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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 25 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    I need to talk to someone

    that can be honest and tell me their opinion on a thing I did
    Kaitlyn0804 Kaitlyn0804 16-17, F 33 Responses May 16

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    ok so if your best friends fiance was sexually

    advancing you would you tell your best friend ?
    louisejustin louisejustin 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I hate when people give me cliche advice like

    "never give up", well no **** lol
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    I am a Christian but lately I've been

    questioning it a lot. I feel like I just am not connecting with it anymore. I'm just now living on my own and exploring life in my 20's. I want to take awhile and experiment with different religions, and other lifestyles but I'm afraid that if I leave my religion for a little...
    virginiamarie94 virginiamarie94 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    My husband and I have three small kids.

    He works and I stay home with them. Most days he works Mon through Fri and is home by 3:30. He has a physical job so I get that he is tired but it's been 5 months since we have gone anywhere as a family with the exception of 3 birthday parties. He considers bonding just the fact...
    AmayaHoo AmayaHoo 22-25, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    Is anyone good at giving love advice?

    I have just broke up with my ex. but I still love them and i'm not sure what should I do.
    earlyday19 earlyday19 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    I'm feeling artsy today.

    What do you think?
    halfpace halfpace 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    My ex girlfriend emailed me at 3am saying she'd

    like to talk with me. So we met up this afternoon and chatted a little. It pains me to say that I think I might still love her, but I don't know how she really feels. I joined the military and I would really like to try and get back together before I go. I missed her, and I've...
    idontknow2658 idontknow2658 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 27 Responses Apr 28, 2014

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    so wat happened was i got this crush on this

    girl and she didn't feel the same. she basically told me to leave her alone. i did and i was jus hoping she wouldn't tell anyone cause im not out yet. yea ik im so stupid. but she ended up telling the entire school that i was gay. and i got bullied everyday after. my parents...
    IKnowImAlone IKnowImAlone 13-15, F 6 Responses Mar 7

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    I told my crush I like him,

    IN ******* PERSON. I tapped him on the shoulder "fadol can I tell you something?" "Yeah sure" we moved to the Side and I told him after like 10 secs of silence. "I kinda like you " he smiled. "Are you the one whose been kiking me?" "No that was one of my best friends", he was...
    kidLeftInTheDark kidLeftInTheDark 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 7

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    I am getting obsessive hate from the people in

    my town because I was at this party that left a bit of a mess in the woods. This is some of it:"Thanks for leaving (where we were) a mess after your party Zac! The used condoms were nice but not as nice as the bags that contained cocaine residue with straws still in the bag they...
    ZacV11 ZacV11 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 12 Responses May 26, 2014

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    How do you make a guy

    that you like jealous? Besides the obvious. Pleeeease help me.
    Steelers7 Steelers7 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Please I'm asking for any kind of help,

    it's been two weeks since my boyfriend left for basic training and I have not gotten any letters. I called the base and they said I can't get a mailing address without his social and I have to a family member. Is there anything I can do at this point? Anything at all?!
    Bonneyshattuck Bonneyshattuck 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Okay, recently i lost my wife to cancer.

    I am still young and have accepted what has happened and feel like the time is right to move on. Shortly before my wife died she continually made me promise her something. And its something that i never thought i could do. What was the promise? She made me promise her i...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 21

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    So I work at the Police Department

    and have been training to become a sergeant. I just found out today in order for my training hours to count I'll have to work under a supervisor other than my current one. So basically my options are to work under patrol which I used to do but I really don't want to do that...
    Foxyvan Foxyvan 41-45, F 17 Responses Jul 6

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    Well since my husband left me

    for another women for no good reason as our marriage was great I've been upset which isn't like me, My husband still has stayed in touch every single day messaging ringing me making sure I'm ok sending me rude messages he's been turning up at the house having sex with me ( I...
    wehaveissues wehaveissues 26-30, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    Theres this guy that I've been talking to

    for about a month now and he likes me and I like him too. I mean we like a lot of the same things and he's really cool but I don't feel like I'm that attracted to him. I know that it sounds bad and I'm always saying don't judge a book by its cover and thats why im feeling like a...
    Imstillhere122 Imstillhere122 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I am homeschooled and i

    and going in to 8th so next year I want to go to real school but I am really behind Cus my mom is not doing well she hasn't for sometime now and my dad is trying to take care of her but it's hard I am supposed to be going into 8th grade but I am doing 6th everything this year...
    Melon5 Melon5 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    There is a man that sits outside the same store,

    wearing the same clothes, in his wheelchair everyday. I think he's homeless and I've prepared a bag with things he may need like food, water, sleeping bag, etc. the issue is what if I try and give it to him and he isn't homeless? Should I try anyway? I don't want to offend him...
    SarahFromSeattle SarahFromSeattle 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 21

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    Don't be slutty. Be classy.

