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I Need Him to Understand

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 46 People

    I Need To Move On

    I'll always love him but the pain he has caused me has made me resent him. I tried my hardest to be there for him but when I needed him the most, when I was crying and told him that I needed to talk to him he told me he would call me back but never did  a few days later he...
    Klong91 Klong91 22-25, F 2 Responses May 4, 2010

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    *sighs And Cries*

    I will always love him.      That no matter what the label or words are for it, I love him.  Period.                         ...
    ChristineJones ChristineJones 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 12, 2010

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    Why Cant I Just Tell Him

    i have known this kid for 5 years. and i just asked him to be my boyfriend 1 month ago. but there is something else. i love him. I've always loved him ever since I've met him. but i dont know how he feels. we haven't kissed yet but i'm waiting for that special moment  for...
    taboo221 taboo221 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2011

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    In The End.

    Well. Its my fault i guess. I believe my baby's father still wanted something to do with me he kept leading me on. I had a boyfriend named austin. I wasn't sure that we were gonna work out. so i was a BIG flirt. then he got controlling. I got called a ****, a *****. I just...
    blueeyedfreak17 blueeyedfreak17 18-21, F 1 Response May 14, 2012

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    Know Who I Am Inside and Out.

    We have been married for 26 years....dated for 4!  It would seem to the world at large that is plenty of time to get to know one another right?  STOP.  Dont believe it.  To this day, I do not think I really know who my husband is.  I know he doesn't know...
    peanutbrittle peanutbrittle 46-50, F 3 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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    I Need Him to Understand

    me and my boyfriend have known eachother since we were 15. and now weve bn togeter for 8months just drama...he always thinks im cheating on him or talkn to some other guy. Well i wish he would understand that i love him so much and that he doesnt need too worry but he doesnt. He...
    babiiegirlheartache babiiegirlheartache 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 2, 2006

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    TheOpeningViolinist TheOpeningViolinist 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    After 2 days of not speaking after what he said, he texted me again. It's not that I wanted to start a fight, I wasn't at all surprised I was just stating the facts. I can see now...
    taminglife taminglife 22-25, F Jul 20

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    The damn kid is 3 ****'n years old. He needs to stop wearing diapers whenever he needs to ****. Stop spoiling him and be a real parent. DONT YELL OR GET MAD AT ME FOR GETTING MAD...
    Togepi07 Togepi07 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    I love how the guys who USED to be around me, assumed that he should love me the way they would. He's not you, and thank god he's not because I love him for who he is. And dropped...
    taminglife taminglife 22-25, F Jul 20

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    I finally fell asleep without dreaming of you. But what good does that do when I'm not waking up to you. You're always on my mind. I wake up & the worry is there again. The pain is...
    taminglife taminglife 22-25, F Jul 19

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    ravenlindsay ravenlindsay 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    YoungOne1901 YoungOne1901 22-25, M Jul 18

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    This is the biggest piece of me that seems to get in the way of my relationships. No matter how I explain, no matter how far in advance I warn them, no one ever understands when it...
    EliRose03 EliRose03 22-25, F Jul 18

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    I want to start with a disclaimer: I am not being hateful and am trying my best not to be judgmental, so please don't attack me for my lack of understanding. I don't understand...
    anhonestgirl anhonestgirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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