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I Need Advice On Relationships

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    I'll get straight to the point: I like a guy,

    he's 18 and I'm 15 (I really don't care about age). He's just turned 18 so yeahh. Anyway I'm not sure if he knows I like him? I mean I think I said it once but he never takes any notice and he just plays dumb. Does he not like me or does he know I like him but kind of playing...
    CallMeChelsea CallMeChelsea 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    Nottobeohsoblunt Nottobeohsoblunt 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 27

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    Once I told a guy I liked him he said cool

    now we are best friends but now instead of liking him I love him we sit and talk all day and I just don't know what to do but then I just stayed friends with him even now and I shouldn't have done that cuz I am in love with him what should I do ?!?!??!?!!!?!!?
    youfirgotaboutmebff youfirgotaboutmebff 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 23

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    Tigerlily53 Tigerlily53 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    I miss you so much. You only seem to want to

    talk to me when we talk about sex, even though you say you like me back :( why can't we just sit down and talk? :(
    lottie1996 lottie1996 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    I dated a girl last year,

    and we broke it off soon after. We really liked each other and the break up was for stupid reasons. Anyway, we started talking again this Summer, and I have a lot of the old feelings coming back to me. I asked her if she was dating anyone or talking to anyone else, and she said...
    INeedAdviceASAP INeedAdviceASAP 16-17, M Sep 7

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    I wpuld love to be a guy

    for one day/week. Maybe that will tell me what guys thinks and how they function.
    jumpingoffthecliff jumpingoffthecliff 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 19

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    I am so emotionally out of control lately.

    Anyone have any answers as to why this is? I know partly is because I am sleep deprived, but I just wake up so paranoid and on guard. I don't know why, but it's really starting to freak me out. I have a new bf and I really don't want to scare him away with how I've been acting...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 20

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    Okay so my kinda "boyfriend" is having some

    issues. His mom is not really accepting of the fact that he is gay. He wants to tell her about me but he's scared. He's talked to his dad about it and he's all for it. I just keep reminding him that I will be there for him no matter what. Is there anything else I can do for him...
    Imjustdone Imjustdone 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 28

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    Well, this is my problem from the beginning of

    my "adult life"-I meet a girl and have a need to help her, in every way, if she has unpaid bills, I'll pay her bills and won't pay mine, if she's in a bad mood and I'm too, I'll try to switch to better mood and help her get better, but I'm getting bad afterwards... And I know I...
    Zpirit1978 Zpirit1978 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 5

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    I'm losing sleep due to the situation I'm in

    so I would appreciate a lot of opinions bc I'm very confused on how the guy feels and what I should do! I'm 17 turning 18 in August, the guy is 24, we just started working together in November at a restaurant. Ever since the first day I thought we just clicked bc we have a lot...
    bluecrush42 bluecrush42 18-21, F Mar 2

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    anyone can help ?! ..

    message me please
    viamneera viamneera 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    There's this one man

    that I cannot take off my mind for like two years. And it's frustrating and hurting me. I wanted to forget him. I want to forget him but I don't know, I can't forget him. Too bad because he is my boss and I believe I can forget him easily if i just resign. It's just that this...
    Samwan Samwan 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    The Best Advice I'Ve Heard.

    This was from the play, Madea goes to jail. Yes, she's/he's crazy and funny. (To me) But this scene was honestly the biggest eye opener. "Sonny: What am I supposed to do now? Madea: Get up and go on with your life. It's all right to sit around and be depressed for a minute...
    IWillMakeYouThink IWillMakeYouThink 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    Help?? :C

    we only have one month left together before he leaves :/ and every day seems to go by so quick. i love him so much i dont wanna let go of what we have but i was never one to believe in long distance relationships. ive seen the way people get hurt and just thinking bout it makes...
    marie70413 marie70413 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 5, 2013

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    My wife has gone to Vegas

    for the long weekend with her girlfriends. This is something she would never allow me to do with my buddy's and even worse I haven't heard from her in 2 days and on her friends Facebook post she is never in any of the tags I'm starting to wonder where she really is ?
    ZeroCool66 ZeroCool66 46-50, M 7 Responses Sep 1

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    Should I Break Up With Him

    I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for more then a year and a half now. it's not to incredibly long but still he is pretty serious about us. that's not the problem i love him so much, but i have a lot of issues due to a somewhat ****** past. I'm constantly paranoid...
    heresmyname heresmyname 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 27, 2013

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    So I'm a 17 year old guy,

