I Need Help I Dont Know What to Do

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 476 People

    I Just Wanna Stop Hurting

    From one bad group who completely turn on me to another who are now lying to me and unsupporting. I cant take the pain anymore. I just want to be treated right for the time in my life. I am a trouble magnet and for that i have fallen victim. I want the pain to go away. I want to...
    ThisChica ThisChica
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 26, 2013
    LonelySpeaker1987 LonelySpeaker1987
    13-15, F
    Jan 5

    My friend wants to write this to a guy she likes

    and wanted my advice on whether she should, but I don't know what I would do it someone wrote this to me. I should have put this in questions but it was too long so I'm writing it as an experience instead. I hope that's ok :) Hi so this is going to be really awkward but I've...
    samiisprink samiisprink
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 4

    How Much More Frustration Can I Take?

    Ok so im a african american 19yr old, i work for a railroad company, i stay with my mom, and i drive an old school car . yes i admit i have drug addiction i smoke marijuana everyday,. (basic everyday routine) anyways im off today so im sitting here confused and frustrated behind...
    srt92 srt92
    18-21, M
    Dec 16, 2011
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 21, 2015

    I Am Going Bonkers!!

    I have been with my husband for 17 years. We have been married for 4 years. I often ask myself Why did I get married to this man? As I look back at the history that we have shared I want out of this marriage. He's jealous, he's been manipulative, he's abusive emotionally and...
    Sacrifice Sacrifice
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Nov 5, 2007

    I think my new "friends" forgot about me.

    .. It's been 3 months since I moved to another country. .. its so hard for me.. I left my friends, and I miss being with them so much. i don't know anybody here, I miss to spend time with people.. 3 months I've been sitting home and just watching tv.. but couple of days ago, I...
    shinminrin shinminrin
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 5

    Advice For Thanksgiving Tomorrow... Please Read

    So long story short- I have a really messed up family. For the holidays we normally go to my grandmas on my moms side and every holiday there's always a fight. No one gets together only for the holidays which makes me feel that it isn't much of a holiday after all (spending it...
    Hopeforchange13 Hopeforchange13
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 27, 2013

    I Just Need to Sort This Out...

    My husband and I are constantly fighting about everything. There is no stopping us. We have nice moments, and then suddenly everything goes dark. We are at it again...and again...and again. Should we stay together? I just don't know anymore...
    kiku45 kiku45
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Oct 8, 2007

    Situation Getting Desparate

    Hello.... I am needing help, love, support, and wisdom right now. Hubby is such an alcoholic and getting worse by the day.  12-year-old son is suffering.  He has caused damage to our Jeep (again) today.  My son is scared of him and blocks his door...
    soonermom soonermom
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Aug 10, 2008

    He texted saying he wanted a minute

    and it seemed like a snap at me. I didnt want to bother him but he is busy and i guess i didnt pick up on that in time. And he said last time to always bother him when im hurting inside but he just said to leave him alone so i dont know what to do. It really hurts but i dont...
    bmsartwell bmsartwell
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Aug 13, 2014

    Why Can't I Be Happy With What I Have?

    I am married to a wonderful woman. I love her more than life itself. I am currently in afghanistan and I feel like I am totally alone. I feel like I have to try singles ads and try to find women to send me dirty emails and I dont understand why I cannot be happy with what I have...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 29, 2010

    What Do I Do?!

    (all names have been changed to protect the innocent!!) Scott - Married for 18 years. On paper.. perfect: does not drink, smoke, party. Works all the time. Very controlling. Did not like me to go anywhere. Would get mad if I made any changes to the house. I wasn't even allowed...
    sadsarah73 sadsarah73
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Dec 23, 2010

    Someone is texting me

    and saying that they're thinking about committing suicide and I don't know what to say
    bellancas bellancas
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Apr 9, 2014

    I M H8in 2 Liv Lik Ds!

    i recently broke up wid my bf.......i lvd hm very much n he also did....bt i dnt knw y dis happened...it was his decision n i didn't stop him coz dis was our 5th brk up in 5yrs of reltnshp!i cnt afoord 2 loose hm again n again n i hv no more strength 2 face another terrible brk...
    Daizy04 Daizy04
    18-21
    1 Response Jun 11, 2011

    I Dont Kno How To Make My Borther Understand

    i dont know what to do . i dont understand how to make my borther understand my psoriasis is not a joke .he thinks when i have pain its funny or when he smokes and my skins gets red and hard time breathing and when i try to make him understand he blamesit on me.after my mom,s...
    farii01 farii01
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 27, 2012

    Can Anyone Help?

    Skyler is also known as my sunshine. Skyler is 9 1/2 yrs old and has Asperger Syndrome which is on the lower end of the Autism spectrum. Along with Asperger's Skyler also has PDD, ADD, ADHD,OCD, and a few other learning disorders. All this being said he can be a challenge at...
    angelzevil angelzevil
    26-30, F
    Mar 20, 2010

    My grandmother has cancer

    and she is dying and I can't even go to see her because of my stupid exams. I feel very bad and I don't know what to do
    Flight678 Flight678
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 18, 2014

    Help

    So I just got this girl as a friend at the beginning of the school year. We have become close friends. But, I am worried she likes me. She stares at me in the hallways and in the few classes I have. What do I do?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 19, 2013
    Elmo1218 Elmo1218
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 11, 2007

    How Screwed Up One People Can Be?

