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    Ok me and my ex husband split

    for no good reason .. Mainly due to stress other then that we got on great .. Well 7 weeks after separation he still keeps coming back to the house for silly things like shoes etc .. I keep telling him to take all the stuff at once but he doesn't .. Then he comes to sort bills...
    wehaveissues wehaveissues 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    I really need to get something off my chest

    and to be honest I can't trust the people that surround me with this,I really need a female friend here that I can trust
    ImTheQueenFYM ImTheQueenFYM 16-17, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    The people in my school are terrible people.

    They act like their your friend over a text message and when you get to school they want nothing to do with you. They play with your emotions. They are bad examples. I have truly never met anyone like these people. I moved to the school two years ago. They don't let you be you...
    thatsme55 thatsme55 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    So I work at the Police Department

    and have been training to become a sergeant. I just found out today in order for my training hours to count I'll have to work under a supervisor other than my current one. So basically my options are to work under patrol which I used to do but I really don't want to do that...
    Foxyvan Foxyvan 41-45, F 19 Responses Jul 6

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    Things I Would Tell My Younger Self The

    romance novels you read paint unrealistic expectations of relationships. Stop comparing yourself to other people, you are a swan in the making. Do not change yourself to satisfy the people in your life who do not appreciate you. It’s okay to say no. But don’t make...
    RedHwaiting RedHwaiting 18-21, F 1 Response May 30

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    I need advice on whether

    or not I should continue talking to a younger girl. Background: I work as a camp counselor at a swim club, and there is this gorgeous girl who works at the snack bar at the swim club. I see her basically everyday there and it was pretty obvious we had a great connection. Last...
    wspd1993 wspd1993 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 26

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    Please someone advice me.

    So through a recommendation from a friend I had sent my CV to a bank a month back, and 3 weeks back I had received a call from them to come for an interview. Anyway the interview went great, and I got called for a second interview and that went just OK. So all that while I...
    makeachangealways makeachangealways 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 28 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    I need advice from someone matured

    who has seen many facets of life. I do lots of introspection and sometimes I wish for discuss some matters with someone matured. I have advised people on matter on which I have experience. I know that a person who has experienced know much more than the person who is...
    Somexyz Somexyz 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    There is this guy I like.

    .. We get along great! He's cute, funny, polite and is really respectful.. There's one problem :c I'm 19 and he has just turned 17 >.< I feel so bad because he is so young... Is that to young?? Help!
    lifeisnottoobad lifeisnottoobad 18-21, F 7 Responses May 9

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    my nephew, is expected to undergo hearing

    process. It was due to my nephew hitting his classmate back, who is a girl by the way, it was some girl in school trying to bully him to a point he was punched several times and saying negative things about him. He punched the girl and imagining the strength of a teen boy being...
    imkryptonian imkryptonian 26-30, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Input Quickly Please

    I have received some disturbing text messages from an EP member. This person has also written a blog in the past few minutes saying "good bye" Do you fine EPers think I should start calling high schools in this persons home town and try to reach a GC to intervene...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 16 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    So this guy I have been seeing over a year

    tells me last night that he has to let me go cause he has fallen in love with me and I have his heart but he don't want to be hurt again as I sat their crying my eyes out he then tells me wouldn't every girl want a guy to be honest with them I was like how is that being honest...
    mouse2816 mouse2816 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 22

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    I love you guys ! I love this app

    and I just got on it I had this when I was 14 but I never used it but now I'm 16 and this is really helping I love you guys thanks for not being rude ! 😊
    simplesecrets simplesecrets 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    so wat happened was i got this crush on this

    girl and she didn't feel the same. she basically told me to leave her alone. i did and i was jus hoping she wouldn't tell anyone cause im not out yet. yea ik im so stupid. but she ended up telling the entire school that i was gay. and i got bullied everyday after. my parents...
    IKnowImAlone IKnowImAlone 13-15, F 6 Responses Mar 7

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 9 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Ok I'm an ordinary guy in my fourties trying

    to restart my life. I broke up with the woman I've been with for fifteen year's about 4 month's ago. Everyone in my life tell's me I am a good looking man and I believe them. I just can't get over how dam shy I am. I see it as a flaw and want to use it as my strength. I am sick...
    Encontrados Encontrados 41-45, M 5 Responses May 22, 2014

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    Comment if ur good at advice plz!

