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    I am dating a guy who is younger then me,

    I'm 34 and well he's 28 he's a bit possessive, controlling and very insecure. I'm seeing all these red flags but seem to always stay bc he's kind and loving. He also loves to take me out and helps with bills but I'm constantly being accused of cheating or meeting up with someone...
    Lotusgirlred Lotusgirlred 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 13

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    This year I will be a freshman in high school.

    Volleyball has been my passion and life for 3 years, playing in club and middle school. I'm a good player, not an all star, but close you could say. Golf has been in the background my whole life. My dad has been playing his entire life and my mom picked it up when she met my dad...
    oaklynK7 oaklynK7 13-15, F Aug 5

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    I'm dating this one girl.

    And she never tells me anything. And I feel so lonely in her company. And when she's with this one other boy that's her good friend she acts like she doesn't even notice me. And I feel like crap all the time. And when I'm with her and her good friend comes along she tells me to...
    Batman6140 Batman6140 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 28, 2013

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    I Can't Make The Decision...

    . It's a decision that should have been made ages ago, and now that i'm in a place where my options are open, I can't. I need a change, it's obvious. I've suffered from depression for a few years now, and it's killing me. I want to leave my hometown so bad, it's so small, and...
    beautifulsadness2 beautifulsadness2 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 14, 2011

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    How do you choose between two things?

    How do you make hard choices? Do you know any strategy? Because I think sometimes being rational at the moment doesn't make the cut. That trying to choose the easy way out doesn't end up in a happy ending. I guess it would be a whole lot easier if someone (like God) would show...
    TobeGrey TobeGrey 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 27

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    Okay so next year I have to join an academy in

    my high school and I narrowed it down to 2 academies. There is AMA(academy of media arts) and BCA(biomedical careers academy) I am always good at acting and and making music so that's why I like AMA, but my biology teacher said because I'm the top in my class and I'm honors...
    bisexuwhale bisexuwhale 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    A Choice

    I know this long but I really need advice please. I am getting back into acting, new fashion designer, starting a magazine and use to model. Since 2009 I've always wanted to move to Los Angeles to start a new life and get closer to the industry that I am working in. In 2012 I...
    modelj123 modelj123 26-30 May 23, 2013

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    Basketball Or Law School

    After stopping a period of 7 years of focus on basketball, this year has been very hard for me.. I received two scholarships at two prep schools in 2008 and 2009 (kind of out of the blue). During my time in school the past 3-4 years I have changed schools 5 times... HoweverI have...
    AguideforIandI AguideforIandI 18-21 1 Response May 28, 2011

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    RUnaway???

    i need help deciding if i must run away from this ****** life or not,   but of course you'd tell me not too, but if you're feeling what im feeling, maybe you'll tell me go...
    HElovesmesO HElovesmesO 16-17, F 2 Responses May 15, 2008

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    Law School And Ex Girlfriend

    Well... I miss my ex. A lot. She doesn't want to get back together with me yet she wants to be my friend. For Law School I was going to go to Regent, a backwards Christian ******* retarded law school just to stay close with her. Now I don't really want to go there but I want...
    Historymajor44 Historymajor44 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 23, 2011

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    I don't know what I want.

    People say go with your gut instinct or follow your heart. How the **** do you do that exactly? I have studies so many things certificate 3 in business it taught me to be organised but I know I couldn't sit at a desk and push paper for someone else. I studied the mines...
    ElsieLavigne ElsieLavigne 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 1

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    YES! ...

    YES! I have no idea wat I am going to do in life, I'm constipated.. stuck in life! I am being more and more of a dissapointment to my mom for not having a job or doing anything really. I think I'm going to do the service yet I'm not totally sure about that either. At least if...
    chew253 chew253 18-21 1 Response Jul 15, 2009

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    I Am Desperate For Help Deciding What To Do!!!!!

    I have a really humongous problem. This is something that I have been deciding for months. At first, this could sound a little bit selfish. But this is not that bad. It is a giant personal problem that I am desperate for help on. Whoever is reading this, PLEASE LEAVE A COMMENT...
    confessionstotell confessionstotell 13-15, M Feb 20, 2011

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    Life Decision

    I have recently had this "issue", well I'm not sure if that's what you can call it, in my life. I'm not sure if it is just me, but I almost feel like I'm wasting my life. I feel like my entire life revolves around a chase for happiness, which is a reasonable objective however, it...
    EddySA EddySA 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 9, 2013

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    Where Is Home?

    i need help deciding where i should live. i know its a big one! I'm from malaysia and i'm currently living in New Zealand for studies. I will be done with uni in about 7 weeks and i cant stop wondering where i should be next. I want to travel but living in new zealand is pretty...
    vaicariousninja vaicariousninja 22-25 Nov 6, 2012

