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    I've know my BF for 7 years.

    The first 5 we were FWB. Then we decided we had actual feelings for each other. Our sex life had always been awesome. He moved in with me a little over a year ago. Since then I have gained some weight(he is overweight himself). Now our seclude is non-existent because he likes...
    MnBelle MnBelle 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Ok, I need advice or something.

    I'm afraid of where this is going. I've been in a relationship with this wonderful woman, we've had a lot of great times and very few bad times. The other night she suggested we take a break from each other. Not breaking up, but just not talking to each other for a couple days...
    matt0030 matt0030 22-25, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Argument That I Don't Know How To Handle

    I said that it is depressing seeing how good other peoples lives are sometimes. Just seeing people out traveling around the world, and going to loads of different places and moving up in the world and I feel like we are just stuck.. and my bf went nuts saying, "well, I am so...
    chloe92 chloe92 22-25 1 Response Aug 12, 2013

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    Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for the last 5 years.  I am ready to get married and cant see staying in this city if we are not.  I just graduated college and moved here for him.  I live with my parents and it is just too expensive to live here on my own. ...
    kkayhalv kkayhalv 22-25 10 Responses Sep 8, 2009

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    Ive had a turbulent relationship with a boy

    for about a year. He was always there with when we were together back in sydney. Even when i was suicidal and unstable. He was there every single moment without fail. Then he had to go back cz his PR application wasnt accepted and he had to stop working and went back home. And...
    fatin27 fatin27 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    So my boyfriend wants to have sex soon

    and I'm ok with that. But the thing is he wants to have sex with out a condom each time and he wants me on birth control. I'm kinda scared because I don't want to risk a chance of getting prego, what do you think I should do.
    hennyforyourthoughts hennyforyourthoughts 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Got yelled at for throwing away toys I found in

    my car. Didn't know they were my fiance's. He yelled and swore while I was in the shower and could hardly defend myself. Then when I got out apologized with no emotion and while watching videos on his phone. I told him to go downstairs so I could cool off and he packed a bag...
    janethinks janethinks 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I need some serious relationship advice.

    My boyfriend proposed to me in January. He stopped being affectionate maybe a month before that. I moved to a new state to be with him and to marry him- but things seem to be falling apart. It seemed like he was no longer attracted to me (never wanted to kiss, cuddle, have sex...
    amgasan amgasan 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 27

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    The Best Advice I'Ve Heard.

    This was from the play, Madea goes to jail. Yes, she's/he's crazy and funny. (To me) But this scene was honestly the biggest eye opener. "Sonny: What am I supposed to do now? Madea: Get up and go on with your life. It's all right to sit around and be depressed for a minute...
    IWillMakeYouThink IWillMakeYouThink 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    This sucks .. I don't know what to do

    or think .. I want a guy who's confident and not shy . And brings smiles to my face all the time and super cuddly and stuff . And I really like my bf . But I don't get those butterflies or those giddy feelings . He doesn't really kiss me unless it's a goodbye and we cuddle all...
    lilmisslouhoo lilmisslouhoo 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I need some advice. Message me

    if your up up for it.
    amyrnmca amyrnmca 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    What Is Important To You In A Relationship?

    What is the most important thing to you in a relationship (at first) and honestly, like i hate to admit it but I know looks do play a factor for me. But then obviously other things like kindness and sense of humour etc overweigh it. But I was wondering what men/ woman find...
    Ciarasjen Ciarasjen 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    Hi, so let me throw down this scenario to you

    guys the best way possible. I love my boyfriend, been together and lived together for over a year and a half. Since week 2 of our relationship he has struggled with his incapability to handle his drinking. I have saved his life twice, from sticking my fingers down his throat to...
    kolo1463 kolo1463 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'll get straight to the point: I like a guy,

    he's 18 and I'm 15 (I really don't care about age). He's just turned 18 so yeahh. Anyway I'm not sure if he knows I like him? I mean I think I said it once but he never takes any notice and he just plays dumb. Does he not like me or does he know I like him but kind of playing...
    CallMeChelsea CallMeChelsea 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    I have feelings for a married man.

