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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    carecc13 carecc13 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I am a Christian but lately I've been

    questioning it a lot. I feel like I just am not connecting with it anymore. I'm just now living on my own and exploring life in my 20's. I want to take awhile and experiment with different religions, and other lifestyles but I'm afraid that if I leave my religion for a little...
    virginiamarie94 virginiamarie94 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 12

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    Im 21. I dated a 50 year old Most people

    thought I was a gold digger and others thought i was an escort. Calm down, I'm not. I met a guy who I connected with physically, mentally, and every level in between. That's all I saw and all I cared about. We dated for about 3 months. We never argued, we were always happy and...
    delilahcruz delilahcruz 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    My Marriage

    I need advice on my marriage. My husband and I have been through some really rough times, and now even though we are a lot stronger I can't let go of the hurt we've caused each other. At times it felt like a game, who could hurt each other the most, it was a cycle that none of us...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 77 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    I've done a terrible thing tonight i lied to a

    friend... Story:? I hate having company come to my house uninvited. My friend texted me "R u in" I knew she wanted to drop off my xmas present cus we talked about it sometime ago. I really didn't want company because I looked like a mess and the house is untidy and I didn't...
    Fierrrrce Fierrrrce 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Can things get really serious really fast

    and be genuine? I met this guy and the first time I saw him was Thanksgiving day. We spoke three, four weeks (the most) on the phone but nothing was never really serious. And then he suddenly told me he liked everything about me and wanted me to be his girl a few days later...
    Flowerpush Flowerpush 22-25, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    I recently texted a friend (because I couldn't

    in real life) and told him I'm transgender. He hasn't messaged me since that conversation. Am I overreacting? Should I say something to him?
    ftmFreddy ftmFreddy 18-21, T 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I Really Need Advice About This Guy...

    I've written about him before, but not gotten much response.  What I want to know is, should I be blunt and just say that I have a personal question to ask him?  I need to know if our relationship 9 years ago meant anything to him because sometimes he acts like it does...
    Licorice Licorice 31-35, F 40 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    Hey man, I once had a best friend during the

    summer. We were literally the best of friends, we would go to the park and text all day and even call. She was a girl and I had a girlfriend at the time. My girlfriend broke up with me because she had supposedly seen screenshots of our convos and thought I was cheating on her...
    powerhourboy powerhourboy 13-15, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 27 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    Please message me, someone.

    Anyone willing to understand what hurt I'm experiencing. I've been dying to speak to someone about it...
    twisteduniverse twisteduniverse 22-25, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I am sick of everything!

    I don't want to do anything, or even try. Just want to disappear and be done. Sad huh!
    MRP223 MRP223 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 13

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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    I've been dating this guy

    for almost 2 months. We had the talk and he clearly tells me that he isn't looking for a relationship right now. He enjoys my company and would like to keep me around (no we haven't slept together) but he doesn't see himself getting into a relationship anytime soon. I on the...
    Shadesofautumn Shadesofautumn 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Does he only like me

    for my lizard :( After months of distance flirting with the cute and quiet shy guy at work, we finally broke the barrier and started talking. Lots of flirting happens with very strong sighns of interest from him and yet it's on the very slow burn as we both the shy nervousness...
    chimpsticks chimpsticks 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 14

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    PLEASE RESPOND! Here is the situation.

    .. I am in college. I have a group of friends, which includes an ex-boyfriend. The Ex and I had a break up that was actually fairly mutual, no sides, nothing. Pretty drama free. Hard, but drama free. We both just knew that it wasn't going to end up working out. He initiated it...
    MidnightLaughter MidnightLaughter 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    How do i get the courage to just leave

    everything and move out? I hate my mother. She's driving me nuts! I've put up with her for 5 freaking years! My dad can't do anything because he's just that kind of a person. I already have a friend offer me one of his vacant places to stay in. But how do i just get the courage...
    defiantheart defiantheart 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Can someone who's willing to try

    and help message me ?
    EssSmith EssSmith 16-17, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    There is a boy I like in my class.

    It's summer now so school is over and the classes will split when school starts again. We have been flirting a bit for about a half year but both has been to shy to acctually make the first move. Now that we didn't get in the same class I won't be able to be around him...
    Zelo01 Zelo01 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 14

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    An amazing array of cold treatments has existed

    since antiquity. Roman author Pliny the Elder prescribed jaguar urine and hare feces for fighting coughs. Syrian physician Ibn al-Quff suggested the application of a hot iron to the head until the skull is visible. The Swiss physician Samuel Tissot treated severe colds by...
    BloviatingBuffoon BloviatingBuffoon 70+, F 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    Ok I'm an ordinary guy in my fourties trying

    to restart my life. I broke up with the woman I've been with for fifteen year's about 4 month's ago. Everyone in my life tell's me I am a good looking man and I believe them. I just can't get over how dam shy I am. I see it as a flaw and want to use it as my strength. I am sick...
    Encontrados Encontrados 36-40, M 2 Responses May 22

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    Can you guys follow me please,

    I know it gets annoying to see but I just started a tumblr and mine is mainly for advice. http://saywhatnow1999.tumblr.com/
    Oreolover27 Oreolover27 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Kids can be difficult to babysit,

    any advice for how to watch two 11year olds and a 12-13 year old? And have them stop fighting?
    Kanimaz Kanimaz 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 28 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    I made the mistake of falling

    for a guy online just to end up hurt. I feel stupid, what was I doing getting so close to a guy I met online?
    Jessbenoit Jessbenoit 18-21, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    chelsey1214 chelsey1214 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm tired of dealing with the poor management

    at my job and being belittled by them. I need advice on how to quit. Anyone?
    mysteri123 mysteri123 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ok so how in the hell do I get my bf to take to

    me when he gets mad, because all he does is try to bury it deeper and when he blows up it always seems like it is on me.. I mean dont take it no ways he is a sweet guy just when he loses his temper it is almost like he black outs (I cant say anything I do to) but I have to find...
    shadowrain96 shadowrain96 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm feeling artsy today.

