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I Need Love and Attention

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    It seems to be one of my biggest weaknesses. I am always looking for love, acceptance & affection. When I was younger I would seek out attention, but I find I don't do that as much anymore. I still seek the love though. I believe looking back at my relationship with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 18, 2009

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    Who Doesn't? I Was Born Just For Those Two Reason...

    Mmmmmmmmmmm let's see. All I can say is...well: I'm a PISCES (major attention seekers) My real name reeks self-absorded (It's derived from greek mythology about the God who loved his reflection so much he died looking at it) I am die hard over love (I love everybody and want the...
    SunsetDaily SunsetDaily 36-40, F 3 Responses May 27, 2012

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    It's Difficult

    I want people to like me. On the other hand, I'm paralyzed by the fear that if they get to know me, they won't like me. I'm afraid I'll say something to offend them, or that they'll figure out that I'm gay and stop associating with me. The fear has been thus far overpowering...
    b1alasdair b1alasdair 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 14, 2009

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    Call Me a *****.

    I need someone's love and affection, but how to keep it with the dreaded cloud of lies always lying in wait. I am with someone who doesn't realize what I need and crave. No attention, especially in public, it's not proper. It embaresses him. Why should he be embaressed? But I can...
    knowledgeworthhaving knowledgeworthhaving 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 8, 2009

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    I Am Sooo Lost

    I've had an affair with married man last summer. It was everything for me - love, fun, joy, sadness, happiness, empty promises, lies, sleepless nights, tears, broken heart. Literally, I went through all these feelings after 14 faithful years of my only marriage. I was so in love...
    anet99 anet99 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    Very Much Lacking.

               Enjoying love and attention in a romantic way is something I have been longing for. Knowing everything happens for a reason this will happen too.
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 20 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    It has been my solemn prayer,

    to one day meet a woman and to fall in love, get married, and start a life together. I would like a woman who will stimulate my intellect and intrigue my heart. I would like a woman who’s down to earth and knows who she is and does not have to put on airs to be something she...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M Feb 5

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    I Need Love

    And attention. I'm so alone. But, I'm broken. I'm unlovable. I can't love. I am a surivior. But, not that kind. I tried to kill myself. Because everyone I have ever loved has left or hurt me more than you can imangine. No body can love me. All I ever wanted was to beloved. But...
    Crazylover15 Crazylover15 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    I Hate You, Don't Leave Me

    Often I think people ignore the fact that I need love and attention because I have borderline personality disorder. But even though I don't process emotions and feelings like everyone else, I still need to be considered and treated like a human...
    gorejussxpsycho gorejussxpsycho 22-25, F Jul 23, 2013

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    Love And Attention

    Love and attention,Need it,Someone,Please,I'm missing out,It's not fair,I want my share.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 29, 2012

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    MMM Mmm Good

    I love being loved by a special man and being the center of his attention.  It is mmmm mmmm good.  So who wants to make fungirl's day?
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 22 Responses Oct 10, 2008

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    When I was growing up my dad never gave me

    attention and he always punished me for every little thing and he would hit me all the time and he used to treat me like crap and he never said he loved me.. And my mom is always screaming at me and calling me names and making me feel bad about myself and picking on me.. I wish...
    smbutts04 smbutts04 16-17, F Jul 26

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    Marriage Is Lonely

    I've been married for about a year now but my husband and i have been together a while before. We have a two year old daughter who is the light of my life. I do everything for these two people. I cook them breakfast, lunch, dinner, i clean and put away their clothes,i make their...
    cobweb10 cobweb10 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 11, 2012

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    Hello

    I have needs. I want to be close to someone again. I am always needing love. I dated a lot but always dated the wrong guys. I wish I would have found out sooner. I would have done better. So I am pretty selective. You have to be a Christian and you have to be my age pretty much...
    Christian02 Christian02 18-21, F Jan 18, 2013

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    I'll Never Let Myself Have It

    I need love and affection, but I won't let anyone love me. When it seems like he will, I chase him away. I've done it over and over again. I don't know the way out.
    AuntieBelle AuntieBelle 36-40 1 Response Oct 10, 2008

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    Dear Future Wife

    Dear Future Wife, I have to admit and it’s not easy saying this, but I have been a broken man and alone for quite some time. In the past I have given my heart out on a silver platter to those whom I felt I could trust and love, but only to have it handed back to me postage due...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 20, 2013

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    Show Me You Love Me!

