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I Need Emotional Intimacy

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    I miss those Saturdays in spring

    when I woke up in the arms of my ex girlfriend, and the first thing I saw was her kind smile. And then we stayed in bed for hours cuddling and kissing each other. Now those days are gone and I feel so empty... abandoned and forgotten. God I miss her.
    persypussy persypussy 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 1, 2014

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    Love intimacy... so sensual.

    .. arousing the senses... mind blowing...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    up in my thoughts. i have a deep desire to talk

    to you right now but i don't want to bother you. i don't know maybe i shouldn't have had that last one.what ever the case may be i need you
    timidher timidher 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 22

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    Being an introvert and highly insecure about

    myself based on my past (my father, male acquaintances, and almost every man in my life not wanting much to do with me), I never thought I'd find anyone to love me. Even if they did, by some miracle, find me the least bit attractive, my insecurities would drive them away for...
    TheAlbinoGirl TheAlbinoGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 27, 2014

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    it's the only way to silent the demons inside

    me.. yes i hve chained them, but it didn't put them in silence.. which is pretty annoying sometimes.. demons never knew how to give up..
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    Sometimes I think to myself

    that id love find someone to spend my time with, hang out with and just someone I could be affectionate with. I mean I may not love them and I may not keep them around forever but even I have need for intimacy from time to time. Now is the time for me that I have that need. Ill...
    WickedlilAngel WickedlilAngel 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    My boyfriend breaks my heart every day.

    After 4 years together, I finally stopped hinting when I needed him or when he did something to upset me. I just started telling him straight. And he always apologises and promises to be there for me. Then he instantly forgets and hurts me again and again without realising. Our...
    dodgethebullet dodgethebullet 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    I just want someone to hold.

    A guy who can fulfill my emotional needs and be there for me. So many times we think of intimacy as sex but it's not it's knowing and connecting with the person on an emotional level deeper than anything else. I want to be known intimately by a man who will love me for me, and I...
    FireQueen10 FireQueen10 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    I Want To Fall In Love Again

    It has been six months since I found out you were cheating. 180 days of solitude. I gave so much, 22 years, three beautiful children,everything you wanted. I haven't touched anyone else but you. That's going to be changing soon. I am so starved for love,companionship...
    michael1971 michael1971 41-45, M 4 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    I think emotional intimacy is the most

    important thing in relationship
    nataliawww nataliawww 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 6

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    Married Without Intimacy Is Worse Than Being Single

    I'll say it right up front. I'm codependent.  I'm a romantic. I feel the best way to enjoy something is to share it with someone else.  Emotional intimacy is like oxygen for me. Some people might see this as a personality flaw or weakness. (especially in a guy) I don't. I know...
    FlauntTheImperfections FlauntTheImperfections 41-45, M 16 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    Do you ever get lonely?

    Do you ever feel that no one can understand you? That is how I am feeling right now. You tell me you trust me but yet you shut me down.
    missymiss02 missymiss02 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    I used to think emotional

    and physical intimacy were two parts of the same thing. I know now that I was wrong. Being single I've learned that I need emotional intimacy more than physical intimacy at this point in my life.
    padraig17325 padraig17325 56-60, M Feb 27

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    Creativity Make A Good Personality.[think In Creative]

    Personality is the particular combination of emotional, attitudinal, and behavioral response patterns of an individual. I had a friend. He is small, short and also he looks babyish. But his verbal skills are loud, powerful and logical. This matter make him keep on top level of...
    xvampirex xvampirex 26-30, M 7 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    Is There Such A Thing?

    It's amazing as I read through the stories here just how much we all resonate with one another. It is difficult to share how I feel without repeating what many of you have already said. My husband has pretty much been my best friend for the last 25 years, but something has...
    silentwriter180 silentwriter180 46-50, F 9 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    What I Yearn For

    I am at the stage in my life where it is important for me to experience emotional intimacy once again. I want to be comfortable sharing myself with that one special person without the fear of repercussions. I would love for us to share our secrets, talk about our feelings, sex...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 13 Responses Jul 2, 2011

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    Pathetic???

    I need someone i can tell anything to and not be judged, ridiculed or laughed at Someone i can let my guard down with and not regret it Someone i can tell my dreams hopes and fears to and not be tormented Someone who knows just when and how to hold me Someone who won't always...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 67 Responses Jun 18, 2008

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    My friend killed herself on Christmas Eve.

    I'm straight, but at times I felt like I was in love with her. Maybe it was because she a lesbian and she was in love with me, but she made me feel normal - Happy, loved, desired, cherished. Things I've never felt from anyone. At times I wanted her to find the perfect girl, but...
    ASeaInACup ASeaInACup 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 1, 2014

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    It's been a rough day.

    .. A hard week... I just need some melow talk...
    h4ll h4ll 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2014

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    I tend to need a degree of emotional intimacy

    even in my friendships to feel any sort of connection. Otherwise, people tend to feel really distant to me, even if I see them often.
    itspirit itspirit 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    Update On Hubby!

