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    Please I'm asking for any kind of help,

    it's been two weeks since my boyfriend left for basic training and I have not gotten any letters. I called the base and they said I can't get a mailing address without his social and I have to a family member. Is there anything I can do at this point? Anything at all?!
    Bonneyshattuck Bonneyshattuck 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 25 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    I'm feeling artsy today.

    What do you think?
    halfpace halfpace 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    At the age of 16, I'm already worrying about my

    future. I don't know what I want to be when I grow up. Actually, I do, but I'm not sure if that's what I really want. I don't want to end up having a ****** up life and future. I want to be successful in life without depending on other people. Each and everyday, i think about...
    fiji0water0 fiji0water0 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    My husband and I have three small kids.

    He works and I stay home with them. Most days he works Mon through Fri and is home by 3:30. He has a physical job so I get that he is tired but it's been 5 months since we have gone anywhere as a family with the exception of 3 birthday parties. He considers bonding just the fact...
    AmayaHoo AmayaHoo 22-25, F 9 Responses 4 days ago

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 9 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    were together for 12 years we had our ups

    and downs but stuck through it. In the 9th year together I bought us a home. We moved in and for three years we were living together. I will not lie or glorify myself I messed up a lot. It was not until the 12th year I had started to see work was not everything and wanted to...
    Madmanwithabox29 Madmanwithabox29 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    My ex who I had NC with

    for over a year texted me. It was very business like " my name I'm so sorry to bother you but I found some of your dads thing in his wallet not sure how I wound up with it or if you want it ?? Her name"- end message. That was Monday night I have not texted back it seems odd to...
    Madmanwithabox29 Madmanwithabox29 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    I can"t write a lyric

    for a song. Can anyone help me create one? I"m realy useless
    nagaseiori nagaseiori 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I told my crush I like him,

    IN ******* PERSON. I tapped him on the shoulder "fadol can I tell you something?" "Yeah sure" we moved to the Side and I told him after like 10 secs of silence. "I kinda like you " he smiled. "Are you the one whose been kiking me?" "No that was one of my best friends", he was...
    kidLeftInTheDark kidLeftInTheDark 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 7

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    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 27 Responses Apr 28, 2014

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    I need to talk to someone

    that can be honest and tell me their opinion on a thing I did
    Kaitlyn0804 Kaitlyn0804 16-17, F 33 Responses May 16

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    Input Quickly Please

    I have received some disturbing text messages from an EP member. This person has also written a blog in the past few minutes saying "good bye" Do you fine EPers think I should start calling high schools in this persons home town and try to reach a GC to intervene...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 16 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 12 Responses May 26, 2014

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    I am homeschooled and i

    and going in to 8th so next year I want to go to real school but I am really behind Cus my mom is not doing well she hasn't for sometime now and my dad is trying to take care of her but it's hard I am supposed to be going into 8th grade but I am doing 6th everything this year...
    Melon5 Melon5 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Me and my long time girlfriend broke up almost

    four months ago, didn't talk or have any contact for months, then started talking again a few weeks ago. It's obvious we still have feelings for each other, we've kissed multiple times, but we don't know if we can get back together. We're both confused about how we feel and...
    JMCDoReMi JMCDoReMi 18-21, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    There is a man that sits outside the same store,

    wearing the same clothes, in his wheelchair everyday. I think he's homeless and I've prepared a bag with things he may need like food, water, sleeping bag, etc. the issue is what if I try and give it to him and he isn't homeless? Should I try anyway? I don't want to offend him...
    SarahFromSeattle SarahFromSeattle 18-21, F 10 Responses a week ago

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    I went to the salon and paid 65 dollars to get

    roots touched up. A different stylist did it and when she was done she said "it looks a little dark still I might have to go over it again" then she called over another stylist and she said "it looks good, what do you think?" And I said "yeah it's fine" I couldn't really see...
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    alicacc11 alicacc11 26-30, F Aug 19

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    How do you make a guy

    that you like jealous? Besides the obvious. Pleeeease help me.
    Steelers7 Steelers7 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 27 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    Ok I'm an ordinary guy in my fourties trying

    to restart my life. I broke up with the woman I've been with for fifteen year's about 4 month's ago. Everyone in my life tell's me I am a good looking man and I believe them. I just can't get over how dam shy I am. I see it as a flaw and want to use it as my strength. I am sick...
    Encontrados Encontrados 41-45, M 5 Responses May 22, 2014

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    The people in my school are terrible people.

