Post

I Need a Strong, Caring Man In My Life

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 693 People

    He's In My Life Now!!

    Going through life is an experience. Most of mine has been about me, never had any one on my life who has the passion and drive that I do. No one has ever been able to keep up with me. That has ALL changed recently. I have finally met my dream man - my forever man. Strong and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 18, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Get Chosen By Losers Alot

    Why is that? Really, men who seem bold,strong,trusting,honorable..... Then the more they open there mouths,the less you like them.
    IFoundYourDiary IFoundYourDiary 46-50, F 4 Responses Sep 5, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Always End Up In The Friend Zone

    Don't know why it is? Or what I do that I always end up in the friend zone. So frustrated. I can't get over what I feel for my best friend. and I'm going to have to give up the friendship and it's killing me!!!!
    SweetAngelCT SweetAngelCT 26-30 2 Responses Feb 11, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I really miss having a man especially

    now that I'm 7 months pregnant such a sad life ugh I miss the cuddling and kissing the sex god I just want it back
    crazyheartedfool crazyheartedfool 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 1

    Your Response

    Cancel

    True, And...

    The man in the photo will do. Oops, I mean the abs in the photo will do! ;)
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 16, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Need A Man Who Can Look Past My Disability

    I wish I could meet someone who would look past my outward appearance - my hand deformities, my limp from my artificial leg - and see what a truly good woman I am. I have a lot to offer someone but no man will try to get to know me. I have tried online sites and have made...
    jenjen316 jenjen316 36-40, F 16 Responses Apr 14, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Strong, caring, faithful,

    honest.... is that too much to ask for?
    lss0807 lss0807 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Getting Too Old To Lean On Dad

    I've come to appreciate my dad more and more as I've gotten older. When I was younger, I decided it'd be better for me to focus on career vs. marriage (my parents' marriage wasn't good in my young eyes). Now I've got a successful career, house, savings, but am alone. I still...
    jacqdn jacqdn 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 23, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Am Hurting For A Caring, Strong Man .

    In my past I was hurt by several men, but I know a man is out there for me. I am disabled and have low self-esteem do to these men. I am twice divorced, because they were abusive to me. I want a man how will not hurt me and make fun of me. I like camping, fishing, and being...
    ts0777 ts0777 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 15, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Yep indeed, someone who loves me

    for me and accepts my baldness. Someone who makes me feel pretty and like a woman.
    AchingSoul AchingSoul 22-25, F 2 Responses May 6

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Know There Has To Be Some One Out There

    that want to be loved and treated with repsect that has no problem with a boy that has never grown up who will understand they will never replace my first love but you know what theyhave a first love too many will tell you the worst love you can share with another is a soul...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Aug 16, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Ok xxx Well it's happened

    and it's the coolest thing in the world x It's a little complicated but he's just right and unexpected but glad of him xxx :) x
    LT167 LT167 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Want A Family Now.

    I've always been attracted to men of another race. I don't think it has anything to do with them being white, I think it's just who I've been around my entire life. I assume that the man I married will be white as well. One thing I hate is men that are interested in me BECAUSE I...
    mommyandwifematerial mommyandwifematerial 18-21, F Jun 6, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Someone To Look Past Who I Am Inside

    Im Always Trying To Look Perfect I Was Diagnosed With Body Dismorphia Disorder When I Was Twelve I Have Changed Alot. 4 Years Ago I was A Dark Bobbed Haired Mixed Raced Chubby Girl I hated Who I Was And How I Looked I Felt Like I Didnt Look Normal Like Deformed  a Alien Nobody...
    xXBonnieBobXx xXBonnieBobXx 16-17, F Aug 15, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Love Men.

    I know I need a man. A strong man by my side. The reason why I love men so much, is safety. When those big, strong arms are around me, I feel invincible. When I feel that warm body so close to me, the world can fall apart and I won't even notice it. When I will look at man and...
    different33 different33 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    10 Things My Man Has To Know...

    My potential mate for eternity should be capable of accomplishing the following tasks... 1. should know how to cross the street and help me in that as well and never ever leave me behind. 2.should at least wear a white (sexy)shirt once a week for my eyes. 3.should make me coffee...
    wingsgirl wingsgirl 22-25, F 8 Responses Jun 20, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Hey.. I Can Be There For You For Ever!

    Hey guys, my name is Medo, I'm 22 years old and I'm so ready to get in a serious relationship with somebody who really wants to be there for me just for that reason, somebody who needs a really strong romantic lover in her life, some girl who believe in love, respects her lover...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 27, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Will It Always Be This Way?

    i am really dedicated to my studies and i am also a planner. i plan ahead for everything and make sure that whatever i do will benefit me. but my problem is that no one understands and always wants me to do stuff for them. DO IT YOURSELF I DONT WORK FOR YOU. i will do what i want...
    armystrong21harding armystrong21harding 31-35 Mar 20, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Tall, Dominating, And Handsome

    Tall, handsome, green gray eyes and a cute smile, never have I found myself so entranced by a pair of eyes that shine like the stars themselves. Never did I even imagine that I would melt like butter on warm toast whenever he calls me “beautiful.” Some may call him...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 1, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Whew!!!

    I don't need a strong man beside me but I sure do want one. I am the mom of 4 kids. Ages 14,20,23,28. I have been married for 20 plus years. Only the youngest is with my husband. We are now separated. I left because in the total 20 years he has not had a stable job. I've always...
    Newlightel Newlightel 41-45 2 Responses Apr 15, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    First of all I am guy,

    a gay guy. I always have the idea about having someone in my life, someone that can take care of me, someone that will stand by me. When I was in college I have a friend, a straight one, he was a very nice guy to me. He took care of me in many way, he knows that I'm gay but...
    stjerome stjerome 22-25, M Jan 15

    Your Response

    Cancel

    A real man never whines.

