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    Mourning For A Ghost That Never Lived

    He was all a lie , all he told me about himself , his personality , reasons for his break up and his relationship with an ex was a lie , his imaginary friends that he spoke about so much , maybe even his feelings for me. He created this person that I fell in love with hook line...
    Missreedy Missreedy 31-35 5 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    I am so emotionally out of control lately.

    Anyone have any answers as to why this is? I know partly is because I am sleep deprived, but I just wake up so paranoid and on guard. I don't know why, but it's really starting to freak me out. I have a new bf and I really don't want to scare him away with how I've been acting...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 20

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    I was for seven months in relationship with my

    boyfriend but because I aborted our baby at 10 weeks, he has felt betrayed and that I do not commit to him anymore in his opinion. Maybe the baby was a step I couldn't take with at the moment but still, I was always 100% into us. I cleaned his house, cooked for him mainly while...
    nanaddict78 nanaddict78 18-21, F Nov 5

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    Me and my boyfriend has been together

    for 2 months now. And we known each other for 2 1/2 year before we started dating. I have real strong feeling for him and this year he is enlisting for the Marine's and I don't know what to do!! I don't want this amazing relationship to end. I'm falling in love with him and he...
    HakunaMatata711 HakunaMatata711 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Help?? :C

    we only have one month left together before he leaves :/ and every day seems to go by so quick. i love him so much i dont wanna let go of what we have but i was never one to believe in long distance relationships. ive seen the way people get hurt and just thinking bout it makes...
    marie70413 marie70413 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2013

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    I've been dating a guy

    for a month now, he's lovely and we have a good time together. Last night we went out to a bar and had a couple of drinks, everything was going great and then he put his hand on me down there. It really threw me and as soon as he did it I told him he can't just touch me like...
    Ver24 Ver24 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 28

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    So my ex and I started talking again

    after 2 years. We saw each other again & lost my virginity to him . I talked to him about giving our relationship a second chance & he accepted. Days later he just stopped talking to me . I texted him asking if " everything was fine" he responded 5 days later saying his always...
    AleAlv31 AleAlv31 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I am 24 years old and my husband is 52.

    I am having a hard time with our sex life. He is older and suffers from some ED. When I give him a BJ he loves it and can stay amazingly hard. Recently when I can't go anymore and I get on top he goes soft on me. I can't help but feel like it's not good enough for him. That he...
    jellybean707 jellybean707 22-25, F Dec 2

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    For those who read my other posts here's an

    update to what's been happening. Since Friday when my boyfriend told me he didn't a relationship and wanted to be alone. That same night he came to realization that he does want to be with me and I can tell through his attitude and the way he was with me but I feel broken...
    MileyyV MileyyV 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    If anyone is good at relationship stuff

    and could give me some advice I am open to it.
    amyrnmca amyrnmca 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I miss you so much. You only seem to want to

    talk to me when we talk about sex, even though you say you like me back :( why can't we just sit down and talk? :(
    lottie1996 lottie1996 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    This guy recently asked me out like 4 days ago,

    and I said yes. I dunno if this is reality or a fantasy but I wanted a bf who was gonna text me good morning and goodnight and wanna hang out and cuddle...and he doesn't do any of that. When he does text me, he just says hey and replies with a few words and takes hours to reply...
    Cece4 Cece4 18-21, F 8 Responses Nov 20

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    I struggle with the beginning part of starting

    a relationship, girls say, "I don't wanna mess up and rush into things." I'm like 2weeks is enuff, we both like each other, then let's date!?. What is the point in waiting for so long?
    Ison56 Ison56 16-17, M Dec 9

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    The Best Advice I'Ve Heard.

    This was from the play, Madea goes to jail. Yes, she's/he's crazy and funny. (To me) But this scene was honestly the biggest eye opener. "Sonny: What am I supposed to do now? Madea: Get up and go on with your life. It's all right to sit around and be depressed for a minute...
    IWillMakeYouThink IWillMakeYouThink 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    I don't know what to do anymore.

    He refuses to acknowledge our relationship at work. And I have just left the work Christmas party early because he refused to talk to me. He acts like I am overreacting to everything because I'm crazy. Which I am. I don't want to be without him because away from work we are good...
    Jodiechristine88 Jodiechristine88 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have been dating this wonderful guy

    for the past nine months. He is from another country and his work visa will expire soon. He leaves in two weeks to go back home. We are madly in love with each other but the problem is he doesn't want to stay in my country because of the job he is in. And he asked me to come to...
    kiearadroaga kiearadroaga 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    Alright guys so I'm at breaking point.

