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I Need Closure

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    Face Of Grace

    I am writing to you tonight with such enthusiasm for the positive perspective I have chosen to keep locked in my mind. I am doing simply fantastic at my evening job. In my first two weeks, I am one of the top sellers in the marketing department for a performing arts center...
    kristinlately kristinlately 26-30, F Jan 7, 2011

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    I feel really good today.

    Yesterday, my ex boyfriend called me for the first time since he broke up with me. I really wanted to talk to him.I was very surprised and actually glad. He called me first from a blocked number but I didn't pick up so he called from a number I didn't recognize. My first thought...
    Deseraye1 Deseraye1 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    A Failed Relationship Without a Closure

    I had the best parents. They have loved me profoundly but sadly they are both gone.  I had always thought that because of this blessing, I may always be unlucky in love. A love of a parent is of course different but with all my misfortunes in relationships it crossed my...
    annamaria annamaria 46-50, F Mar 15, 2008

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    EP Is Helping.........

    The more stories I tell, the easier it seems to be to let things go. I feel freer then I have in a long time. I don't know if I'll ever get true closure for a couple of things, but if I can somehow get rid of fear that was born from those experiences, then my life will be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 10, 2009

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    I Can't Move On

    I've never written anything like this before. I suppose it's pride; I like to think of myself as strong and rational. Others seem to. On the whole I find wry humour is pretty effective at keeping things at arm's length. But this is not something I can rationalise my way out of. I...
    omniac22 omniac22 22-25 1 Response Jun 11, 2010

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    A Simple Request....

    As I sit here I have a million thoughts running through my mind. So many that I can't sleep anymore. I have too many questions without any answers. Till this day Im not sure what exactly happened. I'm lost. All I know is that you are gone and I'm in pain. I try to make sense of...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 23, 2012

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    Closure Should Be On Both Sides

      I cant say that i need closure concerning my last relationship. Like several of us have experienced in life, you get in a relationship, and you discover that whats supposed to be a one way street and it turns out it is not when its your turn to receive anything good in a...
    canoethenhike canoethenhike 26-30, M Oct 11, 2011

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    Four Years Ended With A Text.

    Four years..That's how long we were together.. Lived together for about 3 and a half... She was my world, my everything.. The one that I loved more than I loved life. We shared so much together.. Had the joy of getting pregnant, and the horrible pain of learning that she...
    heartbroken79 heartbroken79 31-35, M Dec 2, 2011

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    Five Incredible Months, No Closure

    I can't seem to find closure in my relationship and I can't figure out why. All signs point to me being able to gain that, but it just isn't there at doesn't seem like it's coming anytime soon. I still dream about what I want to say to her. I still dream about seeing her, on a...
    a97989 a97989 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 9, 2010

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    Potter's Closure

    I realize I do not have closure on two key things in my life. I don't know exactly what "closure" means, but I hear people talk about it like it's a good thing, how it makes you feel good about bad things that have happened. I figure since I feel so lousy about these two certain...
    kristinlately kristinlately 26-30, F Dec 3, 2010

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    Sleep

    With every loss, there is a gain. With every breath, is a moment taken away. Every step, is two steps back. Every spoken word, is two moments of silence. Every birth, is two deaths. Every smile, is two tears. As the string vibrates, a melody occurs,. However, unlike before...
    Fromlosttolucid Fromlosttolucid 18-21, M Apr 17, 2011

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    Need The Closure!

    I Need This Closure!!!!!! so I did let him go,but he says to me that he can never let me go,but I say let him live in his dream,cause this is overfor good.
    angelwithoutwings angelwithoutwings 26-30, F 2 Responses May 22, 2011

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    How do u get ur closure over a break up?

    ... We always find ourselves in this situation year in, year out, for seven freaking years now.. And we fight a lot everytime over the silliest, unremarkable things, but we always managed to find a way back to each other eventually, even if it takes 6months gap everytime.. But...
    bellabong bellabong 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Finally Recieve What I Needed To Let Go Of The Hope

    Today, I finally received the email that I have been waiting for to kill the hope I had for us.  As much as I hated getting this but I am very thankful that I can close that door finally and start my process of living my life instead of waiting for something that could never be...
    llady99 llady99 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 21, 2011

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    And So It Is...

