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I Need Advice On Relationships

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    I'm in a long term relationship

    and I have a cancerous brain tumour. I am very happy with my life and the love I have for others and myself. I have decided to shave my head for charity to help cancer research to help with finding cures for cancers that are still a mystery to us all. I am soon having surgery on...
    xxEMOtionalxx xxEMOtionalxx 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I'll get straight to the point: I like a guy,

    he's 18 and I'm 15 (I really don't care about age). He's just turned 18 so yeahh. Anyway I'm not sure if he knows I like him? I mean I think I said it once but he never takes any notice and he just plays dumb. Does he not like me or does he know I like him but kind of playing...
    CallMeChelsea CallMeChelsea 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    anyone can help ?! ..

    message me please
    viamneera viamneera 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I'm losing sleep due to the situation I'm in

    so I would appreciate a lot of opinions bc I'm very confused on how the guy feels and what I should do! I'm 17 turning 18 in August, the guy is 24, we just started working together in November at a restaurant. Ever since the first day I thought we just clicked bc we have a lot...
    bluecrush42 bluecrush42 18-21, F Mar 2

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    If anyone is good at relationship stuff

    and could give me some advice I am open to it.
    amyrnmca amyrnmca 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    jumpingoffthecliff jumpingoffthecliff 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    I like someone that I shouldn't,

    I don't know how to stop liking them they are completely wrong for me!!!
    sharz16 sharz16 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    How do you gain/build trust back in a

    relationship? (Being the woman) Please, anything is helpful at this point.
    ShadowedLover ShadowedLover 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 28

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    Okay so I have this FWB

    and I don't know how I feel about him. He gets me mad but always makes me forgive him easily, he can make me smile with the simplest stuff and when he touches me my body gets this flutter of lightness and it's a whole new high. But whenever he talks about other girls I never...
    Ashes500 Ashes500 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    sometimes everything is perfectly fine

    and all but idk we keep arguing all the time for stupid stuff and I'm talking a lot like a lot .. even tho he keeps apologizing but idk
    viamneera viamneera 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    There's this one man

    that I cannot take off my mind for like two years. And it's frustrating and hurting me. I wanted to forget him. I want to forget him but I don't know, I can't forget him. Too bad because he is my boss and I believe I can forget him easily if i just resign. It's just that this...
    Samwan Samwan 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Well I've been with my man

    for 4 years and met at age 11. I'm in a long distance relationship now and haven't seen him in 3 years. We fight sometimes and I want to live happy again with him. Any advice?
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've been living with my partner

    for 3 months now and everyday of the week he hangs with his friends. I get home from work and he's either out with them or they're at my house. Should this be a worry or should I be happy for him that he has a group of good friends? I've told him that it would be nice...
    Iamthecutegirl Iamthecutegirl 18-21, F 7 Responses May 28

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    Mourning For A Ghost That Never Lived

    He was all a lie , all he told me about himself , his personality , reasons for his break up and his relationship with an ex was a lie , his imaginary friends that he spoke about so much , maybe even his feelings for me. He created this person that I fell in love with hook line...
    Missreedy Missreedy 31-35 6 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    So my boyfriend wants to have sex soon

    and I'm ok with that. But the thing is he wants to have sex with out a condom each time and he wants me on birth control. I'm kinda scared because I don't want to risk a chance of getting prego, what do you think I should do.
    hennyforyourthoughts hennyforyourthoughts 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 27

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    Should I confront my ex on apparently saying

    that he 'hates me and I'm throwing myself at other guys' when we broke up a year ago and he hasn't spoke to me since? I don't know why he opened up the can of worms:3
    Jennnaaa Jennnaaa 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 28

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    The Best Advice I'Ve Heard.

    This was from the play, Madea goes to jail. Yes, she's/he's crazy and funny. (To me) But this scene was honestly the biggest eye opener. "Sonny: What am I supposed to do now? Madea: Get up and go on with your life. It's all right to sit around and be depressed for a minute...
    IWillMakeYouThink IWillMakeYouThink 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    Left Unspoken

    From day one I knew there was something about him that I would like. We've seen each other practically every day for three weeks and there is just something about him that makes me feel weak. I'm use to being able to talk to whoever and whenever I want, I am not a shy person. But...
    ForeverUnknown1843 ForeverUnknown1843 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2012

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    I've have had a few girlfriends

    that ended not so well I'm not a bad guy or anything I'm actually vey nice I see beautiful girls and I would like to introduce myself I just get tongue tied when trying to speak to them please I only ask for advice so I will not mess up.
    narnold1 narnold1 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 25

