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    so i got a girlfriend.

    Could i get some ideas for things to do on a date that she would like that are also not super costly like the movies XD
    Unstablecrutch Unstablecrutch 16-17, M 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 24

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    I went to a house party with my boyfriend,

    it was his friends cousins house so I didn't know a lot of people there. Everything started out fine and everyone was having a good time. I've met his friends a few times and always got on with them. Me and my boyfriend went travelling a few months after we met so even though I...
    Ver24 Ver24 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Okay so I apologised to someone I bullied at

    school via fb she has forgiven me completely but I did send the message a while ago. I wanted to send this message basically saying that I appreciate her and what I think of her..... Is this a good idea?
    Thatchickxoxo Thatchickxoxo 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    So I start community college in 2 weeks

    and deciding on what clubs to join I recently came out of the closet and I wanted to join gay straight alliance club just to get support and meet more people like me.... But the sad part is the club meets at a different campus that's 40mins away :( So idk what to do I want...
    Vaughn37 Vaughn37 18-21, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Going in for a dental check up.

    First time in forever, and I have no doubt they'll do a deep cleaning. If anyone has had one done, what can I expect?
    jasonb2628 jasonb2628 41-45, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Help please I have been having sexy with a man

    anyways I really truly care for him we have been doing this for over a year now anyways he ask if we could pretty much be sex buddies I said yes for the fact I really like him maybe even love him at first he only called me ever now and then but now he's calling me 2 to 3 times a...
    mouse2816 mouse2816 31-35, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    The people in my school are terrible people.

    They act like their your friend over a text message and when you get to school they want nothing to do with you. They play with your emotions. They are bad examples. I have truly never met anyone like these people. I moved to the school two years ago. They don't let you be you...
    thatsme55 thatsme55 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    simplyunfathomable simplyunfathomable 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My husband is out of town working with his dad

    and within three weeks we will b moving too Amarillo tx. But being without him with our kids I miss him like crazy. I feel like he's cheating but he's not hes just working for us to move. N he tells me everywhere he goes
    ashnsonny09 ashnsonny09 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 28 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    Plain and simple question.

    ..should I text him? It's been 3 days since we last did. He texted first the last time...just casually talking in the evening but no further moves to see each other again. This is the part that sucks because I want to play coy / not so easy to get, but at the same time I want him...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    My friend's son (he was 21 at the time) asked

    if he could live with me three years ago. His parents divorced and moved far from his old home and friends. He's a good guy (a bit lazy sometimes) who's had a rough life so I said yes. He promised to pay $300 dollars a month rent and did for awhile till he lost his job. He has...
    katieb35 katieb35 51-55, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    If anyone needs advice (and well I guess that's

    everyone here...) just message me and I'll be glad to help you out 😄
    Austinable97 Austinable97 16-17, M 3 days ago

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    Over a year now l have been separated from my

    ex of 2hlf yrs together.we also have a 1year old son together thru the r/ship he propose to me and I said yes I do.i don't see us ever getting back together.i still have the ingagement ring I feel as thou I can't let it go yet.havent had sex with any other men feels like it's...
    coco828 coco828 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I know this guy from a show I do every year.

    We're flirty friends and he's really nice and funny when we're at rehearsals but when he texts me it's always really dirty and he keeps asking for naked pics which I don't want to give him coz I don't feel I'm ready for that, I mean I've never even been kissed for gods sake! I...
    NerdNotGeek NerdNotGeek 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have a crush on this girl I'm bi

    and my parents don't know how would I date this girl in secret
    thatonegirl156 thatonegirl156 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    My best friend forbids me to date his cousin.

