I Need Love and Attention

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 388 People

    I Hate You, Don't Leave Me

    Often I think people ignore the fact that I need love and attention because I have borderline personality disorder. But even though I don't process emotions and feelings like everyone else, I still need to be considered and treated like a human...
    gorejussxpsycho gorejussxpsycho
    22-25, F
    Jul 23, 2013

    I need a lot of love

    and attention and I'm pretty clingy how can I say you that to someone I'm dating the answer is I don't I hide it I pretend it doesn't bother me but every second I am NOT with them hurts my heart
    etdragonstrom etdragonstrom
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 7, 2015

    boyfriend too into video games

    and gets lost in time. I don't bother staying up to talk to him anymore. iv told him how I feel about this. Maybe he'll get the hint.
    lol213coco lol213coco
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 26, 2015

    I'll Never Let Myself Have It

    I need love and affection, but I won't let anyone love me. When it seems like he will, I chase him away. I've done it over and over again. I don't know the way out.
    AuntieBelle AuntieBelle
    36-40
    1 Response Oct 10, 2008

    It has been my solemn prayer,

    to one day meet a woman and to fall in love, get married, and start a life together. I would like a woman who will stimulate my intellect and intrigue my heart. I would like a woman who’s down to earth and knows who she is and does not have to put on airs to be something she...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966
    46-50, M
    Feb 5, 2014

    i mean who doesn't. .

    being loved or getting attention feels amazing
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 31, 2015

    Cuddles

    i want to have atttention from my parents and my siblings, it's as if i'm invisible to them.. They notice me if they bump into me or when i shout at them or if they have something to ask or they plainlky want to fight with me. I want themto love me and pay atttentin to what i do...
    losingmyfriends losingmyfriends
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 17, 2008

    My Mom Never Gave Me The Satisfaction. Ever.

    She treats me like im filthy. So I cant help but to be like, wow, my own mother doesnt like me? I must be a piece of shyt. So then I go out looking like a *****, looking for attention in men, in school, in every conversation. Someone please help me is always my inner thought...
    studentfrommars studentfrommars
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 24, 2012

    My boyfriend don't show me attention,

    he never tells me I'm pretty or I look nice. I just feel he isn't attracted to me, I mean I get attention from other guys "at work" but it don't mean anything the only person I care about finding me attractive is my boyfriend. I tried to talk to him and nothing changes, I always...
    Fastcat500 Fastcat500
    22-25, F
    Sep 16, 2014

    Need people talk to me,

    text me , praise me all the time. I m bored if not
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 26, 2015

    It's Difficult

    I want people to like me. On the other hand, I'm paralyzed by the fear that if they get to know me, they won't like me. I'm afraid I'll say something to offend them, or that they'll figure out that I'm gay and stop associating with me. The fear has been thus far overpowering...
    b1alasdair b1alasdair
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 14, 2009

    Every woman does. I gladly admit it

    though lol I know I require tons of love and attention and affection to stay happy
    gummball gummball
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 2, 2015

    Very Much Lacking.

               Enjoying love and attention in a romantic way is something I have been longing for. Knowing everything happens for a reason this will happen too.
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5
    41-45, M
    17 Responses Jul 21, 2009
    LunaTheMoonLover LunaTheMoonLover
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 30

    Anyone Want to give me attention

    and want my attention send me a message :-)
    urbabyboy urbabyboy
    16-17, M
    Dec 8, 2014

    Dear Future Wife

    Dear Future Wife, I have to admit and it’s not easy saying this, but I have been a broken man and alone for quite some time. In the past I have given my heart out on a silver platter to those whom I felt I could trust and love, but only to have it handed back to me postage due...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966
    46-50, M
    1 Response Sep 20, 2013

    It's kind of sad that I'm only getting messages

    from guys. Especially guys that want to skype or send pics. Silly boys. What if I liked girls? Guess it's my fault for choosing the picture I chose..... Maybe I crave attention.....
    xoxoHugsAndKisses xoxoHugsAndKisses
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 4, 2014

    my gf doesn't give me a enough attention I need

    more of her I wish she knew and under stood that and would give me more love and attention
    etdragonstrom etdragonstrom
    18-21, M
    Aug 8, 2015

    I don't think I am needy,

    I just want the attention I deserve.
    Ldybugs Ldybugs
    26-30, F
    Mar 1, 2014

    Love And Attention

    Love and attention,Need it,Someone,Please,I'm missing out,It's not fair,I want my share.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket
    46-50, M
    1 Response Feb 29, 2012

    Right now, im craving the touch of a man.

