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I Need Emotional Intimacy

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 29,313 People

    I think emotional intimacy is the most

    important thing in relationship
    nataliawww nataliawww 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 6

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    CassandraLynn96 CassandraLynn96 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Reciprocation: a mutual giving

    and receiving.I had this, it slowly disappeared through the years. I want this, no, I need this again. Thank you "M" for showing me how wonderful it feels!
    lifesinlimbo lifesinlimbo 51-55, F 8 Responses Sep 6, 2014

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    LadyLouisiana LadyLouisiana 56-60, F 14 Responses Feb 24, 2013

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    Emotional support is found

    for me in a bottle of vodka clear no chaser
    Godofblackclouds Godofblackclouds 18-21, M Jun 14

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    The Forgotten Girl

    You won’t remember me. I have become another one of them now, the forgotten girl. You won’t remember my name but you once knew it well; you once thought it was fragrant in your ear like nothing else before.  You won’t remember my face although you once said you memorized...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 34 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    Emotions are so overrated by underestimations.

    People are afraid to create bonds because we fear what is to happen. We shouldn't let our fears dictate our actions. For once, I wish someone would approach me with the intentions of staying for more than a month. Lay with me, let us speak like young children. Ramble on to me...
    PixieStixs PixieStixs 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    I have always had more women friends

    than men. I know I sometimes cringe when I see another guy say that. That it's a manipulative ploy. But it's true in my case. The common denominator with these friends is humor and warmth. Some are very attractive and I won't deny a little fantasy goes on about them. I...
    Gmfriends Gmfriends 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 27

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    Wow! I came to EP to find freedom.

    To just share myself with people. Not to care for anyone let alone care romantically for anyone. Now, I care for both types and have miss understood each, and actually have a hurt heart. A dream created and deflated like a popped ballon.
    Golfknar Golfknar 36-40, M 3 Responses Jun 6

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    i always feel lonely.

    i have a man who loves me coworkers who are nice amd my parents love me. why do i still always feel alone?
    wowstylist wowstylist 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    Love intimacy... so sensual.

    .. arousing the senses... mind blowing...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    I'm ready to release myself upon this world.

    I'm worried only a woman I love can stop me. But there are no women who love me to the extant of which I need.
    Golfknar Golfknar 36-40, M 3 Responses Jun 17

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    Ultimately Yours

    Travels unfold faces, places Stories of hearts to be told Feelings of like, love shy and bold No destination in mind just working against time Each day passes apart knowing you carry my heart Near brushes with lust and friendship entwine All the while you held reign over...
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 6 Responses May 20, 2013

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    I needed emotional intimacy.

    someone who understood my emotions are connected to mu everything. who gives me the emotional support to allow me to open and trust them.I found him. He is everything I want and need. I love our relationship. I wish I could keep him. love my bear hugger, love my wolf.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 2

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    I'm not good at showing most emotions.

    I never have been. I have a family where I logically know there's love, and love is shown in its own way...but there's no emotional intimacy. I've never been close with anyone in that way. I think I could do it, because I crave it so much, but no one has ever gotten that close...
    EternalVexOfTheLogicalMind EternalVexOfTheLogicalMind 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    Sometimes i really feel

    so lonely and i miss this feeling
    Gladtobehere55 Gladtobehere55 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    Men Are Different ... Maybe

    There are over 750 people in this group "I Need Emotional Intimacy". I just read a statistic that seventy per cent of this Group's members are female.  What could we read into this statistic?  Something or nothing?   We could easily assume that emotional...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 92 Responses Oct 18, 2010

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    The man I'm crazy about lacks in this

    department. Maybe it'll change when he gets back home but that's another year or two.... For now I just smile on and pretend like it's all good.
    YouKnowWho15 YouKnowWho15 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    Don't fret about the future of the relationship,

    as this will make matters muddy between you, just enjoy what you have today. Tomorrow will take care of itself.
    BreakingBored BreakingBored 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 12

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    I sometimes find some of the strongest

    emotional bonds in sex. I mean I know this is kinda weird for a guy to say but it's true, I can't have sex with a girl and feel nothing for her. I can't even kiss a girl and feel nothing. Sometimes I wish I was a simpler man, where sex could mean nothing. It sure would make...
    MrSandmann MrSandmann 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 28

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    I mean i'm down for the one flings

    but sometimes i just wish i had a loving wife to love and protect ... or maybe even a gf or bf just someone that i know is all mine :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 3

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    In order for me to enjoy the physical intimacy

    I need emotional intimacy and that is what I'm missing.
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Jul 22

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    Livit Livit 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    I just want someone to hold.

