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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 23 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 32 Responses Apr 13

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    I am sick of everything!

    I don't want to do anything, or even try. Just want to disappear and be done. Sad huh!
    MRP223 MRP223 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 13

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    I'm 15, I like this senior.

    (I've posted about this before) Today I got this book, its about a 15 yo girl who falls for a 21 yo old guy she works with. He helps her with school (like my crush does for me) He is going to school for sociology (like my crush wants to) The guys I like, is sweet, adorable, and...
    PierceTheGreen PierceTheGreen 13-15, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I really really loved this one guy

    but we broke up some months ago. We started dating and then broke up then dated again and broke up again. I cant stop thinking of him hes on my mind 24/7. Should I talk to him or just move on?
    ToLiveAndToDie ToLiveAndToDie 13-15, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    If anyone needs advice (and well I guess that's

    everyone here...) just message me and I'll be glad to help you out 😄
    Austinable97 Austinable97 16-17, M 6 days ago

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    Anyone know anything about Parents

    as Teachers??? Work related information such as how you're scheduled, paid, etc would be greatly appreciated!
    SupernovaxGirl SupernovaxGirl 26-30 1 day ago

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    Hey everyone! so I've been dating this guy,

    and we get along super well. Every date we've been on has been perfect and never boring, but recently, he started getting distant. I brought it up and he said "I really really like you but I feel unsure about an 'us' and I have no idea why. I'm not sure if it's the idea of me...
    sarahbearrr51 sarahbearrr51 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    where do i start??? Relationships can get

    so confusing to me at times,,,,,I have a girl friend we known each other over a year now we had our problems i will say that we broke up at one point and got back together. She is really sweet honest kind and most of all Friendly this is where my problems start she loves to chat...
    AlexT45 AlexT45 51-55, M 4 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    It'S Not Easy To Move On

    When i was younger 17/18 i had a boyfriend that i gave up everything for, my job, friends and family i moved away to be with him, and it was a huge mistake. He became abusive very quickly and every time i forgave him. i soon realized what i was putting myself through as long as i...
    Maz100 Maz100 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Okay so I Have To Come Up With 1000 Dollars by

    Monday and No bank will give me a loan because I have no credit history I need some advise or ideas on how I can come up with 1000 in two days most things I've tried turn me down because of my lack of credit history please help me figure out a way too come up with the money all...
    cocopuff901 cocopuff901 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9

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    so i got a girlfriend.

    Could i get some ideas for things to do on a date that she would like that are also not super costly like the movies XD
    Unstablecrutch Unstablecrutch 16-17, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Should I Text Him?

    I met this absolutely amazing guy who just moved in my area. We hung out for 2 days and we clicked what it seemed like too well. We understand each other and poke fun at each other and he always has me laughing. He is a great guy and I really like him. Me and him just can get...
    NotPerfectJustMe NotPerfectJustMe 13-15, F 8 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    I am 22 years old and I have no idea what to do

    with my life. I have had so many jobs and never lasted. At each of them, I eventually stopped showing up. I recently just moved back in with my parents. I have a fiance, and a 3 year old son. My fiance lives with his parents so I dont see him much because he works crazy hours...
    1992ann 1992ann 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    The people in my school are terrible people.

    They act like their your friend over a text message and when you get to school they want nothing to do with you. They play with your emotions. They are bad examples. I have truly never met anyone like these people. I moved to the school two years ago. They don't let you be you...
    thatsme55 thatsme55 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    undrayaaa undrayaaa 18-21, F 11 Responses May 26

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    Beauty And The Beast?

    I really need some help.The thing is, I'm totally falling for a man who I don't consider very attractive. I love being around him, and he feels like a fairy tale come true, but I would be so embarrassed introducing him to my friends and family because he is shorter than me (I'm...
    transienthope transienthope 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 5, 2012

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 28 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    DessyLove DessyLove 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    Lately , I have been feeling really down.

