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    (So,I don't go into detail

    or anything, and probably never will. It's not something I like to talk about. But it is kind of a touchy subject, so if that bothers you, you may block me (assuming you're in my circle) . I don't bring it up much. But I could really use some advice ...) I realize things would...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    My significant other is likely to get plastic

    surgery within the next few months. Although I am all for them making their own decisions and doing what feels right to them, I am not sure how I am going to feel about the surgery's results. It almost feels as if they will be losing a part of their identity by having this...
    hcally13 hcally13 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    There is a boy I like in my class.

    It's summer now so school is over and the classes will split when school starts again. We have been flirting a bit for about a half year but both has been to shy to acctually make the first move. Now that we didn't get in the same class I won't be able to be around him...
    Zelo01 Zelo01 13-15, F 7 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    I've been feeling bad lately.

    I'm moody, and small things upset me big time. I'm okay when I'm around my friends or in rehearsals, but when I'm by myself or with my family, I'm unhappy. I feel angry and upset, and I've cried a few times in the past week and a half, which is strange because nothing in...
    BroguesAndJeans BroguesAndJeans 16-17, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Input Quickly Please

    I have received some disturbing text messages from an EP member. This person has also written a blog in the past few minutes saying "good bye" Do you fine EPers think I should start calling high schools in this persons home town and try to reach a GC to intervene...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 15 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    Look, I'm sorry if this comes off

    as a bunch of rambling, but, I really feel like I need some advice. To summarize things in short, I'm a 16 year old male that's just a bit torn at the moment. I never saw myself writing one of these, but, in a time of sadness people do unexpected things right? So, without cryin...
    nametheorder nametheorder 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 22

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    So me and my girlfriend

    when we hung out this weekend she sucked my d..k. and we talked about it after she left texting. Her dad gets some of her messages so yeah you see what's coming. Im freaking out idk what to do she's not in trouble but they are probally gonna tell my mom and she's not gonna just...
    richplatoon richplatoon 16-17, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    My ex and I broke up couple of months back.

    . He got married to someone else.. And I left that city.. Though I keep going back due to my work... His best friend was in touch with me and we met the last time I went.. He took me out for a movie and then we went on a drive.. By the time we got back home it was 2am and I...
    Visciousangel Visciousangel 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    So im thinking of giving this to my crush

    as a birthday present like making a nice card. And I wrote this poem for her. I want it to be friendly I don't want her to suspect yet, but hopefully to remember it. I'm wondering if it wud be good and doesn't sound a little too friendly. Any advice is super groovy thanks...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 2, 2014

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    if ever you have more questions

    or need help/advices about family , relationship or friendship email us at askmorenow1 @ gmail.com ! we will be happy to help. anyone, anything anytime.
    askmorenow1 askmorenow1 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 24 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    I've been told i make a pretty good therapist

    and i do listen to people and help them the best way i can, i've been through a lot so dont be afraid to send in Dark emails. I'll answer anyone because i know how it feels to be alone and have no one to turn to... If anyone wants some advice email me at - emmatebby@hotmail.co...
    cupcakes1995 cupcakes1995 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 11 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I have a friend who's suffering from gender

    dysphoria. I have no idea what to do. I'm cis, so I don't know what it feels like, and I've never had to help someone through it before. Any advice is very welcome.
    BroguesAndJeans BroguesAndJeans 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    LakiraC LakiraC 13-15, F Mar 21

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    I told my crush I like him,

    IN ******* PERSON. I tapped him on the shoulder "fadol can I tell you something?" "Yeah sure" we moved to the Side and I told him after like 10 secs of silence. "I kinda like you " he smiled. "Are you the one whose been kiking me?" "No that was one of my best friends", he was...
    KidLeftInTheDark KidLeftInTheDark 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 7

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    Quick ! I need advice on escorting.

    Anyone with experience. Until the business I work for is up and running I put my own add up and I have some replies. I don't exactly know what I'm doing though so a little help would be cool.
    missAphrodite missAphrodite 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 12 Responses May 26, 2014

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    this one goes out to parent,

    I been babysitting this child for a year now. this is the first time the parents are going away for a whole day and night. the father feels he shouldn't pay for when his child is sleeping... tell me isn't this completely wrong? Regardless of her sleeping or not... why should...
    love1336 love1336 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    excuses to avoid a wedding?