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    Since i was a kid my parents get divorced ,

    so I spend half time with my dad and half with my mom. I had a lovely relatioship with my dad he was so good to me and love so much .But when i stared to grow , he stared to make do things with him till he make me had sex with him , he used to told that was a way of showing him...
    SADLITTLEPIG SADLITTLEPIG 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    I currently work for my parents in a restaurant

    with no pay my sister 4 years older does get paid I do alot pretty much more than my sister but yet I'm always hearing that she does everything and I do nothing in so tired of it she gets away with a lot and I'm there all the time I don't know if I should just quit and look for...
    gabbi190 gabbi190 18-21, F Mar 13

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    One of my worst characteristic ,

    being indecisive. I hate it , and everyone around me I'm sure. So I've decided to not second guess my self and just go with it. ( well 75% percent of the time, the only time I become indecisive is when I'm at a restaurant with a dessert menu)
    romi777 romi777 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    What Should I Do With My "friend" ?

    Hello everyone, I need some help with an issue regarding my friend. I don't think I can really class her as a real friend as I only know her online, but regardless, I've know her for 6 years, so since I was 12 years old and we used to be very close. We used to share all our...
    Defmute Defmute 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 26, 2009

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    So there's this kid I go to school with

    that is probably the most immature person I've met in a while. And don't get me wrong I don't care when people make jokes and what ever but he really just doesn't know when to stop! It's embarrassing because people are telling him off left and right and I want so badly to tell...
    Smiling4Me Smiling4Me 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 25

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    so i have a girlfriend

    which i love very much, but shes year younger . im 18 and shes 17. shes a senior and im junior. im a junior because i got held back 1 year. anyways i have a good job, a car and im very independent, money is never a problem for me. my family is not poor nor rich, where in the...
    kg1016 kg1016 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    So my friend asked me to hang out

    before school starts back. And I know she's gonna want to get high,but I'm not sure if I'm ready for that. I've smoked and drunk a bit, but this is different. So I don't know if i should hang out with her or not. It'll either be getting high or drinking, but I don't drink much...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    I Can't Decide

    I just graduated from a post-baccalaureate course in IT and now, I want to take a masteral degree.. I am currently working and it would be too hard for me.. But I wanted to learn more.. How would I know that I made the right decision?
    mheeko mheeko 26-30, F 1 Response May 9, 2011

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    Three Job Opportunities....

    1) In a city two hours drive away 2) In the carribean 3) a prospect, not offered yet
    DancesWithDolphins DancesWithDolphins 41-45, M 15 Responses Mar 3, 2008

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    Confused

    I have a frend....she's had anal sex before bt last week she went to room wid her boyfrend and dey were ther for 2 hours...they were have romance and all..the guy was about to undress her while in between dey were romancing...bt she saw she had blood all over her dress...nw she's...
    neeli05 neeli05 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    Need Some Suggestions On A Feminine Haircut.

    I lost a bet with my wife's friend. If she lost she had to shave her head, if I lost I had to get a feminine cut and color. I lost the freaking bet! I have just above shoulder length hair. It's dark brown and is all the same length. Does anybody have some suggestions on what I...
    Brisco49 Brisco49 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    To Join Or Not To Join?

    For about 2 years now I have been wanting to join the military. I went through a phase wanting to go with the Marines but I realised through looking better into that, that it wasn't the best option. I've been looking into the Navy and I think it would be a great experience in...
    awoeb awoeb 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2011

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    I Need Help Deciding If I Should Break Up With My Stinky Boyfriend

    Everyone at his work knows that he's dirty. A few of my guy friends have come up to me and told me that he doesn'y shower, someone even questioned my self-respect by being with him. Every gf he's had has mentionned his non showering.   I've been with him for 10 months...
    lovellly lovellly 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2010

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    i dont know what i want to do with my life.

    ..im tired of my life but i cant see myself nothing better i guess im always going to be an addict and a weirdo...
    sofiasdoodles sofiasdoodles 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    My boyfriend and i have been in a relationship

    for four months, he's going to be going on his first deployment to California in 2015, I'll be starting college that year, I'm able to go up to live with him, we live in Massachusetts now, we'd be in California for four years if i go, should i go or not? What do i do? I need...
    britufo britufo 16-17, F Dec 21, 2013

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    When to Pack Up and Leave.

    I have children and my marriage is over.  Let's just call it "Financial Infidelity."  I have no desire to move forward and be vulnerable to this man that takes great risks with my future and my children's future.  (He is not a gambler, but he likens...
    absolutelyfree absolutelyfree 36-40 1 Response Apr 22, 2008

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    So there's two guys that i have feelings for.

    My ex boyfriend and my actual boyfriend. Let me tell you about my boyfriend, well he's a calm guy. A bit too quiet but adorable! He's also a bit serious which i hate! If I dont message him then i think we could go a couple of days without talking. We decide when we're going to...
    StayPositivee StayPositivee 18-21, F Jan 21

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    im just wanted to know

    if there are any Ep members in the united kingdom as everyone i talk to lives in america
    Romanticguy2013 Romanticguy2013 22-25, M Jan 5

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