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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    One friend leaved his fb opened on my phone

    and I saw a conversation where he is talking in a sexy way to. women, but his gf Is my friend, not too close,and that relationship had give me problems before, she have a really conservative family and I helped her but her parents didn't like it, also h is my bf best friend...
    gmah26 gmah26 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I Need Advice

    so i came to this web site just to comment some things i read that were really good stories.but i still have a story to tell.the problem is im scared to say it.i dont know other people do it.i..i just cant.pls tell me what to do!!!
    victor8038 victor8038 26-30, M 5 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    Do you think it's 'sad'

    that I give up my spare time to volunteer at a holiday centre for people with physical and mental disabilities. Some of my friends say it means I have no life because I have nothing better to do than volunteer there. But to be honest, I think that it's what life is all about...
    jessie123h jessie123h 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 1

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    So im thinking of giving this to my crush

    as a birthday present like making a nice card. And I wrote this poem for her. I want it to be friendly I don't want her to suspect yet, but hopefully to remember it. I'm wondering if it wud be good and doesn't sound a little too friendly. Any advice is super groovy thanks...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 2, 2014

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    Somebody I knew has just died; we weren't best

    friends, but we were alright.... He died last weekend and I found out today: I was shocked, very shocked as he was only 13, but, I did not really feel sad! What is wrong with me? Why don't I feel, like everyone else? I WANT to feel sad about this and I tried, but the tears...
    22SAFFRON1b 22SAFFRON1b 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    It'S Not Easy To Move On

    When i was younger 17/18 i had a boyfriend that i gave up everything for, my job, friends and family i moved away to be with him, and it was a huge mistake. He became abusive very quickly and every time i forgave him. i soon realized what i was putting myself through as long as i...
    Maz100 Maz100 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    I am a Christian but lately I've been

    questioning it a lot. I feel like I just am not connecting with it anymore. I'm just now living on my own and exploring life in my 20's. I want to take awhile and experiment with different religions, and other lifestyles but I'm afraid that if I leave my religion for a little...
    virginiamarie94 virginiamarie94 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    I told my crush I like him,

    IN ******* PERSON. I tapped him on the shoulder "fadol can I tell you something?" "Yeah sure" we moved to the Side and I told him after like 10 secs of silence. "I kinda like you " he smiled. "Are you the one whose been kiking me?" "No that was one of my best friends", he was...
    AllTimeLowFH AllTimeLowFH 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 7

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    I hate when people give me cliche advice like

    "never give up", well no **** lol
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    LovatoLover LovatoLover 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    Can I attract a woman by dressing nice,

    complimenting her, and listening? Or does teasing and poking fun at her something I need to learn?
    KingDavid1996 KingDavid1996 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 8

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    shortfry3 shortfry3 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    I need advice and opinions on a situation.

    I don't know what to do. I need open minded , nonjudgmental and open people. It's a complex and confusing situation. At least for me it is. I've been dealing with it for a few months and I really can't go on with out guidance anymore.
    hallow1331 hallow1331 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    My friend and I are fighting

    and I need some advice. The 11th of April was her birthday and she came over in the morning to help out with a yard sale. Her mom came with her and we started talking about people buying stuff at yard sales for cheap and re-selling it for profit. Her mom started talking about...
    emeraldtriangle420 emeraldtriangle420 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 26 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    This is really dumb and I doubt anyone cares

    but I need opinions. Which one of these dances is better? To keep your spot on the internationals team at dance this year, you have to show you can do all styles. And this week they wanted us to do a jazz duet. And Im with my friend Alexandra and we already had a decent jazz...
    ZacS9 ZacS9 16-17, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've been really constipated

    for the past week and nothing has helped ease my stomach . Today I started getting cramps like I needed to go so I tried but couldn't. My boyfriend even rubbed my stomach for an hour to try and help ease it but it didn't do much. Anyway about half an hour ago I tried to go again...
    dungareelil dungareelil 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    There is a boy I like in my class.

