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I Need My Husbands Control And Guidance

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 203 People

    I like control, I like controlling my partner.

    The fact of the person letting go and giving me everything. The feeling is so powerful and also so liberating.
    Trinifroid Trinifroid 26-30, M May 31, 2014

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    I Love My Husband

    It is so right having my husband in control of our marriage. I love making him happy and I love being punished when I know I have done something to make him unhappy. A good spanking immediately clears the air and restarts our relationship with a clean slate.
    avalonblythe avalonblythe 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 20, 2011

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    I Would Like My Husband To Have Boot Camp Punishments For Several Days

    Does any one else desire this? I want a more intense schedule. So I am punished 3 times a day until I feel submissive. Punishments need to be longer and intense. Usually they are now 15 minutes and is not enough to get to that head space.
    Rollinghills Rollinghills 46-50, F 21 Responses Aug 1, 2012

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    I know I need my husband's control

    and guidance just like I needed my father's control and guidance growing up. Your father and your husband know what is best. I may not have such a good husband and father to my son if it had been up to me to decide who I married. My husband knows what is best for our family
    Genae82 Genae82 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 22, 2014

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    A Life Of "Structure And Order" - Our Version Of Old Fashioned

    My husband says that I do much better if I am kept within a life of "structure and order." Sometimes I think those are his favorite words, lol. I hear them a lot. But he is right. It is true. He has rules for the way the house runs and just our lifestyle in general. Nothing...
    pjdbnd pjdbnd 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 11, 2013

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    Having Your Husbands Control And Guidance, While Having Fun With It.

    I need my husband's control, and guidance, simply because, I get such gratification from serving him.  The more loving control he exerts over me, the more I try to please him.  We have been playing this game for quite some time now, and I think this can be a wonderful...
    traditionalwifeanjul traditionalwifeanjul 36-40 7 Responses Oct 9, 2011

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    How true!! Some parents sit there while there kids rule the home! It grinds my gears to be honest. Spoilt children no need! Give children love and guidance and your time to play...
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    Its the highs and lows. Some days are good and a lot of them suck. I want to have an actual conversation with someone and have it have nothing to do with sex or drugs or hooking up...
    alyssakayart alyssakayart 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    New to this lifestyle. Feeling green and I inexperienced, and would appreciate some advice and guidance on being a good domme.
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    I need advice and opinions on a situation. I don't know what to do. I need open minded , nonjudgmental and open people. It's a complex and confusing situation. At least for me it...
    hallow1331 hallow1331 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 14

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    I love my master and future husband thebigtexrock2 he's helping me become the submissive I've always dreamed of being. Husbands like him deserve a woman's absolute obedience...
    sweetangel20 sweetangel20 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    It's really long but reading it would mean a lot. When I was 5 I was raped and haven't told anyone. When I eventually switched schools I became emotionally unavailable and had no...
    omni3543 omni3543 13-15, F 6 Responses Apr 12

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    I am a male, I am good at control myself. I am very harsh at myself. I go washroom only once time a day. I only take cold water shower what ever in summer or winter. I think a...
    qunimade qunimade 18-21, M Apr 13

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    I'm so depressed my sister n law stop speaking to me and I don't know why. I try to talk to my husband about it but he don't really seem to think it's a big problem. A lot of my...
    sweedee39 sweedee39 41-45, F Apr 13

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    I have two fantasies about control and food. In the first, someone keeps gifting me weight loss supplements while I work out and lose weight. In the second, someone insists on...
    need2Bcontrolled83 need2Bcontrolled83 31-35, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Love should be mad, reckless and dangerous. It ought to be! It should require your every ounce of courage and every iounce of strength. Love like you're doing a bungee jump. Take...
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    I realized tonight that even though I may worry and stress about someone, they may not know how much it hurts me. I can control that person but I can control how they are in my...
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    Not both my parents are controlling, just my mother. I use to love my mother but for the past several years all I feel is hate towards her. She has made it her own personal mission...
    schiisha schiisha 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Tealismyname Tealismyname 26-30 Apr 9

