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I Need Love and Attention

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 335 People

    I Hate You, Don't Leave Me

    Often I think people ignore the fact that I need love and attention because I have borderline personality disorder. But even though I don't process emotions and feelings like everyone else, I still need to be considered and treated like a human...
    gorejussxpsycho gorejussxpsycho 22-25, F Jul 23, 2013

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    It's Difficult

    I want people to like me. On the other hand, I'm paralyzed by the fear that if they get to know me, they won't like me. I'm afraid I'll say something to offend them, or that they'll figure out that I'm gay and stop associating with me. The fear has been thus far overpowering...
    b1alasdair b1alasdair 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 14, 2009

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    Dear Future Wife

    Dear Future Wife, I have to admit and it’s not easy saying this, but I have been a broken man and alone for quite some time. In the past I have given my heart out on a silver platter to those whom I felt I could trust and love, but only to have it handed back to me postage due...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 20, 2013

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    Cuddles

    i want to have atttention from my parents and my siblings, it's as if i'm invisible to them.. They notice me if they bump into me or when i shout at them or if they have something to ask or they plainlky want to fight with me. I want themto love me and pay atttentin to what i do...
    losingmyfriends losingmyfriends 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2008

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    Marriage Is Lonely

    I've been married for about a year now but my husband and i have been together a while before. We have a two year old daughter who is the light of my life. I do everything for these two people. I cook them breakfast, lunch, dinner, i clean and put away their clothes,i make their...
    cobweb10 cobweb10 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 11, 2012

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    My Mom Never Gave Me The Satisfaction. Ever.

    She treats me like im filthy. So I cant help but to be like, wow, my own mother doesnt like me? I must be a piece of shyt. So then I go out looking like a *****, looking for attention in men, in school, in every conversation. Someone please help me is always my inner thought...
    studentfrommars studentfrommars 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2012

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    It's kind of sad that I'm only getting messages

    from guys. Especially guys that want to skype or send pics. Silly boys. What if I liked girls? Guess it's my fault for choosing the picture I chose..... Maybe I crave attention.....
    xoxoHugsAndKisses xoxoHugsAndKisses 22-25, F 2 Responses May 4, 2014

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    Need people talk to me,

    text me , praise me all the time. I m bored if not
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My boyfriend don't show me attention,

    he never tells me I'm pretty or I look nice. I just feel he isn't attracted to me, I mean I get attention from other guys "at work" but it don't mean anything the only person I care about finding me attractive is my boyfriend. I tried to talk to him and nothing changes, I always...
    Fastcat500 Fastcat500 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2014

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    Love And Attention

    Love and attention,Need it,Someone,Please,I'm missing out,It's not fair,I want my share.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 29, 2012

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    I Am Sooo Lost

    I've had an affair with married man last summer. It was everything for me - love, fun, joy, sadness, happiness, empty promises, lies, sleepless nights, tears, broken heart. Literally, I went through all these feelings after 14 faithful years of my only marriage. I was so in love...
    anet99 anet99 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    Very Much Lacking.

               Enjoying love and attention in a romantic way is something I have been longing for. Knowing everything happens for a reason this will happen too.
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 20 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    Call Me a *****.

    I need someone's love and affection, but how to keep it with the dreaded cloud of lies always lying in wait. I am with someone who doesn't realize what I need and crave. No attention, especially in public, it's not proper. It embaresses him. Why should he be embaressed? But I can...
    knowledgeworthhaving knowledgeworthhaving 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 8, 2009

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    Hello

    I have needs. I want to be close to someone again. I am always needing love. I dated a lot but always dated the wrong guys. I wish I would have found out sooner. I would have done better. So I am pretty selective. You have to be a Christian and you have to be my age pretty much...
    Christian02 Christian02 22-25, F Jan 18, 2013

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    I'll Never Let Myself Have It

    I need love and affection, but I won't let anyone love me. When it seems like he will, I chase him away. I've done it over and over again. I don't know the way out.
    AuntieBelle AuntieBelle 36-40 1 Response Oct 10, 2008

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    Who Doesn't? I Was Born Just For Those Two Reason...

    Mmmmmmmmmmm let's see. All I can say is...well: I'm a PISCES (major attention seekers) My real name reeks self-absorded (It's derived from greek mythology about the God who loved his reflection so much he died looking at it) I am die hard over love (I love everybody and want the...
    SunsetDaily SunsetDaily 36-40, F 4 Responses May 27, 2012

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    Anyone Want to give me attention

    and want my attention send me a message :-)
    urbabyboy urbabyboy 16-17, M Dec 8, 2014

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    MMM Mmm Good

    I love being loved by a special man and being the center of his attention.  It is mmmm mmmm good.  So who wants to make fungirl's day?
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 22 Responses Oct 10, 2008

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    I Need Love

    And attention. I'm so alone. But, I'm broken. I'm unlovable. I can't love. I am a surivior. But, not that kind. I tried to kill myself. Because everyone I have ever loved has left or hurt me more than you can imangine. No body can love me. All I ever wanted was to beloved. But...
    Crazylover15 Crazylover15 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    I don't think I am needy,

    I just want the attention I deserve.
    Ldybugs Ldybugs 26-30, F Mar 1, 2014

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    Always........

