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    I've had a thing with this girl

    for a month. Then 2 weeks ago I asked her to be my girlfriend(I'm lesbian) and now she just seems to be clingy, like she always want to be with me, and next to me even though were in the same room and I want to talk to my friends as well. I don't mind being with her but I feel...
    crazykim17ily crazykim17ily 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    does anyone know of good internet dating sites?

    I think I would like to try finding a buddy that will be there for me anytime.
    Fudgeyhope Fudgeyhope 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Okay. Well just the other day I met a girl

    for the first time. I have to say, I was instantly caught by her 'aura' of happiness and 'chill'. I have to say, its the first time in a long time that I've felt that way and it was rather lovely, and daunting simultaneously. I in my impulsive stead, bluntly told her how I felt...
    ccc7777 ccc7777 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 6

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    My boyfriend of 7 years,

    just informed me that he has been seeing someone for a while, platonically. He has been helping a female friend through her abusive relationship. She now has feelings for him. The part that hurts, is the fact that he has lied to me for over a month by not telling me. He has been...
    Fudgeyhope Fudgeyhope 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    My Husband Isn't Romantic With Me

    I love him very much. We have been together for 6 years and married for 1 year. He loves me too, and I know this. He makes me breakfast in the morning, goes to the grocery store for me when I need anytrhing, he's always there for me. I am there for him too. I clean the house for...
    Tericae Tericae 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 11, 2011

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    Hi so I'm new on this.

    And I have a question. How do you know that a guy likes a girl. Help!!
    kaciomoto kaciomoto 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    Hey everyone my life very ****** up ryt

    now coz I m in college first year and my teacher is just 3 years elder then me and we r dating each other at first it was just for good grades from my side but now I m falling for her don't know wat to do can anyone help me out in this..
    smannu2 smannu2 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    AM I Being Used?

    Im sorry its kinda long PLEASe read it and give me your advice i need help:( Ok so ive been talking to this guy for 7 months and hes super sweet. He made me a necklace on valentines day and dedicated a song to me but hes never asked me on a legit date and all we do is hookup...
    confused7754 confused7754 16-17, F 55 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    I am in a relationship.

    He is one of my best guy friends but he kinda cornered me into the relationship. He really likes me and asked me out but I didn't have those feelings for him. I said yes because I was afraid to lose the friendship. It has been a long time since I had a bf, so everyone told me...
    lightningthief lightningthief 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Argument That I Don't Know How To Handle

    I said that it is depressing seeing how good other peoples lives are sometimes. Just seeing people out traveling around the world, and going to loads of different places and moving up in the world and I feel like we are just stuck.. and my bf went nuts saying, "well, I am so...
    chloe92 chloe92 22-25 Aug 12, 2013

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    Honestly I need advice,

    My fiancé and I have been together for 5 years and a year ago he proposed he's been stationed in California so the long distance really kills us and things have been getting worse and worse from arguments where we would talk to each other to now he would yell curse and call me...
    Osiris5694 Osiris5694 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Am I Too Picky? Help

    I've been divorced for a while now and I've finally gotten to the point of being ready to move on and date but I'm having trouble finding someone. I've never been good at the whole dating thing so I'm not really sure how to do it or how to find someone. I'm 28 years old about to...
    luvswriting luvswriting 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2013

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    She just sent me a flowers

    and a card, saying how she wish I can accept her back in my life and call to offer me a dinner in her house but honestly I don't want to go . I end up saying am afraid I can't make it. Did I do the right thing by telling her I can't make it? Need advice
    Jazzmans Jazzmans 26-30, M 4 Responses Jan 15

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    Absentee Boyfriend

    I feel like I'm trying to explain my feelings to a wall. My bf works full time while I stay at home with our baby son. Then he comes home, eats the supper I made, showers and then goes off to play with his band and hang out with his friends.This week he took care of his son a...
    BleedingDesperation BleedingDesperation 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2012

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    Tell me girls PLEASE.

    .. It has been said and largely agreed amongst my female friends (which form the majority of my friendships) that, I quote, ' every girl should have a Karl' but it's bitter sweet, they all love me on multiple levels I can shop, cook, I'm domesticated (lol) having been a working...
    spiike65 spiike65 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    So... Where do I start?

    My fiancé is brilliant in so many ways but he hurts me a lot. It's not intentionally but it still hurts. He has never physically done anything but emotionally I feel like he blocks me out! When I try to get close to him sexually he usually goes 'I can't be bothered for sex' and...
    AnonBlogger17 AnonBlogger17 16-17, F Mar 17

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    Should I Break Up With Him

    I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for more then a year and a half now. it's not to incredibly long but still he is pretty serious about us. that's not the problem i love him so much, but i have a lot of issues due to a somewhat ****** past. I'm constantly paranoid...
    heresmyname heresmyname 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 27, 2013

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    Hey everybody I don't know how to turn my bf on.

    I'm 14 and he's 16, and im willing to do everything over clothes (for now) so no bj or anything like that. Can some guy message me and guide me through touching my bf?? Thx xx
    imjustlookingforadvice imjustlookingforadvice 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    Please Help me. I really need some advice.

