I Need Him to Be a Lover and a Friend

I want the fairy tale..... He doesn't have to be perfect ~ Just perfect for me. 74 People

    I Need Him to Be a Friend to Me....

    I don't ask for a lot in a relationship, but this one time, I am asking for him to be a friend to me, more than anything else, because most of the time, that is all that I need is a friend....and I would Love if my Lover was a friend to me...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 10, 2009

    Lover, Let Your Love Light Shine...

    This Queen is alone again and trying to be OK with it. I have a man in mind but I know we'll be friends for years before he becomes my lover. I plan on seeing him in October. I'm not ashamed to say that I think about intimate relationships with a few of my closer male friends...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jun 6, 2009

    Lost Lover, Still Friends?

     Under some great web of lies I believed the one person who actually still made me feel like a human being, actually wanted to be with me. He sent me messages telling me how long and how much he liked me and wanted to tell me for so long. We met up secretly and it was so...
    amigoodenough amigoodenough
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jun 21, 2009

    After all he has done im still very attracted

    to him, and we don't even talk anymore. Drives me crazy
    sadhamster sadhamster
    16-17, F
    Oct 1, 2015

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