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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 12 Responses May 26, 2014

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    Job advice.. My sister has strep throat

    and the flu and pink eye, and it's highly contagious. Im hoping I won't get sick but I probably will. So.. My first day at this new job is on Tuesday, if I get sick, and I call in on my first day... How bad does that look? I really don't want to have to do that. But I also don't...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 27 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    My relationship feels

    so depressing all my boyfriend does is sleep he works early in the morning when he finishes i talk to him for like 10 minutes then he sleeps for over 6 hours if i call him while he is asleep i get yelled at, he is always moody, i cant remember the last time he said i love you...
    FaithH0peLove FaithH0peLove 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Do you think it's 'sad'

    that I give up my spare time to volunteer at a holiday centre for people with physical and mental disabilities. Some of my friends say it means I have no life because I have nothing better to do than volunteer there. But to be honest, I think that it's what life is all about...
    jessie123h jessie123h 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 1

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    So my bf who I've been going out with

    for 8 months doesn't wanna tell his friends or family about me... He says he doesn't want drama and questions.. What does this mean? I'm so confused and I can't figure out what to do. I live 2 hours away from him. It's hard to talk to him because he's always busy or I'm to...
    Kru24 Kru24 18-21 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I dated this girl three years ago

    and I really loved her. After a while she decided to break up with me. We were always close after that though. Now I have a new girlfriend who I haven't been dating for a while. Now I find out that my old girlfriend wants be back. I want to date her but I don't want to hurt my...
    needadvice25 needadvice25 26-30, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I am a Christian but lately I've been

    questioning it a lot. I feel like I just am not connecting with it anymore. I'm just now living on my own and exploring life in my 20's. I want to take awhile and experiment with different religions, and other lifestyles but I'm afraid that if I leave my religion for a little...
    virginiamarie94 virginiamarie94 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    I'm into this guy, but he's really shy

    and sweet. I'm really loud and pretty overwhelming. I don't think he's got the courage to pursue anything with me. How do I try to start a relationship with him without scaring him off with my directness?
    alaynajanelle alaynajanelle 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    So tomorrow I will be going to public school

    for testing (I am homeschooled) As I thought about it more and more I began having a panic attack and I couldn't breathe. I haven't been around teenagers my age in a very long time and now I'm terrified of them. I am afraid that when I walk into that school tomorrow another...
    Delicateflower98 Delicateflower98 16-17, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    My ex texted me a week ago,

    asking why I hate him. That text...it's so immature. Why would you ask that? Ridiculous. So I ignored it. Two days go he texted asking for his textbook. He gave it to me in the beginning of the year, and when we broke up he said I could keep it till the end of the year. Well he...
    BroguesAndJeans BroguesAndJeans 16-17, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    There's this girl at my school

    that I've been acquaintances with for about a year and a half. Her boyfriend of two years (i think? they were in an on and off relationship) recently broke up with her and is now with another girl. I feel so bad for her, and since I also am going through a breakup i feel like i...
    BroguesAndJeans BroguesAndJeans 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    A few days ago I had to call an ambulance

    for my 49 year old Mother. I took an EMT basic course last year and knowing the signs, my judgment said it was a heart attack. She had shortness of breath, nausea, crushing chest pain that radiated into her left arm, and an elevated BP systolic was 180 and I have never seen her...
    GreenEyedFox GreenEyedFox 22-25, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Hey just wondering of anyone is willing to give

    me advise. I haven't seen my friend since November and I'm not sure if he's my friend anymore. Since I've last seen him, he has not texted, called, or made any effort to keep in contact with me. I always have to be the one that calls. I don't like to play games or anything like...
    Canadabro Canadabro 26-30, M 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    i've been great friends with this girl

    and i think in simple terms i've liked her on and off for a year. when i dont like her, i force myself not to talk/think about her bc i dont want to feel this way, and i focus my attention on guys..i also don't like any other girls. (neither of us are out as lesbian/bi..) i...
    whydoineeddone whydoineeddone 18-21, F 4 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    So there is this guy at my church

    that I have liked for 4 years now, and 6 months ago we started texting (are parents didn't know) and we told each other how we felt and that we liked each other, then we got caught and both got in trouble. Another one of my guy friends is good friends this the guy I like, and...
    grace2you grace2you 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I need some more fashion advice please ASAP!

    same rules from last time girls can be any age to message me guys please be under 25 thanks (: ASAP!! (;
    youngadult14 youngadult14 13-15, F Aug 30, 2014

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    I had a bf.. and he was my best friend too.

    I've no friends at all. I'm an introvert. Now we broke up on 9th Jan as his exams are coming and he said he loves me but his studies are more important and he's just so weird.. but he said we can be best friends but not in a relation. At first few days I got mad and all but then...
    chocolateinmyblood chocolateinmyblood 16-17 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    An amazing array of cold treatments has existed

    since antiquity. Roman author Pliny the Elder prescribed jaguar urine and hare feces for fighting coughs. Syrian physician Ibn al-Quff suggested the application of a hot iron to the head until the skull is visible. The Swiss physician Samuel Tissot treated severe colds by...
    BloviatingBuffoon BloviatingBuffoon 70+, F 10 Responses Dec 19, 2014

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    Okay, so I've been dating this guy

    for quite some time now. My main problem is this. I feel like he kind of lack the initiative to do things first in our relationship. He won't tell me he loves me unless I tell him first. I asked him about it and he just says that he's not used to it. How am I suppose to go from...
    Liebeeiram Liebeeiram 22-25, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hey! So I recently joined a bball team

    and made tryouts as a red-shirt. This means that I am able to practice/ do everything with the team, but not play... Therefore I don't use up a year of eligibility while getting better for the next year. The season went by pretty fast, but i've always had the impression that my...
    CobaltDusk CobaltDusk 18-21, F 13 hrs ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    kristiniacc11 kristiniacc11 26-30, F 16 hrs ago

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    So, somehow, this happened.

