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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    So I've known this guy

    for five years, and we've been classmates for that long. Overall, we have a really good friendship and I get to talk to him most of the time when I'm not busy. I'm a senior who's about to graduate and I never saw any changes in our friendship since. This one time, our teacher...
    alxssxndra alxssxndra 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am sick of everything!

    I don't want to do anything, or even try. Just want to disappear and be done. Sad huh!
    MRP223 MRP223 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 13, 2014

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    I need some advice on this girl I like.

    I would like a woman's thoughts on this. pM me please women only.
    slowlydrifting101 slowlydrifting101 22-25, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I Need Advice

    so i came to this web site just to comment some things i read that were really good stories.but i still have a story to tell.the problem is im scared to say it.i dont know other people do it.i..i just cant.pls tell me what to do!!!
    victor8038 victor8038 26-30, M 5 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    So everytime I think about driving a car,

    I keep thinking that I'll speed up, or something, I'm really worried
    Emoji2 Emoji2 18-21 1 Response 1 day ago

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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 12 Responses May 26, 2014

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    Well tomorrow I'm going to a school dance,

    how do I avoid being awkward around everybody? Also how can I socialize a bit better?
    Kumarie Kumarie 13-15, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    A friend from high school recently asked me on

    a date. In hs, we never really connected and though I thought he was attractive he dated the two girls I hung out with. I always knew he would never see me as more than a friend, so we started getting closer after I told myself that and after we graduated. He would message me...
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 1 Response May 21

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    I hate when people give me cliche advice like

    "never give up", well no **** lol
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    Ok need some help understanding something please

    and thanks so this guy I have been seeing for almost a year tells me one day he loves me and we make plains for are future together then turns around and tells me he only loves me as a friend cause he's scared of getting hurt and the same thing happening to him that happen to...
    mouse2816 mouse2816 31-35, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    So I am not sure what to do.

    Having a hard time right now and very emotional. Trying to decide whether or not to press charges against my own mom. I know the answer I should say is yes but damn this sucks
    kshine27 kshine27 26-30, F 1 Response May 18

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    I need to talk to someone

    that can be honest and tell me their opinion on a thing I did
    Kaitlyn0804 Kaitlyn0804 16-17, F 37 Responses May 16

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 27 Responses Apr 28, 2014

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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    I need a second opinion on something.

    I have a question and would like someone's view on it. A woman's opinion too. If someone would be willing to help id be very grateful
    Ottway23 Ottway23 22-25 3 Responses May 18

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    One of my close friends has an extremely

    unhealthy obsession with her on-and-off hookup, who treats her badly and often cuts her off. She cries daily over tiny interactions with him, scrolls through her photos with him constantly, believes she owes him her life because of the support he gave her during a hard time in...
    hcally15 hcally15 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Ok I'm an ordinary guy in my fourties trying

    to restart my life. I broke up with the woman I've been with for fifteen year's about 4 month's ago. Everyone in my life tell's me I am a good looking man and I believe them. I just can't get over how dam shy I am. I see it as a flaw and want to use it as my strength. I am sick...
    Encontrados Encontrados 36-40, M 2 Responses May 22, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    my boyfriend and i have been together

    for 7 months, and i just really need some help on what to do as i've been thinking about it so much lately. back in march i found things on his phone which were conversations with about 8 other girls calling them cute nicknames and he would talk to them about sexual things. it...
    aaliyah104 aaliyah104 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Is it weird to date a guy a year young

    than you? He's actually a year and 5 months younger. He's 17 and I'm 19. He'll be 18 in 3 months. Is that weird? Should I stay away?
    spence96 spence96 18-21, F 15 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    This is very very urgent

    and it's about the law. My dad was arrested for hitting my mom and he plans on getting revenge by lying in court and saying my mom is giving me money to sell drugs.... What would the judge say about that?
    drakee95 drakee95 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 27 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    Do you think it's 'sad'

    that I give up my spare time to volunteer at a holiday centre for people with physical and mental disabilities. Some of my friends say it means I have no life because I have nothing better to do than volunteer there. But to be honest, I think that it's what life is all about...
    jessie123h jessie123h 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 1

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    So im thinking of giving this to my crush

    as a birthday present like making a nice card. And I wrote this poem for her. I want it to be friendly I don't want her to suspect yet, but hopefully to remember it. I'm wondering if it wud be good and doesn't sound a little too friendly. Any advice is super groovy thanks...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 2, 2014

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    I am a Christian but lately I've been

    questioning it a lot. I feel like I just am not connecting with it anymore. I'm just now living on my own and exploring life in my 20's. I want to take awhile and experiment with different religions, and other lifestyles but I'm afraid that if I leave my religion for a little...
    virginiamarie94 virginiamarie94 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    Input Quickly Please

    I have received some disturbing text messages from an EP member. This person has also written a blog in the past few minutes saying "good bye" Do you fine EPers think I should start calling high schools in this persons home town and try to reach a GC to intervene...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 16 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    There is this guy I like.