    ..who wouldn't tell me why I can't date him! I need advice
    KatieP767 KatieP767 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I Need Advice

    so i came to this web site just to comment some things i read that were really good stories.but i still have a story to tell.the problem is im scared to say it.i dont know other people do it.i..i just cant.pls tell me what to do!!!
    victor8038 victor8038 26-30, M 7 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 30 Responses Apr 28

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    (So,I don't go into detail

    or anything, and probably never will. It's not something I like to talk about. But it is kind of a touchy subject, so if that bothers you, you may block me (assuming you're in my circle) . I don't bring it up much. But I could really use some advice ...) I realize things would...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    My boyfriend treats me like ****.

    He said "no wonder your ex bfs hit you, you're ******* annoying" because I was refusing to meet his friends before I was ready to. and later said something about how I "pushed them to that point" I need to know what you think. Does this mean he is capable and likely to become...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm going to an orientation thing tomorrow at a

    school. This guy I really like may go... We have a really complicated history and everyone says he likes me. But if I see him tomorrow I'm gonna just wanna run up and hug him and cry... What should I do?!
    xxdeadxx xxdeadxx 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I Really Need Advice About This Guy...

    I've written about him before, but not gotten much response.  What I want to know is, should I be blunt and just say that I have a personal question to ask him?  I need to know if our relationship 9 years ago meant anything to him because sometimes he acts like it does...
    Licorice Licorice 31-35, F 41 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    Beauty And The Beast?

    I really need some help.The thing is, I'm totally falling for a man who I don't consider very attractive. I love being around him, and he feels like a fairy tale come true, but I would be so embarrassed introducing him to my friends and family because he is shorter than me (I'm...
    transienthope transienthope 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 5, 2012

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    Help Me Please

    I really wish sometimes that I had better friends. Not that my friends aren't wonderful it's just I guess that they're too busy with what's going on in their own lives to care about what's going on in mine. I really feel like I'm the person that's there for everyone, and in the...
    CarterSamson CarterSamson 13-15 7 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    My friend is mourning the suicide of her friend,

    she said he had so much potential and now he's just "rotting in the ground" and I don't know what to say! Help?!
    AmeliaRose1 AmeliaRose1 16-17, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    How can I tell if I'm not making a story up in

    my head or if he's really not interested? Am I being dramatic?! It's been 3 days since we spoke at all. A week since we saw each other. I can't help but think he isn't interested, because he hasn't made effort to see me again. I can't help but feel let down. But then again, is...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I thought I was finally done with my ex bc he

    treated me like ****. i got really drunk and ended up sleeping with one of his old friends. the morning after my ex texted me telling me he still loves me and I'm thinking I want to forgive him. do I tell him about sleeping with his friend?
    rita27980 rita27980 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hey everyone! so I've been dating this guy,

    and we get along super well. Every date we've been on has been perfect and never boring, but recently, he started getting distant. I brought it up and he said "I really really like you but I feel unsure about an 'us' and I have no idea why. I'm not sure if it's the idea of me...
    sarahbearrr51 sarahbearrr51 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    She Said/she Said.... A 1-way Conversation??

    So, here's my situation. I avoid social situations I don't plan/organize myself for a specific purpose.   This is because I have REAL difficulty with small-talk, and absolutely dread being boring. Enter "Patsy." I met Patsy sometime in my early to mid-30's.  We had kids about...
    Colormevibrant Colormevibrant 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2012

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    I am just in such a funk in my life.

    I am looking for someone to share advice with maybe help one another out and just have someone to enjoy chatting with online. Nothing serious, no meeting just someone to have fun and talk with.
    snowbabe3 snowbabe3 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 9

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    Last night my dad told me not to grow up to fast

    and I'm his baby girl, idk what to do cuz I've pretty much always been like this I'm just more open now, idk how to respond now like what do I do?
    FamousLastWordsMCR FamousLastWordsMCR 13-15, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Help Quick!! - Lies - What Should I Do?!!

    Well I am a teenager at Sixth Form in England. Like any student I didn't want to wake up and go to school, so... I lied. I created a fake email from my teachers saying that I didnt have to come in this morning and i could stay at home, my parents believed me and i did this. Later...
    Xunae Xunae 16-17 12 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    Ok I'm an ordinary guy in my fourties trying

    to restart my life. I broke up with the woman I've been with for fifteen year's about 4 month's ago. Everyone in my life tell's me I am a good looking man and I believe them. I just can't get over how dam shy I am. I see it as a flaw and want to use it as my strength. I am sick...
    fifteenyearslost fifteenyearslost 36-40, M 2 Responses May 22

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 32 Responses Apr 13

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    People talk about me all the time.

    And it never really bothered me. But I got this app called ask.fm where people anonomously ask you questions and instead of a question someone sent me this:And seeing that actually made me cry which is stupid. Its really mean but partly true and it just sucks that someone thinks...
    QuinnMac12 QuinnMac12 13-15, F 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    Help! So it's almost the start of a new school

    year and I have to choose between a catholic school or a public school. I went to the catholic for 2 months last school year because I moved. I only made one friend because it's hard making friends in a very short time. I don't really want to go back because I'll be mostly alone...
    asiaxn asiaxn 13-15, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Lately , I have been feeling really down.

    I feel like I am only good when someone needs something. It seems like most of my family and friends will only bother with me when they need something from me and then I never hear from them. this summer ,I decided to reach out once to my circle. Make a plan to have people to...
    doubletees doubletees 36-40, F 7 hrs ago

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    Input Quickly Please

    I have received some disturbing text messages from an EP member. This person has also written a blog in the past few minutes saying "good bye" Do you fine EPers think I should start calling high schools in this persons home town and try to reach a GC to intervene...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 13 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    Should I Text Him?

    I met this absolutely amazing guy who just moved in my area. We hung out for 2 days and we clicked what it seemed like too well. We understand each other and poke fun at each other and he always has me laughing. He is a great guy and I really like him. Me and him just can get...
    NotPerfectJustMe NotPerfectJustMe 13-15, F 8 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    It'S Not Easy To Move On

    When i was younger 17/18 i had a boyfriend that i gave up everything for, my job, friends and family i moved away to be with him, and it was a huge mistake. He became abusive very quickly and every time i forgave him. i soon realized what i was putting myself through as long as i...
    Maz100 Maz100 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    I'm 31 .And was sheltered my whole life my

    parents homeschool me. So,I didn't make friends in school. I'm shy. So,what I'm asking is how do you make friends?
    lisa00 lisa00 31-35 10 Responses May 16

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    Been dating a guy for about a month

    and have been on 3 dates so far , I just don't understand how does someone know if the dating will lead into a relationship?
    mimilsu mimilsu 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    DessyLove DessyLove 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    My Marriage

    I need advice on my marriage. My husband and I have been through some really rough times, and now even though we are a lot stronger I can't let go of the hurt we've caused each other. At times it felt like a game, who could hurt each other the most, it was a cycle that none of us...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 77 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    Interracial Love

    The other night I asked my dad if I could go to the movies with a guy friend, him being my boyfriend of two weeks, I wanted my dad to meet him. I told my father he was black and he hasn't spoke to me since. I didn't get to go to the movies either. I don't know if I should just...
    hollyolly02 hollyolly02 16-17, F 24 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    I moved in with my Dad,

    Stepmother and Stepsister a little over a year ago. There's loads of issues attached to this situation but the main reason I am here is to ask for advice about my Stepmother. We clash constantly, annoy each other and really and truly just can't seem to get along anymore...
    catlover96 catlover96 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    undrayaaa undrayaaa 18-21, F 11 Responses May 26

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    So I left my tampon in

    for 10 hours 2 days ago. Im scared I have TSS because Im gettig a headache now. I talked to my mom and she says Im fine and its just because I dont eat a lot and I've been on the computer all day yesterday and the day before. Im just reaaly scared. Can someone please tell me Im...
    Chylena Chylena 13-15, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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