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I Need Love and Attention

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    MMM Mmm Good

    I love being loved by a special man and being the center of his attention.  It is mmmm mmmm good.  So who wants to make fungirl's day?
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 22 Responses Oct 10, 2008

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    It's Difficult

    I want people to like me. On the other hand, I'm paralyzed by the fear that if they get to know me, they won't like me. I'm afraid I'll say something to offend them, or that they'll figure out that I'm gay and stop associating with me. The fear has been thus far overpowering...
    b1alasdair b1alasdair 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 14, 2009

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    Call Me a *****.

    I need someone's love and affection, but how to keep it with the dreaded cloud of lies always lying in wait. I am with someone who doesn't realize what I need and crave. No attention, especially in public, it's not proper. It embaresses him. Why should he be embaressed? But I can...
    knowledgeworthhaving knowledgeworthhaving 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 8, 2009

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    I'll Never Let Myself Have It

    I need love and affection, but I won't let anyone love me. When it seems like he will, I chase him away. I've done it over and over again. I don't know the way out.
    AuntieBelle AuntieBelle 36-40 1 Response Oct 10, 2008

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    It has been my solemn prayer,

    to one day meet a woman and to fall in love, get married, and start a life together. I would like a woman who will stimulate my intellect and intrigue my heart. I would like a woman who’s down to earth and knows who she is and does not have to put on airs to be something she...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M Feb 5, 2014

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    I Am Sooo Lost

    I've had an affair with married man last summer. It was everything for me - love, fun, joy, sadness, happiness, empty promises, lies, sleepless nights, tears, broken heart. Literally, I went through all these feelings after 14 faithful years of my only marriage. I was so in love...
    anet99 anet99 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    Marriage Is Lonely

    I've been married for about a year now but my husband and i have been together a while before. We have a two year old daughter who is the light of my life. I do everything for these two people. I cook them breakfast, lunch, dinner, i clean and put away their clothes,i make their...
    cobweb10 cobweb10 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 11, 2012

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    Every woman does. I gladly admit it

    though lol I know I require tons of love and attention and affection to stay happy
    gummball gummball 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 2

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    Always........

    It seems to be one of my biggest weaknesses. I am always looking for love, acceptance & affection. When I was younger I would seek out attention, but I find I don't do that as much anymore. I still seek the love though. I believe looking back at my relationship with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 18, 2009

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    Very Much Lacking.

               Enjoying love and attention in a romantic way is something I have been longing for. Knowing everything happens for a reason this will happen too.
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 20 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    It sounds really stupid

    as normally I am very independent and strong. But the minute I fall for a guy I feel like I need to rely on them otherwise I feel lost and bored.
    missmaisey missmaisey 16-17, F Apr 29

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    Need people talk to me,

    text me , praise me all the time. I m bored if not
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 26

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    My boyfriend don't show me attention,

    he never tells me I'm pretty or I look nice. I just feel he isn't attracted to me, I mean I get attention from other guys "at work" but it don't mean anything the only person I care about finding me attractive is my boyfriend. I tried to talk to him and nothing changes, I always...
    Fastcat500 Fastcat500 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2014

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    Show Me You Love Me!

    I need love and attention in all my relationships. Once that is lacking i feel as if the person isn't interested in me or has moved on some how. Maybe i become paranoid and then would try ways to get the person to notice me, but if i have to try to hard i just get tired and say...
    righteous21 righteous21 18-21, F Jul 5, 2012

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    Who Doesn't? I Was Born Just For Those Two Reason...

    Mmmmmmmmmmm let's see. All I can say is...well: I'm a PISCES (major attention seekers) My real name reeks self-absorded (It's derived from greek mythology about the God who loved his reflection so much he died looking at it) I am die hard over love (I love everybody and want the...
    SunsetDaily SunsetDaily 36-40, F 4 Responses May 27, 2012

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    Hello

    I have needs. I want to be close to someone again. I am always needing love. I dated a lot but always dated the wrong guys. I wish I would have found out sooner. I would have done better. So I am pretty selective. You have to be a Christian and you have to be my age pretty much...
    Christian02 Christian02 22-25, F Jan 18, 2013

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    Love And Attention

    Love and attention,Need it,Someone,Please,I'm missing out,It's not fair,I want my share.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 29, 2012

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    My Mom Never Gave Me The Satisfaction. Ever.

    She treats me like im filthy. So I cant help but to be like, wow, my own mother doesnt like me? I must be a piece of shyt. So then I go out looking like a *****, looking for attention in men, in school, in every conversation. Someone please help me is always my inner thought...
    studentfrommars studentfrommars 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2012

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    I'm in a relationship

    and he says all the right things, constantly telling me he thinks I'm beautiful,amazing,sexy, how attracted he is to me and that he loves me, great right? well yes but it's not enough for me I need attention from outside the relationship...like every male I cross paths with! I...
    Daniellab89 Daniellab89 22-25, F 10 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    Anyone Want to give me attention

    and want my attention send me a message :-)
    urbabyboy urbabyboy 16-17, M Dec 8, 2014

