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I Need Love and Attention

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 361 People

    I Am Sooo Lost

    I've had an affair with married man last summer. It was everything for me - love, fun, joy, sadness, happiness, empty promises, lies, sleepless nights, tears, broken heart. Literally, I went through all these feelings after 14 faithful years of my only marriage. I was so in love...
    anet99 anet99 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    I don't think I am needy,

    I just want the attention I deserve.
    Ldybugs Ldybugs 26-30, F Mar 1, 2014

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    My boyfriend don't show me attention,

    he never tells me I'm pretty or I look nice. I just feel he isn't attracted to me, I mean I get attention from other guys "at work" but it don't mean anything the only person I care about finding me attractive is my boyfriend. I tried to talk to him and nothing changes, I always...
    Fastcat500 Fastcat500 18-21, F Sep 16, 2014

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    i mean who doesn't. .

    being loved or getting attention feels amazing
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 31

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    Who Doesn't? I Was Born Just For Those Two Reason...

    Mmmmmmmmmmm let's see. All I can say is...well: I'm a PISCES (major attention seekers) My real name reeks self-absorded (It's derived from greek mythology about the God who loved his reflection so much he died looking at it) I am die hard over love (I love everybody and want the...
    SunsetDaily SunsetDaily 36-40, F 4 Responses May 27, 2012

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    My Mom Never Gave Me The Satisfaction. Ever.

    She treats me like im filthy. So I cant help but to be like, wow, my own mother doesnt like me? I must be a piece of shyt. So then I go out looking like a *****, looking for attention in men, in school, in every conversation. Someone please help me is always my inner thought...
    studentfrommars studentfrommars 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2012

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    Love And Attention

    Love and attention,Need it,Someone,Please,I'm missing out,It's not fair,I want my share.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 29, 2012

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    I Need Love

    And attention. I'm so alone. But, I'm broken. I'm unlovable. I can't love. I am a surivior. But, not that kind. I tried to kill myself. Because everyone I have ever loved has left or hurt me more than you can imangine. No body can love me. All I ever wanted was to beloved. But...
    Crazylover15 Crazylover15 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    Show Me You Love Me!

    I need love and attention in all my relationships. Once that is lacking i feel as if the person isn't interested in me or has moved on some how. Maybe i become paranoid and then would try ways to get the person to notice me, but if i have to try to hard i just get tired and say...
    righteous21 righteous21 18-21, F Jul 5, 2012

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    Always........

    It seems to be one of my biggest weaknesses. I am always looking for love, acceptance & affection. When I was younger I would seek out attention, but I find I don't do that as much anymore. I still seek the love though. I believe looking back at my relationship with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 18, 2009

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    Hello

    I have needs. I want to be close to someone again. I am always needing love. I dated a lot but always dated the wrong guys. I wish I would have found out sooner. I would have done better. So I am pretty selective. You have to be a Christian and you have to be my age pretty much...
    Christian02 Christian02 22-25, F Jan 18, 2013

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    MMM Mmm Good

    I love being loved by a special man and being the center of his attention.  It is mmmm mmmm good.  So who wants to make fungirl's day?
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 22 Responses Oct 10, 2008

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    It's Difficult

    I want people to like me. On the other hand, I'm paralyzed by the fear that if they get to know me, they won't like me. I'm afraid I'll say something to offend them, or that they'll figure out that I'm gay and stop associating with me. The fear has been thus far overpowering...
    b1alasdair b1alasdair 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 14, 2009

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    Marriage Is Lonely

    I've been married for about a year now but my husband and i have been together a while before. We have a two year old daughter who is the light of my life. I do everything for these two people. I cook them breakfast, lunch, dinner, i clean and put away their clothes,i make their...
    cobweb10 cobweb10 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 11, 2012

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    I'm in a relationship

    and he says all the right things, constantly telling me he thinks I'm beautiful,amazing,sexy, how attracted he is to me and that he loves me, great right? well yes but it's not enough for me I need attention from outside the relationship...like every male I cross paths with! I...
    Daniellab89 Daniellab89 22-25, F 8 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I Hate You, Don't Leave Me

    Often I think people ignore the fact that I need love and attention because I have borderline personality disorder. But even though I don't process emotions and feelings like everyone else, I still need to be considered and treated like a human...
    gorejussxpsycho gorejussxpsycho 22-25, F Jul 23, 2013

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    Dear Future Wife

    Dear Future Wife, I have to admit and it’s not easy saying this, but I have been a broken man and alone for quite some time. In the past I have given my heart out on a silver platter to those whom I felt I could trust and love, but only to have it handed back to me postage due...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 20, 2013

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    Call Me a *****.

