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    So I have been in love with this guy for almost 2 years but guess he doesn't want the same thing I want. But then there r 2 guys on here I really like as well but the thing is I'm a very cautious person and not sure about online dating. One doesn't want me talking to other guys...
    willieverbegoodenough willieverbegoodenough 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    Okay my hair has gotten

    so long lately that I just wanna cut it all off but I know that I don't wanna throw it away. I wanna donate it to locks of love. I have gorgeous naturally dark brown straight hair. I think or would be nice to give it to somebody who can't grow their own. Point is my friends...
    ellax0 ellax0 18-21, F 10 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    She Said/she Said.... A 1-way Conversation??

    So, here's my situation. I avoid social situations I don't plan/organize myself for a specific purpose.   This is because I have REAL difficulty with small-talk, and absolutely dread being boring. Enter "Patsy." I met Patsy sometime in my early to mid-30's.  We had kids about...
    Colormevibrant Colormevibrant 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2012

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    I don't know where to start

    but this might sound stupid to some people but I just need some advice. I got into a relationship 4 months ago, I was happy at first but now I'm always worried. Me and my boyfriend fell in love because according to us what we have together is hard to find. He tells me he loves...
    iris04 iris04 26-30, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    So I had this really good friend of mine.

    We didn't talk for like a year. Than we started again. And not to long after we started talking again now she's ignoring me... I just want us to be best friends A again. But I don't even know why she's ignoring me. Should I text her and ask her about it or...?
    Anonymousboy777 Anonymousboy777 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 13

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    Should I Text Him?

    I met this absolutely amazing guy who just moved in my area. We hung out for 2 days and we clicked what it seemed like too well. We understand each other and poke fun at each other and he always has me laughing. He is a great guy and I really like him. Me and him just can get...
    NotPerfectJustMe NotPerfectJustMe 13-15, F 8 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    I Really Need Advice About This Guy...

    I've written about him before, but not gotten much response.  What I want to know is, should I be blunt and just say that I have a personal question to ask him?  I need to know if our relationship 9 years ago meant anything to him because sometimes he acts like it does...
    Licorice Licorice 31-35, F 16 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    My boyfriend of over two years

    and I split up recently because we decided that our relationship was doing more harm than good. This is literally the fourth time we split up about the same issue, but we would make up after a few days. Basically, I developed depression during our relationship, most likely...
    crespom182 crespom182 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm so upset and confused,

    I don't know what to do? I need people to talk to. I am twenty five years old, I just found out I'm pregnant. The guy who got me pregnant is named Courtland. We are the same age. We are not married. We met each other on Facebook and we met up. Courtland came down to see me. We...
    Strawberrycreme234 Strawberrycreme234 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I don't even know where to start.

    Everything with my life just seems wrong right now, I'm in my early twenties which I know is young but sometimes I feel like my life is melting away. I had to quit my job about a month ago due to basically becoming redundant, was only being left with a few hours a few from them...
    MsTML MsTML 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Im a single guy who likes this girl she is

    everything to me and I would do anything for her but I don't know what to say to her when I'm out with her or if I should tell her how I feel about her and risk our friendship.
    JamesConniff97 JamesConniff97 16-17, M 6 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 16-17, M 5 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    Hello my name is Anna,

    I can help in all matters in life. I give advice to those who are troubled and confused. Don’t sit and wonder if a loved one is being faithful to you. Don’t sit and wonder where you went wrong in life, or who done wrong to you. If you want to know the answer to your...
    PsychicAnnaOnline PsychicAnnaOnline 41-45, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I recently started talking to my former bff.

    We had a friends with benefits thing but it started as a friendship. We had an argument a few months ago and i met up with him yesterday to catch up. He kept bragging about dating all kinds of women and it just got on my nerves like he was trying to make me jealous. Today he...
    tb2985 tb2985 26-30, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Ok so Im now at a new school,

    and in a new friendship group. There's one girl who was my best friend from my old school also in that friendship group. One girl in the group, lets call her A, introduced me to one of her guy friends who I have a massive crush on. Problem is, A really isn't the right friend for...
    chloed3 chloed3 13-15, F Apr 15

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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 23 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    I Really Need Advice About This Guy...

