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    i hate myself most of the time

    and i want some people to tell me what to do because im sick of my bullshit i feel so alone right know i dont want to talk to anyone because they never understand but now i feel alone and i need someone but there is no one so im gonna make myself feel better as always but i...
    rthbs rthbs 16-17, F Feb 18

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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 24 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    My best friend and I

    both play trumpet. Today is our solo and ensemble performance. On her solo, she didn't get the top rating. She's beating herself up about it and she says she's quitting. Every time I talk to her when she's upset (not just about music), she gets extremely angry with me. I don't...
    BroguesAndJeans BroguesAndJeans 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    So me and my ex broke up about a year

    and we haven't talked much since. I want to start to talk to her again but I don't know how or what to say.I'm not looking to getting back with her immideitdly just start talking again how do I talk to someone who I haven't talk to anyone in over a year someone help plz
    CESARR7 CESARR7 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 14

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    Honestly what would you do

    if you found out that in the boys bathroom and on one desk at school it has written: "(your name) has a lovely ***" (butt) All my friends are like OMG you're so lucky and how great that is it means they think I'm hot.... BUT HONESTLY I think it's disgusting and I feel so self...
    whydoineeddone whydoineeddone 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 14

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    I'm going to a Breaking Benjamin concert in

    April. This is going to be my second concert I've ever been to. My question is what's the best thing to wear? Do I wear a shirt and jeans or what's the best thing?
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 7 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I am a Christian but lately I've been

    questioning it a lot. I feel like I just am not connecting with it anymore. I'm just now living on my own and exploring life in my 20's. I want to take awhile and experiment with different religions, and other lifestyles but I'm afraid that if I leave my religion for a little...
    virginiamarie94 virginiamarie94 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 12 Responses May 26, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    angiestong angiestong 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So, somehow, this happened.

    .. I work at a convalescent home, and they needed someone to accompany the elder folk on their hospital visits. I volunteered, and as you'd have it, the van driver who transported us to the hospitals is sooo handsome. Not only that but he has the most likeable friendly...
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 17 Responses Jan 22

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    I dated this girl three years ago

    and I really loved her. After a while she decided to break up with me. We were always close after that though. Now I have a new girlfriend who I haven't been dating for a while. Now I find out that my old girlfriend wants be back. I want to date her but I don't want to hurt my...
    needadvice25 needadvice25 26-30, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 27 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    An amazing array of cold treatments has existed

    since antiquity. Roman author Pliny the Elder prescribed jaguar urine and hare feces for fighting coughs. Syrian physician Ibn al-Quff suggested the application of a hot iron to the head until the skull is visible. The Swiss physician Samuel Tissot treated severe colds by...
    BloviatingBuffoon BloviatingBuffoon 70+, F 10 Responses Dec 19, 2014

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    So basically im the average 16 year old guy

    who does stupid crap and skate all day. I've been in a relationship for about 6 months a little longer but yeah. it's pretty good i really love her I know I do but there is this thing. I want to have sex. now before you say I don't love her or im to you **** off. she wants to...
    RichTheCreator RichTheCreator 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 13

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    Is it wrong if i see other guys ,

    but i have a bf tho ! :/ i havent seen anyone. , but i want too , and this guy wants to see me , but i havent told him i have a bf , (sigh) idk wat to do , i wanna get out of my bfs house and leave him but the situation is that my parents dont take me serious , where do i go...
    paola93 paola93 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 17

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    I am sick of everything!

    I don't want to do anything, or even try. Just want to disappear and be done. Sad huh!
    MRP223 MRP223 22-25, F 10 Responses Jan 13, 2014

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    I need some more fashion advice please ASAP!

    same rules from last time girls can be any age to message me guys please be under 25 thanks (: ASAP!! (;
    youngadult14 youngadult14 13-15, F Aug 30, 2014

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    I'm feeling artsy today.

    What do you think?
    halfpace halfpace 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    I've known my boyfriend

    for almost a year now we have been dating for 9 months and he's 17 and I'm 16 and we are very much so in love I trust him with my life and he's everything I've ever wanted and i know he wants to have sex and he's not pressuring me or anything but I don't know if I should or not...
    walljen92 walljen92 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 14

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    I really need some help

    and I'm not sure what to do:( I am starting to volunteer at the hospital for a position that can really help my future. This position doesn't come up very often, in fact, this is my one and only chance. In order to volunteer, I need to get a couple of shots and have my blood...
    BlueJayy BlueJayy 18-21, F Feb 14

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    The people in my school are terrible people.

    They act like their your friend over a text message and when you get to school they want nothing to do with you. They play with your emotions. They are bad examples. I have truly never met anyone like these people. I moved to the school two years ago. They don't let you be you...
    thatsme55 thatsme55 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    So im thinking of giving this to my crush

    as a birthday present like making a nice card. And I wrote this poem for her. I want it to be friendly I don't want her to suspect yet, but hopefully to remember it. I'm wondering if it wud be good and doesn't sound a little too friendly. Any advice is super groovy thanks...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 2, 2014

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    Input Quickly Please

    I have received some disturbing text messages from an EP member. This person has also written a blog in the past few minutes saying "good bye" Do you fine EPers think I should start calling high schools in this persons home town and try to reach a GC to intervene...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 15 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    I need advice. I've been talking to this guy

    for 3 months and we are taking things slow. I'm not ready to have sex or anything but he says he really cares about me and he's willing to wait for me. I noticed he still text and talks to the girls he used to have sex with and on weekends doesn't text me/talk to me as much as...
    Flowerpush Flowerpush 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    If I call someone from Hawaii,

    and I live in America, would I get charged for a international call, or something
    girloverz girloverz 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 17

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    Ok I need some help thanks

    so this guy I am seeing well let's just say he has a lady friend that only comes to him when she breaks up with her boyfriend and needs money so the guy I am seeing will take her to dinner and give her money to pay her bills and then he tells me not to be jealous of her cause he...
    mouse2816 mouse2816 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 18

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    Do you think it's normal

    if guys want to wear thongs?, because I heard some guys do wear them
    girloverz girloverz 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 12

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    Don't be slutty. Be classy.

