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    I'm so emotional. Because I wanted to keep my

    baby, but being that I couldn't it hurt me to the core of my heart. I have repeatedly asked God for forgiveness, from the time I seen my child on the scanner to as I post this. A few people have made me feel so much better, and I thank yall so much for having positive things to...
    jassypopout jassypopout 18-21, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I approached a girl and we got talking

    and it was going well but then out of nowhere i dropped a really creepy line that was so bad haha it was one of those moments when you don't think about it and just say it and it was really creepy. Anyways i am contemplating weather or not to apologise for the creepy thing i...
    PeaceAndCalm PeaceAndCalm 16-17, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Ok kinda a 2 question thing

    that I need help with.first off how do you know if a guy loves you without him saying it?also what does it mean when a guy looks out his window as you pull up to his house and watches everything your doing at that moment before you knock on the door.also stares at YA when you...
    mouse2816 mouse2816 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've know this girl for a

    while now, but this is really puzzling me. So i met her a few years back, first time i saw her i knew i'd be her friend, although i hated her a lot and she always insulted me (but still expected me to be her friend?), we ended up having to room together for some camp thing for...
    lxathing lxathing 13-15, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 28 Responses Apr 28

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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 16-17, M 5 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    My Marriage

    I need advice on my marriage. My husband and I have been through some really rough times, and now even though we are a lot stronger I can't let go of the hurt we've caused each other. At times it felt like a game, who could hurt each other the most, it was a cycle that none of us...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 77 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    thatonegirl156 thatonegirl156 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm always saying something stupid.

    Yesterday, I was at a concert and it started to light up with phone lights and then it lit up with lighters and I stupidly asked "what mind of phone light is yellow like that...oh it's a lighter" (they all looked like little dots from afar). Everyone thought I was the dumbest...
    Flowerpush Flowerpush 22-25, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm 31 .And was sheltered my whole life my

    parents homeschool me. So,I didn't make friends in school. I'm shy. So,what I'm asking is how do you make friends?
    lisa00 lisa00 31-35 11 Responses May 16

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    Help Quick!! - Lies - What Should I Do?!!

    Well I am a teenager at Sixth Form in England. Like any student I didn't want to wake up and go to school, so... I lied. I created a fake email from my teachers saying that I didnt have to come in this morning and i could stay at home, my parents believed me and i did this. Later...
    Xunae Xunae 16-17 12 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    It'S Not Easy To Move On

    When i was younger 17/18 i had a boyfriend that i gave up everything for, my job, friends and family i moved away to be with him, and it was a huge mistake. He became abusive very quickly and every time i forgave him. i soon realized what i was putting myself through as long as i...
    Maz100 Maz100 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Waterstorm Waterstorm 13-15, F 4 hrs ago

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    So im thinking of giving this to my crush

    as a birthday present like making a nice card. And I wrote this poem for her. I want it to be friendly I don't want her to suspect yet, but hopefully to remember it. I'm wondering if it wud be good and doesn't sound a little too friendly. Any advice is super groovy thanks...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 2

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    Input Quickly Please

    I have received some disturbing text messages from an EP member. This person has also written a blog in the past few minutes saying "good bye" Do you fine EPers think I should start calling high schools in this persons home town and try to reach a GC to intervene...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 13 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    I am a Christian but lately I've been

    questioning it a lot. I feel like I just am not connecting with it anymore. I'm just now living on my own and exploring life in my 20's. I want to take awhile and experiment with different religions, and other lifestyles but I'm afraid that if I leave my religion for a little...
    virginiamarie94 virginiamarie94 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 12

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    This girl i thought was just my friend (you can

    read about it on my profile) actually may possibly like me? What do i do now? Im not attracted to her that way, but i dont want to make her feel bad, oh that would be terrible :(
    lxathing lxathing 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 11 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    There is a boy I like in my class.

    It's summer now so school is over and the classes will split when school starts again. We have been flirting a bit for about a half year but both has been to shy to acctually make the first move. Now that we didn't get in the same class I won't be able to be around him...
    Zelo01 Zelo01 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 14

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 24 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    I've been friends with Tyler since

    before we were born. Our parents met at a parenting class and ever since then we've always been together. He basically my brother. Colby and I have been friends since the sixth grade. I can tell her everything! She's the only person (other than Tyler) who truly gets me and we...
    AlyseJay AlyseJay 16-17, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I Need Advice

    so i came to this web site just to comment some things i read that were really good stories.but i still have a story to tell.the problem is im scared to say it.i dont know other people do it.i..i just cant.pls tell me what to do!!!
    victor8038 victor8038 26-30, M 6 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 31 Responses Apr 13

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    Why do I feel so close to this guy

    even though this are 3rd time talking?
    thatonegirl156 thatonegirl156 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17

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    Okay, so let me start off by saying I've

    suffered from depression for the best part of 10 years. I started self harming when I was 12, and that led into many years of suicide attempts, binge drinking, various forms of self destruction, and a whole lot of denial. When I was 16, it hit it's peak, I don't even really...
    lolicat lolicat 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I accidentally invited my ex boyfriend to come

    stay with me for 3 days and i don't know how to get out of it. He's now arranging bus tickets to come see me and sorting out things when can do together. What am i supposed to do? he weirds me out. HELP
    isacake isacake 18-21, F 25 Responses 4 days ago

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    Okay so I need to get a hoco dress

    and idk what kind or style or color to get.
    cicizzle cicizzle 13-15, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    For years now, i've developed a really special

    feelings for my boss. We used to be really friends - laughing, partly personal but not very detailed. This year he did things that really made me wonder, but refused to ask him as it might cause awkwardness between us. And I don't want to lose my job. By the way, sorry, seems...
    Samwan Samwan 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've decided to start my medication now,

    I can see that it's the right thing to do and I don't what to take them when I'm really sick. As hard as it is but it's the best option for me right now. Any advice?
    phum phum 26-30 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I spoke with this boy

    for so long I'm 16 and his 19/20 we spoke like for 7 months I'm guessing he wasn't the best guy but he was amazing for me afterwards I realised I like him and actually I might even be deeply in love. He is like a player but them times so was I so it was equal. We opened up to...
    elisa1905 elisa1905 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I Really Need Advice About This Guy...

