I Need Closure

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 219 People

    Help Meee Plzz?

    I don't know what to do. I'm a mess right now. He broke my heart. I thought he was the one. This is the most cliche' story that one could ever come across but I guess it happens to the most of us. We met at a party when we were drunk. We made out and slowly started finding out...
    KillAishX KillAishX
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jan 28, 2013

    Little Plans

    In my own strange abnormal fashion, I am doing what feels normal to me. I am having a little marital funeral with a locked up memorial. The keys will be given to my children when they are of age to discover their history, our history. I'm going to enclose letters explaining the...
    Tekkamaki Tekkamaki
    31-35
    6 Responses Apr 13, 2010

    I was 15, and he took my home from school

    for the very first time. My parents never let me date prior to that but they had just gotten a divorce and things were pretty hectic. I was starting to feel like an adult who was ready for a relationship. And at 15, we'd hang out in his car till 2 a.m just talking about...
    elm04477 elm04477
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 21, 2015

    A Failed Relationship Without a Closure

    I had the best parents. They have loved me profoundly but sadly they are both gone.  I had always thought that because of this blessing, I may always be unlucky in love. A love of a parent is of course different but with all my misfortunes in relationships it crossed my...
    annamaria annamaria
    46-50, F
    Mar 15, 2008

    EP Is Helping.........

    The more stories I tell, the easier it seems to be to let things go. I feel freer then I have in a long time. I don't know if I'll ever get true closure for a couple of things, but if I can somehow get rid of fear that was born from those experiences, then my life will be...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 10, 2009

    Please Just Give Me Closure!

    I don’t understand why we are no longer talking. I don’t understand why you are not able to talk about feelings like a man. I get that you are supposed to be “Stoic” but trust me when I say that will get you nowhere in life. I spent a long time hoping that we would...
    CalypsoChisisi CalypsoChisisi
    18-21, F
    Nov 1, 2012

    Grammy

    this year my grammy died. i new her my whole life! i loved her so much!! i will really miss her..this christmas will be hard. i watch her funeral video all the time. i wish i could go back in time to her funeral. i really want to see her but i know i never will. all i have is a...
    taytay45698 taytay45698
    13-15, F
    Jul 16, 2010

    Closure

    Been spending days upon days trying to understand why, what, and when. It's frustrating because if I ask these questions, I don't believe that I would an honest answer. Unreal!
    courageous8 courageous8
    36-40
    2 Responses Apr 23, 2012

    Four Years Ended With A Text.

    Four years..That's how long we were together.. Lived together for about 3 and a half... She was my world, my everything.. The one that I loved more than I loved life. We shared so much together.. Had the joy of getting pregnant, and the horrible pain of learning that she...
    heartbroken79 heartbroken79
    31-35, M
    Dec 2, 2011

    Building Memories...

    "Building Memories...." One eye opens, the other opens. The cool crisp air fills his lungs as he takes his first deep breath of the day. He steps out his door only to be faced with a long, vast empty road. Almost seeming to have no end. He starts to walk down this...
    Fromlosttolucid Fromlosttolucid
    18-21, M
    Aug 25, 2009

    Hey shout out to all those fine young

    black/white teen girls 18-19 and women 20-30 on fb,Ig,Twitter,and Sc for looking so good during any moment of the day.In actuality I need more friends on fb,twitter and Ig.I don't check my fb news feed often bc I don't have a lot of friends😢 on social media.So if there's...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 7

    Even though I hate you,

    it doesn't change that I still desire answers from you. You've called me out for my "self righteousness" on more than one occasion, but how self righteous is the want for clarity? I don't need you, or want you anymore, what I can't forget is the way you handled me like some game...
    shakeandbake760 shakeandbake760
    26-30, F
    Jun 9, 2014

    I've been told he has replaced me.

    Do I believe it or just got to the source??? I'm afraid of the reality hitting... But I need closure.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 19, 2014

    Just Tell Me Everything So I Can Move On

    My husband had sex with another woman - when confronted - he lied - then said he committed the worst sin - then denied it - then said it was all her fault - then said I am so sorry for everything - but never elaborated on what the everything was.  He has never told me the...
    ltlQne ltlQne
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Oct 16, 2007

    I Still Do

    I asked , and i asked again but no ! nothing ... Its like by them not giving closure that they still have you in some way , my ex refuses to give any sort of closure on our relationship even though its been two years now .. On New Years eve he rang me up the worse for drink...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 18, 2009

    This story is a bit long,

    so I shall summarize my experience...questions/advice welcome in the comments. December 31, 2013 My boyfriend and financial provider for out family of 3 got laid off from a good paying job January 2014 We are late on January rent ($1075). Our daughter turns 2. Unemployment is...
    ShellyKn1ts ShellyKn1ts
    22-25, F
    Jul 11, 2014

    Need The Closure!

    I Need This Closure!!!!!! so I did let him go,but he says to me that he can never let me go,but I say let him live in his dream,cause this is overfor good.
    angelwithoutwings angelwithoutwings
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 22, 2011

    A Closure

    I could not believe someone that said to be so in love would actually just disappear without explanation, without a closure.I wasted a big chunk of my life trying to find answers.I now understand,that people in fact do that coz they care only about them first. I am not alone...
    BreatheEasyAgain BreatheEasyAgain
    36-40, F
    May 28, 2013

    How do u get ur closure over a break up?