    He silence himself while finding solution. He doesn't blame anyone for his mistakes neither threatens anybody  when he's weak. He knows how to tame his woman with gentle sweetness and endearing love.
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 5

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Want A Family Now.

    I've always been attracted to men of another race. I don't think it has anything to do with them being white, I think it's just who I've been around my entire life. I assume that the man I married will be white as well. One thing I hate is men that are interested in me BECAUSE I...
    mommyandwifematerial mommyandwifematerial 18-21, F Jun 6, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Feeling Safe And Protected..

    I have a strong and caring man in my life...he's everything that I've ever wanted, strong.. funny...intelligent...kind...considerate...romantic....sensitive...and handsome to boot...;) I'm blessed to have him...and will never take him for granted....
    blackgirl71 blackgirl71 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 12, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Strong Caring Man = Mythical Creature

    I'm not so sure that I NEED anyone in my life, but it would be nice to know that there are men out there that arent b*tches. Seems I can meet the nicest of people and I just bring out the worst in them. I've had to narrow my search criteria down to, someone who doesnt cheat or...
    WakgUp WakgUp 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 30, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I need a man who will love me

    for me. Not someone who just wants to get in my pants. A man who values and considers my feelings, a man that will love me unconditionally. I need someone who will make me feel cherished, who will stand up for me and protect me. A man who knows how to have fun, who knows how to...
    FireQueen10 FireQueen10 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 30

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm Just Lonely...

    Having one great friend means more than a handful of good ones, But when your bed is empty at night and no one to hold, A friend can't take the place of a strong, caring man. A man who can keep you warm when you're cold. A man whose eyes are there for you to stare into, to get...
    Joyce904 Joyce904 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I feel like I'm never going to find the guy

    for me. I want to find a guy that doesn't want sex all the time but can still be flirty. Someone that cares for what I have to say, but will be man enough to tell me how he feels also. Am I asking to much or does that guy exist??
    TBerkins TBerkins 18-21, T 1 Response May 15

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Idea Of A Strong Man.

    What does it mean to be a strong man? In my humble opinion, being a strong man is more about the mental state of a man rather than his physic. Being a strong man means being your own man. You aren’t attempting to be someone else. It means doing what you can do today instead of...
    lovely618 lovely618 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Old Male Looking For A Older Friend

    looking for a friend that would like to be treated right cand can return the favor old fashion in some ways beiliev in holding hand and walk that way believe in opening door and pulling out chairs
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jun 18, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I just need time for myself. Everything is just making me overwhelmed with life. Got school, then family, the whole moving from another place, Theater, and there are just people...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F Sep 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I feel like I need a relationship and I am a good and romantic and nice caring guy
    trew5432 trew5432 13-15, M Sep 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ever since I was little, I was told I'm no good, nothing will come of me, no one will love me, etc. I've never had anyone to encourage me, stand up for me & protect me (not even...
    genie1981 genie1981 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    2 more days til my man is realeased! I'm so excited I haven't seen him in 3 months! And only in the last month been in contact with him over the ph as he is several hours away from...
    xox0xox xox0xox 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My life is stressing me out. I really need vacation
    ClaireBlack08 ClaireBlack08 13-15, F Aug 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Just a week away from the stress and trials of life would be fine. I don't need/want a holiday, just the freedom to relax without stress at home. That would be marvellous.
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I just am numb and sleepwalking through it because I have forgotten how to have a life.
    anarchycupcakes anarchycupcakes 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    In my hole life in was alway active. In love to hike, to cycle, to run ... I love to feel my body getting tired after my activities. I am aventural and want to get deep in...
    newtheo newtheo 46-50, M Sep 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    those days where u just hate everyone and u just wanna punch someone in the face
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I just want to surround my self with real deeply connected individuals, some folks who just are okay with thereselves and myself just the way we are. No fronts, no fake, no drama...
    Smiletoday33 Smiletoday33 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    What are the main things that push you men away in a relationship? And if you women was insecure about your ex's how would you reassure her?
    lollypop61 lollypop61 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm tiered of constantly not getting rest ! I go to school , get on bus, school ends get on bus, go home do homework...... Then get on bus and same routine over and over I don't...
    yassbishh yassbishh 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am angry today. This has been a long time coming, because I am the type to absorb rejection, heartbreak, insults, all the negativity in my life. I get "mad" and I "rant" for a...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F Aug 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have a psychological need to have a man in my life. I like women as friends VERY MUCH. But I need a man who is kind and gentle and caring and who wants a platonic relationship...
    SorrowofHeart SorrowofHeart 51-55, F 3 Responses Sep 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    At Benchmark Recovery drug and alcohol rehab in Austin, we donR17;t guarantee any miracle cures; nevertheless, we will give you an alternate recovery that will not cause you to...
    Joshua603b4zn8 Joshua603b4zn8 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    On some levels I'm mature for my age, on others I still have a lot of work to do. I avoid certain people and situations that cause me discomfort and tension. I have to learn to...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F Aug 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Without love, I'm weak. Without it, I'm undetermined. Without love, I'm lost, immersed in petty desires and endless doom. I'm dying and unaware of it, aiding the destruction of...
    learlear learlear 31-35, M 19 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I looooove a dominant man! That hardness, and strong, and just manly !!!! I'm somewhat submissive, so he and I would get along GREAT!
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Wish I knew one.. My dad never knew his and they always physically and verbally fought. My dad treated me like **** the same way, we fought, and he's no longer in my life. My...
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've recently started reading the book "Power Thoughts" by Joyce Meyer, and I definitely feel as though God is revealing just how important a role my own thoughts play in battling...
    Galatia123 Galatia123 26-30, F Aug 27

    Your Response

    Cancel