I Need Advise

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    So my close friend is going through some issues

    atm with anxiety but for past year she's been the worst best friend to me, snide nasty comments and as I've had mental health issues myself, I've tried talking to her, being there for her and generally looked out for her SO many times but she always finds a way to throw it back...
    glitterme23 glitterme23
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 29, 2015

    So I'm going on a job interview tomorrow

    and I do not what to wear. I typically dress rather fancy on a daily bases in outfits such as dresses and heels, but I don't want to look over dressed for a job at a fast food restaurant. Any advice on what type of outfit would be appropriate ???
    MonsterRrR MonsterRrR
    18-21, F
    Dec 16, 2014

    He Won't Leave My Life...or Maybe I Don't Want Him To?

    My ex and I dated for a few months tops. Then he broke up with me due to me having too big of feelings and him not being ready. 4 years later..I am married and he is engaged. I am really happy where I am at. and I would think that he is to. It just seems that we never completely...
    amity amity
    22-25, F
    3 Responses May 19, 2007

    More like advise' just input.

    =) I feel like I made the right decision. Saturday morning I went to visit my now boyfriend in prison!! it's official now' and I feel good about it. We had a great time and conversation. at the end our first kiss!! I promised him I will open my heart to him and allow him to keep...
    Rbkkmpz Rbkkmpz
    26-30, F
    May 25, 2015

    Today in french we had a test on the book i

    didn't reed and instead of writing nothing i wrote down that i am simply not apple to handle my depression to the level were i could do french (I hate french) and it felt really good to write it down. I actually gave it in as my test paper and left the classroom. A friend of...
    Clairexy Clairexy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 13, 2016

    Giving gifts for holidays to nieces/nephews

    In their presence and not receiving any acknowledgment or gratitude. (As well as their parents also) etiquette for handing this anyone?
    BigSky1 BigSky1
    51-55, F
    7 Responses Dec 29, 2014

    Ok the wrong thing was a fell in love with some

    one!! That person was engaged and told me he wasn't happy in his relationship and wanted to leave only thing holding him there was his child!! The fiancée won't believe me he cheated but I have evidence should I send it to her?? She sent me a nasty email stating I'm a lier and...
    leahgraham leahgraham
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 25, 2014

    I didn't make much friends

    because I had problems in that past(bullying). I am a nerd at heart so I always concentrated on school work and didn't get why so many other people weren't as concerned. Secondly, I made the mistake about only talking about school with friends. Thirdly, ever friend I made in my...
    deleted deleted
    Jun 26, 2015

    I need ADVISE! So I just washed my hair with

    this nice smelling shampoo and I already dried my hair-OBVIOUSLY. BUT anyways,I need advise...well more like I need answers but whatever so I am planning to straighten my hair with a straightening iron because you see,I have this naturally curly hair so when my hair gets wet it...
    potatogirlz potatogirlz
    13-15, F
    1 Response May 6, 2015

    So I'm a female and I live with three girls.

    Up until a few months ago I was in a 2.5 year relationship with a guy. Since we broke up I slept with two guys. A few weeks ago my life took a turn for the complicated. My roommate and I have been living together for three years. She's my very best friend and we love eachother...
    freakaleak95 freakaleak95
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 1, 2015

    Please Help Me Save Her Life???

    My best friend (a girl) is in LOVEEE with this guy. All this guy does is toy with her. He doesn't even LIKE her as a friend. He flirts with her only for the satisfaction of girls LIKING him. My friend is well aware of that but is still in love with him despite that. She loves...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Oct 18, 2011

    When I first saw her crying at the back at the

    bus I didn't recognize her right away. She was the shy girl in my high school, who would eat alone and sometimes go to empty classrooms during lunch time. She was pretty but didn't know it because she'd always hide her face from everyone and wear a hoodie over her head. She wore...
    nextdirector nextdirector
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 31, 2014

    How To Get Back A Friend?

    In short terms, a year ago, I got pregnant (unexpectedly) and I was so close to a friend (Marco), so I didn't tell him I was, cuz I knew what he'd say (abortion is the only option) and I wasn't sure that was what I wanted to hear (4 months after I had a natural abortion), so I...
    tayal tayal
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 23, 2013

    No Longer Friends

    Hi everyone, I'm feeling really alone and betrayed and sad, I need some advice... here's my story 10 months ago I started dating this guy and he is the first guy I have ever dated. Ever since I told the news to my really close friend who I've known for about 16 years, she...
    squigglything squigglything
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 17, 2013

    So, a couple months ago I became friends with a

    girl, I met up with her and her boyfriend and some other friends. Her and I didn't hit it off very well but her boyfriend and I did.We became close friends and he started liking me as I did him. But since he was In arelationship I didn't pursue it. Now they have broken up...
    Bas2212 Bas2212
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 2, 2016

    Basically tonight my sisters boyfriend

    and my sister were in the kitchen, and me and my bf were in bed, I was in just a big baggy top, we then went down to the kitchen to make a heat wrap, blah blah blah... Anyway, my bf got angry about this, and made me apologise to him for not wearing any pj bottoms, even tho I had...
    laurg123 laurg123
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 18, 2015

