I Need Help Raising And Disciplining Children

Need support or need advice? Share either your experiences or Solutions that have worked for you, all because we love our children! 199 People

    My Kids Don't Want To Be With Me

       I am a single mother  of 2  young boys. My oldest 9 year old and youngest 6 year old.  I  divorsed and left the house 2 years ago. But  my boys recent me  and refused to be wih me now. They  have mixed emotions  and lash out on me  when  their father talk to  them...
    lizyerena lizyerena
    1 Response Nov 27, 2011

    Breeding Monsters

    When a child kills a million people on screen then add physcotropic drugs the recipe spells disaster . Our society is flooded with these children . This is not a accident but intentional to turn good loving children into monsters with no feelings of regret remorse or empathy...
    georgeb99 georgeb99
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Sep 27, 2013

    Hello i'm Ashleigh 19 I know im very young I

    have been mentoring young teenagers and helping single parents for over 3 years if you are looking and seeking for advice on how to discipline children when the child needs to be put into line and teached a lesson. I use Hand and hair brush are the perfect combination for a...
    Ashleigh1996 Ashleigh1996
    18-21, F
    Mar 9, 2016

    My Kali

    well today i called my sister and picked up my neice and nephew(feel bad for my nephew he was a problem and his dad was FURIOUS) but aparently while i was dealing with my nephew who was being a royal pain she felt i was neglecting her which hurt her feellings badly and shes...
    IsmoAkkete IsmoAkkete
    4 Responses Jul 16, 2012

    Anyone Want To Chat And Be Friends

    Hello all pro spanking mom here single with three girls and one boy I would like to meet others like me and lets exchange stories and be friends, due you yahoo lets chat hollyann
    hollymom123 hollymom123
    41-45, F
    22 Responses Jul 28, 2012

    I Will Never Give Up On My Children.

    Growing up I felt like my parents gave up on me. They were divorced and dating other people and when things didn't work out or they were afraid that I might come in between them and their significant other, they would ship me off to the other parent! This happened so many times...
    SealedWithAKisss SealedWithAKisss
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Mar 11, 2010

    I am a strict dad and mentor on the East Coast

    USA. would be happy to help any needy family with their discipline needs.
    lion1776 lion1776
    46-50, M
    Mar 8, 2016

    Parent/teacher Conference Please Help Me.

    We had our bi-annual PTC on Thursday. Luckily we have two kids at one school two kids at the other. So we had a schedule all planned out. 9:00 AM we see Katherine's middle school advisor, 11:00 we see Cole's advisor, 3:00 we see Liberty's home room teacher, 5:00 Evan's teacher...
    Tropicana55 Tropicana55
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Apr 21, 2012

    My Kids Are Out Of Control!

    I am a happily married mother of four! I have 11 year old twin boys, a 5 year old daughter, and a two year old boy! And I have my hands full! Honestly I am a little overwhelmed, How does one control thier children? I've been working on it for 11 years now! I have a set of house...
    SealedWithAKisss SealedWithAKisss
    36-40, F
    21 Responses Feb 19, 2010

    For Exceptional Parents Who Love To Learn; Learn To Love.

    When you see a tree, do you automatically convert it in your mind into diapers and newspapers and Japanese-style beamed ceilings? School, which is to say education, and children’s television, are generated by a mentality which automatically converts your children into...
    PikdFlowr PikdFlowr
    61-65, M
    1 Response Nov 3, 2011


    hello all holly here single mom with four kids and I am a strong pro spanking mommy, I also use other punishments. I woulike to meet you all, any one have you tried spanking and its not working lets chat thanks
    hollymom123 hollymom123
    41-45, F
    4 Responses May 23, 2012

    I am a man, 45 years old.

