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I Need Love and Attention

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 294 People

    It's kind of sad that I'm only getting messages

    from guys. Especially guys that want to skype or send pics. Silly boys. What if I liked girls? Guess it's my fault for choosing the picture I chose..... Maybe I crave attention.....
    xoxoHugsAndKisses xoxoHugsAndKisses 22-25, F 2 Responses May 4

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    MMM Mmm Good

    I love being loved by a special man and being the center of his attention.  It is mmmm mmmm good.  So who wants to make fungirl's day?
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 22 Responses Oct 10, 2008

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    I Hate You, Don't Leave Me

    Often I think people ignore the fact that I need love and attention because I have borderline personality disorder. But even though I don't process emotions and feelings like everyone else, I still need to be considered and treated like a human...
    gorejussxpsycho gorejussxpsycho 22-25, F Jul 23, 2013

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    I Am Sooo Lost

    I've had an affair with married man last summer. It was everything for me - love, fun, joy, sadness, happiness, empty promises, lies, sleepless nights, tears, broken heart. Literally, I went through all these feelings after 14 faithful years of my only marriage. I was so in love...
    anet99 anet99 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    It has been my solemn prayer,

    to one day meet a woman and to fall in love, get married, and start a life together. I would like a woman who will stimulate my intellect and intrigue my heart. I would like a woman who’s down to earth and knows who she is and does not have to put on airs to be something she...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M Feb 5

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    Love And Attention

    Love and attention,Need it,Someone,Please,I'm missing out,It's not fair,I want my share.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 29, 2012

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    I don't think I am needy,

    I just want the attention I deserve.
    Ldybugs Ldybugs 26-30, F Mar 1

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    My Mom Never Gave Me The Satisfaction. Ever.

    She treats me like im filthy. So I cant help but to be like, wow, my own mother doesnt like me? I must be a piece of shyt. So then I go out looking like a *****, looking for attention in men, in school, in every conversation. Someone please help me is always my inner thought...
    studentfrommars studentfrommars 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2012

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    Anyone Want to give me attention

    and want my attention send me a message :-)
    urbabyboy urbabyboy 16-17, M Dec 8

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    My boyfriend don't show me attention,

    he never tells me I'm pretty or I look nice. I just feel he isn't attracted to me, I mean I get attention from other guys "at work" but it don't mean anything the only person I care about finding me attractive is my boyfriend. I tried to talk to him and nothing changes, I always...
    Fastcat500 Fastcat500 18-21, F Sep 16

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    Cuddles

    i want to have atttention from my parents and my siblings, it's as if i'm invisible to them.. They notice me if they bump into me or when i shout at them or if they have something to ask or they plainlky want to fight with me. I want themto love me and pay atttentin to what i do...
    losingmyfriends losingmyfriends 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2008

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    Who Doesn't? I Was Born Just For Those Two Reason...

    Mmmmmmmmmmm let's see. All I can say is...well: I'm a PISCES (major attention seekers) My real name reeks self-absorded (It's derived from greek mythology about the God who loved his reflection so much he died looking at it) I am die hard over love (I love everybody and want the...
    SunsetDaily SunsetDaily 36-40, F 3 Responses May 27, 2012

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    Dear Future Wife

    Dear Future Wife, I have to admit and it’s not easy saying this, but I have been a broken man and alone for quite some time. In the past I have given my heart out on a silver platter to those whom I felt I could trust and love, but only to have it handed back to me postage due...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 20, 2013

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    Dying From Lack of Attention

     I feel myself just blending into the wall, the sheets, the sofa as if I don't exist anymore.  My wife, through no fault of her own, grew up in a cold family and although we had hot sex every night until we got married, it stopped then and I found out that although I'n...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 5 Responses Jun 9, 2009

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    It's Difficult

    I want people to like me. On the other hand, I'm paralyzed by the fear that if they get to know me, they won't like me. I'm afraid I'll say something to offend them, or that they'll figure out that I'm gay and stop associating with me. The fear has been thus far overpowering...
    b1alasdair b1alasdair 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 14, 2009

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    I'll Never Let Myself Have It

    I need love and affection, but I won't let anyone love me. When it seems like he will, I chase him away. I've done it over and over again. I don't know the way out.
    AuntieBelle AuntieBelle 36-40 1 Response Oct 10, 2008

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    Very Much Lacking.

               Enjoying love and attention in a romantic way is something I have been longing for. Knowing everything happens for a reason this will happen too.
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 20 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    Show Me You Love Me!

    I need love and attention in all my relationships. Once that is lacking i feel as if the person isn't interested in me or has moved on some how. Maybe i become paranoid and then would try ways to get the person to notice me, but if i have to try to hard i just get tired and say...
    righteous21 righteous21 18-21, F Jul 5, 2012

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    Marriage Is Lonely

    I've been married for about a year now but my husband and i have been together a while before. We have a two year old daughter who is the light of my life. I do everything for these two people. I cook them breakfast, lunch, dinner, i clean and put away their clothes,i make their...
    cobweb10 cobweb10 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 11, 2012

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    Always........

    It seems to be one of my biggest weaknesses. I am always looking for love, acceptance & affection. When I was younger I would seek out attention, but I find I don't do that as much anymore. I still seek the love though. I believe looking back at my relationship with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 18, 2009

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    I Need Love

    And attention. I'm so alone. But, I'm broken. I'm unlovable. I can't love. I am a surivior. But, not that kind. I tried to kill myself. Because everyone I have ever loved has left or hurt me more than you can imangine. No body can love me. All I ever wanted was to beloved. But...
    Crazylover15 Crazylover15 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    Hello

    I have needs. I want to be close to someone again. I am always needing love. I dated a lot but always dated the wrong guys. I wish I would have found out sooner. I would have done better. So I am pretty selective. You have to be a Christian and you have to be my age pretty much...
    Christian02 Christian02 22-25, F Jan 18, 2013

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    Call Me a *****.

