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    OK I'm writing "thank you" s for graduation and i dont know what to write on the card for my boyfriend's family..i know this isn't exactly an "emergency" situation where i need help but...yea.. they gave me $20 and this mom framed one of his senior pictures...
    little9lulu little9lulu 18-21 2 Responses Jun 23, 2008

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    25ImBeth 25ImBeth 46-50, F Jan 7

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    My Family Is Driving Me Mad. Most Of My 'Friends ' Hate Me And Im So Stressed

    I cant work out what my family want. I've always worked and studied and slaved but its never good enough for them and im at a loss. We are gonna be chucked out of our house again so soon. My mum hates me and i hate her. My dad constantly tells me he wishes he didn't have kids and...
    prettybrowneyes1993 prettybrowneyes1993 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    so there's this guy my3 best friends in the

    world hate bc he's a douchebag so when I found out he was in my science group and I told my friends they were all mad and I was sorta like "ew but whatever". after being in his group for a while, I just started noticing the good in him and he's honestly hot. and he's tall as...
    confuuuuuuuuuuused confuuuuuuuuuuused 22-25, F Sep 9, 2014

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    I Hate My Life..

    I hate my mother she is always treating me like a child I"m 15 years old!I have been molsted twice too...and I have been abused my an ex bf badly. I've runaway twice, the 2nd time I did though I was almost kindapped and there was alest 6 guys in that car. My mother yells at...
    Codysgirl Codysgirl 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 18, 2009

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    I'm Done With Relationships...

    My personal love life is sooooo screwed. I thought I was much stronger than this but I guess not. I really need to stay away from guys from awhile...I can't be in a relationship.
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F Oct 6, 2010

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    Tasks have become hard on me.

    To plugging in the tv. To normal routines. Maybe I should take it easy. Or is it really time to tell myself I need help?
    WolfAngel29 WolfAngel29 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    rainyday10 rainyday10 22-25, M Mar 21

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    Situation Getting Desparate

    Hello.... I am needing help, love, support, and wisdom right now. Hubby is such an alcoholic and getting worse by the day.  12-year-old son is suffering.  He has caused damage to our Jeep (again) today.  My son is scared of him and blocks his door...
    soonermom soonermom 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 10, 2008

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    I did things that I wish I didn't.

    It hurt the good people in my life for my selfish reasons. I deserve all this guilt inside my chest. I know I deserve all the punishment I will get but how do I make better of the situation?
    katro0264 katro0264 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 28, 2014

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    I have tried this before to get some help

    and here I am again. I'm a single dad raising my son since he was 1 now he will be 9 soon. I am having the hardest time letting go of his mom even though she is no good for me. My son loves her and she loves him. I'm lost in this place I just don't know what to do and it's...
    lifesabeach4me2 lifesabeach4me2 41-45, M 1 Response May 25

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    Wzs Tryin To Mov On..bt He Held Me Bak!

    i ws tryin to mov on in ma lyf widout hm...evnthoh there were stil smethngs dt constantly reminded me f hm bt i ws tryin to gt rid of dose thots....bt again he held me bak............knowingly---unknowingly..........nw i smetimes think i m bak 2 d place frm where i startd ...d...
    Daizy04 Daizy04 18-21 1 Response Mar 4, 2012

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    New Here And Would Like To Talk

    I have some things I feel I might be ready to talk about, I would like to talk to my family but I don't want to hurt them... Some bad things have happened over the last 2 and a half years and I've been bottling it all up, now I feel I need to talk to someone who doesn't know me...
    kp080911 kp080911 22-25, F May 27, 2013

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    I recently got into some problems with the

    authorities. I got charged with DUI on cannabis. Their evidence is slightly to nothing. They said my eyes were bloodshot and I failed the sobriety test that was made for alcohol in the first place. If I go in the court alone I don't stand a chance but If I get a lawyer, most...
    strandedsoul strandedsoul 18-21, M Aug 24, 2014

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    Advice For Thanksgiving Tomorrow... Please Read

    So long story short- I have a really messed up family. For the holidays we normally go to my grandmas on my moms side and every holiday there's always a fight. No one gets together only for the holidays which makes me feel that it isn't much of a holiday after all (spending it...
    Hopeforchange13 Hopeforchange13 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    Pain Is My Prison

    Im not sure exactly where to start. But because its easier to write what I feel I decided every weekend I will tell some of MY story in hopes that I get some responce. Im hoping it will help me to sort life out again. Ive had a rough two or three years and its easy to get lost in...
    mypapersoul mypapersoul 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2012

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    Someone is texting me

    and saying that they're thinking about committing suicide and I don't know what to say
    bellancas bellancas 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 9, 2014

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    Please Help!

