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    This is an Advice Column.

    If you guys have any questions just drop it here and i'll message you back the answer and advice. Thanks you guys! It doesn't have to be Too personal it can be whatever!
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 days ago

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    Ok I'm an ordinary guy in my fourties trying

    to restart my life. I broke up with the woman I've been with for fifteen year's about 4 month's ago. Everyone in my life tell's me I am a good looking man and I believe them. I just can't get over how dam shy I am. I see it as a flaw and want to use it as my strength. I am sick...
    Encontrados Encontrados 41-45, M 5 Responses May 22, 2014

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    I told my crush I like him,

    IN ******* PERSON. I tapped him on the shoulder "fadol can I tell you something?" "Yeah sure" we moved to the Side and I told him after like 10 secs of silence. "I kinda like you " he smiled. "Are you the one whose been kiking me?" "No that was one of my best friends", he was...
    kidLeftInTheDark kidLeftInTheDark 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 7

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    I don't usually ask these kinds of questions,

    but I need another's POV on this. My older sister's best friend is also good friends with me. I mean, they were friends since they were in middle school (I was 8). A while back, the friend slept with my sister's boyfriend (they were on break though... but she wasn't over him yet...
    Storiesnotforthefaintofheart Storiesnotforthefaintofheart 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Things I Would Tell My Younger Self The

    romance novels you read paint unrealistic expectations of relationships. Stop comparing yourself to other people, you are a swan in the making. Do not change yourself to satisfy the people in your life who do not appreciate you. It’s okay to say no. But don’t make...
    RedHwaiting RedHwaiting 18-21, F 1 Response May 30

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    Anyone good at giving advice?

    Please message me :)
    FromJennyWithLove FromJennyWithLove 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Don't be slutty. Be classy.

    CLASSY= Class with ***
    Jenny369 Jenny369 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    I have had mulitple nightmares in a row

    for the past couple days, but this is the worst one i have had.. What do i do? What does it mean? This was my dream.. My first dream starts out when i am showering in a locker room, So i was undressing when this tall, and masculine man comes from behind me. I whip around and...
    Benayna Benayna 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Do you think it's 'sad'

    that I give up my spare time to volunteer at a holiday centre for people with physical and mental disabilities. Some of my friends say it means I have no life because I have nothing better to do than volunteer there. But to be honest, I think that it's what life is all about...
    jessie123h jessie123h 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 1

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    I need to talk to someone

    that can be honest and tell me their opinion on a thing I did
    Kaitlyn0804 Kaitlyn0804 16-17, F 36 Responses May 16

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    I hate when people give me cliche advice like

    "never give up", well no **** lol
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    I Need Advice

    so i came to this web site just to comment some things i read that were really good stories.but i still have a story to tell.the problem is im scared to say it.i dont know other people do it.i..i just cant.pls tell me what to do!!!
    victor8038 victor8038 26-30, M 5 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    When the only thing you can do to help someone

    is giving them a hug, but the person is emotionally damaged, what can you do to help?
    steviehunt steviehunt 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 25

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    clearmymind clearmymind 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I feel very strange asking this

    but it's a last resort. I really want to figure a way to be ok with being single for a long time. Statistically, it's literally impossible for every one to find someone, so how does one cope with being the "outliers" who aren't so lucky? I love myself but I feel like that's not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 18 hrs ago

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 27 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    I know I want to be a better person,

    but it already feels like I'm in too deep..
    CassandraLynn96 CassandraLynn96 18-21, F 1 Response 39 mins ago

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    so wat happened was i got this crush on this

    girl and she didn't feel the same. she basically told me to leave her alone. i did and i was jus hoping she wouldn't tell anyone cause im not out yet. yea ik im so stupid. but she ended up telling the entire school that i was gay. and i got bullied everyday after. my parents...
    IKnowImAlone IKnowImAlone 13-15, F 6 Responses Mar 7

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    Ok me and my ex husband split

    for no good reason .. Mainly due to stress other then that we got on great .. Well 7 weeks after separation he still keeps coming back to the house for silly things like shoes etc .. I keep telling him to take all the stuff at once but he doesn't .. Then he comes to sort bills...
    wehaveissues wehaveissues 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    So I work at the Police Department

    and have been training to become a sergeant. I just found out today in order for my training hours to count I'll have to work under a supervisor other than my current one. So basically my options are to work under patrol which I used to do but I really don't want to do that...
    Foxyvan Foxyvan 41-45, F 19 Responses Jul 6

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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 25 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    my nephew, is expected to undergo hearing

    process. It was due to my nephew hitting his classmate back, who is a girl by the way, it was some girl in school trying to bully him to a point he was punched several times and saying negative things about him. He punched the girl and imagining the strength of a teen boy being...
    imkryptonian imkryptonian 26-30, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    alliecc11 alliecc11 26-30, F 5 hrs ago

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    So, somehow, this happened.

