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    Help!!!

    I need some advise. I recently broke up with my finance. I was with him for 5years. Now a family friend has come to me and said that he is in love with me. He was my first boyfriend and my first kiss when i was younger, so i've always had a bit of a crush on him. I have told him...
    commodore720 commodore720 18-21, F 2 Responses May 17, 2007

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    I didn't make much friends

    because I had problems in that past(bullying). I am a nerd at heart so I always concentrated on school work and didn't get why so many other people weren't as concerned. Secondly, I made the mistake about only talking about school with friends. Thirdly, ever friend I made in my...
    appleschairfloor appleschairfloor 18-21 Jun 26

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    Long story short, I think my Step Dad is

    cheating on my mom. What do I do? I don't want to be the one to tear our family apart. :(
    kashleym kashleym 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 21, 2014

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    Help! I need advice on how to get a boring desk

    job with free time and a desktop PC with internet access!!!
    s331ng3y35 s331ng3y35 26-30 Oct 24, 2014

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    I need ADVISE! So I just washed my hair with

    this nice smelling shampoo and I already dried my hair-OBVIOUSLY. BUT anyways,I need advise...well more like I need answers but whatever so I am planning to straighten my hair with a straightening iron because you see,I have this naturally curly hair so when my hair gets wet it...
    potatogirlz potatogirlz 13-15, F 1 Response May 6

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    How To Get Back A Friend?

    In short terms, a year ago, I got pregnant (unexpectedly) and I was so close to a friend (Marco), so I didn't tell him I was, cuz I knew what he'd say (abortion is the only option) and I wasn't sure that was what I wanted to hear (4 months after I had a natural abortion), so I...
    tayal tayal 26-30, F 1 Response May 23, 2013

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    So my close friend is going through some issues

    atm with anxiety but for past year she's been the worst best friend to me, snide nasty comments and as I've had mental health issues myself, I've tried talking to her, being there for her and generally looked out for her SO many times but she always finds a way to throw it back...
    glitterme23 glitterme23 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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        Nobody Cares!

    I couldn't write any title that could describe my status now. It is just a mere moment of remembering pain and finally decided to write about it. I even searched Google looking if anyone had felt what I am feeling. It is one question I would ask you and you honestly answer then...
    feelmywriting feelmywriting 22-25, F Sep 16, 2014

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    This girl that I really like is dating a guy

    who is an ******* to her and she likes me but is terrified to break up with him and idk what to tell her to do. I would protect her so I'm not worried about him trying anything like hurting her, but he has a history of self harm so what do I tell her???
    Dillon95 Dillon95 18-21, M Apr 8, 2014

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    Please Help Me Save Her Life???

    My best friend (a girl) is in LOVEEE with this guy. All this guy does is toy with her. He doesn't even LIKE her as a friend. He flirts with her only for the satisfaction of girls LIKING him. My friend is well aware of that but is still in love with him despite that. She loves...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    I want to ask my best friend-

    who is a girl for help. But to be honest, I'm a little afraid to open up. She seems to be a lot stronger than me sometimes. And I feel weak. I'm a little stuck right now and it's so rare. Does any body have any advise please?
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 2

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    Found Biological Father Stressed, Help! Got no responce, come on ppl.

    I found my Biological Father after 42 years, mail him a letter with a few pics. I finally spoke with him, such a great feeling. He has been married for the last 31 years, I have two blood brother and a sister that he adopted when she was a baby all three are well in thier...
    tsamp26 tsamp26 41-45, F Oct 5, 2013

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    I've been dating this girl

    for almost a month, and we still haven't kissed, we've hung out a bunch and neither of us has made a move on it. I'm sure like always it's gonna be my job as the guy to make the first move, but how do I go about it? And is 1 month too soon for our first kiss?
    wildmike1998 wildmike1998 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    How Do I Get My Friend To Pay Me Back?

    I just wanted some advise on how to get her to give me my money back? My friend (of 10 years) came to visit me and my bf in the alps over Christmas to go skiing and spend some time together. She brought her bf. At the time that we booked the flights she didn't have Internet...
    einsteinet einsteinet 18-21 Apr 10, 2013

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    Ok the wrong thing was a fell in love with some

    one!! That person was engaged and told me he wasn't happy in his relationship and wanted to leave only thing holding him there was his child!! The fiancée won't believe me he cheated but I have evidence should I send it to her?? She sent me a nasty email stating I'm a lier and...
    leahgraham leahgraham 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 25, 2014

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    I Dont Know What To Do, My First Love.

