I Need Change In My Life

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    this is the last month of the year

    and the last month of me being a teenager. my 20th birthday is coming soon. this year has been a rollercoaster for sure. it's been filled with happiness, sadness, heartache, anger, and just about every other emotion you can think of. I have learned a lot of lessons. first do not...
    jlw0119 jlw0119
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 1, 2015

    I think to myself that I can solve my life by

    thinking about what to do but life is not a cognitive problem to be solved. Life is the result of habits and decisions. I am working on a lot of things in my life and my life looks a lot different than it has in the past. I like having so many goals to focus on at one time...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 15, 2015

    It's Time

    I've been miserable too long, so finally I reached a point where I just can't anymore. There are periods of stagnation and darkness where we just sit and sit and indulge in our misery for a long time until it becomes impossible anymore. Then we face two options to end it...
    misasja misasja
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Jan 27, 2008

    I'm in a place where people have the wrong

    image of me, think I'm really weird from years before now. I haven't even talked to people because of social anxiety for a long time yet people still have opinions of me. I can't even make new friends who I could relate to because of this. I want to get away from this, live away...
    philobee philobee
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 16, 2014

    I like to live in a new city

    where I don't know anyone and start a clean slate
    filledspaces filledspaces
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 5, 2014

    I'av got complying problems with no solutions

    in sight o God I need light
    ojeezy ojeezy
    22-25, M
    1 Response Dec 17, 2015

    i want to recreate my life

    and have it my way so that i can be happy. the first thing i would do is make god heal me or send me someone who would pay for my medical care that i have needed for over a year now. then, when i got well, i would go and have a normal life and be with my family, make some new...
    lively2686 lively2686
    31-35, F
    Sep 5, 2015

    I want to be able to change what I feel

    and will be able to love someone new. I just feel so stuck right now.
    mabuhayka mabuhayka
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 16, 2015

    Someone from England message me?

    Need change of friends!xx
    MorticansDaughter98 MorticansDaughter98
    18-21, F
    Nov 8, 2014

    I know I should feel safe cause there's guys

    outside my door protecting me but I never feel comfortable with guns I'm the house :/
    notgranted42 notgranted42
    18-21, F
    Aug 18, 2015

    I Need A Long Trip.

    I've had a hard time lately. I'm involved in a four-year-relationship, I think I still like the guy and sometimes I do feel I love him, but I think I should break up with him. He's a liar. I found out he has wanted to break up with me, but he has desisted because he doesn't want...
    TraurigeFrau TraurigeFrau
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 5, 2010

    At this point in life I just need something

    or someone to come along and finally change my life for the better. I'm tired of feeling unhappy
    BlueMoonx BlueMoonx
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 12, 2015

    We All Need It...

    In life sometimes feelings change, people change, seasons change and it is ok. It's what goes on around all of us at any given moment. How do we decide what the right thing for us truly is.. endless hours of thought,deliberation, stress and considering who will be hurt in the...
    snowbunny1002 snowbunny1002
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jan 21, 2012

    I'm a lesbian and nobody knows it.

    I had a female partner for almost 8 years. I kept this as secret from my family and friends because I'm afraid they would castigate me. Now, I spend most of my time online chatting with butch and other females from different nation. I never feel comfortable talking about my...
    kceem88 kceem88
    22-25, F
    Jun 4, 2014

    I really need change in my life.

    I need to get out there and experience life. I need to stop being afraid. I need to show the world who I really am. My talents. My loving and caring ways. I need to show people that I can be a great person. I need to conquer my fears and overcome them. I need to believe in...
    AcousticSoul17 AcousticSoul17
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 12, 2014

    I don't know what I need,

    but I know it's something. I keep searching inside, trying to find the key that opens this vicious cycle. I want the day where something in me clicks again, and I find the strength I need to finally put my life together. I wish there was someone out there who could help...
    Safetysuit96 Safetysuit96
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 4, 2014