    I need love and attention in all my relationships. Once that is lacking i feel as if the person isn't interested in me or has moved on some how. Maybe i become paranoid and then would try ways to get the person to notice me, but if i have to try to hard i just get tired and say...
    righteous21 righteous21 18-21, F Jul 5, 2012

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    I don't think I am needy,

    I just want the attention I deserve.
    Ldybugs Ldybugs 26-30, F Mar 1

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    Cuddles

    i want to have atttention from my parents and my siblings, it's as if i'm invisible to them.. They notice me if they bump into me or when i shout at them or if they have something to ask or they plainlky want to fight with me. I want themto love me and pay atttentin to what i do...
    losingmyfriends losingmyfriends 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2008

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    It's kind of sad that I'm only getting messages

    from guys. Especially guys that want to skype or send pics. Silly boys. What if I liked girls? Guess it's my fault for choosing the picture I chose..... Maybe I crave attention.....
    xoxoHugsAndKisses xoxoHugsAndKisses 22-25, F 3 Responses May 4

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    Dying From Lack of Attention

     I feel myself just blending into the wall, the sheets, the sofa as if I don't exist anymore.  My wife, through no fault of her own, grew up in a cold family and although we had hot sex every night until we got married, it stopped then and I found out that although I'n...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 5 Responses Jun 9, 2009

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    My Mom Never Gave Me The Satisfaction. Ever.

    She treats me like im filthy. So I cant help but to be like, wow, my own mother doesnt like me? I must be a piece of shyt. So then I go out looking like a *****, looking for attention in men, in school, in every conversation. Someone please help me is always my inner thought...
    studentfrommars studentfrommars 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2012

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    Anyone can you message me

    but girls please? I need to stay awake.
    Enoch88 Enoch88 22-25, M Apr 19

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    I dont like being called an attention seeker.. but I am an attention seeker.. I would like to talk to anybody who wants to talk.. You can message me if you want.. Talk to me about...
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    I love to love..wish my husband would show love to me the way I love to show love to him..I'm a very very touchy affectionate woman..I'm always trying to pull my husband closer but...
    kimmmmmy kimmmmmy 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    i'm living in a world so cold and selfish. i feel silly for wanting love while half the world thinks its impossible to truely love anymore, but i haven't had any love in my life so...
    tina1luv tina1luv 18-21, F Aug 2

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    Someone Love me? please.. :c
    ShyProdigy ShyProdigy 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    Hi , I am a married man from Singapore. I need to tell you how I feel. I am married. the thing is deep inside, I crave a macho man. I wish I have a man to love me and understand...
    gurchaaran gurchaaran 31-35, M Aug 7

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    My Thoughts On Love I believe that love is the most beautiful thing and also the only pure thing that we have in this complicated, mixed up world. We all need it to survive, no...
    lindastars42 lindastars42 16-17, F Aug 2

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    Yes I'm alone and it's fine ! I have been in **** for 4 years and at the end I knew that I'm okay with being alone but I know I'm not lonely and This amazing site showed me many...
    FlawlessGuy FlawlessGuy 18-21, M Jul 22

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    Guess it's true I'm not good at a one night stand, but I still need love couse I'm just a man, these nights never seem to go to plan, I don't want you to leave will you hold me...
    folin2 folin2 16-17, M Jul 22

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    What makes me any less of a person cause im a huggable teddy bear and not a lean six pack of abs who would love me hold me and treat me with the kindness I feel I desire and what I...
    lonelyheart1967 lonelyheart1967 46-50, M 3 Responses Jul 23

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    I really do, I've never needed love and comfort till now. I feel so lonely.
    AcousticLover AcousticLover 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    ive been hurt a lot and ive hurt someone a lot the person i once loved hates my guts... i dont hate him at all i cant... maybe he didnt love me thats why he can hate me before he...
    heeeeey heeeeey 16-17, F Aug 8

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    Love conquers all! Love is all you need! Love never keeps account of injury. Love is best seen as a mirror!
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    sometimes you may not see or feel it but there is such thing. when you believe in love you believe in hope and the power of faith. every one needs love. Don't worry love will come...
    VictoriaKeepItReal VictoriaKeepItReal 13-15, F Aug 10

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    I need love in my life too it makes me feel warmth and care and just knowing someone e loves me as much as I love them and they treat me special and I treat them special it's...
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    This is gonna sound fcked up and yeah i might regret this but hey lets go. For a long time now all's ive been wanting is someone to pay some attention to me and how i feel. that...
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    This isn't something I'd normally vent about so I ask for those who are reading this to please take what I'm about to say with a grain of salt. It's just something that's been on...
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    Some people say I'm to needy or an attention ***** but I seek it because I don't get it from the right people like the people I love and care about. Call me an attention ***** if...
    Squid10101 Squid10101 18-21, F 5 Responses 21 hrs ago

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