I Need Relationship Help

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    I Am a 31 Year Old Female That Is 5 Months Pregnant In a New Relaitionship and Its Starting to Get Rocky, and I"m Scared!

    My name is Michelle.  I am 31.  I just got over a bad relationship that lastest 6 years over a year ago.  It was a terrible relationship to say the least.  I found out that this person was a compulsive liar.  After he left I was helpless.  I am a...
    cirleofsirens cirleofsirens
    31-35, F
    3 Responses May 30, 2008

    I need help I have been in a relationship with

    a girl for about 2 years and suddenly my parents told me that we are going to move to another country, I have been wanting to end our relationship for about a week now but I don't want to make her cry, I would've wanted to try a long distance relationship but I have had bad...
    dev6111 dev6111
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 18, 2014


    In a relationship for approximately 21 years and married for the past 14 years, to a man with 4 children from  the ages of 1 year to 7 years from a previous relationship .  Now that they are all grown, he has left me with our 13 year old for a younger ...
    Sanant Sanant
    56-60, F
    Sep 10, 2009

    I'm not good with men I tend to get a bit shy

    in there company and I have trust issues because of an old bf.
    sbell88 sbell88
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 14, 2015

    I'm So Confused!

    There is this guy that I've been on and off dating for the past year. It's always been me ending the relationship(s), and we only date for about a month or two at a time before we split. then we go back out again like three months later. I'm finally staring to get over him, and...
    Jacqid96 Jacqid96
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 21, 2012

    What To Do?

    In a marriage of 34 years, and a spouse who has pushed me away for the last 5+ years. Yet i have been there thru it all. Emotionally, i am like that little dog that has been hit so much, that every time an arm is moved it flinches. She hasnt trusted me enough to open her heart...
    txtazman txtazman
    51-55, M
    Mar 18, 2013

    Feeling Alone

    So I have been in this relationship for over 4 years now. I love him very much and I know he loves me, but I often feel like I am unhappy. He gets depressed very easily, and this affects me a lot. It makes me upset to see him that way. (for example: Today, he ordered a book and...
    KartGirl KartGirl
    Aug 18, 2009

    I've had a thing with this guy

    for about a month now. He says in his girlfriend even his and my friends say we are dating but he never asked me so idk if we are dating or not. He says I love you and everything we have had a thing for a while and about a month ago it got more relationshipish but idk what to do...
    maddog1000 maddog1000
    18-21, F
    Jul 9, 2015

    I am really stuck right now.

    The guy I like and I have been friends for a little over a year now and he has no clue I like him. I'm his best friend and he's one of mine so he tells me everything. Literally. He told me about his crush a when we were just beginning to be friends but then he got over her and...
    IAmTastingTheStars IAmTastingTheStars
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 15, 2014

    Relationships And Such

    Where to begin? I've been with this girl for a long long time now going on 5 years, I love her and care about her very much, Though I've had a thing for this other girl I've know for years longer than I've know the girl I'm with. They both started to hang out more and more and...
    AnonEmos011 AnonEmos011
    22-25, M
    Dec 15, 2010

    So I've been dating this girl

    for awhile.. Today I found out she cheated on me for the second time and now I can't tell whether I still wanna be with her or not .. I'm not angry but I don't wanna leave her... The reason why is a very selfish one.. It's just I just love ******* her so bad she's like so...
    Appleslices69 Appleslices69
    18-21, M
    Mar 20, 2014

    I really need help please.

    So I met this guy through my friends face book and we have been talking for about two weeks and we really like each other and we plan on dating in the future. There's just a few problems . He wants to meet my mom before we date. But my mom won't let me date because a few months...
    kaylafuentes kaylafuentes
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2014


    What do you truly think of me ... Is it what I think ? When I look at myself for you I see nothing ... Nothing worth value ... I was used broken and thrown away over and over again. What can you find to love in that? A pretty face if that? Just like everyone else ? ... When I...
    cats4life cats4life
    18-21, F
    Jun 13, 2013

    I think I just might be in love with this guy

    14 yrs older than I. But my mom doesn't approve. I know people say other folks opinion shouldn't matter but my family is very important to me and their approval and best wishes would be great
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses May 19, 2014

