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    i felt like i just been doing circles in life.

    . ive succeeded in almost everything except for relationships. i have no friends a family that dont even know who i am. i dropped out of highschool when i was 16 and went to work, homeless at one point, but i moved past that and i am in college, i gotta new job new place to stay...
    matthu21 matthu21 22-25, M Feb 25

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    I don't know what I need,

    but I know it's something. I keep searching inside, trying to find the key that opens this vicious cycle. I want the day where something in me clicks again, and I find the strength I need to finally put my life together. I wish there was someone out there who could help...
    ofthisgirl90 ofthisgirl90 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 4

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    Id Like to date an Asian ,

    (which) Ive never tried
    monatonie monatonie 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 5

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    So I decided to take a break from here

    for a while to try and clear my head. I've also decided to delete all my past posts. I'm gonna try and give this a shot again, maybe it will help. Maybe it won't. I got nothing left to lose.
    brandijade92 brandijade92 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 21

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    Always

    I always fall for losers and i am sooo tired of always having my heart broken. i just feel like all guys are the same. why can't i find someone who isn't a loser . 
    KJ5367 KJ5367 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 13, 2011

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    avocato avocato 26-30, M Apr 21

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    i'm so tired of doing the same damn thing

    everyday, which is wake, and go for classes, honestly my life is so boring right now, don't have any friends, i talk to myself a lot, i'm starting to dislike people for no genuine reason. I'm just at an all time low
    Da4niel Da4niel 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 14

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    I Need A Long Trip.

    I've had a hard time lately. I'm involved in a four-year-relationship, I think I still like the guy and sometimes I do feel I love him, but I think I should break up with him. He's a liar. I found out he has wanted to break up with me, but he has desisted because he doesn't want...
    TraurigeFrau TraurigeFrau 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2010

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    What'S The Purpose Of All This?

    First study hard, then work hard and then.. what then? I'm almost 23, and I'm finishing the university this summer. I have a job, a boyfriend and I live with my mother. That's a short summary of myself. And I ask myself a questing "What's next?". I mean, once the university is...
    thepictureofmylife thepictureofmylife 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 9, 2013

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    Something More

    Right now I'm on my way into a depression. This has to with alot of things, but I fight it. With as much power as I can muster. With different results from time to time. For example, today is good, so far. I'm not angry, annoyed, sad or just down. I'm planning things to do today...
    Occeane Occeane 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6, 2010

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    i want to be more confident

    and be more stronger. learn to say NO
    betteporter betteporter 31-35, F Nov 9

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    I Need It

    and i need it desperately ive been doing the same tngs over and over again for years and i get so stressed out i feel like my heads going to explode, i seriously wish i could just get some money for a house and start again somewhere else. Im sick of the monotony of it all, i...
    Unreality Unreality 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 14, 2009

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    How To Change Who You Are?

    I want to change but I have no idea what's wrong with me so how on earth do I change it??? Ever since I was a kid, I have always avoided doing things that are good for me. I screamed at bath time, ran away from school, buried vegetables in the back yard. As I got older...
    FrancesK FrancesK 31-35 2 Responses Feb 28, 2012

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    More Then I Can Say...

    I need change. I know by the time I am thirty I want to feel like I have accomplished something. Life isnt easy and with that being said I know that things will be tough. My husband and I have been trying to have children for almost three and a half years now, and frankly its all...
    nichole05 nichole05 22-25, F 1 Response May 14, 2008

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    Someone from England message me?

    Need change of friends!xx
    MorticansDaughter98 MorticansDaughter98 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    Came to the conclusion

    that I need to start meeting myself & learning to love myself as we'll . My lack of self esteem & self confidence has hold me back from living life to its full potential. It's time to let go of old baggages.
    Timona Timona 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2013

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    Procrastinators unite!