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    I think it's finally time I talk to a therapist. I never liked that idea. I mean, I have my anxiety and anger issues, but I liked to think that I can handle them for the most part...
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness 26-30 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I need a break. I can't do this anymore. I've lived my whole life being dictated by how someone else is coping as to how much freedom I can have. Abusive childhood, abusive...
    random3hugs random3hugs 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I broke up with my boyfriend of 4yrs, 5mo last night. We both knew it was coming. I had been wanting to break up with him because for the last few years of the relationship, it's...
    katane katane 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    Anyone wanna control my bladder? You can control when and where will i use the bathroom, what kinds of actions u want me to do, how many waters u want me to drink, what should i...
    iwannapee448 iwannapee448 22-25, M Apr 1

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    I know I can't control this.I saw a Bengali movie last night.In it ,the hero kind of forcefully tries to form a relationship with the heroine against her wishes.Her parents were on...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 7 Responses Apr 2

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    I think we have to be careful here there's a difference between controlling with permission and directing the family and real hard control of every aspect of your life. Now my...
    louisetiger1 louisetiger1 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    without love i can't survive. But my life story is very top secret . I have many questions why why why JESUS made it to look like this in such a way that SUPER SUPER SEVERELY SCARE...
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    I turn 20 in about 4 months. I go to college and live on campus (but the school is close enough to home that I can go back on the weekends). I do just fine on my own and I am...
    Jesxica Jesxica 18-21, F Apr 17

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    I'm new to this. But I'd love a mistress to control my bladder. I have already drunk a lot today and need to pee a little.
    Lastrit Lastrit 16-17, M 6 days ago

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    I really need to go. Please control it.
    SoftNappy SoftNappy 13-15, M 2 days ago

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    I live my life with standards and boundaries. I get so many people trying to convince I that my views are jadded and I need to follow what everyone else is doing....I disagree. I...
    BigPun311 BigPun311 31-35, M Apr 4

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    who the hell would be against birth control? Seriously, people never cease to amaze me. "Sure, let's go against birth control! This way if the condemn breaks, the girl will get...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    It's about 12 AM, and I am in serious need of some sort of contact. So rarely is anyone ever really understood, it's discouraging. There's a turning tide somewhere within, and I...
    s0undgarden s0undgarden 16-17, M 8 Responses Apr 5

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    I separated from my ex boyfriend 3 years ago.. We had a very intense relationship I moved to another state to be with him but it all went bad and I left and moved back home.. I had...
    ozgirl77 ozgirl77 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    Not in every aspect of my life. I think is more of I allow him to be in control in a few things. Either because he's better at it or he's just sexy while I'm control. But at the...
    Likmesilly Likmesilly 26-30, F Apr 11

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    I totally agree with Ali (an egyptian man from port said)who I met in Brighton many years ago when life was a little better and he told me that all white people hate us and if the...
    restlessuk restlessuk 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I know a man that needs.to do this, he's called.my.dad he he stresses so mutch infact it put him in hospital not knowing where the last pack of smarties went
    jodyjames2397 jodyjames2397 16-17, M Apr 1

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    I'm sick of my damn stupid routine that has me going nowhere and falling farther behind on things should get done. My self control leaves a lot to be desired. It sucks when I know...
    nocturnalhound nocturnalhound 31-35, M Apr 2

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    My mother is so abusive towards me; verbally and emotionally. She's bipolar. I know she is but she's in denial. She so mean, and rude, and controlling, and loud, and all around...
    schiisha schiisha 22-25, F Apr 3

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    I need to be touched, it has been so long to be taken control over. will someone touch me.
    tiffsica tiffsica 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 17

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    Hi, I'm Abby. I'm currently 17 going 18. I'm from Malaysia. I have a mother and a father. I have two older half-sisters and a half-brother. My father is my mother's second husband...
    abskingggk abskingggk 16-17, F 3 Responses