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    Help I Have 2 Guys. One Wants Me Back & The Other Guy Is Phenomenal. :)

    Me & Micheal have been dating for a couple weeks. he NICE, CARING, LOVING, HONEST. I always ask him are you ever going to to give up on me. he said I WON'T BECAUSE YOUR MY SWEETHEART. That makes me so happy. he actually makes me feel loved. But my EX Boyfriend contacted me to ask...
    breannetopley18 breannetopley18 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 16, 2012

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    9 days til I get married Honestly I need

    advice idk if I really am going crazy but recently I found out my fiancé had lied to me a lot about going out with his friends I didn't understand why he didn't just tell me but he didn't. So I lost trust we started to fight a lot and it ended up to the point where we leave...
    Osiris5694 Osiris5694 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 2

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    Absentee Boyfriend

    I feel like I'm trying to explain my feelings to a wall. My bf works full time while I stay at home with our baby son. Then he comes home, eats the supper I made, showers and then goes off to play with his band and hang out with his friends.This week he took care of his son a...
    BleedingDesperation BleedingDesperation 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2012

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    I've been told I'm too nice in past

    relationships.... Hence my username
    TheTrollinator TheTrollinator 13-15, M Aug 7

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    What's up guys I really need your help.

    . I work at American apparel the factory. I saw this beautiful lady that works in the sewing department. I can't describe how beautiful she is. She got an awesome personality too. I mean she talk to all the guys in the department. I always look at her like I am mesmerized by her...
    tomhelmy tomhelmy 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 3

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    I need some serious relationship advice.

    My boyfriend proposed to me in January. He stopped being affectionate maybe a month before that. I moved to a new state to be with him and to marry him- but things seem to be falling apart. It seemed like he was no longer attracted to me (never wanted to kiss, cuddle, have sex...
    amgasan amgasan 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 27

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    AM I Being Used?

    Im sorry its kinda long PLEASe read it and give me your advice i need help:( Ok so ive been talking to this guy for 7 months and hes super sweet. He made me a necklace on valentines day and dedicated a song to me but hes never asked me on a legit date and all we do is hookup...
    confused7754 confused7754 16-17, F 56 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    Is anyone awake and wants to talk?

    I can't sleep. My mind won't shut off.
    amyrnmca amyrnmca 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    There's. Girl I like

    who is friends with me my sister and my mate and also a girl who is by the same caravan as me but I want to ask one of them out but don't want my mate and sister to find out help !!
    challinor999 challinor999 18-21, M Jul 31

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    I miss you so much. You only seem to want to

    talk to me when we talk about sex, even though you say you like me back :( why can't we just sit down and talk? :(
    lottie1996 lottie1996 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    From now on I'm not going to fuss over

    or pine for my husband's attention. He is totally distant, ignore's me. I'm going to focus on Me! He ain't worth the brain power I'm wasting. When we do communicate he only belittle's everything I do and put's me down.
    Chelba Chelba 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    Ok, I need advice or something.

    I'm afraid of where this is going. I've been in a relationship with this wonderful woman, we've had a lot of great times and very few bad times. The other night she suggested we take a break from each other. Not breaking up, but just not talking to each other for a couple days...
    matt0030 matt0030 22-25, M 5 Responses Jul 25

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    Nottobeohsoblunt Nottobeohsoblunt 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 27

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    Should I Break Up With Him

    I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for more then a year and a half now. it's not to incredibly long but still he is pretty serious about us. that's not the problem i love him so much, but i have a lot of issues due to a somewhat ****** past. I'm constantly paranoid...
    heresmyname heresmyname 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 27, 2013

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    HELP!! Okay, it has to do with confessing,

    them liking me, me realising that I actually don't like them anymore, but I actually like a different person who broke up with their person for me.... HELP PLEASE!!! I don't know what to do, so please, please help me
    HoldingOnToAir HoldingOnToAir 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    How do I split up with my boyfriend?

    I like someone else and I want to be single.. But if we break up we can't go to the same places and it will be awkward because we have the same friends..
    lostgirlxx lostgirlxx 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    Have you ever wanted to tell someone how

    perfect they are, but are too scared to do it?
    Jennnaaa Jennnaaa 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 5

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    Help?? :C

    we only have one month left together before he leaves :/ and every day seems to go by so quick. i love him so much i dont wanna let go of what we have but i was never one to believe in long distance relationships. ive seen the way people get hurt and just thinking bout it makes...
    marie70413 marie70413 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 5, 2013

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    My boyfriend thinks I'm unfaithful.

