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I Need Love and Attention

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    Who Doesn't? I Was Born Just For Those Two Reason...

    Mmmmmmmmmmm let's see. All I can say is...well: I'm a PISCES (major attention seekers) My real name reeks self-absorded (It's derived from greek mythology about the God who loved his reflection so much he died looking at it) I am die hard over love (I love everybody and want the...
    SunsetDaily SunsetDaily 36-40, F 3 Responses May 27, 2012

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    Always........

    It seems to be one of my biggest weaknesses. I am always looking for love, acceptance & affection. When I was younger I would seek out attention, but I find I don't do that as much anymore. I still seek the love though. I believe looking back at my relationship with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 18, 2009

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    Call Me a *****.

    I need someone's love and affection, but how to keep it with the dreaded cloud of lies always lying in wait. I am with someone who doesn't realize what I need and crave. No attention, especially in public, it's not proper. It embaresses him. Why should he be embaressed? But I can...
    knowledgeworthhaving knowledgeworthhaving 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 8, 2009

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    Love And Attention

    Love and attention,Need it,Someone,Please,I'm missing out,It's not fair,I want my share.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 29, 2012

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    MMM Mmm Good

    I love being loved by a special man and being the center of his attention.  It is mmmm mmmm good.  So who wants to make fungirl's day?
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 22 Responses Oct 10, 2008

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    Anyone can you message me

    but girls please? I need to stay awake.
    Enoch88 Enoch88 22-25, M Apr 19

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    Cuddles

    i want to have atttention from my parents and my siblings, it's as if i'm invisible to them.. They notice me if they bump into me or when i shout at them or if they have something to ask or they plainlky want to fight with me. I want themto love me and pay atttentin to what i do...
    losingmyfriends losingmyfriends 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2008

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    It has been my solemn prayer,

    to one day meet a woman and to fall in love, get married, and start a life together. I would like a woman who will stimulate my intellect and intrigue my heart. I would like a woman who’s down to earth and knows who she is and does not have to put on airs to be something she...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M Feb 5

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    I Am Sooo Lost

    I've had an affair with married man last summer. It was everything for me - love, fun, joy, sadness, happiness, empty promises, lies, sleepless nights, tears, broken heart. Literally, I went through all these feelings after 14 faithful years of my only marriage. I was so in love...
    anet99 anet99 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    Marriage Is Lonely

    I've been married for about a year now but my husband and i have been together a while before. We have a two year old daughter who is the light of my life. I do everything for these two people. I cook them breakfast, lunch, dinner, i clean and put away their clothes,i make their...
    cobweb10 cobweb10 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 11, 2012

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    I don't think I am needy,

    I just want the attention I deserve.
    Ldybugs Ldybugs 26-30, F Mar 1

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    Dear Future Wife

    Dear Future Wife, I have to admit and it’s not easy saying this, but I have been a broken man and alone for quite some time. In the past I have given my heart out on a silver platter to those whom I felt I could trust and love, but only to have it handed back to me postage due...
    mysteryman1966 mysteryman1966 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 20, 2013

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    My Mom Never Gave Me The Satisfaction. Ever.

    She treats me like im filthy. So I cant help but to be like, wow, my own mother doesnt like me? I must be a piece of shyt. So then I go out looking like a *****, looking for attention in men, in school, in every conversation. Someone please help me is always my inner thought...
    studentfrommars studentfrommars 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2012

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    I Need Love

    And attention. I'm so alone. But, I'm broken. I'm unlovable. I can't love. I am a surivior. But, not that kind. I tried to kill myself. Because everyone I have ever loved has left or hurt me more than you can imangine. No body can love me. All I ever wanted was to beloved. But...
    Crazylover15 Crazylover15 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    Show Me You Love Me!

    I need love and attention in all my relationships. Once that is lacking i feel as if the person isn't interested in me or has moved on some how. Maybe i become paranoid and then would try ways to get the person to notice me, but if i have to try to hard i just get tired and say...
    righteous21 righteous21 18-21, F Jul 5, 2012

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    I'll Never Let Myself Have It

    I need love and affection, but I won't let anyone love me. When it seems like he will, I chase him away. I've done it over and over again. I don't know the way out.
    AuntieBelle AuntieBelle 36-40 1 Response Oct 10, 2008

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    I Hate You, Don't Leave Me

    Often I think people ignore the fact that I need love and attention because I have borderline personality disorder. But even though I don't process emotions and feelings like everyone else, I still need to be considered and treated like a human...
    gorejussxpsycho gorejussxpsycho 22-25, F Jul 23, 2013

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    Hello

    I have needs. I want to be close to someone again. I am always needing love. I dated a lot but always dated the wrong guys. I wish I would have found out sooner. I would have done better. So I am pretty selective. You have to be a Christian and you have to be my age pretty much...
    Christian02 Christian02 18-21, F Jan 18, 2013

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    It's kind of sad that I'm only getting messages

    from guys. Especially guys that want to skype or send pics. Silly boys. What if I liked girls? Guess it's my fault for choosing the picture I chose..... Maybe I crave attention.....
    xoxoHugsAndKisses xoxoHugsAndKisses 22-25, F 3 Responses May 4

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    Dying From Lack of Attention

     I feel myself just blending into the wall, the sheets, the sofa as if I don't exist anymore.  My wife, through no fault of her own, grew up in a cold family and although we had hot sex every night until we got married, it stopped then and I found out that although I'n...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 5 Responses Jun 9, 2009

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    It's Difficult

    I want people to like me. On the other hand, I'm paralyzed by the fear that if they get to know me, they won't like me. I'm afraid I'll say something to offend them, or that they'll figure out that I'm gay and stop associating with me. The fear has been thus far overpowering...
    b1alasdair b1alasdair 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 14, 2009

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    Very Much Lacking.

