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I Need a Strong, Caring Man In My Life

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    Someone To Look Past Who I Am Inside

    Im Always Trying To Look Perfect I Was Diagnosed With Body Dismorphia Disorder When I Was Twelve I Have Changed Alot. 4 Years Ago I was A Dark Bobbed Haired Mixed Raced Chubby Girl I hated Who I Was And How I Looked I Felt Like I Didnt Look Normal Like Deformed  a Alien Nobody...
    xXBonnieBobXx xXBonnieBobXx 16-17, F Aug 15, 2011

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    Ok xxx Well it's happened

    and it's the coolest thing in the world x It's a little complicated but he's just right and unexpected but glad of him xxx :) x
    LT167 LT167 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2014

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    Whew!!!

    I don't need a strong man beside me but I sure do want one. I am the mom of 4 kids. Ages 14,20,23,28. I have been married for 20 plus years. Only the youngest is with my husband. We are now separated. I left because in the total 20 years he has not had a stable job. I've always...
    Newlightel Newlightel 41-45 2 Responses Apr 15, 2012

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    I Love Men.

    I know I need a man. A strong man by my side. The reason why I love men so much, is safety. When those big, strong arms are around me, I feel invincible. When I feel that warm body so close to me, the world can fall apart and I won't even notice it. When I will look at man and...
    different33 different33 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2012

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    He's In My Life Now!!

    Going through life is an experience. Most of mine has been about me, never had any one on my life who has the passion and drive that I do. No one has ever been able to keep up with me. That has ALL changed recently. I have finally met my dream man - my forever man. Strong and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 18, 2012

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    My Idea Of A Strong Man.

    What does it mean to be a strong man? In my humble opinion, being a strong man is more about the mental state of a man rather than his physic. Being a strong man means being your own man. You aren’t attempting to be someone else. It means doing what you can do today instead of...
    lovely618 lovely618 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2011

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    oi ladies hmu I have a asthetically pleasing

    genitals, I'm on roids, they are doing a number on my balls though... and I have a high iQ.
    TheExperienceProject TheExperienceProject 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 20

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    I Am Hurting For A Caring, Strong Man .

    In my past I was hurt by several men, but I know a man is out there for me. I am disabled and have low self-esteem do to these men. I am twice divorced, because they were abusive to me. I want a man how will not hurt me and make fun of me. I like camping, fishing, and being...
    ts0777 ts0777 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 15, 2011

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    Feeling Safe And Protected..

    I have a strong and caring man in my life...he's everything that I've ever wanted, strong.. funny...intelligent...kind...considerate...romantic....sensitive...and handsome to boot...;) I'm blessed to have him...and will never take him for granted....
    blackgirl71 blackgirl71 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 12, 2010

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    Yep indeed, someone who loves me

    for me and accepts my baldness. Someone who makes me feel pretty and like a woman.
    AchingSoul AchingSoul 22-25, F 2 Responses May 6, 2014

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    I'm Just Lonely...

    Having one great friend means more than a handful of good ones, But when your bed is empty at night and no one to hold, A friend can't take the place of a strong, caring man. A man who can keep you warm when you're cold. A man whose eyes are there for you to stare into, to get...
    Joyce904 Joyce904 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2010

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    scancelm scancelm 31-35, M Jan 20

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    Strong, caring, faithful,

    honest.... is that too much to ask for?
    lss0807 lss0807 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12, 2014

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    I have a caring man. He's just not very strong

    as in the sense of being a man open to compromising. And being attentive to his woman needs.
    Hteag Hteag 26-30, F Jan 19

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    I really miss having a man especially

    now that I'm 7 months pregnant such a sad life ugh I miss the cuddling and kissing the sex god I just want it back
    crazyheartedfool crazyheartedfool 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 1, 2014

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    Hey.. I Can Be There For You For Ever!

    Hey guys, my name is Medo, I'm 22 years old and I'm so ready to get in a serious relationship with somebody who really wants to be there for me just for that reason, somebody who needs a really strong romantic lover in her life, some girl who believe in love, respects her lover...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 27, 2011

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    I need a man who will love me

    for me. Not someone who just wants to get in my pants. A man who values and considers my feelings, a man that will love me unconditionally. I need someone who will make me feel cherished, who will stand up for me and protect me. A man who knows how to have fun, who knows how to...
    FireQueen10 FireQueen10 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 30, 2014

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    i love my boyfriend to bits.