    (Tomorrow) That's how I feel about change.
    mousecop mousecop 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    All I have in my life right

    now is work, school and girl guides. Now girl guides I hate, an engineering degree is a lot of work, and work is almost hell on earth. After one particular shift where my supervisor, my one true nemesis, took great delight in giving me some bad news at the beginning of my shift...
    Ghaughty Ghaughty 18-21, F Nov 6

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    A Life To Change

    I'm desperate, i need changes in my life before i forget how to live. I am a professional and currently working abroad, away from my family, friends and loved ones. It's been almost 3 yrs since the time i left my home country to seek greener pastures. Financially it's a big...
    428674han 428674han 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 16, 2013

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    I like to live in a new city

    where I don't know anyone and start a clean slate
    filledspaces filledspaces 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 5

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    The aspect of romantic relationships is

    rather something foreign to me. At 21 I can't say much about my love life, besides the fact that I am just a person that unintentionally hides all its feelings. I been in love-obsessed to the point where I create mental shrines for the women that sparks my greatest interest...
    MarioBallo MarioBallo 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 1

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    I Want Everyone to Know What I Believe In.

    The prompt for this story is "I need change in my life." I already know what i need to change, i just don't think i can change it yet. What i need a change in is my religion. My family is christian, and it is expected that i should be too. For years i was ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 30, 2009

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    Oh, I Only Wish (tg Captioned Images)

      From http://caseytg.blogspot.com/
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 2 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    Two years ago when I was a sophomore in high

    school my Mom died. My Dad and I never got along and we still don't.. I'm not one to talk about my feelings to anyone cause I feel like it's a waste of time to others. I mean, do they really care when they have their own problems? Since then, I have gone downhill. I'm now a...
    kitty143kat kitty143kat 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    Feeling so alone again.

    I hate my life, I hate every event that has been going on. I've tried being strong and finding some kind of hope to hang on to bit that was just taken from me again. Nothing is right, everything I'm working toward is no longer there. I feel I have no one to turn to and nowhere...
    klivemarie klivemarie 22-25, F Apr 3

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    I Need Change

    people are constantly saying that i dont need to change my life physically. they tell me i need to change on how i look at things. i believe that may be true for some people, but not for all. 12 yrs ago i made a drastic change in my life and i had the time of my life. now im...
    untroubledheart untroubledheart 41-45, F 6 Responses Apr 2, 2012

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    Failure

    Life has been a constant string of personal failure for me. With the exception of peak physical performance, I've always felt capable of anything anybody else is. I've always fallen short of expectation, both internal and external. Always. I've spent my life waiting for an...
    Envyguitar73 Envyguitar73 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 28, 2012

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    Courage To Know When A Relationship Is Not Right For You By Megan Raphael, My Life Compass Relationship Expert

    I recently read this article on eharmony.com, which relates so much with what I am going through right now. Hope it helps anyone else who reads. Thanks. “Our feelings are a feedback mechanism to us about whether we’re on track, whether we’re on course or off course...
    mina4380 mina4380 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2013

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    I want to move far away

    and start all over again
    Brookedrumm Brookedrumm 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 11

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    I don't know how much longer I can take the

    lies, cheating, and manipulation from my husband. I think after cheating on your wife three times in 4 years that defines you as a cheater...
    klivemarie klivemarie 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    Life Is Gorgeous...

    After being very depressed and miserable for years I've learned something important-I don't need my life to change physically-I need to change my thoughts. If you look around you without judging things based on your emotions-life is a beautiful and fabulous thing. If you really...
    mistressmonique mistressmonique 46-50, F 8 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    It's Time

    I've been miserable too long, so finally I reached a point where I just can't anymore. There are periods of stagnation and darkness where we just sit and sit and indulge in our misery for a long time until it becomes impossible anymore. Then we face two options to end it...
    misasja misasja 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 27, 2008

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    Instead of taking a higher paying job here,

    I have decided to accept a great offer in a new field for less money in a different state. It's going to be tough at first but it will pay off! I can't wait to start. People will think I'm crazy but it just feels right to start fresh!
    mousecop mousecop 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    I'm Lost Right Now.

