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    My phone just died and I want to buy an iPhone

    6. Everyone is saying not to buy one and that I should buy a 5s. Can someone tell me why I should better buy the 5s or why I should just invest in the 6? Thank you.
    IsaBx IsaBx 18-21, T 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have troubles with conversation :( I always

    talk too much and or share too much so there's conversations dry up fast. I never know where to pause to leave mystery for them to wonder and talk also
    miz19 miz19 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm 17 and my parents moved in my adult cousin

    and his wife because they got in an argument,with my aunt.I don't have my own room I sleep on an old couch that has springs coming out of it.Its also my senior year so I have to study for my SATs but I have no where to study nor do I have privacy.I also have a butt load of...
    Stephanie4503 Stephanie4503 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    How is it a guy can tell you

    that he loves you and truly means it then turn around and say he meant it's just friends but yet kisses me every morning before he goes to work as we tell each other to have a good day and it ain't little peck kisses its a full blow I kiss which is sweet and oh so nice what's...
    mouse2816 mouse2816 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Crush

    I have a crush and I am shy to tell him shold I tell mim? help
    fullofshannonjoy fullofshannonjoy 16-17, F 23 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    I need to talk to somebody right

    now who is ready to help me and not judge me please
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 5 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I need advice... I just need someone to help me

    and just listen about my crazy life.. I don't know what I should do anymore, should I let my aunt be a part of my life or not?
    Muppo23 Muppo23 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am sick of everything!

    I don't want to do anything, or even try. Just want to disappear and be done. Sad huh!
    MRP223 MRP223 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 13

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    Interracial Love

    The other night I asked my dad if I could go to the movies with a guy friend, him being my boyfriend of two weeks, I wanted my dad to meet him. I told my father he was black and he hasn't spoke to me since. I didn't get to go to the movies either. I don't know if I should just...
    hollyolly02 hollyolly02 16-17, F 24 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    Last night my dad told me not to grow up to fast

    and I'm his baby girl, idk what to do cuz I've pretty much always been like this I'm just more open now, idk how to respond now like what do I do?
    JustKeepSpinning JustKeepSpinning 13-15, F 6 Responses Aug 17

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    Input Quickly Please

    I have received some disturbing text messages from an EP member. This person has also written a blog in the past few minutes saying "good bye" Do you fine EPers think I should start calling high schools in this persons home town and try to reach a GC to intervene...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 13 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    So..there's this cute class clown in my class

    and...yeah so I need advice or help to see if he likes me or not..so basically..he's always the center of the class's attention and he's a class clown,the teachers really like him since he's funny and smart and has a bright personality,he's also pretty sporty and all too. So I'm...
    bunnychubz bunnychubz 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Any bad girl or something similar in here?

    Please message me. I don't need judgmental person . thanks.
    earlywoman earlywoman 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    From a GIRL. Guys, don't take it personal I

    just want a girl's point of view on my situation. Anyways, I need boy advice from a girl who's experience, or not doesn't matter lol
    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 11 Responses May 26

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    Torn And Confused...

    I'm 18 and a virgin... I've been wanting to have sex for a while but I've always been "scared" to do it... in the past I've lost a lot of guys because I wouldn't have sex with them... I just started talking to this guy and told him that I'm not looking for a serious relationship...
    YoungandConfused345 YoungandConfused345 18-21, F 25 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    My Marriage

    I need advice on my marriage. My husband and I have been through some really rough times, and now even though we are a lot stronger I can't let go of the hurt we've caused each other. At times it felt like a game, who could hurt each other the most, it was a cycle that none of us...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 77 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    I'm getting a pregnancy test later today.

    I'm really scared. Help me?
    halfpace halfpace 16-17, F 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    Everytime I stand up I get very dizzy

    and my eyesight is filled with black spots. Sometimes everything gets black and I have to lean on something for support so I don't collapse and faint. I really don't know why this happens so much because I eat very healthy and I don't have any medical issues - that I know of.
    IsaBx IsaBx 18-21, T 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm 31 .And was sheltered my whole life my

    parents homeschool me. So,I didn't make friends in school. I'm shy. So,what I'm asking is how do you make friends?
    lisa00 lisa00 31-35 10 Responses May 16

