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    I Need Advice

    so i came to this web site just to comment some things i read that were really good stories.but i still have a story to tell.the problem is im scared to say it.i dont know other people do it.i..i just cant.pls tell me what to do!!!
    victor8038 victor8038 26-30, M 5 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    So I bought my gf a promise ring I saved up

    and finally bought the 900$ peice of idk but yeah. we are both 16 and out one year is the week after Valentine's Day I was just wondering if I should give it to her Valentine's or one year or just a doffernt time lol🙈
    rich796 rich796 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 21

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    hello everyone. So I have a major problem.

    .. well, perhaps you won't find it as important as I do, but I really hope someone will take some time and read this. I am a sophmore in high school (16 yo) where I met this girl. I always kind of knew I was more into girls than into boys, but I never told anyone, because my...
    loneeeelyinlove loneeeelyinlove 16-17, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    so im having sex for the first time tomorrow.

    we plan to do it on the woods where we have more privacy or whatever. Im just nervous really I guess everyone is at first. I have protection and everything im just really nervous ️like not about being caught or whatever ️just im not sure is this normal? any advice on ️like...
    rich796 rich796 13-15, M 6 Responses a week ago

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    I made the mistake of falling

    for a guy online just to end up hurt. I feel stupid, what was I doing getting so close to a guy I met online?
    Jessbenoit Jessbenoit 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    I terribly need advice.

    I know it's wrong but I'm a 22 year old having an affair with a 46 year old married guy. It's been going on for over a year. I love him, he loves me. But overtime I'm starting to see how much it really means to be settling for a relationship like this. And I worry about not...
    monzdp monzdp 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Dad has been tense and easily irritable lately.

    I just found out why. His mom died on Sunday. I don't know what to do...they were not close (it's complicated) but still, his mom. Does anybody have tips for me? I don't know what to say or if I'm supposed to act differently or anything...this is the first time in my life an...
    Katiebug7 Katiebug7 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 28 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    Me and this girl at my school Evalise got an

    offer that if we sing at the assembly called "lunchtime caberet" we get an arts credit. This is the link to what we sound like. I just need opinions on what to change. Ignore how greasy my hair is, how my nose is red and how my voice is sucky but Im sick and I dont sing anyways...
    LandonS LandonS 16-17, M 8 Responses Jan 10

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    I am a Christian but lately I've been

    questioning it a lot. I feel like I just am not connecting with it anymore. I'm just now living on my own and exploring life in my 20's. I want to take awhile and experiment with different religions, and other lifestyles but I'm afraid that if I leave my religion for a little...
    virginiamarie94 virginiamarie94 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 11 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I am sick of everything!

    I don't want to do anything, or even try. Just want to disappear and be done. Sad huh!
    MRP223 MRP223 22-25, F 10 Responses Jan 13, 2014

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    I’ve known a guy for about 10 years,

    through a marriage in our family. I am pretty close to his side of the family but always closest to him. He’s understood me more than anyone I know, and I’ve gone to him for a lot of things I couldn’t go to my girl friends or boyfriends about. I’ve had a thing for him...
    twistedfiction twistedfiction 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    ohglamsugar ohglamsugar 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    Society has long become more open to the idea

    of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of successful older men looking for younger women. With actresses such as Catherine Zeta Jones marrying Michael Douglas with an age gap of 25 years...
    sarahcc11 sarahcc11 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    So I just found out my brother is a drug dealer,

    he sells weed to kids at my school and overalls don't know how to deal with this? Do I confront him? Do I ignore it? Help?
    lukesdeadpenguin lukesdeadpenguin 16-17, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have a weird question is it normal

    that at almost 18 I have little to no sex drive
    Devonbaby Devonbaby 18-21, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    I have just come to the horrific realization

    that my life is completely devoid of passion or purpose and that I have been trying to rely on other people to experience feelings. I think ive always sort of known that but it just occurred to me what that means. It means my life is empty. What do I do?
    mic112 mic112 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Don't be slutty. Be classy.

    CLASSY= Class with ***
    vaashapenin vaashapenin 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    So, somehow, this happened.

    .. I work at a convalescent home, and they needed someone to accompany the elder folk on their hospital visits. I volunteered, and as you'd have it, the van driver who transported us to the hospitals is sooo handsome. Not only that but he has the most likeable friendly...
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 18 Responses Jan 22

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    It started with this dumb love triangle issue

    and now that I'm with Nate I feel like I'm losing my best friend... I love Nate. I always have and I know that now. It's different with him then it was with Chris because when I was with Chris ALL I could think about was Nate. Now that I'm with Nate I'm happy and things are...
    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony 16-17, F Jan 23

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    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 28 Responses Apr 28, 2014

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    It'S Not Easy To Move On

    When i was younger 17/18 i had a boyfriend that i gave up everything for, my job, friends and family i moved away to be with him, and it was a huge mistake. He became abusive very quickly and every time i forgave him. i soon realized what i was putting myself through as long as i...
    Maz100 Maz100 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Okie so someone asked me out he is an old

    friend he used to go to my close friend Michaela's school but moved to Wisconsin with his mother when his parents got divorced so we were snap hating and he said Do you wanna go out with me/be my girlfriend And I said Sure! And now remember the guy tht called me perfect...
    Alli13146 Alli13146 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    My last experience ..