    I feel like I am only good when someone needs something. It seems like most of my family and friends will only bother with me when they need something from me and then I never hear from them. this summer ,I decided to reach out once to my circle. Make a plan to have people to...
    doubletees doubletees 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Help Quick!! - Lies - What Should I Do?!!

    Well I am a teenager at Sixth Form in England. Like any student I didn't want to wake up and go to school, so... I lied. I created a fake email from my teachers saying that I didnt have to come in this morning and i could stay at home, my parents believed me and i did this. Later...
    Xunae Xunae 16-17 12 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 24

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    I would be glad to help anyone

    who needs advice with something :))))
    dassays dassays 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    There is a boy I like in my class.

    It's summer now so school is over and the classes will split when school starts again. We have been flirting a bit for about a half year but both has been to shy to acctually make the first move. Now that we didn't get in the same class I won't be able to be around him...
    Zelo01 Zelo01 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 14

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    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 29 Responses Apr 28

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    I'm going horribly at school.

    Anyone got advice about how to tell my friends that I'm about to either drop out or get kicked out?
    InMiseryWeSeekBacon InMiseryWeSeekBacon 16-17, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Over a year now l have been separated from my

    ex of 2hlf yrs together.we also have a 1year old son together thru the r/ship he propose to me and I said yes I do.i don't see us ever getting back together.i still have the ingagement ring I feel as thou I can't let it go yet.havent had sex with any other men feels like it's...
    coco828 coco828 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So, a boy in my class is disabled.

    I don't know what he has. He's annoying, can be rude, and he's kind of smart. He's not my type. I heard from a friend that he likes me. I don't understand why he likes me?! Many more girls in the class are pretty too. Why just me?! What do I do? He was about to ask the class...
    adrianacecilia14 adrianacecilia14 13-15, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    (So,I don't go into detail

    or anything, and probably never will. It's not something I like to talk about. But it is kind of a touchy subject, so if that bothers you, you may block me (assuming you're in my circle) . I don't bring it up much. But I could really use some advice ...) I realize things would...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 8 Responses a week ago

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    Last night my dad told me not to grow up to fast

    and I'm his baby girl, idk what to do cuz I've pretty much always been like this I'm just more open now, idk how to respond now like what do I do?
    FamousLastWordsMCR FamousLastWordsMCR 13-15, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm going to an orientation thing tomorrow at a

    school. This guy I really like may go... We have a really complicated history and everyone says he likes me. But if I see him tomorrow I'm gonna just wanna run up and hug him and cry... What should I do?!
    xxdeadxx xxdeadxx 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Ok I'm an ordinary guy in my fourties trying

    to restart my life. I broke up with the woman I've been with for fifteen year's about 4 month's ago. Everyone in my life tell's me I am a good looking man and I believe them. I just can't get over how dam shy I am. I see it as a flaw and want to use it as my strength. I am sick...
    fifteenyearslost fifteenyearslost 36-40, M 2 Responses May 22

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    My Marriage

    I need advice on my marriage. My husband and I have been through some really rough times, and now even though we are a lot stronger I can't let go of the hurt we've caused each other. At times it felt like a game, who could hurt each other the most, it was a cycle that none of us...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 77 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    Ok so I am 31 and have been seeing these 2 guys

    ones 37 the other is 45 they kinda both want me as a sex buddy I mean I am ok with it but I have kinda feel in love with both of then I didn't know that was possible but it happen I have so much in common with them both and heck we enjoy the time we spend together but I am...
    mouse2816 mouse2816 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    My best friend forbids me to date his cousin.