    This story is probably going to be a jumbled mess, because I can't decipher anything I'm thinking or feeling. I'm confused about what I feel, about the thoughts I'm having. I can't understand them; they're flooding in all at once, and I can not comprehend any of it. I feel numb...
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 13 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    I Need To Do This For Me

    I decided after years of therapy to give myself a big kick up the bum and change my life. I tackled first my main problem in life, something that has made me ill for years through emotional abuse......my mother. It has been hard and very painful but i feel so much better.....even...
    Evernight Evernight 31-35, F 10 Responses Dec 28, 2009

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    Woot Woot

    what i need is my medication...i know not everything that i want changed can be fixed with the medication but for me to stop being anxious would.   what i also need is someone to confess their love to me, that would change the way i think about myself. I need to love...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 8, 2009

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    I know where I am I know

    where I want to be And I know lots of ways to get to my goals The only thing missing is my other half that makes me whole or at least thats what I heard God Im so lonely
    nouraruon nouraruon 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    **** my life wtf am I'm going to do with it I

    wanna finalist of things I life but just don't have a way of how an I'm going to to do it or how to get there...ugh😩 tf I wanna go to college but when, what am I going to go for, or am I even capable of doing the work like that match crapp no way of getting pass math classes...
    dreamB1G dreamB1G 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 10

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    I need a life makeover.

    I need a new job A new place And a new body Sooooo I think I'm going to start the process of changing things in my life. So that maybe just maybe I can start feeling a little more content in life.
    xxladyjadedxx xxladyjadedxx 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 16

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    I'm in a place where people have the wrong

    image of me, think I'm really weird from years before now. I haven't even talked to people because of social anxiety for a long time yet people still have opinions of me. I can't even make new friends who I could relate to because of this. I want to get away from this, live away...
    philobee philobee 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 16

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    A Life ... Live Ones Life

     The hopes and dreams of many.My hopes and dreams captured in theses too.(Thanks to Becky's TG Caps for these wonderful captions ... for truly touching my heart and speaking for me.)
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 2 Responses May 20, 2012

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    I hope I will see people in the more tolerant

    view Sometimes, I just feel depressed of judging and keeping these bad impressions through my life. We all agree that life is not always fair, but instead of looking at the dark sides, just hoping and expecting that we could see more and more good personalities from people...
    peternguyen1997 peternguyen1997 16-17, M Apr 13

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    Messing My Life Up

    Hi people just come to get this off my chest and hope I feal a little better.So for about two months I have been split from my ex things just wasn't working loved her tho and her daughter.was nearly a six year relationship and kid was six.Im not allowed to see the kid and I've...
    hotwheels2013 hotwheels2013 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 6, 2013

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    I feel something is missing in my life

    and i dont know what it is.
    TwisterTy TwisterTy 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 24

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    Had worst day in life ,

    seen worst and live worst and didn't care . Still moving forward , still I know how to laugh and how to make others too . U will never see me sad but always smiling . Hardly can express myself . To live life and to be successful I kill all my emotions . I leave everyone behind...
    Johnnystha Johnnystha 26-30, M Jun 4

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    I really need change in my life.

    I need to get out there and experience life. I need to stop being afraid. I need to show the world who I really am. My talents. My loving and caring ways. I need to show people that I can be a great person. I need to conquer my fears and overcome them. I need to believe in...
    AcousticSoul17 AcousticSoul17 16-17, F Nov 12

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    We All Need It...

    In life sometimes feelings change, people change, seasons change and it is ok. It's what goes on around all of us at any given moment. How do we decide what the right thing for us truly is.. endless hours of thought,deliberation, stress and considering who will be hurt in the...
    snowbunny1002 snowbunny1002 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 21, 2012

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    My Life Has Been Like Waking Up In Vegas Lately

    Not literally. However, I bet I got some hits. I found this group -- "I Need Change In My Life," I'm curious to see what other people have say.About me & why I'd like to change my life.I'm 28. I grew up in a small town in OK that is mostly known manufacturing and being an the...
    sarahofphoenix sarahofphoenix 26-30 2 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    Get Out Of The Way B*tches.

    I really need change in my life. I just turned 20 and I can't bare with this same pattern of a life anymore. I just feel like I need to discover myself more and see new things, meet new people, be on my own. I feel like I have lost all interest in life. I hate my neighborhood...
    GG1234 GG1234 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    Change

    I need to stop letting what somone else does ruin my happiiness and my life ,and start enjoying life again
    dolly99 dolly99 41-45, F May 9, 2012

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    I'm a lesbian and nobody knows it.

    I had a female partner for almost 8 years. I kept this as secret from my family and friends because I'm afraid they would castigate me. Now, I spend most of my time online chatting with butch and other females from different nation. I never feel comfortable talking about my...
    kceem88 kceem88 22-25, F Jun 4

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