I Need Him to Understand

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    I Need Him to Understand

    me and my boyfriend have known eachother since we were 15. and now weve bn togeter for 8months just drama...he always thinks im cheating on him or talkn to some other guy. Well i wish he would understand that i love him so much and that he doesnt need too worry but he doesnt. He...
    babiiegirlheartache babiiegirlheartache
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 2, 2006

    Know Who I Am Inside and Out.

    We have been married for 26 years....dated for 4!  It would seem to the world at large that is plenty of time to get to know one another right?  STOP.  Dont believe it.  To this day, I do not think I really know who my husband is.  I know he doesn't know...
    peanutbrittle peanutbrittle
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Apr 28, 2008

    Why Cant I Just Tell Him

    i have known this kid for 5 years. and i just asked him to be my boyfriend 1 month ago. but there is something else. i love him. I've always loved him ever since I've met him. but i dont know how he feels. we haven't kissed yet but i'm waiting for that special moment  for...
    taboo221 taboo221
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Oct 5, 2011

    In The End.

    Well. Its my fault i guess. I believe my baby's father still wanted something to do with me he kept leading me on. I had a boyfriend named austin. I wasn't sure that we were gonna work out. so i was a BIG flirt. then he got controlling. I got called a ****, a *****. I just...
    blueeyedfreak17 blueeyedfreak17
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 14, 2012

    I Need To Move On

    I'll always love him but the pain he has caused me has made me resent him. I tried my hardest to be there for him but when I needed him the most, when I was crying and told him that I needed to talk to him he told me he would call me back but never did  a few days later he...
    Klong91 Klong91
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 4, 2010

    *sighs And Cries*

    I will always love him.      That no matter what the label or words are for it, I love him.  Period.                         ...
    ChristineJones ChristineJones
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 12, 2010

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