    ..who wouldn't tell me why I can't date him! I need advice
    KatieP767 KatieP767 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I went to a house party with my boyfriend,

    it was his friends cousins house so I didn't know a lot of people there. Everything started out fine and everyone was having a good time. I've met his friends a few times and always got on with them. Me and my boyfriend went travelling a few months after we met so even though I...
    Ver24 Ver24 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    So my sister is getting married next year

    and she and her partner made be usher. Thing is she is saying that at the table it will be the bride, groom, brides parents, grooms parents, best man and brides maids. I feel kinda left out in this. Where does the usher go?
    Dg135 Dg135 22-25, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    Okay so I apologised to someone I bullied at

    school via fb she has forgiven me completely but I did send the message a while ago. I wanted to send this message basically saying that I appreciate her and what I think of her..... Is this a good idea?
    Thatchickxoxo Thatchickxoxo 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am just in such a funk in my life.

    I am looking for someone to share advice with maybe help one another out and just have someone to enjoy chatting with online. Nothing serious, no meeting just someone to have fun and talk with.
    snowbabe3 snowbabe3 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    Interracial Love

    The other night I asked my dad if I could go to the movies with a guy friend, him being my boyfriend of two weeks, I wanted my dad to meet him. I told my father he was black and he hasn't spoke to me since. I didn't get to go to the movies either. I don't know if I should just...
    hollyolly02 hollyolly02 16-17, F 24 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 16-17, M 5 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    When it come to advice I help people

    but when it comes to giving myself advice it never helps !
    Strange143 Strange143 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Iam feeling behind I have no job wich Iam still

    looking don't know how to drive for **** still trying to study for my permit Iam a complete looser Iam **** Iam nothing something is not letting me like wtf and everybody is running a hundred miles per hour while here ******* crawling not even a mile
    bohemianlife925 bohemianlife925 16-17, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    How can I tell if I'm not making a story up in

    my head or if he's really not interested? Am I being dramatic?! It's been 3 days since we spoke at all. A week since we saw each other. I can't help but think he isn't interested, because he hasn't made effort to see me again. I can't help but feel let down. But then again, is...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I Really Need Advice About This Guy...

    I've written about him before, but not gotten much response.  What I want to know is, should I be blunt and just say that I have a personal question to ask him?  I need to know if our relationship 9 years ago meant anything to him because sometimes he acts like it does...
    Licorice Licorice 31-35, F 41 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    I know this guy from a show I do every year.

    We're flirty friends and he's really nice and funny when we're at rehearsals but when he texts me it's always really dirty and he keeps asking for naked pics which I don't want to give him coz I don't feel I'm ready for that, I mean I've never even been kissed for gods sake! I...
    NerdNotGeek NerdNotGeek 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    People talk about me all the time.

    And it never really bothered me. But I got this app called ask.fm where people anonomously ask you questions and instead of a question someone sent me this:And seeing that actually made me cry which is stupid. Its really mean but partly true and it just sucks that someone thinks...
    QuinnMac12 QuinnMac12 13-15, F 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    She Said/she Said.... A 1-way Conversation??

    So, here's my situation. I avoid social situations I don't plan/organize myself for a specific purpose.   This is because I have REAL difficulty with small-talk, and absolutely dread being boring. Enter "Patsy." I met Patsy sometime in my early to mid-30's.  We had kids about...
    Colormevibrant Colormevibrant 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2012

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    So im thinking of giving this to my crush

    as a birthday present like making a nice card. And I wrote this poem for her. I want it to be friendly I don't want her to suspect yet, but hopefully to remember it. I'm wondering if it wud be good and doesn't sound a little too friendly. Any advice is super groovy thanks...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 2

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    My husband is out of town working with his dad

    and within three weeks we will b moving too Amarillo tx. But being without him with our kids I miss him like crazy. I feel like he's cheating but he's not hes just working for us to move. N he tells me everywhere he goes
    ashnsonny09 ashnsonny09 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Help Me Please

    I really wish sometimes that I had better friends. Not that my friends aren't wonderful it's just I guess that they're too busy with what's going on in their own lives to care about what's going on in mine. I really feel like I'm the person that's there for everyone, and in the...
    CarterSamson CarterSamson 13-15 7 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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