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    Well since my husband left me

    for another women for no good reason as our marriage was great I've been upset which isn't like me, My husband still has stayed in touch every single day messaging ringing me making sure I'm ok sending me rude messages he's been turning up at the house having sex with me ( I...
    wehaveissues wehaveissues 26-30, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    I always try to listen to my gut

    or inner voice .....but sometimes I'm confused...does anyone know how to really be able to trust your gut feelings?...so ur not mislead....
    candyone candyone 41-45, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm kinda scared to tell my parents about this

    but there a strange tiny light brown lump on the rim of my butt hole and it scares me. Idk if it's an alser or an infection bc I clean my butt with body wash and a lufa. Idek. HELP?1?2!2?:!2?
    Basicallyreggie Basicallyreggie 13-15, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    ok so ill try and keep this shortim bi i have a

    gf who i plan to spend the rest of my life with shes my first and if we do spend the rest of our lives together than my last, however lately ive bin having strong "urges" twards males and normally these moods pass but seing as theres no real way to handle them they tend to build...
    datguywho datguywho 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    before you get married check it out.

    you need to know their value systems and beliefs! . get to know each other . even though that crazy feeling of attraction and awesome feeling of having attention and time from someone rush your thought processes!!! otherwise you'll end up down a road where you as yourself how...
    bluesteelj bluesteelj 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    I told my crush I like him,

    IN ******* PERSON. I tapped him on the shoulder "fadol can I tell you something?" "Yeah sure" we moved to the Side and I told him after like 10 secs of silence. "I kinda like you " he smiled. "Are you the one whose been kiking me?" "No that was one of my best friends", he was...
    kidLeftInTheDark kidLeftInTheDark 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 7

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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 25 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 27 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    Me and my long time girlfriend broke up almost

    four months ago, didn't talk or have any contact for months, then started talking again a few weeks ago. It's obvious we still have feelings for each other, we've kissed multiple times, but we don't know if we can get back together. We're both confused about how we feel and...
    JMCDoReMi JMCDoReMi 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am getting obsessive hate from the people in

    my town because I was at this party that left a bit of a mess in the woods. This is some of it:"Thanks for leaving (where we were) a mess after your party Zac! The used condoms were nice but not as nice as the bags that contained cocaine residue with straws still in the bag they...
    ZacV11 ZacV11 16-17, M a week ago

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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    There is a boy I like in my class.

    It's summer now so school is over and the classes will split when school starts again. We have been flirting a bit for about a half year but both has been to shy to acctually make the first move. Now that we didn't get in the same class I won't be able to be around him...
    Zelo01 Zelo01 13-15, F 8 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    I had surgery and my bf won't come over

    and make me feel better. Do I have the right to be mad? And should We break up?
    SlaveRose53 SlaveRose53 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 9 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    so wat happened was i got this crush on this

    girl and she didn't feel the same. she basically told me to leave her alone. i did and i was jus hoping she wouldn't tell anyone cause im not out yet. yea ik im so stupid. but she ended up telling the entire school that i was gay. and i got bullied everyday after. my parents...
    IKnowImAlone IKnowImAlone 13-15, F 6 Responses Mar 7

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    I hate when people give me cliche advice like

    "never give up", well no **** lol
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    My dream job would be one

    that I enjoy doing, makes a minimum of 60k a year, and doesn't require a crap ton of schooling. (Maybe like max requires a master's degree, I'm fine with that) Anyone have ideas?? Right now it seems like you can only ever have two out of those 3 options.
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm not entirely sure

    if I want children and have been considering on and off for the past few months!! But I have been cleared for a DVT today and the dr mentioned hat there's a possibility of me getting clots when and if i chose to have kids but I personally don't think it'll be fair on the unborn...
    alana94 alana94 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I am a Christian but lately I've been

    questioning it a lot. I feel like I just am not connecting with it anymore. I'm just now living on my own and exploring life in my 20's. I want to take awhile and experiment with different religions, and other lifestyles but I'm afraid that if I leave my religion for a little...
    virginiamarie94 virginiamarie94 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    kimcc11 kimcc11 26-30, F 15 hrs ago

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    ok so if your best friends fiance was sexually

    advancing you would you tell your best friend ?
    louisejustin louisejustin 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    So I work at the Police Department

    and have been training to become a sergeant. I just found out today in order for my training hours to count I'll have to work under a supervisor other than my current one. So basically my options are to work under patrol which I used to do but I really don't want to do that...
    Foxyvan Foxyvan 41-45, F 17 Responses Jul 6

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    It'S Not Easy To Move On

    When i was younger 17/18 i had a boyfriend that i gave up everything for, my job, friends and family i moved away to be with him, and it was a huge mistake. He became abusive very quickly and every time i forgave him. i soon realized what i was putting myself through as long as i...
    Maz100 Maz100 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    I am sick of everything!

