other person being my crazy ex girlfriend after my brother died. I was in such a state that I just broke down and she was there. She held me and I felt such a sense of comfort that I haven't felt for a long time...
    NobodySpecial123 NobodySpecial123 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 10

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    Needs A Shoulder

    I need a shoulder to cry on. I wouldn't cry alone, cause it would make me saddar. Sometimes, it is essential to find someone who cares about you. I don't care who it is, but I would like a shoulder.
    dave0903 dave0903 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 11, 2010

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    I Hold On For Too Long

    I HOLD ON FOR TOO LONG THINKING HE WOULD CHANGE , BUT IN THE END HE HAS BETRAY ME  AGAING.  I HAVE TO LET GO NOW  I STOP BEING STRONG , MY HEARTS IS SHREAD IN MILLION PIECES   IT HURTS SO BAD  TONIGHT IM GONNA CRY TILL MY TEARS DRY.
    kushuna kushuna 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 22, 2010

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    Or a belly. Or thighs.

    Or ribs. Or a chest. Or buttocks.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 21

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    Computer Messaging Just Doesn't Cut It

    For about a year now I have become a total computer junky. I viewed computer as a way to escape life. Going on Facebook and chatting with friends about everything help me, but sometimes when I am really down and thinking about suicide I just want a friend to wrap their arms...
    slightlyscrambled slightlyscrambled 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    I'm in such a bad way.

    I'd appreciate some kind words off anyone. I have a history of severe depression anyway but events in my life atm are causing me to implode. I have two young daughters from a previous marriage. Iv been with my current partner for nearly 3years. In that time together we have...
    Stiggyb Stiggyb 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    Hi Eveyone

    my name is georgie i am 29. how is everyone is doing today. if any one want to add me and talk to me u all can add me i do not mind. if any one need to talk about any thing at all u all can add me and talk to me about any thing at all.
    helpingmpdout helpingmpdout 26-30, F Jan 19, 2013

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    Bummer!

    Seriously, life is just bumming me out lately. I've been pretty active on here in my groups because I am trying to wrap my mind around my situation. I hate that all I ever talk about is my inattentive husband, but that is literally the thing in my life that causes me the most...
    MelMel68 MelMel68 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    brandond897 brandond897 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    Yes

    My pillow is not human and cannot talk or speak
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 11, 2010

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    Need the strength of strong shoulder to cry on.

    To lean on and let out all the pain I've held in for a long time. I need the strength of a strong shoulder, to not be judgmental but understanding. After the long cry, I need my tears to be dried, to be held and assured that everything will be all right.
    candyblu candyblu 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 13

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    When Will I Succumb?

    I long for a moment to allow myself to feel, truly feel my emotions, to sink into the arms of someone who would let me just cry on their shoulder.  I am not allowing myself to grieve the loss of one part of my life --- instead I put on a happy face (well not truly happy...
    Lucidblue Lucidblue 36-40, F 4 Responses May 12, 2010

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    *sigh* Just Need Someone

    Seems no one is ever there for me in my dark moments or when I need literally a shoulder to cry on or people do not actually want to be there for me. I'd love for someone to take the time to get to know me, attempt to understand me and just be there. Seems everyone wants someone...
    skygazerlily skygazerlily 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2011

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    Gay married man falls

    for another straight man
    Superfive Superfive 41-45, M Apr 27

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    Where Do I Start

    I am 32, wow I haven't actually said that out loud before. I am not ashamed mind you. I just feel like the older I get the more the walls are closing in. I have been married almost 10 years and we have a beautiful daughter together, but that's all the good things I have to share...
    MelMel68 MelMel68 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 23, 2013

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    So much emotion I just want to cry to let it out

    and have someone here for me and make me feel better to distract me from everything that's happening around me
    MerpR MerpR 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    I need to.... but I can't...I can't anymore. The tears come and then they just go away. It's hurts... it hurts bad... but what will it solve??? Just another unheard cry... wasted...
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F 5 hrs ago