    !! I want advice about something!
    Kayla429 Kayla429 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    clearmymind clearmymind 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Ok so there is this one girl named ´sue'

    (thats not her real name I just don't want to put it on line) So she found out if my self harm and told me she didn't want to be friends with me her one friend found out and didn't want to be friends with her anymore. It's been a couple months and they are now in contact which I...
    thatgirl180 thatgirl180 16-17 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 25 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    I hate when people give me cliche advice like

    "never give up", well no **** lol
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Do you think it's 'sad'

    that I give up my spare time to volunteer at a holiday centre for people with physical and mental disabilities. Some of my friends say it means I have no life because I have nothing better to do than volunteer there. But to be honest, I think that it's what life is all about...
    jessie123h jessie123h 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 1

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    One year ago I got raped multiple times by the

    same guy. Since last week i've been getting text messages from him threatening me. I told my mom, but she doesn't know what to do. He knows where I live and I feel like I should stay at my friends house for a while.
    Druidic Druidic 16-17, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I told my crush I like him,

    IN ******* PERSON. I tapped him on the shoulder "fadol can I tell you something?" "Yeah sure" we moved to the Side and I told him after like 10 secs of silence. "I kinda like you " he smiled. "Are you the one whose been kiking me?" "No that was one of my best friends", he was...
    kidLeftInTheDark kidLeftInTheDark 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 7

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    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 27 Responses Apr 28, 2014

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    When the only thing you can do to help someone

    is giving them a hug, but the person is emotionally damaged, what can you do to help?
    steviehunt steviehunt 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 25

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    My friend's dad is asking his girlfriend to

    marry him and he wants me and my friends to be in this weird flashmob thing when he asks. But I dont want to do it. This is a video of us learning the dance. Its so stupid and embarassing. It's literally a routine I probably would have done in like grade 1. Its to this dumb song...
    ZacV11 ZacV11 16-17, M 5 Responses Jul 20

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    If somebody I like asks me on a date

    or even to casually meet up I always end up panicking and I begin to see flaws in that person and generally become more and more put off. It gets to the point where I literally cringe if they continue to ask me out. I've always had this problem and it has prevented me from...
    HyperactiveLauren HyperactiveLauren 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    I feel so crappy! please help me understand.

    I've been recently seeing this cute guy and as far as I can tell he is into me, gives me complements takes me out, good sex etc but I recently discovered on his Facebook that he left his pretty girlfriend 2 months ago.. if that! I really don't want to be a rebound coz I like the...
    lilbee2 lilbee2 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 23

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    It'S Not Easy To Move On

    When i was younger 17/18 i had a boyfriend that i gave up everything for, my job, friends and family i moved away to be with him, and it was a huge mistake. He became abusive very quickly and every time i forgave him. i soon realized what i was putting myself through as long as i...
    Maz100 Maz100 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    A fun opinionated question.

    Now, a friend of mine is in a relationship, has been for three months. They've lived together for two months, and they just recently got engaged. They are in their early twenties, and are madly in love. Now, I'm kinda flabbergasted they don't see anything wrong with getting...
    speedskull speedskull 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 21

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    This is an Advice Column.

    If you guys have any questions just drop it here and i'll message you back the answer and advice. Thanks you guys! It doesn't have to be Too personal it can be whatever!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 day ago

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    I am sick of everything!

    I don't want to do anything, or even try. Just want to disappear and be done. Sad huh!
    MRP223 MRP223 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 13, 2014

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    I don't usually ask these kinds of questions,

    but I need another's POV on this. My older sister's best friend is also good friends with me. I mean, they were friends since they were in middle school (I was 8). A while back, the friend slept with my sister's boyfriend (they were on break though... but she wasn't over him yet...
    Storiesnotforthefaintofheart Storiesnotforthefaintofheart 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    please help! I've started seeing this guy

    and we have been on a couple of dates, he called me by another girls name when he had just woke up, I confronted him and he said sorry that he didn't even know a girl called 'sam' i let it slide seems he was half asleep. we then went to the beach the same day and he called me...
    lilbee2 lilbee2 22-25, F Jul 25

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    I've lost almost 15 kg of my weight during 1

    year and 3 mobths and still am overweighted, I'm 172 centimeters tall! Unfortunately even doing regular exercises and control my food is not enough any more and my weight has stopped decreasing! I need some hints, motivation or I don't know some people to work out with me...
    Jasmine87111 Jasmine87111 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    with something that i really dont know what to

    do. Basically the story is about my boyfriend of 16 months. we love each other and had loads of fun times but at the same time we had loads of sad and down times which we went through together but from 3 weeks ago everything got boring, when we were out we didnt know what to...
    lucyschwartz lucyschwartz 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    I Need Advice

    so i came to this web site just to comment some things i read that were really good stories.but i still have a story to tell.the problem is im scared to say it.i dont know other people do it.i..i just cant.pls tell me what to do!!!
    victor8038 victor8038 26-30, M 5 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    I need to talk to someone

    that can be honest and tell me their opinion on a thing I did
    Kaitlyn0804 Kaitlyn0804 16-17, F 36 Responses May 16

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    Don't be slutty. Be classy.

    CLASSY= Class with ***
    Jenny369 Jenny369 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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