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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 23 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    Ok so I am looking for help to tell my best

    friend cause I don't know the answer to give her so here it goes she is kinda seeing this guy is how she puts it lol anyways when she goes over during the week to see him he starts to drink pretty heavy enough that he has to call off work the next day they always have a great...
    mouse2816 mouse2816 31-35, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Me and this guy has been friend s

    for 2 years now we're getting to a point where we are getting active through text. Basically this.. *kisses you* *unzips your pants* and other stuff but we get to the point where its more than oral. He stops. He says he's nervous. I asked is it because I'm a guy. He said "yes...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 16-17, M Jul 14

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    How can I talk my out of getting my hair cut?

    Like make her forger about it make her to where she won't cut it.
    Sierranicole02 Sierranicole02 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Should I Text Him?

    I met this absolutely amazing guy who just moved in my area. We hung out for 2 days and we clicked what it seemed like too well. We understand each other and poke fun at each other and he always has me laughing. He is a great guy and I really like him. Me and him just can get...
    NotPerfectJustMe NotPerfectJustMe 13-15, F 8 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    Help Me Please

    I really wish sometimes that I had better friends. Not that my friends aren't wonderful it's just I guess that they're too busy with what's going on in their own lives to care about what's going on in mine. I really feel like I'm the person that's there for everyone, and in the...
    CarterSamson CarterSamson 13-15 7 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    I'm 31 .And was sheltered my whole life my

    parents homeschool me. So,I didn't make friends in school. I'm shy. So,what I'm asking is how do you make friends?
    lisa00 lisa00 31-35 10 Responses May 16

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    There is a girl in my band class,

    that I got to know really well last school year. During the school year we got to become really good friends if not best friends. As we became better friend I developed feelings for her. I never got a chance to tell her how I feel. Now that the new school year is approaching, I...
    marchdan marchdan 13-15, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I love my girlfriend with all

    that I am. That's why I need to get this under control before this tears our relationship apart. I have a rule: I can't have sex before I'm 20. It's just a personal rule, not religious (didn't know if that mattered). She completely respects that rule but I'm having trouble...
    BearBlanket BearBlanket 16-17, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    So I've been datin this guy

    for a short while and I'm really happy with him and it's going great but I've always had this small crush on my older brothers friend and now that I'm older he is startin to flirt with me. He will stay up and talk with me when my bf goes to sleep and calls me beautiful while my...
    augustyn2 augustyn2 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    What is he thinking ?

    Is he truly okay with it or is he not okay with it and just acting like he is?
    butterflygirl234 butterflygirl234 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 24

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17

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    So i met this guy (over the internet) im not a

    big fan of dating sites but i was curious so i made a profile and of course i received a bunch of msgs.. I ignored most, made a couple friends, and then came this guy!! We've been talking for weeks and he just makes me smile... But he lives very very far like a few plane trips...
    Marypossa Marypossa 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I am sick of everything!

    I don't want to do anything, or even try. Just want to disappear and be done. Sad huh!
    MRP223 MRP223 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 13

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    This guy and I hooked up

    once two years ago and recently we did again. He had just gotten out of a two year relationship that he got in right after things didn't work out between us when we hooked up the first time. Right after we had sex he was saying things like "this is how it should have been, why...
    mattihope mattihope 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'll keep this short,

    as the details will be horribly boring. I had this friend, and she helped out tremendously in life although she actually doesn't know how much. This is in all seriousness, she had a huge impact on my life. We would speak at least 7 hours a day if not more, and if I never...
    AnonymousTony AnonymousTony 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 14

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 9

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    Please help! I need advice on friends.

    If you read my last experience that's what it's about (:
    pikachuux pikachuux 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I Need Advice

    so i came to this web site just to comment some things i read that were really good stories.but i still have a story to tell.the problem is im scared to say it.i dont know other people do it.i..i just cant.pls tell me what to do!!!
    victor8038 victor8038 26-30, M 7 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 13 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    She Said/she Said.... A 1-way Conversation??

    So, here's my situation. I avoid social situations I don't plan/organize myself for a specific purpose.   This is because I have REAL difficulty with small-talk, and absolutely dread being boring. Enter "Patsy." I met Patsy sometime in my early to mid-30's.  We had kids about...
    Colormevibrant Colormevibrant 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2012

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    It's a long history but I've been in love with

    someone for five years thinking he'd never ever feel the same way and today he attempted to confess to me and I brushed it off because I couldn't and still can't believe it, all the pain I've felt and he announces his feelings after I had a thought for a while to give up and to...
    cults cults 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Alright, there is a girl I met the other day in

    a summer camp sort of thing, although she didn't seem interested in me in any way I managed to get her phone number and at this point am just interested in being friends, any advice on how to evolve this into a friendship?
    Doglord Doglord 16-17, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm in love with my best friend.

    It's kind of like a friends with benefits situation. I want a relationship but he doesn't. I don't know if I should keep trying to 'get' him or stop messing around and move on?
    bullock44 bullock44 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Beauty And The Beast?

    I really need some help.The thing is, I'm totally falling for a man who I don't consider very attractive. I love being around him, and he feels like a fairy tale come true, but I would be so embarrassed introducing him to my friends and family because he is shorter than me (I'm...
    transienthope transienthope 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 5, 2012

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 28 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    Help Quick!! - Lies - What Should I Do?!!

    Well I am a teenager at Sixth Form in England. Like any student I didn't want to wake up and go to school, so... I lied. I created a fake email from my teachers saying that I didnt have to come in this morning and i could stay at home, my parents believed me and i did this. Later...
    Xunae Xunae 16-17 12 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    My boyfriend of almost 2 1/2 years dumped me

    because he wants to be single and party. And he told me he may come crawling back to me at the end of the summer. We're both going off to college in the fall too. What should I do? I feel hopeless.
    hopeless1012 hopeless1012 18-21, F 28 Responses Jun 21

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    I met him everything was perfect.