    .. but i find that i feel the need to seek attention... from him, im always reaching out to him but feel as though its not enough. lately he has been diverting his calls.. he sees that i call and msge him and he only ever responds when it ever suits him, at his time. i dont feel...
    rivanile rivanile 26-30, F Jan 20

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    I Get Chosen By Losers Alot

    Why is that? Really, men who seem bold,strong,trusting,honorable..... Then the more they open there mouths,the less you like them.
    IFoundYourDiary IFoundYourDiary 46-50, F 4 Responses Sep 5, 2012

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    Always End Up In The Friend Zone

    Don't know why it is? Or what I do that I always end up in the friend zone. So frustrated. I can't get over what I feel for my best friend. and I'm going to have to give up the friendship and it's killing me!!!!
    SweetAngelCT SweetAngelCT 26-30 2 Responses Feb 11, 2011

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    the perfect man dosent exist,

    so thats never gonna happen to me
    cynR1993 cynR1993 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    I am putting it out there

    that the next man I date will be a STRONG man. If I am to date, I need a man who is strong in himself. I spent the last two years of my life coddling and hand holding a man who was not strong enough in himself to withstand life's pressures, to find centeredness and security in...
    Elsahen Elsahen 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    Yeah when I turn 25 right

    now I'm 17 I just want boyfriend
    ciarajones179 ciarajones179 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    I Know There Has To Be Some One Out There

    that want to be loved and treated with repsect that has no problem with a boy that has never grown up who will understand they will never replace my first love but you know what theyhave a first love too many will tell you the worst love you can share with another is a soul...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Aug 16, 2011

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    Strong Caring Man = Mythical Creature

    I'm not so sure that I NEED anyone in my life, but it would be nice to know that there are men out there that arent b*tches. Seems I can meet the nicest of people and I just bring out the worst in them. I've had to narrow my search criteria down to, someone who doesnt cheat or...
    WakgUp WakgUp 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 30, 2011

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    Yes, A man who's has strong,

    serous mind about a good relationship.
    ismael2504 ismael2504 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 20

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    I Want A Family Now.

    I've always been attracted to men of another race. I don't think it has anything to do with them being white, I think it's just who I've been around my entire life. I assume that the man I married will be white as well. One thing I hate is men that are interested in me BECAUSE I...
    mommyandwifematerial mommyandwifematerial 18-21, F Jun 6, 2012

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    Getting Too Old To Lean On Dad

    I've come to appreciate my dad more and more as I've gotten older. When I was younger, I decided it'd be better for me to focus on career vs. marriage (my parents' marriage wasn't good in my young eyes). Now I've got a successful career, house, savings, but am alone. I still...
    jacqdn jacqdn 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 23, 2009

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    I Need A Man Who Can Look Past My Disability

    I wish I could meet someone who would look past my outward appearance - my hand deformities, my limp from my artificial leg - and see what a truly good woman I am. I have a lot to offer someone but no man will try to get to know me. I have tried online sites and have made...
    jenjen316 jenjen316 36-40, F 15 Responses Apr 14, 2010

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    Will It Always Be This Way?

    i am really dedicated to my studies and i am also a planner. i plan ahead for everything and make sure that whatever i do will benefit me. but my problem is that no one understands and always wants me to do stuff for them. DO IT YOURSELF I DONT WORK FOR YOU. i will do what i want...
    armystrong21harding armystrong21harding 31-35 Mar 20, 2012

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    A real man never whines.

    He silence himself while finding solution. He doesn't blame anyone for his mistakes neither threatens anybody  when he's weak. He knows how to tame his woman with gentle sweetness and endearing love.
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 5, 2014

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    First of all I am guy,

    a gay guy. I always have the idea about having someone in my life, someone that can take care of me, someone that will stand by me. When I was in college I have a friend, a straight one, he was a very nice guy to me. He took care of me in many way, he knows that I'm gay but...
    stjerome stjerome 22-25, M Jan 15, 2014

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    I hate only being 14.

    I don't want a little boy, I want a real man. And I wish it was legal.
    AtlPunk1D AtlPunk1D 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    Tall, Dominating, And Handsome

    Tall, handsome, green gray eyes and a cute smile, never have I found myself so entranced by a pair of eyes that shine like the stars themselves. Never did I even imagine that I would melt like butter on warm toast whenever he calls me “beautiful.” Some may call him...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 1, 2009

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    I Want A Family Now.

    I've always been attracted to men of another race. I don't think it has anything to do with them being white, I think it's just who I've been around my entire life. I assume that the man I married will be white as well. One thing I hate is men that are interested in me BECAUSE I...
    mommyandwifematerial mommyandwifematerial 18-21, F Jun 6, 2012

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    Hello, ladies. So, I hope you don't mind,

    but I'm a single, straight guy looking for a real relationship. Please don't go yet. I'm hoping for some advice. I feel deeply like I am exactly the "strong, caring man" that so many women say they want. I take of myself and others. I'm in good shape and fairly good-looking (I'd...
    Praeteritus Praeteritus 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 23, 2014

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    I feel like I'm never going to find the guy

    for me. I want to find a guy that doesn't want sex all the time but can still be flirty. Someone that cares for what I have to say, but will be man enough to tell me how he feels also. Am I asking to much or does that guy exist??
    TBerkins TBerkins 18-21, T 1 Response May 15, 2014

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    10 Things My Man Has To Know...

    My potential mate for eternity should be capable of accomplishing the following tasks... 1. should know how to cross the street and help me in that as well and never ever leave me behind. 2.should at least wear a white (sexy)shirt once a week for my eyes. 3.should make me coffee...
    wingsgirl wingsgirl 22-25, F 8 Responses Jun 20, 2012

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    If wishes were horses,

    beggars would ride......seriously you kidding me?? I need a Rockstar, ain't getting one in this lifetime.
    destiny2015 destiny2015 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    minnieccaa minnieccaa 26-30, F Jan 19

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