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    My girlfriend lives in North Dakota.

    she's in the airforce, I live in NY. She has come to visit once this month, and expects to see me in June. But she wants me to pay to see her. Now this is not doable. I have a retail job, and I help pay rent, along with other bills in my life. What takes me a month to make...
    love1336 love1336 22-25, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    if ever you have more questions

    or need help/advices about family , relationship or friendship email us at askmorenow1 @ gmail.com ! we will be happy to help. anyone, anything anytime.
    askmorenow1 askmorenow1 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    I just have a question: Okay

    so I had my hair in slight backcombed dreadlocks for about 5 months, I took them out without cutting (cause they were wax made and young they came out easy), well I have been noticing that the hair at my roots and really anywhere in some places is a lot lighter and even somewhat...
    MTBlake33 MTBlake33 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    It'S Not Easy To Move On

    When i was younger 17/18 i had a boyfriend that i gave up everything for, my job, friends and family i moved away to be with him, and it was a huge mistake. He became abusive very quickly and every time i forgave him. i soon realized what i was putting myself through as long as i...
    Maz100 Maz100 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 27 Responses Apr 28, 2014

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    This is for the ladies

    or anyone who has knowledge of birth control. So I've been doing research of "missing the pill" because I missed yesterday. I didn't double up and my bf and I had sex the night before I missed and the night of the day I missed. We didn't use a condom either time and he did it...
    xoxohayley xoxohayley 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    Look, I'm sorry if this comes off

    as a bunch of rambling, but, I really feel like I need some advice. To summarize things in short, I'm a 16 year old male that's just a bit torn at the moment. I never saw myself writing one of these, but, in a time of sadness people do unexpected things right? So, without cryin...
    nametheorder nametheorder 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 22

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    What is having a crown in your mouth like?

    Do you know it's there? How long does it last?
    caddriss caddriss 36-40, F Mar 20

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    so wat happened was i got this crush on this

    girl and she didn't feel the same. she basically told me to leave her alone. i did and i was jus hoping she wouldn't tell anyone cause im not out yet. yea ik im so stupid. but she ended up telling the entire school that i was gay. and i got bullied everyday after. my parents...
    IKnowImAlone IKnowImAlone 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 7

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    They only things I've ever known about sex is

    that is dirty. **** is dirty. Sex is dirty. Those are things I have been taught by my church. I have never been taught to accept sex as part of a natural thing we humans do and desire. That desire has always been almost a sort of witchcraft pulling at me. But I no longer know...
    kaylaes52 kaylaes52 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I need some more fashion advice please ASAP!

    same rules from last time girls can be any age to message me guys please be under 25 thanks (: ASAP!! (;
    youngadult14 youngadult14 13-15, F Aug 30, 2014

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    I'm in dire need of advice.

    The other night I was out partying with some friends and I got drunk and this guy that my best friend likes approached me and we started talking and by the end of the night he kissed me. And I feel really bad because my friend likes him but she said she isn't mad. But I think...
    mlt465 mlt465 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Quick ! I need advice on escorting.

    Anyone with experience. Until the business I work for is up and running I put my own add up and I have some replies. I don't exactly know what I'm doing though so a little help would be cool.
    missAphrodite missAphrodite 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    this one goes out to parent,

    I been babysitting this child for a year now. this is the first time the parents are going away for a whole day and night. the father feels he shouldn't pay for when his child is sleeping... tell me isn't this completely wrong? Regardless of her sleeping or not... why should...
    love1336 love1336 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    I am a Christian but lately I've been

    questioning it a lot. I feel like I just am not connecting with it anymore. I'm just now living on my own and exploring life in my 20's. I want to take awhile and experiment with different religions, and other lifestyles but I'm afraid that if I leave my religion for a little...
    virginiamarie94 virginiamarie94 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    I have plans to go on a date the weekend

    after easter with this guy that I really like. We talked on skype several times and I got to know him well. we live in London but he lives quite far from me so he offered me the option to stay overnight at his house after the date. I agree this is better because I don't have...
    Fierrrrce Fierrrrce 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've been told i make a pretty good therapist

    and i do listen to people and help them the best way i can, i've been through a lot so dont be afraid to send in Dark emails. I'll answer anyone because i know how it feels to be alone and have no one to turn to... If anyone wants some advice email me at - emmatebby@hotmail.co...
    cupcakes1995 cupcakes1995 18-21, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I hate when people give me cliche advice like

    "never give up", well no **** lol
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    I am sick of everything!

    I don't want to do anything, or even try. Just want to disappear and be done. Sad huh!
    MRP223 MRP223 22-25, F 10 Responses Jan 13, 2014

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    I have been dating this guy online

    for the past few months and i love him but i don't think i feel the same about him anymore. I love him so much i do not want to hurt him but i want to be friends with him not anything more. We are great friends and i hate dating. I do not hate dating him i just hate being with...
    LifesSweet LifesSweet 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 20

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    The people in my school are terrible people.

    They act like their your friend over a text message and when you get to school they want nothing to do with you. They play with your emotions. They are bad examples. I have truly never met anyone like these people. I moved to the school two years ago. They don't let you be you...
    thatsme55 thatsme55 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    So me and my girlfriend

    when we hung out this weekend she sucked my d..k. and we talked about it after she left texting. Her dad gets some of her messages so yeah you see what's coming. Im freaking out idk what to do she's not in trouble but they are probally gonna tell my mom and she's not gonna just...
    richplatoon richplatoon 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 27 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    I've been feeling bad lately.

    I'm moody, and small things upset me big time. I'm okay when I'm around my friends or in rehearsals, but when I'm by myself or with my family, I'm unhappy. I feel angry and upset, and I've cried a few times in the past week and a half, which is strange because nothing in...
    BroguesAndJeans BroguesAndJeans 16-17, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 27 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    My band director knows me well

    and likes me. I'm good, and I'm a sophomore so I'm still an underclassman. He's been here all year, shadowing. Our old director just retired, so now our current one is in charge. I'm in the top band at my school. We just had auditions for placement for next year, and mine went...
    BroguesAndJeans BroguesAndJeans 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    LakiraC LakiraC 13-15, F Mar 21

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 11 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I don't know what kind of title I should put on

    this. His parents was on trip. He has 18 yrs old sis. He take care of his sis. He make bed for her. He will sleep in the same room with her. I mean she is his bloody sis. It doesn't matter at all. But I don't know why I don't like this. I say him go to sleep where u sleep...
    Phyllispurple Phyllispurple 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I'm feeling artsy today.

    What do you think?
    halfpace halfpace 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    Need some womanly advice!

    Message me if you dont mind.
    MisunderstoodGal30 MisunderstoodGal30 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    Input Quickly Please

    I have received some disturbing text messages from an EP member. This person has also written a blog in the past few minutes saying "good bye" Do you fine EPers think I should start calling high schools in this persons home town and try to reach a GC to intervene...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 15 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    I'm a little confused by puberty at the moment

    still.... I turned 16 a month and a half ago, I am 5foot 8 inches tall and I weigh about 136lbs. Am I done growing? I mean I don't feel like I am but I haven't grown any since I was about 13. I have a growth chart and when I was 12 I grew 3 inches but I've only grown 1.5 inches...
    abp62626 abp62626 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My ex had been dating me

    and some girl at the same time ,she lived in another state close to mine and she would come over here a lot. I stopped them from talking because i had to get in ,I had been living with him and had been putting lies in her head about me and other horrible things were said .It...
    moondesires moondesires 18-21, F Mar 20

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    excuses to avoid a wedding?

    ! so me and my family have been invited to a wedding from some close family, well closely related. and I REALLY DO NOT want to go!! why? because every time I see that side of the family they make constant digs about my weight and it is just so annoying and such a blow to my self...
    jessie123h jessie123h 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 22

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    Ok I'm an ordinary guy in my fourties trying

    to restart my life. I broke up with the woman I've been with for fifteen year's about 4 month's ago. Everyone in my life tell's me I am a good looking man and I believe them. I just can't get over how dam shy I am. I see it as a flaw and want to use it as my strength. I am sick...
    Encontrados Encontrados 36-40, M 2 Responses May 22, 2014

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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 24 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    So, somehow, this happened.

    .. I work at a convalescent home, and they needed someone to accompany the elder folk on their hospital visits. I volunteered, and as you'd have it, the van driver who transported us to the hospitals is sooo handsome. Not only that but he has the most likeable friendly...
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 17 Responses Jan 22

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    I told my crush I like him,

    IN ******* PERSON. I tapped him on the shoulder "fadol can I tell you something?" "Yeah sure" we moved to the Side and I told him after like 10 secs of silence. "I kinda like you " he smiled. "Are you the one whose been kiking me?" "No that was one of my best friends", he was...
    KidLeftInTheDark KidLeftInTheDark 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 7

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    Guys! I need help! It's about something sexual.

    I really need to know something! Guys with a lot of sexual experience please inbox me!
    Caine135 Caine135 13-15, M Mar 19

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    Don't be slutty. Be classy.

    CLASSY= Class with ***
    Wallflower369 Wallflower369 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    So im thinking of giving this to my crush

    as a birthday present like making a nice card. And I wrote this poem for her. I want it to be friendly I don't want her to suspect yet, but hopefully to remember it. I'm wondering if it wud be good and doesn't sound a little too friendly. Any advice is super groovy thanks...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 2, 2014

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    I have a friend who's suffering from gender

    dysphoria. I have no idea what to do. I'm cis, so I don't know what it feels like, and I've never had to help someone through it before. Any advice is very welcome.
    BroguesAndJeans BroguesAndJeans 16-17, F 1 Response