    ..I thought I was a few months ago, but now this is it. I have no idea what to do, what to think, and what's real and what's not. I've been talking or seeing this guy you could say for over a year. At first, it was just something casual. We both had gotten dumped by the people we...
    brittersnicole brittersnicole 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 15

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    I'm in a long distance relationship.

    We see each other once in a month or two for a few days. He always comes to my place because I'm in collegue and don't have the time or money to come see him in his town and also have my one apartament (when I'm not on holidays for the summer). We met when he was in college in...
    Naginii Naginii 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I'll get straight to the point: I like a guy,

    he's 18 and I'm 15 (I really don't care about age). He's just turned 18 so yeahh. Anyway I'm not sure if he knows I like him? I mean I think I said it once but he never takes any notice and he just plays dumb. Does he not like me or does he know I like him but kind of playing...
    WeCouldBeDead WeCouldBeDead 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    So, I love my boyfriend,

    very much. Well actually he's my fiancé, so obviously I love him enough that once upon a time I said yes to marrying him. Lately it seems that everything is about him, nothing that matters to me is important. He asks me to look for something I want for Christmas, so when we are...
    AlicebeneyisSilvereyes AlicebeneyisSilvereyes 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 11

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    How do you know if you're still in love with

    someone after so long, or if you're just comfortable? It's hard. I'm married. We're struggling financially. Like, really struggling. We fight all the time. It's been a rough few months. I'm not happy. But it's hard to know if I'm not happy because of the situation, or because...
    traumaorange traumaorange 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 10

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    is it a bad sign if you told someone you like

    them and they cease all communication with you? what should i do? i still want to be friends with him, even if he doesn't like me.....
    CiaraCollin15 CiaraCollin15 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    I am 13 years old and I have a boyfriend.

    Yes, it is a little young but I love him and please don't say I'm to young to know what love is. Anyways, it's almost a year and I want to get him something but he will never tell me what he wants and says I'm his present. Any ideas. His favorite color is red, he likes football...
    Serenity369 Serenity369 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    What is the (or Is there) difference between

    liking someone and liking the relationship?
    RayrayM RayrayM 16-17, M Nov 24

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    AM I Being Used?

    Im sorry its kinda long PLEASe read it and give me your advice i need help:( Ok so ive been talking to this guy for 7 months and hes super sweet. He made me a necklace on valentines day and dedicated a song to me but hes never asked me on a legit date and all we do is hookup...
    confused7754 confused7754 16-17, F 56 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    I recently broke up with my ex.

    He try's to get back with me but like I don't want to and at the same time I do. He has been rude to me, he has forgotten to try for me or us, like he won't tell me these things he used to say when we were at our 2 months. He does things and he realizes that he's wrong but he...
    cookiez6u6 cookiez6u6 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 13

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    I need some serious relationship advice.

    My boyfriend proposed to me in January. He stopped being affectionate maybe a month before that. I moved to a new state to be with him and to marry him- but things seem to be falling apart. It seemed like he was no longer attracted to me (never wanted to kiss, cuddle, have sex...
    amgasan amgasan 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 27

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    I know I love my boyfriend -

    when I'm calm I feel happy reading his messages, and even the slightest bit fuzzy. But right now everything is being dampened by anxiety. I worry I don't feel enough for him, which in turn makes me feel less since I'm anxious - it's a vicious cycle. Does anyone know any ways I...
    LittleClouds LittleClouds 18-21, F Dec 5

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    Have you ever wanted to tell someone how

    perfect they are, but are too scared to do it?
    SlowlyDrifting SlowlyDrifting 13-15, F 6 Responses Aug 5

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    I'm losing sleep due to the situation I'm in

    so I would appreciate a lot of opinions bc I'm very confused on how the guy feels and what I should do! I'm 17 turning 18 in August, the guy is 24, we just started working together in November at a restaurant. Ever since the first day I thought we just clicked bc we have a lot...
    bluecrush42 bluecrush42 18-21, F Mar 2

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    Alexcity Alexcity 18-21, M Dec 9

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    My Girlfreind of 1 year 3 months.

