I Need Marital Advice

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    Finally Found My Soul Mate....the Problem Is.....

    ........he's not my husband. My husband and I have 5 wonderful children and I don't want to do anything that will traumatize them. I am finding it increasingly difficult to relate with my husband on ANY level and he's struggling to understand what's happening with our...
    marisdelish marisdelish
    2 Responses Aug 14, 2009

    Marital Crisis

    Been married for 16 years, have 2 great kids ages 13 and 8. Have always loved my wife but last few years have been bad. Last year she said she loved me, but not like before. She is not a bad woman, and a great MOM. However, she does use verbal abuse and has neglected me...
    carisa17 carisa17
    2 Responses Jun 22, 2009

    Some Great Comics Say It Best...

    Groucho Marx "I was married by a judge. I should have asked for a jury." "Some people claim that marriage interferes with romance. There's no doubt about it. Anytime you have a romance, your wife is bound to interfere." Rodney Dangerfield "I...
    Tekkamaki Tekkamaki
    3 Responses May 12, 2009

    I've been with my husband

    for 3 years and married for 7 months. recently we have been going through some problems. He recently admitted to "liking" a female whom i have had suspicions of in the past and asked him 100 times if something was going on and 100 he would say they were just friends. I know...
    annquin annquin
    26-30, F
    Jul 27, 2014

    Help Please! Does No Sex= No Future?

    Well, where do I start?... My husband and I have been married for seven years, we have two beautiful children, they are our world. We both have good jobs and a nice home. From the outside we look perfect, but from the inside, I'm dying! I feel trapped and confused. We have not...
    LadyAnonymous2012 LadyAnonymous2012
    41-45, F
    May 23, 2013

    Advise On How To Not End My Marriage Because I'm Sooo Overwhelmed And Stressed Out!

    I met my husband online 5 years ago...but engaged in 3 months...married the following year. He was previously married and together with his ex for 15 years.....and has 2 kids with her -now 9 and 11 (boy and girl)....we also have a 2.5 yr old dtr together ....i am a nurse...work...
    spikerin1 spikerin1
    Jun 10, 2012

    Is Love Enough?

    My husband and I were married 6 months ago. There is a nine year age difference and that has never been an issue to us. On our Wedding day my mother in law (who is in the middle of divorcing my father in law) stood up unwelcome to speak and gave a 10 minute speech about...
    seekadvice seekadvice
    1 Response Oct 9, 2012

    Hello, I am a 45 year old male

    who has been married for 21 years this coming August. Over the past few years our marriage has gone downhill in a bad way. I worked at the same job for over 18 years and had to call it quits due to some problems within my department. I also had surgery five times on the same...
    musictrucker musictrucker
    46-50, M
    1 Response Apr 20, 2014

    Unhappy In My Marriage.

    I got married 6 years ago to a lovely guy who was my friend, we are both members of the same church, we never had sex before marriage although we had both been intimate with ex girlfriends/boyfriends before we met each other. I got married because I thought I loved him but I...
    sayraar sayraar
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 15, 2010

    Dilemma Of A Married Man

    Hello, I am a 40 year old married man with a wonderful wife and family. I love my family dearly and would not do anything to jeopardize their future any which way. We have been married about 14 years - and sex is one thing we have lacked in our marriage. without realizing it, it...
    doublewhammy doublewhammy
    36-40, M
    1 Response Dec 28, 2010

    Marriage Is Ending Need Help

    Hi, I'm 25 married with 3 kids and my marriage is falling apart. we have been married for 3 yrs but have been together for 10 yrs. I love this man more than anything and i knw he loves me but i get this feeling he's not in love with me anymore. I can't do anything to please him...
    chitawright chitawright
    2 Responses May 25, 2011

    Husband Bored In The Bedroom

    I love my wife with all my heart, but sexually shes just not there. Shes willing to have sex plenty often but every time I suggest something new or different we could try such as role play or spanking or toys etc... she claims to be interested but then just acts annoyed the whole...
    marriedguy82 marriedguy82
    1 Response Oct 16, 2010

    The Sick Husband

    Here's an ancedote for those times when he's sick and you just can't take it...I found this online and thought I'd share. A woman accompanied her husband to the doctor's office. After his checkup, the doctor called the wife into his office alone. He said, "Your...
    Tekkamaki Tekkamaki
    8 Responses May 12, 2009

    Paternity Test

      I need some help. I met my wife in early 2008 and got married in August of 2009. Around April of 2010 my wife started hanging out with a male friend in an inappropriate way. She stayed out with him till 4 and 5 in the morning, and spent at least one night at his house. I...
    Superboy171 Superboy171
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jul 25, 2012

    Stupid Me

    Hello, I am supposed to be celebrating my anniversary today. I do not know what to do. I think I love my wife. I say this because if I did not love her, I would not be here, trying to get advice. I have failed. I attribute this to what happened to me at 5 years of age. I was...
    brandon42 brandon42
    41-45, M
    1 Response Oct 3, 2009

    Very Unhappy

    I have been married for 22 years. I have given so much to this marriage. The problem is, I am a giver and he is the taker. I would like to talk to someone about the childhood abandonment issues my spouse experienced as a child. I believe it has alot to do with why he is the way...
    sissysmith00 sissysmith00
    1 Response Dec 5, 2010

    Regretting My Marriage

    My husband and I have been married for ten months and I'm afraid I made a terrible mistake. We're both 22 years old, recent college graduates, and trying to start our careers. My husband is about 75% through the hiring process for a government job, and due to the fact that we don...
    ki729 ki729
    2 Responses Apr 9, 2012

    My Wife Keeps Giving Her Father Money And It Is Litterally Killing Me.

    I met and fell in love with my second wife almost 7 years ago. At the time she had been estranged from her father for a reason I will not get into here. I will just say that it was an issue that would have made for a great Jerry Springer episode. We were married a little over a...
    NebraskaHusband NebraskaHusband
    36-40, M
    May 7, 2013
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