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    (So,I don't go into detail

    or anything, and probably never will. It's not something I like to talk about. But it is kind of a touchy subject, so if that bothers you, you may block me (assuming you're in my circle) . I don't bring it up much. But I could really use some advice ...) I realize things would...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 12 Responses May 26, 2014

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    So my bf who I've been going out with

    for 8 months doesn't wanna tell his friends or family about me... He says he doesn't want drama and questions.. What does this mean? I'm so confused and I can't figure out what to do. I live 2 hours away from him. It's hard to talk to him because he's always busy or I'm to...
    Kru24 Kru24 18-21 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Okay, here's the deal.

    My New Year's Resolution was to learn to accept myself for who I am, which I thought was a good idea. The only problem is, I see myself as a fat, ugly, socially awkward idiot, which really isn't someone I want to accept myself as. A while back, I realized that I'm not the...
    Caleb54 Caleb54 13-15, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I hate when people give me cliche advice like

    "never give up", well no **** lol
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 6

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    An amazing array of cold treatments has existed

    since antiquity. Roman author Pliny the Elder prescribed jaguar urine and hare feces for fighting coughs. Syrian physician Ibn al-Quff suggested the application of a hot iron to the head until the skull is visible. The Swiss physician Samuel Tissot treated severe colds by...
    BloviatingBuffoon BloviatingBuffoon 70+, F 10 Responses Dec 19, 2014

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    Do you think it's 'sad'

    that I give up my spare time to volunteer at a holiday centre for people with physical and mental disabilities. Some of my friends say it means I have no life because I have nothing better to do than volunteer there. But to be honest, I think that it's what life is all about...
    jessie123h jessie123h 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 1

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    Hello! I am hoping some men AND women with

    experience, would be able to give me their view on this situation! My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2.5 years, we live in a house that we shopped for together, (I am on no legal paperwork) I help raise his 12 year old daughter, because her mother was a drug addict...
    InstaMom InstaMom 22-25 3 Responses Feb 21

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    so I need your advice.

    My coworkers like to make rude comments about me but try to make it out as a joke even though I know its not. They say things like i'm lame, I have no friends, and i'm pretty sure they've made jokes about the way I look. I hang out with a couple of them because they invite me to...
    Imstillhere122 Imstillhere122 18-21, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    So, somehow, this happened.

    .. I work at a convalescent home, and they needed someone to accompany the elder folk on their hospital visits. I volunteered, and as you'd have it, the van driver who transported us to the hospitals is sooo handsome. Not only that but he has the most likeable friendly...
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 17 Responses Jan 22

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    here are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    anneluna anneluna 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    It'S Not Easy To Move On

    When i was younger 17/18 i had a boyfriend that i gave up everything for, my job, friends and family i moved away to be with him, and it was a huge mistake. He became abusive very quickly and every time i forgave him. i soon realized what i was putting myself through as long as i...
    Maz100 Maz100 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    There is a boy I like in my class.

    It's summer now so school is over and the classes will split when school starts again. We have been flirting a bit for about a half year but both has been to shy to acctually make the first move. Now that we didn't get in the same class I won't be able to be around him...
    Zelo01 Zelo01 13-15, F 7 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    My wife and I have never truly connected

    sexually. It has been up and down for the 3 years we have been together. Recently her sister has been coming on to me. She has been texting me a lot even sending pics. I am very interested. She is a very attractive and my wife is to be nice above average. What should I do? Any...
    Ben10hollis Ben10hollis 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 23

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    My ex friends boyfriend died a few days ago

    and i hear shes not doing good. I want to be there for her but she always betrays me and lies to me. I got in a fight with her the last time i saw her. I slapped her and she ran away crying i had no regret she deserved it and i still don't regret it but i want to be there for...
    BloodyVictim BloodyVictim 13-15, F 31 Responses Feb 11

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 27 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    Hey! So I recently joined a bball team

    and made tryouts as a red-shirt. This means that I am able to practice/ do everything with the team, but not play... Therefore I don't use up a year of eligibility while getting better for the next year. The season went by pretty fast, but i've always had the impression that my...
    CobaltDusk CobaltDusk 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    I am a second year college student,

    and have this boy in my math class who talks too much. In general, I am an outgoing person, but dead serious when it comes to class. The teacher started monitoring the both of us, and I am pissed at this. This guy is like-able, but he is a little too much for me. This guy is 17...
    FloristGirl FloristGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Quick ! I need advice on escorting.