    My fiancé called me bipolar n told me am sick

    n i need help. He was talking about a lot of mean stuff too but i shut off my phone remove myself from Facebook n everything else. I don't know what to do, how can someone u love be so cruel n mean. I thought he was better than that. Can you please tell me should i broke it off...
    ZisMeAt25 ZisMeAt25
    26-30, F
    Feb 16, 2015

    I have a woman whom I belive she's good

    for me and I never date anyone apart from her gave her my love something came up which really supprise me all her family was in our place because the junior brother just married so all came stay in our place over night but to my surprise I wake I wake up at midnight found my...
    femireal femireal
    41-45, M
    Sep 27, 2014

    What Would Yall Do?

    so i am a young army wife just turned 18 in march and my husband and i have been married for almost a year and he has been depolyed 8 months of it and i have had to deal with his insane mother and when i say insane i mean insane. she like to control everything...
    felgaboo felgaboo
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 22, 2008

    I Feel Depressed

    Hi. I'm sorry this may seem to be just another teenage drama, but whenever I tell my friends I know they don't understand. They just pretend. Which is alright. But I feel really stuffed up at the moment and I NEED to know if anyone's 'Going Through' anything similar. Where...
    AllieAlex AllieAlex
    13-15, F
    1 Response Aug 21, 2012

    Well, Where do I start?

    ? I think my mum has lied about having cancer for attention. I wish it never crossed my mind, and she's my mum and all that, But, No surgery, no chemo, no radiotherapy, no pick lines, no follow up appointments no support offered... Ive cared for people with cancer, Im kind of...
    AspiringPsychologist55 AspiringPsychologist55
    22-25, F
    Mar 16, 2016

    What Should I Do?

    I'm new to the experiene project and i'm sharing my story with all of you now and asking for advise... I've been married to a nice man for 3 yrs now...he's the bread winner while i'm doing my exams so that i can get a job too, so i do all the house work and errads and everything...
    depressed10 depressed10
    6 Responses May 21, 2009
    sadhamster sadhamster
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 1, 2015

    **Pretty long experience to read**I met my ex

    boyfriend when he was in prison. For some reason bad boys always cough my attention. I have two different experiences and they are both related to 'prison love.' Not sure with who I should begin first, I guess I will start with my ex. I had a friend in prison, he had a cellmate...
    Rbkkmpz Rbkkmpz
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 7, 2015

    So I've been dating my girlfriend

    for nearly three months now, and the furthest we've gone is making out. Lately she's been talking about sex a lot more, she'll randomly text me things like "do you wanna touch my butt" or "do you wanna touch my boobs" I never know how to respond to those questions because I want...
    wildmike1998 wildmike1998
    18-21, M
    Sep 11, 2015

    Ok so apparently women are starting to find me

    attractive and want to be more than just friends. I'm dating this one girl now and she's amazing, no one has ever made me feel this happy before, for some reason though I still worry myself sick about losing her even though I have nothing to worry about, and I get a little bit...
    wildmike1998 wildmike1998
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 30, 2014

    Hey guys! Its my first story here in this

    experience .. I need to get this out of my chest .. To begin with , I am 17 years old girl who is wishing to continue her studies in the UK .... I have 2 married sister and 1 married brother and another brother who is single... they are all older than me on more than 9 years...
    InLove000 InLove000
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 15, 2014

    I've been dating this girl

    for almost a month, and we still haven't kissed, we've hung out a bunch and neither of us has made a move on it. I'm sure like always it's gonna be my job as the guy to make the first move, but how do I go about it? And is 1 month too soon for our first kiss?
    wildmike1998 wildmike1998
    18-21, M
    Mar 28, 2015

    I Am Having An Affair With A Married Women

    i have been having an emotional relationship an physical one, with a married women for 6mths... i have told her that she needs to try an fix her married or see where it is going to go. she refuses to do this, says that she is affraid of losing me. she has had conversation with...
    ljo1984 ljo1984
    May 4, 2012

    Can't stand a liar. So much is going on in this

    house. I want a divorce but it cost so much money to do so . I am ready to move on with my life.
    deleted deleted
    Jan 24, 2015

    My girlfriend wants me to be less mushy/sappy

    and just a tad more masculine, I certainly look and mostly act masculine, but I'm also in touch with my soft side and enjoy being cute and romantic with her. Any advise on how to meet her needs?
    wildmike1998 wildmike1998
    18-21, M
    Jan 28, 2015

        Nobody Cares!

    I couldn't write any title that could describe my status now. It is just a mere moment of remembering pain and finally decided to write about it. I even searched Google looking if anyone had felt what I am feeling. It is one question I would ask you and you honestly answer then...
    feelmywriting feelmywriting
    26-30, F
    Sep 16, 2014

    This guy contacted me through Facebook,

    he told me that he used to like me and he thinks I'm cute and asked if we could "hangout" sometime. Without thinking I told him yes and now I'm having second thoughts. I "hangout" with my sister, I "hangout" with my friends, I don't want to be a jackass and make assumptions, but...
    Annapie Annapie
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 1, 2014

    How Do I Get My Friend To Pay Me Back?

