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    Could use some advice,

    please send me a message.
    Sarawynn2432 Sarawynn2432 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Input Quickly Please

    I have received some disturbing text messages from an EP member. This person has also written a blog in the past few minutes saying "good bye" Do you fine EPers think I should start calling high schools in this persons home town and try to reach a GC to intervene...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 13 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    Ok so I really need some advice I have well

    kinda a boyfriend but he has children he don't get to see cause their mother and him don't see eye to eye and well he kinda just gave up on seeing them cause she would never let him he's a great person but anyways now he is having melt downs in wanting to see them and even gets...
    mouse2816 mouse2816 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 22

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 32 Responses Apr 13

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    Ok I'm an ordinary guy in my fourties trying

    to restart my life. I broke up with the woman I've been with for fifteen year's about 4 month's ago. Everyone in my life tell's me I am a good looking man and I believe them. I just can't get over how dam shy I am. I see it as a flaw and want to use it as my strength. I am sick...
    Encontrados Encontrados 36-40, M 2 Responses May 22

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9

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    caddriss caddriss 36-40, F 16 hrs ago

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    i need help trying to quit smoking.

    does anyone of and tips that have helped them ?
    iankrakewski iankrakewski 18-21, M 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Ok so me and my gf are going out to eat today

    at pretty nice place. I'm 15 she's 14 so were young lol. Wea've dated for 3 months. so heres the thing i dont know if i should sit next to or across from her (at a booth) ive read both so just wanting to hear an opinion thanks so much
    richmckee richmckee 16-17, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 28 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    I am just in such a funk in my life.

    I am looking for someone to share advice with maybe help one another out and just have someone to enjoy chatting with online. Nothing serious, no meeting just someone to have fun and talk with.
    snowbabe3 snowbabe3 22-25, F 10 Responses Jul 9

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    I am a Christian but lately I've been

    questioning it a lot. I feel like I just am not connecting with it anymore. I'm just now living on my own and exploring life in my 20's. I want to take awhile and experiment with different religions, and other lifestyles but I'm afraid that if I leave my religion for a little...
    virginiamarie94 virginiamarie94 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 12

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    constantly thinking of him,

    I've tried to get over him , but it seems impossible. When I talk to someone else, all I do is compare that person to him, I know it's wrong but I can't help it. I can get a goodnight text from another guy, but I'll fall asleep with the thought of him. I don't want to feel like...
    DreamofKatt DreamofKatt 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 22

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    How do I make a move on a girl I like.

    I always get so nervous around her. And I freeze up. I really try to make moves but I don't know if she gets the hint that I like her. Ok so yesterday at school I was sitting on top of my desk and we were like in a little group with other kids and me and her were talking and we...
    IKnowImAlone IKnowImAlone 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 18

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    I'm unsure how to feel

    and even express myself. I think I maybe fall too fast or rush things.I don't know why.. Wish there was a cure lol. I can't tell if I'm getting a hint or if I'm over thinking. I don't know how to ask a question without it being awkward.. Guys just confuse me..
    corkzin corkzin 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    i wish i had someone to talk to,

    so i suppose ill vent here since at least someone will read it. Well, we are very good and very close friends, since childhood. for me at least, ive noticed weve grown apart since our mid 20s. whenever i share anything with her, anything at all, she always replys with, "is there...
    blahblah2789 blahblah2789 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I like soooo many people.

    I just can't stick to one person. But once I find the right one I'll love him/her and only him/her. I like this girl. Well at least three other girls but two of them are taken anyway. So this girl, I've been small talking to her for really years but only increase for a...
    xxxfakerhaterxxx xxxfakerhaterxxx 13-15, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I'm 31 .And was sheltered my whole life my

    parents homeschool me. So,I didn't make friends in school. I'm shy. So,what I'm asking is how do you make friends?
    lisa00 lisa00 31-35 10 Responses May 16

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    I think my teacher is hitting on me.

    We play fight all the time and he is always looking at me and touching me. Help me please?
    adynamia adynamia 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 17

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    i really need advice right now.

    my life is tumbled and i dont know what to do.
    unlovednbroken unlovednbroken 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 7

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    I am sick of everything!

    I don't want to do anything, or even try. Just want to disappear and be done. Sad huh!
    MRP223 MRP223 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 13

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    I met a guy on an online dating site.

    We hung out the first day and I found out how quiet and shy he was. He was very nice. At the end of the date he walked me to my car and we kissed. We ended up hooking up right after... After that, we kept in contact and we hung out a few days later. It was still quiet and...
    bluejeans20 bluejeans20 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 24 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    I need advice in some what embarrassing of the

    bedroom department.. I'm a virgin.. I'd prefer to tell selective person over message I'm shy and pretty scared about when I lose my virginity..
    Adam352 Adam352 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    http://www.experienceproject.

    com/stories/Am-A-New-Member-At-Experience-Project/5034013
    Gowithitjam Gowithitjam 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    My Marriage

    I need advice on my marriage. My husband and I have been through some really rough times, and now even though we are a lot stronger I can't let go of the hurt we've caused each other. At times it felt like a game, who could hurt each other the most, it was a cycle that none of us...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 77 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    So im thinking of giving this to my crush

    as a birthday present like making a nice card. And I wrote this poem for her. I want it to be friendly I don't want her to suspect yet, but hopefully to remember it. I'm wondering if it wud be good and doesn't sound a little too friendly. Any advice is super groovy thanks...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 2

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 11 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    There is a boy I like in my class.