    .. We get along great! He's cute, funny, polite and is really respectful.. There's one problem :c I'm 19 and he has just turned 17 >.< I feel so bad because he is so young... Is that to young?? Help!
    lifeisnottoobad lifeisnottoobad 18-21, F 7 Responses May 9

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    It'S Not Easy To Move On

    When i was younger 17/18 i had a boyfriend that i gave up everything for, my job, friends and family i moved away to be with him, and it was a huge mistake. He became abusive very quickly and every time i forgave him. i soon realized what i was putting myself through as long as i...
    Maz100 Maz100 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    I went out with this guy twice

    and we slept together on the second date. After that he sort of changed, but I still texted him even though his replies have changed. I suggested that we hangout but he was like he's ok with hanging out again sometime but we shouldn't sleep together. So I asked if we could meet...
    pmpmpam pmpmpam 22-25, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I told my crush I like him,

    IN ******* PERSON. I tapped him on the shoulder "fadol can I tell you something?" "Yeah sure" we moved to the Side and I told him after like 10 secs of silence. "I kinda like you " he smiled. "Are you the one whose been kiking me?" "No that was one of my best friends", he was...
    KidLeftInTheDark KidLeftInTheDark 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 7

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    So, somehow, this happened.

    .. I work at a convalescent home, and they needed someone to accompany the elder folk on their hospital visits. I volunteered, and as you'd have it, the van driver who transported us to the hospitals is sooo handsome. Not only that but he has the most likeable friendly...
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 16 Responses Jan 22

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    I've been with my boyfriend

    for a year now but I did something and betrayed him and I ****** up badly. I haven't been honest with him lately and it has really hurt him. I love him a lot but know we've broken up. We've decided that we'll both just keep going with our live and still keep each other in our...
    laxlife laxlife 18-21, F 1 Response May 18

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    anonymousdrummer anonymousdrummer 13-15, M 12 hrs ago

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    I need some sort of guidance on how I should

    deal with my particular situation. I am in a long distance relationship and I very badly want to meet my girlfriend in person, just as she claims to very badly want to meet me. I had the idea to start an online fund so we could get the money to meet each other. I intended to set...
    PendulEmPlum PendulEmPlum 18-21, F 3 Responses May 19

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    Id like advice, don't really mind guy

    or girl. Wouldn't mind both perspectives but yeah it's about a girl and I don't know what to do. Help/ advice please!
    Adam352 Adam352 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    Friendship to relationship advice needed!

    I've know this guy Morgan since I was in 4th grade. He's 2 years older than me and he's good friends with my brother. I'm 16 and he's turning 20. (I don't care much About age difference I'm just giving more info) Anyway, since I saw him last year when he was visiting...
    Tabithaaa Tabithaaa 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Hello, :) I was wondering

    if I could get some advice. Il keep it short. Basically there is a guy i was seeing about a year ago, we really liked each other he was such a nice guy and tret me well. We were also such good friends and just clicked, he looked after me and iv never had that sort of connection...
    bananaxx bananaxx 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Hello everyone, I took this medicine pills this

    morning. And I shouldn't have ate first. Now, My stomach hurts badly and its growling none stop. I'm just letting it pass. But what do I do, it really hurts.
    Lizandavan Lizandavan 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I love this girl that is bi,

    but I think she is not bi anymore... But I can't get over her
    bae2737 bae2737 13-15, F 2 Responses May 18

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    (So,I don't go into detail

    or anything, and probably never will. It's not something I like to talk about. But it is kind of a touchy subject, so if that bothers you, you may block me (assuming you're in my circle) . I don't bring it up much. But I could really use some advice ...) I realize things would...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 17 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    so wat happened was i got this crush on this

    girl and she didn't feel the same. she basically told me to leave her alone. i did and i was jus hoping she wouldn't tell anyone cause im not out yet. yea ik im so stupid. but she ended up telling the entire school that i was gay. and i got bullied everyday after. my parents...
    IKnowImAlone IKnowImAlone 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 7

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 27 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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