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    It's kind of sad that I'm only getting messages

    from guys. Especially guys that want to skype or send pics. Silly boys. What if I liked girls? Guess it's my fault for choosing the picture I chose..... Maybe I crave attention.....
    xoxoHugsAndKisses xoxoHugsAndKisses 22-25, F 2 Responses May 4, 2014

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    Cuddles

    i want to have atttention from my parents and my siblings, it's as if i'm invisible to them.. They notice me if they bump into me or when i shout at them or if they have something to ask or they plainlky want to fight with me. I want themto love me and pay atttentin to what i do...
    losingmyfriends losingmyfriends 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2008

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    I don't think I am needy,

    I just want the attention I deserve.
    Ldybugs Ldybugs 26-30, F Mar 1, 2014

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    I Need Love

    And attention. I'm so alone. But, I'm broken. I'm unlovable. I can't love. I am a surivior. But, not that kind. I tried to kill myself. Because everyone I have ever loved has left or hurt me more than you can imangine. No body can love me. All I ever wanted was to beloved. But...
    Crazylover15 Crazylover15 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    I Hate You, Don't Leave Me

    Often I think people ignore the fact that I need love and attention because I have borderline personality disorder. But even though I don't process emotions and feelings like everyone else, I still need to be considered and treated like a human...
    gorejussxpsycho gorejussxpsycho 22-25, F Jul 23, 2013

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    Dear Future Wife

    Dear Future Wife, I have to admit and it’s not easy saying this, but I have been a broken man and alone for quite some time. In the past I have given my heart out on a silver platter to those whom I felt I could trust and love, but only to have it handed back to me postage due...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 20, 2013

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    everyone desires attention so why do people see something wrong in people asking for it
    darkprinsus darkprinsus 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 27

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    I'm 18. I'll be 19 this year.. And I've never been in love. I've never had a relationship. And I'm starting to wonder if I'm even lovable or able to be wanted. I want love so bad...
    MuscleCarBabe69 MuscleCarBabe69 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 29

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    Was reading a statistic yesterday about premature death, which was not from sickness.. But in tranffic, etc etc. And men were ALOT higher, something like 8x times more men than...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M May 1

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    It's a dilemma.. Since two years ago, one of my bestfriends and I have Been liking the same guy. She was over him, she said. I was trying to Get over him. We both had "given up...
    heardherwhispering heardherwhispering 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 23

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    I have 23 from tunisia , single , i like serious relations and sharing émotions and all things Nice or bad with my girlfriend . if u ur like me i m here
    tunexus tunexus 22-25, M Apr 26

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    I wanna be pampered, cuddled, fussed over, fought over, and called cute things like "little girl" or "sweetie". I've been without someone for so long that I deserve only the best...
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 5 Responses May 13

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    Years back, my boyfriend, at the time, (now husband) and I were at Petsmart to pick up some fish food. In the back, they had an adoption center with kitties from the SPCA. I love...
    Snarkie Snarkie 31-35, F May 12

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    I'm 22. My first love was when I was 18. I am currently with a man who would do anything in his power to make me happy. What's the problem, you ask? Well, I sometimes start missing...
    axclowngirl axclowngirl 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    my fave naughty part is always tingling and aches to be touched tickled you name she loves attention whether it be from me or my husband she needs constant attention and I love her...
    caylafleming caylafleming 31-35, F 3 Responses May 4

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    I have to admit divorcing after 17 years of marriage, a part of me could never put all my heart and soul into one man again. For four years, I dated three to get the ONE I needed...
    Partstoadream Partstoadream 51-55, F Apr 24

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    i haven't posted in a long time. i used to post here to howl from the mountaintop, to get all the bad/weird feelings out but now it's many months later and all i feel is sadness...
    WPoS WPoS 46-50, F May 11

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    Hello, my name is Dave, I am 62 years old, but I feel like I am 30. I was on here before, but I deleted my account because, I actually fell in love with someone on line that lived...
    davideo1952 davideo1952 61-65, M 1 Response Apr 27

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    The prettiest thing about the world is that being true you can’t live a peaceful and a serene life which would falter your own existence by some mere strangers that while about...
    huntsam huntsam 18-21, M Apr 29

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    I have always had a dog. my dogs have been my best friends. They are loyal kind generous affectionate and fun to be around. When I was a teenager my dog would sleep on my pillow...
    weadkeys weadkeys 46-50, M May 13

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    With only two days space from a 3 year relationship ending, I see things so much more clearly than I allowed myself while we were dating and engaged! Almost like infra red... I...
    wayward71 wayward71 41-45, M 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    He said he loved me but what he really meant was he didn't want to be alone. He didn't love me, because you don't lack compassion for the love of your life. He didn't love me...
    Sunshine9001 Sunshine9001 51-55, F 3 hrs ago

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    THINGS CAN CHANGE Two years ago I never thought we'd be here. Never imagined that life could be so peaceful or feel so complete. Two years ago I thought my marriage was over and I...
    staryflower staryflower 36-40, F 1 hr ago

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    I think I'm in love with love. I'm addicted to romance and tenderness with or without sex. I crave the words, touch, intimacy, adventure, and attention. I ache for a smile and eye...
    jennytressler jennytressler 41-45 1 day ago