I Need More Self Confidence

Why are there people who constantly harp on how you need more self confidence, and then take the opportunity to kick you when you're down and make you feel lower than dirt?  Double messages really suck...especially when they come...

If only I had more self confidence, I'm sure I wouldn't be in the jams that I am in today. I'm not saying I wouldn't have any troubles, but they sure wouldn't be as stupid as what they are. They are fairly serious in nature, but what...

After I wrote about nice guys being loers, , I thought it over and I was only thinking about sex. Apart from sex, I am a winner I have a good family who are grown up now. , a ggod job in a profession, , a good house. etc. This is...

i feel so bad about myself all the time. ALL THE TIME. every time i look in the mirror, i think of all the people so much prettier than me and i wonder who would ever look at me. in every social situation, i feel so invisible.. like the...

... quite honestly, I feel horrible about myself.
I'm bitchy, sickly, unattractive, and moody. I'm too intelligent for my own good, and yet nowhere near intelligent enough. I'm too mature for my age, and yet still immature. I know too...

Sometimes i need to remind myself that im human and that i do make mistakes. Perfection doesn't exists i know but i do get really hard on myself when im not preforming the way i would like to. Its been proven time and time again that...

To many, I appear to have all the self confidence in the world. At times I can stand in front of a large crowd and give a presentation without appearing anything but confident, but inside it's as if I'm falling into a dark hole and...

So, Before I begin my story. I will state where I am at now in my life. I am a teen mom. 18 years old. I have not stared college yet. My daughter is 3 months old. the father is not around. I live with my parents who are supportive. I...

When i was young i was not pretty or smart an my family always put me down... So over the years i grew up to believe i am ugly an dumb...I have learned though.. that i am not dumb just cause i have the street smart life smart... my...

I need more self confidence because every time i try to talk to my crush i cant i get choked up and it makes me so mad when i get home. I always work up the confidence before i see him but when i do all of my confidence washes away...

I am so unhappy with myself. So totally and completely unhappy with my life and the way i live it..those of you reading this, please continue to read and then leave your comments below...i am desperate for advice and some sort of...

because i have none. none at all. its easy to tell, because i always walk with my head down.

I am 16 years old and I am gay. Recently I’ve been feeling lonely and not confident in myself. I am out to my mum and 2 friends but no one at school. It’s kind of obvious that I’m gay and I’m not worried about people saying mean...

It's been coming and with slight bursts now and again. I still lack it at a significant level. I get discouraged when things don't go well and so hesitate the next time. I hope it will offically come and eventually stay.

Now there be some confidence building! eh. But how? My mind continues to swirl in its negative thoughts that brings me back to the circles of self-doubts. How to confidently break this personal self-defeating biz!? I took I was very...

I will actually have confidence in myself cause right now I have none.  when it comes to meeting people, talking to people, friends, relationships, work you name it.  I always worry about what will go wrong or that I am just...

It's amazing how much I pretend to have self confidence, but when it boils down to it, I'm as fragile as a crunchy autumn leaf. I've never really believed in myself. I always just kind of flew by the seat of my pants, hoped for the best...

People say that i'm beautiful and I always wonder, how come I don't see it? What do people see in me that I can't see? Its easy for others to answer, but the hardest for me to understand. Maybe one day, hopefully, i'll see what others...