    I have through the years got some experience in spanking. I have had contacts with several moms, needing help with spanking from time to time. Most of these has been about girls in different ages. I believe in being very strict. In the beginning, it can feels hard, but after...
    Michaelme Michaelme
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Aug 16, 2015

    Wha Should Be Dne?

    my second oldest son jacob(only by 23minutes,hes 14) well todayprogress reports came out,not swell fr him i tldhim he was grounded until i see improvement,he then started screaming at me,and when i told him t go to his roomthat instant he burstout saing "i don thave to *****" i...
    ida34 ida34
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Oct 5, 2012


    I know this is something that runs in our family, but I’m really getting sick and tired of it. One of the twins is refusing to do anything I ask her to do just because I told her. I know that this is part of growing up. But I can’t just listen to her telling me there is...
    Melanie1987 Melanie1987
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 10, 2012

    I'm passing out paddle ball paddles

    for Halloween once the ball breaks the mommies get a present the kids all seem concerned
    daddybuttspanker daddybuttspanker
    26-30, M
    Oct 31, 2015

    Sick Child

    You may already know, that I’ve got some trouble to keep one of my sisters out of it. But this right now is more serious. Since Monday she’s running a fever, it came down a bit but still. According to her everything is all right and she feels perfectly fine. As if I’m going...
    Melanie1987 Melanie1987
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 29, 2012

    Advice For Toddlers Who Run Away!

    I was searching online for some advice on how to control my two year old who constantly run's away. I've copied and pasted it into my notes and will try all of the suggestions included here they are.   Why toddlers run away No sooner do you lift your toddler out...
    SealedWithAKisss SealedWithAKisss
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Feb 27, 2010

    my son has started slaping me

    and his sister he is spanked daily i need more help an online FEMALE mentor willing to give him extreme strapping and canings
    Strictspanker Strictspanker
    51-55, F
    5 Responses Mar 9, 2015

    "i Need Help Raising And Disciplining Children"

    it is easy show them who is the boss
    wessel wessel
    51-55, M
    1 Response Mar 3, 2011

    Sleepovers On Schoolnights?

    I have never allowed my kids to have sleepovers on school nights, but recently many parents have been inviting my kids over for sleepovers on school nights. Sometimes people even have slumber parties on Wednesday might!! I don't want to deprive them of fun with friends but... I...
    Tropicana55 Tropicana55
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 21, 2012

    I have twin girls 5 years old there mom left

    when they were born im trying to learn how to give a good spanking at there age
    daddybuttspanker daddybuttspanker
    26-30, M
    6 Responses Sep 28, 2015

    Some Good Advice For Struggling Parents Who Love Their Children

    The Two Most Important Days Of Our Lives Are The Day We Are Born, And The Day We Discover Why We're Born!!! And I Promise You This, None Of Us Were Put Here To Be Someone's Slave Or Personal Door Mat. TAKE CHARGE AND LIVE LIFE THE WAY YOU WERE BORN TO!!!!!! Pay Attention, You...
    tmajor tmajor
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Mar 2, 2011

    I think that if you need help,

    you should go to an expert. All parents face difficulties, of course, some more, some less, but getting help from HERE is like doing the opposite than actually help yourselves and your children. How can you trust your children to someone online? You should have given it a second...
    ScissorhandsFingeredMe ScissorhandsFingeredMe
    18-21, F
    Oct 8, 2015

    I have 4 children, aged 3,

    7, 8 and 10 and I feel like all I do is argue with them! My 10 year old back chats, is defiant, blames everyone else for his actions, lies, sneaks around and steals... My 8 year old is great unless the 10 year old is around and then he copies the behaviour! My 7 year old just...
    mummagoincrazy mummagoincrazy
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Aug 15, 2014

    Heres My Story Of Unrulyness

    Sometimes I go out by myself and I look across the water. And I think of all the things that you're doing and in my head I paint a picture. Summer time brings for me the life of the party. Winter brings for me a peaceful sadness. A gently rippling lake of cold and melancholy...
    SergioSalamanca1 SergioSalamanca1
    22-25, M
    Sep 29, 2013

    What Do I Do?

    im a single mother of 4,and while cleaning my oldest son jeromys(14) room,i found some p ornographic magizines under his bed and i dont know what to do
    ida34 ida34
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Oct 4, 2012

    Advice from Stephen Colbert

    From his book I am America (and so can you!), Spartina, New York: 2007 (p. 10) PERSONAL RECOLLECTION: It doesn’t matter how my parents raised me, because I loved my parents. It’s in the Bible: “Honor thy Mother and thy Father”. It’s right after the part about stoning...
    GoogleyEye GoogleyEye
    36-40, F
    Mar 2, 2011

    Taken From My Post In The Question And Answer Section.