    I dream of him leaving his wife for me. I tell myself she is a ***** but she is probably lovely.
    michelleh27 michelleh27 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    If your boyfriend once tried to get with your

    bestfriend , what would you do ?
    Hiya1011 Hiya1011 13-15, F 7 Responses May 3

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    In relationship for nearly 20years,

    had our problems and 2kids, relationship went sour and didn't think I was in love with my partner .. Exchanged texts with someone else partner found out ... Not good I know :-( .... I've been very cold towards him since thinking I didn't want to be with him thinking he would...
    sexylegs11 sexylegs11 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Should I Break Up With Him

    I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for more then a year and a half now. it's not to incredibly long but still he is pretty serious about us. that's not the problem i love him so much, but i have a lot of issues due to a somewhat ****** past. I'm constantly paranoid...
    heresmyname heresmyname 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 27, 2013

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    Today

    I broke up my girlfriend today and even though I think it's the best thing for me I feel like crap because she's so hurt
    Comicone999 Comicone999 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 21, 2013

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    Okay so I have this FWB

    and I don't know how I feel about him. He gets me mad but always makes me forgive him easily, he can make me smile with the simplest stuff and when he touches me my body gets this flutter of lightness and it's a whole new high. But whenever he talks about other girls I never...
    Ashes500 Ashes500 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    fatin27 fatin27 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    Me and my boyfriend has been together

    for 2 months now. And we known each other for 2 1/2 year before we started dating. I have real strong feeling for him and this year he is enlisting for the Marine's and I don't know what to do!! I don't want this amazing relationship to end. I'm falling in love with him and he...
    HakunaMatata711 HakunaMatata711 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Love Triangle Going On In My Head

    I'll try to make this as concise as possible, but it's kinda complicated. I'm a 40-year-old bisexual man and I've been in an exclusive relationship with the same man for over 15 years (I'll call him John). 13 years ago a co-worker and friend of both of us (I'll call her Jane) let...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 16, 2009

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    There's this guy I like.

    He's my best friend. He is the guy who is always on my mind. He's bisexual and has admitted to crushing on me but he is dating a female friend of mine. My problem is that I'm jealous. I don't know how I should handle it. I've told him I liked him, and he only replied "I know...
    VerdlaTal VerdlaTal 13-15, T 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    I've been living with my partner

    for 3 months now and everyday of the week he hangs with his friends. I get home from work and he's either out with them or they're at my house. Should this be a worry or should I be happy for him that he has a group of good friends? I've told him that it would be nice...
    Iamthecutegirl Iamthecutegirl 18-21, F 7 Responses May 28

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    Help?? :C

    we only have one month left together before he leaves :/ and every day seems to go by so quick. i love him so much i dont wanna let go of what we have but i was never one to believe in long distance relationships. ive seen the way people get hurt and just thinking bout it makes...
    marie70413 marie70413 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 5, 2013

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    I've have had a few girlfriends

    that ended not so well I'm not a bad guy or anything I'm actually vey nice I see beautiful girls and I would like to introduce myself I just get tongue tied when trying to speak to them please I only ask for advice so I will not mess up.
    narnold1 narnold1 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm losing sleep due to the situation I'm in

    so I would appreciate a lot of opinions bc I'm very confused on how the guy feels and what I should do! I'm 17 turning 18 in August, the guy is 24, we just started working together in November at a restaurant. Ever since the first day I thought we just clicked bc we have a lot...
    bluecrush42 bluecrush42 18-21, F Mar 2

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    Okay so my kinda "boyfriend" is having some

    issues. His mom is not really accepting of the fact that he is gay. He wants to tell her about me but he's scared. He's talked to his dad about it and he's all for it. I just keep reminding him that I will be there for him no matter what. Is there anything else I can do for him...
    Imjustdone Imjustdone 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 28

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    I wpuld love to be a guy

    for one day/week. Maybe that will tell me what guys thinks and how they function.
    fatin27 fatin27 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 19

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    Is anyone awake and wants to talk?

    I can't sleep. My mind won't shut off.
    amyrnmca amyrnmca 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Ok, so I must say that this is a little odd to

    say. Like, sex should be engraved in our brains right? We should already know immediately how to do it, how to make it more exciting, how to satisfy one another. But thing is, I don't. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend last year. I've had a couple boyfriends before him, but...
    eanchantedeyes eanchantedeyes 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have been dating this amazing guy

    for almost a year and a half now but the problem is that it is a very slow relationship. I think it's because we where literally just best friends In the beginning and it is just difficult. Can I have help with this?
    Georgiakh Georgiakh 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for 6 months. He is 10 years older than me. He has been with anywhere from 15-20 girls. I get upset about thinking of this thought. He has never down anything to make me think he was with anyone else while with me. I trust him 100% and know he is loyal to only me. He went...
    hgpa hgpa 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Help I Have 2 Guys. One Wants Me Back & The Other Guy Is Phenomenal. :)