    He's constantly paranoid that I'd do something to hurt him. I gave him no reason to. I think it's because of his past relationships. He has bad anxiety and I don't know what to do 😔. I am faithful and I'm trying to get him to believe me and feel comfortable in this...
    platypustumor platypustumor 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 6

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    I truly love being with men,

    probably too much. I'm not questioning my sexuality so much as wondering why my husband has lost interest when I take care of myself and love to be with him. It hurts.
    PeanutS3 PeanutS3 46-50, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Okay so my kinda "boyfriend" is having some

    issues. His mom is not really accepting of the fact that he is gay. He wants to tell her about me but he's scared. He's talked to his dad about it and he's all for it. I just keep reminding him that I will be there for him no matter what. Is there anything else I can do for him...
    Imjustdone Imjustdone 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 28

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    Hi, so let me throw down this scenario to you

    guys the best way possible. I love my boyfriend, been together and lived together for over a year and a half. Since week 2 of our relationship he has struggled with his incapability to handle his drinking. I have saved his life twice, from sticking my fingers down his throat to...
    kolo1463 kolo1463 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    How do you term relationships like "long term"

    "short term" relationships. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and my friends say we're in a long term relationship however I've heard people say you're in a long term relationship when you undress yourself before sex rather than undress eachother. We have never had sex...
    xxEMOtionalxx xxEMOtionalxx 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Love Triangle Going On In My Head

    I'll try to make this as concise as possible, but it's kinda complicated. I'm a 40-year-old bisexual man and I've been in an exclusive relationship with the same man for over 15 years (I'll call him John). 13 years ago a co-worker and friend of both of us (I'll call her Jane) let...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    If your boyfriend once tried to get with your

    bestfriend , what would you do ?
    Hiya1011 Hiya1011 13-15, F 7 Responses May 3

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    Once I told a guy I liked him he said cool

    now we are best friends but now instead of liking him I love him we sit and talk all day and I just don't know what to do but then I just stayed friends with him even now and I shouldn't have done that cuz I am in love with him what should I do ?!?!??!?!!!?!!?
    youfirgotaboutmebff youfirgotaboutmebff 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 23

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    So this guy had a girlfriend & led me on,

    but then pushed me away. I found out they dated for 3 years. What I don't get is why approach me? If you obviously Love her like I don't get why men or anyone would do this, why do you think he did it? To get sum but why would he want to cheat then get scared or what? Doesn't...
    presseve presseve 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Im writing this in hopes it helps clear my mind.

    Hopefully someone would be able to help me understand why life and love works the way it does... Years ago i met a man who truly loved me more then anything. However i was young and we lived states apart. I didnt know the frist thing about love. I regrettably hurt him.( not by...
    sinistergirl sinistergirl 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Me and my boyfriend has been together

    for 2 months now. And we known each other for 2 1/2 year before we started dating. I have real strong feeling for him and this year he is enlisting for the Marine's and I don't know what to do!! I don't want this amazing relationship to end. I'm falling in love with him and he...
    HakunaMatata711 HakunaMatata711 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for the last 5 years.  I am ready to get married and cant see staying in this city if we are not.  I just graduated college and moved here for him.  I live with my parents and it is just too expensive to live here on my own. ...
    kkayhalv kkayhalv 22-25 10 Responses Sep 8, 2009

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    I'm in a long distance relationship.

    We see each other once in a month or two for a few days. He always comes to my place because I'm in collegue and don't have the time or money to come see him in his town and also have my one apartament (when I'm not on holidays for the summer). We met when he was in college in...
    Naginii Naginii 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I wpuld love to be a guy

    for one day/week. Maybe that will tell me what guys thinks and how they function.
    jumpingoffthecliff jumpingoffthecliff 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 19

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    I don't know how I feel about this guy anymore.

    The whole thing is really pretty tragic. In the beginning I thought I had a lot to learn from him, literally on a pupil level, but it turns out that he had a lot to learn from me instead. So unexpected
 It's quite ironic how things turn out sometimes. Anyway. I can say I have...
    hazelwoodd hazelwoodd 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    I am so emotionally out of control lately.

    Anyone have any answers as to why this is? I know partly is because I am sleep deprived, but I just wake up so paranoid and on guard. I don't know why, but it's really starting to freak me out. I have a new bf and I really don't want to scare him away with how I've been acting...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 20

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