    I need someone's love and affection, but how to keep it with the dreaded cloud of lies always lying in wait. I am with someone who doesn't realize what I need and crave. No attention, especially in public, it's not proper. It embaresses him. Why should he be embaressed? But I can...
    knowledgeworthhaving knowledgeworthhaving 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 8, 2009

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    Anyone Want to give me attention

    and want my attention send me a message :-)
    urbabyboy urbabyboy 16-17, M Dec 8, 2014

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    Need people talk to me,

    text me , praise me all the time. I m bored if not
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 26

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    Every woman does. I gladly admit it

    though lol I know I require tons of love and attention and affection to stay happy
    gummball gummball 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 2

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    It's kind of sad that I'm only getting messages

    from guys. Especially guys that want to skype or send pics. Silly boys. What if I liked girls? Guess it's my fault for choosing the picture I chose..... Maybe I crave attention.....
    xoxoHugsAndKisses xoxoHugsAndKisses 22-25, F 2 Responses May 4, 2014

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    Very Much Lacking.

               Enjoying love and attention in a romantic way is something I have been longing for. Knowing everything happens for a reason this will happen too.
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 18 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    I'll Never Let Myself Have It

    I need love and affection, but I won't let anyone love me. When it seems like he will, I chase him away. I've done it over and over again. I don't know the way out.
    AuntieBelle AuntieBelle 36-40 1 Response Oct 10, 2008

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    Cuddles

    i want to have atttention from my parents and my siblings, it's as if i'm invisible to them.. They notice me if they bump into me or when i shout at them or if they have something to ask or they plainlky want to fight with me. I want themto love me and pay atttentin to what i do...
    losingmyfriends losingmyfriends 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2008

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    It has been my solemn prayer,

    to one day meet a woman and to fall in love, get married, and start a life together. I would like a woman who will stimulate my intellect and intrigue my heart. I would like a woman who’s down to earth and knows who she is and does not have to put on airs to be something she...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M Feb 5, 2014

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    The feeling of importance is a companion to the feeling of love, at least as far as I’m concerned it is. I want to be important to the man I love; not because he needs me to do...
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    Ok I saw Donald trump talk for the first time a little while ago and I just love the guy. He's a go getter. He's a compromiser. He's a businessman. That's exactly what this country...
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    I've been in a cuddling mood for over a week now. I just need to feel the warmth of arms wrapped around me. No need to say a word. Just be there in that moment. Hearing their heart...
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    I swear I'm just a big kid at heart....I love to be silly!!! I have a boyfriend who says he likes silliness...but it's just not to the same extent!! I understand people need to be...
    EndOfQuiet EndOfQuiet 16-17, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I have really worked hard on this. I never paid attention to if I loved myself or not. I discovered thru hard times that I didn't even know myself or who I was. I am still...
    00DesertRose 00DesertRose 36-40, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Hello everyone. I am new to this and a little nervous but I feel sharing is important so I will share my story with those who will listen. I am a confused person right now because...
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    Don't Go Away - Oasis Cold and frosty morning there's not a lot to say About the things caught in my mind And as the day was dawning my plane flew away With all the things caught...
    Infiniteblue Infiniteblue 36-40, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I don't wear makeup because "I need it" I wear it because makeup is my passion . And for people to tell me " oh why do you wear makeup when you don't need it??" Is actually really...
    FlowerChildWithARockNRollSoul FlowerChildWithARockNRollSoul 18-21, F 12 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    We all need to be loved and appreciated :)
    roes55 roes55 56-60, F 5 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I hate everything that I'm feeling right now. I just can't get her out of my mind. I keep thinking i am insane for letting go of the only person i've ever truly loved, the only...
    KiddoNSM KiddoNSM 22-25, M 15 hrs ago

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    I need a stud n I need him bad... Prefer indian
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