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    Ok I'm an ordinary guy in my fourties trying

    to restart my life. I broke up with the woman I've been with for fifteen year's about 4 month's ago. Everyone in my life tell's me I am a good looking man and I believe them. I just can't get over how dam shy I am. I see it as a flaw and want to use it as my strength. I am sick...
    Encontrados Encontrados 36-40, M 2 Responses May 22, 2014

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    Hey guys i need some advice ASAP Okay

    so i met a girl just 3 days ago and shes junior . At first she kind of like me but im not sure how they way she likes me but i felt she likes me. So after 3 days i kept thinking bout her cuz shes something. Then on saturday night she text me first then i kind of like it but on...
    jonathaneria jonathaneria 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    (So,I don't go into detail

    or anything, and probably never will. It's not something I like to talk about. But it is kind of a touchy subject, so if that bothers you, you may block me (assuming you're in my circle) . I don't bring it up much. But I could really use some advice ...) I realize things would...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 17 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    I'm a guy and I fingered my best friend

    and now she's saying that she was just really horny and I took "advantage" of her and now she feels uncomfortable to see me in person were both 13 help
    AbDashSoul AbDashSoul 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    ep is gonna delete my comment

    if i don't add *'s to the post, so i had sex with one guy and ive only had sex with one guy which is my boyfriend, but we do it a lot. am i a s***?
    conjuringspirit conjuringspirit 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I hate when people give me cliche advice like

    "never give up", well no **** lol
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Ok, so I think I'm developing some sort of

    anxiety disorder. I hate being around others that aren't in my 'friend group' meaning that I struggle to make friends, and I don't like it when we have to show presentations around people who I'm not comfortable with. I spend ages on sorting my image before leaving the house...
    MaddyLion MaddyLion 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    So, somehow, this happened.

    .. I work at a convalescent home, and they needed someone to accompany the elder folk on their hospital visits. I volunteered, and as you'd have it, the van driver who transported us to the hospitals is sooo handsome. Not only that but he has the most likeable friendly...
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 16 Responses Jan 22

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    so wat happened was i got this crush on this

    girl and she didn't feel the same. she basically told me to leave her alone. i did and i was jus hoping she wouldn't tell anyone cause im not out yet. yea ik im so stupid. but she ended up telling the entire school that i was gay. and i got bullied everyday after. my parents...
    IKnowImAlone IKnowImAlone 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 7

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    Do you think this dance (video) is too much of

    a show? I think we should focus more on technique and not on props, flips and costumes. I am literally wearing a glitter vest and animal pants!And I come out on a skateboard and then spin in that weird spinner. And I have to back handspring, headslide and flip off this guys knee...
    ZacS11 ZacS11 16-17, M 3 days ago

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    Don't be slutty. Be classy.

    CLASSY= Class with ***
    Wallflower369 Wallflower369 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    anonymousdrummer anonymousdrummer 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am scared history is going to repeat itself.

    I have been with my boyfriend for a year. He has a beautiful baby girl with his ex. My problem is I am scared he is going to leave me for her. I also fear that he misses her, wishes I was her, etc. He says he doesn't because she was abusive physically, mentally, and emotionally...
    smiller1920 smiller1920 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    Should I seek medical help in any way

    for this? I have a birthmark that is somewhat worry some just by appearance. I have been researching birthmarks and I came across that they could at times cause cancer. My birthmark is about an inch or maybe a bit longer and it is oval shaped. It's on my outer thigh. It is flat...
    abp62626 abp62626 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I like this girl and I think she likes me back

    but she gets really nervous like when she walks next to me she seems scared or idk what should I do I only talked to her like 2 times this year
    Snkrheadogbred11 Snkrheadogbred11 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Do you think it's 'sad'

    that I give up my spare time to volunteer at a holiday centre for people with physical and mental disabilities. Some of my friends say it means I have no life because I have nothing better to do than volunteer there. But to be honest, I think that it's what life is all about...
    jessie123h jessie123h 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 1

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    I Need Advice

    so i came to this web site just to comment some things i read that were really good stories.but i still have a story to tell.the problem is im scared to say it.i dont know other people do it.i..i just cant.pls tell me what to do!!!
    victor8038 victor8038 26-30, M 5 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    Input Quickly Please

