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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 27 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    Relationship advice wanted.

    Must have open mind and heart to give advice. Have to hear me out. -22 f help
    secretlystoned secretlystoned 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 20

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    I know most of you won't take me seriously,

    because what do I know? I just have something really personal i need advice about? but about a month ago, I was introduced to a guy I really like, and we both just clicked. We started hanging out, but we soon started dating, and everything was going perfectly! (I have never been...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Does it make sense to end a friendship

    if they owe me over $200? I lent my friend this money a year ago and never paid me back. A month ago, I asked for the money back and I haven't received anything as of yet. what do I do?
    angelxox28 angelxox28 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Just want to say that I normally don't talk

    about personal stuff but I need help. So I dated this guy but we broke up.. We started talking again and I don't know what it means. At times he can be so sweet like he use to be when we were together but then he can be a jerk. I don't know what to do with him and the whole...
    abzz1109 abzz1109 16-17, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    There is a boy I like in my class.

    It's summer now so school is over and the classes will split when school starts again. We have been flirting a bit for about a half year but both has been to shy to acctually make the first move. Now that we didn't get in the same class I won't be able to be around him...
    Zelo01 Zelo01 13-15, F 8 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 25 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    NEED A GUYS OPINION!!

    ! Boyfriend of 6 years of friendship and two years dating says I'm becoming more of a best friend. He is a soldier in the United States Army and he is home. I don't know what to do. We both really want to work it out because we both agreed it's very worth it. I told him to take...
    KatelynR87 KatelynR87 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    So my best friend cut her self.

    I know wow, why, you should talk to her about it. Well I have tried but it's hard she doesn't like to talk about it I am worried
    aaliyah802 aaliyah802 22-25, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Pls. I really need advice.

    We've been dating for almost 9 mos. I wasn't really a good girlfriend to her, I'm too clingy and sometimes controlling. When I get jealous I don't talk to him nor text him for days he was the best guy I've ever met but I just wasted him.. So here comes the day where I have a...
    hellsAngel025 hellsAngel025 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    I Need Advice

    so i came to this web site just to comment some things i read that were really good stories.but i still have a story to tell.the problem is im scared to say it.i dont know other people do it.i..i just cant.pls tell me what to do!!!
    victor8038 victor8038 26-30, M 5 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    I need to talk to someone

    that can be honest and tell me their opinion on a thing I did
    Kaitlyn0804 Kaitlyn0804 16-17, F 37 Responses May 16

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    I am a Christian but lately I've been

    questioning it a lot. I feel like I just am not connecting with it anymore. I'm just now living on my own and exploring life in my 20's. I want to take awhile and experiment with different religions, and other lifestyles but I'm afraid that if I leave my religion for a little...
    virginiamarie94 virginiamarie94 22-25, F 8 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    Preferably from a girl

    but I just need some advice on a situation. I don't really have any friends or anyone talk to about this and it's kinda driving me crazy :(
    ka216 ka216 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I am sick of everything!

    I don't want to do anything, or even try. Just want to disappear and be done. Sad huh!
    MRP223 MRP223 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 13, 2014

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    What's the best way for me to keep

    conversations with my boyfriend? I have a hard time finding something to say and I would really like to change that. Can anyone help me or tell me what I should do? Thanks in advance.
    DessyLove DessyLove 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    In what ways does a guy see/treat his gf

    differently when she tells him she's a virgin?
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have a majorly annoying problem

    that is minorly important. I have this weird tick kind of thing where I wink when I see or hear something and find winking appropriate... But I dont control it...I wink at appropriate times but I dont control it...it's like an eye twitch that is triggered by what I see or hear...
    NightWriter216 NightWriter216 16-17, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have just finished my cert II in nail tech

    and i was practicing on family for free and whatever and now that i have spent over a $1000 i am sick of doing it for free, the products i use are not cheap and someone getting their nails done every 2 weeks is coming out of my time and pocket, i feel bad to charge friends and...
    FearNo1butGod FearNo1butGod 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    My husband and I both have weight problems.

    I am actively trying to do something about it by trying to eat better and trying to work out every day. I may not be perfect about it, but at least I am trying. I am sick of feeling this way and dealing with the crap that goes along with being heavy. My husband does not seem to...
    shadowpast shadowpast 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 19

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    Has anyone ever experienced a relationship like

    this? I've been seeing this guy for 6 months now...not dating...hanging and going out. Everything was going great, he seemed to really like me and I like him. But, it seemed like he didn't want to be in a committed relationship. Which was fine, because we were really great as...
    Faith1293 Faith1293 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    Things I Would Tell My Younger Self The

    romance novels you read paint unrealistic expectations of relationships. Stop comparing yourself to other people, you are a swan in the making. Do not change yourself to satisfy the people in your life who do not appreciate you. It’s okay to say no. But don’t make...
    RedHwaiting RedHwaiting 18-21, F 1 Response May 30

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    Don't be slutty. Be classy.