    I've written about him before, but not gotten much response.  What I want to know is, should I be blunt and just say that I have a personal question to ask him?  I need to know if our relationship 9 years ago meant anything to him because sometimes he acts like it does...
    Licorice Licorice 31-35, F 40 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    So I need some advice

    because my friend came to me about relationship advice and I'm not sure what to tell her. It's a lot, so get comfy. So my friend G is in a relationship. However it's with one of her best guy friends and he kinda cornered her into the relationship. It was really cute how he...
    lightningthief lightningthief 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    There is a girl in my religious youth group

    that I think I like. The other day I went over to a get together at her house. We where the only teenagers there. The whole time I felt like she wanted me to always be with her. But I wasn't sure if she likes/was flirting with me. I didn't find out when I ha the chance. After...
    marchdan marchdan 13-15, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 27 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    The other I felt so depressed

    because none of the people expect for one girl in my year aka grade still talks to me it really got me down that I started crying silently and pretended I was perfectly fine when my mother came back downstairs.... I feel so lonely and bored most of the time, I haven't had...
    Thatchick93 Thatchick93 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have a dilemma: I'm in love with my best

    friend and I don't know what to do about it. Allow me to explain - we have been best friends for about three years now and I would do anything to make him happy. He has actually attempted suicide three times since I have known him and I was the only person (except his mother...
    katykat0968 katykat0968 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    Hi everyone nice to be back on EP.

    Okay so i recently started talking to my ex again she was the only gf i ever did love. The problem is that she claims she's Bi but im sure she's straight and i think im in denial that she uses me. Can someone please give advice on what to do?
    Dyke4Life Dyke4Life 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Help Me Please

    I really wish sometimes that I had better friends. Not that my friends aren't wonderful it's just I guess that they're too busy with what's going on in their own lives to care about what's going on in mine. I really feel like I'm the person that's there for everyone, and in the...
    CarterSamson CarterSamson 13-15 7 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    so i'm in a strange place.

    I have completed alot of my general education credits and can get pretty much any undergrad degree in about 2 years. I play and compose music. I love doing it. I think progressively about it and try my best. I am told I am talented but i don't think any music is good or bad...
    Jimmyjazz9 Jimmyjazz9 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hi, Can someone help me?

    Me and my boyfriend broke up 2 weeks ago.. I feel relieved but idk i feel really really weird about everything. I'm so angry at myself.. I changed myself for him and I didn't even saw it ! I want to talk to ppl who also have been trough this. Pls contact me I'll explain...
    Ilovebunbunnies Ilovebunbunnies 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    So im thinking of giving this to my crush

    as a birthday present like making a nice card. And I wrote this poem for her. I want it to be friendly I don't want her to suspect yet, but hopefully to remember it. I'm wondering if it wud be good and doesn't sound a little too friendly. Any advice is super groovy thanks...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I need roommate advice.

    Basically one of my roommates, who was one of my better friends, completely chewed me out and made me feel absolutely horrible for something that isn't even in my control. I know I need to move on because I still have to live with her for two months, but I don't think I can ever...
    dreamoftomorrow dreamoftomorrow 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    I am looking for serious

    and thoughtful advice from mature adults. This is long so bear with me. I am 41 and married and I have an 18 year old daughter. I was a single mom for years and my daughter was (and is) my world. We were very close until about 2 years ago when her father ( we divorced when...
    imjustadreamin imjustadreamin 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 4

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    I need advice. I like this one guy,

    we had a past, he hurt he very much, but that was 4-5 years ago. I broke up with my ex because I wasn't in love with him anymore and then this guy just happens to pop back into my life out of no where. My feelings haven't left and came back when we hung out for the first time in...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 13

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 29 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 24

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    carlos19cv carlos19cv 18-21, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    So I've been in a relationship

    for a year. During that year we've fought and bickered like crazy. I know he can mistreat me but a lot of the times I feel like I overreact and allow my anger to take control. I was wondering if I could get some advice on how to control my anger to benefit my relationship? I...
    spawling spawling 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    When I was younger I was addicted to drugs

    and cutting myself. I pulled myself out of it... But my little brother followed my footsteps. I always promised him I'd be there for him. Now I'm 19 and my brother is 17. This year has took a turn for the worse. My little brother over dosed. I hate myself because I wasn't there...
    ryanreid19 ryanreid19 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    I have always been the kind of guy to help

    someone. No matter how small or how large . I always try my best every day to do what i feel is the right thing to do. I know that a lot of people on here come here because the need help. If you ever need anything im here for you . Just message me because i know that every one...
    Friendlyfacehere Friendlyfacehere 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 7

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 31 Responses Apr 13

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    I am sick of everything!

