I Need Advice On Relationships

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    I'll get straight to the point: I like a guy,

    he's 18 and I'm 15 (I really don't care about age). He's just turned 18 so yeahh. Anyway I'm not sure if he knows I like him? I mean I think I said it once but he never takes any notice and he just plays dumb. Does he not like me or does he know I like him but kind of playing...
    xItsChelsx xItsChelsx
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 28, 2014

    So I'v had a guy friend

    that I went to college with and we were really close. I had known him for 5 years. He started dating this one girl and I didn't know this at the time but he made her jealous by talking to me and he always said things like he liked me and stuff like that and I never believed him...
    radisglad radisglad
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 2

    I wpuld love to be a guy

    for one day/week. Maybe that will tell me what guys thinks and how they function.
    jumpingoffthecliff jumpingoffthecliff
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 19, 2014

    I struggle with the beginning part of starting

    a relationship, girls say, "I don't wanna mess up and rush into things." I'm like 2weeks is enuff, we both like each other, then let's date!?. What is the point in waiting for so long?
    Ison56 Ison56
    18-21, M
    Dec 9, 2014

    I need advice please from any one no negativity

    I recently ran into a guy I went to highschool with we have been talking for a month now we hang out and he calls me everyday or txts me I really like him and i know he likes me also we act like a couple when we are togetherthe problem is we stated from the beginning because we...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 6, 2014

    I need some serious relationship advice.

    My boyfriend proposed to me in January. He stopped being affectionate maybe a month before that. I moved to a new state to be with him and to marry him- but things seem to be falling apart. It seemed like he was no longer attracted to me (never wanted to kiss, cuddle, have sex...
    amgasan amgasan
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Apr 27, 2014

    I feel I should get an outsider's view on this,

    maybe even a parent's perspective. I've been seeing an older man for a few months, and he's helped me get through tough times while I juggle my course loads in University. Now that spring is here, he's finding that he has a bunch of property maintenance to work on and it's...
    2AMandstillawake 2AMandstillawake
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 14

    I've been with my boyfriend

    for the past 5 years. I've been through a lot and he knows that. I've suffered a traumatic childhood, which he's seen the worst of. We're both 18. He knows when I'm not fine. He knows when I'm thinking about the past. Especially around this time of year 5 days ago marked the...
    Blah9055 Blah9055
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 11, 2015

    he is upset for something

    that I said about him...it was very very bad on my part to say such..and now our little world shattered once again. .I don't know how do I make up for it...he just shut himself with all the pain inside him..he wouldn't talk to me..nor does he talk to anyone else..he doesn't like...
    BrokenSB BrokenSB
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 24
    HeartOfWarrior HeartOfWarrior
    18-21, M
    Jan 27

    It's been awhile since I've liked a guy a lot!

    I'm kinda freaking out and he wants to start a relationship. I haven't been in a real relationship in a couple years... How do I do this?!?! lol
    lizzieloves lizzieloves
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 8, 2015

    What does this mean? "I have met someone,

    we have kept sex out of the equation completely and built a friendship first. Every day that passes and I pry to know more about her, I see how much we have in common. Her smile lights up my world like no other has ever done before. I dont know everything about her, but I want...
    radisglad radisglad
    26-30, F
    Apr 17

    Ok so my gf and I have been dating

    for 3 months now we both tell each other we love each other we see each other every day and I really do love her. She isn't the one but for now I love her. We have been having sex unprotected for about 3months now ( we started having sex right around 4 weeks before we started to...
    MFshadow MFshadow
    18-21, M
    Feb 17

    So I be been dating this girl

    for four months now... And while I couldn't see myself losing feelings for her anytime soon it's happening now... The past week she has just feel idk distant and she's been crabby a lot always had been sorta. But now it's just like she changed... I have a few reasons why I'm...
    MFshadow MFshadow
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 27

    Last night my boyfriend

    and I were supposed to go to his game together, it got moved to next week, but we were still going to hangout. He told me he had to do something for his boss. Which often happens.. He barely was texting me, and didn't tell me when he was coming over or if he even was still...
    PursiutofHappyness PursiutofHappyness
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Feb 10