    Let me set the stage quickly. I have 2 friends. We will call them Jack & Jill. They have been together for 7 years and have 2 young kids together but they aren't married. They live together in his house. He works and pays the bills, she takes care of the house and children. I...
    Microft24 Microft24 31-35 2 Responses Apr 11

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    Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for the last 5 years.  I am ready to get married and cant see staying in this city if we are not.  I just graduated college and moved here for him.  I live with my parents and it is just too expensive to live here on my own. ...
    kkayhalv kkayhalv 22-25 10 Responses Sep 8, 2009

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    Help I Have 2 Guys. One Wants Me Back & The Other Guy Is Phenomenal. :)

    Me & Micheal have been dating for a couple weeks. he NICE, CARING, LOVING, HONEST. I always ask him are you ever going to to give up on me. he said I WON'T BECAUSE YOUR MY SWEETHEART. That makes me so happy. he actually makes me feel loved. But my EX Boyfriend contacted me to ask...
    breannetopley18 breannetopley18 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 16, 2012

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    This guy I've been talking to

    since may of last year asked me out out 2 weeks ago. We don't go to the same school but we don't live too far away. Anyways i said yes and we have been dating since. We went to Six Flags that saturday and he brought his bestfriend who he walked with along with me. It was...
    averne averne 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'll get straight to the point: I like a guy,

    he's 18 and I'm 15 (I really don't care about age). He's just turned 18 so yeahh. Anyway I'm not sure if he knows I like him? I mean I think I said it once but he never takes any notice and he just plays dumb. Does he not like me or does he know I like him but kind of playing...
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    I desperately want to get out of the big city

    and settle in a nice, small town. The city is driving me insane: it's noisy, smelly, there are people everywhere at all time, the price of living is ridiculous, I am never less than 45 minutes away in public transport from any job I ever had and all this sucks the life out of me...
    MoodyRed MoodyRed 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 26

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    So guys, I've been seeing this guy

    and I can't tell if he's interested anymore.. We met on a dating website and we met in real life. Since January I've usually been getting goodnight and good morning texts as well as more throughout the day. We hung out once kissed that night. Then he took me out to dinner, legit...
    moonilluminatedroom moonilluminatedroom 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Fudgeyhope Fudgeyhope 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Help?? :C

    we only have one month left together before he leaves :/ and every day seems to go by so quick. i love him so much i dont wanna let go of what we have but i was never one to believe in long distance relationships. ive seen the way people get hurt and just thinking bout it makes...
    marie70413 marie70413 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 5, 2013

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    Mourning For A Ghost That Never Lived

    He was all a lie , all he told me about himself , his personality , reasons for his break up and his relationship with an ex was a lie , his imaginary friends that he spoke about so much , maybe even his feelings for me. He created this person that I fell in love with hook line...
    Missreedy Missreedy 31-35 6 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    The Best Advice I'Ve Heard.

    This was from the play, Madea goes to jail. Yes, she's/he's crazy and funny. (To me) But this scene was honestly the biggest eye opener. "Sonny: What am I supposed to do now? Madea: Get up and go on with your life. It's all right to sit around and be depressed for a minute...
    IWillMakeYouThink IWillMakeYouThink 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    Left Unspoken

    From day one I knew there was something about him that I would like. We've seen each other practically every day for three weeks and there is just something about him that makes me feel weak. I'm use to being able to talk to whoever and whenever I want, I am not a shy person. But...
    ForeverUnknown1843 ForeverUnknown1843 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2012

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    I really feel bad and I want to cry .

    So my boyfriend has reAlly bad teeth and I was telling him that I was upset that my roommate was making fun of them . He than stated that it's okay and he's been getting it his whole life but than turns around and ask if I think they're bad . I started to laugh because he put me...
    bananasxoxo bananasxoxo 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    So I got this girls number a month ago,

    we weren't able to hang out cuz of **** happening. we finally were able to grab drinks last night and it was kind of like meeting eachother all over again. I usually work my game on girls and either get them really into me and end up making out or more. This girl I actually like...
    ItsJustIce ItsJustIce 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I Don't Know What To Think

    So this morning when I was at work, I received a message on facebook from one of my friends. She asked me if my ex and I have spoken recently. I responded with no, not for a few weeks. Why? She informed me that he has been posting pictures on tumblr, that say things like I wish...
    bostonbabe916 bostonbabe916 22-25, F Nov 22, 2013

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    So this white guy the other day came up to me

    and asked me if I was dating anyone. I of course said no and we exchanged numbers. He started texting me and asked me a question that I took very offensively. he asked if I would have sex with him because he had never been with a black woman before and really wanted to try it...
    traceyobi37 traceyobi37 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 2

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    There's a boy that I liked

    since the start of school.His name is Alonzo Austin and he is the cutest boy in the 8th grade.I am in love!He makes me laugh,we do playful banter and I laugh at his jokes and he laughs at mine.I'm thinking of asking him out(to the park which is right across the street from the...
    peaceinlove peaceinlove 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    This is gonna be long.