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    When I'm alone, i cry randomly. Sometimes i cant think of an exact reason why but I just cry. When i'm in bed or in my car. My tears just drop or i cry loud.
    lovemaria93 lovemaria93 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    This year and last year are the most I've cried so far. From last night to a couple days ago I've cried a lot.
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    Please, somebody, anybody. I need a plan to get out that will work. I'm so tired of living like this. I need help. I don't know what to do or where to go. I don't know how to leave...
    26andHurt 26andHurt 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I cry over movies...I cry while reading a book...I cry happy tears and many many sad tears.
    MrsWrong1 MrsWrong1 26-30, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    Anyone ever need someone to talk I am here to listen or let you cry your shoulder on
    BigRalphie74 BigRalphie74 36-40, M Oct 3

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    I have a very serious confession to make.... I pretend like I hate hugs... But I honestly would never let go if you hugged me because i always need a shoulder to cry on... Unless...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 13

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    I need someone who makes me happy. Who would give me his shoulder to cry on. Who takes me for me
    2cuutee4u 2cuutee4u 13-15, F Oct 17

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    If you ever need a shoulder to cry on, an ear to listen, a hand to hold, or an opinion to make sense of all that is wrong. Don't be afraid to send me a message =)
    CaptainCanuck CaptainCanuck 22-25, M Oct 18

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    I've had a ****** week tbh. Too much **** going on. An I'm so fat. I wanna cry and die. But I'm such a failure I can't even do that.
    Kailenalovesyou Kailenalovesyou 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    Talked to some people today and tried my hardest not to cry
    devance devance 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    It has been two months since everything went down and I think I'm ready to talk about it now. He was never my boyfriend. He was somebody that I loved, but our relationship was...
    different33 different33 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 13

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    Keep low profile, keep lower expectations, disappointment is part of life. You will feel miserable at times, you will feel lost, you will find yourself trapped in your decisions...
    izzypie izzypie 36-40, F 7 Responses Oct 2

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    It all started a week ago. I've been struggling with mental illness for a long time, but was always in denial until last weekend. My boyfriend, his sister, and I were all in the...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hi, I really need your advice because I'm a bit confused and rattled. I was with my boyfriend for about 6 months when we first met everything was great, we laughed so much and had...
    Rainrebel Rainrebel 26-30, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    COME HERE. My dear, I miss you. I’ve been waiting for you. I want to wake up first and look at your peaceful face. Kiss your shoulder, neck and finally your lips. Then you would...
    different33 different33 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 8

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    I am so incredibly tired of my bipolar husband and the way he acts Literally today he's been acting like he's lost it completely and I am trying to be there for him but I tell him...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    I just wish I could give some of my EP friends a hug and cry, and they could cry too if they want. I think crying together helps much more than crying alone. Unfortunately it's...
    gomega98 gomega98 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 14

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    Hi all, been awhile since I have been on here. I have been suffering with CP since 2/2012. There have been some months in there where I was okay but for the most part not a day...
    Dani521 Dani521 31-35, F Oct 2

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    Ok, so I'm posting this again in the hope that someone will actually reply this time. So there's this guy I really like, I met him through my friend on skype, so he goes to...
    VolcanoTheDragon VolcanoTheDragon 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    I'm going to tell you guys my perspective on how my depression came to what it is now. This is going to take a while. five years back, I was then 10/11 years old. I had a group...
    RianneK RianneK 16-17, F Oct 15

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    I am a good salesman that is now selling the equivalent of buggy whips. The product isn't needed, available cheaper on the www and my compensation was gone from a high of $85K...
    steverick steverick 56-60, M Oct 15

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    My hair is down to my shoulders which is way to long !!! I can't stand it! I really need a very short haircut! I want my head put down to my chest while I am sheared clipped off...
    mrrs mrrs 41-45, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Yes! Oil me up and rub me down all over but especially my neck and shoulders need it.
    KaitlynS1996 KaitlynS1996 18-21, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've been working really hard this semester. I wish I could work harder, but I already miss a lot of sleep and I need to have a little time to be with some friends. I just took an...
    Indistinct Indistinct 18-21, M 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    And publically too. There is to much dogma about men being weak for crying. That needs to stop. Crying is one of the greatest signs of caring, loving, in over your head and don't...
    AdmiralShadow AdmiralShadow 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 7

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    Ok, reality bites... It's so hard to find her (heavensbluerose) ...!!!! :'( I feel like the prince looking for Cinderella, with only a glass shoe as a lead.. and mind you i...
    Listening2us Listening2us 26-30, F Oct 9

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    It's been one month today since your last text, and I haven't heard from you ever