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I Need Positive People In My Life

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 367 People

    An Open Letter #1

    I have currently numerous acquaintances but no friends at all except from my family. I have been cutting strings and burning bridges lately because I have changed, people have changed and circumstances as well. It's sad, yes but also liberating. I am so looking forward to meeting...
    wildice wildice 18-21, F Nov 10, 2010

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    I Only Have A Few

    I love and care about all of my friends, but some of them are very difficult to be around. Either that or they are just so much more needy than I am. It's really starting to sap my energy, and my time! I don't feel this way around my friends that are more positive and have less...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 1 Response May 30, 2013

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    I Cannot Take It Anymore

    So, here I am... just reaching out. God knows I have not been the best I can be, and I put the blame entirely on myself. My choices and my actions brought me to this point. I want to truthfully find peace. I need to. I cannot have any more pressure on my skull. It is breaking...
    Mikahel Mikahel 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 24, 2009

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    Hopeful People

     I love being around people who see the possibilities for a brighter future and those who believe change is possible and are willing to do something about it to make it happen. It's quite refreshing. We all are capable of getting discouraged and have darker moods sometimes...
    SilverLinedShadows SilverLinedShadows 22-25 4 Responses Oct 4, 2009

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    Positive People

    Positive people,Need them,Life's gone to the dogs,How to get it back,No idea,Need help with this.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Jan 28, 2012

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    Positive Thinking Have Impact

     I saw that many negative peoples in my life  who are depressed, failure,.....in their life, even if you try to treat them goodly they take it negatively, i wonder what is the cost of doing or thought good things for others? Is there anything to loose to make others happy...
    CheeryFlowerofOrch CheeryFlowerofOrch 26-30, F 4 Responses May 27, 2013

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    No Longer

    It's easy to be so strong for all around me, to keep my head up as I'm drowning in my own inner self. It started at a young age for me as I had no choice but to keep positive and make those around me happier than I can myself. For once just crave and need positiveness in my life...
    Xenasdreams Xenasdreams 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 23, 2013

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    You Know,

    The ones that support you no matter what you do in life. The ones that forgive you when you make a mistake, The ones that have your back when you're digging up your grave. The ones that lift you up when you're down in the dumps. The ones that do not judge, but love you for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 10, 2010

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    Good For Health

    Being around positive people can be good for your mental and physical health. If I'm around negative people for a while, I get sad, depressed and hopeless, and lose my apetite and a little bit of weight, but if I'm around positive people, I feel hopeful, optimistic, and ambitious...
    LittleLena LittleLena 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 4, 2009

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    Needing Money

    .If you have �needing money� in your vibration, then you will keep attracting �needing money�. You have to find a way of being happy NOW, feeling good NOW, and being in joy NOW, without the money. Once you can feel good NOW, even though you don't have the money, it will...
    Monoka14 Monoka14 18-21, F Nov 18, 2012

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    Positive Texts

    I was reading online through positive blogs and things that keep people motivated for life. I saw this idea where you can receive messages throughout the day that say "you are an amazing person" or "I believe in you" or "I truly care about you". I thought this would feel so great...
    Lenina1 Lenina1 18-21, F Nov 25, 2012

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    Yeah

    I, myself, prefer to associate with kind, down to earth, and supportive people as well.
    MySweetLord MySweetLord 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 4, 2009

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    I Love How Infectious Positive People Are

    This is important for everyone, I think.  I'm not talking about false bravado, either, but people who really feel confident inside themselves.  Being around such individuals somehow lightens the load and makes everyone feel better, wouldn't you say? I think of...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M 7 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    I Need Positive People

    its really a problem i have. i've got no happy, positive people in my life. my family is the biggest group of the most pessimistic people you will ever meet. its hard to live with them sometimes. all the happy people seem to have disappeared from around me (along with all my...
    dragongoddess dragongoddess 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2010

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    I need more positive people in my life.

