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    So there's this guy ,

    I met him online and he lived in the same area as me & we talked for a little trying to get to know each other , we went out on a date and everything ; trying to basically get to know each other more . Then he felt that he wasn't really ready for a relationship and we kind of...
    Weeedisahellofadrug Weeedisahellofadrug 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 24 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    There is this guy that I have been with off

    and on for about three years now. I have so many feelings built up, both good and bad that I want him to know because I can't hold it in anymore... how do I even begin to talk about them to him? I hate upsetting and hurting him in any way. I have been trying to tell him but...
    imjusttrying imjusttrying 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    The people in my school are terrible people.

    They act like their your friend over a text message and when you get to school they want nothing to do with you. They play with your emotions. They are bad examples. I have truly never met anyone like these people. I moved to the school two years ago. They don't let you be you...
    thatsme55 thatsme55 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 24

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 24

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    It'S Not Easy To Move On

    When i was younger 17/18 i had a boyfriend that i gave up everything for, my job, friends and family i moved away to be with him, and it was a huge mistake. He became abusive very quickly and every time i forgave him. i soon realized what i was putting myself through as long as i...
    Maz100 Maz100 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Does anyone know anything about headaches?

    I'm mildly curious about what's causing mine right now. It's a sharp pain in my right temple area.
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 11 Responses May 26

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17

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    hi, I'm new and I came here looking

    for some advice on relationships. please message me if you're willing to help (:
    lisastarrfish lisastarrfish 13-15, F a week ago

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 28 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    I Really Need Advice About This Guy...

    I've written about him before, but not gotten much response.  What I want to know is, should I be blunt and just say that I have a personal question to ask him?  I need to know if our relationship 9 years ago meant anything to him because sometimes he acts like it does...
    Licorice Licorice 31-35, F 40 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    So...I need advice. My boyfriend's brother is

    rooming with us and lately he has been having his friends over a lot...well, one of the friends is actually homeless and is 16 years old. He has spent the last two nights and we finally decided to confront my boyfriend's brother and he told us then. So I believe the plan right...
    PerspectiveDetective PerspectiveDetective 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    My Marriage

    I need advice on my marriage. My husband and I have been through some really rough times, and now even though we are a lot stronger I can't let go of the hurt we've caused each other. At times it felt like a game, who could hurt each other the most, it was a cycle that none of us...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 77 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    Soooo yesterday I snuck out

    and hung out with this guy We talked and hugged as messed around with each other and he kept trying to kiss me so eventually I just gave in and he made out with me Was this a mistake?
    JalenFrankie616 JalenFrankie616 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 12

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    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 29 Responses Apr 28

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    So I haven't talked to my ex boyfriend in a

    while I miss him a lot I want to text him just to ask how he is doing but I don't want to totally regret it in the morning because he's not an easy person to talk to and I guess neither am I but I just want to know how he is doing and I don't know if I should just shut off all...
    dvinemarie dvinemarie 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 12

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    (So,I don't go into detail

    or anything, and probably never will. It's not something I like to talk about. But it is kind of a touchy subject, so if that bothers you, you may block me (assuming you're in my circle) . I don't bring it up much. But I could really use some advice ...) I realize things would...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 15 Responses Aug 15

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    Why does a guy call you over everyday

    for moths straight,make you meet his whole family,and tell you he loves you but is scared to fall in love again only to all of a sudden say he needs time to think and push you away and then not talk to you? It's killing me does he still care? Does he still love me? What does it...
    mouse2816 mouse2816 31-35, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    So I'm friends with this girl.

    But the girl is the complete opposite of me and seems to think that I'm just the guy version of her. We have very little in common and she just plain old gets on my nerves. I would distance myself from her in a heartbeat if I wasn't her only friend. And she's a good friend...
    CrunchyNoodle CrunchyNoodle 16-17, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    My love is 23 years older

    than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't quite ready to explore my spirituality. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over...
    dianacc11 dianacc11 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am a Christian but lately I've been

    questioning it a lot. I feel like I just am not connecting with it anymore. I'm just now living on my own and exploring life in my 20's. I want to take awhile and experiment with different religions, and other lifestyles but I'm afraid that if I leave my religion for a little...
    virginiamarie94 virginiamarie94 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 12

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    Input Quickly Please

    I have received some disturbing text messages from an EP member. This person has also written a blog in the past few minutes saying "good bye" Do you fine EPers think I should start calling high schools in this persons home town and try to reach a GC to intervene...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 13 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    Help Quick!! - Lies - What Should I Do?!!

    Well I am a teenager at Sixth Form in England. Like any student I didn't want to wake up and go to school, so... I lied. I created a fake email from my teachers saying that I didnt have to come in this morning and i could stay at home, my parents believed me and i did this. Later...
    Xunae Xunae 16-17 13 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    ok so im 16 my girlfriend is 14 right.