    Well, I just want to thank everyone who has helped, & given me advice in my situation.. Today, my husband & I had a real connection & I actually felt the LOVE again... I'm still bummed out that he changed the password to his phone, but i'm not going to let that get to me. He...
    SSGArmyWifex SSGArmyWifex 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    It's such a strange struggle

    when you have all the physical intimacy you could need, but when it comes to emotions, there's nothing. I'm always told that I'm not alone and that he's right there and yet every time I have real need for him, he's never around. Somehow I'm always left to deal with or hide or...
    chitters chitters 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 26

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    It sucks when you have a connection with

    someone & somewhere along the way that connection start to diminish. what can bring the spark back? What can I do to make you see me the way you used to ? our relationship has hit a very rough & dry patch. When laughing seemed normal now seems like tiny moments of bliss. maybe...
    GodessGolden GodessGolden 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 10

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    Emotional intimacy is incredibly important to

    me. For someone to connect with me on a deeper level and really understand who I am is more important to me than anything else. Emotional connections form the basis of strong and lasting relationships. Without it, I don't understand how a relationship can survive. I just wish I...
    Superficialsaint Superficialsaint 31-35, F 12 Responses Apr 1

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    Tonight I realized I haven't had human contact

    in a long time, and I don't mean anything sexual though I admit it's been awhile but simple human contact. No handshakes or hugs or even a pat on the back, I really hadn't noticed till tonight. I hadn't noticed how much I could miss it, how important it is until tonight. Life is...
    fadedmind fadedmind 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 19, 2014

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    Emotional Intimacy

    Sex is the easy part. Even if alone you can get yourself through and have some physical release. No problem. Its the emotional intimacy that cant be filled alone. Wanting the connection of another. Feeling what you feel they react and supply you with what's needed. Maybe a hug...
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    LadyLouisiana LadyLouisiana 56-60, F 12 Responses Feb 24, 2013

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    I found that out today in order

    for my boyfriend and I to connect in the bedroom. Funny how I can relate this need back to my childhood. Interesting...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2014

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    The Forgotten Girl

    You won’t remember me. I have become another one of them now, the forgotten girl. You won’t remember my name but you once knew it well; you once thought it was fragrant in your ear like nothing else before.  You won’t remember my face although you once said you memorized...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 34 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    This completely empty marriage has left me

    completely empty. I've been stuck in a kind of numb place for a whole now. I don't feel happy or sad just here. My husband and don't even talk to each other. We drive in the car somewhere and are silent almost the whole time. We eat dinner together and say nothing to each...
    Wantfreedom67 Wantfreedom67 46-50, F 7 Responses Jan 20

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    Princeofnothing Princeofnothing 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    I'm not good at showing most emotions.

    I never have been. I have a family where I logically know there's love, and love is shown in its own way...but there's no emotional intimacy. I've never been close with anyone in that way. I think I could do it, because I crave it so much, but no one has ever gotten that close...
    EternalVexOfTheLogicalMind EternalVexOfTheLogicalMind 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    Ultimately Yours

    Travels unfold faces, places Stories of hearts to be told Feelings of like, love shy and bold No destination in mind just working against time Each day passes apart knowing you carry my heart Near brushes with lust and friendship entwine All the while you held reign over...
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 7 Responses May 20, 2013

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    Myriads of stars in the sky of my life But not

    a single one in my lonely nights Only you the recurring comet of my life Was i born with you, was our destiny tied ? When will you Once again brighten up my lonely night? -Persy.
    persypussy persypussy 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 22, 2014

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    Just ok today ... Maybe it's the weather

    Maybe it's the people around me Something's missing and nobody seems to understand
    LaraLuulu LaraLuulu 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    Reciprocation: a mutual giving

    and receiving.I had this, it slowly disappeared through the years. I want this, no, I need this again. Thank you "M" for showing me how wonderful it feels!
    lifesinlimbo lifesinlimbo 51-55, F 9 Responses Sep 6, 2014

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    i crave intimacy but i get uncomfortable

    when im shown even the slightest bit of attention or affection
    Angelcum Angelcum 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    I can't stand this any longer.

    ..we had it all, we had emotional intimacy even in tough times....and she just dumped me out of the blue! Now I feel myself longing for her, for what we had, even searching for her.......this life sucks. I can't live like this. I can't live without it!
    Sinjintiger Sinjintiger 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 20

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    People where I'm from don't seem to have

    that need. It's so easy for some to just walk away unscarred.. Why is it so difficult for me?
    teeegreen teeegreen 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    i have never felt emotionally intimate with

    anyone.......i feel very detatched. i have friends and family. we talk and have a few laugh and thats that. i feel like iam missing something big
    Camouflage Camouflage 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    Emotions are so overrated by underestimations.

    People are afraid to create bonds because we fear what is to happen. We shouldn't let our fears dictate our actions. For once, I wish someone would approach me with the intentions of staying for more than a month. Lay with me, let us speak like young children. Ramble on to me...
    PixieStixs PixieStixs 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    i need pure connection.

    .i want him to want me as much as i do to him.
    micz521 micz521 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 22

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    Deeper Connection...

    Intimacy is like a craving when you have walls so high and so strong they cannot be broken. It is like someone has put the one thing you want behind impenetrable glass and no matter how hard you try, it stays forever out of your reach. A lot of people think that sex is the most...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 7, 2013

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    Forgive me love, but I'm too tired.

    I'm bored to say the least, and I lack desire.
    MyGuardianAngel MyGuardianAngel 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2014

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    well I'm back , and this time everything is not

    rainbows and flowers with my relationship . to make this short , my boyfriend thinks that I complain way too much now and that everything is always about me. He told me that in order for this relationship to work he does not want to hear about my problems anymore. This really...
    bananasxoxo bananasxoxo 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    I am married but there is nothin there.

    I do what he tells me to do. I live the way he wants me to live. I want someone who will actually talk to me and want to know me. I want to know them. I want to listen and here them out. I am here with 3 kids, a husband, a dog, a guinea pig, and a rabbit and I am lonely.
    Timetobeme Timetobeme 41-45, F 10 Responses Jan 26, 2014

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