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I Need My Husbands Control And Guidance

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    A Life Of "Structure And Order" - Our Version Of Old Fashioned

    My husband says that I do much better if I am kept within a life of "structure and order." Sometimes I think those are his favorite words, lol. I hear them a lot. But he is right. It is true. He has rules for the way the house runs and just our lifestyle in general. Nothing...
    pjdbnd pjdbnd 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 11, 2013

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    I Love My Husband

    It is so right having my husband in control of our marriage. I love making him happy and I love being punished when I know I have done something to make him unhappy. A good spanking immediately clears the air and restarts our relationship with a clean slate.
    avalonblythe avalonblythe 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 20, 2011

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    I like control, I like controlling my partner.

    The fact of the person letting go and giving me everything. The feeling is so powerful and also so liberating.
    MJG69 MJG69 36-40, M 1 Response May 31

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    I know I need my husband's control

    and guidance just like I needed my father's control and guidance growing up. Your father and your husband know what is best. I may not have such a good husband and father to my son if it had been up to me to decide who I married. My husband knows what is best for our family
    Genae82 Genae82 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 22

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    I Would Like My Husband To Have Boot Camp Punishments For Several Days

    Does any one else desire this? I want a more intense schedule. So I am punished 3 times a day until I feel submissive. Punishments need to be longer and intense. Usually they are now 15 minutes and is not enough to get to that head space.
    Rollinghills Rollinghills 46-50, F 21 Responses Aug 1, 2012

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    Having Your Husbands Control And Guidance, While Having Fun With It.

    I need my husband's control, and guidance, simply because, I get such gratification from serving him.  The more loving control he exerts over me, the more I try to please him.  We have been playing this game for quite some time now, and I think this can be a wonderful...
    traditionalwifeanjul traditionalwifeanjul 36-40 7 Responses Oct 9, 2011

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    Stop telling me everything is going to be alright, Especially when you can't prove it. Because your words are empty and land on deaf ears. Show me everything's gonna be alright...
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    I don't need advice. Guidance? Yes. But not advice. Most people might say those two are the same thing but it's not to me. I'm young, obviously. But I'm actually really messed up...
    JurkoKD JurkoKD 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I need help more than anyone will ever know, but it's hard to seek help. I feel trapped inside my head with these horrible negative thoughts. I'm suffocating in my own mind and no...
    nathanieljlaw nathanieljlaw 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 27

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    I'm amazed at how some men can stay in their roles as fathers, husbands, providers, handymen, errand boys, etc. for decades. I've been so busy performing roles that I've finally...
    wiredwolf wiredwolf 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 27

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    I could use some guidance and advice. Please message me!
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    This is something about myself that I have been wanting for years. It's not a trick or a test; but it's something that needs to be known not told. I need comfort. Not talking it...
    Arelia Arelia 18-21, F Jul 24

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    Once again, I felt my life is slipping away from me. I started to dread about what the future holds for me. His departure tore me apart but soon I quickly found myself again. I...
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    Yesterday was the last day of my week and half of punishment. After my kneeling in the corner for what seemed like an eternity, my Wife finaly came down to the bedroom. Not saying...
    Humblesissy Humblesissy 46-50, M 3 Responses Aug 13

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    My mother is the controlling parent who tries to control everyone and everything. Yesterday I received an unexpected phone call from my mom. It had been almost 2 years since we...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F Aug 14

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    I need to be controlled. Dominated. I need someone to take charge. It's been so long and I can feel myself slowly unravelling and I'm so on edge right now.
    bluesgem bluesgem 18-21, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    More like I need to be controlled. I'm always touching and pleasuring myself. I want someone who will discipline me when I do those things when I'm not allowed. I want her to tell...
    mrfister1967 mrfister1967 46-50, M Jul 26

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    I don't understand. I just don't understand. I am in love and it's a really very good feeling. Yes I am just 17 years old and am in love with a 41 year old man. He is my first love...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    The long and hard battle was fought And lost. She retreats, wounded to the shower. All lights turn off. There's no one there. No one with her. She is alone, cowering over her...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I am a normal baby boy that wears diaper's like a normal babies 24/7 and dose the same things in them as they do. I also eat the same foods as they do and drinks baby milks, juices...
    tinybabyboy tinybabyboy 36-40, M Aug 1

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    I think it's time I called out for help or advice.... I am a very very jealous person and I don't mean to be and I do not do it on purpose. I don't really know where it all came...
    TheUnpredictable9 TheUnpredictable9 18-21, F Aug 6

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    I am currently reading a book about controlling parents and how to deal with the past. It is helping, but I am emotionally stuck. Part of me feels that I am being over dramatic...
    CatLover311 CatLover311 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    Happinessismine Happinessismine 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    yes any girls who will let me control their need to pee message me im around
    keeleysupremeawesumness keeleysupremeawesumness 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    My boyfriend is controlling, he hates me going over to friends house which I really don't have many but whenever I visit them he is like I'm not going to talk to you because he...
    ilybb ilybb 13-15, F Aug 13

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    Mothers who believe they can shape their destinies give children a head start A study of 10,000 young people suggests belief in the ability to change your life is formed in infancy...
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    Hi, so let me throw down this scenario to you guys the best way possible. I love my boyfriend, been together and lived together for over a year and a half. Since week 2 of our...
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    LaPrincesaCx LaPrincesaCx 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I really need a mistress. I am going out of control and needs to be tames. Please women...anyone. I love elder women and being dominated by them is the best thing.
    divich01 divich01 18-21, M Aug 13

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    Not sure what to do here as I have never really asked for help before... I'am the one that usually gives the help. I am a husband of 1, father of 4 and a grandpa of 10. Someone...
    jhutmire jhutmire 51-55, M 6 days ago

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    I crave being controlled by a dom female i don't care what age. I need a master
    ineedamaster ineedamaster 18-21, M 6 days ago

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