    I don't want to do anything, or even try. Just want to disappear and be done. Sad huh!
    MRP223 MRP223 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 13, 2014

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    Please I'm asking for any kind of help,

    it's been two weeks since my boyfriend left for basic training and I have not gotten any letters. I called the base and they said I can't get a mailing address without his social and I have to a family member. Is there anything I can do at this point? Anything at all?!
    Bonneyshattuck Bonneyshattuck 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    Well... my family (parents

    and sibling) want to move to another country but I really don't want to go. I love living in England, my family live here, I go to school here, my friends are here, my whole life is here! I'm going into an important year at school and the thought of moving is horrible, I can't...
    HelpIneedsomeone HelpIneedsomeone 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    earthlingcc11 earthlingcc11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    I am homeschooled and i

    and going in to 8th so next year I want to go to real school but I am really behind Cus my mom is not doing well she hasn't for sometime now and my dad is trying to take care of her but it's hard I am supposed to be going into 8th grade but I am doing 6th everything this year...
    Melon5 Melon5 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    So, somehow, this happened.

    .. I work at a convalescent home, and they needed someone to accompany the elder folk on their hospital visits. I volunteered, and as you'd have it, the van driver who transported us to the hospitals is sooo handsome. Not only that but he has the most likeable friendly...
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 15 Responses Jan 22

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    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 27 Responses Apr 28, 2014

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 27 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    Baseballkid10 Baseballkid10 13-15, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Jasonm72004 Jasonm72004 36-40, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I need to talk to someone

    that can be honest and tell me their opinion on a thing I did
    Kaitlyn0804 Kaitlyn0804 16-17, F 34 Responses May 16

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    My ex girlfriend emailed me at 3am saying she'd

    like to talk with me. So we met up this afternoon and chatted a little. It pains me to say that I think I might still love her, but I don't know how she really feels. I joined the military and I would really like to try and get back together before I go. I missed her, and I've...
    idontknow2658 idontknow2658 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have this friend I have known

    for a while but only recently (last 4 days) really got to know personally, we are getting on really well and I really like her, but she is leaving to join the merchant navy next week and I don't know what to do do I tell her what I think and put this on her just before she goes...
    riw1996 riw1996 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Maybe it can work. My ex reached out to me the

    other night and we've been talking since. I told her I still loved her yesterday and she agreed we should start over again, get to know each other again. I asked her if there's potential we could end up dating again and she said she didn't know, which I understand. But I would...
    idontknow2658 idontknow2658 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Do you think it's 'sad'

    that I give up my spare time to volunteer at a holiday centre for people with physical and mental disabilities. Some of my friends say it means I have no life because I have nothing better to do than volunteer there. But to be honest, I think that it's what life is all about...
    jessie123h jessie123h 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 1

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    I want to cry. I am having the most horrible

    day ever. I am at work right now get out in 3 hours . Someone please message me tonight I need someone to talk to.
    xoValentina xoValentina 18-21, F 3 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Things I Would Tell My Younger Self The

    romance novels you read paint unrealistic expectations of relationships. Stop comparing yourself to other people, you are a swan in the making. Do not change yourself to satisfy the people in your life who do not appreciate you. It’s okay to say no. But don’t make...
    ImAlivingParadox ImAlivingParadox 22-25, F 1 Response May 30

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    I'm in love with a bisexual guy.

    I'm not sure if I should tell him or not. We know each other cause we have worked before in a pageant I joined last August 7, 2015, but we're not close and I think he's in a relationship now. He's almost 2 years older than me. He's really this beautiful guy inside and out, has a...
    beautifulmistake17 beautifulmistake17 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Input Quickly Please

    I have received some disturbing text messages from an EP member. This person has also written a blog in the past few minutes saying "good bye" Do you fine EPers think I should start calling high schools in this persons home town and try to reach a GC to intervene...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 16 Responses Dec 19, 2007