    In Love With Someone Else

    I've been dating my current boyfriend for almost two years now, but I think I might have fallen in love with someone else. This summer, I went abroad for 3 months and met this guy, X.  I knew right away that if I stayed friends with X, it would be...
    SilverDragon SilverDragon
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 10, 2009

    I need a female to talk to me

    and identify my faults, every time I talk to one they stop talking to me but don't even tell me why :/ you don't have to stick around be just help realize what i am saying wrong.
    EBestest EBestest
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 5, 2014

    ...or to Become a Nun

    Apparently I don't know anything about relationships or it's just been so d^mn long that I've forgotten. I always thought if you cared you expressed it... or maybe it's just that reciprocation thing... hhmmm didn't think about that. One sided love sucks! Wait now am I talking...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Oct 15, 2007

    Okay I'm friends with this girl I really like

    at work we always talk when we see each she wants me to sit with her when we are both on break. However I'm not 100% sure but I think she has a guy in her life but I've been flirting with her and she normally replies with aww and that so cute. she would not reply like that if...
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500
    22-25, M
    1 Response May 19, 2014

    Ok, there's this girl

    that might like me, and I like her too, and she knows that i like her. I've lately been thinking, what if she says that she likes me? If she says that, I don't exactly know what 2 do. Does anyone know how 2 explain what 2 do?
    Samcoyou Samcoyou
    16-17, M
    1 Response Apr 19, 2014

    I Need Help Figuring Out What To Do With My Relationship!

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months. He is 33 and I'm 22. In those three months, we have gotten to know each other extremely well. Our communication is excellent. When we met I was going through a really rough time with my previous relationship. He was, and still is...
    anitabb26 anitabb26
    2 Responses Nov 4, 2012

    Like The Angel

    The moment I saw Jeffrey my heart fluttered and flared. We were both in other relationships but I was very good friends with his cousin and would see each other on occassion. When I was around him I knew we could be friends and always was physically attracted to him. Eventually...
    ValentineVibe ValentineVibe
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 17, 2011

    Hopeless Romantic Feeling Hopeless

    Where to start? I suppose with what seems to be the heart of the issue. I'm a big guy, always have been. A teddy bear, if you will. I am also a nerd/geek/dork. What does this mean? It means I've had a lot of reasons to be cut off from the social circles while growing up, which...
    ThatGeekyGuy ThatGeekyGuy
    31-35, M
    1 Response Nov 8, 2012

    In Love With the (seemingly) Impossible

    I have been talking to this one girl for a long time- probably about 2 years.  She is really great in every way.  I think I may be in love with her.  However, she is very insecure and untrusting of men because of a few past relationships that ended up...
    kcshmny0809 kcshmny0809
    2 Responses Aug 24, 2009

    Help Wanted Please

    i met this girl a while back, I've known her for about 6 months. I've never really had alot of alone time with her but i have spent a lot of time with her. occasionally she shows hints of her liking me, but sometimes she seems like the only thing she is interested in is being...
    Estiban Estiban
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Apr 11, 2009

    Ive been in a relationship with my bf

    for the past 5 years i live with him for the past 4 years , and i dnt wanna be with him anymore bc i dnt love him anymore , its just over for me , i dnt tell him this bc he always tells me that i wanna leavr him but i dnt say nothing to him bc it lets me down . Ive been abused...
    Ddghhtddghyg Ddghhtddghyg
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

    About Some Of My Relationships....

    Some of my relationships have been pretty good. I have had four relationships that were long-distance. I am single now though. I don't really mind being single. It seems to be a good thing. I wanted to tell you guys that the longer relationships were worth the effort. I have...
    lea1307 lea1307
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 19, 2012

    I need help. One of my friends (Mark) has a

    crush on my best friend (Tiara). Tiara also likes Mark, but they only talk online on Facebook because we're with the military and we're teens in a military community: DoDEA. It's not military school, but its basically school for the kids of parents who r in the military, and...
    Samcoyou Samcoyou
    16-17, M
    1 Response May 19, 2014

    So the thing is, the guy I like

    and I can't see each other right now, because he is older and I lied to my dad about where I was. So for for the next two months until I turn 18 I can't see him. But he said that he was worried that I will find someone else I like and not get back with him, like we had talked...
    Shi723 Shi723
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 6, 2015

    He Doesn't Talk!