    A guy who can fulfill my emotional needs and be there for me. So many times we think of intimacy as sex but it's not it's knowing and connecting with the person on an emotional level deeper than anything else. I want to be known intimately by a man who will love me for me, and I...
    FireQueen10 FireQueen10 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    lvycc11 lvycc11 26-30, F Jul 8

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    I love telling someone about my day,

    hearing about theirs, doing fun things together, talking about problems or issues... And just being able to be my full self with someone. It's a very interesting connection.
    mssparkles mssparkles 18-21, F 11 Responses Jun 4

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    How can you want a man

    that you never had? I don't understand it. ..but never have I fantasized about a man till him.
    for3v3r7 for3v3r7 26-30, F Jun 1

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    Emotional Intimacy

    Sex is the easy part. Even if alone you can get yourself through and have some physical release. No problem. Its the emotional intimacy that cant be filled alone. Wanting the connection of another. Feeling what you feel they react and supply you with what's needed. Maybe a hug...
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    I Want To Fall In Love Again

    It has been six months since I found out you were cheating. 180 days of solitude. I gave so much, 22 years, three beautiful children,everything you wanted. I haven't touched anyone else but you. That's going to be changing soon. I am so starved for love,companionship...
    michael1971 michael1971 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    I do. But without gender basis.

    And with genders basis. What is wrong with women and men always thinking its sexual. Not any other type of love or caring? Why should I keep trying to be real but be considered flirting with the opposite sex? I get along best with women. I love women but I'm only IN love...
    Golfknar Golfknar 36-40, M 3 Responses Jun 4

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    Creativity Make A Good Personality.[think In Creative]

    Personality is the particular combination of emotional, attitudinal, and behavioral response patterns of an individual. I had a friend. He is small, short and also he looks babyish. But his verbal skills are loud, powerful and logical. This matter make him keep on top level of...
    xvampirex xvampirex 26-30, M 7 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    I crave it right now.

    .....need attention. any woman care to chat in private or even text?
    BlaiddDrwg69 BlaiddDrwg69 41-45, M Aug 12

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    sarahcc11aa sarahcc11aa 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 5

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    I tend to need a degree of emotional intimacy

    even in my friendships to feel any sort of connection. Otherwise, people tend to feel really distant to me, even if I see them often.
    itspirit itspirit 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    Roommates Or Soulmates

    It's difficult when the person you had planned to live happily ever after. With decides that being roommates is good enough You long to be able to share anything and everything but they don't seem to be interested, unless ... they are the ones doing the sharing. Now you better...
    goodwinimbad goodwinimbad 51-55, M 10 Responses May 12, 2012

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chavacc11 chavacc11 26-30, F Jul 28

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    Tonight I realized I haven't had human contact

    in a long time, and I don't mean anything sexual though I admit it's been awhile but simple human contact. No handshakes or hugs or even a pat on the back, I really hadn't noticed till tonight. I hadn't noticed how much I could miss it, how important it is until tonight. Life is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 19, 2014

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    My friend killed herself on Christmas Eve.

    I'm straight, but at times I felt like I was in love with her. Maybe it was because she a lesbian and she was in love with me, but she made me feel normal - Happy, loved, desired, cherished. Things I've never felt from anyone. At times I wanted her to find the perfect girl, but...
    ASeaInACup ASeaInACup 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 1, 2014

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    I have never had someone willingly come up

    and give me a hug, or just hold me or just even put a hand on my shoulder and tell me its gonna be okay. it's always me whispering to myself after everyone is gone again that I'll be alright and that i can handle it all on my own again. having someone who cares about me and can...
    LoveLessOne97 LoveLessOne97 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    Is There Such A Thing?

    It's amazing as I read through the stories here just how much we all resonate with one another. It is difficult to share how I feel without repeating what many of you have already said. My husband has pretty much been my best friend for the last 25 years, but something has...
    silentwriter180 silentwriter180 46-50, F 8 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    I'm starting to feel more like a maid

    and less like a wife. I'm the person that cooks and cleans. The one that pays the bills, keeps our busy schedules straight, makes sure everyone has what they need to make their lives easier. I'm tired of constantly making everyone else happy. No one seems to care what I need...
    NaughtyWhispers NaughtyWhispers 36-40, F 17 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I crave emotional intimacy all the time,

    it's something that I never had with my husband...
    Ccutler Ccutler 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    Pathetic???

    I need someone i can tell anything to and not be judged, ridiculed or laughed at Someone i can let my guard down with and not regret it Someone i can tell my dreams hopes and fears to and not be tormented Someone who knows just when and how to hold me Someone who won't always...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 67 Responses Jun 18, 2008

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    Sex without an emotional connection is just

    fornication. Emotional intimacy means that you see each other on a soul level, that you communicate at a heart level and that you allow love to lead - not lust which is trying to get something but the love that gives of your heart.
    fr33bird fr33bird 51-55, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm at the point in my marriage

    that I don't really care what happens now,.. If she said it was over and I'm seeing someone else,.. It would probably put a smile on my face,.. And I would send a sympathy card to her new lover. I just walk around feeling like an empty shell of what I used to be... No love...
    Someone6687 Someone6687 26-30, M 9 Responses Jul 28

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    I wish I could find the woman

    who desired to love and to be LOVED like I want it...
    leomarcus leomarcus 36-40, M 3 Responses Jun 14