    CLASSY= Class with ***
    vaashapenin vaashapenin 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    I hate when people give me cliche advice like

    "never give up", well no **** lol
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 6

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    My wife and I have never truly connected

    sexually. It has been up and down for the 3 years we have been together. Recently her sister has been coming on to me. She has been texting me a lot even sending pics. I am very interested. She is a very attractive and my wife is to be nice above average. What should I do? Any...
    Ben10hollis Ben10hollis 26-30, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hey. So there's this boy

    who lives diamonly from me and we go to the same school and have 1 class together. There's some kids who pick on him and they are mean. I wanna stand up but I don't want people to try getting in fights with me. Also he's like really smart and that's why. Does anyone know a way...
    stephaniexoxo13 stephaniexoxo13 13-15, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    (So,I don't go into detail

    or anything, and probably never will. It's not something I like to talk about. But it is kind of a touchy subject, so if that bothers you, you may block me (assuming you're in my circle) . I don't bring it up much. But I could really use some advice ...) I realize things would...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 28 Responses Apr 28, 2014

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    There is a boy I like in my class.

    It's summer now so school is over and the classes will split when school starts again. We have been flirting a bit for about a half year but both has been to shy to acctually make the first move. Now that we didn't get in the same class I won't be able to be around him...
    Zelo01 Zelo01 13-15, F 7 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    There's this girl at my school

    that I've been acquaintances with for about a year and a half. Her boyfriend of two years (i think? they were in an on and off relationship) recently broke up with her and is now with another girl. I feel so bad for her, and since I also am going through a breakup i feel like i...
    BroguesAndJeans BroguesAndJeans 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My ex friends boyfriend died a few days ago

    and i hear shes not doing good. I want to be there for her but she always betrays me and lies to me. I got in a fight with her the last time i saw her. I slapped her and she ran away crying i had no regret she deserved it and i still don't regret it but i want to be there for...
    BloodyVictim BloodyVictim 13-15, F 33 Responses Feb 11

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    Do you think it's 'sad'

    that I give up my spare time to volunteer at a holiday centre for people with physical and mental disabilities. Some of my friends say it means I have no life because I have nothing better to do than volunteer there. But to be honest, I think that it's what life is all about...
    jessie123h jessie123h 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 1

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    Quick ! I need advice on escorting.

    Anyone with experience. Until the business I work for is up and running I put my own add up and I have some replies. I don't exactly know what I'm doing though so a little help would be cool.
    missAphrodite missAphrodite 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    So last year I met this guy

    while traveling for business in Europe (i live in US) and we hung out and had a killer time for 2 days... We connected on Facebook but really didn't stay in contact with each other except for the occasional like of a picture. In January we ran into each other again at a...
    irishgirl78 irishgirl78 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    so I have been friends with this guy

    for over 9 years and 2 years ago we grew apart from each other for a little while and in all them years just a few weeks ago is when I realized he is who I truly want to be with he is currently spearted/ divorced and when we would hang out years ago every one could feel the...
    ABeautifulMess1994 ABeautifulMess1994 18-21, F Feb 16

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    A few days ago I had to call an ambulance

    for my 49 year old Mother. I took an EMT basic course last year and knowing the signs, my judgment said it was a heart attack. She had shortness of breath, nausea, crushing chest pain that radiated into her left arm, and an elevated BP systolic was 180 and I have never seen her...
    GreenEyedFox GreenEyedFox 22-25, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I recently misbehaved last night,

    I'm talking wrong place wrong time but I wasn't innocent? My friend was house sitting for his PREACHER yes, preacher. And 3 other friends came over to drink. I didn't think it would of gotten so out of hand 10 other people show up so the neighbors come and warn us they are about...
    huntern15 huntern15 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    It'S Not Easy To Move On

    When i was younger 17/18 i had a boyfriend that i gave up everything for, my job, friends and family i moved away to be with him, and it was a huge mistake. He became abusive very quickly and every time i forgave him. i soon realized what i was putting myself through as long as i...
    Maz100 Maz100 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 11 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    My life is basically REPEAT⏪REWIND.

    I'm not moving forward, and I'm craving change in my life. High school kept me moving towards graduation, and then college. But once I got to college, I realized I didn't even know what I was going for..I had no goal to move toward, so I dropped out. Same goes for my last...
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    So there is this guy at my church

    that I have liked for 4 years now, and 6 months ago we started texting (are parents didn't know) and we told each other how we felt and that we liked each other, then we got caught and both got in trouble. Another one of my guy friends is good friends this the guy I like, and...
    grace2you grace2you 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Is tv or ep really bad

    for you if you have a concussion and the doctor told you to stay in bed for a week?
    caddriss caddriss 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 17

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