    I have received some disturbing text messages from an EP member. This person has also written a blog in the past few minutes saying "good bye" Do you fine EPers think I should start calling high schools in this persons home town and try to reach a GC to intervene...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 16 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    I recently had sexual intercourse with someone

    i thought was a close friend. We've been friends for almost three years. After we had sex, he started acting differently, started talking to me differently. He's been very distant. I honestly think he only wanted to be my friend for only certain things. I feel so disappointed...
    classykitty classykitty 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hey I'm 17 turn 18 in October

    and out of all the things going on in my life I need to talk about one thing. I'm looking for someone who doesn't judge (Please) and can give a solution. Just message me if you can help.
    WaldosHello WaldosHello 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Things I Would Tell My Younger Self The

    romance novels you read paint unrealistic expectations of relationships. Stop comparing yourself to other people, you are a swan in the making. Do not change yourself to satisfy the people in your life who do not appreciate you. It’s okay to say no. But don’t make...
    RedHwaiting RedHwaiting 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I told my crush I like him,

    IN ******* PERSON. I tapped him on the shoulder "fadol can I tell you something?" "Yeah sure" we moved to the Side and I told him after like 10 secs of silence. "I kinda like you " he smiled. "Are you the one whose been kiking me?" "No that was one of my best friends", he was...
    KidLeftInTheDark KidLeftInTheDark 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 7

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    There is this guy I like.

    .. We get along great! He's cute, funny, polite and is really respectful.. There's one problem :c I'm 19 and he has just turned 17 >.< I feel so bad because he is so young... Is that to young?? Help!
    lifeisnottoobad lifeisnottoobad 18-21, F 7 Responses May 9

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    jonathaneria jonathaneria 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm feeling artsy today.

    What do you think?
    halfpace halfpace 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Okay...so i have these exams coming

    and I don't know what to study. I have no friends at school and I occasionally talk to classmates. There is only a boy that "secretly" likes me and texts to me. The problem is that I have to learn what to study. I called school to ask about if there is any announcement about...
    sparkydream sparkydream 18-21, F 22 hrs ago

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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 12 Responses May 26, 2014

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    So.. I am tired of going out,

    to parties, to drink alcohol and be around fake dumb *** people.. Its fun during that time , but at the end of the day i feel as bad as i was before. And it only causes more trouble in my life. I want to disappear for a while and find myself. But my "best friend" is all into it...
    isuvillaga isuvillaga 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    One of my close friends has an extremely

    unhealthy obsession with her on-and-off hookup, who treats her badly and often cuts her off. She cries daily over tiny interactions with him, scrolls through her photos with him constantly, believes she owes him her life because of the support he gave her during a hard time in...
    hcally15 hcally15 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    So I like this guy and we've been friends

    for a couple of years, until like 5 months ago we started liking each other as more then friends. He's ready to date and so am I but I don't want to ruin or friendship if things don't work out. What should i do?
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am so lost. Right now I'm trying to get my

    life together: grades, weight/health, mental state, fix my relationship with my family, the works. But there's this guy.... I've known him for 5 years through my dad's ex girlfriend. We talk for a while and then say we're dating but won't behave as so. We'll call each other baby...
    asmb17 asmb17 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Is it weird to date a guy a year young

    than you? He's actually a year and 5 months younger. He's 17 and I'm 19. He'll be 18 in 3 months. Is that weird? Should I stay away?
    spence96 spence96 18-21, F 15 Responses 6 days ago

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    Ok need some help understanding something please

    and thanks so this guy I have been seeing for almost a year tells me one day he loves me and we make plains for are future together then turns around and tells me he only loves me as a friend cause he's scared of getting hurt and the same thing happening to him that happen to...
    mouse2816 mouse2816 31-35, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am sick of everything!

    I don't want to do anything, or even try. Just want to disappear and be done. Sad huh!
    MRP223 MRP223 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 13, 2014

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    I need to talk to someone

    that can be honest and tell me their opinion on a thing I did
    Kaitlyn0804 Kaitlyn0804 16-17, F 37 Responses May 16

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    I am a Christian but lately I've been

    questioning it a lot. I feel like I just am not connecting with it anymore. I'm just now living on my own and exploring life in my 20's. I want to take awhile and experiment with different religions, and other lifestyles but I'm afraid that if I leave my religion for a little...
    virginiamarie94 virginiamarie94 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    Well a while back I cheated on the girl I'm with

    now & I feel the need to cheat again because she's a virgin & I'm addicted to sex what do I do
    Caine135 Caine135 13-15, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 24 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 27 Responses Apr 28, 2014

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    So im thinking of giving this to my crush

    as a birthday present like making a nice card. And I wrote this poem for her. I want it to be friendly I don't want her to suspect yet, but hopefully to remember it. I'm wondering if it wud be good and doesn't sound a little too friendly. Any advice is super groovy thanks...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 2, 2014

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    I am in need of some advice

    and expressing myself. Anyone care to help?
    MisunderstoodGal30 MisunderstoodGal30 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 27 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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