    It seems to be one of my biggest weaknesses. I am always looking for love, acceptance & affection. When I was younger I would seek out attention, but I find I don't do that as much anymore. I still seek the love though. I believe looking back at my relationship with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 18, 2009

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    It has been my solemn prayer,

    to one day meet a woman and to fall in love, get married, and start a life together. I would like a woman who will stimulate my intellect and intrigue my heart. I would like a woman who’s down to earth and knows who she is and does not have to put on airs to be something she...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M Feb 5, 2014

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    Show Me You Love Me!

    I need love and attention in all my relationships. Once that is lacking i feel as if the person isn't interested in me or has moved on some how. Maybe i become paranoid and then would try ways to get the person to notice me, but if i have to try to hard i just get tired and say...
    righteous21 righteous21 18-21, F Jul 5, 2012

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    I'm in a relationship

    and he says all the right things, constantly telling me he thinks I'm beautiful,amazing,sexy, how attracted he is to me and that he loves me, great right? well yes but it's not enough for me I need attention from outside the relationship...like every male I cross paths with! I...
    Daniellab89 Daniellab89 22-25, F 11 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    Still going threw the process of moving on from my ex...deep down in my heart im still broken...i feel lost...as if my heart isnt complete...i have met some other guys but i just...
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    Am Brenda 21 year old girl kibera residents and i really love children and i hate seeing them suffer in the hands of crucial neighbors or parents and i wanna start up a daycare and...
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    Younger Women are more Willing to Marry Older Men. A recent survey measured people’s attitudes about marrying a partner either older or younger than themselves. The survey...
    Donnaccaa Donnaccaa 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    I do. Even if I pretend that I don't.
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    ~The personal heart of a soulIs not the personal heart of a person. The heart is what loves that of which is around you. My heart is why i love you. Many people say " you have to...
    honeydew124991 honeydew124991 16-17, F Feb 15

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    I need love I need kiss I need hug..I want to sleep on your shoulders I want to hold your hands..I need you bae I need you bae
    richardo789 richardo789 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 7

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    Is it bad that I know I need love and affection to keep functioning, but I don't want it? It's like I know I do need it, but I feel like relationships are too difficult, and will...
    YodaRyan YodaRyan 16-17, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    If we get what we want And still are unfulfilled, The question becomes did we really get what we want? I suppose I satiated my desire But in that satiation there was no...
    myvoyce2 myvoyce2 36-40, F Jan 28

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    "Who Can I Run To?" [Verse One:] [LaTocha] As I stand here contemplating, On the right thing to decide. Will I take the wrong direction, All my life, where will I go, What lies...
    LanaKane101 LanaKane101 31-35, F Feb 20

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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I3j0lVPIrJw&app=desktop I never needed love like I need you And I never lived for nobody, but I live for you Oooh, babe, lost in love is what I...
    AntiveninKiss AntiveninKiss 22-25, F a week ago

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    After he broke up with me by an email ... I finally replied him ... with a broken heart : *** *** I believe every word you said, honey, and I respect any decision you've made. I...
    findemmawoodhouse findemmawoodhouse 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    I was the result of an unplanned & unwanted pregnancy. My parents were newly married, my mother a Catholic who had waited until marriage. She spent her whole pregnancy feeling "not...
    AnIsland AnIsland 31-35, F Feb 14

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    I am love I am Love I am LOVE I speak love I hear love I give love Love is all I need Love is all I am I AM LOVE
    ExperienceisMyProject ExperienceisMyProject 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I truly need love in my life.
    daybreak525 daybreak525 46-50, F Feb 8

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    Yes, men who dress need love! I treat them like women and take them out on dates, flirt with them alot and even stroke there **** when excited. When there ready to spread u best...
    BigGulp4U91 BigGulp4U91 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    I started liking dresses when I think the 2nd grade. I was friends with two girls that would always wear fancy party dresses that looked like something for square dancing. I don't...
    Melissa11520 Melissa11520 41-45 4 hrs ago

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    I don't have the hyper part at all, I just have attention problems. The hardest part is that I have such little control over it because I will be trying to get something important...
    zen001 zen001 22-25, M 3 hrs ago

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    I am a long time crossdresser. I have been wearing female clothes whenever I can from about the age of 10. No I do not concider myself a freak or bad. I just have a strong female...
    taracd55 taracd55 56-60, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Honestly, I am so sick and tired of people who don't even have anything wrong with them, but exaggerate the fact that they do just to get out of things or get extra attention. I...
    fastlife22 fastlife22 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    (Our song.... and may we have our first dance to this song.)Especially to my sayang L.Today marks the day that I have loved you for 1,460 days.It started as a love for a good...
    lexuslourve lexuslourve 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 14

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    I have been feeling like I don't get enough attention from my boyfriend. We have been through a lot. Long story short, he cheated on me, I found out from the other girl who was...
    Kristaaaaaaaaaaaa Kristaaaaaaaaaaaa 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 30

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    I never demand that people pay attention to me. I hate it when people demand that I pay attention to them! Its so rude! It hurts me. My attention is gold. If I am boring you I want...
    chimbie88 chimbie88 31-35, M 5 days ago

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    Okay, so I've been dating this guy for quite some time now. My main problem is this. I feel like he kind of lack the initiative to do things first in our relationship. He won't...
    Liebeeiram Liebeeiram 22-25, F 5 Responses 13 hrs ago

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