    It's summer now so school is over and the classes will split when school starts again. We have been flirting a bit for about a half year but both has been to shy to acctually make the first move. Now that we didn't get in the same class I won't be able to be around him...
    Zelo01 Zelo01 13-15, F 7 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    (So,I don't go into detail

    or anything, and probably never will. It's not something I like to talk about. But it is kind of a touchy subject, so if that bothers you, you may block me (assuming you're in my circle) . I don't bring it up much. But I could really use some advice ...) I realize things would...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    Input Quickly Please

    I have received some disturbing text messages from an EP member. This person has also written a blog in the past few minutes saying "good bye" Do you fine EPers think I should start calling high schools in this persons home town and try to reach a GC to intervene...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 16 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    So, somehow, this happened.

    .. I work at a convalescent home, and they needed someone to accompany the elder folk on their hospital visits. I volunteered, and as you'd have it, the van driver who transported us to the hospitals is sooo handsome. Not only that but he has the most likeable friendly...
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 16 Responses Jan 22

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    *Warning: Long story short.

    Is this being overprotective… or something else? I feel like I need to take the time, and write about my mother. Ever since I graduated from high school, she has been extremely rough on me. I do not recognize my mother at all anymore. I wish my life would rewind back to how...
    XOAfraaXO XOAfraaXO 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 24 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    virgin2ink virgin2ink 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    Okay so, I was with this guy

    for 8 and a half months. We broke up multiple times within that time but we always seemed to get back together. We said we loved each other but we always fought. I then found a new guy and we became close. I told the guy I was dating that I can't be in a relationship with him...
    ForeverLostPoet ForeverLostPoet 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    Don't be slutty. Be classy.

    CLASSY= Class with ***
    Wallflower369 Wallflower369 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    So, there's this guy

    that I'm attracted to at school. We have never talked before, but our lockers are on the same floor. Sometimes, I'll catch him staring at me and when I look in his direction, he looks away. This has been going on for a while now, since December (well that's when I started...
    luna223 luna223 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Emoji2 Emoji2 18-21 Apr 8

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 11 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 27 Responses Apr 28, 2014

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    I need some more fashion advice please ASAP!

    same rules from last time girls can be any age to message me guys please be under 25 thanks (: ASAP!! (;
    youngadult14 youngadult14 13-15, F Aug 30, 2014

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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 12 Responses May 26, 2014

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    So, I live in Iowa and have a job

    as a kindergarten teacher. My bf of two years wants us to move to IL where his family is. I would be five hours away from my family and have to give up a job where I really love the people. I just got a job offer in IL and don't know what to do. Please someone give me some...
    iamthebeezneez iamthebeezneez 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    i am absoloutely ravenous

    and i don't know why! it's about three in the morning and i'm so hungry , i am literally watching videos of people eating on youtube. I did this a lot when i had my eating disorder and i'm a bit worried that i'm leaning towards it. I excessivley sweat and have extreme anxiety...
    helllooooitsme helllooooitsme 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Ok I'm an ordinary guy in my fourties trying

    to restart my life. I broke up with the woman I've been with for fifteen year's about 4 month's ago. Everyone in my life tell's me I am a good looking man and I believe them. I just can't get over how dam shy I am. I see it as a flaw and want to use it as my strength. I am sick...
    Encontrados Encontrados 36-40, M 2 Responses May 22, 2014

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 27 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    I'm feeling artsy today.

    What do you think?
    halfpace halfpace 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    Concerned about a friend?

    He has said she is very jealous doesn't like other women doesn't like him talking to other women... checks on him all the time gives out even if a woman says hello to him she Argues about me with him. gives out even when his sister calls.. she has made him block me on facebook...
    ccking ccking 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    so the last few days I've been having really

    bad knee pain and my husband works out of town so he's been gone well today he is have lasic eye surgery and I'm going to the er because my knee is getting worse. I called him to ask what I should do because my regular doc can't get me in nor can my orthopedic surgeon and Idk if...
    Cbryant25100 Cbryant25100 18-21, F Apr 6

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    I have known this friend

    for at least 3 years and we always seemed to talk about anything really but recently we have started talking less and my view of him has changed due to him acting differently to the friend I made 3 years ago. I don't know what to do and I'm really confused about that whole...
    LeeKoe LeeKoe 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Quick ! I need advice on escorting.

    Anyone with experience. Until the business I work for is up and running I put my own add up and I have some replies. I don't exactly know what I'm doing though so a little help would be cool.
    missAphrodite missAphrodite 18-21, F 2 Responses