    Well, I'm 17 and I'm from Brazil, so sorry about the wrond spelling. I dated a guy named Lucas, and he was awesome. Before him, I had kissed only two boys and I was really naive and etc. I met him last year, I was 16. We met at school, he asked me on a date and I agreed. I didn't...
    flaviadmgs flaviadmgs 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 19, 2013

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    I'm 25 and I have been in my current

    relationship for almost two years, now originally my mind use to play ideas of us getting married and having kids, lately I've been wondering if we're going to last. I've started to notice little things that are controlling-like I told him I want my own friends separate and away...
    trigger1326 trigger1326 26-30, F Apr 9, 2014

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    Hey guys! Its my first story here in this

    experience .. I need to get this out of my chest .. To begin with , I am 17 years old girl who is wishing to continue her studies in the UK .... I have 2 married sister and 1 married brother and another brother who is single... they are all older than me on more than 9 years...
    InLove000 InLove000 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 15, 2014

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    He Won't Leave My Life...or Maybe I Don't Want Him To?

    My ex and I dated for a few months tops. Then he broke up with me due to me having too big of feelings and him not being ready. 4 years later..I am married and he is engaged. I am really happy where I am at. and I would think that he is to. It just seems that we never completely...
    amity amity 18-21, F 3 Responses May 19, 2007

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    If i wrote what i really feel on dating

    websites I' m 35 have no job no friends never had a relationship i had to move back in with parents i feel like i'm living a lie with a fake smile on my face i'd had counselling in the past but nothing works had a drinking problem since 1995 taken lots of drugs smoke to much i...
    Roger48 Roger48 36-40, M Sep 20, 2014

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    CuteChloe14 CuteChloe14 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 7, 2014

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    Ok so apparently women are starting to find me

    attractive and want to be more than just friends. I'm dating this one girl now and she's amazing, no one has ever made me feel this happy before, for some reason though I still worry myself sick about losing her even though I have nothing to worry about, and I get a little bit...
    wildmike1998 wildmike1998 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    Giving gifts for holidays to nieces/nephews

    In their presence and not receiving any acknowledgment or gratitude. (As well as their parents also) etiquette for handing this anyone?
    BigSky1 BigSky1 51-55, F 6 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    There's a girl who likes me a lot,

    and I feel the same towards her, the only problem is we live far apart. She told my friend the only issue with liking me is the distance and that she would have to think about it. I don't know whether to leave her be and let her make the decision or tell her that I understand...
    wildmike1998 wildmike1998 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 23, 2014

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    **Pretty long experience to read**I met my ex

    boyfriend when he was in prison. For some reason bad boys always cough my attention. I have two different experiences and they are both related to 'prison love.' Not sure with who I should begin first, I guess I will start with my ex. I had a friend in prison, he had a cellmate...
    Rebeccac88 Rebeccac88 26-30, F 3 Responses May 7

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    My fiancé called me bipolar n told me am sick

    n i need help. He was talking about a lot of mean stuff too but i shut off my phone remove myself from Facebook n everything else. I don't know what to do, how can someone u love be so cruel n mean. I thought he was better than that. Can you please tell me should i broke it off...
    ZisMeAt25 ZisMeAt25 22-25, F Feb 16

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    I Need Advise..

    i had unprteted sex and then the next day i got my period bu jus to be sure i took the morning after pill bu my periods stopped and then they came back and stopped again and im not sure if there bac yet or not im pure confused whats going on at all?!
    winniethepooh111 winniethepooh111 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    When I first saw her crying at the back at the

    bus I didn't recognize her right away. She was the shy girl in my high school, who would eat alone and sometimes go to empty classrooms during lunch time. She was pretty but didn't know it because she'd always hide her face from everyone and wear a hoodie over her head. She wore...
    nextdirector nextdirector 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 31, 2014

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    This guy contacted me through Facebook,

    he told me that he used to like me and he thinks I'm cute and asked if we could "hangout" sometime. Without thinking I told him yes and now I'm having second thoughts. I "hangout" with my sister, I "hangout" with my friends, I don't want to be a jackass and make assumptions, but...
    Annapie Annapie 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2014

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    15Chelsea 15Chelsea 16-17, M 22 hrs ago

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    So I'm going on a job interview tomorrow

    and I do not what to wear. I typically dress rather fancy on a daily bases in outfits such as dresses and heels, but I don't want to look over dressed for a job at a fast food restaurant. Any advice on what type of outfit would be appropriate ???
    MonsterRrR MonsterRrR 16-17, F Dec 16, 2014