    ... We always find ourselves in this situation year in, year out, for seven freaking years now.. And we fight a lot everytime over the silliest, unremarkable things, but we always managed to find a way back to each other eventually, even if it takes 6months gap everytime.. But...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 13, 2014

    DADDY'S Little Girl

    WHEN I WAS 5 MY DAD KILLED HIMSELF OUTSIDE MY ROOM... I HAVE NEVER GOT OVER IT AND NEVER WILL TO THIS DAY IT CAN EAT ME ALIVE KNOWING I WAS NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR HIM TO SAY ALIVE... THINKING MAYBE I DID SOMETHING WRONG... THE MOST PART IS NOT THAT HE KILLED HIM SELF IT IS THE WAY...
    AROMAOFDEATH AROMAOFDEATH
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 27, 2009

    And So It Is...

    I'll always wonder how it would it have been. But I understand that it couldn't be. I 'll be always thankful for all I learned. When I face trouble, I may think it should have been. I don't love you, I know now, and I never will.  You don't deserve all the things I would...
    Mkarronni Mkarronni
    31-35, F
    Aug 10, 2010
    GreenPanda2015 GreenPanda2015
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 27, 2014

    Sleep

    With every loss, there is a gain. With every breath, is a moment taken away. Every step, is two steps back. Every spoken word, is two moments of silence. Every birth, is two deaths. Every smile, is two tears. As the string vibrates, a melody occurs,. However, unlike before...
    Fromlosttolucid Fromlosttolucid
    18-21, M
    Apr 17, 2011

    So last nite was my 1st time on here.

    I posted a story about me n my ex best friend. Will some of u read it n tell me what u think?? I don't wanna b a fool,but i wanna know what happened,really WTF HAPPENED!! A mutual friend said my x bff is sad that we r no longer friends. I am too. We were friends 17yrs,since jr...
    Mrscinnamondmay Mrscinnamondmay
    31-35, F
    Jan 3

    I had a dream about you last night.

    ..again. This one made me wake up and miss you even more than I have in the last week. I know that you needed to move for your job, but I wish that you would have talked to me about everything. We are/were (not sure where we stand at the moment) in a relationship. Yes, we moved...
    11scorpio11 11scorpio11
    22-25, F
    May 18, 2015

    I wish my parents who Abused me mentally

    and physically for 12 years could admit what they did and apologize , I cut them off a few years ago and don't talk to them. I am in college and bought my own car and work and they are losers my mom lives off welfare never worked in her life my dad lives with his sister and they...
    girlygirl1995 girlygirl1995
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Mar 17

    A Simple Request....

    As I sit here I have a million thoughts running through my mind. So many that I can't sleep anymore. I have too many questions without any answers. Till this day Im not sure what exactly happened. I'm lost. All I know is that you are gone and I'm in pain. I try to make sense of...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Apr 23, 2012

    How do you say goodbye?

    How do you erase someone from your life? I can't say goodbye but I know I need too because it's not healthy. Ugh. This is ******* hard but unfair! Dam you Greg!!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 1, 2014

    Face Of Grace

    I am writing to you tonight with such enthusiasm for the positive perspective I have chosen to keep locked in my mind. I am doing simply fantastic at my evening job. In my first two weeks, I am one of the top sellers in the marketing department for a performing arts center...
    kristinlately kristinlately
    26-30, F
    Jan 7, 2011

    It's not fair to me that I have to face the fact

    that change is hard. With the people in my life and the people of this world... I don't know where to begin. I need to tell people how I feel, and that I don't care. Let them know this before they leave this earth. What are the odds that I'll never get to become the person I've...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 10, 2015

    I Can't Move On

    I've never written anything like this before. I suppose it's pride; I like to think of myself as strong and rational. Others seem to. On the whole I find wry humour is pretty effective at keeping things at arm's length. But this is not something I can rationalise my way out of. I...
    omniac22 omniac22
    22-25
    1 Response Jun 11, 2010

    Just tell me. Anything.

    .. I'm the safety net. You will meet someone else.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 16, 2015

    Potter's Closure

    I realize I do not have closure on two key things in my life. I don't know exactly what "closure" means, but I hear people talk about it like it's a good thing, how it makes you feel good about bad things that have happened. I figure since I feel so lousy about these two certain...
    kristinlately kristinlately
    26-30, F
    Dec 3, 2010

    My Way Of Saying Goodbye!!!!!

    One day you will search for me, look for me everywhere. But, I won’t be there.When sky is all you would have to look over you. When the breeze will touch your skin and you will feel like it’s a dream. You would look for someone to tell you it’s real and you would wake up...
    confusedandloveless confusedandloveless
    22-25, M
    Nov 19, 2012

    When ending a relationship,

    I need closure. Out of all the relationships I've had, the only closure I received was from my last. It was the best thing. We knew there would be no more "us", so we laid everything out into the open. There was no yelling, there was no arguing. I got my answers to the questions...
    anitamigna anitamigna
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 23, 2014

    Five Incredible Months, No Closure

    I can't seem to find closure in my relationship and I can't figure out why. All signs point to me being able to gain that, but it just isn't there at doesn't seem like it's coming anytime soon. I still dream about what I want to say to her. I still dream about seeing her, on a...
    a97989 a97989
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jun 9, 2010
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