    I need someone's love and affection, but how to keep it with the dreaded cloud of lies always lying in wait. I am with someone who doesn't realize what I need and crave. No attention, especially in public, it's not proper. It embaresses him. Why should he be embaressed? But I can...
    knowledgeworthhaving knowledgeworthhaving 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 8, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    If u wanna give me attention and want mine back send me a pm :-)
    urbabyboy urbabyboy 16-17, M Dec 8

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    My ex broke up with me just over a week ago after a 2 and a half year relationship that was very serious and we love each other very much. He broke it off with me because he said...
    GhostGirl97 GhostGirl97 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 16

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    A couple months ago I met this girl on this website she was the sweetest thing earth could ever carry from the first night I started talking to her I knew she was the one The...
    Katzup14 Katzup14 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 17

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    52, Daddy Dom, wants a little that understands how to respond to Daddy. I will give you all the attention you need, but I cannot be starved in return between our meetings. My...
    ctd1962 ctd1962 51-55, M Dec 10

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    My boyfreind just broke up with me after two and a half years. He says it is because he doesnt love me any more due to me pushing him away and treating him like **** while he gave...
    GhostGirl97 GhostGirl97 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 13

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    Stay with me - Sam Smith Guess it's true, I'm not good at a one-night stand But I still need love 'cause I'm just a man These nights never seem to go to plan I don't want you to...
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    I can't wait to settle down but i won't till i found the right one. i don't care if people said you need to love yourself in order to feel complete, finding my other half is loving...
    DNightTrain DNightTrain 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 3

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    My boyfriend works 24/7 as he is a across the country truck driver and can be gone from home for 1 month to 3 months at a time. I feel like my life is passing me by and I want to...
    AngelicEssence AngelicEssence 36-40, F 11 Responses Dec 6

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    Sometimes, I just need love to be reinforced. I come from a family that takes away their love when they are angry or diss appointed in you. I need constant reinforcement. I can't...
    JJjenniejones JJjenniejones 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    I always tried to suppress my emotions and to convince myself that I don't need a man and that I'm not sentimental. But now I'm full of emotions and I realised that every single...
    myusernameislame myusernameislame 16-17, F 13 Responses Dec 14

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    Bad mood, angry tonight...but a persons touch and hug can bring me right around. I need love and comfort. My grandma was in the kitchen and she came and just hugged me. She started...
    searchingfar searchingfar 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Give Yourself To Love - Words and Music by Kate Wolf Kind friends all gathered ‘round there’s something I would say That what brings us together here has blessed us all...
    Olvidado Olvidado 61-65, M Dec 2

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    From now on I don't need love in life or a girl in my as well . I don't want love to get out of my way and have crazy thoughts in my head because I been there before that I didn't...
    neoncloud neoncloud 16-17, M Nov 28

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    I absolutely need love, touch, intimacy, sensuality and sex in my life for sanity. It is essential to my wellbeing.
    nurseling nurseling 31-35, F 8 Responses Dec 6

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    Don't know what other kinds of corporal punishment there are besides spankings but I know I want (and need) to be spanked if I need something to get my attention and fast. A sharp...
    HorseAngel33 HorseAngel33 36-40, F 2 hrs ago

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    No really, you seem like a wonderful guy. Trust me though, you don't really want to date me. Here's how it goes: everything starts out new and fun, as it should. We're both happy...
    yeg88 yeg88 26-30, F 19 hrs ago

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    Surely we all have at one time or another competed for attention from the opposite sex or the same sex for others. I have come to a point in my life that I feel if I need to...
    Macy24 Macy24 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    I no longer crave the attention of butterflies and bees that come around. I just need you, the sun. There is nothing better than basking in the warmth you give. It is constant and...
    novembermountain novembermountain 41-45, F 46 mins ago

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    The Secret Life of Walter Mitty: 'Beautiful things do not ask for attention'
    Fennerbache Fennerbache 18-21, M 13 hrs ago

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    People always argue with me "Take those headphones off!" "Pay attention!" "Did you hear what I said?" "Get into the real world." I'm sorry, but when I listen to music the world...
    Dari97 Dari97 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    This is a story on finding love ... One of the things I've been chasing my whole life ... Maybe through the business of my life on things that don't really matter concerning my...
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333 22-25, F 4 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    There are many things over a span of years that I have allowed to be said about me, and to me by members of this site. I have told you repeatedly that I do not speak out to...
    Joseph84 Joseph84 31-35, M 5 Responses Dec 8

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    Eventually you need to take care of your loved ones who are aging. As we grow older we look for the need for self-reliance and concentration at the job, however we don’t want...
    MargePabich MargePabich 26-30, M Dec 19

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    This is really long but its a very complicated situation... I really need advice though so hopefully someone will read it all.. ex boyfriend (r) and I dated for 3 years. We lived...
    lt623 lt623 22-25, F Dec 17

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    I'm not gonna say I love you if I don't mean it.. You're the only one I say it to. I know I love you because when you're hurt, it automatically hurts me. I just wish I knew better...
    Ebolaa Ebolaa 16-17, M 4 hrs ago

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