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    I Feel Depressed

    Hi. I'm sorry this may seem to be just another teenage drama, but whenever I tell my friends I know they don't understand. They just pretend. Which is alright. But I feel really stuffed up at the moment and I NEED to know if anyone's 'Going Through' anything similar. Where...
    AllieAlex AllieAlex 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 21, 2012

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    What Would Yall Do?

    so i am a young army wife just turned 18 in march and my husband and i have been married for almost a year and he has been depolyed 8 months of it and i have had to deal with his insane mother and when i say insane i mean insane. she like to control everything...
    felgaboo felgaboo 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 22, 2008

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    I Am Having An Affair With A Married Women

    i have been having an emotional relationship an physical one, with a married women for 6mths... i have told her that she needs to try an fix her married or see where it is going to go. she refuses to do this, says that she is affraid of losing me. she has had conversation with...
    ljo1984 ljo1984 26-30 May 4, 2012

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    Can't stand a liar. So much is going on in this

    house. I want a divorce but it cost so much money to do so . I am ready to move on with my life.
    bedrock70 bedrock70 41-45, M Jan 24

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    Realizing And What I Want To Do

    I love giving people advise.. its something i'v always loved to do. I always wanted to have a sort of blog that helps people in times when they might need a little support. Though my life is hard at times, i'm realizing it could be worse. I've seen many stories on EP and all...
    lovelyjxox lovelyjxox 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 28, 2013

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    I Am So Lonely!

    I need to write this down and hopefully someone can give me some advI have been married for 5 years, have a 2 year old baby. When my husband and I met, it was love at first sight. However, in the past 3 years, we have grown so far apart. He doesn't talk to me at all, he is...
    carlex64 carlex64 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    No Longer Friends

    Hi everyone, I'm feeling really alone and betrayed and sad, I need some advice... here's my story 10 months ago I started dating this guy and he is the first guy I have ever dated. Ever since I told the news to my really close friend who I've known for about 16 years, she...
    squigglything squigglything 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

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    I need some girl advise

    so no guys!! I just am falling head over heals for this guy who is my age. He is hot and funny. But I'm really paranoid about him. He just talks to a lot of girls at once so I don't know if he likes me back or not. It's hair really confusing and I'm kind of in this other...
    bellsmarrie bellsmarrie 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 15, 2014

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    The Feeling Of Not Doing What You Love Because Of Someone Else's Advise

    I actually am dissapointed today because i wanted to buy a motorcycle and one of my friends stopped me. He is a expert at engineering so I asked him for advise and he said "its a stupid decision.. please buy a car". I really love riding bikes.. and I cant afford to maintain a...
    neo89x neo89x 26-30 Nov 17, 2013

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    What Should I Do?

    I'm new to the experiene project and i'm sharing my story with all of you now and asking for advise... I've been married to a nice man for 3 yrs now...he's the bread winner while i'm doing my exams so that i can get a job too, so i do all the house work and errads and everything...
    depressed10 depressed10 31-35 6 Responses May 21, 2009

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    I have a woman whom I belive she's good

    for me and I never date anyone apart from her gave her my love something came up which really supprise me all her family was in our place because the junior brother just married so all came stay in our place over night but to my surprise I wake I wake up at midnight found my...
    femireal femireal 36-40, M Sep 27, 2014

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    I was sexually assulted on nov 22,

    2013. I have to apear in court tommarow and idk if im ready for that... what if he pleads not guilty?????? And i have to talk about what happened in court??? Im freaking out! Any advise??????
    KakeLove KakeLove 13-15, F 2 Responses May 26, 2014

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    My girlfriend wants me to be less mushy/sappy

    and just a tad more masculine, I certainly look and mostly act masculine, but I'm also in touch with my soft side and enjoy being cute and romantic with her. Any advise on how to meet her needs?
    wildmike1998 wildmike1998 16-17, M Jan 28

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    Basically tonight my sisters boyfriend

    and my sister were in the kitchen, and me and my bf were in bed, I was in just a big baggy top, we then went down to the kitchen to make a heat wrap, blah blah blah... Anyway, my bf got angry about this, and made me apologise to him for not wearing any pj bottoms, even tho I had...
    laurg123 laurg123 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 18

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    I Hope He Loves Me Too :(

    I have this friend of mine and i like him so much.Im so happy when im with him. I cant hold my feelings to him anymore but I dont have the guts to tell him..He always wants to talk with me but I feel from him that he only loves me as a friend... Im just sad that nothing happens...
    sadredrose sadredrose 18-21 1 Response Apr 7, 2011

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