    So I mediated on this

    for a couple of days now and I really think it's the right choice. I'm leaving corporate america. God that feels so good to say. I am however going to stick it out until at least January or February of 2016 which is only a few months from now to save money and cash out a nice...
    peacesoullove peacesoullove
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 31, 2015

    today is a new day I am learning to not live in

    the past yes I am not perfect yes I have made mistakes but sometimes when life doesn't go as planned it's a blessing in disguise. I don't think I have a bad life I have went through hard and bad times but not a bad life. I am learning to love myself and not put my happiness in...
    jlw0119 jlw0119
    18-21, F
    Nov 3, 2015

    I need new, I need more

    for myself in order to make my happiness more than an added face. I need more than this town, I need more than these people
    kaitlyn135 kaitlyn135
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 18, 2015

    I start college soon & I'm

    so excited yet so scared. My boyfriend is going for a third year in a row so I don't feel too bad about going. I'm still scared though .~. What to do to help me there? Haha.
    xItsChelsx xItsChelsx
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 27, 2015

    All I have in my life right

    now is work, school and girl guides. Now girl guides I hate, an engineering degree is a lot of work, and work is almost hell on earth. After one particular shift where my supervisor, my one true nemesis, took great delight in giving me some bad news at the beginning of my shift...
    Ghaughty Ghaughty
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 6, 2014

    More Then I Can Say...

    I need change. I know by the time I am thirty I want to feel like I have accomplished something. Life isnt easy and with that being said I know that things will be tough. My husband and I have been trying to have children for almost three and a half years now, and frankly its all...
    nichole05 nichole05
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 14, 2008

    I need change constantly.

    I move every year and change my decor all the time. I'm in downtown Toronto now and love every bit of it.
    mishu085 mishu085
    26-30, F
    Mar 11

    What'S The Purpose Of All This?

    First study hard, then work hard and then.. what then? I'm almost 23, and I'm finishing the university this summer. I have a job, a boyfriend and I live with my mother. That's a short summary of myself. And I ask myself a questing "What's next?". I mean, once the university is...
    thepictureofmylife thepictureofmylife
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 9, 2013

    I know where I am I know

    where I want to be And I know lots of ways to get to my goals The only thing missing is my other half that makes me whole or at least thats what I heard God Im so lonely
    nouraruon nouraruon
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 21, 2014

    And everyone on my friends list is

    now reading this; shaking their head; and saying "For goodness sake get on with it!"
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    1 Response Oct 21, 2015

    I need a life makeover.

    I need a new job A new place And a new body Sooooo I think I'm going to start the process of changing things in my life. So that maybe just maybe I can start feeling a little more content in life.
    xxladyjadedxx xxladyjadedxx
    26-30, F
    Apr 16, 2014
    4biandu 4biandu
    31-35, F
    Aug 5, 2015

    The last few months have made me realize how

    badly I want change in my life. I recently turned 18, and that's when the feeling of stagnacy developed inside of me. I've felt unhappy and insecure for most of my life, and I'm tired of feeling this way on a daily basis. I want to face my insecurities head on. I want to be...
    AcousticSoul17 AcousticSoul17
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 11, 2015

    Just about that time in my life to find myself

    focus on me and what I want to do in life. And if someone comes along good if not oh well it ain't the end of the world to be alone ....
    misunderstood2012 misunderstood2012
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 2, 2015

    I wanna change so much; were I live how I live

    the kinda of this I see I want somthing totally different
    ojeezy ojeezy
    22-25, M
    Apr 21, 2015

    I don't know how to get it.

