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I Need Love and Attention

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    Show Me You Love Me!

    I need love and attention in all my relationships. Once that is lacking i feel as if the person isn't interested in me or has moved on some how. Maybe i become paranoid and then would try ways to get the person to notice me, but if i have to try to hard i just get tired and say...
    righteous21 righteous21 18-21, F Jul 5, 2012

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    Marriage Is Lonely

    I've been married for about a year now but my husband and i have been together a while before. We have a two year old daughter who is the light of my life. I do everything for these two people. I cook them breakfast, lunch, dinner, i clean and put away their clothes,i make their...
    cobweb10 cobweb10 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 11, 2012

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    Cuddles

    i want to have atttention from my parents and my siblings, it's as if i'm invisible to them.. They notice me if they bump into me or when i shout at them or if they have something to ask or they plainlky want to fight with me. I want themto love me and pay atttentin to what i do...
    losingmyfriends losingmyfriends 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2008

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    Anyone Want to give me attention

    and want my attention send me a message :-)
    urbabyboy urbabyboy 16-17, M Dec 8, 2014

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    Call Me a *****.

    I need someone's love and affection, but how to keep it with the dreaded cloud of lies always lying in wait. I am with someone who doesn't realize what I need and crave. No attention, especially in public, it's not proper. It embaresses him. Why should he be embaressed? But I can...
    knowledgeworthhaving knowledgeworthhaving 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 8, 2009

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    I Hate You, Don't Leave Me

    Often I think people ignore the fact that I need love and attention because I have borderline personality disorder. But even though I don't process emotions and feelings like everyone else, I still need to be considered and treated like a human...
    gorejussxpsycho gorejussxpsycho 22-25, F Jul 23, 2013

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    It has been my solemn prayer,

    to one day meet a woman and to fall in love, get married, and start a life together. I would like a woman who will stimulate my intellect and intrigue my heart. I would like a woman who’s down to earth and knows who she is and does not have to put on airs to be something she...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M Feb 5, 2014

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    It's kind of sad that I'm only getting messages

    from guys. Especially guys that want to skype or send pics. Silly boys. What if I liked girls? Guess it's my fault for choosing the picture I chose..... Maybe I crave attention.....
    xoxoHugsAndKisses xoxoHugsAndKisses 22-25, F 2 Responses May 4, 2014

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    My boyfriend don't show me attention,

    he never tells me I'm pretty or I look nice. I just feel he isn't attracted to me, I mean I get attention from other guys "at work" but it don't mean anything the only person I care about finding me attractive is my boyfriend. I tried to talk to him and nothing changes, I always...
    Fastcat500 Fastcat500 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2014

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    I Am Sooo Lost

    I've had an affair with married man last summer. It was everything for me - love, fun, joy, sadness, happiness, empty promises, lies, sleepless nights, tears, broken heart. Literally, I went through all these feelings after 14 faithful years of my only marriage. I was so in love...
    anet99 anet99 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    Love And Attention

    Love and attention,Need it,Someone,Please,I'm missing out,It's not fair,I want my share.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 29, 2012

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    Dear Future Wife

    Dear Future Wife, I have to admit and it’s not easy saying this, but I have been a broken man and alone for quite some time. In the past I have given my heart out on a silver platter to those whom I felt I could trust and love, but only to have it handed back to me postage due...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 20, 2013

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    I don't think I am needy,

    I just want the attention I deserve.
    Ldybugs Ldybugs 26-30, F Mar 1, 2014

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    Very Much Lacking.

               Enjoying love and attention in a romantic way is something I have been longing for. Knowing everything happens for a reason this will happen too.
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 20 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    My Mom Never Gave Me The Satisfaction. Ever.

    She treats me like im filthy. So I cant help but to be like, wow, my own mother doesnt like me? I must be a piece of shyt. So then I go out looking like a *****, looking for attention in men, in school, in every conversation. Someone please help me is always my inner thought...
    studentfrommars studentfrommars 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2012

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    I'll Never Let Myself Have It

    I need love and affection, but I won't let anyone love me. When it seems like he will, I chase him away. I've done it over and over again. I don't know the way out.
    AuntieBelle AuntieBelle 36-40 1 Response Oct 10, 2008

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    It's Difficult

    I want people to like me. On the other hand, I'm paralyzed by the fear that if they get to know me, they won't like me. I'm afraid I'll say something to offend them, or that they'll figure out that I'm gay and stop associating with me. The fear has been thus far overpowering...
    b1alasdair b1alasdair 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 14, 2009

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    MMM Mmm Good

    I love being loved by a special man and being the center of his attention.  It is mmmm mmmm good.  So who wants to make fungirl's day?
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 22 Responses Oct 10, 2008

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    I'm in a relationship

    and he says all the right things, constantly telling me he thinks I'm beautiful,amazing,sexy, how attracted he is to me and that he loves me, great right? well yes but it's not enough for me I need attention from outside the relationship...like every male I cross paths with! I...
    Daniellab89 Daniellab89 22-25, F 11 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    Who Doesn't? I Was Born Just For Those Two Reason...