    They act like their your friend over a text message and when you get to school they want nothing to do with you. They play with your emotions. They are bad examples. I have truly never met anyone like these people. I moved to the school two years ago. They don't let you be you...
    thatsme55 thatsme55 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    I am sick of everything!

    I don't want to do anything, or even try. Just want to disappear and be done. Sad huh!
    MRP223 MRP223 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 13, 2014

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    so wat happened was i got this crush on this

    girl and she didn't feel the same. she basically told me to leave her alone. i did and i was jus hoping she wouldn't tell anyone cause im not out yet. yea ik im so stupid. but she ended up telling the entire school that i was gay. and i got bullied everyday after. my parents...
    IKnowImAlone IKnowImAlone 13-15, F 6 Responses Mar 7

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    I hate when people give me cliche advice like

    "never give up", well no **** lol
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    I have this friend I have known

    for a while but only recently (last 4 days) really got to know personally, we are getting on really well and I really like her, but she is leaving to join the merchant navy next week and I don't know what to do do I tell her what I think and put this on her just before she goes...
    riw1996 riw1996 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Is anyone good at giving love advice?

    I have just broke up with my ex. but I still love them and i'm not sure what should I do.
    earlyday19 earlyday19 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    (So,I don't go into detail

    or anything, and probably never will. It's not something I like to talk about. But it is kind of a touchy subject, so if that bothers you, you may block me (assuming you're in my circle) . I don't bring it up much. But I could really use some advice ...) I realize things would...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    I think my cousin might be in an abusive

    relationship. I don't think it has gotten physical or anything. But he's very jealous and needy and impulsive. Every Time me and her talk on FaceTime she had to end it because her bf is mad that she hasn't answered him for a while. He constantly think he has to talk to her every...
    lesley2456 lesley2456 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    My ex broke up with me a year ago.

    We were together for 12yrs. She left me for someone she was talking to online. I never really got any real closure. She treated me like trash during the whole process of moving her things out of the house separating bill and a lot more. I was emotional wreak still am in some...
    Madmanwithabox29 Madmanwithabox29 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Don't be slutty. Be classy.

    CLASSY= Class with ***
    Mesmicdoll Mesmicdoll 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    I am a Christian but lately I've been

    questioning it a lot. I feel like I just am not connecting with it anymore. I'm just now living on my own and exploring life in my 20's. I want to take awhile and experiment with different religions, and other lifestyles but I'm afraid that if I leave my religion for a little...
    virginiamarie94 virginiamarie94 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    so when your best friend says

    that she has feelings for your boyfriend......and you brake up with him cause you don't want to lose her as a friend..but then she says she really doesn't care if you guys go out but you already broke up with him..what do you do?
    xxMusicisbaexx xxMusicisbaexx 13-15, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    I wanna make an Instagram account to help

    people with bullying and stuff like that but I can't think of any usernames
    Pageantgurl Pageantgurl 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My cousin told me that she's interested in my

    first love. She's asking me for his number. Should I give her?
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Theres this guy that I've been talking to

    for about a month now and he likes me and I like him too. I mean we like a lot of the same things and he's really cool but I don't feel like I'm that attracted to him. I know that it sounds bad and I'm always saying don't judge a book by its cover and thats why im feeling like a...
    Imstillhere122 Imstillhere122 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    okay so my boyfriend

    and I broke up today after 3 months and well I just found out his best friend likes me and I have liked his best friend for a year ! but I just broke up with my boyfriend !!!
    lalababes14 lalababes14 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm in love with a bisexual guy.

    I'm not sure if I should tell him or not. We know each other cause we have worked before in a pageant I joined last August 7, 2015, but we're not close and I think he's in a relationship now. He's almost 2 years older than me. He's really this beautiful guy inside and out, has a...
    beautifulmistake17 beautifulmistake17 16-17, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    ok so if your best friends fiance was sexually

    advancing you would you tell your best friend ?
    louisejustin louisejustin 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    It'S Not Easy To Move On

    When i was younger 17/18 i had a boyfriend that i gave up everything for, my job, friends and family i moved away to be with him, and it was a huge mistake. He became abusive very quickly and every time i forgave him. i soon realized what i was putting myself through as long as i...
    Maz100 Maz100 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 27 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    So, somehow, this happened.

    .. I work at a convalescent home, and they needed someone to accompany the elder folk on their hospital visits. I volunteered, and as you'd have it, the van driver who transported us to the hospitals is sooo handsome. Not only that but he has the most likeable friendly...
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 16 Responses Jan 22