    I'll always wonder how it would it have been. But I understand that it couldn't be. I 'll be always thankful for all I learned. When I face trouble, I may think it should have been. I don't love you, I know now, and I never will.  You don't deserve all the things I would...
    Mkarronni Mkarronni 31-35, F Aug 10, 2010

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    Whenever some one has left my life they have

    gone without a word, walked away so quickly or died without me being able to say goodbye. I am left with the raw emotions, unanswered questions and feeling lost and confused. I just want someone to give me closure that I need to be able to move on that is all I ask for. I feel...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I Got Mine In An E-mail

    The love of my life told me how he didn't want to be with me a year after we broke up. I didn't want closure, I just wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. We had been in love since 4th grade, he always told me he would never leave me. In the end it is my fault, as it is...
    hgosch hgosch 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 2, 2011

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    Help Meee Plzz?

    I don't know what to do. I'm a mess right now. He broke my heart. I thought he was the one. This is the most cliche' story that one could ever come across but I guess it happens to the most of us. We met at a party when we were drunk. We made out and slowly started finding out...
    KillAishX KillAishX 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    Closure

    Been spending days upon days trying to understand why, what, and when. It's frustrating because if I ask these questions, I don't believe that I would an honest answer. Unreal!
    courageous8 courageous8 36-40 2 Responses Apr 23, 2012

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    My Way Of Saying Goodbye!!!!!

    One day you will search for me, look for me everywhere. But, I won’t be there.When sky is all you would have to look over you. When the breeze will touch your skin and you will feel like it’s a dream. You would look for someone to tell you it’s real and you would wake up...
    confusedandloveless confusedandloveless 22-25, M Nov 19, 2012

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    How do you say goodbye?

    How do you erase someone from your life? I can't say goodbye but I know I need too because it's not healthy. Ugh. This is ******* hard but unfair! Dam you Greg!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 1

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    Just Tell Me Everything So I Can Move On

    My husband had sex with another woman - when confronted - he lied - then said he committed the worst sin - then denied it - then said it was all her fault - then said I am so sorry for everything - but never elaborated on what the everything was.  He has never told me the...
    ltlQne ltlQne 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 16, 2007

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    I Still Do

    I asked , and i asked again but no ! nothing ... Its like by them not giving closure that they still have you in some way , my ex refuses to give any sort of closure on our relationship even though its been two years now .. On New Years eve he rang me up the worse for drink...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 18, 2009

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    Im not sure if Ive ever been in love

    or just deep infatuations. What i am sure of is that, i am ready to love someone when it comes to the right person and the feeling is mutual.
    ilovebreakfast ilovebreakfast 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    DADDY'S Little Girl

    WHEN I WAS 5 MY DAD KILLED HIMSELF OUTSIDE MY ROOM... I HAVE NEVER GOT OVER IT AND NEVER WILL TO THIS DAY IT CAN EAT ME ALIVE KNOWING I WAS NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR HIM TO SAY ALIVE... THINKING MAYBE I DID SOMETHING WRONG... THE MOST PART IS NOT THAT HE KILLED HIM SELF IT IS THE WAY...
    AROMAOFDEATH AROMAOFDEATH 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 27, 2009

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    Building Memories...

    "Building Memories...." One eye opens, the other opens. The cool crisp air fills his lungs as he takes his first deep breath of the day. He steps out his door only to be faced with a long, vast empty road. Almost seeming to have no end. He starts to walk down this...
    Fromlosttolucid Fromlosttolucid 18-21, M Aug 25, 2009

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    Little Plans

    In my own strange abnormal fashion, I am doing what feels normal to me. I am having a little marital funeral with a locked up memorial. The keys will be given to my children when they are of age to discover their history, our history. I'm going to enclose letters explaining the...
    Tekkamaki Tekkamaki 31-35 7 Responses Apr 13, 2010

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    A Closure

    I could not believe someone that said to be so in love would actually just disappear without explanation, without a closure.I wasted a big chunk of my life trying to find answers.I now understand,that people in fact do that coz they care only about them first. I am not alone...
    BreatheEasyAgain BreatheEasyAgain 36-40, F May 28, 2013

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    Dear ex boyfriend, I want today to be the last

    day I talk about you and how I feel. I just need closure and i feel writing you this letter is the best way to get it. If i call you, we would only get into an argument. Today I am letting you go forever. I refuse to spend another day sulking over you and what we shoulda coulda...
    Deseraye1 Deseraye1 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    GreenPanda2015 GreenPanda2015 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 27

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    Please Just Give Me Closure!

