Post
This experience may contain mature content, as flagged by the community. Please click away if you do not want to see this content, or if you are not of age. To report inappropriate content, please email us.

I Need My Husbands Control And Guidance

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 164 People

    Just A Little....

    It doesn't take much for my HOH to assert himself. I actually love the little things he does. The little messages he leaves ect. Early in the morning were texting and he says "around 2pm text me and let me know when you will be done work" my reply "ok, but why?" (Clearly I wasn...
    silencedshy silencedshy 26-30, F 2 Responses May 12, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Love My Husband

    It is so right having my husband in control of our marriage. I love making him happy and I love being punished when I know I have done something to make him unhappy. A good spanking immediately clears the air and restarts our relationship with a clean slate.
    avalonblythe avalonblythe 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 20, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My New Life

    When I grew up with my twin brother Dusty I was the Dom while he was the sub. This was although college till the age of 25. It was then that I got attacked by three men as I came home from work. After hearing that I was in the hospital Dusty quite his job in the Middle East and...
    CookDusty CookDusty 31-35 1 Response Jan 27, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Having Your Husbands Control And Guidance, While Having Fun With It.

    I need my husband's control, and guidance, simply because, I get such gratification from serving him.  The more loving control he exerts over me, the more I try to please him.  We have been playing this game for quite some time now, and I think this can be a wonderful...
    traditionalwifeanjul traditionalwifeanjul 36-40 8 Responses Oct 9, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Would Like My Husband To Have Boot Camp Punishments For Several Days

    Does any one else desire this? I want a more intense schedule. So I am punished 3 times a day until I feel submissive. Punishments need to be longer and intense. Usually they are now 15 minutes and is not enough to get to that head space.
    Rollinghills Rollinghills 46-50, F 21 Responses Aug 1, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Wife Boot Camp

    The Holidays are here, a time of the year with without my husbands sweet guidance would be to much stress to handle. I host every event in my home, which is exactly what I want, but so overwhelming. I can have twenty or more guest attending at a time. I insist on cooking, no...
    traditionalwifeanjul traditionalwifeanjul 36-40 3 Responses Nov 29, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Husband's Control Keeps Us Steady

    My husband respects my feeling and opinions and asks for me to talk about my thoughts a lot. He listens and then, in the end, on all matters, he makes the decisions. If I balk or 'argue', he reminds me to listen and be respectful. Once or twice, when I get overly emotional...
    inhandwife inhandwife 36-40, F Dec 7, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    A Life Of "Structure And Order" - Our Version Of Old Fashioned