    I got drunk the other night of some dirty sprite with a few friends and I was on the phone with Mary she could tell I was drunk and she was "disappointed in me" this is the second time ever I have ever drank.. and her mom found out ️like 4 hours ago she took her phone (her...
    rich16ok rich16ok 18-21, M 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    When a guy calls you everyday

    and have you come spend time with him. When you fall asleep in one another's arms pretty much every night. Then he kisses you slowly runs his fingers through your hair and kisses your forehead are these all signs he's in to YA? Me and him have spoke about a relationship but he...
    mouse2816 mouse2816 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 14

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    Okay so, like a lot of people I've had some

    really terrible break ups, and been hurt and lied to a lot. I find it hard to believe anyone really likes me or wants me around. Recently I met a guy, and we've hung out for the last two weekends and he's introduced me to pretty much all of his best friends. He lives pretty far...
    lolicat lolicat 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 10

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    I met a guy on EP. And he is amazing,

    I think about him all the time. But I have a problem letting him get any closer to me than on here, I wont give him my number or snap chat, I have a problem trusting guys in person, so it's worse when it's a long distance type of thing. I'm not sure what to do, I want more than...
    Jessbenoit Jessbenoit 18-21, F 15 Responses Nov 4

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    I Need Advice

    so i came to this web site just to comment some things i read that were really good stories.but i still have a story to tell.the problem is im scared to say it.i dont know other people do it.i..i just cant.pls tell me what to do!!!
    victor8038 victor8038 26-30, M 5 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    So 3 months ago I met this guys through my

    friends. We started texting, hung out a couple of times, we told each other that we had feelings for each other, which was true at that time. Basically we we're almost in a realtionship but he was too scared to ask me, he told me that as well. When I got to know him a little bit...
    shaunyx shaunyx 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 11

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    I'm employed at Walmart.

    They've scheduled me for 40hrs a week. I also work at Macy's. I'm hired there and my shifts start thanksgiving day. I've worked a shift at Macy's and LOVED it. I work in women's shoe department and have really connected w customers been able to talk with them with life stuff...
    Mct7988 Mct7988 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My wallpaper is a picture of my childhood friend

    that passed away. We were friends but didn't speak very often. Because we were from different social groups people never saw us as friends. A part of me feels guilty that I didn't try to hang out with him more and makes me want to remove it as my picture. Another part of me...
    Laceylee94 Laceylee94 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Normally I vent, I express myself,

    or really seek out people who understand where I'm coming from with my experiences. This post is about advice about dysfunctional families, and it's very heavy just as a heads up. So what I wanted to ask is what do you think is the reasonable way to approach the situation? Just...
    KelseyLeigh123 KelseyLeigh123 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I need some more fashion advice please ASAP!

    same rules from last time girls can be any age to message me guys please be under 25 thanks (: ASAP!! (;
    youngadult14 youngadult14 13-15, F Aug 30

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    Ok, I need advice people?

    Alright we'll here it is: I am starting to like like this girl that bullied me in the past, is this bad?
    Joshua1769 Joshua1769 13-15, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have a friend who is in a really bad

    relationship with her boyfriend, they have a baby girl that's is going to turn 1 pretty soon and my friend has been super stressed ever since and the stress has been getting worse and her boyfriend doesn't care at all that she is literally getting sick because of it
    SnowBunny1219 SnowBunny1219 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 11

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    So im thinking of giving this to my crush

    as a birthday present like making a nice card. And I wrote this poem for her. I want it to be friendly I don't want her to suspect yet, but hopefully to remember it. I'm wondering if it wud be good and doesn't sound a little too friendly. Any advice is super groovy thanks...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 2

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    CutepieTay CutepieTay 18-21, M a week ago

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    I am sick of everything!

    I don't want to do anything, or even try. Just want to disappear and be done. Sad huh!
    MRP223 MRP223 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 13

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    Interracial Love

    The other night I asked my dad if I could go to the movies with a guy friend, him being my boyfriend of two weeks, I wanted my dad to meet him. I told my father he was black and he hasn't spoke to me since. I didn't get to go to the movies either. I don't know if I should just...
    hollyolly02 hollyolly02 16-17, F 24 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    I'm feeling artsy today.

    What do you think?
    halfpace halfpace 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 13

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9

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    Can someone help me? It's not exactly urgent

    but it's kinda driving me crazy. So there's this girl who's really skinny. She short, skinny and a sweet girl but a little annoying. She has a couple best friend At gym class she just sitting in a corner and these girls come up to her like "you wanna fight you wanna fight...
    HiandGoodbye HiandGoodbye 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 10

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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 16-17, M 4 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    I've had one very long relationship my whole

    life. I've recently met someone and I have no idea how to pick up on signs that he does or doesn't like me? We've not met up since we met but that was a week tomorrow so I didn't think anything of it? We text a lot. Sometimes he seems mega keen and bombards me with texts and...
    Kerry1304 Kerry1304 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    i really need advice right now.

    my life is tumbled and i dont know what to do.
    unlovednbroken unlovednbroken 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 7

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    There is a boy I like in my class.

    It's summer now so school is over and the classes will split when school starts again. We have been flirting a bit for about a half year but both has been to shy to acctually make the first move. Now that we didn't get in the same class I won't be able to be around him...
    Zelo01 Zelo01 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 14

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    Anyone wanna help me with some relationship

    related stuff? Just message me
    ToastedFlavour ToastedFlavour 13-15, M 6 days ago

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    Is this a good picture

    or no ??? Does it show off my nose ring enough ??
    nailwire nailwire 16-17, F 24 Responses Sep 24

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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