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    I really need advice what do I do

    if I'm falling in love with my cousins bf and she's doing him wrong any ways she has another man and he is moving down here Wednesday and I don't wanna see the guy I like hurt
    COUNTRYGIRL9658 COUNTRYGIRL9658 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    How do you end a convo with someone

    who is busy at work? this guy I like we text at work sometimes and I know he replies to me when he's clearly busy (which is okay) I'm not complaining lol but I just feel bad distracting him from work. I usually say "well I'll let ya get back to work" but I say that too much. How...
    miz19 miz19 18-21, F 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M 29 Responses Apr 28

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    Ok I'm an ordinary guy in my fourties trying

    to restart my life. I broke up with the woman I've been with for fifteen year's about 4 month's ago. Everyone in my life tell's me I am a good looking man and I believe them. I just can't get over how dam shy I am. I see it as a flaw and want to use it as my strength. I am sick...
    Encontrados Encontrados 36-40, M 2 Responses May 22

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    I'm a 21 year old girl.

    I've never been with another girl. I want to. I don't even know where to start though. How do I go about it? How do I know if the girl I may be interested in is into me? What if she's straight and I accidentally come out to a straight girl who freaks out and tells everyone...
    NotaDisneyPrincess NotaDisneyPrincess 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I want to go to college in California.

    But it means leaving my entire family behind in Europe. :C What should I do?
    SeanNation SeanNation 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My boyfriend and I have lived together

    for 5 years..I have always encouraged him to pursue his dreams, that I will be by his side. Recently he applied for a great job, unfortunately the only concrete prospects that have come up so far are in cities over 6 hours away from where we currently live. He didn't say a word...
    fallingxphoenix fallingxphoenix 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I need some more fashion advice please ASAP!

    same rules from last time girls can be any age to message me guys please be under 25 thanks (: ASAP!! (;
    youngadult14 youngadult14 13-15, F Aug 30

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    My grades are so low.

    School this year is very important. It will decide my level of learning and what class I'll be in next year. The problem is I lack motivation. Whenever I look at my textbook I just don't want to do it. My friends are always lecturing me to work harder or at least show some...
    asiaxn asiaxn 13-15, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am just in such a funk in my life.

    I am looking for someone to share advice with maybe help one another out and just have someone to enjoy chatting with online. Nothing serious, no meeting just someone to have fun and talk with.
    snowbabe3 snowbabe3 22-25, F 10 Responses Jul 9

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate

    for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship though. Here's the problem.. Please help & if you can, give advice. I'm really upset so don't be sarcastic or rude.. I'm already...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 9

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    I need advice- I've been having a.

    . Online relationship with this amazing guy but I'm scared of things getting so far I love him and want him happy and don't want to say no to him, I'm afraid of telling him this and hurting him
    whateverforever22 whateverforever22 18-21, T 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't really need advice,

    I just want your opinion. But if you have some advice if love to hear it. A week ago I found out I was pregnant, I kind of assumed I was about 6 or 7 weeks, since that was the last time I had sex, but when my grandma took me to get checked out they told me I was 3 and a half...
    emmyrose41 emmyrose41 16-17, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    There is a boy I like in my class.

    It's summer now so school is over and the classes will split when school starts again. We have been flirting a bit for about a half year but both has been to shy to acctually make the first move. Now that we didn't get in the same class I won't be able to be around him...
    Zelo01 Zelo01 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 14

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    (So,I don't go into detail

    or anything, and probably never will. It's not something I like to talk about. But it is kind of a touchy subject, so if that bothers you, you may block me (assuming you're in my circle) . I don't bring it up much. But I could really use some advice ...) I realize things would...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 15

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    More like help. I wanna go to Jamie t's concert

    tomorrow but I don't think I'll make it :(
    halfpace halfpace 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Relationship Advice

    Ok so I'm going to try to cram 3 years worth of information into one medium length post. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with the same man for 3 years now. Half of that time we have been living together in our own apartment. He is 28 now so 4 years older than...
    an2012 an2012 22-25, F 11 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I don't know what to do with my life.

    I'm seventeen. No "real" friends. I'm all alone in my room every night with my black light on listening to music and wishing someone would talk to me, make me feel like they care for my existence. I'm really stupid I know because school lets me now I am and it reminds me...
    Gus1996 Gus1996 16-17, M 4 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    I don't like the situation I'm in,

    me and this guy he is white but with a black "swag", and he's not ignorant he is smart. we have been talking, which he approached me first. When we first started talking he asked me to show him my bra size. I told him we are not on that level, so he accepted our level of Talking...
    GisselleButCallMeGiGi GisselleButCallMeGiGi 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    The people in my school are terrible people.

