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    I feel like a loser I have no friends.

    I can't find a girl that will even talk to me. I have spent my whole summer sitting in my house talking to my dog. I need someone to chat with.
    Mikeyre Mikeyre 16-17, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Interracial Love

    The other night I asked my dad if I could go to the movies with a guy friend, him being my boyfriend of two weeks, I wanted my dad to meet him. I told my father he was black and he hasn't spoke to me since. I didn't get to go to the movies either. I don't know if I should just...
    hollyolly02 hollyolly02 16-17, F 23 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    So im thinking of giving this to my crush

    as a birthday present like making a nice card. And I wrote this poem for her. I want it to be friendly I don't want her to suspect yet, but hopefully to remember it. I'm wondering if it wud be good and doesn't sound a little too friendly. Any advice is super groovy thanks...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 2

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    I'm romantically invoked with a 35 year old.

    I'm 17 years old. I knew going into this that we would never be anything besides hook ups. My parents would never approve and the age gap is too much. I'm not used to being attached, but we have mutual feelings towards eachother. I just don't know if what I'm feeling is love or...
    margbrooke margbrooke 16-17, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ugh boys are confusing

    as hell. I have no idea how to tell him I care about him without feeling annoying..
    Maq98 Maq98 16-17, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Beauty And The Beast?

    I really need some help.The thing is, I'm totally falling for a man who I don't consider very attractive. I love being around him, and he feels like a fairy tale come true, but I would be so embarrassed introducing him to my friends and family because he is shorter than me (I'm...
    transienthope transienthope 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 5, 2012

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    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 28 Responses Apr 28

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    I need some help. My friend she is really

    depressed and cuts... And I'm trying to help her. I'm tell her I care and am always there for her I brought her dinner last night and it's like none of it helps she just keeps saying how she hates life and no one wants her or could ever love or care about her then today I took...
    swordman94 swordman94 18-21, M 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend's been playing these mind games

    with me lately, which I don't have time for, but he purposely doing things that he knows make me upset and thinking that I don't know, which I find very immature. He also hasn't texted me for 2 days which is not like him because we talk everyday. I am getting very fed up with...
    laxlife laxlife 16-17, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17

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    So back a couple months ago in March I signed up

    for this dating app but it was out of complete boredom and I just was on it to talk to people and the people I talked to on there were On there for all the same reasons as me so it was fine. Then me and this guy started messaging on there and after a month he offered out his...
    alymelal99 alymelal99 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    When I was younger I was addicted to drugs

    and cutting myself. I pulled myself out of it... But my little brother followed my footsteps. I always promised him I'd be there for him. Now I'm 19 and my brother is 17. This year has took a turn for the worse. My little brother over dosed. I hate myself because I wasn't there...
    ryanreid19 ryanreid19 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    My boyfriend of almost 2 1/2 years dumped me

    because he wants to be single and party. And he told me he may come crawling back to me at the end of the summer. We're both going off to college in the fall too. What should I do? I feel hopeless.
    hopeless1012 hopeless1012 18-21, F 28 Responses Jun 21

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    Okay I have these tiny white bumps on my lips

    they are in various spots on my lips no pain or anything. I read about that and it can come from toothpaste I also have bumps on the inside of my lower lip they are not filled with anything. I also have braces. I have never kissed anyone or had sex with anyone. Do I have stds or...
    Aniyiah Aniyiah 13-15, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I broke my ex's heart cuz I said she was a bad

    cook :( I feel terrible and I want to get back with her. Anyone know how to get a girl back??
    jameseddy jameseddy 13-15, M 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 16-17, M 5 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    I need advice, I have seen seperated from my ex

    husband since February, we have been back and for mostly he has trying to get me back and when we do, we fightuntil he reaches out to me again, well I pissed him off and he ended up signing the papers in June, and he has been adamin about staying apart since then, but I only...
    Loveuu90 Loveuu90 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    So long story short girl I like lives other end

    of the country she says she has feelings for me but until we meet nothing can happen problem being she says there's a lot going on and so could be next year by the time we meet so don't know if I should wait to see if anything happens or move on another thing is a while back a...
    originalmonstermouse originalmonstermouse 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    How can I get my lesbian ex back?

    We met in high school sophomore year. The first time I saw her I was drawn to her. I needed to talk to her. I needed to be her friend. I never pursued any friendship the way I pursued hers. We became best friends. We were best friends for about a year before we realized we...
    helpplease12 helpplease12 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    It's always what they want.

    Never what u want the person that makes u happy usually breaks your heart... That's how my life goes always in the dark never to Lind someone to love my heart
    swordman94 swordman94 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    There is a boy I like in my class.

    It's summer now so school is over and the classes will split when school starts again. We have been flirting a bit for about a half year but both has been to shy to acctually make the first move. Now that we didn't get in the same class I won't be able to be around him...
    Zelo01 Zelo01 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 14

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    My Marriage

    I need advice on my marriage. My husband and I have been through some really rough times, and now even though we are a lot stronger I can't let go of the hurt we've caused each other. At times it felt like a game, who could hurt each other the most, it was a cycle that none of us...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 77 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    Every year, I go on holiday to the the same

    place to see my cousins, uncle and auntie and enjoy the holiday every time i go but just recently my cousins have started to go out partying every single night and meet up with their friends instead of me and my brother which means that I get to spend less and less time with...
    murd27 murd27 13-15, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    The people in my school are terrible people.