    God I hurt so much. I love my boyfriend,

    but we have a long distance relationship. I think we should break up. We've been dating for almost six months. We Skype all the time, and for someone long distance, I am so much in love. But I think it's going to soon ruin us. We're so young for such a serious relationship (I'm...
    alscovey alscovey
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jan 18

    I like this guy older

    than me so much. But he like me too but I don't know what to do because he rarely text me or call me I'm the one on top on him all the time in don't want to feel like I'm bother him so much by me text him everyday. But anytime he hit me up its just for told me when I going to...
    tweetyreck tweetyreck
    22-25, F
    Jan 7

    If your boyfriend once tried to get with your

    bestfriend , what would you do ?
    Hiya1011 Hiya1011
    16-17, F
    7 Responses May 3, 2014

    My name is Anthony and I'm 23yrs old.

    I need relationship advice
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400
    22-25, M
    Jan 19

    Are guys embarrassed to say I love you in front

    of their friends? Tonight I was face timing my BF and he was with his friends and before we hung up I said I love you in front of my friends and other strangers but he just hung up.... Like wtf??? I'm trying not to take it personal but I can't help it... Like I can't help but...
    Pinkk3u Pinkk3u
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 2

    I don't know how to explain this feeling I love

    my boyfriend to dead, even those when abusing me mentally and physical I still love him, I don't do anything but he always be excuse me of cheating or doing stupid things that don't even know. I love him but he doesn't love me the same, I don't know if I should have a baby and...
    tweetyreck tweetyreck
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 1
    Nottobeohsoblunt Nottobeohsoblunt
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 27, 2014

    So my husband picks fights with me everyday

    and says I'm at fault and I start them. He picks on me as of puts me down jokes supposibly about having other females etc. I have ptsd and social anxiety but he walked away from me in a busy store and when we got home I texted him (he was in the back room which his brother lives...
    Simbageeswife Simbageeswife
    26-30, F
    Mar 6

    The Best Advice I'Ve Heard.

    This was from the play, Madea goes to jail. Yes, she's/he's crazy and funny. (To me) But this scene was honestly the biggest eye opener. "Sonny: What am I supposed to do now? Madea: Get up and go on with your life. It's all right to sit around and be depressed for a minute...
    IWillMakeYouThink IWillMakeYouThink
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 22, 2013

    My boyfriend and I have been together

    for 1 year. We live in 2 different states. We have had several talks about moving together. There has been some financial issues and personal issues on his end that has made it very difficult to put a plan in place. He's consistent about wanting us together in one state, however...
    missteen2 missteen2
    36-40, F
    Jun 19, 2015

    So my gf of 4 months

    and I used to have sex all the time... Then it changed to every other day and now I'm lucky if we have sex twice in a week... She even told me last night "Idk why I just don't want to do anything physical" and what makes things worse is she teased me the night before that she...
    MFshadow MFshadow
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Mar 15

    How do people have the motivation to move on

    after so much heartbreak? I suffer from depression, and that surely makes it more difficult for me to have positivity and motivation when it comes to love and relationships. I'm just curious as to where your positivity comes from. I'm so hurt, I can't really feel anything...
    travelaround11 travelaround11
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 19

    I'm stuck in a situation I have never been in

    before. I go to college and about a year ago, I met a guy who was transferring from another college. Coincidentally enough, a friend that I've been friends with slightly longer knew him before he came to the school I'm at. I have really grown to like the guy. When I first met...
    TheClarinetPanhead TheClarinetPanhead
    18-21, F
    Mar 26

    i started talking to a guy onlyblooking

    for a friend but then he tells me he loves me and i told him that i didnt love him and he said he was going to kill himself because no one loved him and whenever im busy he thinks i hate him so he threatens to cut and to stop him from cutting or any kind of selfharm i told him...
    Frozenheart1434 Frozenheart1434
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 27