    But somehow I get into a parallel world to where all the good people are- at my work and in my life. I have some great people in my life but the unreasonable ones always manage to find me and control me.
    QuestionMarks QuestionMarks
    41-45, F
    Oct 20, 2015

    Always

    I always fall for losers and i am sooo tired of always having my heart broken. i just feel like all guys are the same. why can't i find someone who isn't a loser . 
    KJ5367 KJ5367
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Aug 13, 2011

    A Life ... Live Ones Life

     The hopes and dreams of many.My hopes and dreams captured in theses too.(Thanks to Becky's TG Caps for these wonderful captions ... for truly touching my heart and speaking for me.)
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    2 Responses May 20, 2012

    Instead of taking a higher paying job here,

    I have decided to accept a great offer in a new field for less money in a different state. It's going to be tough at first but it will pay off! I can't wait to start. People will think I'm crazy but it just feels right to start fresh!
    mousecop mousecop
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 9, 2014

    I Need It

    and i need it desperately ive been doing the same tngs over and over again for years and i get so stressed out i feel like my heads going to explode, i seriously wish i could just get some money for a house and start again somewhere else. Im sick of the monotony of it all, i...
    Unreality Unreality
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Aug 14, 2009

    Life Is Gorgeous...

    After being very depressed and miserable for years I've learned something important-I don't need my life to change physically-I need to change my thoughts. If you look around you without judging things based on your emotions-life is a beautiful and fabulous thing. If you really...
    mistressmonique mistressmonique
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Feb 16, 2012

    I Want Everyone to Know What I Believe In.

    The prompt for this story is "I need change in my life." I already know what i need to change, i just don't think i can change it yet. What i need a change in is my religion. My family is christian, and it is expected that i should be too. For years i was ...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses May 30, 2009

    Something More

    Right now I'm on my way into a depression. This has to with alot of things, but I fight it. With as much power as I can muster. With different results from time to time. For example, today is good, so far. I'm not angry, annoyed, sad or just down. I'm planning things to do today...
    Occeane Occeane
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 6, 2010

    I'm going with my father tomorrow.

    . I'm hoping he doesn't introduce me to his work friends as a daughter, because I will correct him. I'm contemplating begging my dad to take me in again, because he has enough money to keep me fed, unlike my mother.. And he would understand me and listen to me because he does...
    DementedKarkat DementedKarkat
    13-15, T
    1 Response Apr 23, 2015

    I found the ANSWER! I found it.

    I'll share it when I've used it up for Me. WATCH HA!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 7

    Recently got out of a relationship

    and it's been incredibly hard. I've decided to change my life. I have removed her from my life completely as I can, I've started running 5k about 3 times a week, and I'm trying to get rid of a sexual addiction starting today. I need help because I don't have the faith I can do...
    Kekamba Kekamba
    22-25, M
    Mar 9, 2015

    I want to move far away

    and start all over again
    Brookedrumm Brookedrumm
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 11, 2014

    Another day at work. Another day in corporate

    america. Yuck. I'm doing it for the money. I'm only 21 and I am starting to think I don't have enough fun. I've been raised all my life to believe that working hard will allow me to play harder in the future but I'm confused now. If it weren't for my boyfriend, I wouldn't have a...
    peacesoullove peacesoullove
    22-25, F
    Jul 7, 2015

    i want to be more confident

    and be more stronger. learn to say NO
    betteporter betteporter
    36-40, F
    Nov 9, 2014

    Woot Woot

    what i need is my medication...i know not everything that i want changed can be fixed with the medication but for me to stop being anxious would.   what i also need is someone to confess their love to me, that would change the way i think about myself. I need to love...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Jun 8, 2009

    I Need Change

    people are constantly saying that i dont need to change my life physically. they tell me i need to change on how i look at things. i believe that may be true for some people, but not for all. 12 yrs ago i made a drastic change in my life and i had the time of my life. now im...
    untroubledheart untroubledheart
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Apr 2, 2012

    Oh, I Only Wish (tg Captioned Images)

      From http://caseytg.blogspot.com/
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Feb 26, 2010

    My life, its just a rat race one am tried of

    running. I seriously need a change its a burden f*ing depression, it's vry hard 2 come by nd so few d chances for a change 4 this kind life.. I don't know hw or what to do to get change but I need to change the days of my life ...I need better days
    ojeezy ojeezy
    22-25, M
    1 Response Nov 16, 2015

    I am very unhappy. :( I just wish I knew

    where to start to begin to change my life around..
    AcousticSoul17 AcousticSoul17
    18-21, F
    Jan 28, 2015
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