    Me & Micheal have been dating for a couple weeks. he NICE, CARING, LOVING, HONEST. I always ask him are you ever going to to give up on me. he said I WON'T BECAUSE YOUR MY SWEETHEART. That makes me so happy. he actually makes me feel loved. But my EX Boyfriend contacted me to ask...
    breannetopley18 breannetopley18 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 16, 2012

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    Absentee Boyfriend

    I feel like I'm trying to explain my feelings to a wall. My bf works full time while I stay at home with our baby son. Then he comes home, eats the supper I made, showers and then goes off to play with his band and hang out with his friends.This week he took care of his son a...
    BleedingDesperation BleedingDesperation 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2012

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    Left Unspoken

    From day one I knew there was something about him that I would like. We've seen each other practically every day for three weeks and there is just something about him that makes me feel weak. I'm use to being able to talk to whoever and whenever I want, I am not a shy person. But...
    ForeverUnknown1843 ForeverUnknown1843 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2012

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    I am so emotionally out of control lately.

    Anyone have any answers as to why this is? I know partly is because I am sleep deprived, but I just wake up so paranoid and on guard. I don't know why, but it's really starting to freak me out. I have a new bf and I really don't want to scare him away with how I've been acting...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 20

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    I miss you so much. You only seem to want to

    talk to me when we talk about sex, even though you say you like me back :( why can't we just sit down and talk? :(
    lottie1996 lottie1996 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    He's my best friend. We're

    both 16. He's way 'better' than me and literally every girl I know fancies him, where as I'm really nowhere near as special, and I'm not just saying that. He's almost like someone off of a different planet. Anyway, I like him and I'm sure he knows although I never make my...
    n4ta1i3 n4ta1i3 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    AM I Being Used?

    Im sorry its kinda long PLEASe read it and give me your advice i need help:( Ok so ive been talking to this guy for 7 months and hes super sweet. He made me a necklace on valentines day and dedicated a song to me but hes never asked me on a legit date and all we do is hookup...
    confused7754 confused7754 16-17, F 56 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    Since my break up with the girl I was dating I

    feel real empty and alone...especially working away from family and friends...haven't felt like this in such a long time..been up all night trying to sleep but can't stop feeling hurt and knowing she doesn't care is even worse! Already know she's out with a guy she cheated on me...
    Ruckuss77 Ruckuss77 36-40, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    He didn't invite me to his graduation today.

    I feel like I'm not a big enough part of his life, I don't see why he wouldn't want me there, we've been dating for two years for gods sake!
    cranberriess cranberriess 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    My person is goin into the army

    so we have no titles right now but he doesnt know that I'm dating although he gave me the okay. Idk if I should wait til his departure to try and get serious with someone or just do my own thing because he's leaving and technically we're not together .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F Jul 14

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    Nottobeohsoblunt Nottobeohsoblunt 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 27

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    Mourning For A Ghost That Never Lived

    He was all a lie , all he told me about himself , his personality , reasons for his break up and his relationship with an ex was a lie , his imaginary friends that he spoke about so much , maybe even his feelings for me. He created this person that I fell in love with hook line...
    Missreedy Missreedy 31-35 6 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    How do you gain/build trust back in a

    relationship? (Being the woman) Please, anything is helpful at this point.
    ShadowedLover ShadowedLover 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Once I told a guy I liked him he said cool

    now we are best friends but now instead of liking him I love him we sit and talk all day and I just don't know what to do but then I just stayed friends with him even now and I shouldn't have done that cuz I am in love with him what should I do ?!?!??!?!!!?!!?
    youfirgotaboutmebff youfirgotaboutmebff 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 23

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    My partner and I are together almost four years.

    I love him dearly, he is my best friend and I trust him entirely. We have a great sex life and lately it seems to have gotten even better and more passionate. I am just looking for some ideas to surprise him with. I love the look of pleasure and surprise on his face when I try...
    nainaii nainaii 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    Ok. ..this is driving me crazy the girl I was

    madly in love with I caught cheating with numerous guys, she left her FB on my phone and I came across these messages. So things ended but I just wanted a apology but she was evil and cruel..and now I found out that she is moving back to her ex's, I really am feeling vindictive...
    Ruckuss77 Ruckuss77 36-40, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Should I confront my ex on apparently saying

    that he 'hates me and I'm throwing myself at other guys' when we broke up a year ago and he hasn't spoke to me since? I don't know why he opened up the can of worms:3
    Jennnaaa Jennnaaa 13-15, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I like someone that I shouldn't,

    I don't know how to stop liking them they are completely wrong for me!!!
    sharz16 sharz16 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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