    .. I work at a convalescent home, and they needed someone to accompany the elder folk on their hospital visits. I volunteered, and as you'd have it, the van driver who transported us to the hospitals is sooo handsome. Not only that but he has the most likeable friendly...
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 16 Responses Jan 22

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    I've lost almost 15 kg of my weight during 1

    year and 3 mobths and still am overweighted, I'm 172 centimeters tall! Unfortunately even doing regular exercises and control my food is not enough any more and my weight has stopped decreasing! I need some hints, motivation or I don't know some people to work out with me...
    Jasmine87111 Jasmine87111 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    MisunderstoodGal30 MisunderstoodGal30 22-25, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 9 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    I took 3 pregnancy test yesterday

    and they all came back positive so I went to the doctor today and found out I am 10 weeks along! A little about myself. My name is Karly I just turned 16. I am from Michigan but currently live in Florida. I met my boyfriend when I was 13. everything was GREAT for about a year...
    allaboutkarly allaboutkarly 16-17, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I need advice on whether

    or not I should continue talking to a younger girl. Background: I work as a camp counselor at a swim club, and there is this gorgeous girl who works at the snack bar at the swim club. I see her basically everyday there and it was pretty obvious we had a great connection. Last...
    wspd1993 wspd1993 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 26

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    So im finally moving out with my Girl !

    ! First time living with someone besides Family!!! Kinda Skurrrd lol. But i feel like im ready!!! What do you guys think i should Be ready for, or need to Expect!!! ???? Thankssssss in advance!
    vaane vaane 18-21, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    One year ago I got raped multiple times by the

    same guy. Since last week i've been getting text messages from him threatening me. I told my mom, but she doesn't know what to do. He knows where I live and I feel like I should stay at my friends house for a while.
    Druidic Druidic 16-17, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    There is this guy I like.

    .. We get along great! He's cute, funny, polite and is really respectful.. There's one problem :c I'm 19 and he has just turned 17 >.< I feel so bad because he is so young... Is that to young?? Help!
    lifeisnottoobad lifeisnottoobad 18-21, F 7 Responses May 9

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    Comment if ur good at advice plz!

    !! I want advice about something!
    Kayla429 Kayla429 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am sick of everything!

    I don't want to do anything, or even try. Just want to disappear and be done. Sad huh!
    MRP223 MRP223 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 13, 2014

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    I have been living with one of my best friends.

    We didn't have an agreement even though I have asked her a few times. I was literally sleeping in her sons room -because he doesn't- and I talked to her about me renting the basement. She said she would get back to me about the whole situation. She kept putting it off and the...
    CassandraLynn96 CassandraLynn96 18-21, F 4 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    sometimes I can not comprehend

    why certain emotions come and go. it's something I have a lack of understanding with. I honestly find it very difficult to get to grips with one emotion in particular, Anger. can somebody please suggest ways to help deal with anger?
    shadowgothicgirl shadowgothicgirl 18-21, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    Someone on instagram is using my pictures

    and I think I found out who it is but I think he's pertending to be someone else. What can I do to see if it's actually the person that's using my pictures. I tried asking the person but they just changed the username and I'm using my fanpage account this time. I dont just want...
    Pageantgurl Pageantgurl 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Please someone advice me.

    So through a recommendation from a friend I had sent my CV to a bank a month back, and 3 weeks back I had received a call from them to come for an interview. Anyway the interview went great, and I got called for a second interview and that went just OK. So all that while I...
    makeachangealways makeachangealways 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    The people in my school are terrible people.

    They act like their your friend over a text message and when you get to school they want nothing to do with you. They play with your emotions. They are bad examples. I have truly never met anyone like these people. I moved to the school two years ago. They don't let you be you...
    thatsme55 thatsme55 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 12 Responses May 26, 2014

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    I'm going to try and make this

    as quick and simple as possible. I have a friend who has a different sense of humor compared to mine (and a lot of other people's). I'm not saying that's a bad thing but it becomes a problem when he's forcing it onto me. He overpowers our conversations both in texts and in...
    HeyRainbow HeyRainbow 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I really need to get something off my chest

    and to be honest I can't trust the people that surround me with this,I really need a female friend here that I can trust
    ImTheQueenFYM ImTheQueenFYM 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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