    Ok sooo I'm in the 11th grade & I met this guy in the 7th grade (D) & we've been on & off ever since then. We kinda fight a lot & we've been through a lot. We go months without talking then we just pick up where we left off. We both have the mentality that no matter what we're...
    omgchapstick omgchapstick 16-17, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I have always been in serious relationships.

    After a broke up with my most recent 4 year relationship, one of my really good guy friends (John) confessed that he's had a major crush on me since he was 13 but never said anything because I was older. He told me he thought I was beautiful, perfect and very flattering...
    lifelover30 lifelover30 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I need advice about my boyfriend

    and I's relationship. I am 15 while my boyfriend is 17. My parents told me that by law, him and I are not allowed to date. But my boyfriend and I have looked up the laws and it says that it's legal for us to date as long as sex is not involved. My boyfriend and I have dated for...
    ItsDawnHeree ItsDawnHeree 13-15, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    Sometimes being in a relationship is

    so hard. I work a long day drive straight home to let out his dog, our dog, whatever. Then I clean, and then I cook, and then I'm exhausted. He combined to our therapist that I should have dinner ready every night because I'm home earlier. Now I feel guilty if I don't cook...
    janethinks janethinks 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    Just When I Think I Can't Hold On Any Longer, I Keep My Cool, I Find Strength.

    I've been writing about my new relationship since it's inception last Spring. It's now been five months and I'm begining to become quite confused about my own feelings and ability to continue giving when it so often seems I get little or nothing in return. Lately I've tried to...
    Anonymouself Anonymouself 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 3, 2013

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    Today

    I broke up my girlfriend today and even though I think it's the best thing for me I feel like crap because she's so hurt
    Comicone999 Comicone999 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 21, 2013

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    My boyfriend is an atheist

    and I'm catholic . Sometimes I feel like we weren't work in the future because of that . But we've talked aboutt everything under the stars when it comes to religion to kinda see if it would work for us in the future (for example : getting married in a Catholic Church , or how...
    bananasxoxo bananasxoxo 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    What Is Important To You In A Relationship?

    What is the most important thing to you in a relationship (at first) and honestly, like i hate to admit it but I know looks do play a factor for me. But then obviously other things like kindness and sense of humour etc overweigh it. But I was wondering what men/ woman find...
    Ciarasjen Ciarasjen 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    There's this guy I like.

    He's my best friend. He is the guy who is always on my mind. He's bisexual and has admitted to crushing on me but he is dating a female friend of mine. My problem is that I'm jealous. I don't know how I should handle it. I've told him I liked him, and he only replied "I know...
    VerdlaTal VerdlaTal 13-15, T 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our

    school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my mind I was thinking "you know what, I'm gonna try to talk to her, I need to man up, I need to know how to talk to a girl and here's my first...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 4

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    What's a cute way to ask a girl to be my

    girlfriend? Please help /.
    goingplaces1 goingplaces1 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 12

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    If someone lies to you once.

    .. Would they lie again? What if they promise that they lived you no matter what? And later you find out some more stuff just to back up that they aren't worth it.... What would you do? Because personally I may be too kind and I'm mentally blind to someone possibly trying to use...
    mangadrawer12321 mangadrawer12321 13-15, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I'm losing sleep due to the situation I'm in

    so I would appreciate a lot of opinions bc I'm very confused on how the guy feels and what I should do! I'm 17 turning 18 in August, the guy is 24, we just started working together in November at a restaurant. Ever since the first day I thought we just clicked bc we have a lot...
    bluecrush42 bluecrush42 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    I have a question and I need honest opinions

    plz! :D Sorry my explanation is long. So, recently I met this wonder nice guy a month ago and everything was great until about a week ago. My bf lives in a different state than I do, he lives in NJ and I live in GA. So, he deiced to make a move here but to do so means more work...
    hotNsexy89 hotNsexy89 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    My boyfriend and I have been dating

    for 2 years but lately we have been arguing everyday and I don't feel the same way I did when we started dating, and we are on a break as of yesterday. I honestly don't know what to do because I still love him.
    itzayana itzayana 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    I really need some perspective on my

    relationship. I am an honest young woman and I am looking for someone going through any relationship bumps that has experience
    Fudgeyhope Fudgeyhope 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    What do you do when you have a guy

    who is so amazing to you when your not fighting I mean like Prince Charming doing everything right but as soon as your having a fight turns his back on you and leaves you alone to deal with yourself? It's like I'm dating his evil twin when we get into an argument. He expects me...
    Monstersinmyhead Monstersinmyhead 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 3

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    Related Experiences

    I need advice. I like this one guy, we had a past, he hurt he very much, but that was 4-5 years ago. I broke up with my ex because I wasn't in love with him anymore and then this...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Heeey, guys! How are you guys? I hope you guys are doing fine. Well, I'm not here to post a story about me needing advice. Instead, I'm here because I want you guys to know that...
    Maoli Maoli 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I need advice. Message me. No creeps please I have been through enough. And you must have a real profile picture! Please people no games. Because I really do need. Advice. Message...
    fatty234 fatty234 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Well wednessday the 26th i lost my virginity to a guy named chris and he told me he loved me even before we started having sex and so he took it and like i said how he was saying...
    ToriLynn1999 ToriLynn1999 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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