    I have a drinking problem. Ibelieve that im not an alcoholic, I dont drink daily, just once or twice a week, but when i do i get so drunk i dont know anymore who i am or where i am. During the week im always so thursty i want to drink so much and wait for the weekend. I didnt see...
    Kathry Kathry
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Nov 21, 2010

    Tasks have become hard on me.

    To plugging in the tv. To normal routines. Maybe I should take it easy. Or is it really time to tell myself I need help?
    WolfAngel29 WolfAngel29
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jan 1, 2015

    I have a problem(or else I wouldn't be writing

    this). I have felt alone for long enough. There is a really nice girl that I danced with at cotillion. We won 1st place in the waltz. Does anyone have ideas to start going out with her.
    Illinidude Illinidude
    16-17, M
    1 Response Apr 9, 2014

    Blease help me !! I thought I was in love with

    my classmate until I met that other girl but wasn't interested and it was a real love it's 9 years now I'm single I don't know what to ?! To try with my classmate or wait to the other one !! I really like my classmate and I want to forget the other one but I'm afraid to to still...
    mA211 mA211
    18-21, M
    Jun 30, 2015

    She Cheated

    My GF of 3 years felt that she was not getting the attention she needed from me.  Everything else was great, and I personally thought I was doing fine in all catagories, but I guess I was wrong.  At any rate, I saw a change in her normal behaviour over the last 3 weeks...
    1johnnyo 1johnnyo
    56-60, M
    4 Responses Jun 13, 2010

    Life So Far...

    well my story is this so far-I'm 18 years old and about 5 months ago i left school (a year and half too early) because i was suffering with depression and cudnt face anything especially school, so around the time i left school i was pretty bad and went to the doctor for help, i...
    boreddd boreddd
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 21, 2009

    Appreciation to You All

    For the first time, I wrote a posting online last year.  Times were tough and I had no outlet to talk to anyone.  Thank you to the handful of people that replied.  I didn't expect that anyone would care.  Since my first posting, I was afraid to come back...
    kiku45 kiku45
    31-35, F
    Mar 2, 2008

    The other day, my co-worker was showing me

    people on Tinder, and one of the men that showed up was someone I knew. He is my ex-boyfriend's brother. Well the problem is, his brother is married, and his wife (my ex's sister-in-law) talks to me and asks me to go for coffee if she needs to vent. I was shocked but I also...
    Navia55 Navia55
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 24, 2014

    I an 8 months pregnant an I have anxiety an

    panic attacks..so I am unable to function well enough..an because of that I was unable to go back to school or find a job like normal people...unwanted to be a vet tech or something that had to do with working with animals that pays good for the long run..so that I could provide...
    Digi23 Digi23
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 29, 2014

    I had a fairly good week

    but I messed up last night and got drunk- and now I'm on a binge I drink to cover up the pain and I'm in pain mostly because I drink. FML
    startingover34 startingover34
    31-35, M
    May 30, 2015

    Know Anything About Cameras?

    I need to buy a new digital camera... my old one broke because the screen busted...got stepped on..or dropped dont know..anyway.. i need a new camera. and i want to buy one this month before i go over to europe! fun! anywhoo.. but i dont know what to buy.. i can't decide if i...
    little9lulu little9lulu
    18-21
    Jun 23, 2008

    What should I do once I leave high school.

    I can't go to college What can I do besides work I wanted to become a EMT but it seem nice I need college for that (sad face)
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 29, 2014

    Where To From Here?

     Hmmmmmm…I dnt knw where to start…I was feeling really anxious today…as usual contemplating when im going, how im going, the life we’re gonna live…lead…nephews im gonna take in, how that life was gonna balance…whether I’d...
    injured injured
    18-21, F
    Nov 24, 2009

    I'm a mom who recently lost custody of my

    daughter whose about to turn 14,&she's been all over the place with her feelings and emotions. I have her for spring break but she leaves tomorrow and she's written a letter to me and she admits that she's cutting herself not eating ,&sleeping since she left here on Feb 19,its...
    bellastar1 bellastar1
    41-45, F
    1 Response Mar 25, 2015
    25ImBeth 25ImBeth
    46-50, F
    Jan 7, 2015

    -Philippines,19,F Hi everyone!

