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    so im having sex for the first time tomorrow.

    we plan to do it on the woods where we have more privacy or whatever. Im just nervous really I guess everyone is at first. I have protection and everything im just really nervous ️like not about being caught or whatever ️just im not sure is this normal? any advice on ️like...
    rich796 rich796 13-15, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Advice for dating = if someone give you their

    phone numbers change one number, you'll find out if is true or fake
    gmah26 gmah26 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 28 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 24 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    bobafhett bobafhett 13-15 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I need some more fashion advice please ASAP!

    same rules from last time girls can be any age to message me guys please be under 25 thanks (: ASAP!! (;
    youngadult14 youngadult14 13-15, F Aug 30, 2014

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    Ok I'm an ordinary guy in my fourties trying

    to restart my life. I broke up with the woman I've been with for fifteen year's about 4 month's ago. Everyone in my life tell's me I am a good looking man and I believe them. I just can't get over how dam shy I am. I see it as a flaw and want to use it as my strength. I am sick...
    Encontrados Encontrados 36-40, M 2 Responses May 22, 2014

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 28 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    So I tested my boyfriend .

    I private messaged him ( whisper ) saying I'm someone I told him I'm a girl and all sent him pictures of another girl ( normal ) he said your hella pretty then I asked him if he want anyother kind of photos and he asked for nude ... I confronted him and he says I don't trust and...
    MAC619 MAC619 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    There is a boy I like in my class.

    It's summer now so school is over and the classes will split when school starts again. We have been flirting a bit for about a half year but both has been to shy to acctually make the first move. Now that we didn't get in the same class I won't be able to be around him...
    Zelo01 Zelo01 13-15, F 7 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    I may have kicked a door down at my school.

    May... Anyone know how much a door costs??? 😂😂😂
    WhiskeyRoger369 WhiskeyRoger369 16-17, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    So I've been engaged

    for 3 years and my fiance finally tells me last night he's not ready for marriage. What now? Split up? Give him space? I just don't know...
    kristic101 kristic101 26-30, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    All Dad does is just ******* complains to me

    and yell for the simplest things. I feel like i am not making an effort to talk to him and I don't know how. I always cry like a child whenever he does it, it makes it upsetting and the fact Im 20. For Cognitive behavioral Therapy in my thought record, its always to do with dad...
    90slove 90slove 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Asb21 Asb21 18-21, F Jan 16

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    So im thinking of giving this to my crush

    as a birthday present like making a nice card. And I wrote this poem for her. I want it to be friendly I don't want her to suspect yet, but hopefully to remember it. I'm wondering if it wud be good and doesn't sound a little too friendly. Any advice is super groovy thanks...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 2, 2014

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    (So,I don't go into detail

    or anything, and probably never will. It's not something I like to talk about. But it is kind of a touchy subject, so if that bothers you, you may block me (assuming you're in my circle) . I don't bring it up much. But I could really use some advice ...) I realize things would...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    I'm feeling artsy today.

    What do you think?
    halfpace halfpace 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    I dont Wanna lose Him :( hes the best thing

    that ever happen to me he's all I have i have no friends like him he understands me he's always there for me like no one ever has I feel so loved and cared about :( without him I'm worth less I never wanna lose him I'm so upset and full of anger at myself for doing what I did I...
    MAC619 MAC619 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I need advice. I do not know

    if I need professional help. Message me if you can. Thanks.
    novembermountain novembermountain 41-45, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Don't be slutty. Be classy.

    CLASSY= Class with ***
    vaashapenin vaashapenin 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I met a guy on EP. And he is amazing,

    I think about him all the time. But I have a problem letting him get any closer to me than on here, I wont give him my number or snap chat, I have a problem trusting guys in person, so it's worse when it's a long distance type of thing. I'm not sure what to do, I want more than...
    Jessbenoit Jessbenoit 18-21, F 18 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    Do you think it's 'sad'

    that I give up my spare time to volunteer at a holiday centre for people with physical and mental disabilities. Some of my friends say it means I have no life because I have nothing better to do than volunteer there. But to be honest, I think that it's what life is all about...
    jessie123h jessie123h 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 1

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    Quick ! I need advice on escorting.

    Anyone with experience. Until the business I work for is up and running I put my own add up and I have some replies. I don't exactly know what I'm doing though so a little help would be cool.
    missAphrodite missAphrodite 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    The people in my school are terrible people.