    What do you think?
    halfpace halfpace 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 13

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    So my mother-in-law is staying with is

    for Christmas this year. It's my first time actually spending any time with her because we live about 6000kms apart. I met her when me and my man went home last summer, but we never spent any time together. Until now. Here's my issue: every time I'm alone with her, all she...
    newfieprincess newfieprincess 26-30, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I met a guy on EP. And he is amazing,

    I think about him all the time. But I have a problem letting him get any closer to me than on here, I wont give him my number or snap chat, I have a problem trusting guys in person, so it's worse when it's a long distance type of thing. I'm not sure what to do, I want more than...
    Jessbenoit Jessbenoit 18-21, F 19 Responses Nov 4

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    I have been in a relationship with a loving man

    for 3 years. He has been peaceful and loving to me all three years. There has been some hard times and a lot of arguments but we have stayed together. My problem is that after three years of being together our occasional arguments have turned into 3 times a week arguments. Also...
    jsscckert jsscckert 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    The people in my school are terrible people.

    They act like their your friend over a text message and when you get to school they want nothing to do with you. They play with your emotions. They are bad examples. I have truly never met anyone like these people. I moved to the school two years ago. They don't let you be you...
    thatsme55 thatsme55 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 24

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    - So There's This Guy That I Have Been Dating

    For A Few Months But It Isn't Official , He Didn't Want Me Talking To Any Other Guys , So I Wasn't & Told Him That If I Was That I Would Tell Him. I Recently Realized That Me && Him Aren't Going To Work Out Simply Because I Don't Feel That I Can Be Myself Around Him And We Have...
    ForbiddenLove15329 ForbiddenLove15329 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 14

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    It'S Not Easy To Move On

    When i was younger 17/18 i had a boyfriend that i gave up everything for, my job, friends and family i moved away to be with him, and it was a huge mistake. He became abusive very quickly and every time i forgave him. i soon realized what i was putting myself through as long as i...
    Maz100 Maz100 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 24 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17

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    I need some more fashion advice please ASAP!

    same rules from last time girls can be any age to message me guys please be under 25 thanks (: ASAP!! (;
    youngadult14 youngadult14 13-15, F Aug 30

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    What should I expect at a funeral?

    I'm going to a funeral, my nana's actually, and although my mums already planned it in just the next room, all I know is that she's being cremated. I've never been to a funeral before, and I know because of my age (15) my mum didn't really want me to go to this one. I know I...
    LiveForAnotherDay LiveForAnotherDay 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I Need Advice

    so i came to this web site just to comment some things i read that were really good stories.but i still have a story to tell.the problem is im scared to say it.i dont know other people do it.i..i just cant.pls tell me what to do!!!
    victor8038 victor8038 26-30, M 5 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    There's this guy I started talking to around a

    year ago and at first I had feelings for him but you know he was in a relationship so I got over them, but then they broke up and I was there for him as a friend, I never suggested a romantic interest but a couple hours ago he started drunk texting me and randomly came out with...
    SairaE SairaE 16-17, F 5 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 28 Responses Apr 13

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    So a few months ago my gf literally left me

    for another guy. And now she's calling and texting me fussing me out saying she wants her child which is mine too, but she doesn't want me around him. One reason why I won't let my son around her is because she's a ******* drug addict and does nothing but smoke weed and get...
    benpace benpace 18-21, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    (So,I don't go into detail

    or anything, and probably never will. It's not something I like to talk about. But it is kind of a touchy subject, so if that bothers you, you may block me (assuming you're in my circle) . I don't bring it up much. But I could really use some advice ...) I realize things would...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 15

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    How hard should I have to work to get my gf

    and her kid to spend time with me and mine? How much should I care when they seem to have little interest? Should I just chill... Give up my fading dream of playing pretend family? As I write this I realize I am one step further toward being certain I am spinning my wheels...
    OldNRusty OldNRusty 41-45, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't know what to do.

    My boyfriend of 4 months passed away on December 4th. I don't know when is the right time to try and move on. I feel like I'm cheating on him just because of the fact that we never broke up. But now there is an ex-boyfriend, (We were going through our own rough times so that's...
    xXJustMe123 xXJustMe123 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Anyone message me please!

    !! 🙏🙏🙏
    hayhaybown hayhaybown 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Quick ! I need advice on escorting.

    Anyone with experience. Until the business I work for is up and running I put my own add up and I have some replies. I don't exactly know what I'm doing though so a little help would be cool.
    missAphrodite missAphrodite 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    So im thinking of giving this to my crush

    as a birthday present like making a nice card. And I wrote this poem for her. I want it to be friendly I don't want her to suspect yet, but hopefully to remember it. I'm wondering if it wud be good and doesn't sound a little too friendly. Any advice is super groovy thanks...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 2

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring