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    Ok I'm an ordinary guy in my fourties trying

    to restart my life. I broke up with the woman I've been with for fifteen year's about 4 month's ago. Everyone in my life tell's me I am a good looking man and I believe them. I just can't get over how dam shy I am. I see it as a flaw and want to use it as my strength. I am sick...
    Encontrados Encontrados 41-45, M 5 Responses May 22, 2014

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    Don't be slutty. Be classy.

    CLASSY= Class with ***
    Jenny369 Jenny369 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    If somebody I like asks me on a date

    or even to casually meet up I always end up panicking and I begin to see flaws in that person and generally become more and more put off. It gets to the point where I literally cringe if they continue to ask me out. I've always had this problem and it has prevented me from...
    HyperactiveLauren HyperactiveLauren 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 27 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    ill make this short and blunt.

    i have a bf, i love him... however his uncle... is a *********. i know this went from 0-100 real quick but let me explain! his uncle has been in the news and almost jail for touching his NEPHEW... he sometimes stays round my boyfriends house for a long weekend and it puts a...
    BulletproofLoneliness BulletproofLoneliness 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    So I haven't written anything in like two weeks

    and I still don't know how I feel about it. It's like I feel okay but at the same time I don't know what to do. Imagine you had a stuffed animal you would always hug, like every day, and now it's gone. That's kinda what it feels like. I don't know. I think I need a new hobby...
    cyndercrys cyndercrys 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    Ok so I'm 16 about to go into the 11th grade.

    I have no idea what i want to do for a career, I started wondering and looking because honestly idc what I do as long as I make good money. But the problem is i am planning to get a sleeve as soon as i turn 18 and I know that could hurt my chance at allot of jobs. My grades also...
    rich1999 rich1999 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 19

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    I Need Advice

    so i came to this web site just to comment some things i read that were really good stories.but i still have a story to tell.the problem is im scared to say it.i dont know other people do it.i..i just cant.pls tell me what to do!!!
    victor8038 victor8038 26-30, M 5 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    I love my best friend to pieces.

    We are so close. But I worry she is acting too much like a "s**g". She is 15 and I understand its her life...but I get rather worried. She has been with her boyfriend for 3 weeks and has never met him but already talks to me about considering having s*x with him. She is a vir*in...
    RachieBlondie RachieBlondie 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    I am a Christian but lately I've been

    questioning it a lot. I feel like I just am not connecting with it anymore. I'm just now living on my own and exploring life in my 20's. I want to take awhile and experiment with different religions, and other lifestyles but I'm afraid that if I leave my religion for a little...
    virginiamarie94 virginiamarie94 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    I transferred universities this year

    and i don't know if I made the right decision. I used to study communication arts in my previous school and now that I transferred to a state university, I had to enroll to advertising instead. Because there were no slots left. Advertising is okay.. There is no problem with it...
    medicine102 medicine102 16-17, F Jul 18

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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 12 Responses May 26, 2014

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    so wat happened was i got this crush on this

    girl and she didn't feel the same. she basically told me to leave her alone. i did and i was jus hoping she wouldn't tell anyone cause im not out yet. yea ik im so stupid. but she ended up telling the entire school that i was gay. and i got bullied everyday after. my parents...
    IKnowImAlone IKnowImAlone 13-15, F 6 Responses Mar 7

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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    Input Quickly Please

    I have received some disturbing text messages from an EP member. This person has also written a blog in the past few minutes saying "good bye" Do you fine EPers think I should start calling high schools in this persons home town and try to reach a GC to intervene...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 16 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    I've lost almost 15 kg of my weight during 1

    year and 3 mobths and still am overweighted, I'm 172 centimeters tall! Unfortunately even doing regular exercises and control my food is not enough any more and my weight has stopped decreasing! I need some hints, motivation or I don't know some people to work out with me...
    Jasmine87111 Jasmine87111 26-30, F 15 hrs ago

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    please help! I've started seeing this guy

    and we have been on a couple of dates, he called me by another girls name when he had just woke up, I confronted him and he said sorry that he didn't even know a girl called 'sam' i let it slide seems he was half asleep. we then went to the beach the same day and he called me...
    lilbee2 lilbee2 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    When the only thing you can do to help someone

    is giving them a hug, but the person is emotionally damaged, what can you do to help?
    steviehunt steviehunt 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    ssaammii ssaammii 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I need advice on whether

    or not I should continue talking to a younger girl. Background: I work as a camp counselor at a swim club, and there is this gorgeous girl who works at the snack bar at the swim club. I see her basically everyday there and it was pretty obvious we had a great connection. Last...
    wspd1993 wspd1993 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm engaged to the man of my dreams.