    What would you think of me if you saw me sp@nk my two year old after he ran away from me.?   He is a runner and I was thinking of counting to three and then giving him one, until he only needs to hear the count down. I'm just so afraid that he will run out of the bank...
    SealedWithAKisss SealedWithAKisss
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Feb 27, 2010

    My Kids Trigger For Anger Is Asking Them To Do Thier Chores

    Whenever I ask my kids to do chores they get angry and rebel and all hell breaks loose. I don't want to fight with my children but I was talking about this with my friend and she gave me some advice. Of course everybody knows that as parents we give negative consequences for...
    SealedWithAKisss SealedWithAKisss
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Dec 4, 2011


    well recently i took a trip to my home country with my children shortly before hand my oldest child(by 37 minutes hes one of the triplets) well he decided that since i grounded him previously(right before the trip) for lying to me that he couldnt get into anymore trouble so he...
    IsmoAkkete IsmoAkkete
    2 Responses Aug 8, 2012

    How To Motivate Son Who Expects It All

    This may be a long one.My son is 10 and is very opposed to putting an effort into ANYTHING. If it doesn't come naturally to him and he has to put any effort in he, he gives up.  I watched his soccer practice (he says he wants to go professional) and they were in groups of 4...
    soapmama soapmama
    36-40, F
    10 Responses Oct 16, 2013

    I Can Do It All...

    I am a stay at home Mom of 2 girls ages 11 and 14..I lvoe them sooo much! Problem is ..there father is nowhere..oh, sure we're "amrried" but he works..goes out when he feels liek it...to bar w/ his friends..doesnt ask about doing anything w/ the family..Ive walked to him several...
    tarotstar tarotstar
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Jun 26, 2010

    Need Advice…

    I’m trying to raise my sisters. Actually it went really good for the past few weeks, better then I’d thought. I had a hard time with one of the twins (12) but I do understand, my three sisters have been thru hell and she was the one protecting the other two. I do understand...
    Melanie1987 Melanie1987
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 31, 2012

    Low Cost Healthy Meals

    I have 4 kids and a husband and a fixed income. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I can feed them healthy food on a low budget? We can't afford whole wheat bread or organic fruits, unfortunatly. We find ourselves eating chicken a lot these days. If anyone has any ideas please...
    Tropicana55 Tropicana55
    31-35, F
    6 Responses May 28, 2012
    Lori2002 Lori2002
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 24, 2015

    Hello, I am so glad I found this group.

    I really need your opinion and help! I am married to a wonderful woman with two children from her prior marriage. She shares custody with her ex. The kids are with us one week and the other they are with their dad and his new wife. And here is the problem: Over at daddies they...
    StrictlyMe StrictlyMe
    51-55, M
    4 Responses Jun 4, 2015

    My Six Year Old Is So Stubborn

    He, just entered into grade one, and he can read so well! Except he hates school, he never really ever had any friends his own age, he was surrounded by teenagers who always rejected him and swore at him, and he wants nothing to do with school, his teacher has been calling me...
    SealedWithAKisss SealedWithAKisss
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Sep 13, 2013

    Discussing Money With Children

    I do not want my kids to EVER worry about the family's money. But recently there have been questions coming from all of them except Katherine. It was probably brought on by the fact that my financial situation has changed a bit because I've become pregnant with twins and have to...
    Tropicana55 Tropicana55
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Aug 5, 2012
    Ashleigh1996 Ashleigh1996
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 28, 2016

    I'm a dad of two boys

    and I spank them regulary. My Ex-Wife often told me, I should have a strict dad or uncle, because I'm often rude to other people and I deserve a spanking, too. What does other think about this or can help me to be a better role model.
    BadBoySpanking BadBoySpanking
    36-40, M
    1 Response Aug 21, 2015
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