I Need More Affection

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    Recently my boyfriend

    and I moved in together. We started dating at the end of June, things were going fine for a while. Lately since we moved there has been less affection, I don't know why? It is driving me crazy... You would think that because we moved in together that we would be having sex every...
    pancake87 pancake87
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 20, 2014

    I Wish

    I wish I was in a relationship with a person who not only enjoyed being around me but actually had feelings and could be affectionate
    Evey11 Evey11
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 22, 2009

    A Bed Made Just For Cathy

    A Bed Made Just for Cathy The pillow that you made for me It was soft with feather down And the headboard, it came from an old house That was about to be torn down And the songs you always sang to me Oh wow to fall asleep Did they sound the same to her In the bed you made for me...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley
    46-50, M
    Oct 10, 2013

    ~ Not From Friends, Or Family ~

                  ~ I need affection, crave it actually, from a lover.... I have someone in mind, & from the way he talks I'm thinkin' he isn't mindin' the idea too much either. Mahahahahahaha!!!! Of course I lot can...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 12, 2009

    I'm married but we are rarely affectionate I am

    a person full of passion and romance but not able to indulge in those feelings it makes me feel sad and lonely . I have so much love to give ❤️
    beautystartswithin beautystartswithin
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Mar 10, 2014

    Even though I have a boyfriend,

    I feel completely alone and unloved. I feel like no one cares about me.
    BeccaBoo7869 BeccaBoo7869
    18-21, F
    Jul 10, 2014

    My Life Is Out Of Affection

    Some people are just gonna read the title and then say "Bullshit !" and leave, others might read these few words and then leave but only those who are going through the same experience are gonna FEEL these words. I'm one of those people who suffer from a lack of paternal love and...
    ichbinverloren ichbinverloren
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 17, 2013

    But I Feel Im Being Unreasonsable

    my childhood was empty when it comes to affection. i hate to be a cleche but sadly its true. my stepdad never accepted me so i never got any from him. my mum was always working, my older brother moved out when i was young and my younger brother was the one who had it from me...
    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman
    22-25, F
    Apr 2, 2010

    ~affection ~

    I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half (he's 18 and I'm 19). Over the time I've been with him I learn more and more about myself everyday and one thing I've learned is that I love physical affection. I do not need gifts (even though I appreciate them) I also don...
    Tamlynn123 Tamlynn123
    Nov 9, 2013

    I really wish he showed me more affection

    and not even just physically. Words can be affectionate too; but I guess I'm not worth that.
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 4, 2014

    She knows how I look at her.

    She doesn't see me. She knows I care, want to protect her. She sees him. He only wants his woman, tired of the doll she'd brought him. Lied to, used, abused, hurt, abandoned. She still loves him. I can feel her pain, want to help. I can't help: I'm man. I'm lonely
    RequitedWhispers RequitedWhispers
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 27, 2014

    I've been engaged to my fiancé

    for just over a year but I'm anxious I shouldn't marry him next July over lack of affection. He wasn't in the mood for sex last night (think it's been over 2 weeks since we last did anything- it's become a regular thing). Being rejected again was even more upsetting as it was...
    Sarmar83 Sarmar83
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Feb 15, 2014

    Please Wake Up...

    He needs to wake up...he is so unaffectionate. I don't see how he lives his life without affection. He is like a robot, expressionless and unresponsive to the touch of another person. If medication is available for lack of affection and expression, he needs to buy it by the...
    MonetDay MonetDay
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 17, 2011

    I have been with my boyfriend

    for over 2 years now. He is not the most affectionate and I tell him all the time I need more affection. He says ok but doesn't do it. Also before I was needed his attention so bad and I've cut that down so much. I feel like I'm begging... :( he just rolls I've most if the time...
    FeelYourTouch FeelYourTouch
    31-35, F
    Nov 30, 2013

    I Want To Be Cared For Not Just Acknowledged.

    I have a man that loves me .. he does.. I know this with out a doubt ,, the problem is .. he does nothing toshow it.. we have sex that is textbook... we watch movies together that he picks .. he does not acknowledge my friends or my life .. he does nothing for me when i am sick...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 26, 2010

    My boyfriend says he loves me

    and cares about me but he never shows it and when he's around his friends he ignores me and it's really tearing me apart but I can't find it in me to tell him how I feel and it really sucks😞
    BeccaBoo7869 BeccaBoo7869
    18-21, F
    Jul 23, 2014
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