    ! so me and my family have been invited to a wedding from some close family, well closely related. and I REALLY DO NOT want to go!! why? because every time I see that side of the family they make constant digs about my weight and it is just so annoying and such a blow to my self...
    jessie123h jessie123h 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 22

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    I Need Advice

    so i came to this web site just to comment some things i read that were really good stories.but i still have a story to tell.the problem is im scared to say it.i dont know other people do it.i..i just cant.pls tell me what to do!!!
    victor8038 victor8038 26-30, M 5 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    So, somehow, this happened.

    .. I work at a convalescent home, and they needed someone to accompany the elder folk on their hospital visits. I volunteered, and as you'd have it, the van driver who transported us to the hospitals is sooo handsome. Not only that but he has the most likeable friendly...
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 17 Responses Jan 22

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    I have plans to go on a date the weekend

    after easter with this guy that I really like. We talked on skype several times and I got to know him well. we live in London but he lives quite far from me so he offered me the option to stay overnight at his house after the date. I agree this is better because I don't have...
    Fierrrrce Fierrrrce 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    There's this girl I've been talking to

    for a semester and a half. She initiates some of our conversations and I have her number, but when I text her sometimes and somewhat through the small conversation she'll stop replying.
    KingDavid1996 KingDavid1996 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    so wat happened was i got this crush on this

    girl and she didn't feel the same. she basically told me to leave her alone. i did and i was jus hoping she wouldn't tell anyone cause im not out yet. yea ik im so stupid. but she ended up telling the entire school that i was gay. and i got bullied everyday after. my parents...
    IKnowImAlone IKnowImAlone 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 7

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    What is having a crown in your mouth like?

    Do you know it's there? How long does it last?
    caddriss caddriss 36-40, F Mar 20

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    I have been dating this guy online

    for the past few months and i love him but i don't think i feel the same about him anymore. I love him so much i do not want to hurt him but i want to be friends with him not anything more. We are great friends and i hate dating. I do not hate dating him i just hate being with...
    LifesSweet LifesSweet 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 20

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    Don't be slutty. Be classy.

    CLASSY= Class with ***
    Wallflower369 Wallflower369 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    Ok just have to ask why I don't know I feel I

    already know the answer so this weekend I was out and well the guy I really like was their to but we didn't go down to the bar together anyways he was down with his friends and I was with mine I was getting hit on by this dude and well he ask me to dance I was like ok when I get...
    mouse2816 mouse2816 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm feeling artsy today.

    What do you think?
    halfpace halfpace 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    I'm in dire need of advice.

    The other night I was out partying with some friends and I got drunk and this guy that my best friend likes approached me and we started talking and by the end of the night he kissed me. And I feel really bad because my friend likes him but she said she isn't mad. But I think...
    mlt465 mlt465 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    Ok I'm an ordinary guy in my fourties trying

    to restart my life. I broke up with the woman I've been with for fifteen year's about 4 month's ago. Everyone in my life tell's me I am a good looking man and I believe them. I just can't get over how dam shy I am. I see it as a flaw and want to use it as my strength. I am sick...
    Encontrados Encontrados 36-40, M 2 Responses May 22, 2014

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    My girlfriend lives in North Dakota.

    she's in the airforce, I live in NY. She has come to visit once this month, and expects to see me in June. But she wants me to pay to see her. Now this is not doable. I have a retail job, and I help pay rent, along with other bills in my life. What takes me a month to make...
    love1336 love1336 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 27 Responses Apr 28, 2014

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    I hate when people give me cliche advice like

    "never give up", well no **** lol
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    I'm a little confused by puberty at the moment

    still.... I turned 16 a month and a half ago, I am 5foot 8 inches tall and I weigh about 136lbs. Am I done growing? I mean I don't feel like I am but I haven't grown any since I was about 13. I have a growth chart and when I was 12 I grew 3 inches but I've only grown 1.5 inches...
    abp62626 abp62626 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 27 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 27 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    It'S Not Easy To Move On

    When i was younger 17/18 i had a boyfriend that i gave up everything for, my job, friends and family i moved away to be with him, and it was a huge mistake. He became abusive very quickly and every time i forgave him. i soon realized what i was putting myself through as long as i...
    Maz100 Maz100 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    RyRy7400 RyRy7400 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    My band director knows me well

    and likes me. I'm good, and I'm a sophomore so I'm still an underclassman. He's been here all year, shadowing. Our old director just retired, so now our current one is in charge. I'm in the top band at my school. We just had auditions for placement for next year, and mine went...
    BroguesAndJeans BroguesAndJeans 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 18

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