    I am very spiritual and want to mediate, do yoga, etc.  I feel weird doing this around my fiance.  He says he wants to understand, but if I mention anything about religion or spirituality, he doesn't say anything or says "Cool."  He seems grumpy ALL THE...
    yhtapadehsaelnu yhtapadehsaelnu
    5 Responses Apr 27, 2008

    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    keliscc11 keliscc11
    26-30, F
    Dec 30, 2014

    I thought I knew what I wanted.

    I came to find out that I honestly have no ideas of anything relatively close to what I want. I barely broke up with a guy that I had been dating for two months and next Saturday was going to be three. I thought I wanted to break up with him for a while. I finally got the...
    smalltownbigdreams smalltownbigdreams
    22-25, F
    Dec 3, 2013

    I started dating someone several months ago,

    when we met I was in an abusive relationship that he helped me get out of. In the start he was perfect, very attentive, a gentleman, but as time passed he's changed. We don't talk a lot like we used to, no texting or phone calls..I know men get comfortable but he doesn't even...
    xxbeautifulbrunettexx xxbeautifulbrunettexx
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 27, 2015


    I have been with my fiancé for 3 years recently I caught him talking to another women. He assured me it was just friends. So a month ago when he got a new phone he left his old iPhone at home. Well I saw he was still chatting with the women. So one night he told me he was going...
    Ilovehimhelp Ilovehimhelp
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 17, 2013

    I Do Not Understand Guys, Help!!

    So to start out, I have not had the best luck with guys and relationships. I was in a really serious relationship with my high school sweetheart for almost 6 years, but it ended horribly and it took me a while to get back into dating after the breakup. Once I did start getting...
    Rach4725713 Rach4725713
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 26, 2013

    We BOTH Like Him.

    Ok, So me and my sister like the same guy. He asked us if anyone wanted a kiss and of course, we both did.But we thought it would be weird if we both kissed him. So we let him choose. He chose my little sister, Lavender. It made me wanna cry. They also had plans to have sex in...
    iloveyou023 iloveyou023
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 9, 2013

    I've had a crush on this girl

    for about over a year now, I think I might actually be in love with her and everything, she's perfect in my eyes. Anyhoo I think she's had a crush on me too but I can't be for sure and that's why I need help, she seems to send off all these signs like she does, like when we're...
    TheMatespritlessMakara TheMatespritlessMakara
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jan 3, 2016

    So couple days ago a guy asked me

    if I liked him I couldn't bare to tell him but then he told me he liked liked me.... And tonight I asked him if he was lying that night he told me no but tonight I opened my mouth and asked if it was true that he flirts with a lot of other girls he said no then said friends and...
    maddog1000 maddog1000
    18-21, F
    Apr 21, 2015
    sexyboy1212 sexyboy1212
    16-17, M
    May 19, 2014


    I'm just so ... Unsure . About you .... How you feel , what you think about everything... What you even want.... You seem confused but your the one not pursuing anything further. I understand there is a lot of **** .... I have a lot of problems. And I don't open up . I'm not a...
    cats4life cats4life
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 18, 2013

    Scrolling down.. Sad to see most of us were

    female. Aren't those men don't need this kind of thing? Or they we're just to manly to accept?
    gg25mxcL gg25mxcL
    26-30, F
    Aug 18, 2014

    Its a very long story.

    Me and my gf have been together on and off for a year and a half. She came into the relationship with 3 kids. Our relationship started off great. She did anything i wanted her to do. Around 4 or 5 months she started saying she wanted to move in with me and get married right now...
    stew89 stew89
    26-30, M
    1 Response Sep 8, 2015

    What To Do

    I have a friend that I have known all my life recently we have started texting then flirting then we started sexting. Problem is she has a boyfriend and so that was weird because I felt horrible but then one day she says I love you and so I say I love you back and I really do but...
    Rieme Rieme
    Aug 22, 2011

    So it's not really about my girlfriend

    but her friends. They say I don't deserve her. They tell her lies about me, like I stare at other girls or I cheated on some girl before her. This isn't true because the only person I stare at is my girlfriend and I never had a girlfriend before her. I feel like my girlfriend...
    Jerrichoo Jerrichoo
    16-17, M
    1 Response Dec 31, 2014
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