    They act like their your friend over a text message and when you get to school they want nothing to do with you. They play with your emotions. They are bad examples. I have truly never met anyone like these people. I moved to the school two years ago. They don't let you be you...
    thatsme55 thatsme55 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 11 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    okay so like I feel guilty

    because I have a boyfriend but I haven't told my parents and we're about to hit our one month...I mean I'm 15...not too young but not too old...but how am I suppose to tell them? this is my first serious boyfriend
    tammerajenise tammerajenise 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hi everyone, I really need someone's advice,

    if anyone is willing to message me. Thanks :)
    AnArtistsPrayer AnArtistsPrayer 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I made the mistake of falling

    for a guy online just to end up hurt. I feel stupid, what was I doing getting so close to a guy I met online?
    Jessbenoit Jessbenoit 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    I don't know what todo.

    .. I rely on my parents for money and food etc. At the moment and I go days without eating...
    Misscoconut Misscoconut 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I took an overseas nanny job three months ago.

    I'm eighteen years old. The job is for my uncle, I watch his kids for him and clean up a bit. The problem is I unfortunately made this decision too rashly and too quickly. I told him I would stay for a year thinking I could handle it but it has turned out I cannot. I've become...
    TyieseMarie TyieseMarie 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Okay so me and these two other girls used to be

    really good friends but now the other two aren't really friends. So now I'm going to a concert with one of the girls and the other one is really mad at me because she was planning on taking me (which she never told me). I don't want to fight with either of them. What do I do...
    fighterx fighterx 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Input Quickly Please

    I have received some disturbing text messages from an EP member. This person has also written a blog in the past few minutes saying "good bye" Do you fine EPers think I should start calling high schools in this persons home town and try to reach a GC to intervene...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 15 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    I have a weird question is it normal

    that at almost 18 I have little to no sex drive
    Devonbaby Devonbaby 16-17, F 5 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    So someone wants 3 of my galaxy Dragons,

    what should I ask in return?
    obeyourmaster obeyourmaster 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It started with this dumb love triangle issue

    and now that I'm with Nate I feel like I'm losing my best friend... I love Nate. I always have and I know that now. It's different with him then it was with Chris because when I was with Chris ALL I could think about was Nate. Now that I'm with Nate I'm happy and things are...
    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I need help with direction in my life.

    I have a passion for repairs and electronics. I want to start a business not sure where to start. I'm 18. serious help please! Thank You
    JoshieeBoyy JoshieeBoyy 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    So, somehow, this happened.

    .. I work at a convalescent home, and they needed someone to accompany the elder folk on their hospital visits. I volunteered, and as you'd have it, the van driver who transported us to the hospitals is sooo handsome. Not only that but he has the most likeable friendly...
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 18 Responses 3 days ago

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    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 28 Responses Apr 28, 2014

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    I Need Advice

    so i came to this web site just to comment some things i read that were really good stories.but i still have a story to tell.the problem is im scared to say it.i dont know other people do it.i..i just cant.pls tell me what to do!!!
    victor8038 victor8038 26-30, M 5 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    I recently just got in a relationship.

    The thing is I'm really shy around my boyfriend. Last night I was playing video games with some other guy friends and me and my boyfriend were on a team. When we won the match he came so close to me. The funny thing is, his arm was only slightly touching me but I felt...
    asiaxn asiaxn 13-15, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Me and this girl at my school Evalise got an

    offer that if we sing at the assembly called "lunchtime caberet" we get an arts credit. This is the link to what we sound like. I just need opinions on what to change. Ignore how greasy my hair is, how my nose is red and how my voice is sucky but Im sick and I dont sing anyways...
    LandonS LandonS 16-17, M 8 Responses Jan 10

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    My last experience ..

    ..............
    strawberryletter22 strawberryletter22 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am sick of everything!

    I don't want to do anything, or even try. Just want to disappear and be done. Sad huh!
    MRP223 MRP223 22-25, F 10 Responses Jan 13, 2014

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    I am a Christian but lately I've been

    questioning it a lot. I feel like I just am not connecting with it anymore. I'm just now living on my own and exploring life in my 20's. I want to take awhile and experiment with different religions, and other lifestyles but I'm afraid that if I leave my religion for a little...
    virginiamarie94 virginiamarie94 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    Anyone know how to remove dread wax from hair?

    I just removed my dreads without cutting and I have no idea what to use to wash the wax out, it's water resistant. I want to start free forming so I need it fast
    MTBlake33 MTBlake33 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 11 Responses May 26, 2014

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    Okie so someone asked me out he is an old

    friend he used to go to my close friend Michaela's school but moved to Wisconsin with his mother when his parents got divorced so we were snap hating and he said Do you wanna go out with me/be my girlfriend And I said Sure! And now remember the guy tht called me perfect...
    Alli13146 Alli13146 13-15, F 1 Response