    I've written about him before, but not gotten much response.  What I want to know is, should I be blunt and just say that I have a personal question to ask him?  I need to know if our relationship 9 years ago meant anything to him because sometimes he acts like it does...
    Licorice Licorice 31-35, F 41 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    I find myself throwing up a lot more

    and not eating the way I used to. It makes me worried because I dont consume nearly enough calories. I didnt think I had an eating disorder, thought maybe my stomach was just sensitive. I told my parents and they think I just have a small stomach and, like I said, have a...
    supersophia supersophia 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Ok looking for some kinda advice please

    and thanks.so last night me and my best guy friend fell asleep in each other's arms while watching a movie.he has to get up at 5 am so I normally get up with him if I spend the night to see him off to work. Well the reason I do this is cause I miss him when I ain't around him...
    mouse2816 mouse2816 31-35, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    (So,I don't go into detail

    or anything, and probably never will. It's not something I like to talk about. But it is kind of a touchy subject, so if that bothers you, you may block me (assuming you're in my circle) . I don't bring it up much. But I could really use some advice ...) I realize things would...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 15

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    Last night my dad told me not to grow up to fast

    and I'm his baby girl, idk what to do cuz I've pretty much always been like this I'm just more open now, idk how to respond now like what do I do?
    JustKeepSpinning JustKeepSpinning 13-15, F 6 Responses Aug 17

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    I am just in such a funk in my life.

    I am looking for someone to share advice with maybe help one another out and just have someone to enjoy chatting with online. Nothing serious, no meeting just someone to have fun and talk with.
    snowbabe3 snowbabe3 22-25, F 9 Responses Jul 9

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    i really need advice right now.

    my life is tumbled and i dont know what to do.
    unlovednbroken unlovednbroken 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 7

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    I need some more fashion advice please ASAP!

    same rules from last time girls can be any age to message me guys please be under 25 thanks (: ASAP!! (;
    youngadult14 youngadult14 13-15, F Aug 30

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    I've been dating this guy

    for almost a year now but it's always been kinda awkward and I never really felt like I could be myself around him. I want to break up with him because my depression has gotten a lot worse than its ever been and I just feel like I need to be single for a while (I realised that...
    xAwakeAndUnafraidx xAwakeAndUnafraidx 13-15, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    My brother and me are

    both in grade 9 this year and we have 3/4 classes together so were are together all day. A few days ago he asked me to go watch this Sens practice with him and I said I needed time to myself just for one day and he invited this girl who is literally a clone of me in everyway. We...
    QuinnMac12 QuinnMac12 13-15, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am sick of everything!

    I don't want to do anything, or even try. Just want to disappear and be done. Sad huh!
    MRP223 MRP223 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 13

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    Ok here I go needing help again please

    and thanks. So last night me and my guy friend which I have a huge crash on. Well we went out and well these 2 girls walked in and I knew he was going to try and hit on her. Anyways he knows I like him to but he said he could never fall in love again do to what his ex wife did...
    mouse2816 mouse2816 31-35, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    So I met someone online some months back

    who became a really good friend. Then we decided to become official. I really fell hard for this person and today they told me they was trangender and going through the process of complete change. I don't know what to do or how to feel... I told people about this person and how...
    xSiiNx xSiiNx 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    BOYFRIEND LIVES WITH EX?

    Long story I fell for a guy who's currently living with his now ex-girlfriend. I'm trying to trust him but I don't. I've tried to break it off with him but he breaks me down by begging to be with me and he's trying to leave. He broke up with her because of a lot of reasons and...
    Flowerpush Flowerpush 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I'm 19 and I have the chance of a lifetime to

    move to Florida to move in with my older brother and his fiancé. It's always been a dream to live there. I grew up being the "baby" in my family, youngest out of 5. Due to bad decisions my parents made, my siblings and I were inseparable. They pretty much raised me. I was...
    LaBellaVita19 LaBellaVita19 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 24

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    The people in my school are terrible people.

    They act like their your friend over a text message and when you get to school they want nothing to do with you. They play with your emotions. They are bad examples. I have truly never met anyone like these people. I moved to the school two years ago. They don't let you be you...
    thatsme55 thatsme55 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    Interracial Love

    The other night I asked my dad if I could go to the movies with a guy friend, him being my boyfriend of two weeks, I wanted my dad to meet him. I told my father he was black and he hasn't spoke to me since. I didn't get to go to the movies either. I don't know if I should just...
    hollyolly02 hollyolly02 16-17, F 24 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    Ok so iv just realized

    that I'm too much if people pleaser and have been so my whole life. I have been trying so hard to get my fathers approval and he's never given it to me. And never will. But iv tried to do so many things to get his approval including my career path, shifting to another country...
    radisglad radisglad 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Bare with me please it's a long story

    but I do need help! Okay so I worked in a photo studio place and as I love photography I figured I'd finally found a job I could stay in for life! But unfortunately the job was not what I thought it'd be. I didn't receive proper training, it was an incredibly bitchy...
    monstahmash monstahmash 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 28 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 11 Responses May 26

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    I smoked weed for the first time how do I help

    this feeling wear off? I took too many big hits and I feel like burping/barfing and I can't and I can't feel my arms