    I just wanted some advise on how to get her to give me my money back? My friend (of 10 years) came to visit me and my bf in the alps over Christmas to go skiing and spend some time together. She brought her bf. At the time that we booked the flights she didn't have Internet...
    einsteinet einsteinet
    Apr 10, 2013

    So at 11pm tonight I was outside

    for a walk. It was dark but the path was lit with the amber street light. Then two you travellers or gypsy kids ran over to me. Pretty much the usual taunting thing they do. Next thing the 8 year old pulled out a gun. And tried to rob me . I think it was an expensive pellet gun...
    deleted deleted
    Jun 3, 2015

    Long story short, I think my Step Dad is

    cheating on my mom. What do I do? I don't want to be the one to tear our family apart. :(
    kashleym kashleym
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 21, 2014

    so my bf and I feel like we are growing apart,

    he never answers my texts, and I don't know if I should brake up with him or not... I can't deside.... I love his so much but I'm just feeling like I'm being used... what if he is only using me to make himself look better?
    izzyvw27 izzyvw27
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Aug 9, 2015

    Last night, had a bad argument with the guy i

    was seeing, we broke up last night. He was my best friend, and even though i know he does not want to speak to me anymore. I would still like to say sorry for my part in everything, not sure if i should try to contact him, or leave it alone , very confunsed, and sad,
    jingle427 jingle427
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Dec 5, 2015

    I am meeting a large group of new people on my

    own tomorrow. I'm feeling extremely anxious. I'm seeing this opportunity as a way to make more friends, but I want to come off confident and outgoing. Please help!
    drunkinlove23 drunkinlove23
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 27, 2015

    Help! I need advice on how to get a boring desk

    job with free time and a desktop PC with internet access!!!
    s331ng3y35 s331ng3y35
    Oct 24, 2014

    I Need Advise

    so theres this girl from my class that i like since last year.a month later i told my friends.1 h. later 1 of them told to his girlfriend and she told half of the scool.i felt so shy i couldnt talk to any one.on valentines day i gave her flowers and everything worked great.2...
    victor8038 victor8038
    31-35, M
    1 Response Nov 10, 2013

    Complicated situation: this past week I

    attended a USY (Jewish youth group) convention and met this girl. On the last day of the convention (Thursday morning), during the last general session I wound up with my head on her shoulder and her head leaning against mine, and we were holding hands. I got the urge to kiss...
    marchdan marchdan
    18-21, M
    Jan 2, 2016


    I need some advise. I recently broke up with my finance. I was with him for 5years. Now a family friend has come to me and said that he is in love with me. He was my first boyfriend and my first kiss when i was younger, so i've always had a bit of a crush on him. I have told him...
    commodore720 commodore720
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 17, 2007

    I Need Advise..

    i had unprteted sex and then the next day i got my period bu jus to be sure i took the morning after pill bu my periods stopped and then they came back and stopped again and im not sure if there bac yet or not im pure confused whats going on at all?!
    winniethepooh111 winniethepooh111
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Jul 10, 2011

    I Hope He Loves Me Too :(

    I have this friend of mine and i like him so much.Im so happy when im with him. I cant hold my feelings to him anymore but I dont have the guts to tell him..He always wants to talk with me but I feel from him that he only loves me as a friend... Im just sad that nothing happens...
    sadredrose sadredrose
    1 Response Apr 7, 2011

    I Dont Know What To Do, My First Love.

    Well, I'm 17 and I'm from Brazil, so sorry about the wrond spelling. I dated a guy named Lucas, and he was awesome. Before him, I had kissed only two boys and I was really naive and etc. I met him last year, I was 16. We met at school, he asked me on a date and I agreed. I didn't...
    flaviadmgs flaviadmgs
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 19, 2013

    I have finally admitted to myself

    and my roommate that I am in love with her. Long story short, she does not feel the same way. Long story long, things got complicated when we started sleeping together. It's an on and off thing, currently off and is going to stay that way. However, sleeping together made my...
    freakaleak95 freakaleak95
    22-25, F
    Jan 4, 2016

    I want to ask my best friend-

    who is a girl for help. But to be honest, I'm a little afraid to open up. She seems to be a lot stronger than me sometimes. And I feel weak. I'm a little stuck right now and it's so rare. Does any body have any advise please?
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 2, 2015
    15Chelsea 15Chelsea
    18-21, M
    Aug 2, 2015

    I Am So Lonely!

    I need to write this down and hopefully someone can give me some advI have been married for 5 years, have a 2 year old baby. When my husband and I met, it was love at first sight. However, in the past 3 years, we have grown so far apart. He doesn't talk to me at all, he is...
    carlex64 carlex64
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jun 19, 2012

    There's a girl who likes me a lot,

    and I feel the same towards her, the only problem is we live far apart. She told my friend the only issue with liking me is the distance and that she would have to think about it. I don't know whether to leave her be and let her make the decision or tell her that I understand...
    wildmike1998 wildmike1998
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 23, 2014
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