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I Need My Husbands Control And Guidance

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    A Life Of "Structure And Order" - Our Version Of Old Fashioned

    My husband says that I do much better if I am kept within a life of "structure and order." Sometimes I think those are his favorite words, lol. I hear them a lot. But he is right. It is true. He has rules for the way the house runs and just our lifestyle in general. Nothing...
    pjdbnd pjdbnd 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 11, 2013

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    I Would Like My Husband To Have Boot Camp Punishments For Several Days

    Does any one else desire this? I want a more intense schedule. So I am punished 3 times a day until I feel submissive. Punishments need to be longer and intense. Usually they are now 15 minutes and is not enough to get to that head space.
    Rollinghills Rollinghills 46-50, F 21 Responses Aug 1, 2012

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    I like control, I like controlling my partner.

    The fact of the person letting go and giving me everything. The feeling is so powerful and also so liberating.
    MJG69 MJG69 36-40, M 1 Response May 31

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    I know I need my husband's control

    and guidance just like I needed my father's control and guidance growing up. Your father and your husband know what is best. I may not have such a good husband and father to my son if it had been up to me to decide who I married. My husband knows what is best for our family
    Genae82 Genae82 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 22

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    Having Your Husbands Control And Guidance, While Having Fun With It.

    I need my husband's control, and guidance, simply because, I get such gratification from serving him.  The more loving control he exerts over me, the more I try to please him.  We have been playing this game for quite some time now, and I think this can be a wonderful...
    traditionalwifeanjul traditionalwifeanjul 36-40 7 Responses Oct 9, 2011

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    I Love My Husband

    It is so right having my husband in control of our marriage. I love making him happy and I love being punished when I know I have done something to make him unhappy. A good spanking immediately clears the air and restarts our relationship with a clean slate.
    avalonblythe avalonblythe 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 20, 2011

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    Stop telling me everything is going to be alright, Especially when you can't prove it. Because your words are empty and land on deaf ears. Show me everything's gonna be alright...
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    Anoel13 Anoel13 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    Whenever I'm feeling down or just need guidance. There are some things that I see or hear and they align so perfectly with what's going on with me that it's as if God himself put...
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    I need help more than anyone will ever know, but it's hard to seek help. I feel trapped inside my head with these horrible negative thoughts. I'm suffocating in my own mind and no...
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    I do beleive women should obey their husbands, BUT he has to communicate!! Let me explain. So last week was Rodeo week here. We went many nights. Friday night we had tickets...
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    My husbands affair last year has been the worst thing ever to happen to me. Even the loss of my dear lovely mum couldn't compare to his affair. You see he was the perfect husband...
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    AmberFranks AmberFranks 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm amazed at how some men can stay in their roles as fathers, husbands, providers, handymen, errand boys, etc. for decades. I've been so busy performing roles that I've finally...
    wiredwolf wiredwolf 31-35, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    This is something about myself that I have been wanting for years. It's not a trick or a test; but it's something that needs to be known not told. I need comfort. Not talking it...
    Arelia Arelia 18-21, F a week ago

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    I have to get this off my chest or I will explode. My husband and I have been married several years. I had a child from a previous relationship, and we had two together. I always...
    nwhermit nwhermit 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Sometimes the need to kill others gets so bad so I kill myself instead and wake up in the morning and start over. But what if one day the need over powers my self control and I...
    KatIsCrazy KatIsCrazy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I don't know what to do! Help! I love my boyfriend but he has hurt me so bad. I have a permanent scar n my face and a few on my arms and one on my leg that required stitches. He...
    luckymiranda420 luckymiranda420 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    I have this one friend that is about 7 years younger than me. Been friends for two years. Thing is she's married to a douche bag. He is making it impossible for us to ever hang out...
    armstrong7984 armstrong7984 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I fall somewhere in the middle. The ideology on both sides is just horrible. "The constitution says we can have any weapon we want with no restriction" "if we ban guns they will go...
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    Threw away my birth control. This week was "inactive pill" week. After my visit to the neurologist yesterday and finding out the pill was my main trigger, I need to make changes...
    BrittanyErin BrittanyErin 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Every time I think my husband and I have reached the bottom of the barrel with my indiscretions something else seems to crop up! I suppose this is what comes of many many years of...
    Trytrytryagain Trytrytryagain 41-45, F Jul 11

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    More like I need to be controlled. I'm always touching and pleasuring myself. I want someone who will discipline me when I do those things when I'm not allowed. I want her to tell...
    mrfister1967 mrfister1967 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    I don't understand. I just don't understand. I am in love and it's a really very good feeling. Yes I am just 17 years old and am in love with a 41 year old man. He is my first love...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am a really overweight guy who has a girlfriend that keeps cheating and sending sexual messages to other men. I am learning that my friend base is almost a zero and the few I...
    roomypersonality roomypersonality 31-35, M 4 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    i need to pee so bad anyone wants to control me?????
    katykim11 katykim11 18-21, F 12 Responses Jul 5

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    She IS out of control!!!!! So we need to stand up to her :P Sign this petition, and help me get the message across. https://www.change.org/en-GB/petitions/experience-project-ban...
    InternationalDarkness InternationalDarkness 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    Growing up I felt like a prisoner in my own home. The only time I really ever left the house was to go to school or to go shopping with my parents. Whenever I tried to do something...
    dokkyo dokkyo 22-25 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Unfortunately. The independant thing never came. Nor did the tolerant. Or a cure. Or society improving. Or the wealthy being heroes. A wealthy kid in north texas...
    converted converted 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    I am currently reading a book about controlling parents and how to deal with the past. It is helping, but I am emotionally stuck. Part of me feels that I am being over dramatic...
    CatLover311 CatLover311 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Ok so the man that I have been seeing well he's sweet caring and loving he text and calls me all the time which I love he's very soft hearted just like me anyways he's best friend...
    mouse2816 mouse2816 31-35, F 8 hrs ago

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    I've lost all of my best friends, I'm moving to someplace I've only ever visited, and I'm having to start all over again. I have nobody. True, I do have some friends on EP, but...
    EchoOfNamara EchoOfNamara 13-15, F 1 Response 56 mins ago

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    I need to be in a relationship where everything is controlled because i cant function anyway else. i need a daddy to be in charge of me.
    littlegirl03 littlegirl03 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I don't know what am I feeling right now. We used to be so close. You know hang out and chat all day. But now we have different timetable so I hardly seen him at school. And he...
    yomy1603 yomy1603 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    "Next year you need to work towards paying for your own parking pass/books/whatever for college." And how exactly do you expect me to do that when I'm going to be working, going...
    stroudk14 stroudk14 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I'm just about ready to explode. My logical brain knows I shouldn't be feeling so frustrated, anxious, overwhelmed, angry and deteriorating. but my emotions are going out of...
    Skaech Skaech 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    I've had a few slaves up until now, but none have met my standards. I like to take control of my slave, give her daily tasks to complete, tell her what to do, punish her when she...
    ancient1978 ancient1978 31-35, M Jul 18

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    I am at a critical point in my life, a point where I will make a huge decision. While I am not feeling pressured, there is a bit of fear of the consequences that may come, what...
    bkf2 bkf2 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 19

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