    Mmmmmmmmmmm let's see. All I can say is...well: I'm a PISCES (major attention seekers) My real name reeks self-absorded (It's derived from greek mythology about the God who loved his reflection so much he died looking at it) I am die hard over love (I love everybody and want the...
    SunsetDaily SunsetDaily 36-40, F 4 Responses May 27, 2012

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    I Need Love

    And attention. I'm so alone. But, I'm broken. I'm unlovable. I can't love. I am a surivior. But, not that kind. I tried to kill myself. Because everyone I have ever loved has left or hurt me more than you can imangine. No body can love me. All I ever wanted was to beloved. But...
    Crazylover15 Crazylover15 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    Hello

    I have needs. I want to be close to someone again. I am always needing love. I dated a lot but always dated the wrong guys. I wish I would have found out sooner. I would have done better. So I am pretty selective. You have to be a Christian and you have to be my age pretty much...
    Christian02 Christian02 22-25, F Jan 18, 2013

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    Always........

    It seems to be one of my biggest weaknesses. I am always looking for love, acceptance & affection. When I was younger I would seek out attention, but I find I don't do that as much anymore. I still seek the love though. I believe looking back at my relationship with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 18, 2009

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    I'm shy but if I want attention I can get it without looking desperate. Lol charm my way into it I hate being alone sometimes And other times I hate being with ppl U can message...
    MyaA13 MyaA13 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    I no I have mentioned this already! I have spoken to him and it has gotten a little better.. But when it comes to intimacy... It's been weeks! I want so much to feel that love we...
    wanthimtoNEEDme wanthimtoNEEDme 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    A Prayer for Love I'm praying to you, dear Lord above For my heart's profound wish, a perfect love. I pray You'll give me one who cares, Who understands me, who always shares, The...
    TheLastWolf TheLastWolf 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    this is what my heart says and I can't stop it
    never0empty never0empty 18-21, M Jan 2

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    I came across this picture the other week and wanted to share it. It was from my high school history week where we transformed the quad area into a early American Pilgrim city...
    beachfoot12 beachfoot12 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 8

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    It is a need and want we both share. She loves attention and relationships with other men especially sexual. We could not be happier ;-)
    happygiver happygiver 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 20

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    Love is forbidden To those who fight Who fight for love For love is not. Love is given To those who need Who need love For love is fickle. Love is lost To those who try Who try...
    zainshah1 zainshah1 26-30, M Jan 17

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    "I need love to make the sex right" Olivia Newton-John, I need Love
    DarthJim65 DarthJim65 46-50 1 Response Jan 14

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    If we get what we want And still are unfulfilled, The question becomes did we really get what we want? I suppose I satiated my desire But in that satiation there was no...
    myvoyce2 myvoyce2 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    I think it's time that I stop looking for what every person needs, love, from every other person and not the one who's most important. I'm 20 and I've struggled with life not...
    Paperboyc Paperboyc 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I guess we all need love, But i want to be hard like a stone, so nobody could Hurt me, this girl say that she love me, But i cant trust her at 100%. I wish i could trust blindly...
    yoursorrow yoursorrow 18-21, M Jan 20

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    I have been feeling like I don't get enough attention from my boyfriend. We have been through a lot. Long story short, he cheated on me, I found out from the other girl who was...
    Kristaaaaaaaaaaaa Kristaaaaaaaaaaaa 22-25, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I got married when I was 17, I was expecting my Frist baby, we been together since I'm 25 now :) going on 26, we have 3 beautiful Daughters now. I believe marriage is not like a...
    Marialz Marialz 22-25, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Positive attention...even as a young girl I wanted my parents attention all the time... I enjoy my hubs attention but don't get it nearly enough!!
    Angelkins Angelkins 46-50, F 5 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    To have a woman feel like she is the only one! Give her 100% of my attention!
    speedrcr67 speedrcr67 46-50, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I actually married a sociopath. I was too young to know what the term was but smart enough to realize something was not quite right. I found this article on DailyStrength.org...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 9 Responses Jan 16

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    This one just popped in for the men to pay attention to. I'm Sensitive by Jewel
    uncorkyoursoul uncorkyoursoul 56-60, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    Honestly, I am so sick and tired of people who don't even have anything wrong with them, but exaggerate the fact that they do just to get out of things or get extra attention. I...
    fastlife22 fastlife22 18-21, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    Stranded Woman Didn’t Expect This From Him. This Is Life Changing... One day a man saw a old lady, stranded on the side of the road but even in the dim light of day, he could...
    vickieprince vickieprince 51-55, F 12 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Years ago I met this beautiful girl, who became a close friend of mine. We spent time together on a regular basis, I'd even watch as she would get flirtatious with other men and I...
    steampunkBeverage steampunkBeverage 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 20

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    TAKE MY ADVICE MAN. If you are a sincere sensitive type who will get heartbroken and can't do flippant relations like most people can. I was 34 when a 22 year old turned her...
    Ajushi Ajushi 36-40, M Jan 21

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    TAKE MY ADVICE MAN. If you are a sincere sensitive type who will get heartbroken and can't do flippant relations like most people can. I was 34 when a 22 year old turned her...
    Ajushi Ajushi 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 21

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    Maybe nobody reads this. Maybe nobody gives a ****. But I've got so much going on right now, & no one to share it with, I feel I'll explode if I don't somehow get it out there...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 3

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    i love my boyfriend to bits... but i find that i feel the need to seek attention... from him, im always reaching out to him but feel as though its not enough. lately he has been...
    rivanile rivanile 26-30, F Jan 20

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    not from any specific person, but in general. well actually, basically just time away from my family. But my friends also put a tole on me every so often. I need to have my alone...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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