    I dated this girl who's 19 around this time last year and fell completely in love with her last Christmas and New Years, around late January lots of things happened that made no sense to me and she broke up with me. I have been almost depressed from it since, late summer we...
    lano1996 lano1996 18-21, M Sep 4

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    Me and my boyfriend has been together

    for 2 months now. And we known each other for 2 1/2 year before we started dating. I have real strong feeling for him and this year he is enlisting for the Marine's and I don't know what to do!! I don't want this amazing relationship to end. I'm falling in love with him and he...
    HakunaMatata711 HakunaMatata711 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    There is this woman who I am friends with

    that I want to pursue a relationship with. I finally asked her out and she said yes but I won't be able to see her for the next 2 weeks because I am a senior in college and I have work as well. How do I show her that I still like her and that I have not list interest in her? I...
    Ajax2221 Ajax2221 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 7

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    Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for the last 5 years.  I am ready to get married and cant see staying in this city if we are not.  I just graduated college and moved here for him.  I live with my parents and it is just too expensive to live here on my own. ...
    kkayhalv kkayhalv 22-25 10 Responses Sep 8, 2009

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    It's pretty bad when teenagers get more action

    than me and I'm a mature adult with a job car and house How in the world does one find a relationship with someone who Isn't married with a bunch of kids Doesn't have a criminal record ( I'm shallow like that ) Someone who is trustworthy ,healthy and straight I fear I...
    applesnbananas applesnbananas 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    If your boyfriend once tried to get with your

    bestfriend , what would you do ?
    Hiya1011 Hiya1011 13-15, F 7 Responses May 3

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    my boyfriend has an almost 5 year old.

    she falls asleep in his bed and moves her to her bed. but she always ends up in our bed every night. Am I the terrible girlfriend because I hate this?
    dental27 dental27 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    I have been in two relationships thus far.

    Repeatedly, I found that the guy would freak out about naming the relationship. We'd have everything going. But what's the fear? Isn't it good to set boundaries in a relationship? I would always be told I am a free bird. So it feels like it's my fault. I agree I don't like to be...
    mridulaharihar mridulaharihar 22-25, F a week ago

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    My boyfriend thinks I'm unfaithful.

    He's constantly paranoid that I'd do something to hurt him. I gave him no reason to. I think it's because of his past relationships. He has bad anxiety and I don't know what to do 😔. I am faithful and I'm trying to get him to believe me and feel comfortable in this...
    platypustumor platypustumor 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 6

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    How do you gain/build trust back in a

    relationship? (Being the woman) Please, anything is helpful at this point.
    ShadowedLover ShadowedLover 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 28

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    So I have this friend

    who identifies as gender-neutral (I identify as male), and when we met, we found out we have several interests in common. We kept hanging out, and built a good friendship. I found myself developing feelings for them, but not only do they have a zucchini, they have anxiety, which...
    vertexsix vertexsix 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 30

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    HELP!! Okay, it has to do with confessing,

    them liking me, me realising that I actually don't like them anymore, but I actually like a different person who broke up with their person for me.... HELP PLEASE!!! I don't know what to do, so please, please help me
    HoldingOnToAir HoldingOnToAir 16-17, T 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I am so lost. i need some advice so this guy i

    have been dating for a year, he lives 35 mins away we both work full time , but we find time for each other. I was depressed in the beginning because i lost a family memeber who meant so much to me . and he was there for me . and i wasnt happy but he was always loving to me...
    failedlove08 failedlove08 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Today I'm a junior in high school

    and my boyfriend graduated last year I'm 16 and he's 18 i love him a lot a lot we have so much fun together I can't picture myself with anyone else we promised each other forever he said he doesn't want anyone else but me I've never felt this way for anyone else I feel like we...
    Sydneybean24 Sydneybean24 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    Absentee Boyfriend

    I feel like I'm trying to explain my feelings to a wall. My bf works full time while I stay at home with our baby son. Then he comes home, eats the supper I made, showers and then goes off to play with his band and hang out with his friends.This week he took care of his son a...
    BleedingDesperation BleedingDesperation 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2012

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    Long story here. My boyfriend told me last night

    that he kissed another girl who came onto him when they were drunk a few weeks ago. Now comes the long part. We have been together for almost 5 years. We were engaged to be married in Jamaica in March 2013. 2 years ago, he started drinking (and is a mean drunk), I felt he liked...
    ManagerMom82 ManagerMom82 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    So this guy had a girlfriend & led me on,

    but then pushed me away. I found out they dated for 3 years. What I don't get is why approach me? If you obviously Love her like I don't get why men or anyone would do this, why do you think he did it? To get sum but why would he want to cheat then get scared or what? Doesn't...
    presseve presseve 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 19

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    jumpingoffthecliff jumpingoffthecliff 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    ok so ive been with a girl

    for about 4 years. and im starting to think i dont feel the same way as i did when we were first together. also we do argue alot more now, about little things and it gets annoying. but then again i hate making people feel bad, im just not that person. so I dont know what to do...
    jhook12 jhook12 18-21, M Aug 29

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    urlaame urlaame 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    Is anyone awake and wants to talk?