    Any advise any information would do me well. I'm 24, pregnant, homeless in two weeks and starving, I'm working but I make enough just pay half my bills. I was working two jobs to make ends meet, but since I got pregnant I can't work two jobs and I'm behind on everything. I...
    mcjena22 mcjena22 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2009

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    I Am A Withered Flower..........i Was His Flower!

    Please Read.....my Soul Is Bleeding......Where do i even begin....First i am thankful to have found this site for i am beyond distraught, hurt, depressed and i NEED to release words to help purge my soul!!! i am so heart broken SO thank you if you are reading this and i will...
    storm77 storm77 31-35, F 6 Responses May 21, 2011

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    The other day, my co-worker was showing me

    people on Tinder, and one of the men that showed up was someone I knew. He is my ex-boyfriend's brother. Well the problem is, his brother is married, and his wife (my ex's sister-in-law) talks to me and asks me to go for coffee if she needs to vent. I was shocked but I also...
    Navia55 Navia55 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    Where To From Here?

     Hmmmmmm…I dnt knw where to start…I was feeling really anxious today…as usual contemplating when im going, how im going, the life we’re gonna live…lead…nephews im gonna take in, how that life was gonna balance…whether I’d...
    injured injured 18-21, F Nov 24, 2009

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    I Dont Kno How To Make My Borther Understand

    i dont know what to do . i dont understand how to make my borther understand my psoriasis is not a joke .he thinks when i have pain its funny or when he smokes and my skins gets red and hard time breathing and when i try to make him understand he blamesit on me.after my mom,s...
    farii01 farii01 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2012

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    Know Anything About Cameras?

    I need to buy a new digital camera... my old one broke because the screen busted...got stepped on..or dropped dont know..anyway.. i need a new camera. and i want to buy one this month before i go over to europe! fun! anywhoo.. but i dont know what to buy.. i can't decide if i...
    little9lulu little9lulu 18-21 Jun 23, 2008

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    Blease help me !! I thought I was in love with

    my classmate until I met that other girl but wasn't interested and it was a real love it's 9 years now I'm single I don't know what to ?! To try with my classmate or wait to the other one !! I really like my classmate and I want to forget the other one but I'm afraid to to still...
    mA211 mA211 18-21, M a week ago

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    My girlfriend just called me saying

    that her labor coach no longer talks to her because my girlfriends step mom blames her labor coach for everything my girlfriend does wrong. I dont know what to do or say to her. I would like some help and guidance from caring people and i dont want rude comments please cause im...
    Zachary95 Zachary95 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 7

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    My grandmother has cancer

    and she is dying and I can't even go to see her because of my stupid exams. I feel very bad and I don't know what to do
    Flight678 Flight678 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 18, 2014

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    My boyfriend is going to college 6 hours away.

    We've been together a year and a half now. Everyone is telling me i should let him have his space, because hes too good of a guy for me. But i don't know if i can do that...
    pandalover41113 pandalover41113 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    Appreciation to You All

    For the first time, I wrote a posting online last year.  Times were tough and I had no outlet to talk to anyone.  Thank you to the handful of people that replied.  I didn't expect that anyone would care.  Since my first posting, I was afraid to come back...
    kiku45 kiku45 31-35, F Mar 2, 2008

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    My bf is trying to quit smoking,

    which is something he wanted to do himself. I know its difficult and he's going through withdrawal - but I've become somewhat of a punching bag/some kind of germ he wants to get rid of. He makes hurtful comments, picks at me, makes jabs at me, looks at me like I'm vermin and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 2

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    She Cheated

    My GF of 3 years felt that she was not getting the attention she needed from me.  Everything else was great, and I personally thought I was doing fine in all catagories, but I guess I was wrong.  At any rate, I saw a change in her normal behaviour over the last 3 weeks...
    1johnnyo 1johnnyo 56-60, M 4 Responses Jun 13, 2010

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    I'm in a relationship with a guy.

    (I'm male) My boyfriend is bi. We're really happy together and talk all the time. We both come from a bad place in the past. I've been good the past year or so, he's still recovering. The point is that I love him more than anything, but I couldn't bare to hurt his feelings, he...
    JustHewerl JustHewerl 13-15, M Mar 24

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    He texted saying he wanted a minute

    and it seemed like a snap at me. I didnt want to bother him but he is busy and i guess i didnt pick up on that in time. And he said last time to always bother him when im hurting inside but he just said to leave him alone so i dont know what to do. It really hurts but i dont...
    bmsartwell bmsartwell 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 13, 2014

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    Why Can't I Be Happy With What I Have?

