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    Do you think it's 'sad'

    that I give up my spare time to volunteer at a holiday centre for people with physical and mental disabilities. Some of my friends say it means I have no life because I have nothing better to do than volunteer there. But to be honest, I think that it's what life is all about...
    jessie123h jessie123h 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 1

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    My calves are aching.

    Like I just had multiple charley horse cramps in both. The first day they were only slightly sore for no reason, which happens sometimes. Each day that got more sore and now I'm sick with a low fever/sore throat and cough. I've never had my calves hurt like this while ill. It's...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 2 Responses May 11

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    I'm in love with my girl best friend.

    And I'm a girl.😒(14)
    Bubbles1177 Bubbles1177 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    A friend from high school recently asked me on

    a date. In hs, we never really connected and though I thought he was attractive he dated the two girls I hung out with. I always knew he would never see me as more than a friend, so we started getting closer after I told myself that and after we graduated. He would message me...
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    So im thinking of giving this to my crush

    as a birthday present like making a nice card. And I wrote this poem for her. I want it to be friendly I don't want her to suspect yet, but hopefully to remember it. I'm wondering if it wud be good and doesn't sound a little too friendly. Any advice is super groovy thanks...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 2, 2014

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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 12 Responses May 26, 2014

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    I hate when people give me cliche advice like

    "never give up", well no **** lol
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    I need to talk to someone

    that can be honest and tell me their opinion on a thing I did
    Kaitlyn0804 Kaitlyn0804 16-17, F 37 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've totally ****** up.

    I've just done one of the worst things I could to lose my girlfriend's trust. I'm afraid I'm going to lose her now. I didn't cheat or anything, I'd never do that. But it's bad. Please... I don't know how to make it right. ??
    Aethic Aethic 18-21, M 4 Responses May 13

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    My brother, his wife,

    and his 4 kids just moved back to our home town after being away for 10 years while he was in the Navy. I babysit for him since they are struggling financially and both have to work fulltime. The way they treat my nieces and nephews make me sick to my stomach. They do nothing...
    o0Brandy0o o0Brandy0o 22-25, F 1 Response May 11

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    So, there's this girl in my class,

    and I'll call her A. We've known each other for almost two years now, but have been "closer" friends for about one year. Or that's what I thought, anyway. The other day, we were walking together with another good friend at school, when we started talking about the weekend coming...
    woxxy woxxy 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I am sick of everything!

    I don't want to do anything, or even try. Just want to disappear and be done. Sad huh!
    MRP223 MRP223 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 13, 2014

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    so I've been trying to stop drinking,

    just because its done more bad than good to me. I really don't think my drinking is as extreme as others but I find myself drinking just to calm my nerves or just let loose. The thing is, I really enjoy drinking alone and being at peace even if its for a little while. I tell...
    teehee342 teehee342 18-21, F 5 Responses May 11

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    so wat happened was i got this crush on this

    girl and she didn't feel the same. she basically told me to leave her alone. i did and i was jus hoping she wouldn't tell anyone cause im not out yet. yea ik im so stupid. but she ended up telling the entire school that i was gay. and i got bullied everyday after. my parents...
    IKnowImAlone IKnowImAlone 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 7

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    (So,I don't go into detail

    or anything, and probably never will. It's not something I like to talk about. But it is kind of a touchy subject, so if that bothers you, you may block me (assuming you're in my circle) . I don't bring it up much. But I could really use some advice ...) I realize things would...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 17 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 26 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 24 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    I don't know how I feel.

    I think the only reason I agreed to go out with him was to not be rude, and avoid confrontation. I thought the date went well, but it was my first date and I didn't know what to expect. that night he texted me he wanted to date me, rather than just have a few dates, and that he...
    drowninginsaltwater drowninginsaltwater 16-17, F 1 Response May 12

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    What do I do if someone shows signs

    that he likes me but I don't want to be rude by saying that I don't like him back? How can I politely tell him that? :(
    higalove higalove 18-21, F 3 Responses May 11

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    Do I have a crush on my friend?

    Long story short, I've had this friend of mine since 5th grade. We eventually became fairly close friends, and to this day I do consider him by best friend. However, I've noticed that my feelings have been, uh, kinda odd, to be honest. First off, he's always on my mind. It...
    Julesia Julesia 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My parents are constantly getting on my nerves.

    . My mom is a bi-polar butt cheek, and my dad. Well he's just obnoxious. This isn't a reason to be mad, but he is just.. Annoying. He chews loudly, he's overweight, and he's going deaf, so we have to shout around him. He just ticks me off with everything he does. :- I know...
    StoryToRemember StoryToRemember 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    The people in my school are terrible people.