    I love him more than anyone on this Earth. He loves me the same. The advice I need is how to overcome the people who aren't happy and/or jealous. I was raised in a religion where marriage is of the utmost importance, but was willing to wait for the right guy to come along. I...
    MidnightLaughter MidnightLaughter 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Yes I need advice. I've been told it was a bad

    idea to do this, but I keep thinking about it and I want to get some more insight. Over a year ago (long story short) a girl basically asked me out when I was already with a girl. This new girl was more attractive and fun so I picked her. Her and I fell in love quickly and we...
    idontknow2658 idontknow2658 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I feel so crappy! please help me understand.

    I've been recently seeing this cute guy and as far as I can tell he is into me, gives me complements takes me out, good sex etc but I recently discovered on his Facebook that he left his pretty girlfriend 2 months ago.. if that! I really don't want to be a rebound coz I like the...
    lilbee2 lilbee2 22-25, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    I told my crush I like him,

    IN ******* PERSON. I tapped him on the shoulder "fadol can I tell you something?" "Yeah sure" we moved to the Side and I told him after like 10 secs of silence. "I kinda like you " he smiled. "Are you the one whose been kiking me?" "No that was one of my best friends", he was...
    kidLeftInTheDark kidLeftInTheDark 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 7

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    I hate when people give me cliche advice like

    "never give up", well no **** lol
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    is it bad that I took a bath with candles

    and bubbles with my boyfriend and almost got caught?
    TomecekLeigh TomecekLeigh 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    A fun opinionated question.

    Now, a friend of mine is in a relationship, has been for three months. They've lived together for two months, and they just recently got engaged. They are in their early twenties, and are madly in love. Now, I'm kinda flabbergasted they don't see anything wrong with getting...
    speedskull speedskull 22-25, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    See I've been getting very emotionally attached

    to many people. And it's been getting worse people I see for a minute or have one brief conversation with I get the need keep talking to them. My therapist she moved and I still kills me I listen to the voicemail and tried to call her more than once I even emailed her. My...
    kaitlynmarchinkoski kaitlynmarchinkoski 13-15, F Jul 15

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    clearmymind clearmymind 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    So my boyfriend has a daughter

    who the mom doesn't let him see often. He had planned a trip to go see her and I asked him before he left would he be able to talk to me while he was gone. Because a previous trip he couldn't find the time he said. He says "oh yeah baby of course" So fast forward into the trip I...
    BeautifullyAmiss BeautifullyAmiss 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    aylinacc11 aylinacc11 26-30, F Jul 16

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    It'S Not Easy To Move On

    When i was younger 17/18 i had a boyfriend that i gave up everything for, my job, friends and family i moved away to be with him, and it was a huge mistake. He became abusive very quickly and every time i forgave him. i soon realized what i was putting myself through as long as i...
    Maz100 Maz100 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    So, somehow, this happened.

    .. I work at a convalescent home, and they needed someone to accompany the elder folk on their hospital visits. I volunteered, and as you'd have it, the van driver who transported us to the hospitals is sooo handsome. Not only that but he has the most likeable friendly...
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 16 Responses Jan 22

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    Do you think it's 'sad'

    that I give up my spare time to volunteer at a holiday centre for people with physical and mental disabilities. Some of my friends say it means I have no life because I have nothing better to do than volunteer there. But to be honest, I think that it's what life is all about...
    jessie123h jessie123h 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 1

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    Things I Would Tell My Younger Self The

    romance novels you read paint unrealistic expectations of relationships. Stop comparing yourself to other people, you are a swan in the making. Do not change yourself to satisfy the people in your life who do not appreciate you. It’s okay to say no. But don’t make...
    RedHwaiting RedHwaiting 18-21, F 1 Response May 30

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 28 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    I feel responsible for everyone's pain.

    I try to help people but I can't. I don't know what I should do. I must be a bad person. I always end up venting to the people I'm trying to help, and that just makes it worse. I haven't done anything right. I don't want to go to hell. I want to pay for my sins while I'm alive...
    justalittlewallflower justalittlewallflower 16-17, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I love you guys ! I love this app

    and I just got on it I had this when I was 14 but I never used it but now I'm 16 and this is really helping I love you guys thanks for not being rude ! 😊
    simplesecrets simplesecrets 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Long story short there's a girl

    both myself and my roommate wanted, she chose him, they're seeing each other now. It kills me. I now live with this every day, seeing them and hearing them together and etc. etc. My roommate was my best friend. My roommate is the kind of guy who tons of girls fall for. I am not...
    mondayscool mondayscool 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 12

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    The people in my school are terrible people.

    They act like their your friend over a text message and when you get to school they want nothing to do with you. They play with your emotions. They are bad examples. I have truly never met anyone like these people. I moved to the school two years ago. They don't let you be you...
    thatsme55 thatsme55 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    Ok me and my ex husband split

    for no good reason .. Mainly due to stress other then that we got on great .. Well 7 weeks after separation he still keeps coming back to the house for silly things like shoes etc .. I keep telling him to take all the stuff at once but he doesn't .. Then he comes to sort bills...
    wehaveissues wehaveissues 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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