    I've recently begun to not want to talk to her, to tell her i just want to be freinds. sometimes i feel like i need a feind more than i need a girlfriend and those times she's there for me, but not as a freind, but as a girlfreind. she's a year behind me (recently graduated...
    xbooow59 xbooow59 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 3

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    I've been living with my partner

    for 3 months now and everyday of the week he hangs with his friends. I get home from work and he's either out with them or they're at my house. Should this be a worry or should I be happy for him that he has a group of good friends? I've told him that it would be nice...
    Iamthecutegirl Iamthecutegirl 18-21, F 5 Responses May 28

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    Am i crazy? I look around

    and see all my friends in serious relationships, some married and some with kids. I feel like i am ready to at least start working towards all this. I am ready to have a mature relationship for once. One that can eventually lead to something better. Makes it so much harder since...
    tig1991 tig1991 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 12

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    So I am in love with my uber sexy model

    boyfriend and my sweet best friend of 8 years. It sounds like a movie or a novel and I can't help but laugh how did I end up in this situation. So here it goes. My boyfriend is the typical sexy bad boy I know he loves me but sometimes he is also very moody. He has lots of...
    Findurvoice02 Findurvoice02 18-21 1 Response Dec 11

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    Nottobeohsoblunt Nottobeohsoblunt 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 27

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    im tired. Its been almost 4 years.

    but lately all I can think about is other guys. guys that take care of themselves. that listen to me. that feeling when you first date someone, that freedom and excitement. its been almost a year since he hasn't had a job again. I'm tired of supporting him. I'm only 21 and I...
    leeniebubbles leeniebubbles 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 3

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    Need girlfriend advice

    for myself. I have been dating this women I met back in July of this year. I need advice on how to proceed. Can you ladies message me so I can ask you thoughts. Thank you In advance.
    Stonecold1 Stonecold1 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 30

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    Ok guys. So there's a boy

    and he and I have been friends for a month or two. And I really like him. And I know he likes me back. But he wants to treat a girl right and get to know her before he asks her out and before that he's gonna ask her dad. I really like him. And the guy and I talk about...
    awkwardtaco2001 awkwardtaco2001 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 20

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    To all the boys out there WHO DO NOT UNDERSTAND

    THEIR WOMEN... The girl who irritates you (but treat you well) the most is the one who is MOST MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOU. A woman will "baby" you, get jealous, ask questions and you may hate it and resent her for it but understand that it's a woman's natural instinct to care for...
    mdkp mdkp 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 27

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    Hi, so let me throw down this scenario to you

    guys the best way possible. I love my boyfriend, been together and lived together for over a year and a half. Since week 2 of our relationship he has struggled with his incapability to handle his drinking. I have saved his life twice, from sticking my fingers down his throat to...
    kolo1463 kolo1463 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    I'm married.....2 1/2 long years

    now w 2 kids, however our children passed away (severe complex heart issues) my husband & I got thru our daughters death in 2012 okay, as for our son in 2013 not so much. We ended up splitting up for about 7 mo. Got bk together in May 2014 lalala. Alright well things r good till...
    DRB92 DRB92 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 25

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    I need advice please from any one no negativity

    I recently ran into a guy I went to highschool with we have been talking for a month now we hang out and he calls me everyday or txts me I really like him and i know he likes me also we act like a couple when we are togetherthe problem is we stated from the beginning because we...
    slynn999 slynn999 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I have an online boyfriend we've been

    for a year already, we never met yet in real. as we all experience, relationships has its ups and downs. we broke up and went quickly to another relationship. he had it with my bestfriend and me with another man. mine only lasted 3 months. him only a month. after my break up of...
    IAMPINAY IAMPINAY 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 26

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    Im so confused I need answers.

    . Okay so im currently in a relationship with my boyfriend of 1 year and 5 months. We could have been together for 2 years and 5 months but He broke up with me on August 28,2013 I was broken heated Devastated scared and well broken completely. We didn't get back months passed...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 20

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    when you feel like you meet the person thats

    right for you and it's a long distance relationship what would any of you people do about it? like would you wait for them and try to make it work even though you guys won't meet for like 8 years? I'm so lost on what to do and I feel like i'm failing at something, can someone...
    Zoned1 Zoned1 22-25, M 3 Responses Sep 23

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    I still dont know whether to start this

    relation or no. Im not sure if i love him. This is so confusing Any advice
    Bagh8 Bagh8 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 8

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    Ok, so I must say that this is a little odd to

    say. Like, sex should be engraved in our brains right? We should already know immediately how to do it, how to make it more exciting, how to satisfy one another. But thing is, I don't. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend last year. I've had a couple boyfriends before him, but...
    eanchantedeyes eanchantedeyes 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    I like someone that I shouldn't,

    I don't know how to stop liking them they are completely wrong for me!!!
    sharz16 sharz16 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    I wpuld love to be a guy

    for one day/week. Maybe that will tell me what guys thinks and how they function.
    jumpingoffthecliff jumpingoffthecliff 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 19

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    Soo I became friends with a co worker.

    Brfore even, I had found him attractive but I'm happily taken. We only talked for work purposes at first but then he revealed he felt a certain way about me. I tried to cut him off and avoid him but I'm starting to feel ... Ways
    girlonfire601 girlonfire601 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 16

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