    We've had our son he's the smartest and happiest child. But now him and I aren't going well. Everyday is an argument. The smallest things break me down and I just cry. I don't know what to do. I used to be so strong. I feel like I am stuck. I just wish he would listen to how I...
    thinking0801 thinking0801 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Alright so I have a problem.

    I am sorta seeing a guy and it's getting a little serious. I finally consider us to be in a relationship. We have slept together, the problem is that nobody knows we are together. He doesn't want to tell anybody. Are secret relationships ever a good idea? I am really confused...
    RubyTuesday413 RubyTuesday413 16-17, F 4 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Interracial Love

    The other night I asked my dad if I could go to the movies with a guy friend, him being my boyfriend of two weeks, I wanted my dad to meet him. I told my father he was black and he hasn't spoke to me since. I didn't get to go to the movies either. I don't know if I should just...
    hollyolly02 hollyolly02 16-17, F 23 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    Basically I think this girls really cute

    and I met her last year but we never really talked but we do have common friends. So today me and a couple of my friends (her friends aswll) met up to eat and just talk and kind of hang out. Anyways I had always thought she was cute I just had many other issues to worry about...
    drakee95 drakee95 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    When I was in my abusive relationship with my

    ex Boyfriend, I had a friend who I had a crush on. I made the mistake of not telling him I had a boyfriend until a few weeks ago and we have been friends for 2 years, when my friend found out it made him feel some type of way but when he found out that my boyfriend hits me as...
    GisselleButCallMeGiGi GisselleButCallMeGiGi 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Ok I'm an ordinary guy in my fourties trying

    to restart my life. I broke up with the woman I've been with for fifteen year's about 4 month's ago. Everyone in my life tell's me I am a good looking man and I believe them. I just can't get over how dam shy I am. I see it as a flaw and want to use it as my strength. I am sick...
    fifteenyearslost fifteenyearslost 36-40, M 2 Responses May 22

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    I am here for everyone,

    if you are 13-17 and need advice, or just want to talk, please feel free to message me.
    marchdan marchdan 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 14

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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 16-17, M 5 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    undrayaaa undrayaaa 18-21, F 11 Responses May 26

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    Input Quickly Please

    I have received some disturbing text messages from an EP member. This person has also written a blog in the past few minutes saying "good bye" Do you fine EPers think I should start calling high schools in this persons home town and try to reach a GC to intervene...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 13 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    I don't have a desire to talk

    or be around people. I don't know if it's a cause of social anxiety, fear of boredom, or just plain annoyance. Any ideas or advice?
    Maq98 Maq98 16-17, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    so i am being kicked out at the start of

    september for 5 weeks as my parents don't trust me with the house.... ****..... i am more then a little nervous and don't really know what to do . any idea's ? i have very little money and it wont last 5 weeks . at least i can come back after the 5 weeks but still :
    MiskaMaskedOne MiskaMaskedOne 18-21 1 Response Jul 12

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    idk what to do. Me and my ex of 2 years broke up

    because he couldn't be loyal and I met someone new who is a real good guy but now my ex is coming around being all nice and wanting to get back together and I've only known the new guy for about 2 weeks and we've gone on dates and had lots of fun together. I know that my ex isn...
    casskatherine casskatherine 18-21, F 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    How do i tell my boyfriend i want to give it

    another try after trying to end our relationship? Its been rough for a while and wasn't getting better so I sent a long paragraph (its a long distance relationship) on why i was ending it and how i felt. But his reply back sounded like he really does care and love me he...
    missanon18 missanon18 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Mu dont think I'm pretty at all.

    I wish I had more confidence in myself
    butterflygirl234 butterflygirl234 18-21, F 15 Responses 4 days ago

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    marchdan marchdan 13-15, M 28 Responses Apr 28

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    Today I came up with the crazy idea of how

    awesome it would be to have my own radio station - online. I have tons of ideas and plan in just sharing my opinion and my favourite music - many genres are included. The thing is, I don't know how to do it. I've looked into websites like spreaker and radionomy, but I could use...
    Thebestofrita Thebestofrita 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Ok so this guy I really like got hurt by his ex

    wife she cheated on him and now he has trust issues and said he could never fall in love again but yet tells me he misses me when I am not their and wants me around all the time which I want to be their for him how can I get him to be able to trust again to mend his heart so I...
    mouse2816 mouse2816 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 32 Responses Apr 13

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    The people in my school are terrible people.

    They act like their your friend over a text message and when you get to school they want nothing to do with you. They play with your emotions. They are bad examples. I have truly never met anyone like these people. I moved to the school two years ago. They don't let you be you...
    thatsme55 thatsme55 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    how do i break up with my boyfriend?

    We've been dating 5 months and he says he loves me but i just dont feel it, and if i cant feel it then what good is this relationship? We've talked about this over and over again it isnt getting better so please dont tell me to talk it out, i tried. I've tried many times to...
    beetlebucks beetlebucks 18-21, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    So. I met this guy. He told me I could trust

    him. He was the first person I fell in love with. About a month after we dated he told me he wanted to be friends with his ex. I didn't like that. Because she cheated on him throughout their relationship. I caught him multiple times texting her behind my back. He also wanted...
    brittdorn brittdorn 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Okay so I'm staying with my friend

    and I heard that her grandpa was a pervert and I didn't believe it but he literally just came down stairs and went in the bathroom staring at me!!!!!! Then walked around the corner to the kitchen and stood there ******* staring at me! Then he moved and I could only see his...
    Ivydelrey Ivydelrey 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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