    They act like their your friend over a text message and when you get to school they want nothing to do with you. They play with your emotions. They are bad examples. I have truly never met anyone like these people. I moved to the school two years ago. They don't let you be you...
    thatsme55 thatsme55 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    Hello everyone, I took this medicine pills this

    morning. And I shouldn't have ate first. Now, My stomach hurts badly and its growling none stop. I'm just letting it pass. But what do I do, it really hurts.
    Lizandavan Lizandavan 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I need some advice from anyone

    who is willing to be straightforward and very honest.
    shankly shankly 31-35, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    There is a boy I like in my class.

    It's summer now so school is over and the classes will split when school starts again. We have been flirting a bit for about a half year but both has been to shy to acctually make the first move. Now that we didn't get in the same class I won't be able to be around him...
    Zelo01 Zelo01 13-15, F 7 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    Julieccaa Julieccaa 26-30, F May 12

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    I have a boyfriend whom I don't trust

    and it's prolly cuz I've cheated on him... I want the other guy, but he ignores me and we've had a casual relationship for the past 5 months.. I know I should be faithful, but it's really complicated.. My bf had left me about a year ago and we jus got back together last month...
    N1n74 N1n74 22-25, F 4 Responses May 11

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    I've been with my boyfriend

    for a year now but I did something and betrayed him and I ****** up badly. I haven't been honest with him lately and it has really hurt him. I love him a lot but know we've broken up. We've decided that we'll both just keep going with our live and still keep each other in our...
    laxlife laxlife 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    So, somehow, this happened.

    .. I work at a convalescent home, and they needed someone to accompany the elder folk on their hospital visits. I volunteered, and as you'd have it, the van driver who transported us to the hospitals is sooo handsome. Not only that but he has the most likeable friendly...
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 16 Responses Jan 22

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    It'S Not Easy To Move On

    When i was younger 17/18 i had a boyfriend that i gave up everything for, my job, friends and family i moved away to be with him, and it was a huge mistake. He became abusive very quickly and every time i forgave him. i soon realized what i was putting myself through as long as i...
    Maz100 Maz100 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    I need some sort of guidance on how I should

    deal with my particular situation. I am in a long distance relationship and I very badly want to meet my girlfriend in person, just as she claims to very badly want to meet me. I had the idea to start an online fund so we could get the money to meet each other. I intended to set...
    PendulEmPlum PendulEmPlum 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I Need Advice

    so i came to this web site just to comment some things i read that were really good stories.but i still have a story to tell.the problem is im scared to say it.i dont know other people do it.i..i just cant.pls tell me what to do!!!
    victor8038 victor8038 26-30, M 5 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    I need advice on little things I can do

    that mean a lot to girls
    xc0127 xc0127 18-21, M 4 Responses May 12

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    Don't be slutty. Be classy.

    CLASSY= Class with ***
    Wallflower369 Wallflower369 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    MisunderstoodGal30 MisunderstoodGal30 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 27 Responses Apr 28, 2014

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    There is this guy I like.

    .. We get along great! He's cute, funny, polite and is really respectful.. There's one problem :c I'm 19 and he has just turned 17 >.< I feel so bad because he is so young... Is that to young?? Help!
    lifeisnottoobad lifeisnottoobad 18-21, F 6 Responses May 9

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    How do you deal with a break up?

    I never had trouble with heart ace before. If a guy treated me bad I would cry a bit because after the break up. But this time its different. My ex left me, he was sweet during the relation but after he was just so cold and heartless. Its been two months now and I'm still...
    Ilovebunbunnies Ilovebunbunnies 18-21, F 2 Responses May 14

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    I told my crush I like him,

    IN ******* PERSON. I tapped him on the shoulder "fadol can I tell you something?" "Yeah sure" we moved to the Side and I told him after like 10 secs of silence. "I kinda like you " he smiled. "Are you the one whose been kiking me?" "No that was one of my best friends", he was...
    KidLeftInTheDark KidLeftInTheDark 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 7

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    I'm feeling artsy today.

    What do you think?
    halfpace halfpace 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    Wish to talk to someone

    that I don't know.... about situation that is bad for me but worse for my friend... it is bad when a daughter chooses her stepfather for sex partner... it is worse when her mother allows her husband to continue having sex with her daughter.... just to ensure that he stays with...
    OTOriginalTexan OTOriginalTexan 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 27 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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