    My husband says that I do much better if I am kept within a life of "structure and order." Sometimes I think those are his favorite words, lol. I hear them a lot. But he is right. It is true. He has rules for the way the house runs and just our lifestyle in general. Nothing...
    pjdbnd pjdbnd 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 11, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    For some reason I'm just extremely sensitive . I can cry at the drop of dime and I need to control it Sooo bad !!
    holaangelina holaangelina 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My husband and I got married in March 2010 and had our first child by October that year. We had our second child January 2013 and by the end of that month my hubby told me he was...
    Itonlytakesone Itonlytakesone 26-30, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I notice when I got into husbands Email he had a number of replies on I had an affair, he was writing about me but did not give the whole story. He did not say how he left on...
    isis55 isis55 56-60, F Mar 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    1. I feel bad (Can I allow myself to really feel it? Can I accept that what I really feel is horrible pain? Can I allow myself to feel it without trying to assume it can/should...
    dispossessed dispossessed 46-50, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    m trying to get new health insurance the current one I have is only for birth control I'm soon going to get insurance that covers doctor visits. But I haven't been approved. So...
    sarahhunnix3 sarahhunnix3 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Demanding mom... what do you think? I need some advice. I am married, I have 2 boys and another boy on the way. My mom is a very upfront/ forward person and I don't mind that at...
    jbnj12 jbnj12 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Where to start? At the beginning, of coarse..... I was the middle child of three. I had an extremely dominant father and a kind mom who did her best to just survive emotionally...
    arnotushman arnotushman 22-25 1 Response 14 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The events that will when judgment day is close When it will be regarded as a shame to act on Quranic injunctions. * When untrustworthy people will be regarded as trustworthy and...
    MRshams MRshams 18-21, M Apr 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was in birth control for about 5 years. I'm not on it anymore cause my husband and I are going to start trying to have a family. When we first got married, he told me that we...
    kdegala77 kdegala77 36-40, F 5 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I tried reaching out to a couple of people who i always help when there upset an all they respond with is .. "just dont be depressed" "youl be okay" "just smile and and dont think...
    Callmedarvi Callmedarvi 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm not going to post my story, as it's quite lengthy. If you'd like to know, just tell me and i'll gladly divulge. Anyway, all that needs to be said is i've recently turned 20...
    TemptN29 TemptN29 18-21, F 10 Responses Mar 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm only 14, but all my life, I've simply played the parts people expect of me. I was the good daughter, the perfect honor-roll student who never broke a single rule, and the best...
    okc15 okc15 13-15, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Dear Lord, Family anf i are oing through hard times. We are so scared. Its so dark tonight. Are expecting the worse. The weather is horrible, so humid. I saw my sisters hugging...
    Donotletmego Donotletmego 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have recently delved into the intriguing topic of Jung's MBTI personality assessment tests. I have discovered that I am classified as INTP. I am looking for other people with...
    pafforda pafforda 31-35, F 27 Responses Mar 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I offer insight and guidance regarding relationships, career decisions, general life questions, and financial insights. She can also help guide you along your spiritual path...
    PsychicLisa PsychicLisa 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    You would think that since she is his ex-girlfriend that I wouldn't have to deal with her but she just wont leave him alone. I guess he started talking to her a little over a year...
    kdmb kdmb 22-25, F Mar 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The last three weeks have been really rough for me. It started out with a syncope seizure at work, before school. I was really scared and didn't know what to do. I didn't feel...
    imryll imryll 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Just wanting peoples take on the situation: My husband still has his name on a house with his ex wife. During the divorce it was made that he has no obligation to the house but it...
    SgtArmyWife SgtArmyWife 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My mother in law is mean. My sisters in laws are just as crazy as her. The rest of his family is weird, too. I am beginning to think my husband is no good for me either. Maybe...
    tiredofit44 tiredofit44 41-45, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So I feel really overwhelmed this last few months. A lot of stuff has been going on. I need some advice on this situation I am in. About a few years back I met two guys off online...
    ButterflyPrincess876 ButterflyPrincess876 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My past hasn't been too great,and my mum was in an abusive and controlling marriage. I have a boyfriend now who I've been with a few months and he is a little bit controlling,can...
    chloeeadita chloeeadita 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm 21 years old and a female. Growing up with a sister there was always comparison. As the child who acted out I was left in the dark. My dermatillomania was a result of becoming...
    Has415 Has415 18-21, F Apr 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    for the past 5 months I've been purging n starving myself. I've lost about 35 pounds and my weight keeps going down. my weight is controlling my life its all I think about. well...
    OriginallyVintage OriginallyVintage 13-15, F Mar 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have no clue how to keep my anger under control
    welch1995 welch1995 18-21, F Mar 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm looking for love and hope to build a family i realise it's not something I can control but I keep looking for that illusory woman even though my friends tell me I should stop...
    klain45 klain45 26-30, M Apr 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Every time I remind myself of this , stop stressing over things I can't control , I will for a second but then I start to over think about it and then it happens again!! :(
    Gravity949 Gravity949 36-40, M Apr 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Working on self control and and the fact that I may have anger issues is something i need to learn to cope with
    markmcparker markmcparker 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am trying to find a women who wants to take control of my life, literally, I want to give you control of my wardrobe, my finances, my social life everything, I want to be a sissy...
    soontobesissy19 soontobesissy19 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When I proposed to my wife, I knew she had social anxiety and body image issues, but I had no idea that her mental condition was this bad. The doctors haven't diagnosed her with...
    neocarbunkle neocarbunkle 26-30, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I felt as though I was under control and I was trapped by a 'friend' for 2 years... She had problems... And it felt as though if she died it would have been my fault because 'I was...
    KT98 KT98 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Do you do naughty things and get away with them? Do you feel that you need to get on track and stay there? I have helped women get on track and help them stay there. I worked...
    aspanker43232 aspanker43232 61-65, M 12 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was watching Reflections and Isaiah 40:28-31 came on the screen. One of my favorite passages of scripture. We must hide scriptures such as this in our heart so we can...
    RhodeIslandLady RhodeIslandLady 56-60, F 4 Responses Mar 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    There are people that I would be ok with then controlling me but its the amount of control my parents think they have over ne that i hate. They control what i wear, how i do my...
    LizWasNotHere LizWasNotHere 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I definitely believe in the Second Amendment to the United States Constitution. However, I believe in common sense when it comes to owning and having weapons. We do need to...
    birthdaypartyforme birthdaypartyforme 41-45, F 12 Responses Mar 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Okay, so there's more than one form of help needed. The first being, I need guy help. I'm head over heels with my guy friend (as previously mentioned) and he likes me back! Wew! No...
    fallingintowonderrland fallingintowonderrland 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I need 2 disappear 4ever. people in my life r trying 2 control every part of it. Got somewhat of a plan just not sure how 2 set it in motion if anyone can help let me know I just...
    charlymyrt charlymyrt 56-60, F 4 Responses Mar 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been in Birth control for along time now . Not just for sex but mainly because of my long periods I use to get . It's like a love ad hate relationship I have with it lol I...
    trulyblessed90 trulyblessed90 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate control freaks with a passion, it's either their way or the highway, they have to be in control of everything. Reminds me of a jealous, possessive man who isn't happy unless...
    denaellis575 denaellis575 46-50, F Mar 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My boyfriend is very controlling. He doesn't allow me to wear certain thing or hang around with certain people. If I don't do as he say he get mad or just yell. When I ask him why...
    tattoofreak101 tattoofreak101 18-21, F Mar 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Well wednessday the 26th i lost my virginity to a guy named chris and he told me he loved me even before we started having sex and so he took it and like i said how he was saying...
    ToriLynn1999 ToriLynn1999 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 2

    Your Response

    Cancel