    I don’t understand why we are no longer talking. I don’t understand why you are not able to talk about feelings like a man. I get that you are supposed to be “Stoic” but trust me when I say that will get you nowhere in life. I spent a long time hoping that we would...
    CalypsoChisisi CalypsoChisisi 18-21, F Nov 1, 2012

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    I've been told he has replaced me.

    Do I believe it or just got to the source??? I'm afraid of the reality hitting... But I need closure.
    ExecutiveAsst ExecutiveAsst 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 19

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    Boys, boys, boys. I'm even sick of the word now because I've felt so much drama and sadness radiate off of that word alone. Today though, I found closure from drama that had...
    gxbriellejade gxbriellejade 16-17, F Mar 31

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    I'll need to change my lifestyle. I also need to change my diet. I need to consider what has sugar. I'm diabetic and need to lower my blood sugar. So I am going to have to consider...
    gambler920 gambler920 51-55, M 1 Response 40 mins ago

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    Hi people uhmmm... i really need to talk to someone right now.... its mostly about my sexuality really personal things...... i don't know why but i feel better when i vent to a guy...
    Lilbro24 Lilbro24 16-17, M 6 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    mm60907 mm60907 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I probably have some kind of abandonment issues. I’ve always put my worth in boys. I don’t know how to stop. They’ve always been something that I think has to be essential in...
    somethingorother585 somethingorother585 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    How do I believe my wife after what I have found I am going to post two as she says "Stories" I have found over the last week about her and her co-worker. The first one I found was...
    mcanant8 mcanant8 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 10

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    you to be the girl. I needed you to want to be my everything, since you already were mine. I needed you to want to talk, to come over, to put the smile back on my face since...
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 24

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    I need help! Please! I need someone to depend on! I need someone to be able to text and talk to! I need someone badly!!! Please females I need help!
    Somethingawful Somethingawful 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 25

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    Hey guys... I figured out how to feel better about myself, and be happier and I'd like to share it with you all. (I am aware this might all sound very hippie like...but I'm just...
    xxersabooxx xxersabooxx 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    I just need to vent. I do not need anyone to respond I do not want anyone to say it's ok or everything is fine I just need to vent vent vent and get it ALL out. So this morning I...
    funsnowgal funsnowgal 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hate needles!! Omg, today I went to the doctor and he said "um you might need a spinal tap next time you come in." I freaked out. I was crying and sobbing uncontrollably. It's...
    Addictivethickness Addictivethickness 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Desperately need a friend... I'm sorry this is a long background story but this is the abbreviated version. I'll try to make things clear. It may just come off as shallow, whiny...
    ArtsyPatrick ArtsyPatrick 41-45, M 3 Responses Mar 21

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    I need a woman who will be there for me. I need a woman who will cuddle up to me when I go to bed. I need a woman who will brush her fingers softly through the strands of my hair...
    CoolDad59 CoolDad59 51-55, M Mar 23

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    Dear reader , i really need some one to listen to me and I would love it if you would take some time out to read:) (only the first verse will also do) This is about my dad. Last...
    tamnialler tamnialler 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 25

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    When I’m stressed or in emotional pain, I need physical comfort. A hug, a gentle kiss, a compassionate touch. But my man, he’s the complete opposite…When he’s stressed and...
    dragonflEYEfly dragonflEYEfly 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I need a friend who I can't trust 100%, someone who understands me, and respects who I am. Someone who can give me really great advice, but also just listen when needed. I need a...
    alittleinteresting alittleinteresting 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 27

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    I need a man who will love me for me. Not someone who just wants to get in my pants. A man who values and considers my feelings, a man that will love me unconditionally. I need...
    FireQueen10 FireQueen10 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I need a place I need time I need myself There will come a time when we need a time for ourselves to figure things out. Have you ever felt so lost, so tired, so confused? Well, I...
    MylifeasMae MylifeasMae 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Okay, so there's more than one form of help needed. The first being, I need guy help. I'm head over heels with my guy friend (as previously mentioned) and he likes me back! Wew! No...
    fallingintowonderrland fallingintowonderrland 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    My next reason is when he slept over at my house. after totally falling asleep, i woke up to moaning. turning my head, there he was, ****ing off. Not knowing that i was now...
    StuckinTheCloset StuckinTheCloset 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    My fiance and I have been together for a min! He tells me all the time that he loves me/in love with me, and that I'm the ONLY woman he wants & needs in his life, but at times I...
    ChocolateButtafly ChocolateButtafly 26-30, F Apr 11

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