    It's summer now so school is over and the classes will split when school starts again. We have been flirting a bit for about a half year but both has been to shy to acctually make the first move. Now that we didn't get in the same class I won't be able to be around him...
    Zelo01 Zelo01 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 14

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    I Need Advice

    so i came to this web site just to comment some things i read that were really good stories.but i still have a story to tell.the problem is im scared to say it.i dont know other people do it.i..i just cant.pls tell me what to do!!!
    victor8038 victor8038 26-30, M 6 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    My ex beat me up a few weeks ago.

    I see him the other day and he see all the marks that are still on me. He won't accept he did them. He point blank refused to accept he did it. I think he's having a breakdown but is that normal? He honestly thinks that all the marks are nothing to do with him? My friend thinks...
    Kerry1304 Kerry1304 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 23

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    Is this a good picture

    or no ??? Does it show off my nose ring enough ??
    nailwire nailwire 16-17, F 24 Responses Sep 24

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    (UK answerers only please!

    ) Hi I just want some advice about A-levels. I am 20 and I want to do A-levels as I only have GCSEs (and an NVQ in hairdressing which I quit) and I want to further my education. Is it possible for me to do A-levels at this age? And how much roughly would it cost? cannot afford...
    FierrrrceNadia FierrrrceNadia 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I feel like I have to puke

    after I eat, why? I think I may be anorexic bc I'm not wanting to eat like I usually do
    Waterstorm Waterstorm 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    It'S Not Easy To Move On

    When i was younger 17/18 i had a boyfriend that i gave up everything for, my job, friends and family i moved away to be with him, and it was a huge mistake. He became abusive very quickly and every time i forgave him. i soon realized what i was putting myself through as long as i...
    Maz100 Maz100 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    ok so everyone thinks I'm homophobic at my

    school because I beat up a gay kid. NOT BECAUSE HE WAS GAY THOUGH! I had a talk with my girlfriend (it's her friend) that I felt uncomftorable with her hanging with him so much. I don't really give a damn if your straight or gay I don't want any guy hanging out with my gf almost...
    richmckee richmckee 16-17, M 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    (So,I don't go into detail

    or anything, and probably never will. It's not something I like to talk about. But it is kind of a touchy subject, so if that bothers you, you may block me (assuming you're in my circle) . I don't bring it up much. But I could really use some advice ...) I realize things would...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 15 Responses Aug 15

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    I need some more fashion advice please ASAP!

    same rules from last time girls can be any age to message me guys please be under 25 thanks (: ASAP!! (;
    youngadult14 youngadult14 13-15, F Aug 30

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    Will someone (around my age) please message me?

    I need some guy advice. thank you :)
    ruisseaux ruisseaux 16-17, F Oct 20

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    I Really Need Advice About This Guy...

    I've written about him before, but not gotten much response.  What I want to know is, should I be blunt and just say that I have a personal question to ask him?  I need to know if our relationship 9 years ago meant anything to him because sometimes he acts like it does...
    Licorice Licorice 31-35, F 41 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    There's this girl in my art class.

    She seems nice enough, but the advice isn't for a crush on her or anything. Her only friend in the class started being mean to her for no reason and she gave a really good comeback and he got pissed and stopped talking to her. Ever since then, she's been following me around and...
    CrunchyNoodle CrunchyNoodle 16-17, M 3 Responses Oct 22

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17

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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 16-17, M 4 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 29 Responses Apr 28

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 24

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    How to start writing my first book?

    any real and practical advices? thank you.
    Aseal4 Aseal4 26-30, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    There's this girl I'm crazy about,

    but all she's willing to admit is that she really likes spending time with me. It drives me crazy. She says she can't put herself through helping me because she could easily see herself as me. I didn't mean to scare this girl. I ****** up something
    Wickedfreek Wickedfreek 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    For 3 months, every weekend im with my boyfriend

    and now this upcoming weekend his going to visit his friend because next year his friend will be moving. I dont know how to handle this situation...im just angry at him and sad at the same time. I dont really talk to him because i wont be seeing him in 2 weeks! It feels like i...
    Olla16 Olla16 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 21

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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 11 Responses May 26

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    The people in my school are terrible people.

    They act like their your friend over a text message and when you get to school they want nothing to do with you. They play with your emotions. They are bad examples. I have truly never met anyone like these people. I moved to the school two years ago. They don't let you be you...
    thatsme55 thatsme55 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 24

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    Please, don't contact me

    if you're a dirty old man looking to get off! I'm in a very vulnerable position at the moment but I still won't slag myself off for you! So if anyone has read my previous experiences, you'll know my boyfriend dumped me after he beat me up. I had a date over the weekend with a...
    Kerry1304 Kerry1304 26-30, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have a boyfriend, but

    for the last year we have been distant and acted more like best friends than gf and bf. I've stayed with him so long because I've had hope that we would go back to the way before, but now I feel like it isn't going to happen. I feel like I h ace fallen out of love with him and I...
    VanillaCupcakes VanillaCupcakes 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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