I Need Constant Reassurance

From making the right decisions, to being loved, to being worthy. Others opinions of me seem to be all that matters. 64 People

    If I'm not constantly being reassured

    that I matter & people care about me, I start to push people away. I pick fights. I let little things bother me. I'm rude. I'm selfish. I lash out & become aggressive if I'm feeling insecure. It hurts people I care about & it hurts myself.
    easedmysoul easedmysoul
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 9, 2015

    It's Comforting

    I won't think less of myself if I'm not reassured...but I feel an almost high when I am.
    Newchick02 Newchick02
    18-21, F
    Jul 25, 2012

    I do and it is a terrible thing to need

    as it just destroys what is an excellent relationship it slowly wears the other person down I have tried and tried to remain positive but I guess this is just a weakness of mine. I have never been like this with anyone ever before and it drives me mad that I always see the...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey
    36-40, M
    1 Response Feb 12, 2015

    It's True

    It's not pleasant, or something I'm proud of, but yes, I need lots of reassurance. I like to know that you still like me, that what I'm doing is okay, that you are still enjoying my company. I like to be reassured, I'm very insecure. *shrug*
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Apr 20, 2011

    It would be nice to know

    that I really am important and everyone won't always leave. Sorry if it is annoying that I always need to be reassured that I am good enough and that won't happen.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 24, 2015
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