    I don't want to do anything, or even try. Just want to disappear and be done. Sad huh!
    MRP223 MRP223 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 13

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    My marriage has been steadily falling apart

    over the last several years. We have tried books, several rounds of counseling, spending time apart, spending more time together, and I have reached the point where there is nothing left. We are very different people than we were when we married, which we both agree. We have...
    sadlostandtired sadlostandtired 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have known my friend

    since the school year started and we have become really good friends. But recently. I have. Begun to like her. I want to start dropping subtle hints, but I don't know how or what to do. What should I do and how?
    marchdan marchdan 13-15, M 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Don't Know What To Do

    My boyfriend is mad at me. He states I hurt him but no one else believes what I did was wrong. We have a child. He was always so good to me. He had a mild stroke. I believe he has changed. Since then he did not help me much around house, etc. When things about hit the fan, he...
    Alice2222 Alice2222 41-45 4 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    So I could use some opinions here.

    I have a sensitive medical problem that I haven't told my father about. I haven't done this because I think he would react poorly and be an ******* about it. I won't go into details about what the problem is. But what should I do? Should I tell him or not?
    JohnWilson1645 JohnWilson1645 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 15

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    Okay so, my sorta best friend has been in my

    cycle and same teams for 3 years in school & I eventually gained feelings for him. So, I continued to talk to him and stuff. My feelings increased a lot. Then, I found out he has this like "commitment" thing with this other girl in a different school. She's like one of the "cool...
    SarahNaf SarahNaf 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My Marriage

    I need advice on my marriage. My husband and I have been through some really rough times, and now even though we are a lot stronger I can't let go of the hurt we've caused each other. At times it felt like a game, who could hurt each other the most, it was a cycle that none of us...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 77 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    Brace Face... I have a gap

    and I'm in Highschool, sometimes my gap isn't noticeable because it's really cute and small, Nobody ever notice it and when they do they don't mention it because it's cute. But I don't want to live with my gap forever.... I'm in Highschool and my gap is loved, small and cute...
    thatssoninaa thatssoninaa 16-17, F Apr 13

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    I need advice I haven't heard from my best

    friend and I'm scared that her parents don't like me. What should I do?
    adogster adogster 13-15, M 2 Responses Apr 13

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    My younger sister has started talking to my

    boyfriend and well she's always talking to him . And she doesn't stop talking about him . Do you think she likes him ?
    Cuntfrontment Cuntfrontment 16-17, F 9 Responses Apr 14

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    I like kpop but I haven't told anyone .

    I'm afraid of being rejected and being judged. It's even ruining communication with my mom and maybe even making me a little depressed but I hide what makes me happy. I want to tell my mom but I'm afraid .what should I do?
    alicep67904 alicep67904 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am going to have a gap year

    because I couldn't get a job and am unable to study what I would like to. Any recommendations what I could do to bridge the time?
    zyakkui zyakkui 18-21, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I Need Advice

    so i came to this web site just to comment some things i read that were really good stories.but i still have a story to tell.the problem is im scared to say it.i dont know other people do it.i..i just cant.pls tell me what to do!!!
    victor8038 victor8038 26-30, M 7 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 15 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    It'S Not Easy To Move On

    When i was younger 17/18 i had a boyfriend that i gave up everything for, my job, friends and family i moved away to be with him, and it was a huge mistake. He became abusive very quickly and every time i forgave him. i soon realized what i was putting myself through as long as i...
    Maz100 Maz100 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    So I just got out of a relationship

    and it wasn't bad but I'm still pretty down about it I've been trying to get my mind off him but I have strict parents and my mother won't let me go out so what should I do ? Cause I don't wanna feel down
    supersweet188 supersweet188 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    What Should I Do?

    Alright, here's the scoop.... I have been dating this girl for a year and 3 months now and we have been through the ringer together.. Most of the things that have been so hard for us to get through have been because of me and the past that I have had. For about the last 3 or 4...
    lostinlife88 lostinlife88 22-25, F 9 Responses Jun 20, 2010

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    Not In Love With My Husband

    Hello I been with my husband since I was 17yr. We got married after 13 yr later. Overall been together for 29 yr. We have to beautiful kid at 22 and 20. The problem is I'm not in love with my husband anymore.I guess after so many year I realize the kind the man I married. s I...
    Smiley46 Smiley46 46-50 28 Responses Jan 5, 2012

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    Input Quickly Please

    I have received some disturbing text messages from an EP member. This person has also written a blog in the past few minutes saying "good bye" Do you fine EPers think I should start calling high schools in this persons home town and try to reach a GC to intervene...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 13 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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