    .. I work at a convalescent home, and they needed someone to accompany the elder folk on their hospital visits. I volunteered, and as you'd have it, the van driver who transported us to the hospitals is sooo handsome. Not only that but he has the most likeable friendly...
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 17 Responses Jan 22

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    so I need your advice.

    My coworkers like to make rude comments about me but try to make it out as a joke even though I know its not. They say things like i'm lame, I have no friends, and i'm pretty sure they've made jokes about the way I look. I hang out with a couple of them because they invite me to...
    Imstillhere122 Imstillhere122 18-21, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    It'S Not Easy To Move On

    When i was younger 17/18 i had a boyfriend that i gave up everything for, my job, friends and family i moved away to be with him, and it was a huge mistake. He became abusive very quickly and every time i forgave him. i soon realized what i was putting myself through as long as i...
    Maz100 Maz100 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    So im thinking of giving this to my crush

    as a birthday present like making a nice card. And I wrote this poem for her. I want it to be friendly I don't want her to suspect yet, but hopefully to remember it. I'm wondering if it wud be good and doesn't sound a little too friendly. Any advice is super groovy thanks...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 2, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    angiestong angiestong 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 11 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I'm in a relationship with a man I love

    so much but lately things between us are falling apart and I am moving out of state in 10 days and I have no idea how to tell him and I know it's going to hurt him and me so much. I'm so scared.... I don't know what to do
    Kileighco Kileighco 18-21 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Don't be slutty. Be classy.

    CLASSY= Class with ***
    vaashapenin vaashapenin 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    There is a boy I like in my class.

    It's summer now so school is over and the classes will split when school starts again. We have been flirting a bit for about a half year but both has been to shy to acctually make the first move. Now that we didn't get in the same class I won't be able to be around him...
    Zelo01 Zelo01 13-15, F 7 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    Input Quickly Please

    I have received some disturbing text messages from an EP member. This person has also written a blog in the past few minutes saying "good bye" Do you fine EPers think I should start calling high schools in this persons home town and try to reach a GC to intervene...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 15 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    I am a second year college student,

    and have this boy in my math class who talks too much. In general, I am an outgoing person, but dead serious when it comes to class. The teacher started monitoring the both of us, and I am pissed at this. This guy is like-able, but he is a little too much for me. This guy is 17...
    FloristGirl FloristGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm feeling artsy today.

    What do you think?
    halfpace halfpace 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 28 Responses Apr 28, 2014

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    Ok I'm an ordinary guy in my fourties trying

    to restart my life. I broke up with the woman I've been with for fifteen year's about 4 month's ago. Everyone in my life tell's me I am a good looking man and I believe them. I just can't get over how dam shy I am. I see it as a flaw and want to use it as my strength. I am sick...
    Encontrados Encontrados 36-40, M 2 Responses May 22, 2014

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    He was here after school in my house

    and I thought we were going to fix everything and work it out like we used to but instead he's making me make the BIGGEST DECISION OF MY LIFE! He wants me to choose between him or CHRIS! I already did that in the past and Chris and I finally managed to be friends again and now...
    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 20

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    I hate when people give me cliche advice like

    "never give up", well no **** lol
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 6

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    here are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    anneluna anneluna 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I need advice. I've been talking to this guy

    for 3 months and we are taking things slow. I'm not ready to have sex or anything but he says he really cares about me and he's willing to wait for me. I noticed he still text and talks to the girls he used to have sex with and on weekends doesn't text me/talk to me as much as...
    Flowerpush Flowerpush 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 21

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    (So,I don't go into detail

    or anything, and probably never will. It's not something I like to talk about. But it is kind of a touchy subject, so if that bothers you, you may block me (assuming you're in my circle) . I don't bring it up much. But I could really use some advice ...) I realize things would...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    Alright I have a problem at school still,

    I am no longer failing 4 class's but I am still failing two, one of which I am gonna pass my teaches told me it's because she hasn't entered grades yet, and the other I just haven't done well in it. I have a 44 in there and there is only 3 months left in school. If it was...
    abp62626 abp62626 16-17, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    My wife and I have never truly connected

    sexually. It has been up and down for the 3 years we have been together. Recently her sister has been coming on to me. She has been texting me a lot even sending pics. I am very interested. She is a very attractive and my wife is to be nice above average. What should I do? Any...
    Ben10hollis Ben10hollis 26-30, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 24 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 27 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    The people in my school are terrible people.

    They act like their your friend over a text message and when you get to school they want nothing to do with you. They play with your emotions. They are bad examples. I have truly never met anyone like these people. I moved to the school two years ago. They don't let you be you...
    thatsme55 thatsme55 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    Hello! I am hoping some men AND women with

    experience, would be able to give me their view on this situation! My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2.5 years, we live in a house that we shopped for together, (I am on no legal paperwork) I help raise his 12 year old daughter, because her mother was a drug addict...
    InstaMom InstaMom 22-25 3 Responses Feb 21

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