    I can't sleep. My mind won't shut off.
    amyrnmca amyrnmca 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    Well I've been with my man

    for 4 years and met at age 11. I'm in a long distance relationship now and haven't seen him in 3 years. We fight sometimes and I want to live happy again with him. Any advice?
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    Help I Have 2 Guys. One Wants Me Back & The Other Guy Is Phenomenal. :)

    Me & Micheal have been dating for a couple weeks. he NICE, CARING, LOVING, HONEST. I always ask him are you ever going to to give up on me. he said I WON'T BECAUSE YOUR MY SWEETHEART. That makes me so happy. he actually makes me feel loved. But my EX Boyfriend contacted me to ask...
    breannetopley18 breannetopley18 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 16, 2012

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    I'm thinking about telling the guy

    that I like and he likes me that someone is interested in me and wants to spend time w/me something he doesn't do but I really want it to be him 8( how should I go about it?? I don't wanna be bored waiting for him to find time for me, it's been too long meanwhile the guy that...
    kellycookies kellycookies 31-35, F Sep 3

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    I like someone that I shouldn't,

    I don't know how to stop liking them they are completely wrong for me!!!
    sharz16 sharz16 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    Hi, so let me throw down this scenario to you

    guys the best way possible. I love my boyfriend, been together and lived together for over a year and a half. Since week 2 of our relationship he has struggled with his incapability to handle his drinking. I have saved his life twice, from sticking my fingers down his throat to...
    kolo1463 kolo1463 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    sometimes everything is perfectly fine

    and all but idk we keep arguing all the time for stupid stuff and I'm talking a lot like a lot .. even tho he keeps apologizing but idk
    viamneera viamneera 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    Have you ever wanted to tell someone how

    perfect they are, but are too scared to do it?
    Jennnaaa Jennnaaa 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 5

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    I'm in a long distance relationship.

    We see each other once in a month or two for a few days. He always comes to my place because I'm in collegue and don't have the time or money to come see him in his town and also have my one apartament (when I'm not on holidays for the summer). We met when he was in college in...
    Naginii Naginii 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Mourning For A Ghost That Never Lived

    He was all a lie , all he told me about himself , his personality , reasons for his break up and his relationship with an ex was a lie , his imaginary friends that he spoke about so much , maybe even his feelings for me. He created this person that I fell in love with hook line...
    Missreedy Missreedy 31-35 6 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    I need some serious relationship advice.

    My boyfriend proposed to me in January. He stopped being affectionate maybe a month before that. I moved to a new state to be with him and to marry him- but things seem to be falling apart. It seemed like he was no longer attracted to me (never wanted to kiss, cuddle, have sex...
    amgasan amgasan 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 27

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    Love Triangle Going On In My Head

    I'll try to make this as concise as possible, but it's kinda complicated. I'm a 40-year-old bisexual man and I've been in an exclusive relationship with the same man for over 15 years (I'll call him John). 13 years ago a co-worker and friend of both of us (I'll call her Jane) let...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    If anyone is good at relationship stuff

    and could give me some advice I am open to it.
    amyrnmca amyrnmca 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I don't know how I feel about this guy anymore.

    The whole thing is really pretty tragic. In the beginning I thought I had a lot to learn from him, literally on a pupil level, but it turns out that he had a lot to learn from me instead. So unexpected… It's quite ironic how things turn out sometimes. Anyway. I can say I have...
    hazelwoodd hazelwoodd 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    I have an online boyfriend we've been

    for a year already, we never met yet in real. as we all experience, relationships has its ups and downs. we broke up and went quickly to another relationship. he had it with my bestfriend and me with another man. mine only lasted 3 months. him only a month. after my break up of...
    UOLAUC UOLAUC 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 26

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    From now on I'm not going to fuss over

    or pine for my husband's attention. He is totally distant, ignore's me. I'm going to focus on Me! He ain't worth the brain power I'm wasting. When we do communicate he only belittle's everything I do and put's me down.
    Chelba Chelba 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 7

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