               Enjoying love and attention in a romantic way is something I have been longing for. Knowing everything happens for a reason this will happen too.
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 20 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    When I was growing up my dad never gave me

    attention and he always punished me for every little thing and he would hit me all the time and he used to treat me like crap and he never said he loved me.. And my mom is always screaming at me and calling me names and making me feel bad about myself and picking on me.. I wish...
    smbutts04 smbutts04 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I mite be independent but I need love too. I mite be shy but I need to be loved too. I mite hate men at times but that's because I've been burnt every single time I've dated...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F Jul 11

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    I want someone that'll text me constantly, just because they can. I want someone to take care of me, be affectionate, and spend long nights with me. I want to have a girl that'll...
    futureboy64 futureboy64 16-17, M a week ago

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    I dont like being called an attention seeker.. but I am an attention seeker.. I would like to talk to anybody who wants to talk.. You can message me if you want.. Talk to me about...
    tantanerana tantanerana 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    I’m feeling really horrible at the moment so prepare yourself for a rather depressing story. I just really need to write to my heart’s content right now, so I’m sorry if it...
    thatgirlwithapen thatgirlwithapen 22-25, F Jul 13

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    July 18. Time to Get Angry. It's about time you got angry - yes, that angry. Anger can be such a potent, frightening emotion. It can also be a feeling that guides us to important...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jul 18

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    I ache to make someone happy. I ache to make a Girl feel special and worth it. I ache to make a woman feel like she is precious and loved. I want to do that.. I want to make a...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I ache to make someone happy. I ache to make a Girl feel special and worth it. I ache to make a woman feel like she is precious and loved. I want to do that.. I want to make a...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I ache to make someone happy. I ache to make a Girl feel special and worth it. I ache to make a woman feel like she is precious and loved. I want to do that.. I want to make a...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    I ache to make someone happy. I ache to make a Girl feel special and worth it. I ache to make a woman feel like she is precious and loved. I want to do that.. I want to make a...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I ache to make someone happy. I ache to make a Girl feel special and worth it. I ache to make a woman feel like she is precious and loved. I want to do that.. I want to make a...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Stay With Me Guess it's true, I'm not good at a one-night stand But I still need love 'cause I'm just a man These nights never seem to go to plan I don't want you to leave, will...
    1sight 1sight 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    I have passed this woman by two twice because I felt like I wasn't good enough for her until now. I met with her this last Friday. Only to discuss some ideas because we both are...
    ChildOfMars ChildOfMars 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Yes I'm alone and it's fine ! I have been in **** for 4 years and at the end I knew that I'm okay with being alone but I know I'm not lonely and This amazing site showed me many...
    FlawlessGuy FlawlessGuy 18-21, M Jul 22

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    Guess it's true I'm not good at a one night stand, but I still need love couse I'm just a man, these nights never seem to go to plan, I don't want you to leave will you hold me...
    folin2 folin2 16-17, M Jul 22

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    What makes me any less of a person cause im a huggable teddy bear and not a lean six pack of abs who would love me hold me and treat me with the kindness I feel I desire and what I...
    lonelyheart1967 lonelyheart1967 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    ****!!! Only young people complaining they need love!!! Pray to your god not to end like me Without it. I'm literally physically ill, depressed, and hopeless. I have read in...
    Ayla6 Ayla6 56-60, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    No hate comments plz Love sucks when it's only you, The one that gives until they're blue You give your heart until it bleeds But they don't care about your needs Love is...
    georgia2001 georgia2001 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    Love is nothing more than a lie, a pathetic lie for those not strong enough to accept the cruelty of reality. I hate seeing people in love, I hate them, love has always alluded me...
    Nix0 Nix0 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Just because you been hurt doesn't mean you should turn into someone your not. Don't give up and put aside your emotions and who you truly are just because of a few bad experiences...
    SimplyAmazingx SimplyAmazingx 16-17, F Jul 1

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    I have never felt so...so alone. I need love in my life...any interested boys?
    Moonywolf Moonywolf 13-15, F Jul 8

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    Some of My favorites: Crossroad-Bone Thugs N Harmony Rubberband man- T.I. Sneaking Up On Ya- Fu Schnickens Scream On Em- The Game ft Swizz Beatz Friday- Ice Cube Bang Along...
    favi4et favi4et 18-21, M Jul 12

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    Did you do everything in the name of love? Here's the lyrics: heart this if you're related to this song. I'd still remember The day we first met There was love all around You and...
    onionheart16 onionheart16 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    I guess you could say that I dislike my old self. I used to be a huge attention seeker and I became inspired to write out this story in hopes that it could shed some light on the...
    JudeLeDude JudeLeDude 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    I really need one today. I need a hug. I need to shout. I wanna die. My last message for him: As what the song goes, i will just put your poison in my veins until im okay. I feel...
    noxicillin noxicillin 26-30, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I've been with my partner now for over 15 years, married for 5 years. I do love my wife, but over the years she has become so controlling and has over-ruled my decisions too many...
    PaulSm68 PaulSm68 46-50, M 50 mins ago

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    ♥Runaway - Bruno Mars♥ ♪Just take my hand, fall in love with me again Let's runaway to the place Where love first found us Let's runaway for the day Don't need anyone around...
    MyEternalDesires MyEternalDesires 22-25, F 42 mins ago

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    Dearest My Lawyer, I've always admired many things about you. That remains. But we must stop anything between us so you can focus on the things that you intend to do. You don't...
    0nOpalsMind 0nOpalsMind 41-45, F 1 Response