    ..............
    strawberryletter22 strawberryletter22 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 11 Responses May 26, 2014

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    Ok I'm an ordinary guy in my fourties trying

    to restart my life. I broke up with the woman I've been with for fifteen year's about 4 month's ago. Everyone in my life tell's me I am a good looking man and I believe them. I just can't get over how dam shy I am. I see it as a flaw and want to use it as my strength. I am sick...
    Encontrados Encontrados 36-40, M 2 Responses May 22, 2014

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    So im thinking of giving this to my crush

    as a birthday present like making a nice card. And I wrote this poem for her. I want it to be friendly I don't want her to suspect yet, but hopefully to remember it. I'm wondering if it wud be good and doesn't sound a little too friendly. Any advice is super groovy thanks...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 2, 2014

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    Hey guys I'm a 25 year old male

    and I would love to hear your opinions. So my mom is 56 years old and she's a beautiful single lady. She has been divorced for 12 years. She has no interest in remarrying but she still wants to have fun which I totally support. She loves to exercise so she was in pursuit of a...
    justin62 justin62 22-25, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm in a relationship with a girl,

    and while I still want to be in contact with her, I don't want to continue dating. The thing is, I'm also attracted to the same sex, and I want to be able to experience that part of myself. I don't know how to end it, and I've never been good at ending relationships. I'm sorry...
    RMgunning RMgunning 13-15, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    The people in my school are terrible people.

    They act like their your friend over a text message and when you get to school they want nothing to do with you. They play with your emotions. They are bad examples. I have truly never met anyone like these people. I moved to the school two years ago. They don't let you be you...
    thatsme55 thatsme55 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    (So,I don't go into detail

    or anything, and probably never will. It's not something I like to talk about. But it is kind of a touchy subject, so if that bothers you, you may block me (assuming you're in my circle) . I don't bring it up much. But I could really use some advice ...) I realize things would...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    I have a problem and I really would appreciate

    some advice on it. Basically... my dad has said to me that 'do you wanna go to the islands for your birthday' haha, I know it sounds like it would be great to do that but I REALLY don't want to with my family.... How do I go about telling him that... my mum is extremely...
    Misscoconut Misscoconut 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 28 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    I met a guy on EP. And he is amazing,

    I think about him all the time. But I have a problem letting him get any closer to me than on here, I wont give him my number or snap chat, I have a problem trusting guys in person, so it's worse when it's a long distance type of thing. I'm not sure what to do, I want more than...
    Jessbenoit Jessbenoit 18-21, F 18 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    Quick ! I need advice on escorting.

    Anyone with experience. Until the business I work for is up and running I put my own add up and I have some replies. I don't exactly know what I'm doing though so a little help would be cool.
    missAphrodite missAphrodite 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    I need some more fashion advice please ASAP!

    same rules from last time girls can be any age to message me guys please be under 25 thanks (: ASAP!! (;
    youngadult14 youngadult14 13-15, F Aug 30, 2014

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    I dont Wanna lose Him :( hes the best thing

    that ever happen to me he's all I have i have no friends like him he understands me he's always there for me like no one ever has I feel so loved and cared about :( without him I'm worth less I never wanna lose him I'm so upset and full of anger at myself for doing what I did I...
    MAC619 MAC619 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 24 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    There is a boy I like in my class.

    It's summer now so school is over and the classes will split when school starts again. We have been flirting a bit for about a half year but both has been to shy to acctually make the first move. Now that we didn't get in the same class I won't be able to be around him...
    Zelo01 Zelo01 13-15, F 7 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    I've a very close friend,

    and today we fought again... I'm not sure of what to do here... If after 8 years of knowing me, she's judging me, and wrong about me, should I be talking to her?
    LoganManish LoganManish 26-30, M 3 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    I'm so confused Okay

    so if a guy calls you perfect does that mean he likes you This is how it went Down Me and let's call him K were talking and he said "Can I tell you something" "Sure" I said "In the beginning of the year you were kind of nerdy but now your perfect" "Did,...di-di-did you...
    Alli13146 Alli13146 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    Do you think it's 'sad'

    that I give up my spare time to volunteer at a holiday centre for people with physical and mental disabilities. Some of my friends say it means I have no life because I have nothing better to do than volunteer there. But to be honest, I think that it's what life is all about...
    jessie123h jessie123h 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 1

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    Input Quickly Please

    I have received some disturbing text messages from an EP member. This person has also written a blog in the past few minutes saying "good bye" Do you fine EPers think I should start calling high schools in this persons home town and try to reach a GC to intervene...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 15 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    I took an overseas nanny job three months ago.

    I'm eighteen years old. The job is for my uncle, I watch his kids for him and clean up a bit. The problem is I unfortunately made this decision too rashly and too quickly. I told him I would stay for a year thinking I could handle it but it has turned out I cannot. I've become...
    TyieseMarie TyieseMarie 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 23

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    I'm feeling artsy today.

    What do you think?
    halfpace halfpace 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    I recently just got in a relationship.

    The thing is I'm really shy around my boyfriend. Last night I was playing video games with some other guy friends and me and my boyfriend were on a team. When we won the match he came so close to me. The funny thing is, his arm was only slightly touching me but I felt...
    asiaxn asiaxn 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    So, there's this girl in my class whom I hate.

    She used to be my best friend but she found new people and she doesn't like me that much. I'm always put in the same groups with her. I don't like that! Tomorrow I have to work with her! How can I ignore this?