    I am constantly surrounded by people who are negative in some way, shape, or form and I"m so sick of it because of how detrimental it is to my wellbeing. As someone who has struggled with issues like depression, anxiety, and eating disorders, I can't deal with anymore negativity...
    bross1046 bross1046 22-25, M Apr 28

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    You Know,

    The ones that support you no matter what you do in life. The ones that forgive you when you make a mistake, The ones that have your back when you're digging up your grave. The ones that lift you up when you're down in the dumps. The ones that do not judge, but love you for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 10, 2010

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    Positive

    I have mingled with lots of negative people ... I would like coming across positive for a change.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 15, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I had enough of people pretending to be something that they're not or pretending to be your friend but they're just using you... I dislike bad people who mess with your head or...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Every now are then we have a wake up call. We realise life isn't as bad as we think it is! We realise how lucky we are in fact! Working in the hospital I meet people who need me to...
    cjay89 cjay89 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have been really down for the past 2 years. It happened because of lots of things, but the main ingredient was a broken heart. Either way, lots of other things played a factor...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    It's hard to become positive at this point. For the past 3 years my family and I are suffering big time. We lost our house I grew up in, my dad is back in the hospital and possibly...
    broadwaybabe99 broadwaybabe99 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    When life gets tough I take a look around at all the blessings in my life. I know my life is hard right now, but I got so much to be thankful for. I have food to eat, clothes, a...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Aug 3

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    Be kind to yourself. Stop telling yourself that whatever you are struggling with “should” be easy. If something is hard for you, it is hard for you. There are probably Reasons...
    MeJustBeing MeJustBeing 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    But need words at times. Trusted docs and got wrecked. Beyond insurance and dental. Jerks rule so i should have known. But was busy seeking how to fix that. Lmao.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    I like how people say "I'm always here to talk" but then when you want to talk nobody's ever there
    victor26 victor26 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 31

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    But jerks wont let me. They lock me up. Or ban me. Or sedate me. Even when i try leavin city life for health. They prove to be out here trying to rule.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Jul 31

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    No matter what you've gone through in the past,no matter how many setbacks you've suffered or who or what has tried to thwart ur progress,today is a new day,and god wants to do a...
    cataleahg cataleahg 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Give me time and understanding and you have a friend for life
    braveywanes braveywanes 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    My hard working self is always in search of new people to chat with to make the day go by. I would love to meet some new people to talk about various topics and get to know some...
    Jmzm Jmzm 22-25, M Aug 6

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    life is passing me by just broke up with a lovely lady we both just let it finish, we are still good friends, when i sat down and had time to reflect there is just not enough hours...
    lloyds123 lloyds123 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    My boyfriend is out of town and I can't talk to him. I need someone to talk to!!
    Nunamiut33 Nunamiut33 16-17, F Aug 1

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    I need a friend to talk to. :(
    Nunamiut33 Nunamiut33 16-17, F Aug 14

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    I love love love talking to new people. (^^)
    marisemarrs marisemarrs 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 15

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    I am looking for 3 more people to try groundbreaking anti-aging skincare line...
    dbratt dbratt 51-55, F 7 hrs ago

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    No one really cares , no one noticed me
    ggboo ggboo 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    So completely bummed. :( I didn't get to see my best friend today like I had hoped.
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    Well it has been done I am now settled in great big London.. Or more specific The Brixton area.. So The greatest step has been taken and I will not move back home within the...
    Mathiiisen93 Mathiiisen93 18-21, F Aug 11

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    In the end we jus regret the chances,we did not take.
    cataleahg cataleahg 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    You should message me. That would be a good idea
    toiletwater toiletwater 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    Anybody feel free to message me
    litzz litzz 18-21, F Aug 14

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    IAM LONLY AND IAM SEARCHING FOR NEW F FRIENDS
    mohamed500 mohamed500 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    Are there even any humans in the world today? I have always thought it is empathy that makes people humane, relating to each other; an inherent trait, as we as homo-sapiens are...
    Skullix Skullix 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I'm upset with one of my family members. I'm a Christian, and so is my aunt but it seems like our worldviews are completely different. I have a hard time keeping my patience and...
    ifyouseekamyxxx ifyouseekamyxxx 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I went to the clinic couple of weeks ago to have my blood test done. Finally got my numbers. So my VL is down to 67 and my CD4 went up to 408. Almost undetectable. Was hoping that...
    1981angel 1981angel 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 3

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    How i wish this was me - completely. I know the that you become those you associate with. We used to call it fitting in with the wrong crowd. I also know u attract those like you...
    LifesCoach LifesCoach 31-35, M 6 Responses Aug 4

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    I have complete compassion and understanding to the abuse I received from my mum, she was unwell alone a teenage mum with mental health no support or help from her own family, it...
    claireosb claireosb 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    Does anybody here have a HIV negative partner? I met a guy a couple of months ago but we only started dating 2 weeks ago. I want to be open and honest with him because he's a great...
    Twinkles18 Twinkles18 31-35, F Aug 17

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    Why is it so hard to find positive people in today's world? It's almost like you have to hate everything in your life to be considered cool: your body, your hair, your spouse, your...
    BlackEyedBean BlackEyedBean 41-45, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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