    Anyone with experience. Until the business I work for is up and running I put my own add up and I have some replies. I don't exactly know what I'm doing though so a little help would be cool.
    missAphrodite missAphrodite 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    I Need Advice

    so i came to this web site just to comment some things i read that were really good stories.but i still have a story to tell.the problem is im scared to say it.i dont know other people do it.i..i just cant.pls tell me what to do!!!
    victor8038 victor8038 26-30, M 5 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 11 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    My ex texted me a week ago,

    asking why I hate him. That text...it's so immature. Why would you ask that? Ridiculous. So I ignored it. Two days go he texted asking for his textbook. He gave it to me in the beginning of the year, and when we broke up he said I could keep it till the end of the year. Well he...
    BroguesAndJeans BroguesAndJeans 16-17, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    Okay, so I've been dating this guy

    for quite some time now. My main problem is this. I feel like he kind of lack the initiative to do things first in our relationship. He won't tell me he loves me unless I tell him first. I asked him about it and he just says that he's not used to it. How am I suppose to go from...
    Liebeeiram Liebeeiram 22-25, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am a Christian but lately I've been

    questioning it a lot. I feel like I just am not connecting with it anymore. I'm just now living on my own and exploring life in my 20's. I want to take awhile and experiment with different religions, and other lifestyles but I'm afraid that if I leave my religion for a little...
    virginiamarie94 virginiamarie94 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 27 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    i've been great friends with this girl

    and i think in simple terms i've liked her on and off for a year. when i dont like her, i force myself not to talk/think about her bc i dont want to feel this way, and i focus my attention on guys..i also don't like any other girls. (neither of us are out as lesbian/bi..) i...
    whydoineeddone whydoineeddone 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm in a relationship with a man I love

    so much but lately things between us are falling apart and I am moving out of state in 10 days and I have no idea how to tell him and I know it's going to hurt him and me so much. I'm so scared.... I don't know what to do
    Kileighco Kileighco 18-21 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Ok I'm an ordinary guy in my fourties trying

    to restart my life. I broke up with the woman I've been with for fifteen year's about 4 month's ago. Everyone in my life tell's me I am a good looking man and I believe them. I just can't get over how dam shy I am. I see it as a flaw and want to use it as my strength. I am sick...
    Encontrados Encontrados 36-40, M 2 Responses May 22, 2014

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    I dated this girl three years ago

    and I really loved her. After a while she decided to break up with me. We were always close after that though. Now I have a new girlfriend who I haven't been dating for a while. Now I find out that my old girlfriend wants be back. I want to date her but I don't want to hurt my...
    needadvice25 needadvice25 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 22

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    He was here after school in my house

    and I thought we were going to fix everything and work it out like we used to but instead he's making me make the BIGGEST DECISION OF MY LIFE! He wants me to choose between him or CHRIS! I already did that in the past and Chris and I finally managed to be friends again and now...
    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 20

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    So im thinking of giving this to my crush

    as a birthday present like making a nice card. And I wrote this poem for her. I want it to be friendly I don't want her to suspect yet, but hopefully to remember it. I'm wondering if it wud be good and doesn't sound a little too friendly. Any advice is super groovy thanks...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 2, 2014

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    Hey just wondering of anyone is willing to give

    me advise. I haven't seen my friend since November and I'm not sure if he's my friend anymore. Since I've last seen him, he has not texted, called, or made any effort to keep in contact with me. I always have to be the one that calls. I don't like to play games or anything like...
    Canadabro Canadabro 26-30, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am sick of everything!

    I don't want to do anything, or even try. Just want to disappear and be done. Sad huh!
    MRP223 MRP223 22-25, F 10 Responses Jan 13, 2014

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    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 28 Responses Apr 28, 2014

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    So last year I met this guy

    while traveling for business in Europe (i live in US) and we hung out and had a killer time for 2 days... We connected on Facebook but really didn't stay in contact with each other except for the occasional like of a picture. In January we ran into each other again at a...
    irishgirl78 irishgirl78 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 24 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    I need some more fashion advice please ASAP!

    same rules from last time girls can be any age to message me guys please be under 25 thanks (: ASAP!! (;
    youngadult14 youngadult14 13-15, F Aug 30, 2014

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    Prom! Ugh. Here's the sitch: I have a pretty

    close knit group of friends. However, my best friend is mostly in another clique. So we decided to combine the two groups into one giant party bus to prom. Easy, right? Of course not. My group of friends decided last minute that they did not want to be with the other people. So...
    AGirl100 AGirl100 16-17 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm going to a Breaking Benjamin concert in

    April. This is going to be my second concert I've ever been to. My question is what's the best thing to wear? Do I wear a shirt and jeans or what's the best thing?
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 11 Responses 5 days ago

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    Input Quickly Please

    I have received some disturbing text messages from an EP member. This person has also written a blog in the past few minutes saying "good bye" Do you fine EPers think I should start calling high schools in this persons home town and try to reach a GC to intervene...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 15 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    I live in a hostel and there is this really

    nice guy who lives here too. Hes so sweet! I talked to hiim tonight for the first time and i felt like we got along really good. He leaves in 2 weeks tho :( Id love to get to know him more but dont really know how to do that? Should i keep trying to talk to him everyday or would...
    lifeisnottoobad lifeisnottoobad 18-21, F 6 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    A few days ago I had to call an ambulance

    for my 49 year old Mother. I took an EMT basic course last year and knowing the signs, my judgment said it was a heart attack. She had shortness of breath, nausea, crushing chest pain that radiated into her left arm, and an elevated BP systolic was 180 and I have never seen her...
    GreenEyedFox GreenEyedFox 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 22

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    Job advice.. My sister has strep throat

    and the flu and pink eye, and it's highly contagious. Im hoping I won't get sick but I probably will. So.. My first day at this new job is on Tuesday, if I get sick, and I call in on my first day... How bad does that look? I really don't want to have to do that. But I also don't...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago