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I Need Help Deciding

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    so i have a girlfriend

    which i love very much, but shes year younger . im 18 and shes 17. shes a senior and im junior. im a junior because i got held back 1 year. anyways i have a good job, a car and im very independent, money is never a problem for me. my family is not poor nor rich, where in the...
    kg1016 kg1016 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    Three Job Opportunities....

    1) In a city two hours drive away 2) In the carribean 3) a prospect, not offered yet
    DancesWithDolphins DancesWithDolphins 41-45, M 15 Responses Mar 3, 2008

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    When to Pack Up and Leave.

    I have children and my marriage is over.  Let's just call it "Financial Infidelity."  I have no desire to move forward and be vulnerable to this man that takes great risks with my future and my children's future.  (He is not a gambler, but he likens...
    absolutelyfree absolutelyfree 36-40 1 Response Apr 22, 2008

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    I Can't Decide

    I just graduated from a post-baccalaureate course in IT and now, I want to take a masteral degree.. I am currently working and it would be too hard for me.. But I wanted to learn more.. How would I know that I made the right decision?
    mheeko mheeko 26-30, F 1 Response May 9, 2011

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    RUnaway???

    i need help deciding if i must run away from this ****** life or not,   but of course you'd tell me not too, but if you're feeling what im feeling, maybe you'll tell me go...
    HElovesmesO HElovesmesO 16-17, F 2 Responses May 15, 2008

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    I Can't Make The Decision...

    . It's a decision that should have been made ages ago, and now that i'm in a place where my options are open, I can't. I need a change, it's obvious. I've suffered from depression for a few years now, and it's killing me. I want to leave my hometown so bad, it's so small, and...
    beautifulsadness2 beautifulsadness2 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2011

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    So there's this kid I go to school with

    that is probably the most immature person I've met in a while. And don't get me wrong I don't care when people make jokes and what ever but he really just doesn't know when to stop! It's embarrassing because people are telling him off left and right and I want so badly to tell...
    Smiling4Me Smiling4Me 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 25

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    So there's two guys that i have feelings for.

    My ex boyfriend and my actual boyfriend. Let me tell you about my boyfriend, well he's a calm guy. A bit too quiet but adorable! He's also a bit serious which i hate! If I dont message him then i think we could go a couple of days without talking. We decide when we're going to...
    StayPositivee StayPositivee 18-21, F Jan 21

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    I'm dating this one girl.

    And she never tells me anything. And I feel so lonely in her company. And when she's with this one other boy that's her good friend she acts like she doesn't even notice me. And I feel like crap all the time. And when I'm with her and her good friend comes along she tells me to...
    Batman6140 Batman6140 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 28, 2013

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    Basketball Or Law School

    After stopping a period of 7 years of focus on basketball, this year has been very hard for me.. I received two scholarships at two prep schools in 2008 and 2009 (kind of out of the blue). During my time in school the past 3-4 years I have changed schools 5 times... HoweverI have...
    AguideforIandI AguideforIandI 18-21 1 Response May 28, 2011

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    YES! ...

    YES! I have no idea wat I am going to do in life, I'm constipated.. stuck in life! I am being more and more of a dissapointment to my mom for not having a job or doing anything really. I think I'm going to do the service yet I'm not totally sure about that either. At least if...
    chew253 chew253 18-21 1 Response Jul 15, 2009

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    Confused

    I have a frend....she's had anal sex before bt last week she went to room wid her boyfrend and dey were ther for 2 hours...they were have romance and all..the guy was about to undress her while in between dey were romancing...bt she saw she had blood all over her dress...nw she's...
    neeli05 neeli05 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    What Should I Do With My "friend" ?