    They act like their your friend over a text message and when you get to school they want nothing to do with you. They play with your emotions. They are bad examples. I have truly never met anyone like these people. I moved to the school two years ago. They don't let you be you...
    thatsme55 thatsme55 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    I'm 31 .And was sheltered my whole life my

    parents homeschool me. So,I didn't make friends in school. I'm shy. So,what I'm asking is how do you make friends?
    lisa00 lisa00 31-35 10 Responses May 16

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    I have a boyfriend. This is my first

    relationship. I'm still pretty young. I'm a college student But right now I'm a full time lifeguard and swimming instructor My little job on the side is with Team Beachbody. Well my boyfriend is in the military and of course he has to do his duties and everything. It just sucks...
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm not the scared one,

    my sister is. She is 13 and hates rides and roller coasters. She scares herself by watching ride accidents and says 'it doesn't even scare me' yet when we get to the theme park or whatever she doesn't go on the rides. It's a waste of money. Next week we are going to the...
    mollymillymolly mollymillymolly 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 28 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    I’m trying to have a conversation with a

    person so we can work out a misunderstanding and eventually reach a solution, but she is reluctant to talk to me. I've already reached out to her. What should I do?
    AlinaSokun AlinaSokun 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I need advise on things I can do to my girl

    while making out with her:3 So what is somthing/ where is somewhere you love to be touched ...
    username3invalid username3invalid 16-17, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    So I'm sort of on a ledge with this guy I've

    met. He's drop dead gorgeous, can charm the pants off of anyone...etc. I never participated in a one night thing or a decent, satisfying arrangement. I know right off the bat that he's only useful and seeking sex... which is okay. I have my moments when I'm okay with him being...
    PixieStixs PixieStixs 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    What do you do when you can't trust your husband

    and you want a divorce but he refuses... Now what
    pretysad29 pretysad29 26-30, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    So I had an abortion,

    which I do regret but it was for the best. I'm only 18 and my boyfriend is abusive and thinks he can keep the child and me happy. I want to go university and don't want to put shame to the family having a child at my age and my religion, so I had an abortion. Now all my...
    rubina18 rubina18 18-21, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I Really Need Advice About This Guy...

    I've written about him before, but not gotten much response.  What I want to know is, should I be blunt and just say that I have a personal question to ask him?  I need to know if our relationship 9 years ago meant anything to him because sometimes he acts like it does...
    Licorice Licorice 31-35, F 41 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    Ok so, one of my friends

    and I had sex one night when I stayed over at his place. We didn't plan it, it just happened. And it SUCKED. Like so bad. We didn't talk for over a week after that night. I would like to still remain friends, is that possible? Any advice on how to handle this situation and not...
    littlenurseciera littlenurseciera 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Ok I'm an ordinary guy in my fourties trying

    to restart my life. I broke up with the woman I've been with for fifteen year's about 4 month's ago. Everyone in my life tell's me I am a good looking man and I believe them. I just can't get over how dam shy I am. I see it as a flaw and want to use it as my strength. I am sick...
    fifteenyearslost fifteenyearslost 36-40, M 2 Responses May 22

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    She Said/she Said.... A 1-way Conversation??

    So, here's my situation. I avoid social situations I don't plan/organize myself for a specific purpose.   This is because I have REAL difficulty with small-talk, and absolutely dread being boring. Enter "Patsy." I met Patsy sometime in my early to mid-30's.  We had kids about...
    Colormevibrant Colormevibrant 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2012

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    Help Me Please

    I really wish sometimes that I had better friends. Not that my friends aren't wonderful it's just I guess that they're too busy with what's going on in their own lives to care about what's going on in mine. I really feel like I'm the person that's there for everyone, and in the...
    CarterSamson CarterSamson 13-15 7 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    undrayaaa undrayaaa 18-21, F 11 Responses May 26

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    So there's this hardcore activity race

    that I have to go to in 5 days. It's a week long trip. I never wanted to go in the first place but my dad and friend peer pressured me into going. It's a team event so it's harder to back out. I really do NOT want to go. It's making me so anxious and I don't think I could make...
    skyleryounger skyleryounger 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    So this is going to be very long

    but here it goes, I want to know why is my cousin acting like this?????! , he is going to turn 19 and I'm 17. so I'm going to go way back when I first met him. It was summer I was 11 and he was 13, so I went to Mexico with my mom and sis to visit the family so we had to stay...
    meli206 meli206 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I have a lot of questions I need answered.

    . Whether it be about my sexuality, friendships, or social life.. I am going into 8th grade and I am scared out of my mind.. Can I get some assistance?
    LittleRaeOfSunshine LittleRaeOfSunshine 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 23 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    I Need Advice

    so i came to this web site just to comment some things i read that were really good stories.but i still have a story to tell.the problem is im scared to say it.i dont know other people do it.i..i just cant.pls tell me what to do!!!
    victor8038 victor8038 26-30, M 7 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    I am listening to Hey There Deliliah on repeat

    and I need someone to message me.. I need some advice because I am really mixed up and need help...
    naco26withcheese naco26withcheese 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Should I Text Him?

    I met this absolutely amazing guy who just moved in my area. We hung out for 2 days and we clicked what it seemed like too well. We understand each other and poke fun at each other and he always has me laughing. He is a great guy and I really like him. Me and him just can get...
    NotPerfectJustMe NotPerfectJustMe 13-15, F 8 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 24

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    My boyfriend and I have been having

    communication issues. We go can go 3-4 days without talking, but he says he's busy ( and he actually is atm, but i dont think he's busy from the time he wakes up then sleeps, at one point hes gotta sit down? ) but its not hard to send a quick message showing he cares. Things...
    idontknowhatoput idontknowhatoput 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 32 Responses Apr 13

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    I Fell In Love With A Friend Of Mine That I've

    Known For A Really Long Time. He Loves Me Back To Ofcourse. We Haven't Gotten In A Relationship For Varies Reasons And We've Put Everything On Hold Since He Has Left To Another State, He's 18 Hours Away From Where I'm At. He Was Originally Planning To Stay There For 2 Months And...
    Hajile2238 Hajile2238 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 13 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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