    CLASSY= Class with ***
    Jenny369 Jenny369 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 12 Responses May 26, 2014

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    So, somehow, this happened.

    .. I work at a convalescent home, and they needed someone to accompany the elder folk on their hospital visits. I volunteered, and as you'd have it, the van driver who transported us to the hospitals is sooo handsome. Not only that but he has the most likeable friendly...
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 16 Responses Jan 22

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    The people in my school are terrible people.

    They act like their your friend over a text message and when you get to school they want nothing to do with you. They play with your emotions. They are bad examples. I have truly never met anyone like these people. I moved to the school two years ago. They don't let you be you...
    thatsme55 thatsme55 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 27 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    There is this guy I like.

    .. We get along great! He's cute, funny, polite and is really respectful.. There's one problem :c I'm 19 and he has just turned 17 >.< I feel so bad because he is so young... Is that to young?? Help!
    lifeisnottoobad lifeisnottoobad 18-21, F 7 Responses May 9

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    Me and this guy met through my uncle,

    the age gap is 14 years, we've been together for 3 years now, thing have been going so well, the best ever... My uncle keeps making up stories about him and telling my family that his a bad guy, and for sure its lies I know.... My uncle himself does things on a side and his wife...
    Elizabeth1411 Elizabeth1411 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Okay, in the past I told me crush how I feel

    and she didn't exactly feel the same (Note above is her response to me giving her a note confessing my feelings). However, now things seem to have changed. She is now my #1 best friend and she is showing all the signs that girls usually exhibit when they like a guy. Usually this...
    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M a week ago

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    I told my crush I like him,

    IN ******* PERSON. I tapped him on the shoulder "fadol can I tell you something?" "Yeah sure" we moved to the Side and I told him after like 10 secs of silence. "I kinda like you " he smiled. "Are you the one whose been kiking me?" "No that was one of my best friends", he was...
    kidLeftInTheDark kidLeftInTheDark 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 7

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    I need some advice. A couple of years ago,

    I got into a big blow up with my best friend at the time. It ended with her not responding to my last message so we havent spoken since then. Its been at least 3 years. To this day, I still feel I need closure and have a lot of things that were left unsaid that I want to get off...
    MisunderstoodGal30 MisunderstoodGal30 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    For about 2 years i have been talking with a

    counselor. As i had been diagnosed with depression among other things, as a result Of a horribly abusive 5 yr relationship. In a appointment about 2 months ago, she sat with my best friend who is also my amazing bf. In our conversation. She recommended that he and i separate for...
    sinistergirl sinistergirl 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I need advice on how to get

    though a break up ?
    anxietykills12 anxietykills12 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 20

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    Is it normal to not be able to look at yourself

    over something you didn't do? Or did in a dream? Because in my dream I killed a puppy and my best friend and woke up feeling like a heartless monster. I would never do that irl.
    MinecraftGirl1999 MinecraftGirl1999 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    A plush blanket of comfort

    and destruction bound tightly around my frail body. My breathing is constantly labored and my toes curled under bracing for the next mental blow. Anxiety is a consistent flow of breath taking views from the peaks of happiness and the dark shallow graves from the valleys of fear...
    writingmyrelease writingmyrelease 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hi all, So I have a question,

    it's quiet personal actually it's very personal and I need your help. So I need to go on the pill but I have never actually been to the doctors alone. Their not willing to support me through this but I'm pretty sure I'm making the right choice. I'm from Australia and I don't...
    bunnybisquit333 bunnybisquit333 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    I've noticed that I have really no appetite

    anymore. Honestly I'm fine with one meal a day. I just don't really get that hungry. I don't really know why.
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    Ok I'm an ordinary guy in my fourties trying

    to restart my life. I broke up with the woman I've been with for fifteen year's about 4 month's ago. Everyone in my life tell's me I am a good looking man and I believe them. I just can't get over how dam shy I am. I see it as a flaw and want to use it as my strength. I am sick...
    Encontrados Encontrados 41-45, M 2 Responses May 22, 2014

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    Im going away for the weekend,

    and im super nervous and just now beginning to pack. Do you guys mind helping me pick out 3 outfits?
    nycgirl19 nycgirl19 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 20

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    It'S Not Easy To Move On

    When i was younger 17/18 i had a boyfriend that i gave up everything for, my job, friends and family i moved away to be with him, and it was a huge mistake. He became abusive very quickly and every time i forgave him. i soon realized what i was putting myself through as long as i...
    Maz100 Maz100 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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