    Hello everyone, I need some help with an issue regarding my friend. I don't think I can really class her as a real friend as I only know her online, but regardless, I've know her for 6 years, so since I was 12 years old and we used to be very close. We used to share all our...
    Defmute Defmute 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 26, 2009

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    Law School And Ex Girlfriend

    Well... I miss my ex. A lot. She doesn't want to get back together with me yet she wants to be my friend. For Law School I was going to go to Regent, a backwards Christian ******* retarded law school just to stay close with her. Now I don't really want to go there but I want...
    Historymajor44 Historymajor44 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 23, 2011

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    Life Decision

    I have recently had this "issue", well I'm not sure if that's what you can call it, in my life. I'm not sure if it is just me, but I almost feel like I'm wasting my life. I feel like my entire life revolves around a chase for happiness, which is a reasonable objective however, it...
    EddySA EddySA 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 9, 2013

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    A Choice

    I know this long but I really need advice please. I am getting back into acting, new fashion designer, starting a magazine and use to model. Since 2009 I've always wanted to move to Los Angeles to start a new life and get closer to the industry that I am working in. In 2012 I...
    modelj123 modelj123 22-25 May 23, 2013

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    Where Is Home?

    i need help deciding where i should live. i know its a big one! I'm from malaysia and i'm currently living in New Zealand for studies. I will be done with uni in about 7 weeks and i cant stop wondering where i should be next. I want to travel but living in new zealand is pretty...
    vaicariousninja vaicariousninja 22-25 Nov 6, 2012

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    My boyfriend and i have been in a relationship

    for four months, he's going to be going on his first deployment to California in 2015, I'll be starting college that year, I'm able to go up to live with him, we live in Massachusetts now, we'd be in California for four years if i go, should i go or not? What do i do? I need...
    britufo britufo 16-17, F Dec 21, 2013

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    To Join Or Not To Join?

    For about 2 years now I have been wanting to join the military. I went through a phase wanting to go with the Marines but I realised through looking better into that, that it wasn't the best option. I've been looking into the Navy and I think it would be a great experience in...
    awoeb awoeb 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2011

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    I currently work for my parents in a restaurant

    with no pay my sister 4 years older does get paid I do alot pretty much more than my sister but yet I'm always hearing that she does everything and I do nothing in so tired of it she gets away with a lot and I'm there all the time I don't know if I should just quit and look for...
    gabbi190 gabbi190 18-21, F Mar 13

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    Need Some Suggestions On A Feminine Haircut.

    I lost a bet with my wife's friend. If she lost she had to shave her head, if I lost I had to get a feminine cut and color. I lost the freaking bet! I have just above shoulder length hair. It's dark brown and is all the same length. Does anybody have some suggestions on what I...
    Brisco49 Brisco49 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    I Need Help Deciding If I Should Break Up With My Stinky Boyfriend

    Everyone at his work knows that he's dirty. A few of my guy friends have come up to me and told me that he doesn'y shower, someone even questioned my self-respect by being with him. Every gf he's had has mentionned his non showering.   I've been with him for 10 months...
    lovellly lovellly 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2010

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    Since i was a kid my parents get divorced ,

    so I spend half time with my dad and half with my mom. I had a lovely relatioship with my dad he was so good to me and love so much .But when i stared to grow , he stared to make do things with him till he make me had sex with him , he used to told that was a way of showing him...
    SADLITTLEPIG SADLITTLEPIG 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    i dont know what i want to do with my life.

    ..im tired of my life but i cant see myself nothing better i guess im always going to be an addict and a weirdo...
    sofiasdoodles sofiasdoodles 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    im just wanted to know

    if there are any Ep members in the united kingdom as everyone i talk to lives in america
    Romanticguy2013 Romanticguy2013 22-25, M Jan 5

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    when me and my bff where breaking up cuz her mom found out we had been watchingporn 2gther and i was s*xting guys i met on omegle after my breakup she wouldn't let us hang anymore...
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    I desperately need help. Here is is a summary of my life right now. I'm 16 and still at school. Sarah's ex was abusing her. I tell her for her own safety that she gets away from...
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    So about 5 to 8 weeks ago we got this new guy in our class and we have become really great friends. He told me i am the only friend he has and the only one he trusts. Him and i...
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    I have been bulimic for the past year and I have tried to stop myself but I can't manage to get past 2 weeks clean as it were. I also have a history of self harm, sexual abuse and...
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    I need help. I need to hide. I feel like i am bouta relapse again. Then months of being scar free would pointless
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    I need advice I am in a VERY tough position and do you think I should walk away or what must I do ... My step son is 4 and he lives with us as his mother is a drunk and she cannot...
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