    Good day to all of you. I'm taking up Nursing and I stopped in college right now. Because the tuition fee are very expensive and the materials in nursing I can't afford too. And some other people says that they will help me and they want to have in return. And the return is to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 15, 2015

    So basically Iv been with this guy

    for nearly 3 and a half years & it's been great. All good you know the usual. But for the less than a year maybe I don't know. When we argue he makes it to be my fault all the time and then I feel bad and apologise and make up you know etc & hell ignore me for weeks and make me...
    anisha07969 anisha07969
    22-25, F
    Feb 26

    My girlfriend just called me saying

    that her labor coach no longer talks to her because my girlfriends step mom blames her labor coach for everything my girlfriend does wrong. I dont know what to do or say to her. I would like some help and guidance from caring people and i dont want rude comments please cause im...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 7, 2015

    My bf is trying to quit smoking,

    which is something he wanted to do himself. I know its difficult and he's going through withdrawal - but I've become somewhat of a punching bag/some kind of germ he wants to get rid of. He makes hurtful comments, picks at me, makes jabs at me, looks at me like I'm vermin and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 2, 2015

    Please... :(

    I need help with interacting with other people.. Boys.. It's a therapeutic thing.. I'm not a wh**e I love to help others but right now I need help myself... Please.. I have very bad anxiety problems so I'm very very sorry if I seem awkward or nervous... (/).( )
    PrincessJForever PrincessJForever
    16-17, F
    6 Responses Aug 17, 2013

    Please Help!

    Any advise any information would do me well. I'm 24, pregnant, homeless in two weeks and starving, I'm working but I make enough just pay half my bills. I was working two jobs to make ends meet, but since I got pregnant I can't work two jobs and I'm behind on everything. I...
    mcjena22 mcjena22
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 21, 2009

    I'm in a relationship with a guy.

    (I'm male) My boyfriend is bi. We're really happy together and talk all the time. We both come from a bad place in the past. I've been good the past year or so, he's still recovering. The point is that I love him more than anything, but I couldn't bare to hurt his feelings, he...
    JustHewerl JustHewerl
    16-17, M
    Mar 24, 2015

    Pain Is My Prison

    Im not sure exactly where to start. But because its easier to write what I feel I decided every weekend I will tell some of MY story in hopes that I get some responce. Im hoping it will help me to sort life out again. Ive had a rough two or three years and its easy to get lost in...
    mypapersoul mypapersoul
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 10, 2012

    I'm Done With Relationships...

    My personal love life is sooooo screwed. I thought I was much stronger than this but I guess not. I really need to stay away from guys from awhile...I can't be in a relationship.
    Val3ntine Val3ntine
    18-21, F
    Oct 6, 2010

    Please.

    help.   thats about it. i need help and i cant ask for it. im spiriling down this thing of depression and i want to get out. please help. i think i need to get back on my prozac.alsdfadkf. no. no non ono.
    asdflkjghlove asdflkjghlove
    16-17, F
    Jul 28, 2008

    Random Help Asap

    OK I'm writing "thank you" s for graduation and i dont know what to write on the card for my boyfriend's family..i know this isn't exactly an "emergency" situation where i need help but...yea.. they gave me $20 and this mom framed one of his senior pictures...
    little9lulu little9lulu
    18-21
    2 Responses Jun 23, 2008

    There is one boy we flirted a long time

    when he was single and me too. That was ok and so and after a time he had a girlfriend. Their relation ship is so damn serious! And also I have a boyfriend now and I love him really much. But accidentally he starts to flirt with me sometimes. I really don't want that he does...
    Chloe1o Chloe1o
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 10

    I Am A Withered Flower..........i Was His Flower!

    Please Read.....my Soul Is Bleeding......Where do i even begin....First i am thankful to have found this site for i am beyond distraught, hurt, depressed and i NEED to release words to help purge my soul!!! i am so heart broken SO thank you if you are reading this and i will...
    storm77 storm77
    31-35, F
    6 Responses May 21, 2011

    I did things that I wish I didn't.

    It hurt the good people in my life for my selfish reasons. I deserve all this guilt inside my chest. I know I deserve all the punishment I will get but how do I make better of the situation?
    katro0264 katro0264
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 28, 2014

    Help

    I didn't know where to post this, I just wanted to write this somewhere because I am going to lose my mind if I don't. I've been with my boyfriend for longer then I care to remember and I am so sick of feeling this way, even though I bring it all on myself. I can't leave...
    sarajean sarajean
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jul 27, 2009

    My boyfriend is going to college 6 hours away.

    We've been together a year and a half now. Everyone is telling me i should let him have his space, because hes too good of a guy for me. But i don't know if i can do that...
    pandalover41113 pandalover41113
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 31, 2014
    Hayley13T15 Hayley13T15
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 21, 2015

    I recently got into some problems with the

    authorities. I got charged with DUI on cannabis. Their evidence is slightly to nothing. They said my eyes were bloodshot and I failed the sobriety test that was made for alcohol in the first place. If I go in the court alone I don't stand a chance but If I get a lawyer, most...
    strandedsoul strandedsoul
    18-21, M
    Aug 24, 2014

    I Hate My Life..

    I hate my mother she is always treating me like a child I"m 15 years old!I have been molsted twice too...and I have been abused my an ex bf badly. I've runaway twice, the 2nd time I did though I was almost kindapped and there was alest 6 guys in that car. My mother yells at...
    Codysgirl Codysgirl
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2009
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