    CLASSY= Class with ***
    Mesmicdoll Mesmicdoll 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 27 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    Jasonm72004 Jasonm72004 36-40, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Maybe it can work. My ex reached out to me the

    other night and we've been talking since. I told her I still loved her yesterday and she agreed we should start over again, get to know each other again. I asked her if there's potential we could end up dating again and she said she didn't know, which I understand. But I would...
    idontknow2658 idontknow2658 18-21, M 46 mins ago

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    So, somehow, this happened.

    .. I work at a convalescent home, and they needed someone to accompany the elder folk on their hospital visits. I volunteered, and as you'd have it, the van driver who transported us to the hospitals is sooo handsome. Not only that but he has the most likeable friendly...
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 15 Responses Jan 22

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    I know this girl that is nice,

    smart, and cute Whenever i am around her I get butterflies in my stomach and my legs feel weak. I really like her and I don't know what to do now. What should I do?
    jonathan11neg jonathan11neg 13-15, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Input Quickly Please

    I have received some disturbing text messages from an EP member. This person has also written a blog in the past few minutes saying "good bye" Do you fine EPers think I should start calling high schools in this persons home town and try to reach a GC to intervene...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 16 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 27 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    I had surgery and my bf won't come over

    and make me feel better. Do I have the right to be mad? And should We break up?
    SlaveRose53 SlaveRose53 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    My dream job would be one

    that I enjoy doing, makes a minimum of 60k a year, and doesn't require a crap ton of schooling. (Maybe like max requires a master's degree, I'm fine with that) Anyone have ideas?? Right now it seems like you can only ever have two out of those 3 options.
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I Need Advice

    so i came to this web site just to comment some things i read that were really good stories.but i still have a story to tell.the problem is im scared to say it.i dont know other people do it.i..i just cant.pls tell me what to do!!!
    victor8038 victor8038 26-30, M 5 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    Do you think it's 'sad'

    that I give up my spare time to volunteer at a holiday centre for people with physical and mental disabilities. Some of my friends say it means I have no life because I have nothing better to do than volunteer there. But to be honest, I think that it's what life is all about...
    jessie123h jessie123h 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 1

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    Things I Would Tell My Younger Self The

    romance novels you read paint unrealistic expectations of relationships. Stop comparing yourself to other people, you are a swan in the making. Do not change yourself to satisfy the people in your life who do not appreciate you. It’s okay to say no. But don’t make...
    ImAlivingParadox ImAlivingParadox 22-25, F 1 Response May 30

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    At the age of 16, I'm already worrying about my

    future. I don't know what I want to be when I grow up. Actually, I do, but I'm not sure if that's what I really want. I don't want to end up having a ****** up life and future. I want to be successful in life without depending on other people. Each and everyday, i think about...
    fiji0water0 fiji0water0 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 22

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 9 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Me and my long time girlfriend broke up almost

    four months ago, didn't talk or have any contact for months, then started talking again a few weeks ago. It's obvious we still have feelings for each other, we've kissed multiple times, but we don't know if we can get back together. We're both confused about how we feel and...
    JMCDoReMi JMCDoReMi 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    There is a boy I like in my class.

    It's summer now so school is over and the classes will split when school starts again. We have been flirting a bit for about a half year but both has been to shy to acctually make the first move. Now that we didn't get in the same class I won't be able to be around him...
    Zelo01 Zelo01 13-15, F 8 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    It'S Not Easy To Move On

    When i was younger 17/18 i had a boyfriend that i gave up everything for, my job, friends and family i moved away to be with him, and it was a huge mistake. He became abusive very quickly and every time i forgave him. i soon realized what i was putting myself through as long as i...
    Maz100 Maz100 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013