    So i met this girl a couple of months ago,

    at the same time she had a boyfriend. All of my friends were friends with her bf and eventually we all became friends with her. After a couple weeks of being friends and everyone chilling, my friends started to suspect that i liked her (which i did) but i played it off as if i...
    awesomeb456 awesomeb456
    16-17, M
    1 Response Feb 2

    I like someone that I shouldn't,

    I don't know how to stop liking them they are completely wrong for me!!!
    sharz16 sharz16
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 27, 2014

    I work with this girl,

    we became close and started seeing each other.. But she has a husband and kids. She's never thought about being with a girl before either. Her husband found out a week ago and.. Obviously.. Went mad but wants to give it another go with her but she said she doesn't and has...
    meganrose07 meganrose07
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 10

    I'm in an LDR. He has a very hectic

    and time consuming career. I'm the beginning of out relationship we talked at length and several times a day. Things have changed at his job where now he has less time due to increased work load and less help. So communication has decreased, which is beginning to create distance...
    missteen2 missteen2
    36-40, F
    Mar 16

    Ok guys. So there's a boy

    and he and I have been friends for a month or two. And I really like him. And I know he likes me back. But he wants to treat a girl right and get to know her before he asks her out and before that he's gonna ask her dad. I really like him. And the guy and I talk about...
    awkwardtaco2001 awkwardtaco2001
    13-15, F
    1 Response Oct 20, 2014

    Me and my boyfriend been together

    for about 5 years. i feel hes being sneaky, i cant catch him out there but i feel he flirts with the neighbor, he tells me he doesnt and im crazy but i feel and see otherwise. i want to leave because its making me crazy not knowing, he tells me he loves me and doesnt want to...
    Mymindismymind Mymindismymind
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Sep 22, 2015

    Just give up really. I really don't see any

    potential in a relationship. Usually the guys don't last long anyway but it sure would be nice to have some companionship. It's a drag to seem like my relationships fail every time.
    babeusa babeusa
    31-35, F
    Feb 10

    I'm constantly letting my husband get away with

    bad behavior because I just don't know how to handle it :/
    y2kalmeida y2kalmeida
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Apr 7, 2015

    AM I Being Used?

    Im sorry its kinda long PLEASe read it and give me your advice i need help:( Ok so ive been talking to this guy for 7 months and hes super sweet. He made me a necklace on valentines day and dedicated a song to me but hes never asked me on a legit date and all we do is hookup...
    confused7754 confused7754
    18-21, F
    56 Responses Apr 18, 2013

    I have an online boyfriend we've been

    for a year already, we never met yet in real. as we all experience, relationships has its ups and downs. we broke up and went quickly to another relationship. he had it with my bestfriend and me with another man. mine only lasted 3 months. him only a month. after my break up of...
    IAMPINAY IAMPINAY
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 26, 2014

    For those who read my other posts here's an

    update to what's been happening. Since Friday when my boyfriend told me he didn't a relationship and wanted to be alone. That same night he came to realization that he does want to be with me and I can tell through his attitude and the way he was with me but I feel broken...
    MileyyV MileyyV
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 2, 2014

    I feel like every time I am interested in a man,

    I am the one carrying the weight. It's almost never mutual. For example, I'm the one texting first or making plans 94 percent of the time. I just want a mutual "like" feeling for once. Or if they do like me, I would like a little more effort on their part. I don't think I'm...
    travelaround11 travelaround11
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 24

    I don't know if I deeply love him

    or if I am just so accustomed with our daily routines of chatting and talking with each other or if I'm just too scared to see if he can easily replace me once we break up. Lol. This is bs.
    thelittlemonster thelittlemonster
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 3, 2015

    Right now my boyfriend of 9 years got me

    feeling well bad again. I try to make my appointments on a day that he's at work because he says he doesn't want his days off to be waisted on lame stuff and just wants to do something fun and relaxing. This happens a lot though. I'm only human. i feel like I cant do anything...
    sexyinpink08 sexyinpink08
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 22, 2015

    My ex-boyfriend is incredibly depressed

    and doesn't want to acknowledge he needs help. Rather, he gets high and drunk almost daily. When we were dating I knew he was having an incredibly hard time and he for sure was not the best boyfriend. I would feel like he hated me because he wouldn't be very interested in...
    iamhannahh iamhannahh
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 13

    So I'm Portuguese descendants

    so I know how most Portuguese people are and the ones I know love to get they nose into someone else life and talk about them I hate them. I don't really want to have anything to with them. Around December last year while I was living at my sister's house so since quite few...
    jen1992 jen1992
    22-25, F
    Mar 13

    So I'm talking to this guy.