    I am married to a wonderful woman. I love her more than life itself. I am currently in afghanistan and I feel like I am totally alone. I feel like I have to try singles ads and try to find women to send me dirty emails and I dont understand why I cannot be happy with what I have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 29, 2010

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    Help

    I didn't know where to post this, I just wanted to write this somewhere because I am going to lose my mind if I don't. I've been with my boyfriend for longer then I care to remember and I am so sick of feeling this way, even though I bring it all on myself. I can't leave...
    sarajean sarajean 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 27, 2009

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    I had a fairly good week

    but I messed up last night and got drunk- and now I'm on a binge I drink to cover up the pain and I'm in pain mostly because I drink. FML
    startingover34 startingover34 31-35, M May 30

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    Confirmation For What I Want To Do

    It is not so much that I do not know what to do, I want confirmation for what I will do.   Been with my wife for almost 12 years, married for 5 years. Within the first year, she had an affair with a young homeless man I took in helped to get back on his feet. I guess he...
    boss21519 boss21519 31-35, M Apr 1, 2013

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    I Just Wanna Stop Hurting

    From one bad group who completely turn on me to another who are now lying to me and unsupporting. I cant take the pain anymore. I just want to be treated right for the time in my life. I am a trouble magnet and for that i have fallen victim. I want the pain to go away. I want to...
    ThisChica ThisChica 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 26, 2013

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    Can Anyone Help?

    Skyler is also known as my sunshine. Skyler is 9 1/2 yrs old and has Asperger Syndrome which is on the lower end of the Autism spectrum. Along with Asperger's Skyler also has PDD, ADD, ADHD,OCD, and a few other learning disorders. All this being said he can be a challenge at...
    angelzevil angelzevil 26-30, F Mar 20, 2010

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    I Am Going Bonkers!!

    I have been with my husband for 17 years. We have been married for 4 years. I often ask myself Why did I get married to this man? As I look back at the history that we have shared I want out of this marriage. He's jealous, he's been manipulative, he's abusive emotionally and...
    Sacrifice Sacrifice 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 5, 2007

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    I have a problem(or else I wouldn't be writing

    this). I have felt alone for long enough. There is a really nice girl that I danced with at cotillion. We won 1st place in the waltz. Does anyone have ideas to start going out with her.
    Illinidude Illinidude 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 9, 2014

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    Please... :(

    I need help with interacting with other people.. Boys.. It's a therapeutic thing.. I'm not a wh**e I love to help others but right now I need help myself... Please.. I have very bad anxiety problems so I'm very very sorry if I seem awkward or nervous... (/).( )
    PrincessJForever PrincessJForever 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 17, 2013

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    How Screwed Up One People Can Be?

    I have a drinking problem. Ibelieve that im not an alcoholic, I dont drink daily, just once or twice a week, but when i do i get so drunk i dont know anymore who i am or where i am. During the week im always so thursty i want to drink so much and wait for the weekend. I didnt see...
    Kathry Kathry 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 21, 2010

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    I Just Need to Sort This Out...

    My husband and I are constantly fighting about everything. There is no stopping us. We have nice moments, and then suddenly everything goes dark. We are at it again...and again...and again. Should we stay together? I just don't know anymore...
    kiku45 kiku45 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 8, 2007

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    Stressed And Always Tired

    I don't understand why I feel to tired... I go to sleep so late that it hurts to wake up in the morning. School is so stressful, from work to friends, it just never ends. Why can't I go to bed? Why Can't I sleep? Why can't I wake up in the morning feeling happy? Why? someone...
    gabs4help gabs4help 16-17, F 1 Response May 27, 2013

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    What Do I Do?!

    (all names have been changed to protect the innocent!!) Scott - Married for 18 years. On paper.. perfect: does not drink, smoke, party. Works all the time. Very controlling. Did not like me to go anywhere. Would get mad if I made any changes to the house. I wasn't even allowed...
    sadsarah73 sadsarah73 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 23, 2010

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    I M H8in 2 Liv Lik Ds!

    i recently broke up wid my bf.......i lvd hm very much n he also did....bt i dnt knw y dis happened...it was his decision n i didn't stop him coz dis was our 5th brk up in 5yrs of reltnshp!i cnt afoord 2 loose hm again n again n i hv no more strength 2 face another terrible brk...
    Daizy04 Daizy04 18-21 1 Response Jun 11, 2011

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