    In this moment i want nothing more than to feel his arms and hands around my body, the pricking of his facial hair on my face and the warmth of his breath on my neck. I need to feel the strength of his heartbeat while im pressed close to his chest. No words, just blissful...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 4

    I Need Love

    And attention. I'm so alone. But, I'm broken. I'm unlovable. I can't love. I am a surivior. But, not that kind. I tried to kill myself. Because everyone I have ever loved has left or hurt me more than you can imangine. No body can love me. All I ever wanted was to beloved. But...
    Crazylover15 Crazylover15
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 21, 2013

    Not really attention,

    I just want to feel someone close to me loves me!
    S1885 S1885
    46-50, M
    Jan 5

    Show Me You Love Me!

    I need love and attention in all my relationships. Once that is lacking i feel as if the person isn't interested in me or has moved on some how. Maybe i become paranoid and then would try ways to get the person to notice me, but if i have to try to hard i just get tired and say...
    righteous21 righteous21
    18-21, F
    Jul 5, 2012

    On an unbearable level.

    Feel free to talk to me here or on any social media. Just ask and I will send you links.
    Joceline93 Joceline93
    22-25, T
    Nov 12, 2015

    Call Me a *****.

    I need someone's love and affection, but how to keep it with the dreaded cloud of lies always lying in wait. I am with someone who doesn't realize what I need and crave. No attention, especially in public, it's not proper. It embaresses him. Why should he be embaressed? But I can...
    knowledgeworthhaving knowledgeworthhaving
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 8, 2009

    Hello

    I have needs. I want to be close to someone again. I am always needing love. I dated a lot but always dated the wrong guys. I wish I would have found out sooner. I would have done better. So I am pretty selective. You have to be a Christian and you have to be my age pretty much...
    pearls37 pearls37
    22-25, F
    Jan 18, 2013

    Marriage Is Lonely

    I've been married for about a year now but my husband and i have been together a while before. We have a two year old daughter who is the light of my life. I do everything for these two people. I cook them breakfast, lunch, dinner, i clean and put away their clothes,i make their...
    cobweb10 cobweb10
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 11, 2012

    I'm in a relationship

    and he says all the right things, constantly telling me he thinks I'm beautiful,amazing,sexy, how attracted he is to me and that he loves me, great right? well yes but it's not enough for me I need attention from outside the relationship...like every male I cross paths with! I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Dec 28, 2014

    Always........

    It seems to be one of my biggest weaknesses. I am always looking for love, acceptance & affection. When I was younger I would seek out attention, but I find I don't do that as much anymore. I still seek the love though. I believe looking back at my relationship with...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Apr 18, 2009

    What'd I wouldn't do to take away this

    overwhelming feeling of lonliness and worthlessness....
    SelfishShellfish SelfishShellfish
    36-40, F
    Feb 25

    I Am Sooo Lost

    I've had an affair with married man last summer. It was everything for me - love, fun, joy, sadness, happiness, empty promises, lies, sleepless nights, tears, broken heart. Literally, I went through all these feelings after 14 faithful years of my only marriage. I was so in love...
    anet99 anet99
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Sep 15, 2013

    I feel unnoticed. And honestly I think I'm

    pretty ******* amazing and I deserve more credit for my flawless existence. I need attention and messages...Notice me Senpai ;-;
    SnoopDoggsGrama SnoopDoggsGrama
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 3, 2015

    MMM Mmm Good

    I love being loved by a special man and being the center of his attention.  It is mmmm mmmm good.  So who wants to make fungirl's day?
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    18 Responses Oct 10, 2008

    Sometimes I really just need someone's

    attention. Someone that cares to give me attention. I constantly have so much on my mind.
    LovelyyLexii18 LovelyyLexii18
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 16, 2015

    Who Doesn't? I Was Born Just For Those Two Reason...

    Mmmmmmmmmmm let's see. All I can say is...well: I'm a PISCES (major attention seekers) My real name reeks self-absorded (It's derived from greek mythology about the God who loved his reflection so much he died looking at it) I am die hard over love (I love everybody and want the...
    SunsetDaily SunsetDaily
    36-40, F
    3 Responses May 27, 2012
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