    I really like him, I think he likes me because he puts kisses and emojis and is really cute. I just don't know how to tell for sure. I'm scared to ask him as I don't want to ruin things between us. The convo also sometimes gets a little dry but I don't know what to talk about...
    EnchantedHopes EnchantedHopes
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Feb 16

    My boyfriend is younger

    than me. He's 24 and I'm 30. He's still trying to figure out his life and in in the process of opening a coffeehouse. When we first started dating he was into just having fun. I helped him get on the right track, figure out what he wanted to do in love, supported him when he...
    megz327 megz327
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 4, 2015

    Alright guys so I'm at breaking point.

    ..I thought I was a few months ago, but now this is it. I have no idea what to do, what to think, and what's real and what's not. I've been talking or seeing this guy you could say for over a year. At first, it was just something casual. We both had gotten dumped by the people we...
    brittersnicole brittersnicole
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 15, 2014

    Okay so I know this is right wrong

    but me and my ex broke up about a month ago because wee were fighting. Out of anger he started talking to this new ***** and then eventually they started dating. But he tells me he only went out with her to get over me. We still hangout and we have sex and stuff all the time...
    foreverstrong17 foreverstrong17
    18-21, F
    Apr 8, 2014

    I am so emotionally out of control lately.

    Anyone have any answers as to why this is? I know partly is because I am sleep deprived, but I just wake up so paranoid and on guard. I don't know why, but it's really starting to freak me out. I have a new bf and I really don't want to scare him away with how I've been acting...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jul 20, 2014

    What is a guy doing when he texts you

    for no apparent reason at all. Just a hey what's up and then reply with one sentence of what they're doing?
    radisglad radisglad
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 4

    Help?? :C

    we only have one month left together before he leaves :/ and every day seems to go by so quick. i love him so much i dont wanna let go of what we have but i was never one to believe in long distance relationships. ive seen the way people get hurt and just thinking bout it makes...
    marie70413 marie70413
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 5, 2013
    jumpingoffthecliff jumpingoffthecliff
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 19, 2014

    I've been seeing a guy

    for about a month now and things are going really well. We both like each other but we've never had the talk about whether or not we are "official". Is it too early for me to bring this up? I don't want to scare him off but I just want to know where we stand with the...
    LondonLady94 LondonLady94
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 20

    I'm just feeling pretty low

    because I asked him to come over and cuddle he kept saying that he's never slept with a woman before and I was explaining to him that I'm not talking about sex I just really want to be held and. just made me feel like I was such a sl. ut but he was the one that wanted to do...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 1

    To all the boys out there WHO DO NOT UNDERSTAND

    THEIR WOMEN... The girl who irritates you (but treat you well) the most is the one who is MOST MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOU. A woman will "baby" you, get jealous, ask questions and you may hate it and resent her for it but understand that it's a woman's natural instinct to care for...
    mdkp mdkp
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 27, 2014

    I have never had a bf

    and recently I start talking with someone and I don't know what to do so please help me
    maraknm maraknm
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 4

    Have you ever wanted to tell someone how

    perfect they are, but are too scared to do it?
    existJenna existJenna
    16-17, F
    6 Responses Aug 5, 2014

    Am i crazy? I look around

    and see all my friends in serious relationships, some married and some with kids. I feel like i am ready to at least start working towards all this. I am ready to have a mature relationship for once. One that can eventually lead to something better. Makes it so much harder since...
    tig1991 tig1991
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 12, 2014
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