    They act like their your friend over a text message and when you get to school they want nothing to do with you. They play with your emotions. They are bad examples. I have truly never met anyone like these people. I moved to the school two years ago. They don't let you be you...
    thatsme55 thatsme55 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    Ok so I'm going to this gig next week

    and a n old classmate seems to be going (said it on the Facebook event). I'm just dreading to see my ex because she asked him as her grad date last year for the graduation party and it would be so annoying to see him. How can I get through the night to have a good time?! Urgh Im...
    90slove 90slove 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    my ex and I broke up,

    but then we started talking again -- and things are better then they ever were with him. But before he was flirting a little more and saying some sexual stuff, although I never really responded to them verrry playfully because I was just unsure of the moment and timing that I...
    miz19 miz19 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I Really Need Advice About This Guy...

    I've written about him before, but not gotten much response.  What I want to know is, should I be blunt and just say that I have a personal question to ask him?  I need to know if our relationship 9 years ago meant anything to him because sometimes he acts like it does...
    Licorice Licorice 31-35, F 41 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    It Sucks When People Don't Comment

    When People write on ep "I need advice" a large number of people read these stories and don't comment or give adivice. Only by leaving a comment or advice are you able to help others. Don't be afraid to leave advice Remember you can give advice it doesn't mean they have...
    rickysworld rickysworld 26-30, T 28 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    Hi all !! I need to talk to somebody

    who won't judge me and understand me. Somebody elder who will be able to help me stop being insecure and depressed. I want to change my life and start feeling good about myself but somehow I fail everytime. I love a person very dearly but due to my obsessive behaviour he too is...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17

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    Ugh. My bf's best friend is a serious mooch!

    He gets us for money, food, clothes, weed, alcohol an anything else we might have constantly! I continue to tell my bf that i cant stand him living off of us! But my bf continues to let him slide and keep taking the little bit that we have! I bring it up to him all the time...
    StephsReality StephsReality 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 24

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    LovelyDeadly LovelyDeadly 16-17, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Basically, I've been invited to a fancy dress

    party next Saturday night & the theme is schoolgirl so I've narrowed it down to four different outfits. I've no idea which to get so I need to know your opinions & I'm not interested in any of the "you're only 15" or "you shouldn't be doing that stuff".1. 2. 3. 4...
    AllyXO AllyXO 13-15, F 32 Responses Apr 13

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    My friends sister always believed you could be

    in love with someone without wanting to be with them sexually. And honestly I'm starting to believe her. Now this may already be some common known thing that I'm not aware of. But for me this is a whole new this. And this is why I'm starting to believe what my friends sister...
    PierceTheOvercastKid PierceTheOvercastKid 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    So im thinking of giving this to my crush

    as a birthday present like making a nice card. And I wrote this poem for her. I want it to be friendly I don't want her to suspect yet, but hopefully to remember it. I'm wondering if it wud be good and doesn't sound a little too friendly. Any advice is super groovy thanks...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 2

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    So I was taking with this guy from here

    and then we started texting me. At first it was ok but then he asked me out I said no and that I wasn't wanting to date him and we had only talked for 10-20 minutes. Then later on he asked me again and I said ok again. A couple of days later he stared to pressure me about it, I...
    rottenroses rottenroses 16-17, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    So the problem is my parents

    and relatives are telling me to go to our community college and get into a med program (Gateway) that allows you easy access into Med school. Thing is, I want to go to my dream uni which as I am top 10% of my class I gain automatic admission so there won't be a problem of me...
    tprang1203 tprang1203 16-17, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I take a long time to open up often,

    and I'm not really affectionate until afterwards after I trust them. And now when I try to be affectionate to him he seems like he doesn't like it. so I asked and him if he doesn't like it when I do and he said he's used to my personality which is non loving and affectionate so...
    miz19 miz19 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Dear all, I need your advice.

    Yesterday something scary happened to me. I was in the theatre where we saw a great play and then there was a meeting with actors and the director and spectators. It was a foreing play that brought me nostalgia and ment a lot to me. At the end my friends asked (almost pushed) me...
    Memonster Memonster 22-25 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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